Wow after watching your video, I know I do not like Sigma males. So selfish. So they can stay away from me. No excuses necassary. They just straight up ignore people. Well guess what. We care less about Sigmas than they care about us. Sounds like they're only interested in being around ppl willing to be victimized by an asshat. They don't think they are victimizing ppl but that is because they make their own rules. I suggest the rest of the pack leave 'em alone. I am a sigma female. And have a kid with a sigma male. My son is 20 and we don't talk to his dad. He is selfish and destructive to other people
It's not just a feeling. The dopamine levels in the brain decrease. If you're in a situation where you CANNOT be alone for any length of time, that's what causes the tiredness that can't be fixed just by sleep. Been there. They won't return to normal until you've had enough alone time.
My family always thought that I was weird because I just didn't care about social interactions. I find them tedious and exhausting. Or that I would disappear into the woods for a week by myself. I thought at one point there was something wrong with me. This video describes me almost %100 and it's good to know that I'm a sigma and there are others like me.
Interesting, apparently I'm one of those. Had no idea. I'm alone by choice, discreet, and pragmatic. I don't feel the need to be around people too much, or to be part of a group. As a matter of fact , I regularly cut people off my life, without being rude. Peace and privacy are paramount to me.
Thank you for this video , you described my life with all 12 points , i had 3 times depression because of thinking that something abnormal with me , but i solved my depression s by myself , the hardest thing of our life is that people always sharing with us their big problems , their big losses and after getting help from us , they disappear . But i always try to help people , even after staying alone bymyself , one more time thank you for this video , its good to realize that there are people like me .
Thanks for sharing. I had a very similar reaction. I was terrified that I was some variant of a psychopath for a long time because I couldn’t find an explanation for my abnormal behavior. I was certain that I possessed empathy so that gave me hop. However this didn’t explained my detached avoidance of anyone who wasn’t worth my time to the extreme that I only ever communicated with competent teachers and a handful of students who I saw as better than me. Also emotional separation from my decision making which has caused me to almost always make correct decisions but results in tension in relationships and with most woman. I’m very glad to find that I’m not alone. I hope I can find you guys some day.
Few words of advice: Don't be a door mat. Enforce boundaries. Don't fear rejection for it. Don't be accomodating to the point of disrespecting yourself. Invest in others to the same level they invest in you. Test people by interrupting them with your problems. Don't be a "nice guy." Be a calibrated guy. Dominate the space you're in by influencing other men to follow you and using your masculine frame to exert power over the emotional state of women.
We have to learn to recognize each other and pull each other out of the holes we all end up in when we come across someone in one and we jump in to get them out only to have them take off without helping us out.
Stopped answering my door 30+ years ago. Always remove the doorbell batteries of all properties iv lived in. When ppl call me, let it go into my voicemail. So I decide if & when I want to call them back ie will it make a difference to my life? If not - ignore it. Prefer to be on my own 99.998% of the time anyway. Been like this all my life - now in my 60th year. When I come home from work & on my days off - don’t want to be chauffeuring other ppl around or going out for a social with empty boring ppl. Who can hardly ever live up to my conversation standards. Be at home - have a vape 💨 & a Tia Maria 🥃 Read &/or watch box sets. 100 times better lifestyle. 👍👍
The smiling thing was a big challenge for me when I was a customer serv representative . And finally I just discovered ways to stay away from jobs that require you to be constantly interacting with people. I just can't have a smiley face all the time, it feels uncomfortable .
The issue is, most jobs require us to interact with other people. Even if you don’t interact FTF, like with telephone work ie a dispatcher for London Ambulance, you’re still required to cultivate a smiley can I help you attitude to ppl on the phone. However as stated - 99% of jobs require interaction with other fake toxic shallow ppl. London Private Hire driver me, work 30 hours a week. Constantly getting ppl in my car for say 20 minutes a time, required to put on a lovely to see you face. I compare it to acting - whilst I’m at work - I adopt my Mr Smiley Face 🙂 character. And I’m well renumerated for it. 30hrs a week is tolerable. Remainder of my time - divorce myself from others. Happy with Scooby as per the IG photo. 😃👍
Yes I dont think school class got back exit, when the exit is typically in the front side to the right, so they dont back exit, when Sigma males can also tell teacher I need to go to the toilet. Its that Sigma males like to sit in back of the class with nobody behind them, when it gives them sence of chill feeling where they can observe everything and in the long booring lection just chill, when in the front of class its harder to chill in your chair, when your two meters of teacher and everybody else see your chilling from behind, but if your in back of the class. Nobody see’s your chilling. Sigma males like to have 10 meter distance to the teacher, so its not so close to observ them always, when they want teacher to observe thoese booring high diploma girls who sit in the front of the class. When school starts Sigma males like to sit in back of the class, so they can observ all their new classmates to observ which boys they want to have friends to sit with the Sigma male in the back of the class and which girls the Sigma male likes with her beuty and having nice personality, than annoying one with constantly talking non stop.
Always sitting in the back of the room is something I do as a defensive tactic at all times. Learned in CCW classes a long time ago. Always sit so you can see whats happening. Never sit with your back to the door or the room. Always alert. Always able to see whats going on. So many people sitting in the front never see the entire situation and they never even know it.
Absolutely. Observing from the background is what I do all the time. But I speak up if it´s important. And the fun thing is, I love to entertain people on stage. These are rare moments in my life, I don´t do this as a profession. But in the rare cases I do I´m absolutely present, loving to be in the spotlight. All the other sigma things apply in my everyday life but honestly, I live for these rare moments of singing and dancing on stage. So 90 % sigma and 10 % some other character?
Not sure if its the same 2% you had in mind but for me the reluctance to open up to someone i don't know because they been burned before doesn't ring true to me. For myself I see it as a more efficient way to be. If they burn you then they just fast tracked themselves out of your life. That's my two cents try not to spend it all at once ;)
*ONE OF THE BEST QUOTES* “Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, your life will start to change” - Gautama Buddha Thanks For Reading 🙏🏻 I LOVE YOU 💝
Source ? Good luck...one would imagine that a Bhudda would see both Positive and Negative as part of a balance. Maybe it was the Bhudda of Pinterest...
This is me to a T!! It's nice to finally see someone understand and explain this type of personality. I've always felt different and misunderstood but I never let it shake my confidence.
Wow……… after all these years, I’ve finally found something that describes me almost perfectly. Practically 100% of the descriptions of a Sigma male given here are what I am. I’m a Sigma male and didn’t even realize it, though I’ve always known I was different
it was unexpected that. I really don't answer on principle nowadays. When i was younger it was maybe because its akward to call or answer, but i worked at a call center for years when i was 16 so thats long gone. Simply if you can't convey an info with a text, its already a headache , and don't wanna spend an hour on the phone blowing hot air out of my mouth
Thank you. Everything in this video describes me in every aspect. I wish videos like this existed 35 yrs ago. Most of my life I assumed there was something wrong with me for not aspiring to be an alpha, which I have always deemed to just be a pointless, silly pursuit.
I love these videos. They help me understand my character. Thought some of the things I do was odd and weird other but now I realized they're part of my character. I feel comfortable being myself knowing I am all normal like everyone else. Stigma rule!! Great and helpful channel.
The Sigma is basically not going to let anyone derail them. I also think the explanations are why a fellow Sigma can be a good friend. They understand.
This is so true, every word describes my personality. I have never felt loneliness in my life, and yes I wait for my neighbours to go if they open their door at the same time as me. I don't like my neighbour opening her door at the same time I'm arriving, and being told its funny we live so close and yet never see each other. To be honest I don't particularly care whether I see see her from one years end to the next, simple. Thanks for a very insightful video, and it helps greatly knowing I'm not the only one like me!
Never heard of the term "Sigma Male" before. Interesting. I am an INTP and this sounds a lot like that personality type as i could relate to many of the traits. The texting instead of talking over the phone seems like a contradiction, since talking for me is way more efficient than texting. But this could be different for other people of course.
@@bobolulu7615 Yea like all words. There lives OR time? How does that work? Are there people who have time outside their life for dreaming up words? Or are there people who have nothing better to do with their lives, but have no time to spare? WTF are you smokin'
@@OliHandy2008 I think this is one word that was not well thought out for its modern-day bastardization. Just to help you and your grommet friends along here is an explanation. "The Greek letter sigma was derived from the Phoenician letter šīn, meaning tooth. The small letter sigma (σ) is used to represent standard deviation in math and statistics. It is also used to show syllable in linguistic, a shielding constant in chemistry and sum of divisors in math. In comparison the 'Alpha' male that modern-day ringlets appeal to is Alpha. Here is an example "Alpha refers to a dominant person or their behavior, especially with respect to socially aggressive, hyper-masculine men. Some dudebros see alpha as a compliment and aspiration, and yet a 'Sigma' male is seen as nothing more than a tooth. You sure don't need to put the bowl down?
@@bobolulu7615 what. A tooth? Really? Alpha adults (both male and female) are the ones that breed successfully. Betas are subordinate providers. Keep your Greek maths symbols out of this. A tooth???? Smh
I’ve hated talking on the phone since I was in grade school. Worst thing you can do to me is call me. Drove my mom absolutely bonkers that I was exceedingly annoyed by girls calling when I was in high school. So, I’m not a fan of talking on the phone…😊
the very last thing is what made me seem strange in group conversations, because i was just observing, lately i've realised some people get offended when you observe them but wouldn't that be because they aren't worthy of trust? i think so, obviously i learned the hard way that staring ain't getting people interested, seems like becoming sigma is about feeling/acknowledging as well as accepting pain.
Especially since we potentially know more about the product we are there for than the salesperson. We did our research before getting there and know what we want.
100% They want something from you - your money. Told a cold caller sales guy many years ago on the 📞, is what you’re trying to sell me gonna cost me money ( knowing that’s the obvious agenda ) Big long silence. And a terminated call. That was say 20 years ago. Don’t answer my landline now - it’s only there for broadband.
My family has always seen me as "odd" or weird because I don't fit in ANYWHERE. I had a couple friends in high school but always felt alone. I never understood why I felt satisfied being by myself. Not desperately seeking after things most men were. I take pride and find pleasure in doing the opposite of what people do because nobody is doing it! I never knew anything about these personality types. One guy approached me and shook my hand and said I was an "alpha" and I researched it and seen I didn't fit in there! Then I learned about Sigma and have been amazed at almost every video I've seen! I'm being described to a TEE!..
This video is great! If only people really understand and apply this when interacting with Sigma (males or females). Point number 8... so me!!! 🤣Thanks for sharing!
What's kinda funny about this is I first heard of sigma male probably about a year ago. I am so very, very sigma. Even with me being very consistent, I've always been someone who people seem to never be able to figure out. I'm different from most people, they just can't figure me. And here I'm classic text book sigma. That makes me smile
I strangely relate to most of them for the exception of phone calls. I prefer having a 5-10 minutes conversation by phone calls than a conversation dragged on for hours by texting.
I've been labeled a sigma male because I look forward to being alone. I read some traits of sigma males and it fits me, but this video listed 12 things that I myself do. Yep, I'm definitely a sigma and I didn't know such a think existed, but it makes sense now. Now I wonder if two sigma males get along better or do they clash? I think they wouldn't clash as my uncle is definitely a sigma and we get along great, but is that because he's my uncle or because we are both sigmas?
I think sigma male "get it" about each other, my best friends are similar to me and i understand the way they act because i do the same...just discovered the sigma profile with this video, quite interesting!
Sigma males... A lot of people think they are. Maybe, maybe not, but one thing I do know is this is a very wise type of human being. They are 'masters' of their craft, but do it without flashiness 📸. Of course 2 sigma males will get along. It would be like meeting a distant brother or long lost friend. However, being one, I notice we will always value solitude over any other person. I don't invest in friendships. Rather, investing into people's hearts, minds, and beings. These are very rare, passively dominant human beings apparently. Most their lives will be spent down a long lonely road, yet from within they will master it as well. 💯🌥️🔥
All these are me, 100%. I retired from a successful career to live alone on the beach in Mexico. I time my walks on the beach when I know my chatty neighbors won't be there. I'm looking forward to the fall when there's almost nobody around here.
This explains a lot. Especially after being in a 8 hr conference or seminar and how I'm ready to just get back to my hotel room afterwards to just process everything and decompress.
Very interesting, this video was my first information about the term SIGMA MALE. I never fit in a box and even here - most of these things in the video describe me perfectly, but one thing is different: In the fields where I have my biggest potential, I just love being in the spotlight and entertain an audience with a lot of energy! These are rare moments but they are my highlights. Anyone else? Just curious as this point was not really discussed here, just mentioned in the part of sitting in the background UNLESS they have something important to say... Btw thank you for the information an well-made video. You just earned another subscriber @Wise Thinker
Wow,well today i learned i am a sigma male and its nothing wrong with me,i am just misunderstood.And yes,i do really enjoy being alone or not being in center of attention or having small talks about how am i doing today and other stuff.I value my time and my privacy and i expect you to do the same.If you have nothing new to say or nothing important,dont bother me because i do have always have important stuff to do.And also,i do love just observing my surroundings and soaking in all the info,as well as being loyal friend but also able to cut off those who are just wasting my time.I am Sigma,and i love it!
This video describes me perfectly. I always considered myself an introvert. How do I know the difference between being introverted and being a sigma male?
I think if just introverted, you have emotions driving it like fear or nervousness. If you are a sigma, you just don't care and rather not be bothered talking to a whole bunch of people.
As I see it: Introverts are just people who consumed by their inner world rather than the outer world they live in which they develop some kind of "autopilot" for. That's OK as long as they are not doing it out of fear or shame. On the other hand, sigma males are self-sufficient observers who have amassed so much inner wealth that they can always go their own way without losing anything.
Thanks, everything in this video describes me in every aspect, now I find myself. But serious, it was quite weird for others because I just didn't care about social interactions.
Some corrections: Sigma males can be extroverts when they want to be. They are ambi-verts. They lead and recharge in crowds and they can recharge alone with a book. The "lone" is the introvert. The "wolf" is the extrovert. The whole "does not answer the door" thing is weird. So we're all sigma males? Come on. Same with chatty salesmen. Let's look a little deeper than this surface stuff.
Yep. Text only, and get straight to the point. Don’t text “how are you?” Unless what you actually want is attached to that msg, I don’t respond until they do.
I keep saying this after seeing your previous video on sigma male, you just opened my eyes to understanding who i am, now I don’t have to be worried about it…
Being a Sigma male and a Stoic. This describes me to a tee. At my job, I work my tail off. Always one of the top sales managers each month, but when I walked out that door at the end of the day, I don’t want to be bothered by nobody 😂
If this is considered to be, "weird," I may just be the weirdest person there is, lol. All of this resonates with me... and has for well over 3 decades.
thank you, u have a keen observation bout the traits, keeps me wondering, u might be a sigma as well,, been watchin ur videos again n again, but never saw u in this vids, that is a sigma trait, heard but not seen,,, god bless
I don't like when people are flattering towards me and the reason might be that when I complement someone I try to make it stand out from every other complement they ever received and it tends to be something miniscule just to show that I'm paying attention to small details. I do it to make people feel good and this is usually a technique I use to start a conversation with a girl. Girl fall for it and they are all smile. However at the end of the day I didn't give a damn about what I was complementing. I just played with their mind to boost them. So when I get complicated it doesn't have any value to me.
Similar traits but many introverts are overly worried about what others think of them, about trying to fit in, making a good impression, etc. A sigma say's "I am walking my own path. You can come along or don't, it doesn't make a difference to me."
It’s clear that this video resonates with a lot of men. So many videos assume that all men want to act like alphas (and I do mean “act”), but that simply isn’t the case. Many men are perfectly comfortable in their skins and don’t need to let everyone know that they are supposedly the dominant male. One aspect of sigmas that this video doesn’t cover is that sigmas do indeed like to have fun. The traits listed in this video may make it seem like sigmas are overly serious. Many are serious, but some are goofy and funny as hell. And, most also have the ability to relax and have a great time. That may entail getting together with a friend or friends. It may be, yes, having a small talk, light, fun conversation with someone. Or it may simply be doing something they enjoy - exercising, watching an educational video, reading, listening to music, etc. Thanks for making this video. Great validation for all the sigmas out there.
Me me me me me me and me lol. Being an only child being alone is fine. Most of my buddies were Alphas, I wasn’t really into putting on the act to get the girls the way they did. I waited and found a girl I really had things in common with. It paid off been married for 30!yrs.
How did you do such a good job? Brilliant, this will be good for identifying other Sigma's. it's usually not hard. They don't talk too much! Cheers for the clarity
I agree with everything up until the phone part. It's more efficient to call most of the time to quickly convey a msg. Texting takes more time as you have to wait for each reply and can't analyze the person sending the msg.
I really didn't know I was a Sigma to this day. Frankly, I've never heard of it before. I've heard of Alphas, and Betas, but I didn't know how far does the alphabet go. I always thought that I was weird, antisocial, but I can relate to almost 90% of the description in this clip. It's good to know that I'm not weird, I'm just different from the majority of people 🙂
@@milehighboost5521 Same. Even my ex-wife would say I had no feelings and was a robot. I have emotions, just didn't feel the need to expend the energy required to display. Wasn't worth it. SIGMA and not the heartless jerk.
Wow this describes me so accurately, it got to the part about waiting till my neighbor comes inside to avoid the smalltalk when leaving, and yes thats me. I just know with knowledge that most people are Karens, and if they are talking to you it's because of their own agenda, again back to not wanting to waste time. Alot of experience with Narcissism and true nature of people that are still blue pill.
The thing about not wanting to leave when your neighbors are home not wanting to stop for small talk I'm constantly looking through my people to make sure I don't have to run into my neighbor this is crazy how accurate this person is
I wish this video was around when I was dating back in the 1980's. My girlfriends could not comprehend why I would need periods of being alone and took alone-time to mean either I didn't love them, or I was up to something nefarious. There are people who mean everything to me, but I still need some alone time every day. My wife understands that, and I go out of my way to let her know how much I appreciate her understanding.
Right. Mine still doesn't understand and it's constantly draining hearing how I'm up to something or I don't love her blah blah blah I just tune her out and start over on my alone time lol
Alpha,Beta,Sigma....Whats next Gama,Iota? Every person is unique. This shouldn't put a label on anyone. I REPEAT! Every person is unique. I remember the time where there was only Alpha and Beta , later on Sigma appeared. It's only a matter of time when a new one emerges. Times change,so do people. LGBQRT what's next? M(Machine?) Best of Luck to everyone.Stay true to yourself!
Based from these values, now I know I'm a Sigma male, I choose real people to interact with but not too close, I try to manage to create space because I usually get toxicated when always around with people and get cluttered mind. so I choose to go alone outside, I don't want to compromise my choice of food for being with other people. I want to have fun alone with my own terms biking or walking no pressure of the group. I seldom. post on social media most of these are about nature and not me, haha, I am not interested being the social butterfly being the center or attention, so yeah this video speaks about me. 😅
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How do you demonstrate your appreciation? As a Sigma male, I mean.
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Wow after watching your video, I know I do not like Sigma males. So selfish. So they can stay away from me. No excuses necassary. They just straight up ignore people. Well guess what. We care less about Sigmas than they care about us. Sounds like they're only interested in being around ppl willing to be victimized by an asshat. They don't think they are victimizing ppl but that is because they make their own rules. I suggest the rest of the pack leave 'em alone. I am a sigma female. And have a kid with a sigma male. My son is 20 and we don't talk to his dad. He is selfish and destructive to other people
Good content.. these are very accurate.
@@Unfunny_Username_389 if they call you on your first name and looked at you in the eye.. you maybe got some respect from a sigma.
The part about feeling exhausted after being around people awhile and recharging by being alone, really spoke to me.
It's not just a feeling. The dopamine levels in the brain decrease. If you're in a situation where you CANNOT be alone for any length of time, that's what causes the tiredness that can't be fixed just by sleep. Been there. They won't return to normal until you've had enough alone time.
Had put it down to being an empath myself. This seems to fit too though
We just got so much going on.
+1
@@tibetloga Interesting. Makes sense. I’ll get bored and there’s no more happiness so that makes since my dopamine levels would deplete.
You have no idea how freaky it is hearing all of my behavioral traits described nearly perfectly! It is so uncanny!
Same here
Me too.
Unwanted random opinion: I love the profile picture. My favorite movie.
Yep! So There is a word to describe me!
This video is spot on.
My family always thought that I was weird because I just didn't care about social interactions. I find them tedious and exhausting. Or that I would disappear into the woods for a week by myself. I thought at one point there was something wrong with me. This video describes me almost %100 and it's good to know that I'm a sigma and there are others like me.
We together mate.
The "big mouth" people! 🤣
This video describes me 100%. I always wondered what is wrong with me. But to hear that I’m not the only one is good to hear
Disappear for a week??🙄🙄
cheers.
Interesting, apparently I'm one of those. Had no idea.
I'm alone by choice, discreet, and pragmatic.
I don't feel the need to be around people too much, or to be part of a group.
As a matter of fact , I regularly cut people off my life, without being rude.
Peace and privacy are paramount to me.
I relate but i wonder if it's only because of other peoples disfunction and inability to detect and respect my boundaries. Enmeshment is toxic
Same brother
I LOVE this comment!! I am taking a screen shot!! I never show off but let me post a RUclips comment about all my great qualities!! Hahaha 🤣
Why are you reading my mind bro ?
@@eddiehauser6661 75 IQ comment
Thank you for this video , you described my life with all 12 points , i had 3 times depression because of thinking that something abnormal with me , but i solved my depression s by myself , the hardest thing of our life is that people always sharing with us their big problems , their big losses and after getting help from us , they disappear . But i always try to help people , even after staying alone bymyself , one more time thank you for this video , its good to realize that there are people like me .
Me too! I thought I was just a weirdo until I learned I was a Sigma..
Thanks for sharing. I had a very similar reaction. I was terrified that I was some variant of a psychopath for a long time because I couldn’t find an explanation for my abnormal behavior. I was certain that I possessed empathy so that gave me hop. However this didn’t explained my detached avoidance of anyone who wasn’t worth my time to the extreme that I only ever communicated with competent teachers and a handful of students who I saw as better than me. Also emotional separation from my decision making which has caused me to almost always make correct decisions but results in tension in relationships and with most woman. I’m very glad to find that I’m not alone. I hope I can find you guys some day.
Few words of advice: Don't be a door mat. Enforce boundaries. Don't fear rejection for it. Don't be accomodating to the point of disrespecting yourself. Invest in others to the same level they invest in you. Test people by interrupting them with your problems. Don't be a "nice guy." Be a calibrated guy. Dominate the space you're in by influencing other men to follow you and using your masculine frame to exert power over the emotional state of women.
We have to learn to recognize each other and pull each other out of the holes we all end up in when we come across someone in one and we jump in to get them out only to have them take off without helping us out.
Same here. I've tried to be different so as to be 'normal' several times but I gave up on that and be me. Turns out I'm just fine!
I laughed at not answering the door, thought it was just me.
What if I told you it actually was?
same
Me too. I wait until the package is dropped while watching the Amazon delivery person walks back to their truck.
Stopped answering my door 30+ years ago.
Always remove the doorbell batteries of all properties iv lived in.
When ppl call me, let it go into my voicemail.
So I decide if & when I want to call them back ie will it make a difference to my life?
If not - ignore it.
Prefer to be on my own 99.998% of the time anyway. Been like this all my life - now in my 60th year.
When I come home from work & on my days off - don’t want to be chauffeuring other ppl around or going out for a social with empty boring ppl.
Who can hardly ever live up to my conversation standards.
Be at home - have a vape 💨 & a Tia Maria 🥃
Read &/or watch box sets.
100 times better lifestyle.
👍👍
Me too! 😆
The smiling thing was a big challenge for me when I was a customer serv representative . And finally I just discovered ways to stay away from jobs that require you to be constantly interacting with people.
I just can't have a smiley face all the time, it feels uncomfortable .
Same
The issue is, most jobs require us to interact with other people. Even if you don’t interact FTF, like with telephone work ie a dispatcher for London Ambulance, you’re still required to cultivate a smiley can I help you attitude to ppl on the phone. However as stated - 99% of jobs require interaction with other fake toxic shallow ppl.
London Private Hire driver me, work 30 hours a week.
Constantly getting ppl in my car for say 20 minutes a time, required to put on a lovely to see you face.
I compare it to acting - whilst I’m at work - I adopt my Mr Smiley Face 🙂 character. And I’m well renumerated for it.
30hrs a week is tolerable.
Remainder of my time - divorce myself from others.
Happy with Scooby as per the IG photo.
😃👍
We know of Resting Bitch Face, There's a new one called Resting Sigma Face😂
I feel you on that one. I would briefly smile and quickly complete the transaction or the conversation onto a different point.
They're happy, they just haven't told their faces.
The part about being able to make a silent exit got me. 🤣
On my Batman ish...
Factual
I just did this yesterday on my first day of a new job. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I do this in church 🤣
Yes I dont think school class got back exit, when the exit is typically in the front side to the right, so they dont back exit, when Sigma males can also tell teacher I need to go to the toilet. Its that Sigma males like to sit in back of the class with nobody behind them, when it gives them sence of chill feeling where they can observe everything and in the long booring lection just chill, when in the front of class its harder to chill in your chair, when your two meters of teacher and everybody else see your chilling from behind, but if your in back of the class. Nobody see’s your chilling. Sigma males like to have 10 meter distance to the teacher, so its not so close to observ them always, when they want teacher to observe thoese booring high diploma girls who sit in the front of the class. When school starts Sigma males like to sit in back of the class, so they can observ all their new classmates to observ which boys they want to have friends to sit with the Sigma male in the back of the class and which girls the Sigma male likes with her beuty and having nice personality, than annoying one with constantly talking non stop.
Always sitting in the back of the room is something I do as a defensive tactic at all times. Learned in CCW classes a long time ago. Always sit so you can see whats happening. Never sit with your back to the door or the room. Always alert. Always able to see whats going on. So many people sitting in the front never see the entire situation and they never even know it.
Drama
Absolutely. Observing from the background is what I do all the time. But I speak up if it´s important. And the fun thing is, I love to entertain people on stage. These are rare moments in my life, I don´t do this as a profession. But in the rare cases I do I´m absolutely present, loving to be in the spotlight. All the other sigma things apply in my everyday life but honestly, I live for these rare moments of singing and dancing on stage. So 90 % sigma and 10 % some other character?
As a sigma male...this video is 98% correct. 😎
what is the 2%? I agree with it not being 100%
Same here! 😂
How do you define 'sigma male,' though, a stipulative term?
Both you fools don't know what you are even talking about until you do.
I'm a sugma
Not sure if its the same 2% you had in mind but for me the reluctance to open up to someone i don't know because they been burned before doesn't ring true to me. For myself I see it as a more efficient way to be. If they burn you then they just fast tracked themselves out of your life. That's my two cents try not to spend it all at once ;)
As a sigma male I can say, that this is spot on.
Uncanny isn't it? I watch it and go yeah right and then see a big piece of your personality getting listed one by one.
*ONE OF THE BEST QUOTES*
“Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, your life will start to change” - Gautama Buddha
Thanks For Reading 🙏🏻
I LOVE YOU 💝
If you fill it with garbage your life will also start to change
Source ? Good luck...one would imagine that a Bhudda would see both Positive and Negative as part of a balance. Maybe it was the Bhudda of Pinterest...
This is me to a T!! It's nice to finally see someone understand and explain this type of personality. I've always felt different and misunderstood but I never let it shake my confidence.
I thought no one had me figuered out and here I am listening to someone describing me perfectly.
Wow……… after all these years, I’ve finally found something that describes me almost perfectly. Practically 100% of the descriptions of a Sigma male given here are what I am. I’m a Sigma male and didn’t even realize it, though I’ve always known I was different
Same
This is soo me. Lmao. Cracked up at doesn't answer the phone.
it was unexpected that. I really don't answer on principle nowadays. When i was younger it was maybe because its akward to call or answer, but i worked at a call center for years when i was 16 so thats long gone. Simply if you can't convey an info with a text, its already a headache , and don't wanna spend an hour on the phone blowing hot air out of my mouth
Yeah and most take it personal.
Im definitely a sigma male yall got down pack. This is literally how ive been moving all my life.
Thank you. Everything in this video describes me in every aspect. I wish videos like this existed 35 yrs ago. Most of my life I assumed there was something wrong with me for not aspiring to be an alpha, which I have always deemed to just be a pointless, silly pursuit.
You aren't. I can tell by your picture. You are Beta. Or Charlie, or delta. Or omega
@@vitkomusic6624 Foxtrot, definitely foxtrot
@@vitkomusic6624 Omega
I am a sigma male and mighty proud of it....if you are one make adjustments as necessary.
I think it's the best personality
I love these videos. They help me understand my character. Thought some of the things I do was odd and weird other but now I realized they're part of my character. I feel comfortable being myself knowing I am all normal like everyone else. Stigma rule!!
Great and helpful channel.
I am learning so much about myself right now. This is so spot on
The Sigma is basically not going to let anyone derail them. I also think the explanations are why a fellow Sigma can be a good friend. They understand.
This is so true, every word describes my personality. I have never felt loneliness in my life, and yes I wait for my neighbours to go if they open their door at the same time as me. I don't like my neighbour opening her door at the same time I'm arriving, and being told its funny we live so close and yet never see each other. To be honest I don't particularly care whether I see see her from one years end to the next, simple. Thanks for a very insightful video, and it helps greatly knowing I'm not the only one like me!
Never heard of the term "Sigma Male" before. Interesting. I am an INTP and this sounds a lot like that personality type as i could relate to many of the traits. The texting instead of talking over the phone seems like a contradiction, since talking for me is way more efficient than texting. But this could be different for other people of course.
It's just another new generation word dreamed up by people with nothing better to do with their lives or time.
@@bobolulu7615 Yea like all words. There lives OR time? How does that work? Are there people who have time outside their life for dreaming up words? Or are there people who have nothing better to do with their lives, but have no time to spare? WTF are you smokin'
@@OliHandy2008 I think this is one word that was not well thought out for its modern-day bastardization. Just to help you and your grommet friends along here is an explanation. "The Greek letter sigma was derived from the Phoenician letter šīn, meaning tooth. The small letter sigma (σ) is used to represent standard deviation in math and statistics. It is also used to show syllable in linguistic, a shielding constant in chemistry and sum of divisors in math. In comparison the 'Alpha' male that modern-day ringlets appeal to is Alpha. Here is an example "Alpha refers to a dominant person or their behavior, especially with respect to socially aggressive, hyper-masculine men. Some dudebros see alpha as a compliment and aspiration, and yet a 'Sigma' male is seen as nothing more than a tooth. You sure don't need to put the bowl down?
@@bobolulu7615 what. A tooth? Really? Alpha adults (both male and female) are the ones that breed successfully. Betas are subordinate providers. Keep your Greek maths symbols out of this. A tooth???? Smh
I’ve hated talking on the phone since I was in grade school. Worst thing you can do to me is call me. Drove my mom absolutely bonkers that I was exceedingly annoyed by girls calling when I was in high school. So, I’m not a fan of talking on the phone…😊
Amazing!!!
Everyone who watched this video and commented is a sigma male!!!
So much for them being a rare commodity.
Well this video just described my habits, who & what i am. Great to have what & how i've always felt confirmed. Great video 👍🏾
the very last thing is what made me seem strange in group conversations, because i was just observing, lately i've realised some people get offended when you observe them but wouldn't that be because they aren't worthy of trust? i think so, obviously i learned the hard way that staring ain't getting people interested, seems like becoming sigma is about feeling/acknowledging as well as accepting pain.
chatty salespeople....pure evil. Avoid them like the plague.
Facts!
Agreed - purest evil. Way, way worse than Hitler for instance. Not to mention Peter Sutcliffe.
Especially since we potentially know more about the product we are there for than the salesperson. We did our research before getting there and know what we want.
100%
They want something from you - your money.
Told a cold caller sales guy many years ago on the 📞, is what you’re trying to sell me gonna cost me money ( knowing that’s the obvious agenda )
Big long silence.
And a terminated call.
That was say 20 years ago.
Don’t answer my landline now - it’s only there for broadband.
My family has always seen me as "odd" or weird because I don't fit in ANYWHERE. I had a couple friends in high school but always felt alone. I never understood why I felt satisfied being by myself. Not desperately seeking after things most men were. I take pride and find pleasure in doing the opposite of what people do because nobody is doing it! I never knew anything about these personality types. One guy approached me and shook my hand and said I was an "alpha" and I researched it and seen I didn't fit in there! Then I learned about Sigma and have been amazed at almost every video I've seen! I'm being described to a TEE!..
#4 reminds me of a coworker I had. A nosey, gossip. I'd risk being late to avoid him at shift change.
I never realized this content existed. But I'm glad it is out there makes more sence the more I watch!!
This video is great! If only people really understand and apply this when interacting with Sigma (males or females). Point number 8... so me!!! 🤣Thanks for sharing!
Nah if you a female you just quirky and weird 😂😂
@@elmagnifico1 I cosign your message lol
stop trying to be a man accept yourself as who you are we need women in the world too.
People will never know they were interacting with Sigma males....
What's kinda funny about this is I first heard of sigma male probably about a year ago. I am so very, very sigma. Even with me being very consistent, I've always been someone who people seem to never be able to figure out. I'm different from most people, they just can't figure me. And here I'm classic text book sigma. That makes me smile
I learned what the people that are quick to misunderstand you are actually the people you should be avoiding at all cost
Truth.
I strangely relate to most of them for the exception of phone calls. I prefer having a 5-10 minutes conversation by phone calls than a conversation dragged on for hours by texting.
I've been labeled a sigma male because I look forward to being alone. I read some traits of sigma males and it fits me, but this video listed 12 things that I myself do. Yep, I'm definitely a sigma and I didn't know such a think existed, but it makes sense now. Now I wonder if two sigma males get along better or do they clash? I think they wouldn't clash as my uncle is definitely a sigma and we get along great, but is that because he's my uncle or because we are both sigmas?
I think sigma male "get it" about each other, my best friends are similar to me and i understand the way they act because i do the same...just discovered the sigma profile with this video, quite interesting!
Sigma males... A lot of people think they are. Maybe, maybe not, but one thing I do know is this is a very wise type of human being. They are 'masters' of their craft, but do it without flashiness 📸. Of course 2 sigma males will get along. It would be like meeting a distant brother or long lost friend. However, being one, I notice we will always value solitude over any other person. I don't invest in friendships. Rather, investing into people's hearts, minds, and beings. These are very rare, passively dominant human beings apparently. Most their lives will be spent down a long lonely road, yet from within they will master it as well. 💯🌥️🔥
@@Tizzy-im7le Probably would get along pretty well because we would understand each other.
This made my day. I am glad that there are others like this.
All these are me, 100%. I retired from a successful career to live alone on the beach in Mexico. I time my walks on the beach when I know my chatty neighbors won't be there. I'm looking forward to the fall when there's almost nobody around here.
I ignore door bells coz if u didn’t call me I’m not answering.
I feel lazy talking on the phone.
I have the time of my life alone in my house
Same. I be chilling. Too much nonsense and aimless people just outdoors being degenerates.
you are a boring person
no social skills
nonsense
I can relate with all points, I never know I was of this mind set. Thanks for the info 🙂
Agree - this hits the nail on the head for introverted sigmas. I do all of these.
This explains a lot. Especially after being in a 8 hr conference or seminar and how I'm ready to just get back to my hotel room afterwards to just process everything and decompress.
Very accurate, I wonder where you compiled these traits?
I learned that I’m not just a regular weirdo from this video.
I’m gonna subscribe. I didn’t know what a sigma male was . I agree with every single point in the video.
Very interesting, this video was my first information about the term SIGMA MALE. I never fit in a box and even here - most of these things in the video describe me perfectly, but one thing is different: In the fields where I have my biggest potential, I just love being in the spotlight and entertain an audience with a lot of energy! These are rare moments but they are my highlights. Anyone else? Just curious as this point was not really discussed here, just mentioned in the part of sitting in the background UNLESS they have something important to say... Btw thank you for the information an well-made video. You just earned another subscriber @Wise Thinker
we are two
@@trollkenya Great to hear that!
Wow,well today i learned i am a sigma male and its nothing wrong with me,i am just misunderstood.And yes,i do really enjoy being alone or not being in center of attention or having small talks about how am i doing today and other stuff.I value my time and my privacy and i expect you to do the same.If you have nothing new to say or nothing important,dont bother me because i do have always have important stuff to do.And also,i do love just observing my surroundings and soaking in all the info,as well as being loyal friend but also able to cut off those who are just wasting my time.I am Sigma,and i love it!
This video describes me perfectly. I always considered myself an introvert. How do I know the difference between being introverted and being a sigma male?
I think if just introverted, you have emotions driving it like fear or nervousness. If you are a sigma, you just don't care and rather not be bothered talking to a whole bunch of people.
As I see it: Introverts are just people who consumed by their inner world rather than the outer world they live in which they develop some kind of "autopilot" for. That's OK as long as they are not doing it out of fear or shame. On the other hand, sigma males are self-sufficient observers who have amassed so much inner wealth that they can always go their own way without losing anything.
Irrelevant. Label yourself in whatever way makes you feel best about yourself.
Look up what an introvert is.
it's definitely me hahaha... u got all the info about myself.. 😂😁😂 that's why many hates me bcoz i like being alone i enjoy my time alone.
This is literally differences between Introverts and Extroverts, while having confidence as a prerequisite.
Thanks, everything in this video describes me in every aspect, now I find myself. But serious, it was quite weird for others because I just didn't care about social interactions.
Some corrections: Sigma males can be extroverts when they want to be. They are ambi-verts. They lead and recharge in crowds and they can recharge alone with a book. The "lone" is the introvert. The "wolf" is the extrovert.
The whole "does not answer the door" thing is weird. So we're all sigma males? Come on.
Same with chatty salesmen. Let's look a little deeper than this surface stuff.
You don't have to check all the boxes, just most of them.
Yep. Text only, and get straight to the point. Don’t text “how are you?” Unless what you actually want is attached to that msg, I don’t respond until they do.
Today every introvert thinks he's a sigma 🤣
Hahaha they do
Aren't they?
@@FortuneHeritage Nope
Me too.
Sounds like your not one either, your choice of words and your willingness to make that comment.
I keep saying this after seeing your previous video on sigma male, you just opened my eyes to understanding who i am, now I don’t have to be worried about it…
Being a Sigma male and a Stoic. This describes me to a tee. At my job, I work my tail off. Always one of the top sales managers each month, but when I walked out that door at the end of the day, I don’t want to be bothered by nobody 😂
Same here with me being in the medical field.
Cause you aren't there to make friends. I feel ya!
As a sigma male, I can verify that this is all true!
This is crazy, everything that was said is exactly my habits and thought process.
Great video, not so sure about smiling thing tho,but its just me.
If this is considered to be, "weird," I may just be the weirdest person there is, lol. All of this resonates with me... and has for well over 3 decades.
thank you, u have a keen observation bout the traits, keeps me wondering, u might be a sigma as well,, been watchin ur videos again n again, but never saw u in this vids, that is a sigma trait, heard but not seen,,, god bless
Never have I been described so perfectly. I relate to every point.
Great one
Lol this whole time I've been a Sigma Male. That part about avoiding big mouth people resonated with me
This was spot on.Thank you
Spot on.brother!!🤙🏼
Much appreciated!
i can relate to these... there are some people that i do want to be around and others that i don't
I don't like when people are flattering towards me and the reason might be that when I complement someone I try to make it stand out from every other complement they ever received and it tends to be something miniscule just to show that I'm paying attention to small details. I do it to make people feel good and this is usually a technique I use to start a conversation with a girl. Girl fall for it and they are all smile. However at the end of the day I didn't give a damn about what I was complementing. I just played with their mind to boost them. So when I get complicated it doesn't have any value to me.
So you are a wanna-be social manipulator/sociopath/Narcissist? Good for you bro. I hope we never meet!
Damn. This is so spot on! Why is it taking so long to discover this?
I feel complete when I am alone .
This makes a lot of sense. I thought I was the only one with this type of personality
So being sigma is just another word for saying you're an introvert?
Pretty much!
Similar traits but many introverts are overly worried about what others think of them, about trying to fit in, making a good impression, etc. A sigma say's "I am walking my own path. You can come along or don't, it doesn't make a difference to me."
@@godman5043 spot on. I’m the “it’s cool if you come over and I’m perfectly fine if you don’t.”
No, you've missed many points in this vid, there is so much more to being a sigma than being introvert... open your mind.
If you tell yourself that you are introvert, that doesn't sounds good. But if you say, you are a Sigma, that is a different level :D
It’s clear that this video resonates with a lot of men. So many videos assume that all men want to act like alphas (and I do mean “act”), but that simply isn’t the case. Many men are perfectly comfortable in their skins and don’t need to let everyone know that they are supposedly the dominant male.
One aspect of sigmas that this video doesn’t cover is that sigmas do indeed like to have fun. The traits listed in this video may make it seem like sigmas are overly serious. Many are serious, but some are goofy and funny as hell. And, most also have the ability to relax and have a great time.
That may entail getting together with a friend or friends. It may be, yes, having a small talk, light, fun conversation with someone. Or it may simply be doing something they enjoy - exercising, watching an educational video, reading, listening to music, etc.
Thanks for making this video. Great validation for all the sigmas out there.
Me me me me me me and me lol. Being an only child being alone is fine. Most of my buddies were Alphas, I wasn’t really into putting on the act to get the girls the way they did. I waited and found a girl I really had things in common with. It paid off been married for 30!yrs.
How did you do such a good job? Brilliant, this will be good for identifying other Sigma's. it's usually not hard. They don't talk too much! Cheers for the clarity
12 for 12 - Nailed it.
Wow thought I was strange 28 years just to stumble on a video that explains it all cool
I always thought I was just an introvert. Turns out I'm a sigma, lol
I agree with everything up until the phone part. It's more efficient to call most of the time to quickly convey a msg. Texting takes more time as you have to wait for each reply and can't analyze the person sending the msg.
This is 100% true. I have lost a few friends because if these traits. I'm still happy I'm a sigma😁
You nailed this video
I really didn't know I was a Sigma to this day. Frankly, I've never heard of it before. I've heard of Alphas, and Betas, but I didn't know how far does the alphabet go. I always thought that I was weird, antisocial, but I can relate to almost 90% of the description in this clip. It's good to know that I'm not weird, I'm just different from the majority of people 🙂
Exactly, kind of nice to hear all this as i was chalking it up to being antisocial or a bit of a jerk.
@@milehighboost5521 Same. Even my ex-wife would say I had no feelings and was a robot. I have emotions, just didn't feel the need to expend the energy required to display. Wasn't worth it. SIGMA and not the heartless jerk.
Couldn’t be more true.
Perfect video…
Wow this describes me so accurately, it got to the part about waiting till my neighbor comes inside to avoid the smalltalk when leaving, and yes thats me. I just know with knowledge that most people are Karens, and if they are talking to you it's because of their own agenda, again back to not wanting to waste time. Alot of experience with Narcissism and true nature of people that are still blue pill.
The thing about not wanting to leave when your neighbors are home not wanting to stop for small talk I'm constantly looking through my people to make sure I don't have to run into my neighbor this is crazy how accurate this person is
If someone has a problem with you for no apparent reason it's because, they view you as a threat and you have something they lack.
I live in a small community in Texas and have to deal with what you posted every day!
Spot on mate, spot on
Only person I trust at this point is Almighty God & mi granny
Lucky your gran is still alive
Spend time with her
how about yourself?
@@popsbubbles1242 she's in the attic - been pretty quiet these last few years
@@Unfunny_Username_389 bruh😭
jamaican?
I wish this video was around when I was dating back in the 1980's. My girlfriends could not comprehend why I would need periods of being alone and took alone-time to mean either I didn't love them, or I was up to something nefarious. There are people who mean everything to me, but I still need some alone time every day. My wife understands that, and I go out of my way to let her know how much I appreciate her understanding.
Right. Mine still doesn't understand and it's constantly draining hearing how I'm up to something or I don't love her blah blah blah I just tune her out and start over on my alone time lol
You're married , jeez lueez
Truth ☝
Great video while watching this video it seem like 12 ways to describe myself lol you weren’t wrong on any of them as I do them all
As a Sigma male, i assure you this is 99 % correct 😆
Thxs,,,this describes me perfectly
Sigmas are self-controlled villains
Oh wow, I just thought that I was just an odd duck introvert, this video is very freeing. Thank you
this guy hitting the nail so hard
This was pretty spot on for me too. I laughed on the part about leaving the house after the neighbors leave. I do that and I think it's kinda silly.
Alpha,Beta,Sigma....Whats next Gama,Iota?
Every person is unique.
This shouldn't put a label on anyone. I REPEAT! Every person is unique.
I remember the time where there was only Alpha and Beta , later on Sigma appeared. It's only a matter of time when a new one emerges.
Times change,so do people.
LGBQRT what's next? M(Machine?)
Best of Luck to everyone.Stay true to yourself!
Based from these values, now I know I'm a Sigma male, I choose real people to interact with but not too close, I try to manage to create space because I usually get toxicated when always around with people and get cluttered mind. so I choose to go alone outside, I don't want to compromise my choice of food for being with other people. I want to have fun alone with my own terms biking or walking no pressure of the group. I seldom. post on social media most of these are about nature and not me, haha, I am not interested being the social butterfly being the center or attention, so yeah this video speaks about me. 😅