As a 68yo….”friends (and family) is greatly over-rated, if I’m being my Sigma self. As such, my circle was largest in my 20s-30’s…but gradually disappeared by my 40s. No sweat!
My exit had to be quiet. Nobody cared, or even noticed. Proves I made the right decision. Pain is the best teacher. The drill instructor inside all of us.
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to be friend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people and taking away from their time resources.
I'm a bit of the opposite. I offer meaningful friendship and that is rarely reciprocated. It becomes very clear very quickly when someone has no intention of being a real friend, and that's when I walk away. I have very few friends except when someone needs or wants something.
This is 100% me but I met a woman that knows my thoughts and what I am thinking so that kind of made me feel uncomfortable because that means I felt completely safe with her but I also knew I needed to tight up my security. She’s the only one that I can be 100% me as the rest hate my honesty but I tell them you asked a question and I answered. I tell people don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to it. I don’t sugar coat things just to make someone happy or say what they want to hear. Am me and even if I care about you and your feelings and emotions I’ll still be blunt and honest even if it will make you become emotional and lose it. So I often times will ask people if they really want me to answer the question a few times before I answer it.
Your life becomes peaceful when you don’t have disingenuous people in your energy backward individuals make up most of society few are worth the effort.
"In the grand scheme of things" I apparently don't have any problems, and my only usefulness is to listen to others difficulties and let them vent. No thanks I'm good, and don't want to hear it anymore !!
Thank you. I’ve recently come across these types of sigma teachings and have found comfort in them. It’s funny when you try to share this with family and others to help them understand, they usually struggle and don’t fully embrace it. Honestly this makes perfect sense because we who know, have dealt with this misunderstanding and separation all our lives. Peace
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to befriend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people taking away from their time resources. I also get annoyed, knowing that most people come to people with problems and wanting to went aren’t really looking for solutions to what’s bothering them. Im a man, I’m logical and reasonable and we waste my time if you’re not going to implement solutions.
That "mask" is actually not figurative, its so real that it is frightening! It was almost plastered on to my face, i got the chills to my bones when it was very close getting plastered on to my face. I just wanted to try it and it was one of the biggest lessons of my life.
Today I asked a person a question.... He just knoded his head... It was not a YES OR NO... SO HE WAS NOT LISTENING TO THE QUESTION.. JUST LOOKING LKE HE WAS LISTENING.. I DONT NEED THIS...
Yeah. "Explanations" are nothing more than a barrage of lies with the intent of simply wearing you down to the point where you give in and except the wrong-doing so they can continue using you. I don't have the time and patience for that garbage. If I tell you you effed up then fix yourself or get lost. Simple. Honest.
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First time I've heard this side verbalized.
"Nail on the head" comes to mind.
I hate fake people. Fake laughter is a clear signal that someone is fake, and it's pretty easy to spot.
As a 68yo….”friends (and family) is greatly over-rated, if I’m being my Sigma self. As such, my circle was largest in my 20s-30’s…but gradually disappeared by my 40s. No sweat!
The old adage...I rather be alone than wish I were.
My exit had to be quiet.
Nobody cared, or even noticed.
Proves I made the right decision.
Pain is the best teacher.
The drill instructor inside all of us.
we are good at spotting grifters, users, con artists. Truth hurts , they hate honest feedback.
Yes.
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to be friend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people and taking away from their time resources.
I'm a bit of the opposite. I offer meaningful friendship and that is rarely reciprocated. It becomes very clear very quickly when someone has no intention of being a real friend, and that's when I walk away. I have very few friends except when someone needs or wants something.
I don't do well with fake friends. I will ditch them, especially if they lie to me or spot a weakness in their storyline.
Yes they get one chance to walk the tight rope.
I wish there was a forum or social group for JUST sigmas. So no time is wasted looking for like minded friends.
if you find one let me know
This is 100% me but I met a woman that knows my thoughts and what I am thinking so that kind of made me feel uncomfortable because that means I felt completely safe with her but I also knew I needed to tight up my security. She’s the only one that I can be 100% me as the rest hate my honesty but I tell them you asked a question and I answered. I tell people don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to it. I don’t sugar coat things just to make someone happy or say what they want to hear. Am me and even if I care about you and your feelings and emotions I’ll still be blunt and honest even if it will make you become emotional and lose it. So I often times will ask people if they really want me to answer the question a few times before I answer it.
Your life becomes peaceful when you don’t have disingenuous people in your energy backward individuals make up most of society few are worth the effort.
People might think that this is nonsense. But surprisingly they nail a lot of important lessons about life in this video.
You're still heavy hitting brother! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Thanks!
"In the grand scheme of things" I apparently don't have any problems, and my only usefulness is to listen to others difficulties and let them vent. No thanks I'm good, and don't want to hear it anymore !!
Everybody has few real friends but they know a lot of people dose not make them friends
Thank you. I’ve recently come across these types of sigma teachings and have found comfort in them.
It’s funny when you try to share this with family and others to help them understand, they usually struggle and don’t fully embrace it.
Honestly this makes perfect sense because
we who know, have dealt with this misunderstanding and separation all our lives. Peace
Yes I am not antisocial but there are no suitable people who can hold a conversation with me because they can't go that far😅
Same.
I know the feeling. Meaningful chats are rare
Anyone trying to go to Mars? How we doing this?
"Aloneness is the presence of one's self" - Unknown
They all love to help as long as it does not cost them anything.
Like sending hearted emojis.😅😅😅😅😅
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to befriend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people taking away from their time resources.
I also get annoyed, knowing that most people come to people with problems and wanting to went aren’t really looking for solutions to what’s bothering them. Im a man, I’m logical and reasonable and we waste my time if you’re not going to implement solutions.
😂😂😂Over time, I realized it's best to avoid those situations altogether; for me, discussing a problem without taking action just doesn’t make sense.
Absolutely 💯
Well said.
Nail it 👍👍
That "mask" is actually not figurative, its so real that it is frightening! It was almost plastered on to my face, i got the chills to my bones when it was very close getting plastered on to my face. I just wanted to try it and it was one of the biggest lessons of my life.
Today I asked a person a question....
He just knoded his head...
It was not a YES OR NO...
SO HE WAS NOT LISTENING TO THE QUESTION..
JUST LOOKING LKE HE WAS LISTENING..
I DONT NEED THIS...
Present 😊
Thanks!
I have managed to live for six decades without ever once having a friend.
Experience.
💥💯💥
What is the song in this video?
It doesn’t have a name. Just a combination of numbers and letters
@@Wise.ThinkerI've been wondering the same thing. Your videos have really good music & it adds to the effect of the video.
Appreciate it!
@@Wise.Thinker Let it be known as "Alpha Numerical"!!!! Just people will confuse the Alpha part..... 😂😮
Number 3️⃣ is me to a tee,free therapy for whoever needs it
Beware of “blood brothers” they’re usually the first to split when something happens
Facts
We sigmas are just socially inept.
Gospel
100%❤❤❤
🎯
All 7 things happened with me😂
no need
I looked and found none
Hey, that's me!
We don't get this far as mentioned in video as we know it's all fake so just don't bother in the first place
Yeah. "Explanations" are nothing more than a barrage of lies with the intent of simply wearing you down to the point where you give in and except the wrong-doing so they can continue using you. I don't have the time and patience for that garbage. If I tell you you effed up then fix yourself or get lost. Simple. Honest.
To much rubbish out there 😡
Sigma males are Dutch.
Yeah I knew there was nothin wrong with me,
It’s all those other freaks 😂
💯🔥🔥🔥🔥💥🫵