can 2 best friends fall in love with 21 questions? | tea for two
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I have a hard time imagining a pair of best friends who would take part in this UNLESS they wanted more from their relationship
unless... money is being offered
thats what i was thinking when i read the title
They just wanna clap cheeks
literally what i thought??
@@Bjoviii money changes everything
That initial smile from Adrien as Tatiana walked in told us everything we needed to know :)
I could read him like a book the entire time. I intrinsically understand him (or at least the part of him shown). He is I and I am him. As for the nuances of female emotion, I can’t see quite as clearly.
That was a dead give away. He's attracted to her. She isn't. She'll hold onto him till she finds her perfect man and his purpose is solved. Just how life works.
@@Rudi_Mentary723 ouch… but true!
@Clay_ Matters
I read it more as he obviously wants to explore things romantically with her, while she has walls up/is more scared to take that step. I think she knows she has a deep, safe bond with him but is scared to mess that up or lose it by seeing where things might go romantically, even though they could be enhanced a million times if it works out.
@@Rudi_Mentary723 Unfortunately, most women don't like good men who are genuine or available. They get with guys that are bad for them because of superficial reasons. Most women don't understand that what makes relationships last in a strong bond of friendship itself!
Imagine your boyfriend tells you he's hanging out w his best friend, and this is the connection he has with his best friend
No shit. Completely inappropriate. That friendship would have to change drastically for a relationship to ever work.
Imagine your girlfriend tells you she's hanging out w her best friend...
My situation was worse. It was a FWB turned BFF thing. After he chose her over me a few times, I dumped this miserable ass
@A These two were def not just friends, easy to tell quickly😂. Regarding what u said, I think it’s possible, maybe I’m from a diff culture but I’ve done it without any issues. I think a big indicator that you’re just friends, it’s if you’re their wingman. I helped my best friend to get a bf, her bf became a good friend of mine because he later knew that I was telling her to date him because I kinda knew him n he’s a good person. My friend, she’s also helped me getting girls, 3 times successfully 😂. That’s my sibling, so sometimes it can happen but most times no
Nah, as soon as she said she cuddled him and that he was a good cuddler… I knew that wasn’t a “normal” best friend relationship. Maybe I just have too much trauma haha
Who else noticed how linguistically expressive Tatiana is? Her use of language is not lazy and bland but rather colourful, descriptive and strong.
both of them have very colourful expressions and good use of language.
Plus her non-verbal language...her leg pointing towards him ❤
you too bro
He wants to be an eligible bachelor 😉
That lip biting while hugging 🤔
I lost my best friend at 17 in a car wreck. When she said “I still remember the sound of my own crying”- I felt that. Like an out of body experience.
My bestfriend was murdered I remember mine deffo hit when she said that
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Ughhh I love how emotionally available he is. He can openly talk about his feelings and that’s so rare for most men. I love that for him honestly
this. he's the best.
Yh true, but I'm also that type of person I just don't want to accept some feelings such as sadness, akwardness, and lazyness. Just Tell these feelings to F O.
Its why he's the friend
@@damianrclarkeee nah
@@damianrclarkeee Not anymore.
Honestly this has inspired me to take my approach to dating differently. I want to actually make a friend. I've had a habit of rushing things with the people I'm interested in instead of just being their friend and truly getting to know them. Like laugh with them and see them as a beautiful person not someone to sleep with or kiss like actually see them for them. I think a lot of us can take a page out of this book. We go by looks, money, status, and what that person can provide instead of actually building connection. The key word is connection and communication.
I agree 💯
@@damalieizaula5371 that’s why u date for marriage (imo) and not just cause u want a girlfriend. i want to be with someone that ik i’ll live a lifetime with
this comment made me smile. attraction is only half the battle, because having a significant other means having someone you want by your side while you go through life. im dating my girlfriend that is long distance, and we build our friendship long distance so we learned that our communication had to be on point, because that's all we have. miscommunication long distance is missing everything.
True story!
Or you can approach someone and then build friendship with intimacy from start.
They seem really mature for their age. Rooting for them, whatever they decide to be.
You so beautiful Taylor💕
Do you believe in love at first sight
Gen z’s tend to be more mature than millennials 😂
I caught my self smiling a little smile at how wholesome and beautiful this video was. Thank you who ever thought of this. Their relationship is gorgeous no matter what happens. Claps 👏
real 🥹
Let them stay best friends. If anything else is to happen, let it come about organically.
I agree. Forcing a choice is a bad idea.
I'm married to my best friend so it was cute to watch this, but I really believe that a genuine friendship is possible between people of the opposite sex so this would have been wholesome even if none of them walked in that room
Bro it’s genuinely not possible for both sides. It’s just not naturally for a guy to choose a female to be friends with and not at one point thinking about having sexual things with her. I always managed to control myself in those situations but it’s hard and even when I managed to do so I still thought about considering it. It is what it is
@@AnonymousKyuubi I agree!
@@AnonymousKyuubi as a girl who has been rejected by a guy friend I beg to differ
@@AnonymousKyuubi I understand and somewhat agree, as a man you always consider the option. I'm also very religious so my case is very different, I knew I wasn't gonna be sexually active until I found a wife so in that sense friendship with women was never a problem, if I didn't see them as potential wives I didn't bother thinking about sex so I would have a genuine connection with them. The desire is part of male biology but as long as you don't act upon it I think you're good in a friendship
@@randompersonontheinternet9744 You see that’s what I tried to say tho. I rejected for multiple reasons, rational reasons and I bet the guy you talk about had his reason’s too but yet still considered the option. Maybe another girl he was into, maybe religion or a breakup he had to get over with +++ .. General speaking I think that man suffer from this just by nature, it’s god given that we love women and since we select our friends by choice too I doubt we’d friend a girl we wouldn’t also date .. it’s weird I know and I don’t wanna desperately defend this point but so far my life experience as a 26 year old man, those from my surroundings too.. proved me just this conclusion
I didn't pick up a romantic vibe, just the beauty and blessing of not just having a best friend, but also being equally yoked. Whether they remain aa they are or find there to be more, I wish them a lifetime of it.
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My thoughts exactly
'equally yoked" are a christian?
@@FormerADTManliterally 😭 I was like, huh?
You lost fam😅
this was my favorite video out of the entire series. their energy is just so vibey and down to earth, I love it. I hope they do well in life
100 percent agree.
16:35 where they checked on each other was adorable. i wanna have that comfort w a partner fr
Wow, listening to this an actually learning new language to express myself. “You make everything feel light” that’s definitely a quality my wife has but I’ve never really been able to articulate it that well. Thank you for the language lol 12:17
My female friend says that to me!
I LOVED this. I cried when she came back in. I want to be friends with them.. they seem so fun and simple, genuine, yet deep and full of wisdom for their age. They articulate well.
I’m rooting for you guys!
Right!! Can we get a follow-up.
same, got tears in my eyes. so touched.
Can we just stop with they speak well nonsense, you white people are obsessed with when it comes to black people.
Some friendships are hard to see beyond just that, FRIENDS. It’s not even about the romantic attraction being there or not but the fact that the friendship seems to have reached this perfection stage that it’s not worth trying to leap over the boundaries of romantic relationship. These two give off those vibes.
Watch again
Someone just needs to make a move and break the physical distance.
They are both so kind and warm 🥲
Fr 🥹
they are my favorite kinds of people
Their connection is so genuine.
This has to be one of the most wholesome videos I've seen in quite some time. Their emotional support and energy was palpable through the screen. Adrien seems more keen on a relationship at the time of the video shoot than Tatiana. BUT she seems to be open for it. I love this storyline either way.
This is the sweetest thing I've watched in a while. This kind of gave me hope and positivity.
His ability to be emotionally available/vulnerable....is a testament to her ability to create a safe space.
Cz he gay
You mean a friend space.
That's why he is her emotional pillow not her bf.
A man can listen to a women's emotions or whatever. But once he starts acknowledging, giving solutions , helping her out.. you'll forever be her best friend.
Man learn this the hard way and with experience they understand how to deal with women.
A man needs to be a Emotinal rock at every moment.
@@michaelbrown8461 You think it’s gay to cry? You’ve never cried before? Are you a robot lol?
@@michaelbrown8461nocap lmfao was lookin for one
I honestly don‘t feel like they‘d ever start a romantic relationship and this is in no way meant in a negative way. They‘re friendship seems so rock solid and well balanced that I just can‘t imagine them being anything else than the amazing friends they are
I’m sure a lot of people will agree with you. But let’s say, they decide it’s best to remain friends (we know damn well 1 of them will be leaning on that idea more than the other). How does that friendship remain in tact in future once they begin dating other people? This episode is on RUclips forever & the idea of them even considering a romantic relationship will always exist. They simply can’t expect their friendship to remain the same if they ever commit themselves in serious relationships. I’m sorry, it’s just not possible. A different version of their friendship will have to manifest & they both will have to come to terms with it.
6:40 shows you all you need. He speaks from his chest and not his diaphragm. He obviously is not fit to be a bf
@@A1_Amirthat just does not make sense. That’s the one thing u focus on to come to that conclusion…?
@@alexissocoollike3455 the tone in his voice and her voice. the energy was there that they could be soulmates on the fact that their friends, but all I’m pointing out is that he is not fit at all to be a bf in her eyes. It does not make their relationship any less special, its just he’s already past the point of no return to be her partner in the sense of somethin deepa like love or romance. They’re good where theyre at
Naw they definitely went at it, after this video like some bunnies
i feel so privileged that i could see this talk, interaction between them. so intimate and real and human and wholesome
This is probably my *favorite* nectar video. What lovely pair of young, emotionally mature people!
The way they can articulate what they both think about some obviously hard questions and carry the conversation with such grace... not something you encounter in your day to day. You can tell that whatever the outcome of this video was, they were going to be alright. There's love there already. Now they can both pick up from there and explore a little further. There's another world out there, for sure.
Why was this so beautiful? Friendship should be the foundation of every relationship. I hope they explore this newfound understanding more
People talk about sex appeal and physical attraction but that wanes with time. The strong bond of true friendship is what makes relationships work.
@@doubleeph8920 that’s true
I got a best friend like this 😁
Where did you find these two angels? This was so peaceful to watch, they have so much emotional maturity. I'm rooting for them, I feel like they would make life a little bit better for themselves and pass that aura around to those around them.
Definitely soulmates vibe. She’s such an angel for her way of remembering her late bff❤❤❤😢 u dont see that a lot
This was so beautiful and wholesome to watch. Their friendship feels so natural and real.
I love to see love between people, especially at this level. You can tell they both care deeply for one another, even when they aren't speaking.
watching this reminded me so much of me n my bf :’) as someone who slowly fell in love w my best friend for 2 yrs and being content in being friends n finding out we both fell in love w each other, i smiled the whole time!! ty for sharing their story 🥹🤍
Congrats to you. You have something rare that most won't ever experience. Cherish it 🫶🏽
Wait, so your best friend is cool with you guys dating?
Everyday, people prove more and more that there's no such thing as best friends that are of opposite sex
@@Gintoki_Madaoon gaad
awe
THEY ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!!!!😭😭 I am so obsessed with this it LITERALLY hurts!!
After watching this it's easy to tell he wants more with her. it is also easy to tell she loves the connection they share but does not want to be with him romantically. their relationship seemed in reverse. he's crying while she's consoling him, she's taking up a lot of space while he's trying to be compact. I don't actually believe that two people want to share the same energy with their romantic partner. I don't think this will go anywhere. she loves the validation and understanding from him and he will continue to want to be with her without fully committing and telling her he wants her for real. because her being around him is better than her not being around. Also, there on two different scales when it comes to looks and I know people don't like to hear this but that never works out. I just went and looked at her Instagram and from what she posts I can tell she likes really fit attractive men that are taller than her. she probably dates the bad boy type who is emotionally unavailable, which kinda makes this video very interesting. on paper, he's the best guy for her but in real life, she would never choose him. it's a very good case study for being trapped in the friend zone and not having the confidence or ability to break free. very well-done video by the way.
someone's finally said the uncomfortable truth - it's still a nice relationship but if I was Adrien, i'd just look elsewhere and keep her as a solid friend
Agreed
Truth in this
Best comment ever
😂😂😂best comment ever. At first glance I was like how will these two ever be in a romantic relationship.
He’s in love with her. She’s intrigued.
Hit the nail on the head with this
She's passing time till she finds the right one and it's not going to be him.
@@Rudi_Mentary723 😂😂😂
@@Rudi_Mentary723 the ones who know know respectfully bros too feminine
@@danielnwogu5135 yeah I don’t wanna say a thing.
you don't have to date everyone that you find fascinating
People don't get that.
Thank youuu!!!
Someone with common sense.
Lmao ikr?
some people are better as friends than partners
They're friendship is awesome! I think we should normalize man and woman friendships without expecting It to be a romantic. Love those two ❤
comfortable, feels like best togetherness, safe, and suitable. kind of relationship that i want.
They’re in love. Hands down. Can’t wait to see their weeding 10 years from now
🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Nah the relationship will last 3yrs max
10 years?! I'd see if they were 15 - 16 in this video, but dang!
You gotta grow up and accept reality not everything is like the movies and Disney movies 🤦🏽😭
They have a really nice connection even if they choose to remain friends. Wholesome video
This is a beautiful relationship. You can tell how much they care for one another. It’s so pure & refreshing & so genuine.
True definition of soulmates for me… It doesn‘t matter where their relationship is going to in the future, everything that counts is to stay on eachothers sides.
How they came in at the end shows the shift. They were so gentle and it seemed like it was only them in the room.
They have such a relaxed vibe with each other 💕 I hope things work out between them 🙂
I’m in love with my best friend, closing in on a year being in a relationship with her, has been the best year of my life.
I'm married to my best friend. We started off dating but she almost totally "friend zoned" me. Then after spending time together, it blossomed in to romantic feelings and now I can say I married my best friend. I think it is interesting to be friends first. It builds that foundation for a great partnership.
She was just having her fun while you waited for her bro. Stop giving guys bad advice about dating to be friends first with girls like no, be upfront about it.
I like these two together. They both have beautiful spirits that seem to mesh well.
this is such a wholesome and beautiful friendship I hope they continue to explore this romantically
Such a beautiful moment! Two very intelligent and high vibration individuals gaining deeper understanding of one another! I absolutely loved every second of this ✨
The difference between best friends and a romantic relationship is physical attraction. Often times the guys are physically attracted to the girl, but she isn't into him, that's why the guys are friend zoned. Raw sexual attraction most often has nothing to do with how well you know the person or what you have in common. When a guy stops acting like her big sister, which this guy is doing and starts acting like a man that sweeps her off her feet and is strong and tells her what he wants then the woman will see him as a man and not as a cuddly teddy bear she can tell anything to.
We all deserve THIS as long as we’re proponents of love. That was enjoyable. Thank you.
They say love always wins in the end. These two best friends certainly have the potential. It's always their decision whether to go far beyond or simply remain as each others' comrades.
The rawness they have towards each other is so pure and kind
Nice thing to watch this
“You make life feel light” 😮💨😮💨 that’s a powerful statement ❤
I can see how they could be best friends. He seems to be really in touch with his feminine side in a lot of ways. He is a nice man.
This one was super obvious because at least one of them had to have feelings to agree to go on this show 😭
Meh..or the money was enough to finesse the show
Bit on the other note which one you think it was? The guy huh?
@user-pm1qn6zq7x good point I forgot they get paid lol
@@victoria_gi you get paid like $50
Both actually 😂
16:23 how his face lit up when she walked in just explain everything 🥺
I mean that’s his bestfriend
The best relationships are those with your best friend. I married my best friend and it was the greatest decision of my life 💙💕
Love how he talks so calmly
Sometimes you look so far and love is right in front of you.
Something shifted I fear. Ugh they’re so cute and sweet they’re perfect for each-other I hope they stay in each-others lives regardless of what happens
Fell in love with my best friend of 10 years around 2 years ago. When I told him “I love you.”, all he said was “Thanks” and disregarded my feelings. Now we don’t speak anymore.
I always think about “What if…” from time to time 😣
I'm ngl, the way that ended took me so off guard. Especially since the start was so promising
There is no what if. There's he didn't feel the same way end of story
@@randomplayer9025 He’d tell me all the time that he wanted to be with me. Even would get jealous if I were talking to other people / made other guy friends. If he didn’t “feel the same”, why was he so possessive?
@@kk65275 this really messed me up tbh. I don’t want to love again for a while. Not until the right person comes my way
sorry about that but you'll be alright. it's best it happened now than 5yrs later when you'd had turned down tons of people with the hopes of him loving you the exact same way and then later having your heart smashed to bits.
This was a really nice video!!! They’re both so kind to one another, honest, and respectful .. I love that. Even if it doesn’t change into a romantic relationship they still have a good relationship.
I’m smiling so hard right now, they are so adorable 🥹 I’m rooting for them!!!
Bit of a double-edged sword for me. I wouldn’t have it any other way in terms of falling in love with my best friend, those seem like the best types of relationships to have but I’ve learned (the hard way) that falling in love with a friend hasn’t always turned out great because I end up losing a friend and a potential partner. Maybe I’m the problem lol
@Bongi and that right there shows how emotionally mature you are! That’s a good place to start…looking at you!! Not many ppl can do that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That moment she walked in was so peaceful 😍
They're so gentle with each other. 🥺
If thats my bestfriend, i wouldnt be able to resist her. She’s so pretty
I'm sooo vested in them now....love how they relate to one another
I loved that. I love their friendship and hope it lasts for a good long time regardless of what they do romantically.
This is a beautiful video.
My best friend and I took a shot at it and now we are happily married. Don't think too much, go for it🥰
His smile when he saw she's also coming back 🥺
Priceless ✨️
Real friendship can change to a romantic conection some of the times, so if they feel it's a good thing to test that route good for them :)
This is why people say there is no such thing as female-male (best)friendship. Either they both have feelings, or it is just one of them. They radiate love for each other. Feels like they are already in a relationship. Hope they have a wonderful, happy life together!
have you never heard of gay people tf is wrong with you do you fall in love wit every opposite gender person you come across
There are gay/queer people out there! So this logic doesn't apply. But I agree, I hope they have a wonderful life together, whether as friends or in a relationship!
@@aceris5874gay and queer people still biologically fall under two categories, male and female. This still applies as biology doesn’t lie
One of my favs so far. Simply cause of the fact that they thought they know eachother but there was more to discover
This is beautiful. This is so rare. I can only dream to have a best friend dynamic like this. They have something special ❤
I love them! Their communication is excellent! They truly care for eachother, patient to listen. They are 2 great individuals. That definitely contributed to their wholesome friendship 🎉❤
i got so nervous when the dude was just waiting there
For real! I thought she'd never come back. LOL
I couldn't stop smiling the whole time.
Bless. I hope they're doing well.
This is so beautiful and pure. We need more connections like this. Thanks to the organizers of this date.
I feel that they love each other and although they are scared I think they could definitely be more than just friends. ❤
I love this. Their friendship seems so special
He's soooo clearly in love with her.
This is so beautiful ❤️😭 I started crying when he started crying! They're so great together. It looks like there's room for growth together in this relationship.
That’s not a he tho, she transitioned lol
Woah the thumbnail, I looked for 1 second and melted. She’s absolutely beautiful
The peace that I felt between the two is beautiful. From my own experience I could tell, that they weren't just friends at the beginning. Seems like the connection and love grew and grew throughout the years, their souls attract. When this happens it's hard to realize or just admit to yourself, because it's a really slow proccess and you're afraid that this deep and meaningful thing gets lost of you're openly want more, you say to yourself that they probably don't feel the same, since you agreed to be "just friends". Even though it can feel like your feelings are "wrong", but believe that it's completely okay, don't feel bad about it. This kind of connection is rare as hell, and if a relationship can build on a base like this....there would be a house of magic. So don't be afraid of change, and admit your true feelings. I hope they could do that and now enjoying the partnership and the full love of each other, and I wish everyone to experience this kind of peace in their lives💕
My best friend died when I was 13. We talked the night before her routine surgery. I was moving and we got an email because we haven’t had an email yet. I was shocked to find out she died.
I'm so sorry about this. I hope you're healing.🥺♥️
Im so sorry for your loss, I wish you all the healing and every happiness... she is in your heart
I'm sorry for your loss
But personally they look good for each other. I love these segments. I want to see their journey
These two are the most mature young peoole I've ever seen. At their age I had the mindset of a highschool kid
I feel like a relationship between two best friends is the best ❤
This was nice. My wife and I were best friends and grew up together. It’s been 18 since our first date, now we are married with two awesome kids.
They seem super supportive and cute already it's just is there sexual chemistry, she likes to cuddle with him oo, he called her loving ooo! They should go for it honestly
Don’t do it. Let it happen naturally… my fear is that once you cross that line and it doesn’t work, you’d lose that friendship and possibly spend the rest of your life searching or trying to fill that void. It’s okay to be friends 😊
Two beautiful souls.These are the people you need in your life. Positive, kind, strong and beautiful even with the trauma they have faced ❤loved this video 🙌🏽
I love that she's his peace. Ma n is going through a lot I can tell
Best way I can describe this conversation is it felt like a hug 🤗! You guys are awesome, wish you both the best❤
Is there a way we can get an update?! This was so refreshing and beautiful
These two are SO FREAKING black nerd cute! Yes, to this! Yes!
Who ever edits these is actually crazily good, the music the vocals the cut backs, it all works very well .
These two been in love for years. They only did this for their last little push they needed to start their journey. ❤
I think you guys should’ve done an update on this, are they a couple now, just friends or not even that anymore?