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  • Опубликовано: 15 авг 2024

Комментарии • 13 тыс.

  • @kum138park5
    @kum138park5 5 лет назад +3850

    I am a Korean grandmother. How can you not love these three gorgeous ,beautiful people. It's beyond me!!! LOTS OF LOVE FROM KOREA

    • @Phantom_Kero
      @Phantom_Kero 5 лет назад +102

      박금숙 please adopt me

    • @sinna25
      @sinna25 5 лет назад +37

      awwww

    • @carmenb8540
      @carmenb8540 5 лет назад +77

      You have unconditional love in your heart. You understand the came value of people's choice.

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda 5 лет назад +33

      My mother would probably want to adopt all of them and she is a white German lady. Her godson is Asian and some people are for some reason kind of weirded out by it but neither of us ever cared or understood what is weird about my mother being the godmother of her Vietnamese friends son.
      We've know her and her family for about 20 years now and she could be of any faith she wanted and we would still see her and her kids as part of our family too. Her older daughter is my age, the son is 18 or 19 now if I remember correctly.

    • @CynthiaBolho
      @CynthiaBolho 5 лет назад +51

      I wish there were more Korean women like you. My ex-boyfriend's parents disowned him because he was dating me, a Black woman.

  • @maddison9510
    @maddison9510 5 лет назад +800

    MY PARENTING tip : they don’t get to be half family. They are their fully or not. If they can’t accept her don’t let them be around!!!! Protect ur daughter.
    She’s beautiful

    • @hillarybillary21
      @hillarybillary21 5 лет назад +7

      maddison YES.

    • @Mystic_bangle
      @Mystic_bangle 5 лет назад +13

      Say 👏it 👏louder👏for👏the👏BACK👍

    • @annemckoy812
      @annemckoy812 5 лет назад +9

      Look I am 63ys old and you to and that beautiful baby live your life it is there lost and they will regret that your dad will probably get those pictures and hide them and look at her and love her

    • @mighty1829
      @mighty1829 5 лет назад +3

      Exactly - she dose not seem to realize how dangerous the Muslim cult is - for women for daughters - She needs to stop engaging with anything to do with it --

    • @monicat6379
      @monicat6379 5 лет назад

      Absolutely!

  • @jjhot254
    @jjhot254 4 года назад +584

    as a korean mother, i would be ecstatic if my son brought home a girl like you! much love

  • @user-pc5ig2ln6b
    @user-pc5ig2ln6b 4 года назад +163

    It broke my heart when he said his mom is a lost cause, that is soo sad. The "grandparents" are the ones missing out. Start your own traditions. ❤

  • @ItsAllLove4Real
    @ItsAllLove4Real 5 лет назад +6021

    Look at her lil chunky self...She's BEAUTIFUL🥰
    And you are absolutely correct...Love is supposed to be unconditional and these grandparents should be so ashamed of themselves for doing this to you guys and I know it has to hurt.

    • @barbaraspaid1195
      @barbaraspaid1195 5 лет назад +41

      This is your guys life. It is no business of no ones.Your baby is beautiful. Maybe if you would consider to become another religion altogether. Then neither side will have anything part of that part of your lives. This is what my husband and I did after we were married. Raise her to be your baby to be happy and joyous. She cant be affected by geown adults. Rhese adults are the babiesand yous are rhe adults. She is so beaufiful and so are yous.

    • @belindaginete2931
      @belindaginete2931 5 лет назад +30

      MrsConnie 2You be positive. Sabrina might be the key to soften and melt her grandparents' hearts.

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 5 лет назад +57

      Belinda Ginete I am being positive sweetie...I do believe that folk can change, and that sometimes, it's the grandkids that help that change to take place. My mom couldn't make change for me because she lacked the tools necessary to do so...However, she turned over a new leaf for grandsons and that made room for us to heal. But before all of that, my mother's toxicity was so bad, I cut her off...No one deserves this kind of treatment and so, for sanity's sake, they are doing EXACTLY what is necessary for themselves and their chil...They went above and beyond for their parents acceptance, and ALL they got in return was more animosity...They owe their parents nothing else at this point, I pray it works out but they have the right to be happy, not verbally/emotionally abused.

    • @belindaginete2931
      @belindaginete2931 5 лет назад +12

      MrsConnie 2You yes eventually the grandparents will come around. Most do especially with that gorgeous little miss they have. 💗

    • @tmcc6847
      @tmcc6847 5 лет назад +3

      How cuttteeeee

  • @wadisanaa
    @wadisanaa 5 лет назад +4329

    The baby stole the show. So damn cute.

    • @beckyf1220
      @beckyf1220 5 лет назад +51

      I totally agree. I couldn't stop staring at her! 🤗😘😍😍😍

    • @karishmadeen3925
      @karishmadeen3925 5 лет назад +52

      Them cheeks and those eyes 🙊❤

    • @cidnieford9091
      @cidnieford9091 5 лет назад +27

      She is totally a beautiful little baby girl. All her cooing and looking around is so cute😍

    • @40EntrepreneurDrive
      @40EntrepreneurDrive 5 лет назад +3

      💜

    • @elliebabyfish9145
      @elliebabyfish9145 5 лет назад +13

      Beautiful baby and wife

  • @theeternalself946
    @theeternalself946 4 года назад +257

    I would disown anyone that doesn’t approve of my husband or child. Period! End of discussion....the door would always be closed

    • @gracebean6366
      @gracebean6366 4 года назад +20

      I agree, I don't understand how she kept calling her father 'daddy' etc like, I would throw my whole father away if he left a photo of my child on read or didn't walk me down the aisle.

    • @dehjhunaeday5743
      @dehjhunaeday5743 4 года назад

      Sure would

    • @asdfghjkl-oo7lv
      @asdfghjkl-oo7lv 4 года назад +3

      Yup. I know they gave birth to me but if they disrespect me I'm out the door. I never disrespected them so I expect respect back.

  • @aissatabelle4983
    @aissatabelle4983 4 года назад +78

    He really loves you and that’s all that matters I’m so happy to see this - a man who choose he’s wife over he’s family - real man ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @javaqueen1111
    @javaqueen1111 5 лет назад +2106

    Family is not always blood. People that love you and support you are family.

    • @detrixhogan6078
      @detrixhogan6078 5 лет назад +45

      Facts# never been close to my family. The struggle is real..

    • @mckennativy9813
      @mckennativy9813 5 лет назад +29

      Jackie 'Fuller I’ve got family that isn’t blood, and blood that isn’t family.

    • @MultiMicelle
      @MultiMicelle 5 лет назад

      that is false, and an endorsement and tool used by the anti-family pushers to justify broken families, you can have people and friends support, but family is family , good, bad, or ugly...skip the drama, do what's right for your family, and loved ones

    • @senmeii
      @senmeii 5 лет назад +29

      @@MultiMicelle I disagree, sometimes family is toxic and forcing yourself into loving them is self-destructive. You do not choose your family, therefore I don't see why you would have any obligations to love them or trying to keep in touch with them. Whether it's family or not doesn't matter, they are people like you and me and you don't have to force yourself into loving them if they act toxic to you.

    • @reginapugh
      @reginapugh 5 лет назад +4

      This is so very true!!

  • @614blessed
    @614blessed 5 лет назад +11386

    I think it is horrible that people would do this to their children over race and religion. It is selfish

    • @heyspeakfromheartwithlove4979
      @heyspeakfromheartwithlove4979 5 лет назад +604

      And ignorant. Life is too short. They will regret it.

    • @Marjorie_
      @Marjorie_ 5 лет назад +235

      Heyspeakfromheartwithlove 100% agree people need to understand that life on Earth is too short to do stupid things like this we’re all going to die and we need to live life to the fullest and love and appreciate everyone who is in our life it’s really sad

    • @heyspeakfromheartwithlove4979
      @heyspeakfromheartwithlove4979 5 лет назад +160

      @@Marjorie_ Unfortunately, too many don 't realize this until too late. I shall pray for this family.

    • @laurenr4672
      @laurenr4672 5 лет назад +58

      Exactly ignorant af yet we are the animals smh its 2019 get tf over it they are happy

    • @ginafarrell3229
      @ginafarrell3229 5 лет назад +71

      Race & ethnicity doesn't matter if you are in love. However, if you are a reborn Christian the Bible said's not to be unequally yoked. So it's vital that your spouse be a reborn Christian as well. Because there is no guarantee he will accept the Lord later on after marriage.

  • @daphnemitchell-wright8129
    @daphnemitchell-wright8129 4 года назад +43

    I'm crying for 2 reasons.
    1) the feeling of being heartbroken for both of you. Having the love and support of your family is soooo important; but it's literally heartbreaking to NOT have that for both of you and you beautiful baby. Maybe one day.
    2) i weep at the strength, courage, and love for each other that is so apparent. Despite the heartbreak, your love story and life story is inspirational.

  • @cpcrouchmendez4275
    @cpcrouchmendez4275 4 года назад +46

    There are times when we, as parents must stand our ground and say “no thank you; thank you for giving me life. However, whenever you are ready to talk you know where to find me.” A toxic relationship must be thrown away or locked away even if it pertains to parents. Your focus will always be each other and your children. I speak from experience. Best wishes to you.

  • @jennyjones4875
    @jennyjones4875 5 лет назад +2679

    If his parents were around, they would only mistreat the child behind ur back. LEAVE THEM ALONE

    • @candycrusher6360
      @candycrusher6360 5 лет назад +162

      Facts!

    • @ladonna1902
      @ladonna1902 5 лет назад +274

      Exactly. I think the more they try to deal with their parents, the more hurt and disappointment they're going to get.
      Just as I mentioned in another post. I wondered If Justin's sister or siblings had children or if Sabrina is the first grandchild. If Justin's sister or siblings have any children and and they are fully Korean, Justin's mother is probably going to favor her fully Korean grandchildren over Sabrina.

    • @tonyadavillier9311
      @tonyadavillier9311 5 лет назад +138

      Yep! Little Sabrina doesn't need to know that kind of hate. Parents have a tendency to feel like their way is the only way.....the right way. We don't realize how much we lose in thinking we won. Nothing can be farther from the truth. We raise our children to be strong, think freely and for themselves but get mad when they think freely, are strong, and think for themselves.

    • @jmnj1983
      @jmnj1983 5 лет назад +1

      You grew up in a fucked up family. Your also evil at heart. Only evil people would think that way.

    • @Laysmoon
      @Laysmoon 5 лет назад +70

      So true. Never, ever leave her with them.

  • @simplyme922
    @simplyme922 5 лет назад +977

    That baby's face! She can bring nations together. Keep love first you guys.

    • @k8eekatt
      @k8eekatt 5 лет назад +1

      The best share! Keep love first💓 You both have a lot of feels over parental approval and you need to focus on your life together and your sweet baby.

    • @catherinedrew203
      @catherinedrew203 5 лет назад +2

      That's a grand statement ya make there...I like it!

    • @clair233
      @clair233 5 лет назад

      Amen to that

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 5 лет назад

      simplyme922 yess she is so adorable!

    • @janegotelli7152
      @janegotelli7152 5 лет назад

      Tsar p

  • @jennwill80
    @jennwill80 4 года назад +19

    I’m still just flabbergasted that any of your parents could be so cold as to accept your beautiful coupling and gorgeous daughter. What a gift she is! Your parents are just missing out in huge ways.

  • @janelle9870
    @janelle9870 4 года назад +174

    side note: sabrina is the cutest thing everrrr😭

  • @g.f.8249
    @g.f.8249 5 лет назад +757

    Sarah's mother is smart. She gets to keep a beautiful granddaughter all to herself. Bless you two!

    • @mddell58
      @mddell58 5 лет назад +32

      Yes. And, she will be blessed by having that beautiful, open heart!!

  • @o0Theresa0o
    @o0Theresa0o 5 лет назад +757

    "What's her religion?"
    She's 2 months old - she hasn't decided yet. When she's had a chance to learn about it and decide for herself, I'll let you know.

    • @desireedoubleyou
      @desireedoubleyou 5 лет назад +19

      Right, exactly!

    • @cardinia1
      @cardinia1 5 лет назад

      religion martian like mine best out their heh

    • @nancydesigns6983
      @nancydesigns6983 5 лет назад +1

      Love it

    • @3asem5000
      @3asem5000 5 лет назад +12

      Prophet Muhammad said, "Every child is born with a true faith (i.e. to worship none but Allah Alone) but his parents convert him to Judaism or to Christianity or to Magainism",
      So, Parents play a vital role in shaping the child's identity and paving the way for them to walk. This is what her father meant by the question: Which religion will you raise your daughter?

    • @lisamonaban_
      @lisamonaban_ 5 лет назад +7

      3asem Ahmad Bullshit

  • @mz8194
    @mz8194 4 года назад +66

    Don’t let anyone force a religion upon you. Being a good human being is far more important.

  • @cindymcadoo8571
    @cindymcadoo8571 5 лет назад +6

    Just found this video. I have never commented on a video before! Blessing to your family!! The baby is adorable!! I am a sixty year old mother of four adult children. My husband and I have been married for forty years. We have no grandchildren! We raised our children with religion and our culture but always told them they could love whom ever they love. We didn't care what race gender religion etc. Our oldest son is in the military. He and his wife married for twenty years. Second son married for sixteen years. Both are happy with helping our community. Our two youngest are girls and live at home helping out my parents who are in their eighties! We of course would love to have grandkids!!! But we are so proud of our kids and the choices they have made. Your parents should be ashamed!!! How sad they are missing your lovely family!! Blessings and prayers to you all!

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 5 лет назад +367

    I think anyone who puts conditions on their love are cut off worthy in my humble opinion.

  • @jalabi99
    @jalabi99 5 лет назад +458

    How could any grandparent not fall immediately in love with that precious little baby? She's beautiful!

    • @nightangel23714
      @nightangel23714 5 лет назад +2

      The religion its a choice, a personal choice that a baby does not have yet...let the baby choose her religion when she does understand

    • @orangeradios
      @orangeradios 4 года назад +1

      She is the cutest!!!

    • @lahie16
      @lahie16 4 года назад +3

      Right? It's not even my baby and I fell for cheeks in under 0.00 seconds! Who could possibly resist it!?!?

  • @laman8914
    @laman8914 4 года назад +5

    Sarah, not responding to your dad is the best message. Never go into negative vibes. Sarah has the best attitude. Success with your relation and new family member.

  • @kayduhaime9784
    @kayduhaime9784 4 года назад +69

    their loss. go on with your lives, and teach your children unconditional love, that it dosen;t matter religion, or anything.

  • @karenramirez3007
    @karenramirez3007 5 лет назад +556

    It is hard when family doesnt like who you choose. My dad was a racist, my husbands family hated me because i am white. 43 years later, we are still together. Your baby is your family. Bless all of you.

    • @memphis3106
      @memphis3106 5 лет назад +11

      Asian parents are racist against white? Weird.. I'm glad you didn't let it affect you.

    • @lisjoi
      @lisjoi 5 лет назад +24

      memphis3106 where did she say they were Asians?!

    • @sydneybrooks6038
      @sydneybrooks6038 5 лет назад +4

      @@lisjoi exactly. Also Karen Ramirez I can't imagine how hard that was. I'm happy for you and your husband

    • @Maria-le5jp
      @Maria-le5jp 5 лет назад +3

      memphis3106 I don't think she ever said she was asian

    • @sydneybrooks6038
      @sydneybrooks6038 5 лет назад +3

      @@Maria-le5jp she says she's mixed with black and Asian :)

  • @kikipooh6350
    @kikipooh6350 5 лет назад +554

    Sometimes family can be extremely toxic , you just have to let go and move on ! You have a beautiful family!

    • @sultanpacasum9754
      @sultanpacasum9754 5 лет назад

      We have thing called tradition. Every nation has tradition followed for so many decades that's why we can't force anyone to accept us the way we wanted.

    • @haneenoak4275
      @haneenoak4275 5 лет назад

      is toxic when a muslim father wish the kid to follow the same religion ??? Toxic is not the correct word !

    • @fnln7436
      @fnln7436 5 лет назад

      I completely agree

    • @Getafix42
      @Getafix42 5 лет назад

      Magnificently put Kiki :)

    • @Getafix42
      @Getafix42 5 лет назад

      @@haneenoak4275 is toxic when you try to be conditional.

  • @lecherhao86
    @lecherhao86 4 года назад +75

    Love.
    The word that's even more so important in today's era.
    My wife is a Filippino and I am a singaporean Chinese. My mom doesn't really agree with our marriage too and would initially often comment to me derogatory remarks about my wife. After 11 years together with my wife, one thing for sure, I don't regret my marriage.
    Regarding the differences between the adult child and his/her parent, I agree that some elderly are just really stubborn. My experiences with my mom has taught me that not all issues can be resolved. Not all issues need to be resolved.
    Wish you the best

    • @henrylau1743
      @henrylau1743 4 года назад +1

      我是中国大陆人,之前也处了一个菲律宾女朋友,最后被家人反对,最后放弃了,恭喜你坚持了下来。

  • @vilsonfleury8001
    @vilsonfleury8001 4 года назад +684

    Religion can be the most dividing thing in the world.

    • @LisaWhitehorn
      @LisaWhitehorn 4 года назад +1

      👌🏿💯

    • @orangeradios
      @orangeradios 4 года назад +36

      I think hatred is the most dividing thing.

    • @vilsonfleury8001
      @vilsonfleury8001 4 года назад +40

      @@orangeradios hatred is part of most religion as well.

    • @nadiaarsenijevic8594
      @nadiaarsenijevic8594 4 года назад +11

      @@vilsonfleury8001 no it s ignorant and hateful people that create this division. Religion unless you missuse teaches to love people.

    • @kevinchen7903
      @kevinchen7903 4 года назад +1

      @CasperMelchiorBalthasar so true
      I have witnessed a lot over the years.
      Is really sad to see what people did in the name of religion

  • @CoCoBliss4
    @CoCoBliss4 5 лет назад +330

    Your “silence” in “response” to the question from your dad was/is perfection. Silence speaks volumes in many instances. He understands fully. I wouldn’t answer him either. Pray for him.....

    • @yurauro1900
      @yurauro1900 5 лет назад

      I missed that when did that happen?

    • @bonniebunny25
      @bonniebunny25 5 лет назад +1

      Yura Uro When her dad asked her what baby Sabrina’s religion is. 7:51

    • @jillking1060
      @jillking1060 5 лет назад +1

      @@bonniebunny25 children dont have religions. Parents inflict it upon them

  • @bellebooth1741
    @bellebooth1741 5 лет назад +586

    Regardless of what’s going on in the video. That baby is just the cutest thing I’ve ever seen.

    • @aa-ng4ot
      @aa-ng4ot 5 лет назад +3

      I know right! I died of cuteness !

    • @jmiller7068
      @jmiller7068 5 лет назад +3

      Amazing child incredible mix .... so cuuuute

    • @pandoravex4791
      @pandoravex4791 5 лет назад

      Agreed

  • @TBrown-dj3nv
    @TBrown-dj3nv 4 года назад +62

    I will be her adoptive grandma! She is looking into the camera like a star!

  • @moonlightshadows9994
    @moonlightshadows9994 3 года назад +3

    Girl you are a truely beautiful soul. You know the secret to combating differences by showing love no matter how hurt you are. Thats such a beautiful and special trait. Justin, my heart hurts for you for how your parents have chosen to react and respond to your life decisions. I wish you both all the happiness in the world. 💖

  • @saraa.s5555
    @saraa.s5555 5 лет назад +488

    Who else was listening but watching Sabrina the entire time? 😍😍😍

  • @avaisoffline
    @avaisoffline 5 лет назад +562

    I left my toxic mom when my son was 6 weeks. She was yelling at me while my child was sleeping in the same room. Things happen and change, but I'm putting my child and my well-being first even if it means dropping family members out of our lives. Been happier ever since.

    • @daricnd
      @daricnd 5 лет назад +2

      why were ur parents disapproving ?

    • @avaisoffline
      @avaisoffline 5 лет назад +16

      daric nd My mother isn’t really disapproving in comparison to Justin & Sarah’s parents (over race & religion) because she tolerated who I dated and my choice to become a young mom. She was more disapproving on my interests, life choices, and what made me happy. She didn’t care about my happiness or my feelings and belittled my ability as a new mom.

    • @KrishnaPatel-jg2zl
      @KrishnaPatel-jg2zl 5 лет назад +11

      @@avaisoffline You made an amazing choice and I wish you all the best :)

    • @avaisoffline
      @avaisoffline 5 лет назад +2

      Krishna Patel Thank you dear! :)

    • @JimmyDew_
      @JimmyDew_ 5 лет назад +8

      Good for you! My poor mother went through hell when she had her first child. She escaped her parents and found refuge and work in a convent. She's gone now but I will never forget her story. Everything I am I owe it to her so yes, you're saving your child by taking her out of a toxic environment.

  • @illuminatiCorgi
    @illuminatiCorgi 4 года назад +174

    "What's her religion?"
    "Peppa Pig I think 😐"

    • @deborahcalazans7413
      @deborahcalazans7413 4 года назад +10

      We found a new religion for her. One without prejudice, hate our anger. It is a pity you cannot take part on this religion. Full stop.

    • @jacobsladder6715
      @jacobsladder6715 4 года назад

      Mark Sneddon keep spreading hate you idiot ..

    • @Madelope
      @Madelope 4 года назад +1

      JACOB'S LADDER what hate..?

    • @dianinaki4563
      @dianinaki4563 4 года назад

      😂😂

    • @nicolesalmon4583
      @nicolesalmon4583 4 года назад +1

      @Myrt Myrtle not race ethnicity. Only one race THE HUMAN RACE. They really are being silly though. Pure love is unconditional.

  • @Wheredidigetthismuffin
    @Wheredidigetthismuffin 4 года назад +2

    Imagine, that sweet baby girl gets to see videos of her parents loving each other in a disapproving world, and how they wanted to give her as much freedom to live as possible.
    It takes will power to try and be open to people that only give off hate. I wish this family all the happiness in the world. The world is cruel, stay strong.

  • @mazj2749
    @mazj2749 5 лет назад +786

    I'm disowned by my parents. My mother spat in my face on my wedding day. It's better to not have toxic people in your life regardless of who it is. Years of childhood abuse, I tried but realised that it's just not worth it. I have PTSD due to this abuse and I don't need to live with those people in my life. X

    • @Gromobran
      @Gromobran 5 лет назад +32

      Maz Shorty horrible. I agree is better to live without them. I wish you all the best

    • @user-co7dt1qv2n
      @user-co7dt1qv2n 5 лет назад +19

      I’m so sorry for what happened to you... best of luck for the future and stay positive, spend time with people you love and who love you 💗

    • @mazj2749
      @mazj2749 5 лет назад +5

      @@Gromobran thank you

    • @mazj2749
      @mazj2749 5 лет назад +14

      @@user-co7dt1qv2n thank you, it took me awhile to be just me. I am still fearful of a few things but I'm successful in what I do. I learnt at 18 that getting abused wasn't normal (I assumed all families were like that). But that said, I'm moving forward and have been for a good few years now without my parents. Thank you for your comment 💕

    • @casperthenotsofriendlyghos8968
      @casperthenotsofriendlyghos8968 5 лет назад +4

      I wish you nothing but happiness!! You can only move forward from here

  • @deniset3164
    @deniset3164 5 лет назад +404

    Parents ruin lives. Don't worry about it. Be happy you don't have to deal with them. They are nosy interfering and need a life. What a cute little baby.

    • @ashleyconklin1992
      @ashleyconklin1992 5 лет назад

      You ?

    • @Keyboardmom
      @Keyboardmom 5 лет назад +3

      Parents sooooo ruin lives!!!!!

    • @traceford4904
      @traceford4904 5 лет назад +2

      More like they do and they don't.

    • @koreancactustv7684
      @koreancactustv7684 5 лет назад +12

      Parents "never ruin lives"!! They GIVE LIFE! Parents are such a blessing and they are the only two people on this whole planet to TRULY love you! My parents mean the world to me and I can NEVEER EVEEEEEER imagine my life without them!! They gave meaning to my life and they are my sunshine and the apple of my eye. You're so foolish and ignorant. May God protect all the parents and families in the world❤💜

    • @koreancactustv7684
      @koreancactustv7684 5 лет назад +2

      @@Keyboardmom Thank you for responding in a respectful way. In fact, I understand that some parents can be bad and make life harder on their children. I just mean that they are the base of love and most of them suffered to raise their kids.. Even if they're not loved at least they deserve to be appreciated. Hope y'all getting through it! #MuchLoveAndSupport💜

  • @winghoh1271
    @winghoh1271 4 года назад +7

    Both of you are great children to your parents and I sincerely hope they realised eventually your happiness and love are just as important to you as to them.

  • @butchchu608
    @butchchu608 4 года назад +3

    You guys are truly example of "Love conquer all". Be strong all give each other the Love and support that you need.

  • @RobinMarconeCassidyRN
    @RobinMarconeCassidyRN 5 лет назад +410

    You shouldn't have to choose sides. You reached out to your family members, I feel its up to them to at least meet you halfway. This shouldn't be about race or color...they are missing out on being grandparents to your beautiful baby. I feel the ball is in their court. I wish you all the best❤

  • @colleenzulueta3900
    @colleenzulueta3900 5 лет назад +463

    Ok. I will be grandma! You both are lovely, baby adorable. You seem kind, respectful and considerate. Bless you all.

    • @mae2622
      @mae2622 5 лет назад +16

      You bring back my faith in humanity. Lol a little bit.

    • @lamoskgr
      @lamoskgr 5 лет назад +4

      This is such a beautiful comment ❤️

    • @corrinaweekly4011
      @corrinaweekly4011 5 лет назад +4

      Colleen Zulueta so sweet of you🥰

  • @onlychas
    @onlychas 3 года назад +17

    Love people from a distance. Please don’t allow that energy around your baby and home.

  • @jayemporia4516
    @jayemporia4516 4 года назад +3

    The most important thing is that you have each other. You have love for each other, and kindness. You are indeed, blessed.

  • @PcfulSol
    @PcfulSol 5 лет назад +93

    Toxic is toxic no matter what. It’s okay to remove family away from your energy. It’s okay!

  • @sofuggit
    @sofuggit 5 лет назад +596

    Dad... WHAT'S HER RELIGION?
    You... I DON'T KNOW. SHE HASN'T DECIDED YET.

  • @sandrapcasting
    @sandrapcasting 4 года назад +3

    First off, what a beautiful, beautiful baby! Congratulations. Focus on your happiness, don't look back, and move forward in love and positivity. If the universe deems it, your disapproving parents will come around.

  • @TinyDancer888
    @TinyDancer888 4 года назад +2

    You guys are doing the right thing. Leave the door open and just focus on your lovely family. No drama. Just love and positivity. :)

  • @joycefortunato827
    @joycefortunato827 5 лет назад +707

    I would just give up, the two of you tried and tried but to no avail. The both sides are being totally unreasonable. Life is so short, please just enjoy your lives. You have a beautiful family now, please don’t stress anymore. Stress is a terrible thing and wreaks havoc on your body. Just love one another and your beautiful and precious baby girl.

    • @PecanBaby...
      @PecanBaby... 5 лет назад +29

      Joyce I agree with you sometime parents are NOT always right and they are the ones missing out on their grandchildren because of they are being so stubborn. I wish these two the very best in the future and there beautiful baby to, hopefully you will have more children in the future.😀❤

    • @lillylazer429
      @lillylazer429 5 лет назад +1

      Best advice

    • @Maitlanddiva
      @Maitlanddiva 5 лет назад +13

      My mom disowned me because I chose to move back with my dad after living with her for a year when they divorced. She labeled me a traitor. I was 13 and am 23 now. Begged her for years to be in my life. Seen her 4 times in 10 years. Completely toxic she missed out on the times in my life I needed a mom the most. Don’t even try anymore with her. Haven’t in years. Best decision I’ve ever made. I’m not missing out. My dad bent over backwards being both parents. Sometimes your parents can just be bad news. It’s not the end of the world and being happy is all that matters.

    • @jenniferbrowne4030
      @jenniferbrowne4030 5 лет назад +1

      U r both a loving couple, God has put u together, look to him the bible says when mother n father foresake u, God will take u up, these things hppn but when u read the Bible u will c the truth is not abt religion its abt relationship with God, I am praying for u, yes u r right in not answering ur father, n ur husband both of u r mature n doing the right thing, life is short don't worry abt them, u HV a lovely family bring up ur children in love n Jesus will make a way, I say u r both right

    • @tamigarrett3513
      @tamigarrett3513 5 лет назад

      Honin Akecheta Agreed.

  • @sharithy
    @sharithy 5 лет назад +178

    In my opinion, she should stop contacting her father and he needs to stop contacting his parents. By contactinf them, y'all are only hurting yourself even more. In due time, they will contact you when they start missing you. Focus on your baby, marriage and well-being and don't worry about them. There is going to be a day that they will take the first step to contact you, even if that day take years to come.

  • @Lovelylittlehijabi
    @Lovelylittlehijabi 4 года назад +7

    I'm so late to this video. I converted to Islam 7 years ago. My mom (a conservative Christian) basically turned cold towards me and things haven't been the same. I'm saying that because parent's love for their children should always be unconditional above religion and all things. You did the right thing by not responding to your father, we can only do so much but you have a life to live with your husband and baby and can not allow your father's personal religious views and opinion dictate your life nor can Justin. Our parents are set in their ways, grew up without a lot of variances to their religion and culture so change is hard for them. I'm old enough to be both your parent's and my mom is old enough to be your grandmother, it says a lot about just how little changes from generation to generation until those of us make a decision to step outside of familial culture and religious norms.
    Remember this, we live our lives for ourselves, not our parents. Love is unconditional and when conditions are placed, its the problem of the person(s) who places those conditions. Live your lives to the fullest and show your daughter the unconditional love that you would want from your parents.
    Lastly, your parents love you, it may take them years or a decade to come around but they eventually do. If not, you have each other.
    Baby Sabrina is beautiful. Congratulations. She will be 1 in a month.

    • @elysium76
      @elysium76 4 года назад

      Tracie The Rebellious Sister you should leave ISlam ASAP

  • @NYCity378
    @NYCity378 4 года назад +5

    If your father does not like the person that's the most important in your life. Just let it be. Don't bother them. You guys are adults. Leave the door open tho. When they learn to respect your partner then they can talk to you guys. Goes to both of you. Love ❤️

  • @joygrace9536
    @joygrace9536 5 лет назад +227

    Silence is golden. Do what's best for you and your daughter.

  • @teresaolander3169
    @teresaolander3169 5 лет назад +509

    Interracial marriage is not only a sign of progress, it is the cause of progress. You have shaken loose old ways and you are contributing to advancement. It’s really hard and you are so mature about it. Love. Peace.

    • @makalanotkala3432
      @makalanotkala3432 5 лет назад +3

      Teresa Olander ..... Love this comment .

    • @27TaLisa
      @27TaLisa 5 лет назад +1

      @@Alyssa-cb7zj agreed

    • @earthworm6171
      @earthworm6171 5 лет назад +1

      Alyssa very true its so sad i knew a black women who married an abusive italian man 😔

    • @mscardioqueen
      @mscardioqueen 5 лет назад +1

      @@Alyssa-cb7zj
      I hate those types of commemts ,"IR relstionships are a sign of progress." Biracial babies are the best of both worlds."
      Such BS!
      So, many examples of IR relationships that go wrong like any other relationship. And don't biracial kids inherit the worst of both worlds? Why are races deemed as two seperate worlds?
      The comment is dimissive, naive, and polyanna.
      Alyssa, your comment was on point.

    • @mscardioqueen
      @mscardioqueen 5 лет назад +3

      You can contribute to progress and advancement without being in an IR relationship.

  • @phyllisb-chronicles3358
    @phyllisb-chronicles3358 5 лет назад +2

    Sabrina has no words in the English dictionary to describe her beauty and super cuteness. Love you both lives your lives and stay happy. God bless

  • @priscillabutler4040
    @priscillabutler4040 4 года назад +29

    Subrina is a gorgeous little girl she looks like her daddy

    • @bencayro1
      @bencayro1 4 года назад +2

      Priscilla Butler she iss beautiful bc she looks like both

  • @creativeandaliveat65
    @creativeandaliveat65 5 лет назад +2956

    Dad: "What's her religion?"
    You: "She is too young to tell me."

  • @rashida7777
    @rashida7777 5 лет назад +1092

    The baby is so beautiful. Looks like dad and mom. I admit...I didn't hear a darn thing that was said. Just looking at the baby!😂😂😂

    • @hermososnina
      @hermososnina 5 лет назад +6

      Exactly! :)

    • @mjohn7577
      @mjohn7577 5 лет назад +4

      LOL...

    • @velinataplinsutton9231
      @velinataplinsutton9231 5 лет назад +9

      rashida7777 Me too🥰. I had to keep going back so I could get caught up on the conversation.🥰🌈🦋

    • @SHAWNTESH
      @SHAWNTESH 5 лет назад +5

      Me too😊

    • @BubburTee
      @BubburTee 5 лет назад +10

      Me too! She was just sitting there all adorable haha ❤️

  • @yollyb9239
    @yollyb9239 4 года назад +5

    She looks like Dad! Daddy's Girl! May God bless You!!! 🙏😍🙏

  • @j.t5763
    @j.t5763 4 года назад +2

    My sister did the same thing
    She was secretly married because she knew my mom would never accept the fact
    she was married to a Christian especially a Nigerian who she hasn't had a good mix with
    She wanted the best for my sister so she wouldn't make the same mistake as her
    But then my sister was pregnant she tried to ask my mom for a blessing to have a traditional wedding, not the papers she had signed. It took my mom a year after my nephew's birth to finally see her grandson (always loved him but was hurt by my sister)
    Day by day we get to see them my mom is allowing the traditional wedding
    Their relationship is getting stronger by the more they both try
    My sister tried her best even when our mom didn't respond
    keep trying and one day things will be better for whoever is going through the same thing

  • @lamar9331
    @lamar9331 5 лет назад +1055

    Your parents are WRONG!!!! They are missing out on the best time of their lives. A happy marriage, a new baby grandchild. Their Loss!!!

    • @superBAkid
      @superBAkid 5 лет назад +2

      Wowowowowow but don’t talk bad about the Muslim religion or you are bad!!!

    • @lamar9331
      @lamar9331 5 лет назад +5

      @@superBAkid Not talking bad about any religion. What are you talking about?

    • @superBAkid
      @superBAkid 5 лет назад +2

      256101120 well the reason this is happening is because of the Muslim religion what else would your comment be about. You said they are wrong so you are saying their religion is wrong you don’t understand logic very well do you?

    • @kitastoi8268
      @kitastoi8268 5 лет назад +7

      @@superBAkid I think they are saying their choice of not being apart of their lives is wrong, not the religion. Please be respectful and mindful. Share love, not hate :)

    • @superBAkid
      @superBAkid 5 лет назад +1

      Nakita Cunningham hush infidel

  • @roz0217
    @roz0217 5 лет назад +418

    Justin, I believe you are handling your situation with your parents perfectly. You have done all you can and your mother's issues are with HERSELF not you. Your father is forced to make the decisions he's making because of the choices he has made in life. You now have your own family and you are trying to raise your daughter in an environment of love and acceptance and I admire that you are extending any open door to your father, but are understanding of his situation. You are a good son. You two are beautiful. Stay positive and never base your happiness on the negative energy of ANYONE even disapproving family. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @rozzzr2
      @rozzzr2 5 лет назад +10

      Roz Reynolds, beautifully said :-)

    • @trees8240
      @trees8240 5 лет назад +5

      I've have many friends who are biracial from various races.when their parents met in the military. Some grandparents had a change of heart while others never did. The strong family bond between the biracial family with supportive friends created the most amazing adults. The grandparents who were close-minded lost out.

    • @sadiaadil6423
      @sadiaadil6423 5 лет назад +1

      Massive respect for Justin for standin by his lady.it takes a real man to go ahead and stick by his decision and make his own family even if his family dsnt approve.in my ( asian) country,mamma's boy marry within their own religion and yet let the mommy and daddy dearest ruin the marriage by continous interference ( wink wink ex husband 😏😏👎) .Wish to meet a man like Justin who got the balls to stand by his decision.In it for good or for bad ,in health and in sickness.

  • @CommonSenseKid
    @CommonSenseKid 4 года назад +161

    I damn near fell on the floor when you said "half/step siblings." So after all that, hes allowed to have children with mutliplle women but you ave to get married on his terms? so hypocritical

    • @Dudububu57
      @Dudububu57 4 года назад

      are you an islamphobe?

    • @CommonSenseKid
      @CommonSenseKid 4 года назад +24

      @@Dudububu57 not at all. But I think fundamentalists of every religion are a problem

    • @galgreen3749
      @galgreen3749 4 года назад +5

      They are divorced you moron 🤦‍♀️ or are you against getting married after a divorce? What should people do die alone?

    • @Trys_Kapeikos
      @Trys_Kapeikos 3 года назад +4

      @@galgreen3749 the problem is that they got divorced, a thing that is not okay in islam or christianity. You swear to god that your other half is your wife/husband forever, and a divorce is breaking that promise given to god. Thats a huge thing.

    • @leen387
      @leen387 3 года назад +4

      Psycho Girl it is ok to get divorced in islam tho...

  • @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD
    @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD 4 года назад +2

    As a woman of mixed ethnicities and nationalities over 50+ times really have not changed much and you guys just know sometime it is not meant for blood family to be happy for your journey. You both ABSOLUTELY MUST HOLD ONTO EACH OTHER AND NOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILD...THERE ARE NO MISTAKES JUST JOY😍 the world needs LOVE and you guys represent LOVE💓😘😍💕💞

  • @divatesteddivaapproved
    @divatesteddivaapproved 5 лет назад +329

    How could any grandparent not want to hug & kiss & spoil that beautiful baby? You are both lovely people. Stay strong for that beautiful baby.

    • @AG-wb3db
      @AG-wb3db 5 лет назад +1

      Diva Tested Diva Approved Because the child is the result of zina. Of sin. A muslimah cannot marry a non muslim. It's the truth.

    • @barbaraalexander3279
      @barbaraalexander3279 5 лет назад

      Yes girl, thats the same thing i was thinking.

    • @barbaraalexander3279
      @barbaraalexander3279 5 лет назад +1

      @@AG-wb3db in the Muslim Faith is there no room for change when it comes to love ?

    • @cashmoneychanel1209
      @cashmoneychanel1209 5 лет назад

      A Geurse aren’t we all born of sin ?

    • @caasholikeyou8434
      @caasholikeyou8434 5 лет назад

      She should respect Muslim religion and her parents Korea lol they don't leave there culture

  • @tylerjohnston9939
    @tylerjohnston9939 5 лет назад +406

    The baby is starting directly into my soul... challenge accepted!

  • @junemoon8675
    @junemoon8675 4 года назад +3

    thank you for your question dad. She is a beautiful human being in good health. When time comes she will let us know

  • @AlexisJayda
    @AlexisJayda 4 года назад +42

    U have such a beautiful baby ❤️ blessings 🥰❤️

  • @Marvelmofe
    @Marvelmofe 5 лет назад +427

    Wow she has a very good heart,she’s
    not even angry at them or negative, she has a good spirit and she’s positive. A real strong black woman 💪

    • @nelliaturley5483
      @nelliaturley5483 5 лет назад +17

      Marvel mofe and a real strong Filipino woman.

    • @goatsarecute1989
      @goatsarecute1989 5 лет назад +50

      how about a real strong woman ! time to see people for people!!! enough with the race crap!!!

    • @Marvelmofe
      @Marvelmofe 5 лет назад +35

      h w it’s not about race, if she was white, I’d say a strong white woman, I was just describing her and yes I’m correct, she’s a black woman and any other ethnicity she’s mixed with, it don’t matter. You’re the one thinking too deep about it 🤷🏼‍♀️ plus black women don’t get much credit and I’m giving it to one so?

    • @ly3730
      @ly3730 5 лет назад +9

      h w “race crap” chill, she’s black isn’t she?

    • @jessicazamora3412
      @jessicazamora3412 5 лет назад +5

      She’s Korean and black

  • @Scratchnwintx
    @Scratchnwintx 5 лет назад +226

    You know, you are married to each other. Your not married to parents, grandparents, brothers or sisters. You have started a new family and now you have a child. I know it hurts when family is rejecting your choices but life can be like that at times. Cleave to each other and make each other your priority. Pray for your parents and take care of yourselves and your new baby. As far as Islam, my heart goes out to you. Love can conquer anything so keep Christ's Love at the forefront of your communication with your families. 1 Cor 13.

    • @dr87815
      @dr87815 5 лет назад

      exactly

    • @tamiamatthews4410
      @tamiamatthews4410 5 лет назад

      Amen

    • @dorethafuller-evans8928
      @dorethafuller-evans8928 5 лет назад +1

      This is not cool. Keep on living my friends.They are not
      going to bite. You two need to take of yourselves. Be happy.

    • @theresag1969
      @theresag1969 5 лет назад

      You said it succinctly. They are still their parent's children, now with a child.

  • @durjayetalall2955
    @durjayetalall2955 4 года назад +9

    sending this beautiful family an abundance of love, light and healing💕

  • @np100
    @np100 3 года назад +2

    You are doing all that you can. My MIL never accepted me and tried to tell my husband the baby we had four years ater marrying was not his. You two focus on yourselves and you sweet little girl.

  • @ella_norav
    @ella_norav 5 лет назад +731

    Your daughter is so beautiful. Looks just like her mother!

    • @KK-qw5cu
      @KK-qw5cu 5 лет назад +4

      You are a very sweet and loving couple, and your darling daughter is very fortunate to have you as her parents. You should not live for your parents approval. The world has changed, your parents chose their path and you have chosen yours. You communicated with love to your parents, it is now their turn to grow and accept the relationship you have. God bless you both!.

    • @peggysueusa2946
      @peggysueusa2946 5 лет назад +15

      I think she looks like both her parents, her mom's eyes & the rest is all daddy.

    • @bakuman123
      @bakuman123 5 лет назад +2

      Sucks how everyone still says oh looks like mom.. never dad

    • @sassyd8738
      @sassyd8738 4 года назад

      @@peggysueusa2946 Think she has mom nose n favor both parents too ionno why people wanna trip over racism love each other stop picking she is a beautiful baby girl

  • @gina8546
    @gina8546 5 лет назад +258

    I think you did the right thing. He should love her regardless of her religion

  • @choonylee5221
    @choonylee5221 3 года назад +1

    The love you share, the blessing and the absolute gift of your baby Sabrina is beautiful! You all know how precious each day of your lives are!
    The interactions I have seen from Justins Mom (only 2 ) and your Dad shows me how much they want to express their love for you and how precious you are to them. Of course, your Mom’s nagging, screaming words are difficult and hurtful to you as its not exactly what you want/need, but, never give up on them in pure respect of bring you up, and their unconditional love for you.

    • @choonylee5221
      @choonylee5221 3 года назад

      I love your condition that you did not want your love for Sabrina to be conditional on her religion!
      I think you should reply to your Dad that your love for your child and him is not conditional on religion or anything else.

  • @benjmatautia2402
    @benjmatautia2402 4 года назад

    People who love or care conditionally are such toxic people, You definetly made the right decision by not responding. You guys are such positive and uplifting people, The world needs more people like you both!

  • @lehuamarkpol
    @lehuamarkpol 5 лет назад +77

    My 5 year old son said “look at the baby! She’s so cute! Aww look she’s yawning!” Blessings to your family. I admire your perseverance with your family.

  • @SharonBaxter12
    @SharonBaxter12 5 лет назад +167

    I am 65 yrs. Old, when I started dating,( late 1960's) I was informed by my parents that I was not allowed to date Catholic boys and if I married a Catholic man, my father would dis-owned me. Parents have no clue of how they are hurting their children and it's heartbreaking. Your little family are in my prayers. *Hugs* Sharon from Midlothian,Texas🙋🏻‍♀️🇨🇱

    • @JindyMarie05
      @JindyMarie05 5 лет назад +3

      Hi Sharon! Absolutely! And sometimes kids will feel like they just want to make their parents proud, so they follow their wishes even if they themselves will not be happy.
      It's so important for parents to just respect and truly love their children. And guide them...
      I hope your story had a happy ending!

    • @donnaromano9827
      @donnaromano9827 5 лет назад +1

      My sister was married in 1963. My BIL needed to convert to Catholicism for church to marry them

    • @lillylazer429
      @lillylazer429 5 лет назад +4

      I'm glad you listened to your heart. Sometimes parents don't know what's best for thier kids. I was dating a man in college and yes he was going to make alot of money. He was a horrible person who was a cheater and a jerk. I decided not to stay with him and left him soon after. My mom was upset cause he would have given me a nice life. No he wouldn't have. Years later I met a good honest hard working man who would go on to treat me with kindness and respect. My mother was not happy cause he couldn't afford a huge house. I dont care about things like that. I wouldn't change it for any amount of money

    • @Spiralsmile
      @Spiralsmile 5 лет назад +2

      My mom's catholic and dad Jewish. Both sets of my grandparents were unhappy when they started dating in high school in the 70s. My mom's parents got over it but my dads parents cut him off.

    • @texuztweety
      @texuztweety 5 лет назад +2

      My neighbor was from Midlothian, so long ago though, can't recall the name

  • @dakaraperrin1326
    @dakaraperrin1326 4 года назад +3

    Wow having unsupportive parents on both sides must be so very heartbreaking but you guys have overcome so much your love is stronger than anything.

  • @mreneekennysqueen6137
    @mreneekennysqueen6137 4 года назад +5

    Omg I couldn’t take my eyes off of that gorgeous baby. 😍 so beautiful

  • @_____758
    @_____758 5 лет назад +263

    Not responding was a good move... because i want him to love her on his own with no other conditions

    • @tamarahanointedservant2936
      @tamarahanointedservant2936 5 лет назад +1

      Right

    • @carmenbanks5690
      @carmenbanks5690 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah! Silence in fact Speak Louder! You take the person who asks into the wider realm in life, dark & bright for him/her to realize! Wise move, but I also thougth though, what if you nicely answered as suggested above, Dad: what is her religion? You:I don't know yet she is too young to tell me! Hahaha! Why on earth is religion the basis of our lives or existence? It is why there is so much trouble, hatred & misery in this world!

    • @brigitteschultz1552
      @brigitteschultz1552 5 лет назад +2

      @@carmenbanks5690 Religion Is the problem not faith in a loving God

    • @MG-uz5mr
      @MG-uz5mr 5 лет назад +4

      No, she should tell him why she's taken offence as Justin said. At the very least she has the peace of mind that she made herself clear, and then it is truly up to him to be present, unconditionally if he so chooses.

  • @imBlaq
    @imBlaq 5 лет назад +743

    LOVE doesn't see color. Am Russian married to a beautiful Ghana soul sister.

    • @gideontweneboah2903
      @gideontweneboah2903 5 лет назад +14

      🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

    • @nyakolalmama-africa5720
      @nyakolalmama-africa5720 5 лет назад +9

      Thank you for being color blind.

    • @jojomakes
      @jojomakes 5 лет назад +57

      Nyakolal Mama-Africa Color blindness is a farce. We obviously see color. Unless ur blind, u can see ur own color as well as the color of those around u. That’s the wonder of the world. The beauty is seeing the wonder and exquisiteness in all of our differences and uniqueness.

    • @nyakolalmama-africa5720
      @nyakolalmama-africa5720 5 лет назад +3

      Jonelle85 thank you!

    • @nadie1mayascuz
      @nadie1mayascuz 5 лет назад +3

      @@jojomakes i actually did not see colour as difinitive of anything all i saw were human beings. Of course they different complexions but it never registered as having any meaning. Because as a black person i have different complexions in my immediate family. I didnt notice Race as a thing only skin tone. But EVERYONES is different so it went over my head. Until i got to uni with racist, ignirant, colourstruck prejudiced white people. Cant unsee race now

  • @sin-kietjho355
    @sin-kietjho355 4 года назад +3

    Congratulation to an enlightened, compassionate and simply beautiful young couple. Love

  • @margaretlisboa563
    @margaretlisboa563 4 года назад +2

    There is only so much you can do ALL I CAN SAY IS JUST LOVE EACHOTHER if your parents don’t come around so be it their loss- I will gladly accept to be the baby’s grandma 😊You guys are a beautiful couple ❤️❤️

  • @deidresmith9698
    @deidresmith9698 5 лет назад +327

    Not ignore...but silent respect. Im so sorry. Y'all are so sweet n strong. Protect Sabrina. She is u guys main focus. Jst send picts n love each other

  • @ayo4637
    @ayo4637 5 лет назад +132

    The whole time my eyes where fixated on that gorgeous little girl. She's so cute.

  • @Tvgirlfan86529
    @Tvgirlfan86529 4 года назад +17

    I can't stop staring at the baby she's so precious

  • @c.t.9915
    @c.t.9915 4 года назад +2

    Very sad, but I’m wishing you guys many blessings, love, happiness, peace, support, kindness, joy, and strength.

  • @jacquelineanderson5011
    @jacquelineanderson5011 5 лет назад +416

    You don't love a child because of religion or race. You love them because they are your children. No exceptions!!!

    • @tariqondatrack2366
      @tariqondatrack2366 5 лет назад

      our religion is different... i wouldn’t disown my child if they don’t have an arranged marriage although i would disown my child if they were gay... i would love my child no matter how hey get married but i would be disappointed but if a son/daughter of mine were to be gay... i would disown them

    • @tiana.hudson
      @tiana.hudson 5 лет назад +12

      Tariq K.
      You probably shouldn’t have kids if you know you’re gonna have conditional love for them. That’s extremely fucked up

    • @deannac5026
      @deannac5026 5 лет назад +1

      @@tariqondatrack2366 diD YOu EveN ReAd tHe ComMEnT?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    • @deannac5026
      @deannac5026 5 лет назад +3

      @@tariqondatrack2366 THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING IN LOVE WITH THE SAME GENDER AND WHAT YOU JUST SAID IS THE MOST FUCKED UP THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE!!! My sister is gay and I love her and support her unconditionally, and so does my brother parents. You should never disown a child because of their sexuality! In fact, you shouldn't even have children in the first place if you are going to be so cruel as to disown a child because they love the same gender. If you have children (which I would hate to see that happen) you treat them with LOVE and RESPECT and KINDNESS not because of their sexuality you IDIOT!!!
      Sry to go off but my sister is lesbian and I will NOT up with this!!!

    • @shiararuiz5171
      @shiararuiz5171 4 года назад

      Ok the thing about disown is stupid anyway your kids will be your kids until you die and you can’t do nothing about it no matter if you don’t agree with their choices in life they still will be part of you but anyway I do agree if my kids end up being gay of having another religion than mine that will separate us a lot because I will never agree with that and I won’t like it but my kids will still be my kids even if one day I will not like it I hope that my kids still in my religion and follow costumes of my culture too so we can be close

  • @sha_la007
    @sha_la007 5 лет назад +442

    Protect your child! The way you responded by not responding to your father was perfect. The album is a nice way to speak without speaking. Sabrina is BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @bwc4572
    @bwc4572 4 года назад

    I have never seen any of your videos, but it is people like you that will make this world a better place. With as much resistance from both of your families I am happy to see you both are thriving through the ignorance. No disrespect to your folks, but the ways of the old are done. Its their issue.... I wish you both happiness and joy!

  • @funsweettreats35
    @funsweettreats35 4 года назад +6

    I'm sorry I have heard of your sorrow. Love is love regardless of religion. Your family is beautiful ❤️

  • @hibosamatar3224
    @hibosamatar3224 5 лет назад +59

    I am a very Muslim old lady and I believe and I know Allah love kindness, honesty, love. In Islam, babies are angels of Allah and they should be loved no matter what their religion is. Please, focus on your beautiful family. Be blessed!

    • @ajsuflena156
      @ajsuflena156 5 лет назад +3

      Hibo Samatar yessssss babies are innocent

  • @That_Nina
    @That_Nina 5 лет назад +382

    Your wife is someone I'd want to come home to from a rough day. She's so sweet and lovely. Her voice is soothing.

  • @marianncarroll6763
    @marianncarroll6763 4 года назад +1

    They make so difficult,my mom just sent my grandparents a picture.You can't control what people think but just stay kind and patient with others who think differently,they will come around

  • @DHuhnCatMom
    @DHuhnCatMom 4 года назад

    You did the right thing not responding to your father's question about baby's religion. It's a matter of control. He wants to control your family. Enjoy each other and your new baby. You are a sweet couple and very joyful 💗💗💗

  • @oceanesta5131
    @oceanesta5131 5 лет назад +655

    "What's her religion?"
    "She's only 5 weeks old, she hasn't made up her mind yet."

    • @hbmjbn77
      @hbmjbn77 5 лет назад +23

      Thats what i was thinking lol... she doesn't know yet...

    • @TazKidNoah
      @TazKidNoah 5 лет назад +9

      if ur too ignorant to understand what he ment was will she be raised with Islamic upbringing. All Muslim Fathers whisper Adhan to baby's ear. Does this makes sense now??
      He isn't going to not love her BUT he will be disappointed if She's raised Jahil.

    • @oceanesta5131
      @oceanesta5131 5 лет назад +68

      @@TazKidNoah Please do not call me ignorant, I obviously know what her father meant by his question. My comment just highlights how Sabrina is too young to decide what religion she wants to be, even if she were raised in Islam she could grow up to change her mind.

    • @TazKidNoah
      @TazKidNoah 5 лет назад +4

      +Oceanesta
      "My comment just highlights how Sabrina is too young to decide what religion she wants to be"
      once again ur Ignorant If u knew what he mean then u would have made a straight forward comment INSTEAD, u needed me to call u out??

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 5 лет назад +26

      @@TazKidNoah When one is subjected to religious indoctrination as a child, the religion becomes part of who you are. It is hard to eliminate the effects of brainwashing. It took me many years to de-convert back to being atheist.

  • @kendramiller2893
    @kendramiller2893 5 лет назад +359

    Your parents should be thanking the good Lord that they raised some amazing human beings, that dont see color, religion etc, you not out robbing killing doing drugs etc, you guys both are beyond amazing because most people would have cursed they butts out and been done with them for life but not you guys trust me its millions of parents that would trade places with them in a heartbeat
    Keep being you

    • @cupcake2009ist
      @cupcake2009ist 5 лет назад +4

      It’s truly sad that they are so ignorant that they can’t open up their hearts to approve of them and their beautiful baby girl.

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 5 лет назад +1

      Kendra Miller Absolutely!

    • @00Jammy1
      @00Jammy1 5 лет назад +2

      Well said 💗 xxxxx

    • @longislandny696
      @longislandny696 5 лет назад +6

      Hi Justin & Sarah & baby Sabrina! I know what you’re going through. I have Muslim parents too,my Mom talks to me but my father cut me off 9 years ago the moment I removed my veil.His loss,I have a ton of Christian and Muslim Family that love me no matter what.You guys have each other and that’s all that matters.Stay strong and don’t let their ignorance upset you.Love watching you guys!❤️Lots of kisses to Sabrina😚

    • @sadiaadil6423
      @sadiaadil6423 5 лет назад

      Well said 👍

  • @alexisanthony3392
    @alexisanthony3392 4 года назад +16

    Y’all look so happy, don’t let anyone get in between your marriage.

  • @sosha4050
    @sosha4050 4 года назад +4

    She was born at 4:44 am and my niece at 2:22 a.m, definitely here to change the world! 💜💜💜

    • @jesusisgod4638
      @jesusisgod4638 4 года назад +1

      Sosha I was born the same day at 3:30 am 2019