6 Things Every Single Woman MUST KNOW!
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
- We’ve been talking quite a bit about making the most of your time. Whether it’s the time in each day, making the most of this year or making the most of whatever season or era of life you’re currently.
On that note, I thought this would be a great time to have a candid talk about being single. What I think every woman should know about her single era and making the most of singleness overall.
Being able to thrive, be happy and be truly content single is the perfect primer for being in a happy thriving relationship or living happily single for life. If you heed these tips, no matter where life takes you or what path you choose - you simply can’t lose!
So whether you’re currently single for a season or looking forward to a happily single life I want you to know you are not incomplete. You are a whole entire person capable of happiness and success. Being single is ok. Better than ok. And depending on who you are and what phase you’re in, it may be the best decision ever.
Whatever you choose, always make sure what you’re gaining is worth what you’re giving up. 
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If you are still single do not allow society to pressure you into getting into a relationship. Get comfortable with being with yourself and truly know what you want out of your life.
So true❤️❤️ really needed this reminder, thank u sis💗
Exactly thank you ❤
Thank You sis 💕💕💕💕💕
For all the single ladies that want to get married one day, I hope we all find good men
Amen🙏🏽♥️
Amen😊 I pray I and eveey sisters out there find the one God really made for them
Amen. Same blessing to you, my dear 🙏
And you also ❤🙏
AMEN
As a woman who married young, became a mother, and divorced said negligent spouse a decade later, I can say that everything shared in this video is on point. Appreciating the season you are in and embracing the journey of learning who you are is priceless. Holding onto who you are as you transition into marriage and motherhood is also quite invaluable. It’s never too late to truly connect with yourself, but it’s so much easier to do prior to having the responsibilities associated with nurturing, caregiving, and accommodating for others full time.
Best wishes to all of you on your journeys. ❤
Thank you again @TheFeminineUniverse for such a beautiful video, yet again! 🙏🏽🤍
I got married at 17 divorced last year at the age of 24 , gal is hard I feel I can't survive without a men .. now am crying over 😢 some crush who doesn't even notice m
Observe and have intimate, fun, and insightful conversations with elderly women. These wonderful spirits have gained wisdom through experience and honoring them this way can bring a sense of purpose full circle. It's extremely important that we do this. I love the way you included "practice" in your final point. Personally engaging with older women who demonstrate love, patience, generosity, courage in healthy ways will support your second point of knowing you and who you are. I can hear my dear mother's voice, grandmother's voice, and all the other older ladies in my neighborhood teaching me lessons that I still live by today. So, young queens please don't discount "old school" wisdom because one day you will walk the same path. Blessings and much to you all! Keep making these amazing videos. I love them!!
The current women has lost their power of Femininity. These videos are much needed. 💗 Thank you
One thing I miss the companionship of a relationship. The bond the affection, those late night conversations and text messages. Having someone to take you to the airport, double date, share holidays with too. Do nothing Saturdays and Sundays weekends just you and your bae.
Now single life does come with less responsibility, less pressure, more freedom, but more reliability. You must rely on yourself and your social circle to stay as your best self. That means girls night in parties, brunch at the house or going out somewhere fancy together. Enjoying me time taking time to do what's best for you. A good book, a new class, shopping, catching up on great shows, a movie, museum, teaching yourself something new to sustain yourself. That's how you become better for the next relationship.
My grandma asked me yesterday when I was over her place if I was going to marry before she dies. I said if it happens it happens🤷🏽♀️
In an almost 5 year relationship now, my tips for IF you want one are:
1. Don't try to find Love, Love will find you and it might bloom from a friendship or be instantaneous, If you look for love you often don' t find true Love as you come across as needy and or attract the bad kind of people who want to use you because you crave connection. after I let go of desperately looking for Love, I found it in the most unexpected places (we met on an online art website)
2. EVERYONE has red flags, the only one you need to make sure they DON'T have is that they don't acknowledge their red flags and aren't willing to work on them. its not a red flag if they are willing to work on their bad traits. see if the red flags the do have are something you can deal with for a while until they work on it. not everything is malicious intent, some are mental health problems (depression etc) or disorders (autism, ADHD etc) or just how they grew up (Abusive household etc), their experiences in life (PTSD etc), most of these are not willingly done by them, no one asks to have depression or to be autistic; the important bit is that they are willing to change for your relationship and you are too. eg work on learning how to cope with PTSD so it doesn't affect the relationship that much.
3. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't yourself anymore and that you have to run always when your SO wants something, I am planning a solo trip overseas next year and my SO isn't coming simply because there was no interest from my partner for that location, but its a dream I've had since childhood and my partner has accepted that I am going.
Wow I can relate to your point!!
Thank you for this! ❤❤
Thank you@NoNamezh9ov. 💜
This is so good! Omg
This came just in time. I let go of a dead relationship the other day, and I feel so light and free now. I know I am going to stay in the single era for a long time, and I am perfectly fine with that. Thank you for posting this ❤🤗
As a married woman, I approve this message!❤
This is my time to enjoy myself as a single woman & I want it to be that way for the rest of my life because protecting my peace is something that I will never let nobody take advantage of ever 🙏🏻🙌🏻
I’m looking to buy my house in the next few months I want to stay single during that process. I have 2 sons and 2 grandsons and it will be for them and only them.
I'm in my single girl era because although I could have been in a relationship, just like the video said I'd be by myself on a solid 9 and said person comes along with drama that reduces my happiness level to a 3. Said person believes we should be married but I felt like he truly needed some more work and maturity. (Me included)
Now I know I'm putting in the work to revel in my singleness and seeing as God is calling me to festoon with him in this season.
I am patient enough to trust that the way God is separating me, he's also doing same for my said future man.
Drop a like anytime you see this comment if this resonates so when my testimony comes full circle I'll definitely remember to come back and edit my comment y'all.
Yesss…I didn’t get married in my 20s because I didn’t know myself enough…thanks for all you do for us women here! 💕💕💕
I love you ma'am. From Nigeria
Hey I'm from Nigeria as well ☺️
Sending you lots of love!! ❤️❤️
Naija babe over here too 😊
This is not only for the single ladies it's teaching us on how to fall in love with our selves. This helps us to enjoy day to lives even in the absence of our loved ones. Thank you so much for this beautiful message
I'm not sacrificing at all when it comes to my alone and resting time. So, kids are not for me. I'll only give it a shot if i ever find a man who's worth building a family with. Up until now, I've only seen man-child type of men in my family and got into relationship with very immature men. It's either the ultimate worthy one or nobody at all. My peace is just way too precious to give up for a man.
Thank you for including us women who want to be single for life. That concept often feels shunned in a lot of highly-feminine circles, so I appreciate the inclusion. As always, your video was full of excellent advice. 💜
I've been single my whole life and I'm slowly losing hope that anything will ever change when it comes to my love life. at this point I just want to do things that will hopefully help me achieve more. thank you for this video ❤
I personally plan to remain single until I've achieved my bachelor's! 1 more year to go until graduation. 🥳🥳🥳
As a married woman of 25 years ( about to get a divorce) do not accept what you do not want. If he cheats once, leave! Cheating is never a mistake. He will do it again. Do not get too caught up in being a wife or mom. Leave room to fulfill your dreams and feed your soul. If you love yourself, the Universe will send you the right person for you. Last, relationship do not have to be hard.
Love this video! I’m currently enjoying my single era! I’m grateful
As a single mom. This also applies!🥰
WOW. This is so uplifting yet informative. I need to sit down and look at more of your videos because I feel like I'm missing out on some very important information that can help me now and in the future. Please keep them coming 😊
So glad you enjoyed this one, darling! There's definitely a lot more to discover on the channel. I look forward to hearing your thoughts. Enjoy 🥂💕
Your voice is so soothing, no one speaks to me more than you do
This video made me feel SO much better. You have no idea!
This video just put my mind at ease about being single. I'd love to have a special someone in my life one day, but now isn't the right time because I don't have all the bases covered + there's so much I need to see & do before I'm committed! Thank you for saying this. I don't mean to sound dramatic, but your advice here has saved my future.
This video really helped me remember that I’m on the right path. Thank you! 🥰
Your channel is the best here on yt for women especially black women. From your calm way of talking to the extended tips on how to live our best life on all levels. I take my hat off to you. I have always treated my self very well and i except nothing less from all others,even family. And how happy i am that you discussed the topic of putting men in their places for wanting whatever after taking us on a date or whatever. We spend more money on our upkeep than the cost of a date,so how dare he. And yes...we are grateful,but not stupid because we are used to goodness. Better treat me like a lady. This video is excellent. Merci beaucoup,mademoiselle.❤🎉
3:40 I think this would make a good journaling prompt for those of us who journal.
I'm a big believer in the power of journaling to help you get closer to who want to be, so I wonder...would it be possible to make some content about journaling?
I'm in my late teenage Era and in the place where I am considering moving out and all of those complicated things like my job and stuff so I'm trying to remind myself not to rush to my single Era. To enjoy this season of my life right now and to prepare for my next one, but one thing that I am certain of is that I am going to do my best to live it up in my single Era! 🎉😂 This video was very helpful and motivational, I loved all of the tips! ❤ Is there a possible part 2 in the future? 😊
I love you're post because when I was in my late teens, I had the same mindset. I wanted to experience things first and go to College. I didn't want to be rushed into anything. My advice to you is to keep that mindset, and take your time with life. So when you look back on things, you'll see when you were at your best and have no regrets (even with your mistakes). Because having love and patience with yourself first, is the best Teacher.
This video could not be more timely for me. When you said, “there is the woman you choose to be”it really stuck a chord with me as I am in a season of a career change and weight loss (again). Thank you 🙏so much!
All of your points resonate with me.
When you said, 'Some extra time to catch up with freinds, because you ACTUALLY kept in touch with them', I felt that.
Hello Ladies. This is right on time I ❤❤❤ just came back in from doing my every 2 weeks man & pedi I like to stay ready so I don’t have to get ready
Always make sure what you are gaining is worth what you giving up🎉
Another great and informative video! Love realistic advice and view points. Society condemns baby mommas but won’t let single and childless women breath in peace! 😒😞😔
Whoever you are, thank you so much. Every time I'm here I learn and over time I've realized change in the way I live my life. Currently I'm more positive, feminine and happy. Thank you so much❤❤❤
I love all these steps especially the second one ❤thank u for the video
You're so welcome! Knowing ourselves and loving ourselves is so important 💕
❤ grateful I get to enjoy my single era!!!
Rarely do I comment under RUclips videos but words cannot express how TIMELY this video and all the information in it is to me in my current season -honestly. All I do is thank you & may God bless you!
Perfect timing , spoke directly to me , loved it , thanks for your words of wisdom as always xx
I grew up needing to be strong and independent, my class threw rocks at me when I walked home and beat me up daily and no one did sh!t. (that's a mild thing that happened) life was hard so I had short hair (less likely to be grabbed) and trained in martial arts. I grew up without a father and my mother was rarely home, not her fault I wasn't a planned child I was a happy little accident and mum loves me but it was hard on her she had to work extremely hard so I had to grow up extremely quick and had to have thick skin. now I'm in a loving partnership and I'm still struggling to not do everything myself, I want to be soft now, I want to be able to have beauty products I had to learn hygiene and everything myself as my mum was a tomboy and I grew up like that too. I want to be delicate now and feminine while still being able to kick butt like a boss gal.
You’ll be fine honey, wishing you all the best!☺️❤
You can do both!! Good luck! You got this! ❤
@@everyday9818 Thank you so much!
@@AnimeFreak792 Thank you! I've got this and I'll manage some how
Ladies love yourself 1st don’t give to anyone what you haven’t done or what the said person would do for you.Jesus said love your neighbor as you love yourself.the lesson love yourself 1st then extend it to others.I love being single until God shows me my man.in the meantime working on myself 🥰
These 6 steps are very true Wow, thank you so much 💕I love love love your channel
Thank you for everything 🧡. Your channel has helped me grow in my femininity. I feel like a new woman 😊
You are so welcome, love! So happy I can help 💕
I love how this video is so informative. I look forward to seeing videos like these because they make you think and even motivate. Thank you for make them.
I'm so happy to be here ❤
Happy to have you here, love! 💕
If I knew a bigger word than love I would use it, 'cause I LOVE LOVEee this, thank you so much sis ❤️😘
I love your video ❤ could you please do one on college girls or married women?
Love this channel ❤
am in my late teens gosh i really needed to hear this sometimes we forget who we really wanna be!!!
These are so good and so true
Beautiful video 💕💕💕 PT 2 please!!!
Thank you, the long awaited video ❤❤❤❤
Another HIGH VALUE video! Thank you!!
Such great guidance for the single woman! I really needed to hear this today.
You never fail to amaze with your wisdom. Thank you for these valuable tips.
This video blessed me. Thank you! 💗
Ohh yeeees...this hits so well. Volume please
Can’t always wait to watch your videos. 🥰🥰
Thank you for watching, love! I appreciate you 💕
Come through smoky vocal tone! Is this pillow talk or nah? Your voice is so smooth and your narration as always is on point. You are elevating the art of the video essay
Beautifully said ❣️ Thank you for sharing 🙏💜
This is powerful, thank you🙏🏼
Love your content !
Thank you for everthing.
Somehow came across this channel and I’ve got to say you’ve got some really wise advice.
Love your posts ❤
I love your channel!
✨A video full of wisdom and excellent advices. Merci beaucoup from Belgium 🙏🍀😘
I love this channel I really do!
Thank you 💗💗💗💗💗💗
You're welcome, love! 💕
Thank you!
Totally agree. 👍👍
I can listen to you all day ❤
I get it, enjoy the different seasons of your life!
Beautifully done ✅
So good ❤
Amazing 🤩 something for every woman 💐
I just love love ❤️ 💕your Video and your voice amazing thank you 🙏
Thank you darling! In my journey rn just really trying to stay focused and not lose it every time a guy gives me the time of day. Would really love if you did a video on how to tackle insecurity and build confidence if you haven't done so already. I am new to the chanelling but thoroughly enjoying the content so far. Thank you so much foreveryhting you share!
Great suggestion! This is definitely coming soon 💕
This made me confirm that I wanna be single for good😌❤️
Thankyou, The mother I never had ❤
Great content!
Honestly good points. Essentially become a whole person now then wait to be completed by someon else.
Thank you for being a big sis
Well said!!!! xoxox
thank you so much for your beautiful and inspiring video, as always! your channel is my fav, I watched it ,religiously, every morning during breakfast or stretching for pump myself up!! so thanks again because you make my life better!
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Im Widowed 😢For About 5 Yrs Married 40 Yrs Single & Don't Know What To Do With Myself Plus I'm Sixty Yrs Old Thought This Never Happen To Me Any Suggestions I'm So Scared Of what's Next
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Can you make a video on how to make genuine friends? 💖
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽!💯✅💗
Does this apply to 18 yr olds🥺,we watch too
Absolutely, darling!
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7:32 crash landing on you 😢
I always get so excited to see a new video from you!!! You really have a gift and I thank you for sharing it!❤