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- I wake up each day thinking how grateful I am because I truly wouldn't want to trade my life with anyone else. To me, that's the definition of success. But how did I end up here? I realized that a key to success is learning to think for yourself. The easy thing to do is to subscribe to what the majority is doing/saying because then you don't have to think for yourself. But I urge you to look around and ask yourself if you want the results that the majority have? You might come to realize that although the advice people give you comes with good intention, it's based on their model of the world... but what if you want to break free from that model? I knew I did. That's when I started seeing success in all areas of my life. You're fully capable, you just need to trust yourself to make the best decisions for you in your life... nobody knows your heart like you do.
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00:00 Introduction
00:29 My success
02:10 Learn to think for yourself
02:36 Settling for the popular opinion is lazy
02:53 What's "normal" isn't always what's "best"
03:34 Pain and challenge is an opportunity to grow
05:11 Living an Extra Ordinary life
06:10 Build confidence in your abilities
06:35 Taking calculated risks
07:07 Follow your heart
07:24 The unpopular opinion
08:13 Stop being a sheep
09:28 I caution you about following too man ppl
09:56 Warning about having an opinion
11:32 Live a life by design
11:59 Respect
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I wake up each day thinking how grateful I am because I truly wouldn't want to trade my life with anyone else. To me, that's the definition of success. But how did I end up here? I realized that a key to success is learning to think for yourself. The easy thing to do is to subscribe to what the majority is doing/saying because then you don't have to think for yourself. But I urge you to look around and ask yourself if you want the results that the majority have? You might come to realize that although the advice people give you comes with good intention, it's based on their model of the world... but what if you want to break free from that model? I knew I did. That's when I started seeing success in all areas of my life. You're fully capable, you just need to trust yourself to make the best decisions for you in your life... nobody knows your heart like you do.
The message 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Well said, thanks for the videos you post and for being true to God and yourself. It's a rare quality and if you read your comments, I want you to know you're doing the right thing and you're appreciated 👏
Love this! Loved your video!!! 💜
Thank You so much!!! 🤗❤️This is exactly what l needed
Any tip to build self-confidence when you feel like rubbish? :(
“If something is the truth then questioning it isn’t a threat” well said!
I'm 28 as well and was broke a couple of years ago. I grew up down the street from Hermes (the owner of the luxury brand), my neighbour was literally a king, but after high school, life hit me pretty hard. Life hit me pretty hard. I used to live in Miami being around street violence, guns, death, and I even used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend against bigger threats. Now I live in a nordic wood cabin in the north of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on RUclips to help others who need it the most 🙏🏽💜
I hear ya can't wait to move out of Miami we're getting robbed by our HOA Hammocks they all just got arrested and the president is facing 150yrs in prison for raising our fees by 400 percent. Big changes are happening
What do you do for a living
Wow, what a story! Good for you for rising like a phoenix from the ashes.
I'm so proud of you Mehdi your life story and bravery n determination you had in such a young age to change your situation n have a better life is quite remarkable I'm sure by sharing your story you're helping lots of people including myself, keep sharing n doing the good job and I really hope you're proud of yourself too. Much love ❤👍🙏🤗
Thanks for for sharing Mehdi! What helped you get out to where you are now?
I birthed my son at home, with no pain medications . I wouldn’t have done it any other way. Powerful experience.
Hi Tatiana I just wanna say thank you. Because I’m 15 year old girl and I always see MEN talking about success( which is not bad, and I learned a lot) but always questioned if maybe woman can’t achieve the same. Because I never saw any. So it’s so inspiring to see a woman as young as you to reach her goals. And also not just trash talk everything we do wrong in life, but to truly inspire. And as a young girl I really am sooo grateful that I found you Chanel. 💕
I do agree that we need more females in business to share their stories! Have you watched my video on masculine/feminine energy? I think it might give you some insight into the internal dynamics.
@@TatianaJames I just watched it and it really helped understanding me and the people around me. Thank you so much
That's odd especially if you're 15. There are TONS of successful women in this day and age speaking about it literally all the time. Maybe u need to tweak the type of content u consume. Michelle Obama speaks about her success all of the time. Oprah, Issa Rae, keke palmer, yara shahidi, marsai Martin, traylor swift and so so many more....
@@ebonyeverything2751 I know there are a lot of successful women. I’m not saying there aren’t any. But when it comes to entrepreneurs I mostly see men. I’m not saying there aren’t any women who are entrepreneurs, it’s just when I look for successful people I mostly see men. And believe in like the biggest fan of women in power but it’s just hard to find successful women in this business.
You are quite literally the only person on social media whom I trust their opinions and motives of life. You have helped me achieve a 6 figure business in 1 year and stay motivated with what I’m doing. I appreciate your existence!!!
Please give a short advice to where to begin.
Thank you for your confidence :) I’m so happy to hear of your success!
@@pinapardoki9708 You will need to decide that for yourself and please clarify which sector you are referring to. If you are speaking in terms of business; find a problem and sell a solution.
When you begin to see traction, apply for your business licence/LLC/ sol proprietorship. Apply for your trademark through the USPTO database and follow their written instructions when forming your brand. You'll need at least $500 for those two steps. Then go to your state website and apply for a sellers licence/ sales tax certificate. Look into any/ all licences/ certifications/ legal inspections needed. Apply for your business bank account and get a Point of sale device, then make sure you follow with PCI compliance. Etc. It will be a learn as you go, but you need to keep track of your sales and apply every quarter for tax.
Now, if we are talking personal, NEVER stop learning/ working on yourself. Always stay humble and always be thankful for each day.
She is right. Follow your own path and what you feel the creators path is for you. Best of luck and hope it helps.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
00:29 My success
02:10 Learn to think for yourself
02:36 Settling for the popular opinion is lazy
02:53 What's "normal" isn't always what's "best"
03:34 Pain and challenge is an opportunity to grow
05:11 Living an Extra Ordinary life
06:10 Build confidence in your abilities
06:35 Taking calculated risks
07:07 Follow your heart
07:24 The unpopular opinion
08:13 Stop being a sheep
09:28 I caution you about following too man ppl
09:56 Warning about having an opinion
11:32 Live a life by design
11:59 Respect
You’re such a great role model breaking through all stereotypes ❤ you’re a really beautiful woman but then you’re also very smart you’re really feminine and then you’re a great entrepreneur. You’re wealthy and still have a great marriage. You’re proof that all the limiting beliefs others try to put on us are not true. Thank you so much ❤
Thank you 🥰
These YOU affirmations are powerful af. Tell me I’m pretty too 😻
People prefer to spend money on liabilities,Rather than investing in assets and be very profitable
Listen to Tatiana, guys. This woman is gifted! I started to study Amazon FBA over a year ago because of her, and I made my first sale yesterday. I know that's nothing, but it means a lot to me because now I know what it takes to get to this point.
The value of pain, old-school knowledge sources, and social media were straight-to-the-point topics in this video.
Congrats 🎉
What are you selling?
Congrats on the sale. So did it take a whole year to get 1 sale? I been thinking of starting FBA or Dropshipping but seems very saturated now.
I'm highly skilled in music production though so wondering if I can do something there. Trying to get RICH RICH LOL
It’s SOMETHING! Congrats 🎉
@@johnmoore4820 it's unwise for a seller to reveal what they're selling. That creates instant competition.
⭐️I like what you have to say about the value of PAIN. I think it’s important for us to remember that the temporary pain of exercise is what leads to increasing our physical strength… and in the same way, challenging things in life can be used strengthen us mentally and emotionally. This is the foundation of my mission to support 20-somethings in learning how to LOVE THEIR LIVES no matter what kind of ups & downs they’re experiencing! 💛
100% :)
@@TatianaJames so i can talk to a millioner on RUclips?
I have been really stressed out about my financial situation. This really helped me because I know that even though I'm not living the life I want for myself, I'm on the right track because I know I don't want to live the same way everyone else is living. It starts with your mindset. Really inspiring video. 💫
The pain of giving birth is not “some” pain like you said. It is A LOT of pain. And I think when we see something wrong, when we have additional information other people around us don’t then we have a duty to say it and share it, no matter whether they listen or not, no matter if they asked for it or not. Someone may dismiss it at first but you never know when that person will find themselves in a situation where what you said could save them, make them turn another way or simply re-think what believed in.
21 and I've recently had to tell myself "hey, freedom is not knowing. At any point in time if you wanna make a change then do that but don't hold back"
It's scarier to look up and realize life has gone by then to give life your all and not know where the setbacks will be. ♥︎
So glad you created this channel and are succeeding in every area of life everday, one step at a time. Bless you 💜💜💜
love that! 💖
Crazy I was literally just talking about this with my husband. I feel like everyone just follows a certain path and these things are not questioned. I feel so different because I feel like the only one questioning these things.
Tatiana I needed this msg. This is amazing and I have been thinking about this for a few days. I have noticed that almost everyone projects their model of their world including their world view onto others. I have broke free from this and I am the driver of my own life. Feels amazing to realize this and then coming across this video was pure confirmation.
It also has much to do with connections. Friendships and social networking. Also, looks okay a large part.
I was always against pain medication during the birth of my children. But my first child was coming to the world with complications, stimulation, some other problems and I was going through it without anaesthesia and when I was ready to take it, no one was available for me to give it, as I didn’t order it beforehand. I regretted it of course, I felt so bad many months after birth, I cannot say how bad…… Of course some births are fine, easy, no need for anaesthesia. I wish you dear Tatiana, the easiest and happiest labour and birth of your first child! 🙏
We have six kids and my wife and I have followed you and Stephon for a few years. We think you would make great parents and wish lots of children.
Girl, you are like me 🙏❤ I speak tree languages, I studed International Relations. I love to learn from other cultures and from people from other countries. Thats a blessing from God, that we are all not the same 🙏❤
This video felt good in my spirit. It was truthful but I also like how respectful you are to your viewers ç. It doesn't feel like you're talking at us. You're having a conversation. Speaking of pain being a person that goes against the grain is painful. It comes with a price..It can be lonely being a leader and not follower. I appreciate this message. Thank you and God bless you.
Those who step outside their comfort bubble are the ones who succeed! Definitely agree with everything you said. 💯 Also, I had my 2 sons with no pain medication, you get the pride of knowing you did it all by yourself with no medication, you experienced the pain many women fear and stand strong having endured something most women would never do. And honestly it's not as bad as people make it out to be. I rather have no medication than have a long thick needle 💉 inserted into my back. No thanks!
Thanks! Ya I'm not afraid of birth at all, I'm actually looking forward to it. It's all about how you frame it. To me, it's an empowering experience and i feel honoured to be able to have that.
I had my last two babies at home. It is such an awesome experience. It's hard but for me totally worth it.
I was watching this video thinking about how much I can relate to you.
I did have a homebirth. I spent months researching and reading about scientific evidence about births. By the time I got pregnant I was so well informed about the process of giving birth, that the night I started having contractions, I knew exactly what was going on and I felt very safe. No panic, no rush. Nothing was perfect and the birth was very, very painful. The baby was born in what scientific evidence estimates to be the time it takes to deliver a baby without complications or interventions; 12 hours.
I already forgot the traumatic experience of such painful birth, but I've never forgotten how cruel and ignorant people were with me, especially those women whose births lasted more than 30 hours because they never questioned any intervention, but they were laughing at me for experiencing pain on my birth.
The vast majority of people behave like sheep herds, but for those people who dare to question everything and do something that is different to what others do, remember that you owe nothing to those sheep.
Thank you Tatiana, you are very inspiring. X
If something is the truth then questioning it isn’t a threat 👏
Your video just popped up on my feed and I'm so glad I clicked on it! Great advice, thank you. You are wise beyond your years, have a beautiful outlook and so generous to have the desire to share your wisdom with others. Thank you 💛
Yes! I have given birth to two children without any pain relief and am so glad I listened to myself and not everyone laughing at me for even wanted that. I LOVE giving birth and to feel it all, I fricking love it. Would love to birth at home some day too ♥️
I love how you talk about your relationship with God. It’s so important in life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
The caption alone just put my whole life in perspective
I don't want a just a successful life, I want a significant life.
Success=adding value to self
Significant=adding value to others
wow. been looking for a women to watch because all i watch is men talking ab “success” THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️ I feel like i’m watching myself in the future 🥰🥰😼😼😼
I agree upon "walk the walk. "
Thank you for sharing your perspective on success.
You actually helped me with something right now.
Wishing you the best....in all aspects of your life.
Take care Tatiana!
I am so much happy to learn about this Tatiana.
Yes it's true that pain is a motivation.
Being brought up in hardships and pain, this has been a great motivation to make a successful life.
I have been yearning to create success in all aspects of my life.
And yes you are the right mentor I have.
Beautiful truthful message
Regarding a natural pregnancy and birth dont let anyone not even doctors bully you into what you dont want... pray, be confident and eat healthy
God bless you
Completely off topic but your home is so beautiful! 😍 I absolutely love what you said in the video, btw. I’m definitely that person that questions EVERYTHING, which I’m grateful for. People that go with the flow of everything are natural born followers, not leaders. I truly enjoyed this video!
Thank you! It was Halloween so maybe you could spot the ghost in the background. Glad you relate!
Most of the time my opinion is different to the ''popular opinion'' about the subject. And I always thought is a bad thing as it made my life harder many times (for example during the pandemic), thank you for showing me a different perspective.
Wow.i heard myself talking thru you only to realize it's you speaking.Have you been listening to me over the years.Keep it up girl,love your mindset it will get you very far.This is just the beginning for you.Great
I just had to comment that I had my son at home unmedicated in a birthing tub in my living room. Everyone I spoke to while i was pregnant thought I was absolutely insane for wanting a home birth and how dangerous it would be and they couldn’t fathom the thought. Mostly from close family - my mother / husband etc. But I had prepared myself so much and I was so determined that this was what I wanted. I invited only my
Husband and Mother to the birth (my mother had had 3 C-sections) and it was the greatest experience of my life and so eye opening to my husband and mother who still talk about it to this day 8 years later. But such is life--you have to want things so bad that the thought of pain or the fear is insignificant. Our minds are so powerful! You can do anything
Thank you for the video. This gave me the confidence I very much needed to continue down the path I am on.
I am already 40 and kind of wasted the first half of my life by following other people's ideas and I won't make the same mistake again.
I want to take a certificate program for a field i want to get into. It's not accredited, I'm just interested in the information. My mom was giving me such a hard time, trying to urge me to "go to a REAL school" aka college aka debt aka what everyone else is doing. My heart wants to just take the class but she kinda guilt tripped me and had me second guessing myself this morning. Her opinion is that I'm wasting thousands on schools that aren't accredited. This video reminded me to go with what I WANT to do. I want the experience and the education. ALL education is education accredited or not. Thank you Tati.
Yes 💯 we must learn to think for ourselves if we want to live extraordinary lives! This is what I needed to hear today. Thank you.
The pain that a mother has in childbirth is one of the most important aspects of being a mother. That pain Helps a mother to bond and protect the child. Just think of the thing that you have sacrificed And felt the most struggle for, how you hold that in such high regard.
I truly believe that that's the true definition of success, all parts of life
It’s my first time watching you and I really like your ideas. It gave me new perspective. Thank you and hoping for more success. ☺️
100% - In my first pregnancy, I was very young and I had every paid medication I could. I almost had to have a caesarean because the epidural slowed everything down. The second one, I had matured so much - I actually studied hypno birthing techniques, (which really helped by the way) and only had gas and air for pain relief. By contrast, I came out of that birth fully in control and only with a couple of stitches. With my first birth, I ended up in hospital actually for two weeks and my son suffered from reduced oxygen while giving birth because it was taking so long. Birthing isn't a medical emergency! Women are much better off taking control of their own births and only going to hospital when it is really necessary.
I've been struggling with success and following my own path. I was fed up with my corporate job, a year ago was laid off from it, and I've been trying to make some money online, but it turned out to be so hard. Competition is insane, and I'm too afraid to try more uncommon ways. I learned the hard way that if there is an easy way to make money online, you'll be not alone and there is no way to stay sane and honest. And the most difficult thing for me is to find a mentor, especially a female role model. Most of the women I see on social media are basically selling their looks and bodies, their beauty, or they claim to manifest their success. So, I see what's not working for me, but cannot see a way out of it that would suit my personality.
This was really insightful! I have been thinking a lot about how some people I know have become inflexible in their beliefs as well as being forceful about them. I have been working on challenging myself while staying aware of my intentions & personal boundaries. This was very helpful encouragement to realize I am on my own path for a reason. Thanks! 🤩🙌
I’m glad to hear it was helpful :)
It’s amazing how much I relate to you. Your an inspiration. It takes guts to share your opinions knowing that people may not agree, but it’s powerful advice. I love how you take everything, every point of view into consideration. It’s so rare to find individuals like you that are so open minded and well rounded. Truly appreciate hearing your thoughts. Take care of yourself
kei waenganui ko te wahi i noho ai te mokete ka tino pai ahau ki tenei ataata ka awhina i ahau 🤗💗
Your such an inspiration!! I’ve been learning so much from you so I’m grateful for your channel, congrats on being financially free!! ❤️ I had both my babies with no pain meds, woman are strong , you’ll do amazing! I wish I had my babies at home , the hospital was an absolute terrible experience , thank goodness for midwives!
Having a different opinion is definitely okay. I have them for most of the time, but whenever I talk to someone of a different view from mine about something, I listen to them with understanding and communicate my understanding of what they said to me, but can also form my own opinion about it. I believe that's how you have a healthy disagreement with someone. If I agree with someone's view, I communicate that verbally and that's one of the reasons why people love to talk to me. I'm not the egoistic type who disagrees with everything and obsessed with being right. Most importantly, if I don't know anything about a topic or not as informed about it, I make that explicitly known. It's so annoying talking to someone who always have an answer for everything, even if they are not well-informed about it. I'm sure you've seen the know-it-alls? They are highly unpleasant to be around with.
Never married, no kids, work just enough to afford my little two-bedroom with single car garage.
Work for a startup that pays decent and offers max freedom and flexibility.
Gots my motorcycle, play lead guitar in an 80s butt rock band. Rock climb.
I’m a very, very happy atheist. 😃👍
Wow 🤩 I was just thinking to myself how the ONLY person out here (as far as I know of in the RUclips industry) I would love to hang out with you. I can say I’m a big fan of you Tatiana because every single one of your videos brings in great information. To me that’s more valuable then spending my time watching a pointless video.
You preach great tips and I absolutely love it. I apply it to my job and to my way of thinking and doing.
Im 22 years old working as a hostess for barely 3 months and people think I’ve been working there for a long time because of the confidence that I have. One of our duties is to do a restroom check and even if it’s sucky , I try my best to keep it clean and why ? Because ms. Tatiana told me to try your best and be your best at everything
Solid advice! I sometimes get lost in wanting to speak my truth that I forget others have their own truths! Sometimes it makes me upset when people oppose me & it feels like I’m not heard or that people take me for a joke! What I take from this message is that I should practice keeping my opinions to myself especially if no one asks! It seems it would save me from unnecessary turmoil!!
There are also some medical disadvantages to pain medication of childbirth that many doctors don't talk about.
3:33 face the pain and challenge and use it as fuel and fire to go beyond your limits
It worked for George Costanza.
“Everyone has value to share “
Rightfully subscribed. You're my role model now and thank you so much for sharing💗
Sorry to go off topic, but your videos make a deep, philosophical impression on me, so I could actually use your wisdom, especially as a woman. Last week at work was awful. I was taken to my supervisor's office with her and a high-ranking chef. They (or mostly the chef) told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much. Not THAT type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. When I asked her if anyone reported a complaint, she said it didn't matter. She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (I work at a university's catering service). She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I pretty much don't have a filter, and sometimes I guess I do say inappropriate stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally. I like to joke around and have fun with my coworkers, but I guess it isn't like that after all (more or less). I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and who. She understands and likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits, for good behavior and my coworkers' sake. And again, that I shouldn't touch my coworkers (shoulders or arms) without their consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep! I don't randomly hug people or anything like that. I didn't mean to be so "handsy" (I say loosely). I'm so embarrassed about the office lecture. I am not like Biden at all. I'm really not. Have I really gone that far at work? I already hate being on the spectrum, and sometimes I actually hate myself. I wish I could work somewhere, not only for my coworkers' sake (should that presumption be true) and myself, because I'm so ashamed.
Your boss gave you feedback, that's all it is. I listen to all feedback because I am aware that other's will see me in a way that I cannot see myself, just like an eye cannot see it's own eye. So like I said in the video, appreciate the feedback as valuable data. You don't have to take it personally and feel ashamed, there's nothing to be ashamed of. Because it's your boss that's making this request, you can adjust your behaviour and tone it down a bit with the touching. Again, don't take it so personally just see it for what it is. In the work place, the boss doesn't appreciate it but perhaps in a different context like with your best friends/family, the touching might be a very endearing quality that communicates compassion and closeness. So it's not about right or wrong it's just that it's not a behaviour that works in that work environment.
@@TatianaJames Well, that wasn't the rest of the story. I started with the first half to see what you thought of that first, before progressing and taking it from there. In other words, there's a part 2 I didn't want to share quite yet, but now that you've critiqued part 1, here's the update: I felt so bad about the incident, I wrote an apology letter explaining my side and ASD to her. It mentions how I never intend to offend people, that I felt horrible about the office thing all day yesterday (including during a run that I shortened due to guilt and anxiety). It was a long letter, expressing so many things: 1. my guilt, 2. my need to redeem myself, 3. an explanation that my hands on shoulders and arms were always meant to be friendly and casual, not creepy, 4. my hesitation to do it if I had known it would bother my coworkers, 5. my issues with communication and social skills. 6. my need to accommodate and respect people when I feel I have gone too far or when they're just not pleasant. 7. Yadda, yadda, yadda. I also admitted I had ASD to "clarify with context." I handed it to her in the kitchen and left to continue my shift. She came around the hall to talk to me, and she sounded understanding. I told her that as a guy who unfortunately develops *differently,* it's tough and I often say the wrong things, in which case, I apologize and choose not to speak around the people I think I've upset. You know, to let her know how cautious I am around people and quiet for their sake. She understands that I had a challenge in my life ("challenge" is her word) and she said she felt the need to make sure I understood what is appropriate talk at work, to help me "succeed in life." Apparently, this isn't just about my coworkers' sake, it's about mine as well. Apparently she was trying to benefit me just as much as the other workers (if not more). I told her my guilt and improved behavior was always about them, not me, because I put others before myself. She promised she wouldn't spread around my ASD (which I had told her in confidence in the letter), and that she never meant to scold 👉me in the office (while portraying an angry face for a facial gesture). She even thanked me in the end for the letter, I think. Now, I still have to wait for the wound to heal, because I'm still kind of awkward about the office meeting and the today's talk with her, because I'm not usually emotion-expressy around coworkers, especially about my ASD and self-doubt.
We’re the same age, major respect for you and all your success, I’m also pursuing an FBA business at the moment.
Thank you! Best wishes
Wow, you are absolutely beautiful. You definitely moved the boundaries of beauty
I can’t wait to see my life over time get better. At 22 I just got a job and was broke. At 26 I’m starting to invest. I can’t wait when I’m 35 I’ll be very well off.
Fair play for achieving what is almost impossible for most people. I am a bit mixed about your advise, not everyone who rolls the dice, wins.
We need to lift up others with love and hope!
Good perspective on a lot . We are the ones that decide what's best for us don't leave that responsibility to anyone else. They don't know our hearts desires like we do. This is so true thanks for the reminder .
If only I had you as my personal assistant for 1 month and I'd be balling and I'll be on the front page cover of Forbes magazine 😄
I'm so proud of you and your husband .Thanks for sharing this video
Thank you Tatiana. I pray that you always be blessed in your path in Life. I know you’re a genuine person that wants to see others succeed in life as you had the opportunity to. 😊
Your right 👍 I'm going to open pharmacy business and people are against me.i think differently.
I actually really agree with you Tatiana, you have really clear and strong philosophies that aligns you with positive vibrations and abundance manifestations. Totally make sense that you became who you are and where you are today. Also I'm very impressed how you convey and express them in such a simple/accessible way for people that may not be interested listening otherwise, I have a lot of respect for that. Keep teaching wisdom and breaking stereotypes in different ways. So happy for you!
Thank you so much, very kind of you to tell me this 🥰
I love all of what you have said, so true! Have a blessed day!
Thank you! You too!
You inspire a lot of people. I’m one of them as well. Watching from Japan🇯🇵
Love every single word you said. I crave to be financially free!
That was great. Thank you. I appreciate your honesty. God bless you!
Thank you for being so genuine and inspiring us. You made me revaluate my definition of success and you opened my vision. Continue sendo brilhante porque te amamos☺️
Wonderful, and you're very welcome :)
Wow, this stoic trait is really rare to come by these days. Especially, coming from a woman. Kudos to you. No wonder you're successful.
I loved this video. I know people avoid pain because the fear the heartache that might come with pain. I’m looking to be life coach , motivational speaker and personal trainer and I have to not care about what popular cause what’s matter we do what we love.
THANK YOU FOR THESE WORDS!!! you are inspiration!!sending you love and a big hug
Love this video message Tatiana 🌻, agree with you as well on not following someone blindly and idealizations as well as narcisism. Nature does not have an ego as some people tend to do. It is much more reliable for inspiration.
I thank you for the reminder. God’s will be done. I’m here for the glory of His very own.
Thank you very much for this sincere and real video. It is clear that you speak from experience. In addition to that I confirm much of the content from my own experience. As it is. I wish you with all my heart that God continue to bless you and yours 🙏🙏🙏
love seeing your growth and maturity 💯
Beautiful mind beautiful attitude beautiful meaning
I really enjoy your videos as a young ambitions woman. I relate, admire, and respect you.
Thank you for these videos!
Your definition of success is why I subscribed
Wow, this video was what I needed to hear. Tatiana you are definitely one of my inspirations & the part were you said don’t follow someone too closely hit hard for me. Because when I do look up to people, I tend to forget that although they have certain qualities I aspire to be, they are not the same as me and I must honor myself more. Also when you said you don’t really follow many people on IG, I related to that because I’ve become so aware, I realize I don’t really resonate with much of the Content mainly because of what you said, people talk a good game but most aren’t willing to truly be themselves & be honest. Anyways keep sharing content like this because as your growing we are. ❤
I’m glad that the message reached you :)
I am so grateful I am for this video and YOU. I always questioned and will question everything, I also have the unpopular opinion, and will also will choose to have a midwife and doula at home for birth, no meds. Sending love and I look forward to you and Stefan having a baby one day!
Congrats on your opportunity. The pain of birth is blinding, but worth it. If I ever get pregnant again I'm going to the hospital for a c- section. That's thinking for yourself.
Goal setting in all of those areas and successfully attaining those goals. A true master can accomplish goals with: style, a positive attitude, bringing others with you, and helping those along the path.
You are truly amazing thank you for the insight of life, God bless you
Greetings from Bulgaria.I wish you to follow the road to the enligtment
I'm here because I saw the title, title that is similar with many thousand other videos.
some things that are more important than everything in this life to become a succsfull person:
1) Wake up early and do some workout
2) Don't use your phone for at least 1 hours when you wake up
3) Instead of keeping money on a economy bank accout, invest them.
4) Read about entrepreneurship, how to be a good leader, how to start a company, how to invest, make your passion a business
5) Stop watching RUclips videos about success, it won't work unless you do it yourself.
6) Many people help you to make money by getting your money, so try to learn without spending money on nothings
7) Nobody should tell you what to do for a succesful life, everybody has it's life, story, possibilities and experience, stop wasting your time and money, you need to make choices in life
8) In life you need to risk to become successfull, no one will risk for you, you have to do it by YOURSELF.
9) Your life, your money, your story, your choices.
No one, but no one should tell you how to choose in life.
Life gives you the rythm, you need to write the lyrics by yourself.
Much much needed ... Felt good and clear. Thanku so much for this. Much much Gratitude 🙏🙏
Oh wow I loved your point of view. Very relatable for me
Thank you so much for your videos❤️ I'm in my early twenties and I'm dreaming of becoming successful and financially free. I do struggle with low self confidence and self doubt regarding that dream though since a lot of successful business women seem to have developed a strong masculine energy which I lack. Sometimes to me it seems like as if a woman can only become financially successful if she nurtures her masculine traits and disregards her femininity in many aspects.
Your're a great example of an intelligent, successful, well rounded and beautiful woman who gives down to earth advice all while being very feminine. A real rolemodel!
Hello! I must correct you on something, you do not "lack" the masculine energy. It's there. We all have access to the feminine and masculine, yin and yang. You just haven't cultivated it as much as. your feminine. So I encourage you to come up with ways that you can access. your masculine energy and then do those things on a regular basis so that you can develop that part of yourself. I understand your concerns when you see successful women who are ultra-masculine and you just don't relate to that. Those women have cultivated more masc than fem. However, you will realize your superpower lies in cultivating both energies and then shifting between them on a moment by moment basis, that's when you'll be fully integrated and you won't even be thinking about masc/fem anymore. I might look very feminine, but I have a very strong masculine side and I attribute a lot of my success to that part of me. I encourage you to watch this video if you haven't already: ruclips.net/video/E1s5BYwNlv0/видео.html
@@TatianaJames Thank you for your reply and advice, I will watch the video!
its nice to know other people have this thought process. the only thing that sucks is that you can quickly be demonized by others for unpopular opinions.
What other people think about me is non of my business :)
@TatianaJames I Love ♥️you. Thanks so much. I guess my eyes are now opened! They’ve been closed for years
so basically question everything, yet nothing is set in stone.
Thanks for uploading this video. I really appreciate your mature personality. I agree with your every word and again thanks for sharing your experience and success stories with us.
Great video ❤🙏
I loved the point on "Taking calculated risks"
I left my job since nearly a month and working hard on upgrading myself for a new better job.
This video motived me to work more hard on my goals 🙏
It’s strange for me that I always take risks and try to get out of my comfort zone. But the point is, I often doubt my ability: whether or not I can achieve my goals, and this uncertainty just drives me nuts since I always have to question myself and suffer from depression, and anxiety. Honestly, I have no idea what this phenomenon is called, any ideas or advice? I would appreciate it a lot.