This Is Disgusting
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- Mohammed Agbadi talking about a female artist who is being harassed on twitter after sharing pictures of herself alongside her art.
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This a commentary video on the art community, art drama, and twitter. mohammed agbadi talks about an artist who is being harassed by weirdos on twitter..
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1:38 Why tf did he write an whole essay!?!
I'm convinced that this is some kind of copypasta
Is this from Armie Hammer?
@@DaveMiller6042 I don’t think it’s a copypasta, just the fantasy of a sick and twisted man. Can’t believe anybody would have the audacity to say that about someone else
Its just a paragraph copy and pasted several times. I actually read it and it just repeats over and over..
@@AFennecFoxy bruh
For real?
Was once not enough for this sicko?
“Yo, make an OnlyFans.”
Not simp behavior according to Twitter.
“Other men are just making weird unwanted sexual comments about your body, but I’m saying your art is an amazing tribute to 2Pac”
Simp behavior according to Twitter.
This comment can describe twitter as a whole
Once someone invents a time machine or something of the sorts, we should all use our money and buy one so we can go back in time and stop the founders of Twitter and/or the person(s) who gave them that idea if a person(s) did. Then again maybe we shouldn’t, Twitter is like a containment for those types of people. But then again it’s the whole reason why these types of mindsets are so wide spread now.
@@aisha5156 they're just a loud minority ╥﹏╥ /nm
The aasholes/incels call him simp because being decent is the bare minimum and makes them feel both guilty and envious they are not even that...
When someone is virtuous it highlights that others are not and that makes them lash out
@@yoshisarethebomb it really doesn't feel like it tho. there are subsections of twitter that is decent, but feel like most of twitter is this way. however, other platforms don't feel this bad. they have their bad points, but not like Twitter. and you can easily find almost an equal representation of both sides usually.
In every video, his face is just like “here we go again…”
The way my brain immediately goes to the GTA line lmaoo
Aaaa shiT... here WE go again
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@@tntz47 392
I heard his voice while reading it
writing men off as ""simps"" when they have basic human decency & respect for fellow human beings.. so disgusting. you talking about this subject was very much appreciated
@HanselManCan no, the Op was right. You are just confused.
@HanselManCan There are actual simps, and then there's immature kids who call a guy a simp for deigning to be generally nice or polite to someone that happens to be a woman and then turn around to send thirsty dms to women they don't know.
@HanselManCan I think you’re confused, or maybe wrote the comment wrong, but reread OP’s comment.
@HanselManCan you might want to reread the comment again
@HanselManCan I think you misunderstood the comment. Please, read it again.
How desperate and disgusting do you have to be that your pickup line is literally just 'Hey you wanna get naked, cover ourselves in paint, and roll around on a canvas?'
I got a few of those pickup line. It is just disgusting thirst text like these...no hello..i dont know their NAME but no..his dick spoke first
Frankly most "pickup" lines are just sexual harassment
@@yuki97kira idk why, but "his dick spoke first" is one of the most accurate, and sad descriptions of this I've heard.
@@goreandhoodies3626 Which is why I prefer dad joke pun levels of pickup lines.
@@goreandhoodies3626 wtf
I once had a discussion with a guy on reddit. He told a female artist seeking for advice, that she should have expected to get creepy messages. He said that it's how the world works. Like, dude? Just because a female artist ✨exists✨it doesn't mean you're allowed to harass her??? Thank you so much for covering this topic!
Thats the epitome of hardcore pessimism jeez some ppl just expects the worst out of the worst and act like its normal
Hence why I avoid most subreddit like a plague 🤮
@@savstinks6847 I know right? The sexism is gross
If she's clothed then she's good
@@itsDjjayyArt I got creepy messages with explicit pictures and I haven't even shown my face or body 🤷🏻♀️
people have become so delusional to the point every attractive female automatically must have an onlyfans, what world im living in
@@frostingfluff literally XD
They set themselves up for that
How they act if she does have onlyfans: 😡
How they act if she doesn't: 😡
It's the entitled Madonna/Whore complex all over again 😑 in their eyes women are either frigid or loose and there's no in-between.
@@itsDjjayyArt stop victim blaming because we all know thats not true
@@itsDjjayyArt you are literally like those people who says she's an attention seeker on twitter :/
When I was a minor, I had horrible experiences with people creating fake profiles to sexually harass me (mostly adults). It has made me scared of the internet, in a way that still sparks anxiety in me every time I post a picture of myself online. But now, instead of being afraid and just blocking the harasser (they will likely continue with other people), I do what I can to publicly call them out and warn other people. Thank you for speaking up about this issue in a way that is not "Oh I´d never do it, what a horrible thing", because it´s the majority of the reactions online. Thank you.
@@BOBANDVEG Geez, I don't want to alarm you but I've been sexually harassed online even as an adult. Your comment is definitely focusing on the wrong information.
@@BOBANDVEG You are completely missing the point. I agree on how kids should monitored on the internet but adults also have these horrible experiences happen to them. The point of the conversation is about those horrible people, even worse that these people did this to a kid. Thats what the focus should be on.
@@BOBANDVEG It´s clear you do not understand, then. Also, nobody insulted you - but you did. Might the day you have be as nice as you are to others.
@@CyanideLilith How can that even happen?
i mean judging your beauty by your pfp i can understand why adults would thirst on you, youre god damn gorgeous and im sure you were even more adorable young, blame nature or the god you believe in for being so fkn cute
I hate when people say things like "Suck it up it's just a part of the internet/being famous" like using the internet or being famous doesn't give people the right to harass you and like way to victim blame???
Edit: Theyve taken it too far...
i believe Corpse husband once said some thing along the lines of "How many celebs have to die before people get it..."
@@karma-bomb yeah I remember people would sexualize him as well and he hated it
@@JokeHatesItHere people still do too..
@@eyts142 that's so sad I wish people would get a life
“OOouUUUOO BuT yOu SiGn Up fOr ThiS WhEn YoU StArT PosTiNg” That’s funny, I don’t really remember signing my name anywhere. I don’t remember the part of the terms of service telling me I’d be attacked. Odd, isn’t it?
i can't get over the fact some people were telling the dude that complimented her art instead of her appearance to go outside. there's some irony in there. do you not think before you type something
I swear, they are mentally deranged.
This is just extremely disgusting for some “guys” to do that to a woman who’s trying to share her art to others. This is why some female artists hide their gender because of shit like this. I feel bad for her having to deal with this crap
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I used to be so scared of sharing the art vs artist because there are bunch of adult men who followed me simply because I am a girl.
Yeah gender equality and all but theres way more bad guys than bad girls. Speaking as a guy.
This is why I hide behind a character when I make my art so shit like this doesn't happen
@@RANDOM-pf1ve Is that specifically global statistics? I feel that statistic maybe innacurate, maybe you could lead me to your source. Then again, by bad, i dont mean violent. Im targeting levels as low as derogatory behaviour, it doesnt have to be violent.
I can imagine her art if she tries stylize it
But her realism art is probably one of the best I have ever seen hope she continues that
she's actually really good at painting. i'm not sure if i love her painting or drawing more! haha
@@MohammedAgbadi honestly I love both, I hate that she went through this but I never wouldve found her art if not for this video. Thank you for covering this, not only to expose this issue in the community but also to expose more people to her talent.
Thank you! Idk why I felt like I had to perfect realism as close to possible lol but I hope to get back to my abstract / doodle work I use to do in highschool 🥲
Hope nobody here calls you a simp for speaking the truth...
@@thezombiepeepol4354 ye even though I just discovered her she is by far one of the most talented artists around
Now remember everyone! Think!
T - Is it True?
H - Is it Helpful?
I - Is it Inspiring?
N - Is it Necessary?
K - Is it Kind?
In this case a lot of the nasty comments in the video did not follow the assignment.
I'm sorry but that's not the meaning of Think
@@RANDOM-pf1ve was kindergarten a lie D: (also i when i posted that it was towards the gross men in the video)
I remember hearing about this at some point in school
@@RANDOM-pf1ve ✨ KINDERGARTEN ✨
hey i like that idea tho
Not one minute in and I feel so done
it's so annoying how people can just be weird online
I'm READY to fight ,,,but I need to cry first
@@austincde it's better to block than to fight😒 talking from similar experiences
@@bhanupriyanayak7574 thanks but doesn't work IRL unfortunately :\
This is why there are no photos of myself on my art account. People really can be really toxic.
@grape sodaI totally feel that. you could make it private and just share it with your friends and family. ^^ I think it's horrible that so many talented people are scared to show their skills just because some people don't know how to be respectful...
I didn't have any pic of mine posted on the art page, still got harassed 💀
@@bhanupriyanayak7574 welp there you go! They never fucking stop🙂
im the same too. its because of how toxic people can be that i chose not to show my face on my art instagram.
Men who unironically call other men ‘simps’ for simply vocally supporting a woman must be extremely insecure
Bruh, I dunno why some dudes does thirst text like these
just go incognito and search your desires, and its free and no need to do essays of consent lol
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Actually I feel like those people shouldn’t even do anything they should just die. What they say is so wrong that they don’t even deserve to live. I can’t deal with people like that. I can’t do it
@@randomcat1962 chill don’t become Kira now lmao. But in my opinion anyone can make a mistake whether obvious or not it’s just if they can and acknowledge their mistakes that matter, so don’t become the punisher if you care so much become a therapist or something.
@@motmuri4462 I have no idea who Kira is but I’m just saying all those people who comment these things are the reasons I want to die.
@@motmuri4462 tbh people like this almost never change as this is the "norm" for men to harass women and use the excuse of saying they where trying to tell them a compliment, and frankly if light did exist I hope they would go after these men as they would act the same in person
I like how there are people in the comments literally proving the point of this video. Some of ya'll think doing this stuff is okay and justified and it's showing. People like this really need to stop trying to blame their impulsive behaviors on the ones that never asked for it to begin with. It doesn't make you the victim it just proves you think like an animal.
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Preach!
I haven't reached any comments like that and I hope I won't
(already seen some guy who thinks a women/person who made a comment about being a women and feeling relieved is 'catfishing' and I just- cannot,,)
I don't but also what if I hate small talk.
This is an insult to animals
ugh I remember when my coworker harassed me literally everyday, and he kept offering to drive me home , this after he got arrested and tried for following a customer to her home. I tried to tell my boss and he then scheduled me for even more shifts with him. Eventually I just quit after the guys friend also started joining in.
WHY DID HE NOT SEPERATE YOU FROM HIM WTF???????????????????? HELLO???
@@rainystormy6128 He wanted to, in his words ,"teach you a lesson about saying no to people" as if I hadn't been telling them no the whole time.
@@wildthorn2315 tf?
@@wildthorn2315 That is the shittiest boss I have even seen I'm so glad you quit tf is wrong with him he doesn't deserve to have that position 😃
@@yan4505 right ??
This video brings to mind something a professor told my friends class "if someone is willing to justify their minor transgressions by blaming the victim, then imagine what they do for something major." His example was how many rapists will also justify sexualizing people by saying "if they didn't want me to make a sexual comment then why'd they show their legs?" Or something along those lines.
Just to clarify:
I don't think every one who posts things like this are rapists, I think some are just stupid and never had the experience to understand how shitty that is, but after experiencing harassment myself after a friend posted a group photo on her insta it became a saying that just stuck with me. One of the people writing replies and dming me was previously charged for s*xual assault. It's just creepy and kinda scary. Seeing people make comments like that definitely changes how I feel about a person.
ppl like these would deffo become rapists at some point
The snoop dog portrait was incredible. 03:51 This woman has some amazing talent.
Thank you so much 🖤
@@jessicajagetz6200 Whoa yo, is that really you? If it's okay to ask, what brand of paint do you use? How long does painting one full piece like? Although i sway more as an aspiring comic artist, Your work is really something to take notes from. They would look awesome as CD covers!
@@jessicajagetz6200 wow is it really you? I’m sorry you had to go through that, but your art is incredible! I love how it is realistic, but still seems personalized!
the first commenter has 6 subs, and their account was made a month ago, im not really sure if it's actually them or a fake account. just take it with a grain of salt :)
@@xexpaguette ok thx
5 minutes into the video and I'm already disgusted on behalf of these people. I hope things will change, she's an amazing artist and deserves all the love in the world
she does tbh
literally crying rn omgg
If I were to ever post my face next to my art and someone asks for an OnlyFans link, they'd be damn lucky that they wouldn't live anywhere near me because I would feel obliged to punch them in the face, even if it's not the best thing to do.
Send them the link to a rickroll
@@snowybluewolf nah they would catch on to that
I've even been cyber stalked by other females throughout the years. Women do it to women to. It's weird and creepy.
@@electraheart-g5e She was talking about her experience...?
@@electraheart-g5e No, we are taking about how this shouldn't happen to neither. If we focus on one side of the problem, who's to say it won't happen to the other side?
At the end of the day, these are still human interactions that should be put out of the picture. If we treat it as a "men only" thing, it will spawn toxicity and sexism. It's only fair to give both sides said treatment.
@@electraheart-g5e Her bringing her experience into this does not invalidate anyone’s experience. It’s an insight that this problem GOES BOTH WAY. If you’re just gonna focus on ONE way and not the second way because “uwu this one is more important because 🔪men🔪” them that’s fucking problematic. Yes, it happens MORE on Men. We should bring awareness to it, as a man myself. we need to talk about how gross it is to see women as objects, s3xual objects and not for their personality, talent, etc. But let’s not bloody ignore the other part where Women does this to other other women, especially younger girls. Because - full offense - when you said that crap, it made it sound like YOU didn’t care about that person’s experience because it was a female cyberstalking a girl. Acknowledge both ways or you don’t. Good day.
After reading some comments about it, I think I realised that I have invalidating the OP's experience and possible hurt her. I'm so sorry for putting my feeling first before her trauma. I do know that woman to a woman can also be a stalker and yes we have to bring it up too but I'm the one who are offended by that statement when it's the truth. We do need to have a realization about this problem but I am denying that fact by my own arrogant thought. Once again I'm apologizing for not taking her experiences seriously.
Oh god..
I’ve noticed that whenever an artist uploads a painting/art piece just by itself the comments are somewhat nice, complimenting the piece, etc.
But as soon as the artist posts a picture of themselves with their art, comments roll in talking about their body, looks, and other gross things.
It’s mind-blowing how bold these people get online. And the fact that some of these people can say gross comments to someone’s face is even more terrifying.
Then why did she post a picture with herself and art if she wanted the people's attention go to the art? U now what that's also fine, then why did she dress up in half cloths if she wanted ppls attention to go on the painting?
@@RANDOM-pf1ve she was promoting a clothing brand that sponsored her.
@@sunniwithani Then why can't just post the picture of the clothes? or just post a picture from the website she was sponsored by.
@@RANDOM-pf1ve Don't people who promote sponsored clothing brands have to actually be models for them? Because if so, then it was necessary for her to actually wear them. Normal models do that all the time right?
@@RANDOM-pf1ve
Get out 😃
Mohammed Agbadi is probably one of the most civilised people on RUclips. Keep up the good work.
I feel like I'm back in the stone age just reading those degrading messages. I dont understand how someone can seriously send that to another human being at all... like where is ur humanity lmao
Wtf?
@@RANDOM-pf1ve stop
@@RANDOM-pf1ve why do/did you find it so hard to get that a woman wants to post her art and be appreciated for that instead of having it dragged down to being about her looks. Yes it's nice to be told you're pretty or whatever, but there's a time and a place... Like how about talking to girls/women in real life?! Instead of hijacking their career in order to satisfy your primal needs 😏 not every woman who shows her face online is doing it to please your little todger 😘
Mans wrote a whole Wattpad fanfic💀💀💀 I feel so bad for her.
the fact that there will be that one person said that: “women have an easier life” like what?
they have been sexual assault for years, being rap3d, groomed, kidnapped, harassed, always being mock for liking something, body-shamed, get killed/beating up because they don’t accept a guy’s thing or whatever, being call a slut or whore when they dress for themselves, catcalled and more
don’t say that if u never experienced by those thing.
pretty sure there was also a lady who got acid thrown on her face because she rejected a guy
@@mono_poisoner i remember as a child hearing about a couple who divorced, and the ex-husband (?) didn’t want his ex-wife to marry/date anyone else so he killed her and himself.
what the fuck. literally what the fuck.
and hes not the only one. its disgusting
Exactly. I’m so tired for having to live in fear because people are always hurting and harassing each other
@@solthestinky4795 Exactly and men say women have it easier like I litearlly live in fear it is fucking disgusting
@@egbeetah4032 yeah I hate these men
It's crazy how some ppl can act like this
it's weird!!!!
@@MohammedAgbadi Very weird, and she's only 19. These are probably like grown men🤢🤢🤢
I don't know how you keep doing this, your mental capacity is so strong if I kept doing topics like that I would be too tired. 😔✊🏽
getting close to breaking point here honestly.
@@MohammedAgbadi breaks are always needed definitely when talking about the serious things you do. 🦋
THAT MESSAGE was helllaa nasty. I nearly cried. Please, please tell me why that there are books on wattpad that sound closely similar to that? And why did I have to view such a thing at such a young age 😭
I’m still watching but thank you so much for this. I started posting my work at 17 and I’ve gotten to the point where the harassment doesn’t effect me like it use to so I just got comfortable posting recently lol bc it will happen even in my posts with just sweatpants/covered head to toe! I’ve seen many male artists post almost naked and not receive horrible comments and just always made me uncomfortable, but to any female artists reading this please don’t be afraid to post yourself on your OWN page! People love to see the artist standing proud next to their work. You’re a goat for this video, it is rare to see a man shining light on this topic - this is something that happens to not just female artists but gamers etc, thank you. 🖤
Love your use of colour! Skin especially, it's rich, vibrant and really looks alive.
She just wants to post art. Why must this happen
EDIT: wow I came back three months later, and there is a flame war in the replies. Man.
thats false. if she just wanted to post art, she wouldnt insert herself in half the pictures. thats not something most people do.
in this case she's clearly an attention seeking person not just for her art (which in itself may just be a way of grabbing attention), and now she's butthurt because that also includes negative attention. what a surprise! you reap what you sow
these people are making stupid ass decisions and then expect everyone else to kiss their ass
@@alex_oiman so if she post a picture of her and her art that means she wants attention? What kind of pervert are you?
@@alex_oiman literally a woman can't post a picture without being sexualized by people?
The only thing she did was posting her freaking art like wtf is wrong with people, is it because of her outfit ? She's literally in her house she can dress however she wants plus if the only thing you were looking at was her body of course you gonna think that way.
@@alex_oiman and thanks for proving everyone's point .. thanks for being a part of this serious problem
@@alex_oiman even if you don't wanna believe it, you're the part of the problem.
Can we please acknowledge that whole disgusting erotica that dude wrote was 100% r*pe fantasy??? I hope she never actually read it. That's vile.
Thank you for making these videos and speaking out. I love your channel.
I actually hope he gets the help he really needs. That *cannot* be a mentally healthy Individual. I actually hope he redeems himself as a person because my lawd that is mento eelness-
Yes this is very disgusting, but you know what's not disgusting
this man's awesome profile pic, top tier quality
This is really disgusting and we really need to talk more about sexual harassment it's really a serious topic and this is not OK ;-;
Yeah that's disgusting and even more disgusting is that many people say that it's not wrong cuz they're "complimenting you". Like wtf?? I don't wanna post a photo, go on a walk etc. and hear about how you want to fuck me like??
"Sexual Harassment"
It's all I hear about...I wonder if too many cooks in the kitchen have been making a mess, rather than helping the stew get cooked, so to speak.
Perhaps we should be better about how we go about it, rather than just talking about it. How many people just go "Oooh. That's bad!" Then do absolutely nothing to combat it. Standing there pointing the finger does nothing for the victims. Pick up a shovel and help us dig these holes. It's time to bury these pieces of sh!t. I wonder how many men will be gone when it's over? Oh wait! That's right...IT NEVER ENDS.
I guess we'll always just be those who say, "That bad. No. No." and never do a flipping thing about it. It's a spiral that keeps on going and nothing changes.
@@KitKatWiffleBallBat Speaking out about it is doing something.
@@KitKatWiffleBallBat But openly speaking about it _is_ taking a step forward, due to people being pressured into not saying anything at all, either due to fear of aggression or being shamed/discredited.
@@pczb2692 do u really think that creepy ppl will watch these types of videos? And I'm sorry but it's kinda her fault too
Well fuck here we go again
what CJ said
Preach it sir! As an assault victim this is the energy we love to see!
Also amazing use of hiroyuki sawano soundtracks 😤 High taste
U good
O hush bro
Ik how uncomfortable that might feel even as a boy.especially staring man it gives axienty
I'm disgusted by not surprised. I always advise to sue or screen shot and share. Most people think they can do whatever because they don't know it's illegal or that there would be consequences. (also apply for death treats that are really common to read). Harassers are cowards a lot of the time, like to feel they have the power to do that. Even if the system is ineffective being sued or exposed alone makes them know they don't have that power.
Omg 7:02 kills me💀 “her fault for looking attractive right” wtf people cannot control how they look??? How is it her fault that she has a beautiful body? The amount of stupidity is mind boggling
Right, like here we go again with victim blaming lol.
The fact that some people are actually JEALOUS of this kind of attention too 😩😭😭
most normal incel
I feel like some people just never learn common decency. Its actually disgusting. This just sums up why i gave up on most social media. Tbh its a problem that should not exist in the first place. I hope more people see this, and speak up.
Right and then ppl get mad when the idea of ID comes in 😂 like y’all just fucked it up for everybody which it shouldn’t even be a problem with the concept of ID if ur not a bad person but still
She’s really good with her craft I also noticed she has a nice paint collection. Best of luck to her and to hell with these assholes have to say. Honestly though they sound like they have the same attitude as high school teachers have about dress codes
"She's obviously seeking attention."
I mean... all artists are though??? That's why they post their art...???
Also holy shit, she's self taught?! Hot d a y u m mad respects!
0:49 do this people expect a positive response when they say shit like this? I know the majority of these messages are just trying to get a reaction but it baffles me that some people think this will work on the majority of people.
Well, thrash does have the tendency of attracting flies. There will be people who absolutely share the same type of mindset.
@@pczb2692 😂I mean this facts tho
As an artist, this hurts. Especially with how beautiful her art is and how hard she works on each art piece, only to get harassed by “simps”. She is a human being, not an object for your sexual fantasies. Grow up and leave her the hell alone.
Also new fan of the videos, love the messages you bring up and discuss. Things like this, though from 7 months ago, is needed to spoken out about.
Did you go look at her IG? Her Twitter is suspended right now. She definitely pushes for the sexy IG look in many of her photos. Amazing artist but let's not give her a complete pass because she's an amazing artist. She's also trying to push some tight clothes with provacative poses to attract more followers.
Some people have too much freedom
a little too much
That's a scary statement.
I had an artist friend who never shared a picture of herself online, but her gender was known. She received similar treatment - ranging from perverted overtures to physical threats. The harassment was non stop. She is a successful artist specializing in hyper realistic portraits and her only interaction with the public was to share her art and encouragement. I think the only thing that attracted that kind of hate was her gender. Some people share pictures of themselves alongside their art to put a human face to it: they don't want to be on a pedestal, they are trying to show the work came from their own two hands. Sometimes it's for scale and sometimes its to strengthen a copywrite. You're super damned if you do (It's bad if you're conventionally attractive, it's bad if you're not. These absolute walnuts just see easy targets) You're also damned if you don't but have revealed your gender. I myself have retreated from posting my art publicly now. I am not really sure what to do really.
There's a trick to deal with these kinda creeps. Just say "actually I'm a guy, thx ^_^ ", and they'll break their eggplants in half
AHAHAHAHAHAH LMAOO
LMFAO
ACK-
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funniest part is because my mom won't let me wear what i like and cut my hair, i appear as a girl so when people in general say something like that i go "yeah sorry i'm not a girl"
yes. YESSSSS
No one should be harassed like this.
Thank God! This is something I agree with! Thank you for this. Mahammed A.
i'm glad i can speak on this
This sort of harassment happens to me all the time online. Not with art but I get harassed in online games. Im suffering from depression and this harassment really doesnt help. Im glad he gives this topic more awareness.
People really dont think about what they say or do can affect a person, even long-term.
men exhaust me sometimes
But Im glad there are more men starting to use their platform to speak up against these assholes. Men, call out other men who act like this. And women, call out women who act like this. We gotta work together.
Me too, I'm glad there are men who started to understand these problems and talk about it instead of being pressed when women talks about their problems with men.
Dear Lord, I pray for these people and hope they get the help they need. Both the victims and the perpetrators....especially the perpetrators. It’s already annoying enough to deal with crap like that in school and now it migrated over to the internet. Just friggin stop already 😫
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I hate when the term 'simp' is just thrown around to any man that treats or speaks to a woman with the slightest ounce of dignity or respect (you know, like a HUMAN BEING).
Guys like that shouldn't be allowed to be on the internet
It's something that develops overtime they have some sort of addiction or mental issue they should just be blocked from messaging people
I am 22 years old NSFW artist, I was being harassed almost every day so I had to delete and create a new account. 😐 I didn't even have any pictures of me posted along with art. I just mentioned that I was female only to few people who cared to ask 🙄
The fact that people are focusing on her body instead of her creativity says alot about these people. I guess looks are the only thing that matters to them.
Am a female artist and have experienced this .....I had to delete all my pics on fb......and on top of the harrasment.....my pics got more likes and attention compared to my art.........
Get better at art then.
@@user-by4ru5pr1g That's not the case......u can see how gud Jessica's art is but they still tend to ignore that and focus on are body......
@@KAUNDAcreates_222 they don’t ignore it, she still sells her art and has a lot of likes and comments on her art. It’s just one is better than the other based on the audience she is catering to. If you want to change that, make better art. I don’t see any other solution.
@@user-by4ru5pr1g Wow that's actually very true.....
@@user-by4ru5pr1g thank you
I tried to read that super long dm and I couldn’t even make it half way thru. Ew.
I've used and seen others use the argument that just because they post it on social media, that you don't have the right to say whatever you want, and often get the reply, "freedom of speech" as their impenetrable golden armor of justification. All these points you're making are great, and I agree. The problem lies in the internet and people's ability to be and stay mostly unknown.
"Freedom of speech" doesn't mean "freedom from being made fun of for acting like a goddamn tool" 💀
I see why my sister told me to be careful when comes to this...
She called me out for accepting stranger's friend request which I didn't know that they will take advantage of me.
God I can't stand these kinds of people. There was this guy that was obsessed and thirsty for one of my OCs, so much so that it didn't even feel like he actually cared about my art (And to be clear I'm not saying that a fictional character and a real person being harassed are the same thing but I feel like the situations are similar in context). The guy didn't even bother figuring out whether I was a minor or an adult and would have disgusting conversations with me (I didn't back away because I was really young and I think he was kind of guilt tripping me). He would beg for nsfw, it drove me nuts, I eventually blocked him.
JESUS that's terrible! What even goes through that guy's head?! I hope you never see him again
@@shinysoda6 I have no idea, some people are just to lazy to figure out a persons age or even act like they care what you make. Unfortunately that was actually just a summary of what happened, however I haven't spoken to him for a while now. I really learned how to not let myself get guilt tripped like that again.
@star \\ I realized my last sentence came off that way. To be clear, it wasn't just that he was begging for nsfw, It was a bunch of other problems stacked on top.
that's horrible and I'm sorry that happened to you
@@eggsammich1186 Thanks, I'm glad it's over with.
And then the men say it’s not their fault when they get called out for it...
As a man i am ashamed of my gender and what these sick people do to women. I am sorry whoever is going through this.
This is such an amazing video, Mohammed. I can tell you really gave it a lot of thought and put in a lot of time and effort to try and actually make people see how this type of behaviour is wrong and hopefully stop doing it. You're obviously a caring person, thank you so much.
It reminds me of a time last year when I posted some of my favorite icon commissions I’ve done and one comment from some dude said “just sell lewd cosplays you will make money”. And i found it to be so inappropriate for him to say ugh 😩
40 seconds in, what the heck man this is so wrong
yep! yep yep
To think I'll get a reply from you is magical.
I was also *re*watching your take on Bad Art Advice, and I watched some videos from before they we're amazing, so yeah I big preesh.
That long message made me question humanity💀
True
Honestly tho, it's so strange when you put out your gender into the world, somehow the reaction just changes completely. I'm not thinking about everything through the lens of "I'm a girl", I'm a person first and should be treated like that. I feel horrible for her, it must be so grating on the artists that go through this
Some people are creeps
The fact these people think they are anonymous makes them a little too "bold" it's bad enough people go through this offline and it's worse online
This is why I don’t show my face on my art account and I’m working on a character to hide behind. I’d much prefer people see me as a funky shadow person with a bow tie .
Honestly Same...can't wait to be a cat girl
@@lordxgaster1577 cat girls > regular girls
@@obi-wan-pierogi XD I like you
I cant wait for you to rock that bow tie like a pro and show everyone your art, go for it!
Yup... I'm also part of the "I Have An Online Avatar To Deal With This Bull" club... Mine has a fantasy scifi design, with a closed helmet. :) Would be nice to greet other people's online personas. Maybe someday I'll study how to make VR chat models, that would be fun.
Once I was so attacked by men bc of a comment I made on a yt video about how some artists draw women in anime/manga. While my profile was called "Blue", they were just disagreeing normally or saying that men also are sexualized in some productions (and I agree, they really are), but when I had to change my google account's name to my real name bc of the online classes on google platform, the guys on the yt comment started to attack me using bad words referring to my gender and called me dumb. That made me feel so bad that I had anxiety crises bc it was the first time I felt hard the difference of behavior and treatment while I was considered a boy and when they discovered I was a girl. After that, I stopped making comments and even thinking about posting this one makes me anxious.
I can't image how this artist felt. I hope she's okay and keep making art.
I remember when i was 17 or less years old, there where 3 men that send me messages, one was a man asking if I was married, other send me a picture of his... and the last one was very insistent sending me messages that i inmediatly delete and block, being harassed feels horrible and it make me uncomfortable to upload pictures of me. now i am ok but there is always the afraid of recieve a mesage like that
I’m an online artist but I have a private account for personal posts for my friends. Normally my pfps are pictures I drew, but once I decided to change it to a picture of me (on my private account). Within like 10 minutes I got a follow request from some random older guy I don’t know. I know it isn’t much or anything, but it just surprised me how fast it happened on my private account lol
don't invalidate yourself. it's still gross and weird. don't feel bad about it. once is enough.
@@ggundercover3681 thanks homie
You see some guys will do crap like this and wonder why women won't talk to them.
Jess is beyond talented, being female online can be horrible. I’ve also met a person who wrote a full novel about what they’d like to do to me all because I posted a FanArt of Nezuko from DemonSlayer, now I don’t post my fan art yet alone normal selfies out of fear of getting more awkward comments/DMs. Thank you for covering this topic! 💜🤟🏻
that is disgusting. If it ever gets overwhelming you can always message me 🫂💕
Just ignore them or report them, they’re just creeps who live in their mothers basement
This is consistent with the toxic mess most (anti)-social media have become. X and Tiktok stick out on the negative side. And these are great portraits, that stick out on the positive site. That Marley portrait would look great on my wall. Great video. This should be pushed by Google into everyone's account.
I'm early, but the fact that people still need to say that this is bad is just sad
That's one of many reasons why I said goodbye to social media, people literally stealing your identity or art and harassing young and talented people.
I've reported a lot of those creeps, but nothing happened.
I’ve seen some men say artists that are women have it easy because we can just post pics of ourself to get attention. If only they knew the shit we deal with, there is no way in hell I’m posting a pic of my body with my art because I dread what will come my way
Another example: I changed my Instagram profile picture for my meme page to a selfie. I got hundreds of guys dm-ing me "Hie, I wanna look u, sand piks" and someone even said, "Wat secret behind ur beuty *wink"
I have a private account on Instagram, and the profile pic is very zoomed out but I am a young female, and I still get guys twice or three times my age requesting to dm me. Even though I’ve done everything I can to stop it :/
@@sunniwithani this is why i don't make instagram accounts lmao
I’m just getting into posting my art online and as a female… sigh. Thanks to the veil of socializing through the internet, those attracted, can’t help but reveal the idiots like them that frequent the world. As an OG gamer and artist, comments like this stands out often in these environments, unfortunately, and these particular guys are bitter about women in my opinion. It’s just something I noticed in real time and on the internet. 🙄
that nft part just had me screaming no out loud
Wow her art is amazing and she is only 19. Imagine what her art will be like in years to come.
When people say "not all men" they're right, Mohammed Agbadi would fucking NEVER and would call out these gross men
"Five perfectly sane human beings"
Yeah that's asking WAY to much from humanity...
I find that infuriating that some people do that. That's the reason why I don't show my face online -ever-; by fear those people would come to me,even tho I'm not that attractive
I am disgusted that some women have to deal with this just because they showed their face/ body
This is freaking disgusting, I hope the girl is doing fine right now and just report those people.
It's scary that this kind of harassment happens online and in person all the time. Stay safe everyone.
I love your art 'tea' videos, but I'm so glad you use your platform to speak on serious and real life issues, especially on marginalized online victims.
I really wish there was a form of action for social media platforms to ban IP addresses when there are repeat sexual offenders online. Unfortunately people exploit freedom of speech online as "freedom to harass people" when they could literally be doing anything else productive in their life.
I've never heard of this situation but i am very glad you are talking about it. As an artist I do have a bit of fear in regards to posting photos of myself. The most ill do is post drawings but not real photos.
Not only have I been sexually harassed in real life ,I've had uncomfortable interactions online. It's really sad that as women we have to weigh in the pros and cons on how we express ourselves.
Because that one cute photo can lead to never ending harassment. I hope things get better for her, and for my fellow women in creative spaces, keep at it. And for the weirdos out there, seek therapy.
It's sad that some artist have/want to stay anonymous because of this very reason.
Cant even post selfies anymore
Even having an account is a liability
allies who are men/men-aligned are key to women's liberation :)) ty for making this video, i hope it reaches those who need to hear it
It’s times like these when the phrase “Common sense/Decency is not so Common.” Really applies.
been refreshing and reloading the RUclips website over and over, searching for something to watch.
oH bOi... the video just published at the right time
TwT thanks man
Just one minute in, already feel disgusted.
Ugh some men are so disgusting. Some woman could find the cure for cancer but some men will still only see her for her body. We aren’t just objects to gawk at. Disgusting.
Thanks for talking bout this it’s been an huge issue for a LONG time!!
It’s the reason I don’t post my art online anymore- stopped me from even wanting to sell my work after I got stalked irl because of it & idk whole ordeal made me super paranoid 😬
Totally sucks to see others go through that harassment!
7:02 imagine calling some an attention seeker just cus they look good lol