When I was friends with my husband before we were dating and consequently married I had no idea he was interested in me. I knew I loved talking to him and his company, but one day I touched his arm and his pupils dilated. That's when I knew he had the same feelings for me. No joke, been happily together 20+ years. Raised a family. Excellent father and husband. Glad I cracked his code.
That's just the sigma system, using more time than most. We want to evaluate you on the friend level, where we can see more red flags, than stupidly starting off with the romance angle, where we're blind to everything. I'm curious if your husband was even using a system like that at all, and didn't just sort of stumble into it instead? It's shame to call it a system, because society should really be that way, where romance is earned, not the first damn thing. Tell me, when you say "one day you touched his arm" did that mean this was a fairly regular occurrence of you touching him, or possibly the actual first time? Yes, we need more sigma's in the world, so that the young sigma's won't find so many women who are surprised some guys take their time.
@charles2241 it's a personality, myself I try to b a better version of myself on a daily basis! Its. A pace very difficult for women. We don't talk much, constant inventory of myself keeps. This recovering Alcoholic moving forward One ❤️
Either you have a Sigma's characteristics or not. You knew this when you were a kid but didn't know why you were the way you were about not following a group. Sigmas were those types who stood up against bullies, those who believed they were Alphas. Sigmas are truly a very small number of people. These are the ones with balls or those who are not afraid to change or leave a ridiculous situation no matter how much the monetary or material gains.
I was different from everyone else in my family while growing up. I simply didn't mesh with anybody - church, school, social circles, anything. I discovered the Sigma archetype and it described me perfectly.
I did precisely the same thing. Observing my siblings and parents and knowing I stood out as completely different, that i came from a different mould entirely.
I was always different. I liked to be alone. I preferred solitary sports. I had a few real friends. We are still friends decades later. I always played the "long game". All of my long term goals have come true.
nothing wrong with being the odd one - i have been told i was " one out of the box" many times - my reply " why be in the box crowded in with everyone else with limits around us, see how much space and freedom i have out here "
If you are implying you are of the Sigma personality type, you should know that Sigmas do not require validation from others in order to feel good about themselves or to function/thrive in society. You should know there is nothing wrong with you in general before even seeing a RUclips video. Maybe I am misunderstanding you but that’s what it seems like. Sigmas think on their own and for themselves. I definitely don’t agree with everything these sigma videos say. All sigmas are different and unique in their own way while still carrying some of the same/similar traits a standard sigma male would typically have. Some people just do not know who they are yet in this world and how they fit into/or don’t fit into society. It usually takes a man up into his late 20s early 30s to actually establish and know who he really is, and that is ok! With women it is much different and they learn themselves very quickly.
@@MasterKushPlant420 I understand where he’s coming from. I myself had doubts on my personality type from teens to now (just turned 30). I used to seek validation from others, and that’s normal because we are social beings. I would seek validation not necessarily for their approval of who I was but rather because I wanted to fit in. I criticized a lot people, I don’t think I am a genius but compared to some of the people I have met or spoken to I thought I was surrounded by morons most of the time. I only respect people that are successful by merit and not some show off who had a relatively comfortable life but likes to boast about their position in life. In conclusion, I was concerned that I was cold, shallow, a narcissist at times. But I know I am a good person to my capacity and I do show love and affection to the close people in my life. So those were my doubts, we all have them, we are human. Nowadays, I try to stay away from the drama and focus on myself as a man. If I do seek relationships, I am careful who I acquaint myself with these days.
@@MasterKushPlant420 Took me 35 years to get my sigma male characteristics sorted out for myself and out in the open. I envy those men who come to this point in life much earlier than me, I lost a lot of time figuring myself out, and made a lot of - in hindsight - mistakes. Lucky me they lead me to where I am now with 53.
Being a Sigma and a pro musician it confused the hell out of people. I wasnt doing it for acceptance, appreciation, attention etc I did it to achieve my own goals, and to challenge myself, a good gig for me was a gig where I made the least amount of mistakes, or where I felt especially connected to the music etc. In fact I often felt uncomfortable when people would compliment my music or performances etc. It was a strange experience for sure
Yes sir 👏. Myself started my first goal in my 20,s started running. When I saw my first " IRONMAN COMPETITION" 1981. WATCHING THIS INCREDIBLE JOURNEY. WITH MY YOUNEST BROTHERS THEY ASKED " THINK YOU CAN DO THIS" ANSWER. " I KNOW I CAN" (5) YEARS OF SERIOUS TRAINING. WITH MY ❤️ RUNNING BUDDIES. TRAINING WITH ME. ( COMPLETED 1986 off Hyannis port Massachusetts, 3rd Amazing thing my imagination took me on a journey. I will never forget One ❤️ STAY SIGMA
Well put, and can totally relate. . . As a dedicated musician myself. . We do it primarily for our own achievement and growth, not to just impress others, altho that is ok too. . . Blessings. . .
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Wrong. Logic and goals do not always mean the "right" thing according an outsider looking at a given situation. This type is not a white knight by nature
Non-verbal also includes touching. It can be seen as a bold move by women and it definitely gets their attention especially if you're getting to know each other. You have to be slick while doing it. An "accidental" bump into her while walking or touching her arm or hand like you don't even realize you're doing it even though you know exactly what you're doing.
Ain't this more alpha than sigma? I'm sigma and INTJ. I don't perform a touch and pretend it was accidental, because i'm true and sincere, and i'm a bad actor, i would give it away it's false or acted upon. If i want touch, I plan accurately the situation so that it will evolve in a manner that an accidental touch will eventually happen. I don't act. I plan and execute on the conditions that create a situation. While in the situation i created, touch is unavoidable occurrence that just happens without need for acting on either side. I can be sincerly surprised of the touch, because i planned and executed for facilitating conditions, but not for the actual moment itself.
@@ideegenialiI think it depends entirely on how well you know the girl. With a girl you know pretty well, just friends say, you might do it as a game, not as a cheap feel, or trying to convey a hidden message through it. As playful with girls as sigma's can be, he may be doing it simply to counter his usual completely hands-off approach. For example, what could qualify as my only GF, we were great together, but we never got to romancing or dating, but we were quite playful. Other than one time specifically, I don't think I ever touched her, except really by accident, and like anybody touched by accident nobody notices it. We did, however touch once, and it was very silly. We commonly worked side-by-side, and this case was no exception. She had just returned from a week's vacation, and at the time I wasn't aware I was in love with her, but knew she was a super friend. When I saw her come into that place for the first time in a week, my heart leapt from my chest, showing how badly it missed her. Apparently, she felt the same way, and we spontaneously started singing the song "Reunited" which was popular at the time, and we had a very small dance where we hit each other's butts together a couple of times. I'll never forget that time, and I still see it in my mind. Unfortunately, I never knew anything about her, other than how well she worked (I was her boss), and she was so good, I'd imagine any sigma would've been proud to have her, even just as a friend. Back to topic more so, I'd heard about guys and gals doing that sort of accidental on purpose touching, and I felt the same way about it too. As well, I wanted to be WAY above board, and if anybody was going to touch somebody sneaky like that, it would have to be the girl touching me, at least until I was fairly comfortably with her. I knew a cheerleader that sat behind me in journalism class (but at that time I'd never met her), and she had her hands on my shoulders, back, and neck probably as soon as I sat down that first day, and it kept up ALL YEAR. There's more of a story to that, but yes, I've had my share of women touching me, but I'm ignoring it and not touching back. That's another kind of hilarious game, where she's touching you in front of an entire class, and you pretend it's not going on (although at first I was like "WTH!!!!?). We sigma's can ignore to almost legendary levels😄. It's definitely a sigma superpower.
don't bother caring what others think, be yourself and the right people will gravitate towards you, speaking from experience as a person that is still discovering himself for who i truly am. kept making the mistake of trying to be who others wanted me to be. keep discovering your true self and stay on your own course. We are a special breed we dont need the approval of the majority👍
Yes. Sigma males are a misunderstood mystery. They are not full of polar traits. They vary, especially while growing up and aging like a bottle of wine.
Spock in Star Trek is the epitome of Sigma. He advised the Alpha Captain but when the chips were down would step in and lead the group. Then when it was all clear he would fade back into the background and let the Captain take center stage.
I noticed you often mention "if you want to learn more" Nothing wrong with that but you can not learn the traits, it is in you. I relate to much of what you post (since I was a kid) but I had no idea it is rare in the general population. Thank you for your posts
It's crazy how some people don't believe sigma males don't exists when we have a whole community of them am more reserve myself but am very grounded in my beliefs am like a silencer quiet 🤐 but deadly 😤
They don't think we exist because we don't stand out... and it's not in our nature to either. We are prefer to be a fly on the wall and not the object of attention and only to interject when it counts.
Hit the nail on the head. I've always been proud of who I am how I carry myself. It hasn't always been the best for relationships, but I'm myself and that's all that matters.
I walked into a store, got what I needed, when to cashier, a woman in her forty's, that said, 'I have to tell you this. I watched you walk in. You look so self confident, independent minded.' I smiled, told her thanks and left.
I was more worried that the term "Sigma Male" would become "Ultra Alpha", considering the timing for when we are dominate is based on the specific situation while "Alphas" beat their chest at every possible threat or obstacle, even when they exhibit patience, they act wayyy too soon, then we step in, casually, and fix everything and usually at some form of loss unbeknownst to others.
I knew that I wasn't alpha but I also knew that I wasn't beta. I could be alpha if I wanted to but found it annoying, stressful and tedious. I was wondering if I was an Omega that wanted to be left alone or a zeta. Then sigma came out of nowhere and described me perfectly. A capable alpha that wanted to be left alone out of the hierarchy, however is willing to go down if provoked and willing to die for a cause or fight for freedom and watch the world burn to keep it.
Sigmas don't need to be dominant. So no need to be concerned with being an Alpha anything. We like to be acknowledged when we are correct, but even that is fleeting, because it only matters to us. Some may see this as narcissistic, but as our persona is based in facts and research and logic, we are seen as arrogant, rude, and unsuffurable, because we won't yield in our convictions.
I only pursue woman after they’ve shown a sufficient amount of interest in me and even then that’s not enough for me to initiate anything without them bluntly telling me they “like me”
This is a very, very wise approach. My compliments. I wish all of us men had a similar philosophy. There would be far fewer complaints of stalking and harassment against men, and far more men with a realistic read on where they stand with women around them.
@@tallulahmoon6943 you recommend that he go out and try to find a girlfriend, and the low low price of that pursuit is a harassment or a rape charge? I'm sure you can understand why he would hesitate.
@@tallulahmoon6943 Heh, spoken like someone who treats people only as sex objects. Finding girlfriends was never a problem. Finding true genuine women, now most men can't say they've ever met one.
Now I know why , even though I’m reserved and shy, people always get latched on to my company , despite obviously being a lone wolf .I could never figure it out. Until now! 😅
It's almost scary how these vids describe me to a TEE!..up until 2 days ago I thought there was something wrong with me. I've always felt different..not better than anyone just different and even when I had a few friends I still didn't feel like I "fit in". I've always felt fully satisfied being to myself and in my own "zone"..I actually felt MORE alone when I hung out with my friends. I LOVE my solitude and always got called "weird" because of it..I never cared though..lol. I love doing the opposite of what other people are doing and I will go out my way to purposely NOT give someone attention who desperately wants it..I thought it was something wrong with me because of it but these vids have made me happy. Now I know.
There's nothing wrong with you. The world is effed up and you're trying to conform into the world, unaware that you're the sane one and the world is effed up. And it's easier trying to conform to your surroundings but difficult for you to fit it. Just come to the realization that the world is effed up.
„Women are like detectives, when it comes to picking things up about men…“ women in subways, restaurants.. everywhere control other human beings. Sat in the last seat in the university hall and everytime somebody walked pass by behind them all women turned back, while guys were listening to the tutor. Once they turned back they controlled every detail of that walking by guy from bottom to top… i was seriously worried🥶
I've been told i was odds and eccentric in my 20s, in 1980s, i just find out last week or so when i stubble on one of the video on ''Sigma Male'' so i search what is the meaning and definition, i might be in the 60s yrs old but sure do learning new things
Here's something all of these videos never say... Sigmas won't have much if any in the way of Tattoos, no jewelry, no flashy clothes, nothing much with logos, no extra flashy shoes, no extra flashy cars... Sigmas dn't care about bringing attention to themselves. I know as I am one.
Although, it's a bit generic to say that Sigmas don't attract attention...they do... especially to women because, Sigma male does wear jewelry and a good watch but he definitely ain't gonna be loud - with jewellery or personality but he Will have an Aura! Women Notice Aura!!!
This all goes to explain why I'm the way I am. Always been singular. I've had a high profile career but I never got a kick out if being the boss. I treat everyone the same. Whilst I played rugby I preferred athletics and squash as you stand or fall by your own efforts whereas on a team you either have to be a leader or follower. Even at school a teacher told me people naturally follow me but I never sought that, to be an alpha.
People telling me that I'm the same is them trying to get back at me when I call them out for being the same. They know it's not true and they know that it's a desperate attempt to get back at me while knowing it doesn't phase me. Lol
When i start to look for my person characteristic ,i find that i am sigma,i strugle all my life and i thought i am crazy to be this way. Now at 41 years old i tell you. If you are sigma succes will come,you are born to be successful. I was ugly and poor,now i am rich and beautifull,but lonely,i am incapable to love,but i have good life. Stay strong my Sigmas and belive in you
I always knew I was different in a positive way, but I didn’t know there were characteristics of a certain kind of male. Good to know I’m not the only one out there.
*Women notice the way they’re confident but not arrogant, and how they don’t engage in the typical games. It’s their authenticity and emotional intelligence that make them stand out in a crowd.*
My husband is all that & BEYOND...17 years and getting better every day! I walk in heaven now with God winking at me everywhere and anywhere! I am beyond blessed & grateful....🔥💗🏆✌️😘🌟💋
Good on you, I hope you two continue on this happy path 🙂. So far I only met one woman who correctly identified me as one kind of sigma male; unfortunately her mental issues prevented her to make it longer than 8 months with me. Apart from that she was the equivalent of a modern woman with traditional values, fun, fit, friendly, loyal and a blast to be with. I am still very sad her mental health issues got the best of her a week ago, and made her break up with me. It's probably going to haunt her once her mind clears up.
The few the proud the straight forward and powerful physically...but sensitive emotionally still we are now being recognized positively keep it up bro.... excellent post praise our small solid community..👍👍
We are the problem solvers of this and other worlds to come. The Lone Wolf, Lone Lion, Tiger and Self aware nature of me and my Sigma brothers and sisters is very rare but necessary for our species. We are the true rulers and puppeteers of all leadership and social strata.......let's own it and be proud of our contribution to the human condition. Love you guys....hope to form more bonds with my fellow sigmas.
the bonds are forever there Felix Big change is coming my bruthu and the brosistahood of Sigmas stand without identifying in the balance I had no idea this was my tribe for 60 years Thought I was alone Much love to Sigmas
Everything is so tiring when I try to be somebody. I just live doing whatever I want now. Don't care about any of the stuff and anybody's well-being anymore.
Very nice! Love your videos. This reminds me of this quote: "When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her eyes." ~Victor Hugo Thanks for making and sharing great content 💛
I used to hate arrogant people until I witness a bunch of fakers and propaganda artists 🎨 that I came to understand why those people are arrogant and became what I hated. Yes, I'm an arrogant prick and am not ashamed to admit it.
Self proclaimed sigmas are actually gammas. True sigma doesn't talk about being sigma but you're in luck, gammas can evolve into sigma with some hard work and dedication to bettering oneself 💪👍
Not true. A Sigma knows he is a Sigma and will tell someone if it might help the situation. Gammas still need to be around people. A Sigma WANTS to be left alone.
These videos,gave me a name. I truly thought something was broken in me. Why am I so different. Maybe I’m just crazy. Every detail in these videos,explain me. I’m thankful these videos found me.
Interesting stuff, I’m like that and people say it’s because I’m an only child 🤔🤣 I have a partner but to be honest it wouldn’t bother me if I didn’t, I do everything alone, hobbies are all done alone etc... I don’t like social occasions because well, people just annoy me, I just can’t listen to people making small talk and lying 🤣
I will argue that most women dont actually notice them. For a very simple reason. The Sigma doesnt care about being noticed, neither will he do anything to be noticed.
Love seeing other succeed doesnt mean i dont get a small feeling of jealousy but it instantly goes away when that person deserves it all i want is good health a nice humble place to live and a family to love and protect , money really isnt something i care about but sadly in this world you cant live without it but still i just want peace
This girl I started dating told me just after a couple weeks of dating that I was an inspiring person that people can look up to and have a lot of connections. I like to be social with people's deep personality so happiness and compliments are a great way to get there.
@@Silly540 yes at face value I was told to be intimidating to women (earlier years I'm just 27) so I changed my tactics to assume the girls "social motivation" after a couple simple question and compliments like her nails and from there can further watch and analize with caution, her reaction to see if she is a dead beat or intelligence. All women are wack, have to figure how much you can take! 🤣 it seems like a tough journey sigma males struggle with joining or getting involved with cuz it's not 100% our thing but may turnout to be awesome.
@@larrysgarage1682 correct, some women are shallow, I’ve tweaked some parts of my personality too, to be more welcoming to women it really is a challenge, yet I do not compromise my true values.
Most frustrating thing on this subject is when a lady obviously likes you when you're together but then gets spooked assuming you must be playing some kind of game because "everyone" does. No worries though fellas just means she ain't the one for you and keep on moving instead of getting stuck for day's of analyzing the what's and whys and how's don't let that run more than just a few short hours at most😉
I finally found a person who actually understands me and knows why I do things and my moods, so impressed I married her 😂 she is definitely a sigma female 😂 when I was 18 and attending the disco my friends all tried so hard to be different in embroidered shirts tie deed, flared tight jeans which just had to be a particular brand while I wore a nice tailored 3 piece suit. Believe me I was the only one in a suit. Now at 68 walking through Kyiv dressed in a suit, quality cashmere overcoat, fedora I do still get stared at 😂 I always dress for me and not to impress anyone I am know for my very direct honesty, in all things, my wife smiles when a waitress asked, Was everything ok for you and I say No it was disappointing, if they are silly enough to ask an explanation then they get it, without emotion just facts as I see them.
Indeed it's the whole package. I have always said that. I will forever said it's the mystery that's cause me to just look and think hard . It's such a turn on.
Wow this whole time I have been trying to follow the alpha male code when I have been working against my own nature. I'm going back to rediscover myself see yall next year in my new transformation bye.
Others in society are irrelevant to a Sigma. Concern for society is something that is learned and or indoctrinated by and for maintaining social constructs. Such worry about social outcomes reeks of Marxist like priorities. Do not want. Social worry is contrary to the freedom and individuality craved by a sigma.
Appreciate the info fam, it is tremendously helpful and i need a vechile badly right now like now but im gonna wait until next year or after that. thank you and much respect, but i need to know of the cost on the used mini trucks
I find I am always being asked for my opinion and what I would do when a hard situation arises and most times I get a little aggravated because I find that most of the time it's not a problem that I would have to ask for help with and bother anyone with so I sometimes make them feel that they are not very smart for not finding the solution themselves
I thought I was alone. I have never heard this word as a characteristic until today. I always knew I understood everyone in seconds. I knew what everyone was going to say before anyone was finished.
A point about compliments; A Sigma has NO issues with giving a compliment on physical attraction or appearances, but ONLY if it's %100 genuine. A female will receive the compliment in a genuine, unique way which disarms her, and lets her know that it's not rehearsed, or facetious. A Sigma will also have zero inhibitions when it comes to complimenting physical aspects of her that she might normally find embarrassing, or even be self-conscious of. That is also disarming to her, but the genuine nature of it keeps her from actually having an unhealthy view of the interaction.
Being a sigma is not a bad outcome at all, for instance: the women that the alphas chase around, wind up chasing you, but they can feel your strong energy, so they struggle to approach you but they think about it often. us sigmas bring out the shy, submissive side of woman. I had a girl in the gym tell me that I am her fantasy. This same woman was a bombshell, and coincidentally, i was the guy who never approached her because i was there to workout 💪 being a sigma is filled with peace , setting goals, being assertive, and being a fantasy
It is interesting to learn about Alpha males, Beta males, Sigma males etc, but are there corresponding categories for women and does it have an effect on compatibility?
Don’t ask what the man can do for you. Instead ask what you can do for the man. If you follow this wisdom, you will lead a happy fulfilled life in prosperity. Also, try to learn not to speak more than 10 sentences a day.
As im not trying to be with anyone right now might as well pass along this good advice. As a difference in how men and women can interact in a different way also were all individuals so if this doesn't help doesn't mean you cant find advice more suitable for you as a person
Sigma males can wear all kind of colors because we not bound by public opinion. We have great taste when we wear color we first think about harmony and we are probably properly dressed(not expensive or by label)
Doing new things and different experiences is awesome. But these things are best done spontaneously. Find out things never go the way they planned and it ruins the experience.
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When I was friends with my husband before we were dating and consequently married I had no idea he was interested in me. I knew I loved talking to him and his company, but one day I touched his arm and his pupils dilated. That's when I knew he had the same feelings for me. No joke, been happily together 20+ years. Raised a family. Excellent father and husband. Glad I cracked his code.
We are good men we are labeled " men with beautiful minds"
Same here! 😅 pupils don’t lie.😊
That's just the sigma system, using more time than most. We want to evaluate you on the friend level, where we can see more red flags, than stupidly starting off with the romance angle, where we're blind to everything. I'm curious if your husband was even using a system like that at all, and didn't just sort of stumble into it instead? It's shame to call it a system, because society should really be that way, where romance is earned, not the first damn thing.
Tell me, when you say "one day you touched his arm" did that mean this was a fairly regular occurrence of you touching him, or possibly the actual first time? Yes, we need more sigma's in the world, so that the young sigma's won't find so many women who are surprised some guys take their time.
@charles2241 it's a personality, myself I try to b a better version of myself on a daily basis! Its. A pace very difficult for women. We don't talk much, constant inventory of myself keeps. This recovering Alcoholic moving forward
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@@charles2241 “romance is earned” love it. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Either you have a Sigma's characteristics or not. You knew this when you were a kid but didn't know why you were the way you were about not following a group. Sigmas were those types who stood up against bullies, those who believed they were Alphas. Sigmas are truly a very small number of people. These are the ones with balls or those who are not afraid to change or leave a ridiculous situation no matter how much the monetary or material gains.
Im a sigma
💯 were blessed to be sigma.
Nailed that one to the wall🤘
I was Cursed with being a Sigma.
😆 It's more like I'm a Stigma Male.
Indeed bro!!!
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When I was a child I use to always observe my family and instantly knew I was different.
I was different from everyone else in my family while growing up. I simply didn't mesh with anybody - church, school, social circles, anything. I discovered the Sigma archetype and it described me perfectly.
I did precisely the same thing. Observing my siblings and parents and knowing I stood out as completely different, that i came from a different mould entirely.
I was always different. I liked to be alone. I preferred solitary sports. I had a few real friends. We are still friends decades later. I always played the "long game". All of my long term goals have come true.
Bravo! And thanks.
I always believed that I was just odd. These videos describe my behaviors very accurately.
nothing wrong with being the odd one - i have been told i was " one out of the box" many times - my reply " why be in the box crowded in with everyone else with limits around us, see how much space and freedom i have out here "
no you are just odd
Same. Its amazing how describes me perfectly
I always knew that I was different, now I know that there was nothing wrong with me. Thanks so much for this video.
If you are implying you are of the Sigma personality type, you should know that Sigmas do not require validation from others in order to feel good about themselves or to function/thrive in society. You should know there is nothing wrong with you in general before even seeing a RUclips video. Maybe I am misunderstanding you but that’s what it seems like. Sigmas think on their own and for themselves. I definitely don’t agree with everything these sigma videos say. All sigmas are different and unique in their own way while still carrying some of the same/similar traits a standard sigma male would typically have. Some people just do not know who they are yet in this world and how they fit into/or don’t fit into society. It usually takes a man up into his late 20s early 30s to actually establish and know who he really is, and that is ok! With women it is much different and they learn themselves very quickly.
Same here. welcome to the club mate! :)
@@MasterKushPlant420 I understand where he’s coming from. I myself had doubts on my personality type from teens to now (just turned 30). I used to seek validation from others, and that’s normal because we are social beings. I would seek validation not necessarily for their approval of who I was but rather because I wanted to fit in. I criticized a lot people, I don’t think I am a genius but compared to some of the people I have met or spoken to I thought I was surrounded by morons most of the time. I only respect people that are successful by merit and not some show off who had a relatively comfortable life but likes to boast about their position in life. In conclusion, I was concerned that I was cold, shallow, a narcissist at times. But I know I am a good person to my capacity and I do show love and affection to the close people in my life. So those were my doubts, we all have them, we are human. Nowadays, I try to stay away from the drama and focus on myself as a man. If I do seek relationships, I am careful who I acquaint myself with these days.
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@@MasterKushPlant420 Took me 35 years to get my sigma male characteristics sorted out for myself and out in the open. I envy those men who come to this point in life much earlier than me, I lost a lot of time figuring myself out, and made a lot of - in hindsight - mistakes. Lucky me they lead me to where I am now with 53.
Being a Sigma and a pro musician it confused the hell out of people.
I wasnt doing it for acceptance, appreciation, attention etc
I did it to achieve my own goals, and to challenge myself, a good gig for me was a gig where I made the least amount of mistakes, or where I felt especially connected to the music etc.
In fact I often felt uncomfortable when people would compliment my music or performances etc.
It was a strange experience for sure
Yes sir 👏. Myself started my first goal in my 20,s started running. When I saw my first " IRONMAN COMPETITION" 1981. WATCHING THIS INCREDIBLE JOURNEY. WITH MY YOUNEST BROTHERS
THEY ASKED " THINK YOU CAN DO THIS"
ANSWER. " I KNOW I CAN" (5) YEARS OF SERIOUS TRAINING. WITH MY ❤️ RUNNING BUDDIES. TRAINING WITH ME.
( COMPLETED 1986 off Hyannis port Massachusetts, 3rd Amazing thing my imagination took me on a journey. I will never forget
One ❤️ STAY SIGMA
Well put, and can totally relate. . . As a dedicated musician myself. . We do it primarily for our own achievement and growth, not to just impress others, altho that is ok too. . . Blessings. . .
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Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So, throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover.
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Hear! Hear!
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I like that...
Well put...
@@phillipmckinnon6883 love to All ,unity respect compassion 😊
Sigma is all about doing the right thing despite of the consequences.
Wrong. Logic and goals do not always mean the "right" thing according an outsider looking at a given situation. This type is not a white knight by nature
Sigmas cause consequences, they don't follow them.
Non-verbal also includes touching. It can be seen as a bold move by women and it definitely gets their attention especially if you're getting to know each other. You have to be slick while doing it. An "accidental" bump into her while walking or touching her arm or hand like you don't even realize you're doing it even though you know exactly what you're doing.
Ain't this more alpha than sigma? I'm sigma and INTJ. I don't perform a touch and pretend it was accidental, because i'm true and sincere, and i'm a bad actor, i would give it away it's false or acted upon.
If i want touch, I plan accurately the situation so that it will evolve in a manner that an accidental touch will eventually happen. I don't act. I plan and execute on the conditions that create a situation. While in the situation i created, touch is unavoidable occurrence that just happens without need for acting on either side. I can be sincerly surprised of the touch, because i planned and executed for facilitating conditions, but not for the actual moment itself.
@@ideegenialiI think it depends entirely on how well you know the girl. With a girl you know pretty well, just friends say, you might do it as a game, not as a cheap feel, or trying to convey a hidden message through it. As playful with girls as sigma's can be, he may be doing it simply to counter his usual completely hands-off approach. For example, what could qualify as my only GF, we were great together, but we never got to romancing or dating, but we were quite playful. Other than one time specifically, I don't think I ever touched her, except really by accident, and like anybody touched by accident nobody notices it.
We did, however touch once, and it was very silly. We commonly worked side-by-side, and this case was no exception. She had just returned from a week's vacation, and at the time I wasn't aware I was in love with her, but knew she was a super friend. When I saw her come into that place for the first time in a week, my heart leapt from my chest, showing how badly it missed her. Apparently, she felt the same way, and we spontaneously started singing the song "Reunited" which was popular at the time, and we had a very small dance where we hit each other's butts together a couple of times. I'll never forget that time, and I still see it in my mind.
Unfortunately, I never knew anything about her, other than how well she worked (I was her boss), and she was so good, I'd imagine any sigma would've been proud to have her, even just as a friend.
Back to topic more so, I'd heard about guys and gals doing that sort of accidental on purpose touching, and I felt the same way about it too. As well, I wanted to be WAY above board, and if anybody was going to touch somebody sneaky like that, it would have to be the girl touching me, at least until I was fairly comfortably with her. I knew a cheerleader that sat behind me in journalism class (but at that time I'd never met her), and she had her hands on my shoulders, back, and neck probably as soon as I sat down that first day, and it kept up ALL YEAR. There's more of a story to that, but yes, I've had my share of women touching me, but I'm ignoring it and not touching back. That's another kind of hilarious game, where she's touching you in front of an entire class, and you pretend it's not going on (although at first I was like "WTH!!!!?). We sigma's can ignore to almost legendary levels😄. It's definitely a sigma superpower.
Thank you for setting things straight for sigma males because they are miss understood by most people.
YES we are!!!!
don't bother caring what others think, be yourself and the right people will gravitate towards you, speaking from experience as a person that is still discovering himself for who i truly am. kept making the mistake of trying to be who others wanted me to be. keep discovering your true self and stay on your own course. We are a special breed we dont need the approval of the majority👍
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Yes. Sigma males are a misunderstood mystery. They are not full of polar traits. They vary, especially while growing up and aging like a bottle of wine.
Not most but by all
Spock in Star Trek is the epitome of Sigma. He advised the Alpha Captain but when the chips were down would step in and lead the group. Then when it was all clear he would fade back into the background and let the Captain take center stage.
Kirk always deferred to Spock, then Bones. He trusted Spock first & foremost in every situation for a reason. Great point.
My girlfriends always referred to me as Spock because I never got emotional and always used Libra logic.
I sometimes do it.
Excellent observation.
WRONG. He was a Vulcan who knew how to do the mind warp on unsuspecting Alpha Male dipshits.
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I noticed you often mention "if you want to learn more"
Nothing wrong with that but you can not learn the traits, it is in you. I relate to much of what you post (since I was a kid) but I had no idea it is rare in the general population.
Thank you for your posts
It's crazy how some people don't believe sigma males don't exists when we have a whole community of them am more reserve myself but am very grounded in my beliefs am like a silencer quiet 🤐 but deadly 😤
They don't think we exist because we don't stand out... and it's not in our nature to either. We are prefer to be a fly on the wall and not the object of attention and only to interject when it counts.
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Ookay Johnny bravo 🕺🤣🤣
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Not existing is our best talent
Hit the nail on the head. I've always been proud of who I am how I carry myself. It hasn't always been the best for relationships, but I'm myself and that's all that matters.
I walked into a store, got what I needed, when to cashier, a woman in her forty's, that said, 'I have to tell you this. I watched you walk in. You look so self confident, independent minded.' I smiled, told her thanks and left.
Spoken like from a true sigma. I love how you breakdown the sigma males in your videos
Sigmas value Truth and consistency. have no time for games.
I was more worried that the term "Sigma Male" would become "Ultra Alpha", considering the timing for when we are dominate is based on the specific situation while "Alphas" beat their chest at every possible threat or obstacle, even when they exhibit patience, they act wayyy too soon, then we step in, casually, and fix everything and usually at some form of loss unbeknownst to others.
I knew that I wasn't alpha but I also knew that I wasn't beta. I could be alpha if I wanted to but found it annoying, stressful and tedious. I was wondering if I was an Omega that wanted to be left alone or a zeta. Then sigma came out of nowhere and described me perfectly. A capable alpha that wanted to be left alone out of the hierarchy, however is willing to go down if provoked and willing to die for a cause or fight for freedom and watch the world burn to keep it.
Sigmas don't need to be dominant. So no need to be concerned with being an Alpha anything. We like to be acknowledged when we are correct, but even that is fleeting, because it only matters to us. Some may see this as narcissistic, but as our persona is based in facts and research and logic, we are seen as arrogant, rude, and unsuffurable, because we won't yield in our convictions.
This is me to a T. I’ve stepped in many times for others at cost to myself.
Sigma males also known as Lone wolffs , stay mysterieus keep your energy to your self and become a magnet...
One of the few Sigma videos that stands out 👍👏
I’m no expert but you’re describing a true gentleman.
Very insightful! Good to hear and learn from within❤
Some years ago my wife told me: "I will never leave you, because I have never been bored with you".
Is that supposed to be good ? 😅
What happened?
I only pursue woman after they’ve shown a sufficient amount of interest in me and even then that’s not enough for me to initiate anything without them bluntly telling me they “like me”
Translation, you don't have time for women who waste your time.
This is a very, very wise approach. My compliments. I wish all of us men had a similar philosophy. There would be far fewer complaints of stalking and harassment against men, and far more men with a realistic read on where they stand with women around them.
and this is why you're never going to find a girlfriend
@@tallulahmoon6943 you recommend that he go out and try to find a girlfriend, and the low low price of that pursuit is a harassment or a rape charge? I'm sure you can understand why he would hesitate.
@@tallulahmoon6943 Heh, spoken like someone who treats people only as sex objects.
Finding girlfriends was never a problem. Finding true genuine women, now most men can't say they've ever met one.
Now I know why , even though I’m reserved and shy, people always get latched on to my company , despite obviously being a lone wolf .I could never figure it out. Until now! 😅
It's almost scary how these vids describe me to a TEE!..up until 2 days ago I thought there was something wrong with me. I've always felt different..not better than anyone just different and even when I had a few friends I still didn't feel like I "fit in". I've always felt fully satisfied being to myself and in my own "zone"..I actually felt MORE alone when I hung out with my friends. I LOVE my solitude and always got called "weird" because of it..I never cared though..lol. I love doing the opposite of what other people are doing and I will go out my way to purposely NOT give someone attention who desperately wants it..I thought it was something wrong with me because of it but these vids have made me happy. Now I know.
There's nothing wrong with you. The world is effed up and you're trying to conform into the world, unaware that you're the sane one and the world is effed up. And it's easier trying to conform to your surroundings but difficult for you to fit it. Just come to the realization that the world is effed up.
After so many years, now I have come to understand myself much better. Thank you very much for sharing this knowledge.
„Women are like detectives, when it comes to picking things up about men…“ women in subways, restaurants.. everywhere control other human beings. Sat in the last seat in the university hall and everytime somebody walked pass by behind them all women turned back, while guys were listening to the tutor. Once they turned back they controlled every detail of that walking by guy from bottom to top… i was seriously worried🥶
I've been told i was odds and eccentric in my 20s, in 1980s, i just find out last week or so when i stubble on one of the video on ''Sigma Male'' so i search what is the meaning and definition, i might be in the 60s yrs old but sure do learning new things
Here's something all of these videos never say... Sigmas won't have much if any in the way of Tattoos, no jewelry, no flashy clothes, nothing much with logos, no extra flashy shoes, no extra flashy cars... Sigmas dn't care about bringing attention to themselves. I know as I am one.
Bruh u just a loser.
Although, it's a bit generic to say that Sigmas don't attract attention...they do... especially to women because, Sigma male does wear jewelry and a good watch but he definitely ain't gonna be loud - with jewellery or personality but he Will have an Aura! Women Notice Aura!!!
This all goes to explain why I'm the way I am. Always been singular. I've had a high profile career but I never got a kick out if being the boss. I treat everyone the same. Whilst I played rugby I preferred athletics and squash as you stand or fall by your own efforts whereas on a team you either have to be a leader or follower. Even at school a teacher told me people naturally follow me but I never sought that, to be an alpha.
Yes us Sigmas, we live in our own mind-world and we are proud of it.
We're not drama queen's, we suck it up and get it done.!.!.!.
Best thing about a sigma we follow whatever we want so comparing us to your standards is probably the quicker way to put distance into the encounter
People telling me that I'm the same is them trying to get back at me when I call them out for being the same. They know it's not true and they know that it's a desperate attempt to get back at me while knowing it doesn't phase me. Lol
Really credible video 📸 much appreciated 👍🏿 for sharing these realistic observations, much , much grateful
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When i start to look for my person characteristic ,i find that i am sigma,i strugle all my life and i thought i am crazy to be this way. Now at 41 years old i tell you. If you are sigma succes will come,you are born to be successful. I was ugly and poor,now i am rich and beautifull,but lonely,i am incapable to love,but i have good life. Stay strong my Sigmas and belive in you
I always knew I was different in a positive way, but I didn’t know there were characteristics of a certain kind of male.
Good to know I’m not the only one out there.
*Women notice the way they’re confident but not arrogant, and how they don’t engage in the typical games. It’s their authenticity and emotional intelligence that make them stand out in a crowd.*
My husband is all that & BEYOND...17 years and getting better every day! I walk in heaven now with God winking at me everywhere and anywhere!
I am beyond blessed & grateful....🔥💗🏆✌️😘🌟💋
Haha I always describe it as God winking at me. Just a hint.
Good on you, I hope you two continue on this happy path 🙂. So far I only met one woman who correctly identified me as one kind of sigma male; unfortunately her mental issues prevented her to make it longer than 8 months with me. Apart from that she was the equivalent of a modern woman with traditional values, fun, fit, friendly, loyal and a blast to be with. I am still very sad her mental health issues got the best of her a week ago, and made her break up with me. It's probably going to haunt her once her mind clears up.
Please, you're just gloating because you're validated. You're going to leave him soon.
The few the proud the straight forward and powerful physically...but sensitive emotionally still we are now being recognized positively keep it up bro.... excellent post praise our small solid community..👍👍
it boosts confidence undoubtfully.. 😎
thanks for giving us a path to go with.. 😎
I like the way the narrator elaborates. After saying things. 👌🏾
We are the problem solvers of this and other worlds to come. The Lone Wolf, Lone Lion, Tiger and Self aware nature of me and my Sigma brothers and sisters is very rare but necessary for our species. We are the true rulers and puppeteers of all leadership and social strata.......let's own it and be proud of our contribution to the human condition. Love you guys....hope to form more bonds with my fellow sigmas.
cheers.
Salute🍷🇮🇹⚖️🇨🇦😎
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the bonds are forever there Felix
Big change is coming my bruthu and the brosistahood of Sigmas stand without identifying in the balance
I had no idea this was my tribe for 60 years
Thought I was alone
Much love to Sigmas
Sigma mentality is similar to being stoic . That’s what I’m gathering. 🤔
I have been lucky to find a sigma male.
Everything is so tiring when I try to be somebody. I just live doing whatever I want now. Don't care about any of the stuff and anybody's well-being anymore.
You don't care about anybodys wellbeing anymore. That's not a good thing is it.
Very nice! Love your videos. This reminds me of this quote: "When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her eyes." ~Victor Hugo
Thanks for making and sharing great content 💛
Many people think some guys act confident when in fact they just don't give a fu*K!
I used to hate arrogant people until I witness a bunch of fakers and propaganda artists 🎨 that I came to understand why those people are arrogant and became what I hated. Yes, I'm an arrogant prick and am not ashamed to admit it.
Great video 💯 great advice 💯👍
If you have an impulse to pace back in forth when your by yourself (deep in thought). Your probably a sigma.
Women love to be around me when they can. Im at home most of the time. Alone working on being the best version of myself
Self proclaimed sigmas are actually gammas. True sigma doesn't talk about being sigma but you're in luck, gammas can evolve into sigma with some hard work and dedication to bettering oneself 💪👍
Not true. A Sigma knows he is a Sigma and will tell someone if it might help the situation. Gammas still need to be around people. A Sigma WANTS to be left alone.
@@adamrossal5884 A sigma is ok being alone or with others. They can deal with either one well.
And sigma males won’t argue about what sigma males do.
@@fortunateson7852 Sigma males make sound argument using facts/data and reasoning. This includes what sigma males do.
Sigma balls in yo mawt
These videos,gave me a name. I truly thought something was broken in me. Why am I so different. Maybe I’m just crazy. Every detail in these videos,explain me. I’m thankful these videos found me.
Great video thank you
Watching my 2 kids :01 super sigma and an incredible Alpha ..God help me to guide them .. showing them values
Interesting stuff, I’m like that and people say it’s because I’m an only child 🤔🤣 I have a partner but to be honest it wouldn’t bother me if I didn’t, I do everything alone, hobbies are all done alone etc... I don’t like social occasions because well, people just annoy me, I just can’t listen to people making small talk and lying 🤣
What you said 😂
Drivel & 💩
I will argue that most women dont actually notice them. For a very simple reason. The Sigma doesnt care about being noticed, neither will he do anything to be noticed.
Love seeing other succeed doesnt mean i dont get a small feeling of jealousy but it instantly goes away when that person deserves it all i want is good health a nice humble place to live and a family to love and protect , money really isnt something i care about but sadly in this world you cant live without it but still i just want peace
This girl I started dating told me just after a couple weeks of dating that I was an inspiring person that people can look up to and have a lot of connections. I like to be social with people's deep personality so happiness and compliments are a great way to get there.
me too, unfortunately that scares off women as well, at least were being reserved for the right one.
@@Silly540 yes at face value I was told to be intimidating to women (earlier years I'm just 27) so I changed my tactics to assume the girls "social motivation" after a couple simple question and compliments like her nails and from there can further watch and analize with caution, her reaction to see if she is a dead beat or intelligence. All women are wack, have to figure how much you can take! 🤣 it seems like a tough journey sigma males struggle with joining or getting involved with cuz it's not 100% our thing but may turnout to be awesome.
@@larrysgarage1682 correct, some women are shallow, I’ve tweaked some parts of my personality too, to be more welcoming to women it really is a challenge, yet I do not compromise my true values.
A real sigma don't tweek nothing bro...don't do that...the mystery is key 🗝️
@@jajuanbrown4389 Second that - women can tweak their personalities to build a relationship with a Sigma because he is the leader, not a follower.
Most frustrating thing on this subject is when a lady obviously likes you when you're together but then gets spooked assuming you must be playing some kind of game because "everyone" does. No worries though fellas just means she ain't the one for you and keep on moving instead of getting stuck for day's of analyzing the what's and whys and how's don't let that run more than just a few short hours at most😉
I finally found a person who actually understands me and knows why I do things and my moods, so impressed I married her 😂 she is definitely a sigma female
😂 when I was 18 and attending the disco my friends all tried so hard to be different in embroidered shirts tie deed, flared tight jeans which just had to be a particular brand while I wore a nice tailored 3 piece suit. Believe me I was the only one in a suit. Now at 68 walking through Kyiv dressed in a suit, quality cashmere overcoat, fedora I do still get stared at 😂 I always dress for me and not to impress anyone
I am know for my very direct honesty, in all things, my wife smiles when a waitress asked, Was everything ok for you and I say No it was disappointing, if they are silly enough to ask an explanation then they get it, without emotion just facts as I see them.
Do not make yourself upset because of you're alone. Just remember that you're inside the 0.3% of males in earth which make them unreachable.
This is why I'm about to be divorce for the second time.
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
I like how you address girls v women @ 7:18
It’s true I’ve met dozens of women that we just have like an instant connection. The only problem is, they’re extremely gorgeous and totally insane.
Thank you for the video. My partner is lying next to me and says she can relate completely ;)
Horseshit , I’m his milf suga mama I should know
Indeed it's the whole package. I have always said that. I will forever said it's the mystery that's cause me to just look and think hard . It's such a turn on.
Is that so🤔?
Wow this whole time I have been trying to follow the alpha male code when I have been working against my own nature. I'm going back to rediscover myself see yall next year in my new transformation bye.
That’s funny, I did that…….
Guys we are not seperate from society we are just being sigma 😎who creates value to the society...
Others in society are irrelevant to a Sigma. Concern for society is something that is learned and or indoctrinated by and for maintaining social constructs. Such worry about social outcomes reeks of Marxist like priorities. Do not want. Social worry is contrary to the freedom and individuality craved by a sigma.
This is wild. Now I know why I am the way I am.
Your insight is refreshing.
Appreciate the info fam, it is tremendously helpful and i need a vechile badly right now like now but im gonna wait until next year or after that. thank you and much respect, but i need to know of the cost on the used mini trucks
Love you bro never miss ur video
The gift and the curse…. But I don’t think I’d have it any other way. Thank god for the man I am, and continue to grow into.
I find I am always being asked for my opinion and what I would do when a hard situation arises and most times I get a little aggravated because I find that most of the time it's not a problem that I would have to ask for help with and bother anyone with so I sometimes make them feel that they are not very smart for not finding the solution themselves
How did you find so much stock footage of sigma males ?
This is spot on for me.
I thought I was alone. I have never heard this word as a characteristic until today. I always knew I understood everyone in seconds. I knew what everyone was going to say before anyone was finished.
Very well said !!👌
It sounds to me that you're describing a man who is acutely self-aware.
That's what sigmas are
A point about compliments; A Sigma has NO issues with giving a compliment on physical attraction or appearances, but ONLY if it's %100 genuine. A female will receive the compliment in a genuine, unique way which disarms her, and lets her know that it's not rehearsed, or facetious. A Sigma will also have zero inhibitions when it comes to complimenting physical aspects of her that she might normally find embarrassing, or even be self-conscious of. That is also disarming to her, but the genuine nature of it keeps her from actually having an unhealthy view of the interaction.
Hmmmm. I don't think I've ever cared for how these points made me attractive but interesting nonetheless
A big shout out to the producer who came up with this video using all the 10+ 🔥🔥🔥 girls!! WOW!!
Wooooah, silent take charge attitude 👀. They all look at me during situations in the hospital 😱
Jesus Christ, the original sigma, and bad boy
Being a sigma is not a bad outcome at all, for instance: the women that the alphas chase around, wind up chasing you, but they can feel your strong energy, so they struggle to approach you but they think about it often. us sigmas bring out the shy, submissive side of woman. I had a girl in the gym tell me that I am her fantasy. This same woman was a bombshell, and coincidentally, i was the guy who never approached her because i was there to workout 💪 being a sigma is filled with peace , setting goals, being assertive, and being a fantasy
short story sigma male is a man that able to be responsible on their own and able to say what they want to say...
Sigma = My way or the Highway
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It is interesting to learn about Alpha males, Beta males, Sigma males etc, but are there corresponding categories for women and does it have an effect on compatibility?
I always thought queen Elizabeth 2 was sigma
You have decoded my psychology... I feel like you know me.... in a peculiar way🤔
Thank so much for this.
Don’t ask what the man can do for you. Instead ask what you can do for the man. If you follow this wisdom, you will lead a happy fulfilled life in prosperity. Also, try to learn not to speak more than 10 sentences a day.
As im not trying to be with anyone right now might as well pass along this good advice. As a difference in how men and women can interact in a different way also were all individuals so if this doesn't help doesn't mean you cant find advice more suitable for you as a person
Y'all are killing it I've been saying and acting like this for a long time and never understood why I love y'all videos❤
What amazing tips thanks for sharing this information ❤
Sigma males can wear all kind of colors because we not bound by public opinion. We have great taste when we wear color we first think about harmony and we are probably properly dressed(not expensive or by label)
Doing new things and different experiences is awesome. But these things are best done spontaneously. Find out things never go the way they planned and it ruins the experience.
Yes.
So very nice post.