That later 2 i dont mind because the spot light isnt on me. Way easier to fly under the radar. Christmas its kids who are in the spot light, New Years everyone is doing their own thing.
True, kids are the ones in the spot light on christmas but New Years you'll get unwanted calls, messages, from family or friends and acquaintances wishing you a happy New Year,,Bruh
Got kids? I use to hate Christmas as well. Felt empty. But now having kids and seeing the joy in there faces gives me joy as well. Merry Christmas by the way.
Hide your birthday on Social Media. Messages will virtually go to zero, because most people don't bother to remember birthdays anymore. Best thing I ever did. Now I get private messages wishing me a Happy Birthday from genuine people I have a connection with
I want to hide mine on FB, and need to google how to do it. I'm annoyed every year when I get hundreds of wishes from people I never communicate with on a regular basis!
@@educatedguess5093 Mine is hidden. I did it from the signing on. Being a Boomer, post me a birthday card, like folks did in the old days. I no longer get B cards in the post.
12:18: "There's something uniquely awkward about having a group of people sing to you while you sit there trying to figure out what to do with your face." Hilarious, and absolutely true.
I don't dislike it but I am indifferent. I like the fact that it IS my birthday, but I don't see any reason to tell anyone else about it. I don't get spurious attention because mostly only my family knows about it. I quite Facebook ten years ago so I don't get that avalanche of birthday greetings anymore. Frankly all my interactions through Facebook felt equally superficial. I've got better things to do.
i always felt like my birthday is the day when i have to be happy and smile about every gift i'm given. but the worst part and what made me hate it even more than that alone is that i genuinely cared about not disappointing my family members who try to make me happy that day. it's heartbreaking. been that way since i was a little kid. i was always the most unhappy on my birthday. when i got into my teens, they would stop planning birthdays for me and i wouldn't do it either. in my grown up life i always take care not to mention my birthday if not specifically asked for. i don't know many people anyway and so it's mostly a day like any other. i turned 40 this year and i didn't do a thing that i wouldn't do on any other day. well, one of my sisters called and she came to visit which was nice, actually. more attention than that is almost certainly too much though. btw: not even my best friend congratulated me and that's ok. we both don't much care about that stuff. he might be a sigma as well.
@@meh.7640 what’s to celebrate? You lied and held on to a planet with gravity for another ride around the sun…? Believing you are the special group of fanatics chosen for and by YOUR god ? What about the others ? If they are lesser, why are they given your gift of gravity! ( which isn’t doing you any favors) You did NOTHING to have a birthday. You didn’t even choose where you were when it started! Sadly , you don’t even change that, now that you could!
Yes, resonated very loudly. It explains a lot, thanks! Another time for me is Christmas. As a lone wolf, and single, it's a hard day. So are the other main celebration days. And it seems impossible to find a genuine, loving lady, capable of deep connection. I've made some bad relationship choices and it now seems like I'm late to the party, with all the great women already in relationships.
I have been working at the same establishment for 11 years, and everyone else i work with makes a big production out of their birthdays, and everyone is forced to know everyone else's birthday. Except for me. I don't announce it or mention it or bring it up. My birthday is no one else's business except mine. And i don't care when anyone else's is. If i want to treat myself special, i can do that on ANY day. And if you don't want to be disturbed on your birthday, you do know your phone has a 'Power Off' button. I don't see the big deal, it's just another day to me-nothing special.
@ We do it the other way round, it’s like blowing the light that guides or has being guiding you all along. It should be left burning and anyway all birthdays are wrong coz your birthday starts when one is conceived not when you are born.
i have watched a few of these. I concur, I am sigma. Birthdays, to me, happen every year, we all have them and they are not rare. Birthdays are way too hyped up.
My idea of a great birthday party was having a beer with a couple of buddies at a local pub. No preparation, no cleanup and a free beer or two. Freedom!!!!
I would rather buy myself a small cake (that I like); wish myself HBD and go eat cake and drink some wine in private. I dislike the "fuss". It is just another day.
Oh number 6! Have a story about this... Truthfully, I don't mind celebrating my birthdays. I like to at least take a few days off work around this time. 3 months ago a group of friends and I went to an Italian restaurant to celebrate mine. Nice little get-together or so I thought. However, after ordering dessert I noticed one of my friends get up and have a word with the waiters and waitresses by the kitchen entrance. Maybe sigma hyper-awareness! He arranged for a candle to be stuck into my cheesecake dessert and for the staff to sing “happy birthday“ to me. A nice gesture perhaps but I bloody hated this. Most of the other restaurant diners` eyes were on me. My reaction was recorded on another friend`s mobile phone. I was grinning like a Cheshire cat and blushing but deep down I felt uncomfortable. Also hated the fact that the waiter and waitresses were temporarily taken away from their duties to do this on a busy Friday evening.
I celebrate my birthday alone. What I hate most is that people who don´t care about me or even dislike or hate me suddenly want to shake my hand or even hug me. It´s disgusting... so yes, I agree with you.
Since we are talking about it - wishing everyone a silent and holy night. As soon it may occur. Ever thought about it, why this song got written exactly that way? Thats the stuff were magic is going on, in my opinion of course.
The only birthday day I remember was when I met my truest love, thus far. Was at a club and a gorgeous woman, a friend of a friend just grabbed my hand and forced me to dance with her. We then spent the next 7years together; with never a day without talking or seeing each other. She was French and I english, so the language barrier helped me to convince her that my family was simply celebrating our anniversary every year and that put the spotlight on her. It took her years before she found out when my birthday actually was. I never celebrated a birthday. 😅😂
Thanks. I never knew, I had a label (I don’t need one) but my personality has been validated by this video, as a small boy, over fifty years ago……I was ‘peculiar’, because I hated birthdays, particularly when my parents organised a party. I played my favourite party trick, which was staying on my room. I still play the same trick, when invited to parties these days - not going.
I would often forget it was my birthday until someone reminded me. Just never seemed like something worth celebrating. Everybody has one every year. And I don't care. 😆
I don't hate my birthday, but I don't get excited about it anymore. My birthday is January 2nd. Coincidentally, I think New Year's Eve is an overrated holiday. What I really don't like is wedding receptions. I'm ready to leave after dinner, but I need a valid reason to leave. Then comes the time when the bride and groom "spontaneously" shove cake in each other's faces. Who could've seen that coming? The bouquet toss is fine, but then comes the garter throw? Couldn't we have come up with something better? Some guy always shouts, "USE YOUR TEETH!" with the groom laughs with a red face. Thankfully I've been able to slip out and no one seems to have noticed.
I never celebrate or acknowledge my birthday. I also never share the date with anyone. Everyday is a blessing to me so I don’t need to “celebrate” a day I was born.
I grew up in foster care. I didn’t even know I had a birthday or what day it was till like 7-8 years old. But I never cared. I too hated how I was always asked and pressured to do something for my birthday. The people I have grown to call family and friends finally understand. If anything is done, it’s usually just an invitation to an experience. Let’s go fishing, let’s go to the sand dunes, let’s play poker. The focus is not me, it’s about spending time together. No cakes, no gifts, just pleasant fun memories with the people i love and respect.
Fortunately, I have a brother who's birthday is the day after mine and it's in the summer so, as a family, we usually celebrate our birthdays the same day and it's outside so we are not trapped in a house.
The worst part of your birthday is when your boss or employer highlight it to everyone during team meetings or in a group chat. They're not doing it to wish you well, they're doing it to try to control you.
Yep,for as long⌛ as I can remember, ever since I was a kid🧒 I have always thought that birthdays 🕯🎈🎉🎂are overrated. At 59 I'm just grateful I made it to another one.This describes it🎯 perfectly. I'm learning more about myself every day.
I definitely do not like feeling obligated to do anything that makes me uncomfortable. Being in a room with a bunch of family or friends or random people makes me uncomfortable. Especially during celebrations
I just hate all events where I have to sit inside all day in a function room or club for hours doing nothing. I like being outside on my days off being active. These events keep wasting my time. As a full time worker, I'll never get that time back. I don't drink, so find clubs and bars boring and insipid. I enjoy family functions in the evening as long as I'm not stuck inside for hours and hours.
Most birthdays growing up were pretty disappointing. As an adult, one of my best birthdays I had was spending the day with my significant other and sharing a box of donuts. If loved ones demand they sing me Happy Birthday with a cake, I demand the lyrics a friend of mine told me about: "You're closer to death, You're closer to dearh, You'll see the Grim Reaper As you draw your last breath." This happened once and now it seems there is no demand for it.
This is the reason I’m on no other social media but YT, all that digital connection to people I have no real connections with, ends up a hurricane of mock sincerity tossing me around, no thanks
ditto with Christmas tbh. Just had someone 'tease' me for where their card was (ffs, I gave them a rare call). I said i didn't want to set a precedent and it would only upset all the other people that I don't send a cards to. Tip for a quiet life, never work on your Birthday.
I don’t hate Birthdays, call me selfish but I love it when people I love show they’re thinking of me, however I do agree that there’s a performance at times and I do hate that. I also took down my Facebook and Instagram for the time being so I guess I can safely say I really don’t care for those type of birthday wishes anymore
i rather have a small circle of friend i can truly trust than having too much, it is not i don't care. i can see there it going. I rather enjoy my birthday with my family regardless what other might say
I don't hate my birthday. Why should a sigma hate his birthday? I don't go out out my way to celebrate it, or ask others to do anything special. I still get some gifts from close family, but not much more. I usually find myself working on my birthdays. It's usually a normal day for me with just some gifts/ special food from family before work. Same for Christmas holidays. Hate is too strong a word.
I also hate the time around Christmas. People who never call or visit you send you a card and wishing you well. In my family one family member does this. I think it's a kind of welfare check. When you send a card back, they know you're still alive.
I have no yt account, but can use this one. There is only one day that anyone is born in every life, the markings of the years thereafter are anniversaries. Yes, I know I have sigma traits, and I'm pleased I am not conventional. Who would have a tesla when they could have a w124 Mercedes estate? Who would have a house when they could have a camper van? Who would have a "friends" circle when they could have one or two real friends? Who would have notoriety when they could have privacy? Who would have worry when they could have contentment? Who would seek validation when they could be themselves? Who would rather use excessive energy in trivial conversations when they could have productive conversations with others who are wise? Who would have currency when they could have money? Yes, I'm very happy I have sigma traits.
I feel like birthday events and such niceties are simply superficial routine phenomenon that mark a time lapse where one has survived another orbit around our sun. I feel like such routines and rituals should only be reserved for small children, as a means to make them feel loved and supported by friends and family. Yes, maybe I feel this way because I'm bitter, but I'm less bitter about my parents never doing anything for my birthdays when I was young; I'm more bitter that such niceties were/are so common place for everyone else, even into their old age and that might make me feel obligated. Why should I do things for adults that were never done for me, even as a child? I don't want anyone's pity; I just don't want to feel obligated or guilt tripped into celebrating others in ways that I never was and never will be. The best birthday gift anyone can give me is a loyal friendship beyond just one day a year, without any regard to one specific day on a calendar or empty obligatory well wishes.
I dont like birthdays, cause they also is a reminder of getting older and older.. And the notifications you talk about,can be turned off...I have turned most notifications on my phone off..
We don't hate birthdays, we just wanted to celebrate our birthday in a unique way other than a cake and candles which look very gay and childish. E.g, inviting friends to eat meal in a house or some other place etc "Also I am very true to myself, Idk I am sigma or not, I never claim I was one however in our everybirthday, we know that each birthday mean you are one year closer to death which is why I am pray to God" Sigmas are realistic, always respect people, and never talk behind the back of people. It is more of like a stoicism men, calm, never too emotion, and I realize myself that a lot of girl attract to me even if I don't showoff and act normal. Maybe hardworking pays off from gym" Just sharing my experience, Thank you, God bless
I think it ludicrous a truly committed sigma would ever bother with cell phones, so much so that he's putting himself through the social torture described here, that you're under the sword if you don't respond quick enough, etc, etc, etc. I carry one, but only for when I want to dial out. It's off all other times, partly because I have a landline with screening messages as well. I couldn't care less what goes on with my cell, and I never give that number out to make it worse. Deal with me on landline, or not at all.
Most children never age in personality . Attend a child’s birthday watch the kids how they react , pay attention when the birthday kid gets a toy and the others don’t . This will continue to adulthood , it might seem innocent but it births greed in most unfortunately.
Oh, god I'm 48 and to this day hate my birthday! I'll buy something for myself. I'll take myself out to dinner. But, I've literally walked out of birthday parties for me.
Not that i hate it, but just wanna be grateful for everyday not just on my birthday😅 maybe that's why i don't perceive it as important as before anymore.
Apologies for the mistake in the numbering! It should be number 2 instead of 1. Just a small editing error, thanks for understanding! 😊
No problem.we all make mistakes 👍🏿
I agree. I never really liked celebrating my birthday either.
It happens. Don’t worry about it
Chill bro
Even editors need their coffee breaks! 🙃
100% I feel this not just about birthdays but also other calendar events that are more born out of social obligations than real feelings
Exactly! Like, I'm far from looking forward to even Christmas.
1000% FACTS
The sad reality is that we know we are not alone with our ways due to technology, but we are alone with our ways in our own social reality
It’s anything that forces us in a box. It isn’t just the social hierarchy is everything we do. We hate being in any type of box.
In full agreement with you Mr. tokyoman, in full agreement..
Unnecessary activities and expenses. I feel ashamed I am among those who caused headaches to my uncles and aunts when I was a kid.
Birthday, Christmas, New year, I'm always sad during these moments, even when surrounded by family.
That later 2 i dont mind because the spot light isnt on me. Way easier to fly under the radar. Christmas its kids who are in the spot light, New Years everyone is doing their own thing.
True, kids are the ones in the spot light on christmas but New Years you'll get
unwanted calls, messages, from family or friends
and acquaintances wishing you a happy New Year,,Bruh
Yep and try going against to flow. You'll be labeled ankill joy and rude, offensive even. Well they are the problem not you or me.
Don't be sad; be mutual... meaning not giving your energy...
Got kids? I use to hate Christmas as well. Felt empty. But now having kids and seeing the joy in there faces gives me joy as well. Merry Christmas by the way.
Hide your birthday on Social Media. Messages will virtually go to zero, because most people don't bother to remember birthdays anymore. Best thing I ever did. Now I get private messages wishing me a Happy Birthday from genuine people I have a connection with
I want to hide mine on FB, and need to google how to do it. I'm annoyed every year when I get hundreds of wishes from people I never communicate with on a regular basis!
A fella an intuitive fella wouldn't be broadcasting his birthday nor the day he was born on social media ...
@@educatedguess5093 Mine is hidden. I did it from the signing on. Being a Boomer, post me a birthday card, like folks did in the old days. I no longer get B cards in the post.
Same
I did that too lol and every year I remind my family no birthday shout outs on social media
12:18: "There's something uniquely awkward about having a group of people sing to you while you sit there trying to figure out what to do with your face."
Hilarious, and absolutely true.
and singing out of key.
Word
many people told me why u are so pokerface on ur birthday ? im like why not?!
@@MichaelPiz while singing out of key
I'm 60 yrs old and I've spent literally years with my dogs on my "B-Day"....wouldn't have it any other way.!!!
Almost envious of the uninterrupted loyal unconditional love you must be receiving
You, my friend, have found true happiness
I don't dislike it but I am indifferent. I like the fact that it IS my birthday, but I don't see any reason to tell anyone else about it. I don't get spurious attention because mostly only my family knows about it.
I quite Facebook ten years ago so I don't get that avalanche of birthday greetings anymore. Frankly all my interactions through Facebook felt equally superficial. I've got better things to do.
💯
I'm nonchalant about in my birthday.
Exactly..sigma should be indifferent. Random people send me happy birthday and I say thanks. End of story.
i always felt like my birthday is the day when i have to be happy and smile about every gift i'm given. but the worst part and what made me hate it even more than that alone is that i genuinely cared about not disappointing my family members who try to make me happy that day. it's heartbreaking. been that way since i was a little kid. i was always the most unhappy on my birthday. when i got into my teens, they would stop planning birthdays for me and i wouldn't do it either. in my grown up life i always take care not to mention my birthday if not specifically asked for. i don't know many people anyway and so it's mostly a day like any other. i turned 40 this year and i didn't do a thing that i wouldn't do on any other day. well, one of my sisters called and she came to visit which was nice, actually. more attention than that is almost certainly too much though.
btw: not even my best friend congratulated me and that's ok. we both don't much care about that stuff. he might be a sigma as well.
@@meh.7640 what’s to celebrate? You lied and held on to a planet with gravity for another ride around the sun…? Believing you are the special group of fanatics chosen for and by YOUR god ? What about the others ? If they are lesser, why are they given your gift of gravity! ( which isn’t doing you any favors) You did NOTHING to have a birthday. You didn’t even choose where you were when it started! Sadly , you don’t even change that, now that you could!
Yes, resonated very loudly. It explains a lot, thanks! Another time for me is Christmas. As a lone wolf, and single, it's a hard day. So are the other main celebration days. And it seems impossible to find a genuine, loving lady, capable of deep connection. I've made some bad relationship choices and it now seems like I'm late to the party, with all the great women already in relationships.
You talk like a Beta though ;)
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
It's because we often forget, someone once asked me how old I was, I honestly didn't know. I had to count back the years to make sure.
So true
Correct
I have been working at the same establishment for 11 years, and everyone else i work with makes a big production out of their birthdays, and everyone is forced to know everyone else's birthday. Except for me. I don't announce it or mention it or bring it up. My birthday is no one else's business except mine. And i don't care when anyone else's is. If i want to treat myself special, i can do that on ANY day. And if you don't want to be disturbed on your birthday, you do know your phone has a 'Power Off' button. I don't see the big deal, it's just another day to me-nothing special.
Birthday is a ritual done to dim ones light . A candle is the only object that gives you light while it’s sacrificing its own death.
Yup , it would make more sense to light up a candle rather than blowing it out . 🫡
@
We do it the other way round, it’s like blowing the light that guides or has being guiding you all along. It should be left burning and anyway all birthdays are wrong coz your birthday starts when one is conceived not when you are born.
Making a wish???? Ridiculous 😂
@@woodgrainstudios7321
Instead It should be dim the wish.
i have watched a few of these. I concur, I am sigma. Birthdays, to me, happen every year, we all have them and they are not rare. Birthdays are way too hyped up.
My idea of a great birthday party was having a beer with a couple of buddies at a local pub. No preparation, no cleanup and a free beer or two. Freedom!!!!
That does not sound bad at all..
I would rather buy myself a small cake (that I like); wish myself HBD and go eat cake and drink some wine in private. I dislike the "fuss". It is just another day.
Real
Great topic choice brother
Wow, is that spot on. I never felt comfortable with the attention that came with my birthday.
Oh number 6! Have a story about this...
Truthfully, I don't mind celebrating my birthdays. I like to at least take a few days off work around this time. 3 months ago a group of friends and I went to an Italian restaurant to celebrate mine. Nice little get-together or so I thought. However, after ordering dessert I noticed one of my friends get up and have a word with the waiters and waitresses by the kitchen entrance. Maybe sigma hyper-awareness! He arranged for a candle to be stuck into my cheesecake dessert and for the staff to sing “happy birthday“ to me.
A nice gesture perhaps but I bloody hated this. Most of the other restaurant diners` eyes were on me. My reaction was recorded on another friend`s mobile phone. I was grinning like a Cheshire cat and blushing but deep down I felt uncomfortable. Also hated the fact that the waiter and waitresses were temporarily taken away from their duties to do this on a busy Friday evening.
The one way to deal with my birthdays is to put fake dates on social media. Hahaha
You don't need to have your bd on social media
😆 what's with giving cards, am i supposed to regularly look at them and feel joy, how long should i leave them on the shelf???🥴😆😉❤️
Another great one guys 😎 creepy spot on yet again
I celebrate my birthday alone. What I hate most is that people who don´t care about me or even dislike or hate me suddenly want to shake my hand or even hug me. It´s disgusting...
so yes, I agree with you.
Since we are talking about it - wishing everyone a silent and holy night. As soon it may occur.
Ever thought about it, why this song got written exactly that way? Thats the stuff were magic is going on, in my opinion of course.
The only birthday day I remember was when I met my truest love, thus far. Was at a club and a gorgeous woman, a friend of a friend just grabbed my hand and forced me to dance with her. We then spent the next 7years together; with never a day without talking or seeing each other. She was French and I english, so the language barrier helped me to convince her that my family was simply celebrating our anniversary every year and that put the spotlight on her. It took her years before she found out when my birthday actually was. I never celebrated a birthday. 😅😂
Spot on that goes holidays for me as well
This is on point!!!! 100%
True, birthdays party's not for me .
Thanks @Wise.Thinker
For me, as many other "so called celebrations": too loud, too crowdy and generally not comfortable "another social duty".
Thank you for helping me understand myself.
Thanks. I never knew, I had a label (I don’t need one) but my personality has been validated by this video, as a small boy, over fifty years ago……I was ‘peculiar’, because I hated birthdays, particularly when my parents organised a party. I played my favourite party trick, which was staying on my room. I still play the same trick, when invited to parties these days - not going.
I would often forget it was my birthday until someone reminded me.
Just never seemed like something worth celebrating.
Everybody has one every year. And I don't care. 😆
Yep you hit the head of a nail on this one. 👍👍👍👍
Been this way for my whole life, sorta forced myself to get into Christmas this year '24 and it feels pretty good😂
I don't hate my birthday, but I don't get excited about it anymore. My birthday is January 2nd. Coincidentally, I think New Year's Eve is an overrated holiday.
What I really don't like is wedding receptions. I'm ready to leave after dinner, but I need a valid reason to leave. Then comes the time when the bride and groom "spontaneously" shove cake in each other's faces. Who could've seen that coming? The bouquet toss is fine, but then comes the garter throw? Couldn't we have come up with something better? Some guy always shouts, "USE YOUR TEETH!" with the groom laughs with a red face. Thankfully I've been able to slip out and no one seems to have noticed.
I put a fake birthday on my social media profile and mark don't show my birthday lol
I never celebrate or acknowledge my birthday. I also never share the date with anyone.
Everyday is a blessing to me so I don’t need to “celebrate” a day I was born.
I grew up in foster care. I didn’t even know I had a birthday or what day it was till like 7-8 years old. But I never cared. I too hated how I was always asked and pressured to do something for my birthday. The people I have grown to call family and friends finally understand. If anything is done, it’s usually just an invitation to an experience. Let’s go fishing, let’s go to the sand dunes, let’s play poker. The focus is not me, it’s about spending time together. No cakes, no gifts, just pleasant fun memories with the people i love and respect.
I never had a real birthday with real cool friends and I spend my birthdays all by myself all my life
The coolest friend a Sigma can have is ... himself.
Fortunately, I have a brother who's birthday is the day after mine and it's in the summer so, as a family, we usually celebrate our birthdays the same day and it's outside so we are not trapped in a house.
A birthday is just celebrating that you are not dead yet
The worst part of your birthday is when your boss or employer highlight it to everyone during team meetings or in a group chat.
They're not doing it to wish you well, they're doing it to try to control you.
Yep,for as long⌛ as I can remember, ever since I was a kid🧒 I have always thought that birthdays 🕯🎈🎉🎂are overrated. At 59 I'm just grateful I made it to another one.This describes it🎯 perfectly. I'm learning more about myself every day.
I definitely do not like feeling obligated to do anything that makes me uncomfortable. Being in a room with a bunch of family or friends or random people makes me uncomfortable. Especially during celebrations
I like this youtube chanel
I just hate all events where I have to sit inside all day in a function room or club for hours doing nothing.
I like being outside on my days off being active. These events keep wasting my time. As a full time worker, I'll never get that time back. I don't drink, so find clubs and bars boring and insipid.
I enjoy family functions in the evening as long as I'm not stuck inside for hours and hours.
Well ... Well ... Well. Im now satisfied.. that Im not the only one. Thank you. Its a big relief. All Callender days are awful for me.
Most birthdays growing up were pretty disappointing. As an adult, one of my best birthdays I had was spending the day with my significant other and sharing a box of donuts.
If loved ones demand they sing me Happy Birthday with a cake, I demand the lyrics a friend of mine told me about:
"You're closer to death,
You're closer to dearh,
You'll see the Grim Reaper
As you draw your last breath."
This happened once and now it seems there is no demand for it.
Fascinating, alot of this isn't true, but some is relevant. Botoh, coming from a sigma intro.
This is the reason I’m on no other social media but YT, all that digital connection to people I have no real connections with, ends up a hurricane of mock sincerity tossing me around, no thanks
This video is full of devastating truths for hypocrites...
How can it be a special day when millions of other people were basically born on that same day?🙄🤔.
Friends have expectations for the birthdays of the people they actually know.
@@danielkaiser8971 Yet,are those really friends? Their expectations have no say on how a person chooses to celebrate their own birthday.
Couldn't agree more.
Eve since my mum passed away I've basically tried to sleep through my birthday that's is how much I like it lol
ALWAYS ON POINT MAN. U MUST BE A SIGMA👍
ditto with Christmas tbh. Just had someone 'tease' me for where their card was (ffs, I gave them a rare call). I said i didn't want to set a precedent and it would only upset all the other people that I don't send a cards to. Tip for a quiet life, never work on your Birthday.
All the good milestones are behind me. Birthdays are just another year closer to the grave. I'd rather just spend the day alone.
I have walked out of my own party because I told everyone "do not sing" and they did anyway
Baller Sigma move
Something I might do next time people do this to me! 🤣
I don’t hate Birthdays, call me selfish but I love it when people I love show they’re thinking of me, however I do agree that there’s a performance at times and I do hate that. I also took down my Facebook and Instagram for the time being so I guess I can safely say I really don’t care for those type of birthday wishes anymore
i rather have a small circle of friend i can truly trust than having too much, it is not i don't care. i can see there it going. I rather enjoy my birthday with my family regardless what other might say
I don't hate my birthday. Why should a sigma hate his birthday?
I don't go out out my way to celebrate it, or ask others to do anything special. I still get some gifts from close family, but not much more.
I usually find myself working on my birthdays. It's usually a normal day for me with just some gifts/ special food from family before work. Same for Christmas holidays.
Hate is too strong a word.
I also hate the time around Christmas.
People who never call or visit you send you a card and wishing you well.
In my family one family member does this.
I think it's a kind of welfare check.
When you send a card back, they know you're still alive.
The same reason anyone else hates their birthday. Who wants to be reminded that your time on earth is coming to an end
I have no yt account, but can use this one.
There is only one day that anyone is born in every life, the markings of the years thereafter are anniversaries. Yes, I know I have sigma traits, and I'm pleased I am not conventional.
Who would have a tesla when they could have a w124 Mercedes estate? Who would have a house when they could have a camper van? Who would have a "friends" circle when they could have one or two real friends? Who would have notoriety when they could have privacy? Who would have worry when they could have contentment? Who would seek validation when they could be themselves? Who would rather use excessive energy in trivial conversations when they could have productive conversations with others who are wise? Who would have currency when they could have money? Yes, I'm very happy I have sigma traits.
I love my birthday; I take myself out and usually buy something nice. Screw everyone else.
I feel like birthday events and such niceties are simply superficial routine phenomenon that mark a time lapse where one has survived another orbit around our sun. I feel like such routines and rituals should only be reserved for small children, as a means to make them feel loved and supported by friends and family.
Yes, maybe I feel this way because I'm bitter, but I'm less bitter about my parents never doing anything for my birthdays when I was young; I'm more bitter that such niceties were/are so common place for everyone else, even into their old age and that might make me feel obligated. Why should I do things for adults that were never done for me, even as a child? I don't want anyone's pity; I just don't want to feel obligated or guilt tripped into celebrating others in ways that I never was and never will be. The best birthday gift anyone can give me is a loyal friendship beyond just one day a year, without any regard to one specific day on a calendar or empty obligatory well wishes.
Agree. 💯
I dont like birthdays, cause they also is a reminder of getting older and older.. And the notifications you talk about,can be turned off...I have turned most notifications on my phone off..
We don't hate birthdays, we just wanted to celebrate our birthday in a unique way other than a cake and candles which look very gay and childish. E.g, inviting friends to eat meal in a house or some other place etc
"Also I am very true to myself, Idk I am sigma or not, I never claim I was one however in our everybirthday, we know that each birthday mean you are one year closer to death which is why I am pray to God"
Sigmas are realistic, always respect people, and never talk behind the back of people. It is more of like a stoicism men, calm, never too emotion, and I realize myself that a lot of girl attract to me even if I don't showoff and act normal. Maybe hardworking pays off from gym"
Just sharing my experience, Thank you, God bless
Identify with a minimal digital impact no phones since 2019
No need to celebrate we have one less year to live. But I do celebrate my kid's and wife birthday, they should feel the joy of their day
I think it ludicrous a truly committed sigma would ever bother with cell phones, so much so that he's putting himself through the social torture described here, that you're under the sword if you don't respond quick enough, etc, etc, etc. I carry one, but only for when I want to dial out. It's off all other times, partly because I have a landline with screening messages as well. I couldn't care less what goes on with my cell, and I never give that number out to make it worse. Deal with me on landline, or not at all.
This is actually pretty funny cause my birthday was 2 days ago on December 19th 😂. But I don't hate birthdays, it's just any other day for me
I don't hate my birthday, I just prefer to celebrate it by maybe treating myself to lunch or something, and that's it.
Not just birthday also new year wishes. Tomorrow am even planing to off my phone.
What to celebrate? Just a date? No way. And especially to attract external attention, yes.
I don't necessarily hate my born on earth day; however I don't celebrate it... it's just another day... on /of the calendar year, I'm indifferent.
Had one birthday party at 50 n mf’s couldn’t even see me be happy with that.
Lol
Most children never age in personality . Attend a child’s birthday watch the kids how they react , pay attention when the birthday kid gets a toy and the others don’t . This will continue to adulthood , it might seem innocent but it births greed in most unfortunately.
An emotional costume you're forced to wear...100%
I hate my birthday
Watching days before my birthday 😭
Oh, god I'm 48 and to this day hate my birthday! I'll buy something for myself. I'll take myself out to dinner. But, I've literally walked out of birthday parties for me.
I can relate to that in general ( same vintage ) have a look for the name of a song 👉 song formerly known as 🇦🇺 band regulator
There's a reason I don't use any social media. WhatsApp is bad enough. lol.
Not that i hate it, but just wanna be grateful for everyday not just on my birthday😅 maybe that's why i don't perceive it as important as before anymore.
"TIME FOR ME IS NOTHING CAUSE IM COUNTING NO AGE" 😎
I don't hate my birthday. I just don't celebrate it.
i had sweaty palms and hightened pulse theoughout the video. because…yes. yes. fax.
I STILL LIKE THE EVALUATIONS THERE'RE QUITE ENTERTAINING 👍
God Bless.
For those that were born on Christmas Day
Present 😊
Is it odd that this was posted on my birthday? And yes, I have come to despise the attention paid to it.
the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real
Turn the phone off. Feel no obligation or guilt. Respond as you wish, not as expected.
I'm indifferent to my birthday but I wouldn't say that I hate it.
Birthdays and Christmas
D best gift in checking ur ph 2 nt 2 c wats isnt der. I think i havnt reached tht point in my life yet
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
Wow, thought i was almost alone in preferring nothing but a dinner with wife and kids. Surprised this falls into sigma as well.
everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki