I am 100% going to focus on fitness and finance. I am in my mid 50's, my ultimate goal is to be "that woman" and redefine what 50-60 can look like and be.
Yesss! Love this so much! You can absolutely redefine what 50 - 60 looks like. I just came across a picture of Angela Bassett, who is in her 60s, in a bikini and was just stunned. I'm looking forward to your journey, queen! 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Update- 3lbs down, Apartment painted (all white), mani pedi done and I changed my paycheck so that 20% of my check goes into a separate account. This weekend shopping for new furniture.
I feel you girlfriend. My gold or should I say one of my largest goes this year with to lose weight I want to live a healthier lifestyle. I actually have always been a very nice eyes and always have eaten healthy but over the past few years because of stress from taking care of my mother, my grandmother and home hospice, and myself, I begin to put myself on the back burner and of course things begin to just do a downward spiral in my life. I was not focusing on myself as far as my health, wait, or what I was eating. I was so busy attending to other people's needs that I forgot my own. However, through all of that, God has blessed me to be able to do the things that I need and want to do. I actually started with a medical procedure which was to have my fibroids removed. I knew that this was a problem but I did not realize how bad it was! I actually had 15 pounds of fibroids within my tummy that made me look like I was four months pregnant! This procedure actually freed out my body and help me to do things I normally wouldn't been able to do or have the interest of doing. It also remove excess weight that I did not know I was carrying from the fibroids Since then, I have been able to have the energy and desire to diet and exercise like I need to in the first place. I've noticed that my weight is coming off a little bit better and I've also had to start some thyroid medication to balance out my thyroid and my other female hormones. Since then, the weight has been coming off a whole lot easier. I promised myself that if I needed help in this weight loss journey, I was going to get the help that I needed and wanted. My goal is to go from an 18 to a 10. I've actually lost not just a few pounds but quite a few inches which is very important in weight loss. I'm actually now in a very comfortable 16 and a quite tight 14!😁 My goal is to be in at least a 12 by the time I go on vacation in July. These clothes are obtainable if we have not just goals but realistic goals realizing that sometimes we have setbacks, Lazydays, thrown off schedules, and necessary resets but when I have these things occur, I continue to just get myself right back up and get into the swing of things. The key is to keep it moving🏃♀️
My 6 months goals 1= save some money each month 2= meditate daily 3= study harder and improve my university grades 4= listening to podcasts insead of listening to music in my car 5= start cooking for myself Thanks for the video🌸🌱
Thanks for this ❤️ I was depressed for 2 years I stayed in the house basically waiting to gain the balls to off myself. After being drugged and raped by a tattoo artist I dated, hating my tattoos because they reminded me of the person, hating myself, feeling like my identity/sense of self is ruined, being a inattentive mother, couldn’t see a future for myself, just completely hated myself but I pulled myself out and now I feel like I still have hope. Tired of telling the same story but the narrative is changing. Practicing how to strengthen my discernment, setting boundaries spending time alone, being real with myself. Walking away from anything and anyone who don’t serve me well!!Always thinking of ways to improve. Most importantly i’m Trying!!!
First of all, I just want to take a moment to admire the strength it took for you to go through what you have and still decide to show up every day, to still have hope and to make the conscious decision to take control of your life and mindset. I salute you, Alexis. You are valuable, powerful, worthy and beautiful. I'm so sorry for anything and everything that has happened that made you think otherwise. I'm so happy you're still here with us. I pray that you continue to find healing, hope and happiness. Continue to do the best you can and keep being the best mom you can. Keep me posted and reach out any time! 💕💕
I’m turning 29 in June and since april i was focusing on getting fit, stopped drinking soda and started drinking more water, eating more greens, going to bed early and getting rid of things in my home and stopped buying things that I don’t need. Since then my waist has gotten smaller, my legs got more toned, and just last month i got a raise. My next goal is to start saving money.
Yes, Isa!! I love to hear this. You are getting that body and that money right. Keep me posted on your progress. Happy early birthday! Cheers to fitness, savings and success 💕🥂
@@TheFeminineUniverse thank u. I want to enter my 30’s being financially stable and confident. I don’t want to make the same mistakes I made in my 20’s
I want to be the lady climbing the ladder in her career, acing my classes, dressing impeccably, encouraging people to be their best, serving my God wholeheartedly, making money and investing it wisely, well respected in the society, mentally stable, enjoying her life and being loved correctly... Amen 🙏🏾
This video is the divine proof I needed to begin my journey of self love, self healing and self discovery. Thank you for sharing this. In 6 months, I want to improve my skin, eat cleaner and healthier and implement a functional exercise routine. I wish the best of luck to anyone starting this journey!
So glad this video found you at the right time, Brittany! This is such a beautiful journey. You've got three great goals there, remember to write out your plan and exactly what you need to do daily to keep up with them. Get it, girl!
This comment section honestly makes me want to cry 😢 everyone is so supportive…. it is genuinely so wonderful to see. It gives me hope to keep pushing forward and to not give up. Thank you for sharing this video . 💗 God bless you all, and wishing you all success on your journeys. Xxx
Welcome to the TFU family, Sienna💕 I completely agree, the ladies here are truly incredible!! The energy is so uplifting. You've got this - with the right plan you can crush all of your goals. Be sure to come back and let us know about your successes. God bless you too, xo 😊💕
@@joyjoseph6560 First time here and just from the first couple of scrolls I’m compelled to share my story… there’s such an openness, non judgmental, empathetic, and understanding vibe, I love it!
🙏🙏🙏 I cried listening to this. Middle aged and feeling washed up. God bless you for sharing this kindness to all women, regardless of race or age. Thank you. 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
I'm moved that this touched you so deeply. I want to help all women tap into that power inside of them and feel their absolute best. I sincerely believe the years in front of you can be your best yet. It takes work but you can have it, if you want it. Write out those plans and daily actions. And I'll be here to support you along the way. Reach out any time! 💕
Thank you for this! I’m 53 years of age and have been aligning with my goals with consistency and focus. I am looking younger, feeling younger and crushing my lifestyle goals . Thank you for the confirmations and reminders. Let’s go ladies!
I’m focusing on: 1.) Fitness: My goal is to lose 60 pounds. Cardio and weights 4 days a week. 2.) Finance: stick to my budget, increase my savings by $10K-$20K and invest responsibly. 3.) Build 4 additional income streams.
I'm honestly ready for the new me. I'm excited to meet her. I'm so tired of this one. I'm grateful to her, but I'm ready to let her go. She's brought me to this point in my life. I think it needs to start from within. YOU have to decide when it's time. I'm pursuing the new woman I want to be with aggression and with no apology. From my appearance, finances, to my hobbies and eventually love. Six months is doable. "If it doesn't serve me, it doesn't deserve me". That's my motto now. Thank you so much for this video!
You explained in such a short amount of time what some people take many books and workshops to teach. This is so on point! I am truly grateful for the way you put this out so many women can change and upgrade their lives. When my depression was taking over me, I could barely figure out what I wanted out of life. I wrote down a couple of dreams but never followed up on them. That really is the most important part. Reflect on what should be the steps to make it real. I also tend to reflect on what is keeping me away from what I want - bad habits, and how I can change them in order to focus completely. It has been 2 weeks since I started noticing a big difference between the person I am now and who I was 2/3 years ago at my lowest point. Gonna share my personal steps/actions very briefly: -I took alcohol off my life. I do not party anymore and I stay away from people who only want to meet when they drink. It never works out and I regret it immensely the next day. - I make 2 types of lists. 1- tasks on my phone using the Notes app. Those are the tasks for the day, as soon as the day is over, I delete the note and create a brand new one for the following day. 2-goals for the month, things that need to be accomplished in all areas of life, but I keep it down to no more than 10 things. -I check in with myself. When I feel anxious, sad, angry, I stop and try to work it out in the same moment. If needed, I give myself some time to digest the feeling before taking any action. Most of the times, the feeling solves itself with just a walk in the park, some journaling and a shower. -Inspiration session: I always try to get inspired in the morning or evening, creating a visual board of how my future looks and the things I love. It can be anything at all, what matters is to keep the flame of motivation alive! -I am not always motivated, but if I know what I need to do, I try my best to just do the minimal(on a hard day) to get closer to my goals. -Keep love close to you. People, animals, nature, music, prayers...love comes in all kinds of ways, starting from your heart. Have a lovely journey ladies!
Thank you for another thoughtful comment, Bruna! And for not just commenting on the video but also sharing your personal growth and experience in a way that can help other ladies. It's wonderful that you've found a plan and steps that are working in helping you to overcome depression and work towards a beautiful, exciting, hopeful journey. That's no small feat. Keep going and keep us posted! Cheers to you, queen🥂💕
This right here was why I watched the video. Thank you for your comment! Subscribed after watching this insightful content, thank you for this video!! 🙏❤️❣️
Hello, I just wanted to say that after reading your comment, I can relate to so much of what you were saying. Do you have any idea how many times over the years I have set goals for myself or started self-improvement Journeys only to have them come to a screeching halt or having to put them on the back burner because of some issue or another great life event popping up unexpectedly. But it's like the wonderful woman of this channel set, sooner or later you have to face yourself. You have to decide what you want and who you want to be. You're going to have to decide on who's going to make that person the outer forces that surround you or the things that are within you. They will always be life interruptions, there will always be a situation, A Circumstance, the unexpected, things that are shocking, surprising, Etc but we have to learn how to move on, push forward, and continue with our original plans. For so long, I used to just stop and throw my hands up in the air and lose my Focus. But I realized, if I continue to do this, I'm never going to get anywhere. So I just made sure that I had alternative plans set aside for the unexpected or some type of life event or situation. But the main thing was to keep going.🏃♀️
After 5 years of severe depression and 3 years of wanting to make a change but not knowing how, I'm so glad to have stumbled onto your videos. I've really neglected myself and who I wanted to be for so long now. I want to reach for my dreams instead of giving up on them. I want to look good. I want to save money. I want to treat myself like a princess while having the wisdom of a queen. I want to be proud of myself. Depression takes so much out of you and you fall into self-destructive habits so easily, even after coming out of it. So often, I feel like I'm behind on life compared to everyone else. So often, I feel like I barely know how to function as a human being. But I've just settled into a job that I actually like and respect, and I want to level up my life. I don't want to settle for being a person I dislike for the rest of my life! I'm going to start small. Just doing skincare every morning and every night. If I manage to keep that up for 6 months, I'll try adding daily exercise for 30 minutes to my routine. Like you said, the key is to do 1-3 things at once, and I don't want to scatter my focus with other things right now. I'm just at the start of my journey, but I hope to get where I want to go someday! Thank you for all the tips/advice! I'll likely be seeking your guidance in the years to come.
Crawling out of the depression hole is so hard. My place is a nightmare, looks like a bomb went off in here. At least I have my Invisalign in. Hope your journey is going well
The old habit of being a night owl, does'nt serve me anymore, I know I can do so much more, feel better and achieve more when I get up early and start the day with God and Peace of mind. 2023 I am working 100% on becoming an early bird. Setting realistic goals this time. Anyone who wish to do the same, Best of luck to you tooo.. much love and blessings. I love this channel recently found it.
As a man seeing a page telling woman its ok to be feminine, gives me hope for the future. Too many girls are taught that being masculine and aggressive will make them happy.
Love your analogy of how things can go wrong in 6 months, interesting how when you flip it you can see how things can quickly change in 6 months 🙌🏽 Accountability and Positive Habits are definitely paramount in acquiring ANYTHING in life 🙌🏽
Yes! I'm so glad that resonated with you. You'd be surprised how many clients start off with "that's impossible" but when I breakdown how quickly things can go wrong then come back to how they can go right, it just clicks differently! Thank you for watching and for your feedback💕
breaking through the image one has created is so damn hard. people consciously and unconsciously try to put you back to the place you wanna leave. so yes ladies consistency is the key here to become whoever you want to be in 6 months.
1. Pass California licensing exams. 2. Get my health and fitness in order once and for all. 3. Have financial freedom Thank u so much for this video. Sometimes, I feel stagnant or like I'm constantly starting at square one. This video is so motivating. I'll update in 6 months. Sending love and light to all you beautiful ladies. We got this! Xoxo
I was thinking the same in the morning God gives more to people who can manage when you are consistent you give out the energy of being able or capable to manage and God will bless you with more now I want to continue be more consistent with my exercise and healthy lifestyle ,my savings , getting a permanent job and my RUclips channel let see where we will be in six months
It does pay off. I can truly attest to the fact that having a plan ahead of time and making every Endeavour to make those goals a reality is something that I can say for a fact is true. I started this journey actually last year when I actually began with a medical procedure. The medical procedure freed up my mind and my body and allowed me to do things that I wasn't able to do before or had no interest in doing them Since then, I have slowly began to level up in every area of my life. I can see the results and so can others. It's actually been quite fun and enjoyable
Yes! Consistency is absolutely key! Those are all commendable and achievable goals. Be sure to write out your plan for achieving each one separately and get to work, sis! Keep us posted on your journey 🥂💕
I'm so ready to start this journey on the 1st. I just been feeling out of sorts mentally. I'm 40, single with 2 kids and just feeling like I'm not enough . I'm ready to glow up in all ways
You are enough, love! That feeling might just be your subconscious telling you you're ready for and deserve more. I've seen the 40's be such a beautiful, transformative decade. Don't be afraid to level up and glow up on every level! Keep me posted and reach out anytime 💕💕
Having been very ill, I stopped worrying about everything but surviving .... Won the battle fortunately .... But then realised I needed to get "me" back. In nine months, I got the 62lbs off that I had put on with meds, went back to my regular professional manicure and pedicure, and having time off enabled me to start learning another language. I used notebooks where I wrote weekly goals, a great calorie tracker app, bought a bunch of language books, and arranged a weekly private tuition class with a native speaker. The trick is reminding yourself that missing once is fine occasionally - just get back on track .... And keep going!!
Firstly, I'm so happy to hear that you won the battle for your health and that you're feeling well, Alexandra! Kudos to you for getting all those things in order getting back on track! You make such a great point about occasional slip ups being perfectly ok and that getting back on track is what matters. Cheers to you and your continued health and success🥂
my goal is getting fit. my album is going to be dropped soon and I need to look good on stage photos etc. it is crucial that I look my best or my record label will ignore me and they are who I am accountable for. this is a major career opportunity that I can't risk losing.
I am so happy for you. I hope that everything that you want and desire in this area of your life comes to fruition. There's nothing like having a dream or a desire grow hands legs and feet and you finally see it crawl then stand up and then begin to walk. I hope everything goes well. Wishing you all the best now and in the future
I started doing this for my fitness goals. For the first time in my life I've been consistent. Almost four months and I'm still going strong. Loving my life. ❤
Today I signed up for courses to learn microblading. I hope to be able to do it full time by the end of the year, which definitely falls into the six month window. Pay off my debts and build an emergency savings. 😬 I can feel it!
Yes! The microblading industry is booming. Love hearing about my ladies adding another stream of income into their lives. I agree, with daily practice you will be so far in 6 months! Be sure to take pictures to chronicle how far your skills have come. More money means more savings and easier debt payoff. So exciting! Keep us posted, Elizabeth💕
So happy to hear this channel has been beneficial to you and is helping to boost your confidence, Clara! Thank you for recommending it to others, I think that is the biggest compliment. Blessings to you, as well. 😊
@@TheFeminineUniverse Awww thank you for the reply. I'm very flattered. You are an inspiration to many, especially us girls who had no mothers and no older female relatives to teach us things like this. I'm so appreciative that I found this channel, you changed my life in a week. Lots of love♥️
I adore your analogy of letting things slip for 6 months, to show the contrast if we instead adopted small positive habits how much of a difference it would make. Great video!
Great post! Keep doing what you are doing! My top goals : 1. Continue to optimize my fitness levels (down 50+ pounds so far). 2. Get my brand going 3. Get my scripted digital TV series launched (actually my REAL #1 goal) As an add you hit the mail on the head. I ended up working with a stylist, got my wardrobe corrected, learned/learning to improve my friendships. I just finished up modeling school in order to work on my awkwardness/ self confidence. PMy friend sent me your channel so my goal is to add more feminine qualities to my life.
@@tamiadixon8312 thanks for writing. Just from your photo you look really stylish, but I also understand wanting to make a change I just want to let you know a little more about me before I answer your question.. 1. focusing on on weight loss & fitness, and essentially have a new body 2. I never knew how to dress myself in the first place because it just wasn't important (single parent and had to focus on my son) 3. Didn't have the basics in a wardrobe, also never had a dress in my adult life and often just wore Black / Grey / Denim. 4. And really had to work on keeping an open mind and trusting somebody My friend from church actually reached out to me, and we talked about wanting to rebrand, and so she nudged me into the store. After that, she took me on as a client. It has been transformational for me. She basically charged me a half day rate, we went to a few department stores, and she picked things out, and asked if it was comfortable to get off / on, She was also honest, and I had to trust her. There were things I never thought I would like, but they look AMAZING on me, and I am glad that I trusted the process. She was a real blessing, but had a sense of my personality, and helped me to get out of what I believed was okay for me. I not only look different, I really feel it. So for me, hiring a stylist was ideal for the transformation I am going through and it helped me get out of my own way. I hope this answered your question.
My goal is to lose weight through diet and exercise. I already know my goal weight. It’s been a dream of mine to get back to the weight that I feel comfortable at. My plan is to use the Weight Watcher’s app, go to bed earlier, eat more fruits & vegetables, & start doing Pilates, in addition to my walks. When I am at my ideal weight (and this is just my personal experience), many aspects of femininity come naturally. I can wear beautiful clothing. I feel more elegant. I pay more attention to my accessories. I am looking forward to this 6-month progress! I wish all of my sisters success on their dreams!
Yes! We can complete these goals and be at a whole new level before the new year. Thanks for being a positive ray of light, Ebby! Happy to have you as part of the family ✨💕
I made a goal, beginning of this month to loose some weight, it's 2 and a half weeks since and I've so far hit half the target I made. I'm really happy with myself for trying this hard. Results are wonderful. My motivation quote is, to do something you've never done to get results you never had. It's working.
It's is now Tuesday, Sept.27, 2022. I am focusing on for the next 3 months & finishing the year Strong: 1. Fitness- to lose 26 lbs & flat tummy 2. Finance- Increase my income by $100k 3. Finish school- 2 more classes left Before the year is finish,In Jesus Name,Amen.
Another AWESOME video! Ladies i want to recommend reading or listening to the 12 week year. It’s essentially the same thing described in the video. I just stumbled upon it this week so this video is divine timing for me! In 6 months I will lose 30pounds and pay off 5k of my student loan debt! 🥰
The one thing I'd really love to do within 6 months is to finally have the courage to start my own RUclips channel without any form of doubt. Thank you so much for the beautiful video 💕✨
You can do it, love! I put it off for so long, over-planning and thinking about the what-ifs. Sometimes you have to plan where you can then dive in and figure out the rest as you go! 💕💕
For me, feeling unsettled is a sign of creative discontent, meaning it's time for change. Thank you for laying out the process so clearly and in such an inspiring way. I've lost 30 pounds and have another 20 to go. Have got a new skincare routine that works for me and have solidified an exercise routine for overall health and injury rehab. Realized I want to evolve a new chic capsule wardrobe that I love and am comfortable in now that I'm retired and can dress to please myself. We'll see where I am on that in six months! Thanks again for all your helpful tips.
I am, thanks for sharing I love what you're doing as far as exercise and working on your wardrobe. I am doing the exact same thing. Right now, I am focusing on Handbags and shoes. When I used to dress up for work which was over twenty years ago, my wardrobe was so much better and I had a lot more dresses in my closet. But when I switched jobs and the dress attire change from coming to work dressed to a casual attire. Then it went from a casual attire to a uniform. Everyone including myself was pretty happy about this. But what happened is because I was no longer having to keep up my clothes like I once did, I was making less and less trips to the clothing stores and less and less trips to the makeup counters. I slowly, over time, stop wearing as much makeup and jewelry. I begin to be very laid-back in my appearance when it came to my hair, my makeup, and my jewelry. The next thing I know I was a girl wearing no makeup, no jewelry, and because I had gained weight, I couldn't even wear the cute clothes that I had in my closet anymore. So as you can see, I am on a journey to get back into the clothes that I have in my closet as well as freshen up by purchasing some new items as well.
I refer back to this video often and last month I finally got started on my goals #1 of which for a long time has been my health; for asthetic and energy reasons. I made sure to tell my kid that I was working out to get strong enough to lift her like daddy can, and so I could live life to the fullest with her. She came home from school the other day and picked her up in my arms to give her a kiss and she said to me "mommy's so strong now, and youre really happy lately. I had noticed an aesthetic difference at all yet and the weight on the scale hadnt moved but that comment was worth its weight in gold. A reminder to the ladies that working on your goals isnt just going to improve your life 6 months from now, it will start improving your life right away. Thank you feminine universe and all the wonderful ladies of this community!
👍🏼 Learnt Spanish in high school. Currently in Uni but I'm considering German, Dutch, or Portuguese. My goal is to travel abroad and maintain a stable lifestyle. Thanks for the vid.
Of all the upscale-your-life videos, yours are the most intelligent and the most genuine - I thank you for being an authentically brilliant and kind human being.
So glad I randomly came across your video! After 2 years of grief from losing 48 loved ones ,my father being the most tragic,I’m now ready to move forward. Was feeling like I had missed out on opportunities. Just turned 51 & really missing my loved ones. Just in case anyone is curious….none were Covid related deaths. 1) releasing 40 lbs of excess weight 2) earning 151k in my 1:1 coaching business 3) paying off All debts My start date will be Oct 1st .
First, let me say I absolutely love the content in this video. I have been following you since you started your channel. I watched the videos over and over so as to saturate the material within my mind, heart, and spirit. I have many goals set for myself between now and the end of the year. I must say because I have pre-planned for all of them, they are not all just reachable, I have actually accomplished 50% of some of them. I would just like to say that a few of my goals have been the following: working on a skincare routine to improve my skin. I have not only said that goal but I have almost completed that goal. I am under the care of a dermatologist and I'm using different serum and creams for both daytime and nighttime as well as a sunscreen. I am constantly getting comment on my skin and the texture of my skin from both men and women! I'm also on a weight loss journey. I went to the doctor and found out that I had an abnormal thyroid. Believe it or not, I was somewhat happy to hear this because now I realize that my weight-loss issues are not my fault entirely. The thyroid has so much to do with your ability to lose weight and keep it off. I am now taking a very low dosage of Synthroid medication. But I am also doing other things in the alternative medicine are we not to shed the weight as well. As you said, I am in beast mode with my exercise routine and I am already seeing great results. I have also applied a plan to my hair routine to regrow my hair to Mid back length or tailbone length. I actually I'm ahead of schedule due to some additional information that I researched about hair growth. Taking the medication for my thyroid as well as taking natural things to balance out my hormones has a up my hair growth significantly. My hair is now stronger, longer, and growing like a weed! I think I will meet my Caroline go a lot earlier than I had originally planned. I have to say and closing in this comment, I wanted to share with you the results of what happens when you take extra time to take care of yourself, pamper yourself, and go above and beyond in the area of self-care. Just the other day, the mailman came to my house to deliver some mail. I rushed out to meet him because there was a truck blocking the mailbox and I knew he could not get into my mailbox without getting out of his truck. When I ran down the sidewalk to meet him I noticed the expression on his face I wasn't quite sure what to make of it but I knew he was quite surprised to see me dressed up with makeup on and wearing a dress and very strappy and sexy sandals. I had just come from an appointment and had not changed my clothes as of yet. When I announce to him that I was coming to get the mail and that he would not have to get out of the truck, I noticed that he wasn't saying anything but he was just looking at me with this look up all on his face. His expression was priceless😯 He asked me, Denise is that you? Or are you the twin sister? I actually thought he was joking for a moment, but he was being quite serious. He said he could not believe that I was the same person that used to come to the mailbox and a hair Bonnet, with no makeup, sweatpants and a little t-shirt. He said he did not know that I had so much hair and that it was as beautiful as it was. He said he had not noticed that my teeth were so pretty, straight and White. He actually turned off his mail truck, got out and lean back on his truck and shook his head and disbelief. He just continued to stare at me and asked me are you single? And I said yes I am and I'm fighting it every day😁 He told me, trust me Denise, looking like this, you will not be single for long. He also said as he cranked up the truck to leave you look absolutely breathtaking. You should try to look like this all the time. I can tell that it's not much of an effort for you because these things are already a part of who you are. He says I would like to see more of this and I'm sure other men would too. I can't tell you how that comment made me feel. I have been living and eating off of that comment since he made it. I automatically thought about the feminine Universe videos that I had been watching and I said to myself, because you paid attention, follow the advice, and resurrected the old things that you used to do to take care of yourself and look great oh, look at the results. I was so proud of myself. Not because I I'm trying to say that I'm the most beautiful woman in the world because of course that is so not the case. I was proud of myself because I actually got back what I put in. I remember that you said in time you will watch people will start to act differently, treat you differently, and even take time to share a nice compliment with you like the gentleman did in this case. Normally, I'm very shy and my face turned a soft pink color when I receive comments because I'm usually embarrassed and I don't feel that the comments are genuine. I don't know why I do this. I think because sometimes I don't think people are being genuine when they share compliments with me. I need to work on the reasoning behind that. But this time was different, not because of the gentleman himself, but because I knew what I had done to get to that point and I was proud of myself because I realize that what he saw that day was what I saw in the mirror as I begin to prepare for my appointment. I was happy when I left for the appointment. And apparently the work that I put in was long-lasting even when I returned home. Thank you so much for these awesome videos. I credit much of this to your testimony and wisdom. Thanks😊
Wow... This is so interesting, thank you for implementing all the tips she gave, and thank you again for sharing your testimony... 😊 I want to know please the serum you mentioned, did you get for the body and face?
@@lifeessentials2892 Hi Life Essentials, I will be happy to share with you the facial and neck serum that my dermatologist recommended for me. It is a skin serum by a company called Zein Obagi. The name of the serum is called ZO Skin Health. The serum that I use for my face is called the Growth Factor Serum. This one I used on my face and my neck. There is also one that is used specifically for the eyes. It is used to decrease puffiness, get rid of dark circles, and smooth out fine lines and wrinkles if you have any. I did not have the fine lines and wrinkles but I definitely had a little puffiness and dark circles. It has helped tremendously. It's funny that you asked me something about my body because I'm actually getting ready to start using a cream and a serum for the rest of my body. I told the dermatologist that I wanted to use something for my elbows, my knees and my legs to even out the skin tone in those areas and she said that when I come back for my appointment in June she will look at those areas to see exactly what I needed. But she said there is something for everything pertaining to the skin. I also wanted to say there I am also incorporating facials into my skincare routine which is something I have promised myself I would do for a very long time but never got around to doing it. But this year was my year to start. I didn't care where I started just as long as I made something happen. I have a facial scheduled next week Facials are very popular and there was only one opening for an 8 a.m. hydrafacial! Normally, I would have not taken this time slot but I am willing to do what I have to do within reason to get the results that I desire. So I will be going to my 8 a.m. hydrafacial appointment but the results will be well worth it. I also plan on doing body treatments and scrubs either at the dermatologist office or at a spa. I plan to experience this level of Journey as far as I can take it. I can tell you that I am definitely enjoying the journey😊 I almost forgot to share one more thing with you. Another part of my level of Journey is that I no longer go to the conveniently located nail shops that anyone and everyone can just pop in and out of at their convenience. I made a promise to myself that at the beginning of the year that part of my level of journey that I would begin going to an actual Nail and Skin Spa to receive all of my nail and skin care services. Of course this means services are rendered by appointment only and it's a little more money than I'm used to paying but it's so well worth it. The atmosphere, the conversation, the choices of skin regimens and services are outstanding. I plan on receiving all types of skin care services as well. But I wanted to share with you that the place that I go to which is called the Natural Body Spa. They carry upscale lines of exceptional skin care. I know the one of the skincare lines is by a company called Eminence which is absolutely outstanding. They make all type of skin care creams, serums, and exfoliants for the face, body, and feet. I remember that the nail tech once shared with me that at one time the spa was using a foot scrub on the clients which cost $100 a jar! Of course, this did not last very long and they switched their product to something just as good but not as pricey. But that particular foot scrub is available for purchase at the spa. I'm not sure if you're a person that goes to these types of places for services but since you asked the question about the facial serums, they're not only available after dermatologist but also at some of the top body care Spas as well. Good luck and take care. I hope I was able to help you with the information you were desiring😊
Denise, Denise, Denise! This right here is a whole testimony on the benefits of taking care of ourselves. So proud of you! So many people listen to advice upon advice and never take the initiative to act on it. I'm so glad these videos have helped you re-ignite your desire to care for yourself on the inside and out and that you are really seeing the results. Keep us posted as you continue to flourish. Cheers to you and your journey, queen! 🥂💕
My ultimate goal is to get me back. I grew up with Ultra feminine women extremely productive women. So for 2023 I am going to get back to be totally productive. Which will get me beyond being so less than who I am. Thank you so much for your channel. God bless you and your. 🕊️❤️🕊️. HeavenLee Justice
Not sure why I had didn’t seen your channel before . I’m glad I did . All I have to say is “ you are doing a fantastic job “ thank you 😊 ❤ for your great energy and for pushing the ladies to be better.
Your channel is better than every other channel that talks about being feminine. Your channel isn’t judgmental and completely trying to change the person.
Wow - thank you! I'm so happy that my channel is your vibe! I just want to help women discover, rediscover and enjoy the next level of their femininity in a welcoming way, that works for them! 😊💕
What a motivating video, thank you for making it. The three areas I will be focussing on are: Lose 30lbs, do my stretches 6x week, do not spend above my budget/no impulse shopping. All of this is achievable within the timeline. Again, thank you for making this video! I feel so excited for what I can achieve!
I try to not overthink my weight loss journey and obsess over the scale's number because I look and feel great! I'm 3.5 months into my weight loss journey and am down 17 pounds. My goal this month is to get to the 20 pound mark and be down 30 pounds total by 6 months.
I love your channel! Just got a notification for this video but I need to say Thank you so much for sharing this content. I've been looking for something like this. Like HGTV for Feminity - you give tips and quick guides to style, fashion, and feminine vibes. I love the models that you use for visuals; they are all beautiful, curvy, multi racial. Defenetly not a one-note. I've learned so much and look forward to see more content. THANK YOU!!! Edit to add reply: My 6 month goal is to lose 35 lbs and finish decoreting my home (it's been in works for the past 2 years and still pending).
HGTV for Femininity! That made me smile so hard, it's kind of catchy and I love both of those things, so thank you! I'm so thrilled that you're enjoying the content and the way it's presented 😊 You can absolutely crush both of those goals in six months. Just write out your plan and daily steps to get there. You've got this, Julie! 🥂💕
My life has changed so much after finding this channel. It's been such the guide I needed. I love myself and I'm going to keep doing better than I did yesterday. ❤❤❤
Babe thanks for this videos Few days after watching it I visited the dermatologist n got on the journey of clearing my long persistant acne Its now 8months that I have finished the prescription I am soo happy I invested in my skin n its super clear Acne free for life Thanks
I'm so happy for you, love!! I can almost feel your happiness through the screen! Thank you for coming back and sharing. This is such a great testimonial. I know it will be inspiring to other ladies in this community💕
Congrats, Miranda! This attitude right here, will get you places - from stellar waitressing, to management, if you want that. Always seek to do your best, learn lessons in every chapter, they will prepare for the next phases in your life. 💕
I have always wanted more for myself,even when I didn't admit it. I got tired of feeling guilty for wanting to learn about things(i.e, wine knowledge, eating with chopsticks,learning French,classical music,etc). Love the content of this video because it allows me to focus on being happy,and picking up where I left off on my reinvention! 💅🎓💄👠💋🌹🎁✈️🎶🎼❤️
I am so sorry for your deep loss, Isabel. I'm so glad this video was able to give you even a bit of a lift. I'm sure your mom would want you to reach all your goals and be your healthiest, happiest self! Welcome to the family💕
When you asked when is the last time you consistently pushed for something for 6 months it made me remember how I got my finances in check, and how I started taking care of my skin and hair. And you're right, that 6 moths changed my life, and now I have a savings, good credit and a moisturized and clear face everyday. If I can focus on my fitness for 6 months I can surely change my life again in that regard.
Absolutely! You can certainly do it again, it seems to get a little easier with each round. Thanks for sharing your experience with this 6 month focus protocol. All the best in crushing your goals 🥂😊
I’m making a vision board off of your visuals . This was the exact video i needed at the EXACT moment. Me and my best friend were just talking about this and you just took everything and organized the thoughts. This hit differently . You have no idea how much youre needed ! Keep doing what you’re doing , please ❤️
So glad this appeared at the right time for you! Yes, to that vision board! Be sure to write down that plan and your daily actions. It's great that you have your best friend to go on this journey with. Cheers to you and your bestie crushing all your goals🥂💕 Keep us posted! More content to come😊
How you broke it down reminds me of the things I learned in the books Atomic habits and the 12 week year. Which I am using to help me be more zoned in and being the best I have ever been. With that I wanted to learn Korean and I spend around 30-40 minutes a day in language classes online from Monday - Friday, its honestly one of the coolest things I think I have done. I have a goal of losing 80 pounds in February I joined a gym and I am currently now consistently working out 3-5 times a week, after a month in gym I started learning about body recomposition and started adding weights which has just elevated things in my weight-loss journey. I have a goal of living well financially and had also recently read Dave Ramsey book on money and finally am getting my finances together and with those funds I am upgrading my home to be the kind of homes I pin on my Pinterest. I have also incorporated being more disciplined in investing, I went to university to study finance and I have been exposed to a lot of things relating to stocks but I was not disciplined. I now keep trading journals that I use each morning to make market analysis and make sure my money grows so I can retire at 35. A quote I strive to implement on the daily from the 12 week year is that excellence is in the moment, if you are not executing to the highest degree daily you will not reach your goals, like if you want to lose weight and constantly cheating when the time comes you might be disappointed because you fail to grab onto the now. Where you are is exactly where you need to be to get to where you want to be.
Wow! I didn't know you were expecting a third - that's so exciting! Wishing you a smooth delivery and a happy, healthy baby. Cheers to all your goals 🥂
Thank you for your beautiful, uplifting videos. Coming across your channel is definitely divine encouragement! You've inspired me with a new goal: to become a more polished-looking woman. (Got to start matching my outsides to my insides!). In the last two weeks I've made small, inexpensive changes: at-home pedi and mani, simple daily makeup so I look fresh, wearing small gold ball stud earrings all the time (so my piercings aren't empty and 'unfinished' looking), wearing my nicer sandles, and IRONING my clothes! Would you believe that wearing an ironed shirt makes you feel like a million bucks?! Fifteen minutes of ironing to feel confident, joyful, centered in my power and agency, and prepared to embrace God's abundant plan for the day! (Of course, the ironing is preceded by prayer, meditation and yoga lol. But who knew the power of ironing?). I'm definitely standing taller. What a great service you are doing for women everywhere with your channel. God bless you
Where can I be in six months? I want to be: - Starting community college. - Doing really well as a to-go server at my job, and moving towards becoming a regular server. - Having an established friend group of at least 3 other people I can genuinely trust that I can hang out with/FT all the time. - Down from 129 pounds to about 115-120, and staying there consistently. - At the point with my Spanish where I can have conversations with natives even if they talk fast/have an accent. - Having at least $1000 in my savings.
I've been watching your videos and this is the first time I'm commenting. Im 29 and i believe it's not yet too late for me. My goal is to start my fitness journey, gain some muscle weight. Start a skin and hair care routine start to actually be intentional with my purchases, buy more dresses than pants. Also learn French and get back to doing RUclips again. I've been taking care of other people for too long, it's time to pamper myself.
Yess!! I love this. It's absolutely time for YOU! It's great that you are specific about the changes and steps you will be taking. That's such big part of successfully achieving your goals. Cheers to this new chapter 🥂💕
I feel like I need to pay you for just watching the video. I know there was a lot of work behind this. Thank you so much for your wise words! I will take everything to heart. 💕
I’m going to focus on fitness, my finances and protecting my peace and increasing my vibration💗 I needed to hear this and I’m ready to devote to becoming who I want to be
I’d like to THANK YOU immensely for this content! It’s ON POINT! Many struggle for YEARS with consistency when it comes to self-improvement. Some tap into certain areas and neglect others. You are empowering women to be a complete package and in all honesty this is wear joy resonates! Keep giving us more. It would be wonderful to have a FB group where we could connect, inspire and be accountable to each other. Just and idea😊
Thanks for your thoughtful comment and suggestion, Kalia! Consistency is definitely one of the more challenging aspects of self-improvement and success. Breaking our goals and plans down into small daily and weekly actions makes such a difference! I definitely promote being a well-rounded, complete package to be our happiest most successful selves😊 I really like the idea of some sort of group...I'd have to look into how much additional time something like that would require to successfully maintain. 💕💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Forgive me for my late reply. I’m just seeing your comment. Thank you so much for responding to me! Know if you are willing to form a group I myself would not mind at all assisting you with it in any way I can for I believe it’s TRULY NEEDED. Let me know for I’d be honor to be of service. 🌼Peace and Blessings Kalia🌼
This was so helpful ! Thank you for helping me figure out how to turn my dreams to reality! Looking forward to the next 6 months 🫶🏾. Loving your channel so far ! Thanks for sharing !
I will lose 30 pounds by October 1st. I plan on taking my 2 teenage sons on our first cruise to the Bahamas-I’ve already brought the tickets! I will be 100% comfortable with my physical body!!!
I'm just binge watching your videos and can't wait for the next one! You are exactly right source of wisdom in the right time, thank you so much! 💜 my personal goal in next 6 months is to release my next music album and convince my lable to send me on tour internationally... 🕊 i am rooting for all the ladies here and sending out love and support 🙏💜
Happy to have you here, Elizabeta! Welcome to the family 💕 These are some incredible goals! Write out your plans and execute your daily actions and let us know about your results! Cheers to your album and your success 🥂😊
Lots of truth here and very motivating. Thank you. My goal is to become fit, work on finances, and learn to rise above and successfully overcome the torment of being married to a Covert Narcissist
I'm so ready I have found this video around the time that I have realized that it's time for self healing. I'm going to focus on learning make up I'm 35 and never wore makeup before I'm ready to get in touch with my feminine side. I was such a Tom boy and still have those traits. I'm going to focus on my finance, loosing my weight, work on my credit, focus on starting my business and take a mini road trip
I love how things find us when we're ready for them! I love how diverse your goals are. Just make a separate page for each of your goals. What do you need to do daily and weekly to make these things happen? Track it that way to make sure you achieve them. Cheers to your amazing goals and success 💕🥂
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you so much for the advices, and guidance that you are giving to us to become a better version of our self daily. I'm so binge watching all your videos. Your Awesome virtual hugs 💖🥰
I watch your videos over and over. Wish you could post everyday 🙈🙃😀❤. In 6 months I will loose 12kgs, I will increase my savings and invest long-term, I will work on advertising my brand, I will learn Spanish or Yuroba and I will be more consistent with hair routine. Love all the way from Zambia, Africa ❤
I have had to really think about this one. In the past I've been focused, but had too much on my plate and it feels like nothing got done. I was tired and had a physical breakdown and got ill. Then a series of disasters happened- my mom died, my husband left and my house caught on fire and I became homeless. I'm self employed so it was all really hard. Financial stability is at the top, but health and weight would give me more energy. I have to say from your other videos, I've been incorporating all the beauty bits! Now I have lovely feet, hands, I found a great shampoo for thinning hair and I scheduled appointments for nails, facials, etc and am keeping those appointments! I think I have enough stable clients right now that if I can keep that ball rolling, really zeroing in on my health (weight and autoimmune illness) that could create a more effective building block so I can live my life again. So....weight and health.... then finances. I had to listen to this video over and over again to feel my way through it. Thank you so much! And you're right, all the girly self care is amazing! I started getting compliments right away- and all I did was add nail polish! Hahaha! You're right about that silent I care for myself energy has such power! And currentlyI'm overweight! Thank you for your videos!
Kate! I knew I got a good vibe from you from your previous comments. But I did not know you are such a powerhouse of strength, resilience and determination. I'm seriously in awe. I am so sorry you have had to go through so much in a such a short amount of time. But I am also inspired and motivated by your tenacity and zest for life through it all. I love that you are treating yourself to the small wins and are able to see how they affect your overall happiness and well-being. The "I care for myself" energy is real! I promise to keep providing the best content I can, if you promise to keep being your incredible, inspiring self. Wishing you all the best on your journey to better health, more wealth and over all fabulous-ness!! Can't wait to hear about your 6-month results🥂💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you so much for your kind words of support. I appreciate them very much and they are helpful to hear. It has been a long road...it's lovely to know and feel I can do something to improve my situation. Heartfelt thanks....
I’m so happy I found your channel! Everything you talk about resonates with me and I want to be the best me! I went through a big break up over a year ago and have been struggling with self image and self love. All your videos give me hope that I can be the woman I want to be and see myself being. Thank you ❤️
I am 100% going to focus on fitness and finance. I am in my mid 50's, my ultimate goal is to be "that woman" and redefine what 50-60 can look like and be.
Yesss! Love this so much! You can absolutely redefine what 50 - 60 looks like. I just came across a picture of Angela Bassett, who is in her 60s, in a bikini and was just stunned. I'm looking forward to your journey, queen! 💕
I like that idea. This is a great level up goalthat I can strive for during my journey. I'm going to put that on my to-do list. Thanks
@@TheFeminineUniverse Update- 3lbs down, Apartment painted (all white), mani pedi done and I changed my paycheck so that 20% of my check goes into a separate account. This weekend shopping for new furniture.
Amen!!! 50 is the new 30😍
Yea!!
It works. I pushed for 6 months consistently and lost 35 lbs. We can do it ladies!
I feel you girlfriend. My gold or should I say one of my largest goes this year with to lose weight I want to live a healthier lifestyle. I actually have always been a very nice eyes and always have eaten healthy but over the past few years because of stress from taking care of my mother, my grandmother and home hospice, and myself, I begin to put myself on the back burner and of course things begin to just do a downward spiral in my life. I was not focusing on myself as far as my health, wait, or what I was eating. I was so busy attending to other people's needs that I forgot my own.
However, through all of that, God has blessed me to be able to do the things that I need and want to do. I actually started with a medical procedure which was to have my fibroids removed. I knew that this was a problem but I did not realize how bad it was! I actually had 15 pounds of fibroids within my tummy that made me look like I was four months pregnant! This procedure actually freed out my body and help me to do things I normally wouldn't been able to do or have the interest of doing. It also remove excess weight that I did not know I was carrying from the fibroids
Since then, I have been able to have the energy and desire to diet and exercise like I need to in the first place. I've noticed that my weight is coming off a little bit better and I've also had to start some thyroid medication to balance out my thyroid and my other female hormones. Since then, the weight has been coming off a whole lot easier. I promised myself that if I needed help in this weight loss journey, I was going to get the help that I needed and wanted. My goal is to go from an 18 to a 10. I've actually lost not just a few pounds but quite a few inches which is very important in weight loss. I'm actually now in a very comfortable 16 and a quite tight 14!😁
My goal is to be in at least a 12 by the time I go on vacation in July. These clothes are obtainable if we have not just goals but realistic goals realizing that sometimes we have setbacks, Lazydays, thrown off schedules, and necessary resets but when I have these things occur, I continue to just get myself right back up and get into the swing of things. The key is to keep it moving🏃♀️
Good job!
Amen! 🙌🏼🙏🏼❤️🕊
Motivation 💪🏽
That’s it?
My 6 months goals
1= save some money each month
2= meditate daily
3= study harder and improve my university grades
4= listening to podcasts insead of listening to music in my car
5= start cooking for myself
Thanks for the video🌸🌱
Fantastic goals, Niusha! Write down what you're going to do and incorporate daily and weekly to get closer to these goals. You've got this! 💕🥂
Thanks for this ❤️ I was depressed for 2 years I stayed in the house basically waiting to gain the balls to off myself. After being drugged and raped by a tattoo artist I dated, hating my tattoos because they reminded me of the person, hating myself, feeling like my identity/sense of self is ruined, being a inattentive mother, couldn’t see a future for myself, just completely hated myself but I pulled myself out and now I feel like I still have hope. Tired of telling the same story but the narrative is changing. Practicing how to strengthen my discernment, setting boundaries spending time alone, being real with myself. Walking away from anything and anyone who don’t serve me well!!Always thinking of ways to improve. Most importantly i’m Trying!!!
First of all, I just want to take a moment to admire the strength it took for you to go through what you have and still decide to show up every day, to still have hope and to make the conscious decision to take control of your life and mindset. I salute you, Alexis. You are valuable, powerful, worthy and beautiful. I'm so sorry for anything and everything that has happened that made you think otherwise. I'm so happy you're still here with us. I pray that you continue to find healing, hope and happiness. Continue to do the best you can and keep being the best mom you can. Keep me posted and reach out any time! 💕💕
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It’s awesome that you have hope. Stay in faith. The worst thing for any child is to lose their parent. Always remember that. Sending you good energy
All is going to be well❤
Sending you loads of love and light ❤️🙏🏽
I’m turning 29 in June and since april i was focusing on getting fit, stopped drinking soda and started drinking more water, eating more greens, going to bed early and getting rid of things in my home and stopped buying things that I don’t need. Since then my waist has gotten smaller, my legs got more toned, and just last month i got a raise. My next goal is to start saving money.
Yes, Isa!! I love to hear this. You are getting that body and that money right. Keep me posted on your progress. Happy early birthday! Cheers to fitness, savings and success 💕🥂
@@TheFeminineUniverse thank u. I want to enter my 30’s being financially stable and confident. I don’t want to make the same mistakes I made in my 20’s
@@isalisa909 Thanks for this sis. Three years more to hitting 30 and this is an eye opener for me. ❤
I want to be the lady climbing the ladder in her career, acing my classes, dressing impeccably, encouraging people to be their best, serving my God wholeheartedly, making money and investing it wisely, well respected in the society, mentally stable, enjoying her life and being loved correctly... Amen 🙏🏾
Amen! Incredible goals, Elizabeth!! Wishing you all the success. Write out the daily tasks that lead to your bigger goals and crush it, girl! 🥂😊
Girl, same here! You can do all things through Christ❤
amen!!! ❤️
Amen, we share the same goals!
Same here 👆🏾
This video is the divine proof I needed to begin my journey of self love, self healing and self discovery. Thank you for sharing this. In 6 months, I want to improve my skin, eat cleaner and healthier and implement a functional exercise routine. I wish the best of luck to anyone starting this journey!
So glad this video found you at the right time, Brittany! This is such a beautiful journey. You've got three great goals there, remember to write out your plan and exactly what you need to do daily to keep up with them. Get it, girl!
I'm 52 so there with you......
I’m 59 and I just want to start and continue so I can see results!
Five months in… how ya doin so far??
This comment section honestly makes me want to cry 😢 everyone is so supportive…. it is genuinely so wonderful to see.
It gives me hope to keep pushing forward and to not give up. Thank you for sharing this video . 💗
God bless you all, and wishing you all success on your journeys. Xxx
Welcome to the TFU family, Sienna💕 I completely agree, the ladies here are truly incredible!! The energy is so uplifting.
You've got this - with the right plan you can crush all of your goals. Be sure to come back and let us know about your successes. God bless you too, xo 😊💕
I thought I was the only one who observed how openly and growth conscious everybody is here
A reminder to Keep pushing!! God bless you ❤️
@@joyjoseph6560 First time here and just from the first couple of scrolls I’m compelled to share my story… there’s such an openness, non judgmental, empathetic, and understanding vibe, I love it!
I'll be 19 in one month.
And I'll be a women who's financially independent and fit . ❤️
Love this! Happy early birthday! Cheers to your goals 🥂💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse 🥰 means a lot . BTW you've a sweeeet voice
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I cried listening to this. Middle aged and feeling washed up. God bless you for sharing this kindness to all women, regardless of race or age.
Thank you. 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
I'm moved that this touched you so deeply. I want to help all women tap into that power inside of them and feel their absolute best. I sincerely believe the years in front of you can be your best yet. It takes work but you can have it, if you want it. Write out those plans and daily actions. And I'll be here to support you along the way. Reach out any time! 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you.
I was starting to feel washed up too😥But this video and the women in the comments sharing their action plans and experiences ins motivating me.
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Thank you for this! I’m 53 years of age and have been aligning with my goals with consistency and focus. I am looking younger, feeling younger and crushing my lifestyle goals . Thank you for the confirmations and reminders. Let’s go ladies!
I’m focusing on:
1.) Fitness: My goal is to lose 60 pounds. Cardio and weights 4 days a week.
2.) Finance: stick to my budget, increase my savings by $10K-$20K and invest responsibly.
3.) Build 4 additional income streams.
Love these specific goals! Go ahead and crush it, queen! Check back in and let us know how it's going along the way 😊💕
Any updates on your goals?❤
I'm honestly ready for the new me. I'm excited to meet her. I'm so tired of this one. I'm grateful to her, but I'm ready to let her go. She's brought me to this point in my life.
I think it needs to start from within. YOU have to decide when it's time. I'm pursuing the new woman I want to be with aggression and with no apology. From my appearance, finances, to my hobbies and eventually love. Six months is doable.
"If it doesn't serve me, it doesn't deserve me". That's my motto now.
Thank you so much for this video!
Love this 👏🏽! All the best on your journey ❤️. I’m so encouraged and inspired by your comment 🥺.
Thank you!
Inspiring! All the best sis
Wow, that's amazing 💕
I love your take. “I’m grateful to her (the old me) but I’m ready to let her go”. YES!!! So with you sister 🤎
You explained in such a short amount of time what some people take many books and workshops to teach. This is so on point! I am truly grateful for the way you put this out so many women can change and upgrade their lives.
When my depression was taking over me, I could barely figure out what I wanted out of life. I wrote down a couple of dreams but never followed up on them. That really is the most important part. Reflect on what should be the steps to make it real. I also tend to reflect on what is keeping me away from what I want - bad habits, and how I can change them in order to focus completely.
It has been 2 weeks since I started noticing a big difference between the person I am now and who I was 2/3 years ago at my lowest point.
Gonna share my personal steps/actions very briefly:
-I took alcohol off my life. I do not party anymore and I stay away from people who only want to meet when they drink. It never works out and I regret it immensely the next day.
- I make 2 types of lists. 1- tasks on my phone using the Notes app. Those are the tasks for the day, as soon as the day is over, I delete the note and create a brand new one for the following day. 2-goals for the month, things that need to be accomplished in all areas of life, but I keep it down to no more than 10 things.
-I check in with myself. When I feel anxious, sad, angry, I stop and try to work it out in the same moment. If needed, I give myself some time to digest the feeling before taking any action. Most of the times, the feeling solves itself with just a walk in the park, some journaling and a shower.
-Inspiration session: I always try to get inspired in the morning or evening, creating a visual board of how my future looks and the things I love. It can be anything at all, what matters is to keep the flame of motivation alive!
-I am not always motivated, but if I know what I need to do, I try my best to just do the minimal(on a hard day) to get closer to my goals.
-Keep love close to you. People, animals, nature, music, prayers...love comes in all kinds of ways, starting from your heart.
Have a lovely journey ladies!
Thank you for another thoughtful comment, Bruna! And for not just commenting on the video but also sharing your personal growth and experience in a way that can help other ladies. It's wonderful that you've found a plan and steps that are working in helping you to overcome depression and work towards a beautiful, exciting, hopeful journey. That's no small feat. Keep going and keep us posted! Cheers to you, queen🥂💕
Thanks for sharing 💝
This right here was why I watched the video. Thank you for your comment! Subscribed after watching this insightful content, thank you for this video!! 🙏❤️❣️
Hello,
I just wanted to say that after reading your comment, I can relate to so much of what you were saying. Do you have any idea how many times over the years I have set goals for myself or started self-improvement Journeys only to have them come to a screeching halt or having to put them on the back burner because of some issue or another great life event popping up unexpectedly. But it's like the wonderful woman of this channel set, sooner or later you have to face yourself. You have to decide what you want and who you want to be. You're going to have to decide on who's going to make that person the outer forces that surround you or the things that are within you. They will always be life interruptions, there will always be a situation, A Circumstance, the unexpected, things that are shocking, surprising, Etc but we have to learn how to move on, push forward, and continue with our original plans. For so long, I used to just stop and throw my hands up in the air and lose my Focus. But I realized, if I continue to do this, I'm never going to get anywhere. So I just made sure that I had alternative plans set aside for the unexpected or some type of life event or situation. But the main thing was to keep going.🏃♀️
Thank you for posting this!! Well written and great reflection 😍
After 5 years of severe depression and 3 years of wanting to make a change but not knowing how, I'm so glad to have stumbled onto your videos.
I've really neglected myself and who I wanted to be for so long now. I want to reach for my dreams instead of giving up on them. I want to look good. I want to save money. I want to treat myself like a princess while having the wisdom of a queen. I want to be proud of myself.
Depression takes so much out of you and you fall into self-destructive habits so easily, even after coming out of it. So often, I feel like I'm behind on life compared to everyone else. So often, I feel like I barely know how to function as a human being.
But I've just settled into a job that I actually like and respect, and I want to level up my life. I don't want to settle for being a person I dislike for the rest of my life!
I'm going to start small. Just doing skincare every morning and every night. If I manage to keep that up for 6 months, I'll try adding daily exercise for 30 minutes to my routine. Like you said, the key is to do 1-3 things at once, and I don't want to scatter my focus with other things right now.
I'm just at the start of my journey, but I hope to get where I want to go someday!
Thank you for all the tips/advice! I'll likely be seeking your guidance in the years to come.
Crawling out of the depression hole is so hard. My place is a nightmare, looks like a bomb went off in here. At least I have my Invisalign in. Hope your journey is going well
You got this 💪🏽the only way someone who has been at the bottom can go is 🔝
@@knowyourkismat go one room at a time. Start from one end of the room and go around. This method works. Sending you good energy
This was so inspirational 🥺
you’ve got this, you’re not alone 💖
The old habit of being a night owl, does'nt serve me anymore, I know I can do so much more, feel better and achieve more when I get up early and start the day with God and Peace of mind. 2023 I am working 100% on becoming an early bird. Setting realistic goals this time. Anyone who wish to do the same, Best of luck to you tooo.. much love and blessings. I love this channel recently found it.
As a man seeing a page telling woman its ok to be feminine, gives me hope for the future. Too many girls are taught that being masculine and aggressive will make them happy.
Love your analogy of how things can go wrong in 6 months, interesting how when you flip it you can see how things can quickly change in 6 months 🙌🏽 Accountability and Positive Habits are definitely paramount in acquiring ANYTHING in life 🙌🏽
Yes! I'm so glad that resonated with you. You'd be surprised how many clients start off with "that's impossible" but when I breakdown how quickly things can go wrong then come back to how they can go right, it just clicks differently! Thank you for watching and for your feedback💕
breaking through the image one has created is so damn hard. people consciously and unconsciously try to put you back to the place you wanna leave. so yes ladies consistency is the key here to become whoever you want to be in 6 months.
1. Pass California licensing exams.
2. Get my health and fitness in order once and for all.
3. Have financial freedom
Thank u so much for this video. Sometimes, I feel stagnant or like I'm constantly starting at square one. This video is so motivating. I'll update in 6 months. Sending love and light to all you beautiful ladies. We got this! Xoxo
I was thinking the same in the morning God gives more to people who can manage when you are consistent you give out the energy of being able or capable to manage and God will bless you with more now I want to continue be more consistent with my exercise and healthy lifestyle ,my savings , getting a permanent job and my RUclips channel let see where we will be in six months
It does pay off. I can truly attest to the fact that having a plan ahead of time and making every Endeavour to make those goals a reality is something that I can say for a fact is true. I started this journey actually last year when I actually began with a medical procedure. The medical procedure freed up my mind and my body and allowed me to do things that I wasn't able to do before or had no interest in doing them
Since then, I have slowly began to level up in every area of my life. I can see the results and so can others. It's actually been quite fun and enjoyable
@@denisebrock3154 that's nice hey
Yes! Consistency is absolutely key! Those are all commendable and achievable goals. Be sure to write out your plan for achieving each one separately and get to work, sis!
Keep us posted on your journey 🥂💕
I'm so ready to start this journey on the 1st. I just been feeling out of sorts mentally. I'm 40, single with 2 kids and just feeling like I'm not enough . I'm ready to glow up in all ways
You are enough, love! That feeling might just be your subconscious telling you you're ready for and deserve more. I've seen the 40's be such a beautiful, transformative decade. Don't be afraid to level up and glow up on every level! Keep me posted and reach out anytime 💕💕
Makes two of us
Having been very ill, I stopped worrying about everything but surviving .... Won the battle fortunately .... But then realised I needed to get "me" back. In nine months, I got the 62lbs off that I had put on with meds, went back to my regular professional manicure and pedicure, and having time off enabled me to start learning another language. I used notebooks where I wrote weekly goals, a great calorie tracker app, bought a bunch of language books, and arranged a weekly private tuition class with a native speaker. The trick is reminding yourself that missing once is fine occasionally - just get back on track .... And keep going!!
Firstly, I'm so happy to hear that you won the battle for your health and that you're feeling well, Alexandra! Kudos to you for getting all those things in order getting back on track! You make such a great point about occasional slip ups being perfectly ok and that getting back on track is what matters. Cheers to you and your continued health and success🥂
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my goal is getting fit. my album is going to be dropped soon and I need to look good on stage photos etc. it is crucial that I look my best or my record label will ignore me and they are who I am accountable for. this is a major career opportunity that I can't risk losing.
You've got this, love! Congratulations on your upcoming album release. Wishing you happiness and success 🥂💕
Congratulations dear and much succes in getting fit.
Wow !!!! How amazing !!!!! My best of the best wishes , girl !!!!!!!!
I am so happy for you. I hope that everything that you want and desire in this area of your life comes to fruition. There's nothing like having a dream or a desire grow hands legs and feet and you finally see it crawl then stand up and then begin to walk. I hope everything goes well. Wishing you all the best now and in the future
Good luck sis!
I started doing this for my fitness goals. For the first time in my life I've been consistent. Almost four months and I'm still going strong. Loving my life. ❤
Keep it up, love! Consistency is one of the most important pieces of success 💕
Today I signed up for courses to learn microblading. I hope to be able to do it full time by the end of the year, which definitely falls into the six month window. Pay off my debts and build an emergency savings. 😬 I can feel it!
Yes! The microblading industry is booming. Love hearing about my ladies adding another stream of income into their lives. I agree, with daily practice you will be so far in 6 months! Be sure to take pictures to chronicle how far your skills have come. More money means more savings and easier debt payoff. So exciting! Keep us posted, Elizabeth💕
My therapist, I tecommend this channel to literally all my friends, you have no idea how youve helped me with my confidence. Be blessed.
So happy to hear this channel has been beneficial to you and is helping to boost your confidence, Clara! Thank you for recommending it to others, I think that is the biggest compliment. Blessings to you, as well. 😊
@@TheFeminineUniverse Awww thank you for the reply. I'm very flattered. You are an inspiration to many, especially us girls who had no mothers and no older female relatives to teach us things like this. I'm so appreciative that I found this channel, you changed my life in a week. Lots of love♥️
I adore your analogy of letting things slip for 6 months, to show the contrast if we instead adopted small positive habits how much of a difference it would make. Great video!
Great post! Keep doing what you are doing!
My top goals :
1. Continue to optimize my fitness levels (down 50+ pounds so far).
2. Get my brand going
3. Get my scripted digital TV series launched (actually my REAL #1 goal)
As an add you hit the mail on the head.
I ended up working with a stylist, got my wardrobe corrected, learned/learning to improve my friendships. I just finished up modeling school in order to work on my awkwardness/ self confidence.
PMy friend sent me your channel so my goal is to add more feminine qualities to my life.
Love your name, Natasha! Sending you good energy
@@goldenparachute392 thank you thank you 😊 Sending wonderful vibes back to you!
@@thenatashaverse 😊
I was debating on working with a stylist, how was that ?
@@tamiadixon8312 thanks for writing. Just from your photo you look really stylish, but I also understand wanting to make a change I just want to let you know a little more about me before I answer your question..
1. focusing on on weight loss & fitness, and essentially have a new body
2. I never knew how to dress myself in the first place because it just wasn't important (single parent and had to focus on my son)
3. Didn't have the basics in a wardrobe, also never had a dress in my adult life and often just wore Black / Grey / Denim.
4. And really had to work on keeping an open mind and trusting somebody
My friend from church actually reached out to me, and we talked about wanting to rebrand, and so she nudged me into the store.
After that, she took me on as a client. It has been transformational for me. She basically charged me a half day rate, we went to a few department stores, and she picked things out, and asked if it was comfortable to get off / on, She was also honest, and I had to trust her. There were things I never thought I would like, but they look AMAZING on me, and I am glad that I trusted the process.
She was a real blessing, but had a sense of my personality, and helped me to get out of what I believed was okay for me.
I not only look different, I really feel it. So for me, hiring a stylist was ideal for the transformation I am going through and it helped me get out of my own way. I hope this answered your question.
My goal is to lose weight through diet and exercise. I already know my goal weight. It’s been a dream of mine to get back to the weight that I feel comfortable at. My plan is to use the Weight Watcher’s app, go to bed earlier, eat more fruits & vegetables, & start doing Pilates, in addition to my walks.
When I am at my ideal weight (and this is just my personal experience), many aspects of femininity come naturally. I can wear beautiful clothing. I feel more elegant. I pay more attention to my accessories.
I am looking forward to this 6-month progress! I wish all of my sisters success on their dreams!
honestly my new favorite channel! Definitely taking a 6 month journey if we start now we'll be done before the end of the year! We got this
Yes! We can complete these goals and be at a whole new level before the new year. Thanks for being a positive ray of light, Ebby! Happy to have you as part of the family ✨💕
3 more months (you posted this 3 mo ago)
Yes! Let's finish the year strong. 💪
6 months later and I’m curious to see how your journey is going? Wishing you the best!
I'm planning on completing my high school diploma. Thank you for breaking these steps down. It def helps!
Glad it was helpful! Get that diploma, love! We're rooting for you 💕
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Y'all I only have one more to go and that's the math part now.
Number one goal : personal finance! Beauty/life style is a close second but only gets paid for by the number 1 goal. #pumped
I made a goal, beginning of this month to loose some weight, it's 2 and a half weeks since and I've so far hit half the target I made. I'm really happy with myself for trying this hard. Results are wonderful. My motivation quote is, to do something you've never done to get results you never had. It's working.
It's is now Tuesday, Sept.27, 2022.
I am focusing on for the next 3 months & finishing the year Strong:
1. Fitness- to lose 26 lbs & flat tummy
2. Finance- Increase my income by $100k
3. Finish school- 2 more classes left
Before the year is finish,In Jesus Name,Amen.
I love these specific goals! Be sure to write down your daily/weekly actions to keep you on track. Finish the year strong! You've got this, love 💕
Another AWESOME video! Ladies i want to recommend reading or listening to the 12 week year. It’s essentially the same thing described in the video. I just stumbled upon it this week so this video is divine timing for me!
In 6 months I will lose 30pounds and pay off 5k of my student loan debt! 🥰
You can do it!!
The one thing I'd really love to do within 6 months is to finally have the courage to start my own RUclips channel without any form of doubt.
Thank you so much for the beautiful video 💕✨
You can do it, love! I put it off for so long, over-planning and thinking about the what-ifs. Sometimes you have to plan where you can then dive in and figure out the rest as you go! 💕💕
Go for it and I wish you all the best ❤️❤️❤️. Comeback and link us please.
Thanks you guys this means so much to me 🥰
Updates?❤ did you start a channel?
For me, feeling unsettled is a sign of creative discontent, meaning it's time for change. Thank you for laying out the process so clearly and in such an inspiring way. I've lost 30 pounds and have another 20 to go. Have got a new skincare routine that works for me and have solidified an exercise routine for overall health and injury rehab. Realized I want to evolve a new chic capsule wardrobe that I love and am comfortable in now that I'm retired and can dress to please myself. We'll see where I am on that in six months! Thanks again for all your helpful tips.
Hi Anne, thank you for your comment! Love reading positive things like this!
I am, thanks for sharing I love what you're doing as far as exercise and working on your wardrobe. I am doing the exact same thing. Right now, I am focusing on Handbags and shoes. When I used to dress up for work which was over twenty years ago, my wardrobe was so much better and I had a lot more dresses in my closet. But when I switched jobs and the dress attire change from coming to work dressed to a casual attire. Then it went from a casual attire to a uniform. Everyone including myself was pretty happy about this. But what happened is because I was no longer having to keep up my clothes like I once did, I was making less and less trips to the clothing stores and less and less trips to the makeup counters. I slowly, over time, stop wearing as much makeup and jewelry. I begin to be very laid-back in my appearance when it came to my hair, my makeup, and my jewelry. The next thing I know I was a girl wearing no makeup, no jewelry, and because I had gained weight, I couldn't even wear the cute clothes that I had in my closet anymore. So as you can see, I am on a journey to get back into the clothes that I have in my closet as well as freshen up by purchasing some new items as well.
that you so much dear, my goal is to save money and move to a new country (the UK ) and start a completly new life, amen
I was thinking about doing something similar. I want to live in multiple countries.
I refer back to this video often and last month I finally got started on my goals #1 of which for a long time has been my health; for asthetic and energy reasons. I made sure to tell my kid that I was working out to get strong enough to lift her like daddy can, and so I could live life to the fullest with her. She came home from school the other day and picked her up in my arms to give her a kiss and she said to me "mommy's so strong now, and youre really happy lately. I had noticed an aesthetic difference at all yet and the weight on the scale hadnt moved but that comment was worth its weight in gold. A reminder to the ladies that working on your goals isnt just going to improve your life 6 months from now, it will start improving your life right away. Thank you feminine universe and all the wonderful ladies of this community!
I love the six months analogy! I am going to build my brand and push myself even harder than I have been. In all aspects of my life.
Yes! Let's make this next six months incredible! Wishing you tons of success with your brand - keep me posted on your progress 🥂💕
My goal is to be finically stable!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Yes! Write out that plan and make it happen, love!
Starting today! I’ve literally been tossing and turning in my sleep because my mind won’t stop and now I know why! Thank you
So glad this provided some clarity! Sounds like you are getting ready for the next level! You've got this, love😊
Im done manifesting love and relationships. I’m manifesting money, determination, and consistency. Full stop.
I'm in. Ladies let do this
💕 just leaving a comment to help your algorhythm .. i love your voice .. it alone is a stress relief.. i feel it melting off my shoulders as I listen!
Thanks, love! You're so kind. It's always lovely to see you in the comments💕
I will put these steps into action for 2023, I’m so excited for what 2023 has in store for me❤ thank you for this video
👍🏼 Learnt Spanish in high school. Currently in Uni but I'm considering German, Dutch, or Portuguese. My goal is to travel abroad and maintain a stable lifestyle. Thanks for the vid.
I would suggest Portuguese because you have learnt Spanish.
I speak Dutch. Dutch and German are kind of similar.
Cheers.
@@jenmar9428 , sim, o português é um lindo idioma (both Portuguese and Brazilian 😁🇧🇷 versions)!
I am learning German via Duolingo.
@@jenmar9428hi
Of all the upscale-your-life videos, yours are the most intelligent and the most genuine - I thank you for being an authentically brilliant and kind human being.
Thank you for your continued kind words😊 Just doing what I can from a sincere place. I am so glad that my energy and videos resonate with you!
So glad I randomly came across your video! After 2 years of grief from losing 48 loved ones ,my father being the most tragic,I’m now ready to move forward. Was feeling like I had missed out on opportunities. Just turned 51 & really missing my loved ones.
Just in case anyone is curious….none were Covid related deaths.
1) releasing 40 lbs of excess weight
2) earning 151k in my 1:1 coaching business
3) paying off All debts
My start date will be Oct 1st .
First, let me say I absolutely love the content in this video. I have been following you since you started your channel. I watched the videos over and over so as to saturate the material within my mind, heart, and spirit. I have many goals set for myself between now and the end of the year.
I must say because I have pre-planned for all of them, they are not all just reachable, I have actually accomplished 50% of some of them. I would just like to say that a few of my goals have been the following: working on a skincare routine to improve my skin. I have not only said that goal but I have almost completed that goal. I am under the care of a dermatologist and I'm using different serum and creams for both daytime and nighttime as well as a sunscreen. I am constantly getting comment on my skin and the texture of my skin from both men and women!
I'm also on a weight loss journey. I went to the doctor and found out that I had an abnormal thyroid. Believe it or not, I was somewhat happy to hear this because now I realize that my weight-loss issues are not my fault entirely. The thyroid has so much to do with your ability to lose weight and keep it off. I am now taking a very low dosage of Synthroid medication. But I am also doing other things in the alternative medicine are we not to shed the weight as well. As you said, I am in beast mode with my exercise routine and I am already seeing great results.
I have also applied a plan to my hair routine to regrow my hair to Mid back length or tailbone length. I actually I'm ahead of schedule due to some additional information that I researched about hair growth. Taking the medication for my thyroid as well as taking natural things to balance out my hormones has a up my hair growth significantly. My hair is now stronger, longer, and growing like a weed! I think I will meet my Caroline go a lot earlier than I had originally planned.
I have to say and closing in this comment, I wanted to share with you the results of what happens when you take extra time to take care of yourself, pamper yourself, and go above and beyond in the area of self-care. Just the other day, the mailman came to my house to deliver some mail. I rushed out to meet him because there was a truck blocking the mailbox and I knew he could not get into my mailbox without getting out of his truck.
When I ran down the sidewalk to meet him I noticed the expression on his face I wasn't quite sure what to make of it but I knew he was quite surprised to see me dressed up with makeup on and wearing a dress and very strappy and sexy sandals. I had just come from an appointment and had not changed my clothes as of yet. When I announce to him that I was coming to get the mail and that he would not have to get out of the truck, I noticed that he wasn't saying anything but he was just looking at me with this look up all on his face. His expression was priceless😯
He asked me, Denise is that you? Or are you the twin sister? I actually thought he was joking for a moment, but he was being quite serious. He said he could not believe that I was the same person that used to come to the mailbox and a hair Bonnet, with no makeup, sweatpants and a little t-shirt.
He said he did not know that I had so much hair and that it was as beautiful as it was. He said he had not noticed that my teeth were so pretty, straight and White.
He actually turned off his mail truck, got out and lean back on his truck and shook his head and disbelief. He just continued to stare at me and asked me are you single? And I said yes I am and I'm fighting it every day😁
He told me, trust me Denise, looking like this, you will not be single for long. He also said as he cranked up the truck to leave you look absolutely breathtaking. You should try to look like this all the time. I can tell that it's not much of an effort for you because these things are already a part of who you are. He says I would like to see more of this and I'm sure other men would too.
I can't tell you how that comment made me feel. I have been living and eating off of that comment since he made it. I automatically thought about the feminine Universe videos that I had been watching and I said to myself, because you paid attention, follow the advice, and resurrected the old things that you used to do to take care of yourself and look great oh, look at the results.
I was so proud of myself. Not because I I'm trying to say that I'm the most beautiful woman in the world because of course that is so not the case. I was proud of myself because I actually got back what I put in. I remember that you said in time you will watch people will start to act differently, treat you differently, and even take time to share a nice compliment with you like the gentleman did in this case.
Normally, I'm very shy and my face turned a soft pink color when I receive comments because I'm usually embarrassed and I don't feel that the comments are genuine. I don't know why I do this. I think because sometimes I don't think people are being genuine when they share compliments with me. I need to work on the reasoning behind that. But this time was different, not because of the gentleman himself, but because I knew what I had done to get to that point and I was proud of myself because I realize that what he saw that day was what I saw in the mirror as I begin to prepare for my appointment. I was happy when I left for the appointment. And apparently the work that I put in was long-lasting even when I returned home.
Thank you so much for these awesome videos. I credit much of this to your testimony and wisdom. Thanks😊
Absolutely love this! I can totally relate, Well done!🌹
This story is dowp🙂 go on my sister. I am beginning mine as we speak. But I am happy to see actually testimonies.
Wow... This is so interesting, thank you for implementing all the tips she gave, and thank you again for sharing your testimony... 😊
I want to know please the serum you mentioned, did you get for the body and face?
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Hi Life Essentials,
I will be happy to share with you the facial and neck serum that my dermatologist recommended for me. It is a skin serum by a company called Zein Obagi. The name of the serum is called ZO Skin Health. The serum that I use for my face is called the Growth Factor Serum. This one I used on my face and my neck. There is also one that is used specifically for the eyes. It is used to decrease puffiness, get rid of dark circles, and smooth out fine lines and wrinkles if you have any. I did not have the fine lines and wrinkles but I definitely had a little puffiness and dark circles. It has helped tremendously.
It's funny that you asked me something about my body because I'm actually getting ready to start using a cream and a serum for the rest of my body. I told the dermatologist that I wanted to use something for my elbows, my knees and my legs to even out the skin tone in those areas and she said that when I come back for my appointment in June she will look at those areas to see exactly what I needed. But she said there is something for everything pertaining to the skin. I also wanted to say there I am also incorporating facials into my skincare routine which is something I have promised myself I would do for a very long time but never got around to doing it. But this year was my year to start. I didn't care where I started just as long as I made something happen. I have a facial scheduled next week Facials are very popular and there was only one opening for an 8 a.m. hydrafacial!
Normally, I would have not taken this time slot but I am willing to do what I have to do within reason to get the results that I desire. So I will be going to my 8 a.m. hydrafacial appointment but the results will be well worth it. I also plan on doing body treatments and scrubs either at the dermatologist office or at a spa. I plan to experience this level of Journey as far as I can take it. I can tell you that I am definitely enjoying the journey😊
I almost forgot to share one more thing with you. Another part of my level of Journey is that I no longer go to the conveniently located nail shops that anyone and everyone can just pop in and out of at their convenience. I made a promise to myself that at the beginning of the year that part of my level of journey that I would begin going to an actual Nail and Skin Spa to receive all of my nail and skin care services. Of course this means services are rendered by appointment only and it's a little more money than I'm used to paying but it's so well worth it. The atmosphere, the conversation, the choices of skin regimens and services are outstanding. I plan on receiving all types of skin care services as well. But I wanted to share with you that the place that I go to which is called the Natural Body Spa. They carry upscale lines of exceptional skin care. I know the one of the skincare lines is by a company called Eminence which is absolutely outstanding. They make all type of skin care creams, serums, and exfoliants for the face, body, and feet. I remember that the nail tech once shared with me that at one time the spa was using a foot scrub on the clients which cost $100 a jar! Of course, this did not last very long and they switched their product to something just as good but not as pricey. But that particular foot scrub is available for purchase at the spa. I'm not sure if you're a person that goes to these types of places for services but since you asked the question about the facial serums, they're not only available after dermatologist but also at some of the top body care Spas as well. Good luck and take care. I hope I was able to help you with the information you were desiring😊
Denise, Denise, Denise! This right here is a whole testimony on the benefits of taking care of ourselves. So proud of you! So many people listen to advice upon advice and never take the initiative to act on it. I'm so glad these videos have helped you re-ignite your desire to care for yourself on the inside and out and that you are really seeing the results. Keep us posted as you continue to flourish. Cheers to you and your journey, queen! 🥂💕
My ultimate goal is to get me back. I grew up with Ultra feminine women extremely productive women. So for 2023 I am going to get back to be totally productive. Which will get me beyond being so less than who I am. Thank you so much for your channel. God bless you and your. 🕊️❤️🕊️. HeavenLee Justice
Love from Kenya Africa 💝
You're lucky to live in such a beautiful country. Wish you a happy day from Italy
Sending love back to you from New York💕💕
Not sure why I had didn’t seen your channel before . I’m glad I did .
All I have to say is “ you are doing a fantastic job “ thank you 😊 ❤ for your great energy and for pushing the ladies to be better.
Welcome to the family, love💕 Happy to have you here! I'm so glad you're enjoying the content 😘
Your channel is better than every other channel that talks about being feminine. Your channel isn’t judgmental and completely trying to change the person.
Wow - thank you! I'm so happy that my channel is your vibe! I just want to help women discover, rediscover and enjoy the next level of their femininity in a welcoming way, that works for them! 😊💕
Absolute favourite and I just found it two weeks ago. What a blessing
I’m so excited for the next 12 months of my Life 🤗🤗🤗
I love hearing this! Make it an incredible 12 months, Jamie 🥂💕
What a motivating video, thank you for making it. The three areas I will be focussing on are: Lose 30lbs, do my stretches 6x week, do not spend above my budget/no impulse shopping. All of this is achievable within the timeline. Again, thank you for making this video! I feel so excited for what I can achieve!
I try to not overthink my weight loss journey and obsess over the scale's number because I look and feel great! I'm 3.5 months into my weight loss journey and am down 17 pounds. My goal this month is to get to the 20 pound mark and be down 30 pounds total by 6 months.
Update, I hit my 30 pound goal in 6 months!!!!
I love your channel! Just got a notification for this video but I need to say Thank you so much for sharing this content. I've been looking for something like this. Like HGTV for Feminity - you give tips and quick guides to style, fashion, and feminine vibes. I love the models that you use for visuals; they are all beautiful, curvy, multi racial. Defenetly not a one-note.
I've learned so much and look forward to see more content. THANK YOU!!!
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My 6 month goal is to lose 35 lbs and finish decoreting my home (it's been in works for the past 2 years and still pending).
HGTV for Femininity! That made me smile so hard, it's kind of catchy and I love both of those things, so thank you! I'm so thrilled that you're enjoying the content and the way it's presented 😊
You can absolutely crush both of those goals in six months. Just write out your plan and daily steps to get there. You've got this, Julie! 🥂💕
Saved this video for 2023!!!! I love your channel 🌌✨
My life has changed so much after finding this channel. It's been such the guide I needed. I love myself and I'm going to keep doing better than I did yesterday. ❤❤❤
Babe thanks for this videos
Few days after watching it I visited the dermatologist n got on the journey of clearing my long persistant acne
Its now 8months that I have finished the prescription
I am soo happy I invested in my skin n its super clear
Acne free for life
Thanks
I'm so happy for you, love!! I can almost feel your happiness through the screen! Thank you for coming back and sharing. This is such a great testimonial. I know it will be inspiring to other ladies in this community💕
I just started a waitressing job last week, and my goal is to be the best waitress there (:
Congrats, Miranda! This attitude right here, will get you places - from stellar waitressing, to management, if you want that. Always seek to do your best, learn lessons in every chapter, they will prepare for the next phases in your life. 💕
I just got a server job yesterday and I’m ready to hustle hard! Good luck Miranda!
@@kiaj.d.5855 Thnks you! Good luck to you as well 🤍🤍
I have always wanted more for myself,even when I didn't admit it. I got tired of feeling guilty for wanting to learn about things(i.e, wine knowledge, eating with chopsticks,learning French,classical music,etc). Love the content of this video because it allows me to focus on being happy,and picking up where I left off on my reinvention! 💅🎓💄👠💋🌹🎁✈️🎶🎼❤️
Just seen this. Am going to focus on fitness and saving. I have been procrastinating on fitness since I lost my mum but this has lifted me up
I am so sorry for your deep loss, Isabel. I'm so glad this video was able to give you even a bit of a lift. I'm sure your mom would want you to reach all your goals and be your healthiest, happiest self! Welcome to the family💕
When you asked when is the last time you consistently pushed for something for 6 months it made me remember how I got my finances in check, and how I started taking care of my skin and hair. And you're right, that 6 moths changed my life, and now I have a savings, good credit and a moisturized and clear face everyday. If I can focus on my fitness for 6 months I can surely change my life again in that regard.
Absolutely! You can certainly do it again, it seems to get a little easier with each round. Thanks for sharing your experience with this 6 month focus protocol. All the best in crushing your goals 🥂😊
I’m making a vision board off of your visuals . This was the exact video i needed at the EXACT moment. Me and my best friend were just talking about this and you just took everything and organized the thoughts. This hit differently . You have no idea how much youre needed ! Keep doing what you’re doing , please ❤️
So glad this appeared at the right time for you! Yes, to that vision board! Be sure to write down that plan and your daily actions. It's great that you have your best friend to go on this journey with. Cheers to you and your bestie crushing all your goals🥂💕 Keep us posted! More content to come😊
@@TheFeminineUniverse you’re amazing ! Thank you again 🙏🏻❤️
How you broke it down reminds me of the things I learned in the books Atomic habits and the 12 week year. Which I am using to help me be more zoned in and being the best I have ever been. With that I wanted to learn Korean and I spend around 30-40 minutes a day in language classes online from Monday - Friday, its honestly one of the coolest things I think I have done. I have a goal of losing 80 pounds in February I joined a gym and I am currently now consistently working out 3-5 times a week, after a month in gym I started learning about body recomposition and started adding weights which has just elevated things in my weight-loss journey. I have a goal of living well financially and had also recently read Dave Ramsey book on money and finally am getting my finances together and with those funds I am upgrading my home to be the kind of homes I pin on my Pinterest. I have also incorporated being more disciplined in investing, I went to university to study finance and I have been exposed to a lot of things relating to stocks but I was not disciplined. I now keep trading journals that I use each morning to make market analysis and make sure my money grows so I can retire at 35. A quote I strive to implement on the daily from the 12 week year is that excellence is in the moment, if you are not executing to the highest degree daily you will not reach your goals, like if you want to lose weight and constantly cheating when the time comes you might be disappointed because you fail to grab onto the now. Where you are is exactly where you need to be to get to where you want to be.
My 3rd baby is due in August staying fit until then, and continue to lose the leftovers 😀afterwards is
The current goal.
Wow! I didn't know you were expecting a third - that's so exciting! Wishing you a smooth delivery and a happy, healthy baby. Cheers to all your goals 🥂
@@TheFeminineUniverse
Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏿.
And thanks for another great video
I’m really enjoying your channel honestly 💗.
Thank you for your beautiful, uplifting videos. Coming across your channel is definitely divine encouragement! You've inspired me with a new goal: to become a more polished-looking woman. (Got to start matching my outsides to my insides!). In the last two weeks I've made small, inexpensive changes: at-home pedi and mani, simple daily makeup so I look fresh, wearing small gold ball stud earrings all the time (so my piercings aren't empty and 'unfinished' looking), wearing my nicer sandles, and IRONING my clothes! Would you believe that wearing an ironed shirt makes you feel like a million bucks?! Fifteen minutes of ironing to feel confident, joyful, centered in my power and agency, and prepared to embrace God's abundant plan for the day! (Of course, the ironing is preceded by prayer, meditation and yoga lol. But who knew the power of ironing?). I'm definitely standing taller. What a great service you are doing for women everywhere with your channel. God bless you
I’ll make the goals of focusing on my spirituality, finances, and education for the next six months.
Great goals, Gina! Make sure you break those goals down to get your plan and write down your daily actions😊
Where can I be in six months? I want to be:
- Starting community college.
- Doing really well as a to-go server at my job, and moving towards becoming a regular server.
- Having an established friend group of at least 3 other people I can genuinely trust that I can hang out with/FT all the time.
- Down from 129 pounds to about 115-120, and staying there consistently.
- At the point with my Spanish where I can have conversations with natives even if they talk fast/have an accent.
- Having at least $1000 in my savings.
One of my goals is to get all my properties up, running, and rented.
I've been watching your videos and this is the first time I'm commenting. Im 29 and i believe it's not yet too late for me. My goal is to start my fitness journey, gain some muscle weight. Start a skin and hair care routine start to actually be intentional with my purchases, buy more dresses than pants. Also learn French and get back to doing RUclips again. I've been taking care of other people for too long, it's time to pamper myself.
Yess!! I love this. It's absolutely time for YOU! It's great that you are specific about the changes and steps you will be taking. That's such big part of successfully achieving your goals. Cheers to this new chapter 🥂💕
I feel like I need to pay you for just watching the video. I know there was a lot of work behind this. Thank you so much for your wise words! I will take everything to heart. 💕
Aww... Thank you for the appreciation! I'm so glad this was helpful/useful for you 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse omg you responded! 💕 ☺️
I'm trying to change my life by my 33rd bday in around 5 months. So glad I found these videos.
I know this an older video but I’m just watching now. This is a very doable approach to change. Thank you. Also, your voice is very soothing.
Wish I can give this 1000 likes! Thank you so much for your videos. If only you know how life changing they are. ❤
That's so wonderful to hear! I'm so happy that this was helpful for you, Alicia. Go crush your goals 🥂✨💕
I need to keep this video on tap for when I need a pick me up and set myself straight again. So inspiring and practical ✨️
I know my Ancestors want me to get it together. Thank you for this video 💜
I’m going to focus on fitness, my finances and protecting my peace and increasing my vibration💗 I needed to hear this and I’m ready to devote to becoming who I want to be
Let's do it!!
I’d like to THANK YOU immensely for this content! It’s ON POINT! Many struggle for YEARS with consistency when it comes to self-improvement. Some tap into certain areas and neglect others. You are empowering women to be a complete package and in all honesty this is wear joy resonates! Keep giving us more. It would be wonderful to have a FB group where we could connect, inspire and be accountable to each other. Just and idea😊
Thanks for your thoughtful comment and suggestion, Kalia! Consistency is definitely one of the more challenging aspects of self-improvement and success. Breaking our goals and plans down into small daily and weekly actions makes such a difference! I definitely promote being a well-rounded, complete package to be our happiest most successful selves😊 I really like the idea of some sort of group...I'd have to look into how much additional time something like that would require to successfully maintain. 💕💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Forgive me for my late reply. I’m just seeing your comment.
Thank you so much for responding to me!
Know if you are willing to form a group I myself would not mind at all assisting you with it in any way I can for I believe it’s TRULY NEEDED. Let me know for I’d be honor to be of service.
🌼Peace and Blessings Kalia🌼
This was so helpful ! Thank you for helping me figure out how to turn my dreams to reality! Looking forward to the next 6 months 🫶🏾. Loving your channel so far ! Thanks for sharing !
I will lose 30 pounds by October 1st. I plan on taking my 2 teenage sons on our first cruise to the Bahamas-I’ve already brought the tickets! I will be 100% comfortable with my physical body!!!
You got this!
I have made the greatest sacrifice of my life to refocus myself 😭😭 my journey starts October, and this video came in handy 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm focusing on fitness and finance 💪💪
Yes! Those are two wonderful things to focus on. Write out your daily and weekly plans to make it happen. Cheers 🥂
from hundred of videos on this topic,, this is the most relevant and realistic with actionable steps.. thank you
I'm 20 and finding thos RUclips channel is the best thing that has ever happened to me 🥰❤
I'm just binge watching your videos and can't wait for the next one! You are exactly right source of wisdom in the right time, thank you so much! 💜 my personal goal in next 6 months is to release my next music album and convince my lable to send me on tour internationally... 🕊 i am rooting for all the ladies here and sending out love and support 🙏💜
Rooting for you as well. ❤️❤️❤️
Happy to have you here, Elizabeta! Welcome to the family 💕 These are some incredible goals! Write out your plans and execute your daily actions and let us know about your results! Cheers to your album and your success 🥂😊
My number one goal is to work on my weight. Thank you so much for this motivating video. I am loving your channel.
You can do it, love! Be sure to write out your exact plan and your daily actions to get there!
I am definitely NOT consistent. I most def need to work on that. It has been my goal this year.
Lots of truth here and very motivating. Thank you. My goal is to become fit, work on finances, and learn to rise above and successfully overcome the torment of being married to a Covert Narcissist
I'm so ready I have found this video around the time that I have realized that it's time for self healing. I'm going to focus on learning make up I'm 35 and never wore makeup before I'm ready to get in touch with my feminine side. I was such a Tom boy and still have those traits. I'm going to focus on my finance, loosing my weight, work on my credit, focus on starting my business and take a mini road trip
I love how things find us when we're ready for them! I love how diverse your goals are. Just make a separate page for each of your goals. What do you need to do daily and weekly to make these things happen? Track it that way to make sure you achieve them. Cheers to your amazing goals and success 💕🥂
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you so much for the advices, and guidance that you are giving to us to become a better version of our self daily. I'm so binge watching all your videos. Your Awesome virtual hugs 💖🥰
My goals for next six months starting on March 1, 2024 is to lose 40lbs, build my savings, and to take 3 classes towards my BA.
Thank you so much for breaking this down for us 🥰♥️ I am so ready for 2023, the year where I achieve my goals✨
You've got this, love!
This is such a refreshing channel...thank you for encouraging women...we need to be reminded to focus self care and ❤️ love.
I watch your videos over and over. Wish you could post everyday 🙈🙃😀❤.
In 6 months I will loose 12kgs, I will increase my savings and invest long-term, I will work on advertising my brand, I will learn Spanish or Yuroba and I will be more consistent with hair routine. Love all the way from Zambia, Africa ❤
To focus on my
1.health
2.financial life
3.personal development in my spiritual life and wellness 🙏🏻
I have had to really think about this one. In the past I've been focused, but had too much on my plate and it feels like nothing got done. I was tired and had a physical breakdown and got ill. Then a series of disasters happened- my mom died, my husband left and my house caught on fire and I became homeless. I'm self employed so it was all really hard. Financial stability is at the top, but health and weight would give me more energy. I have to say from your other videos, I've been incorporating all the beauty bits! Now I have lovely feet, hands, I found a great shampoo for thinning hair and I scheduled appointments for nails, facials, etc and am keeping those appointments! I think I have enough stable clients right now that if I can keep that ball rolling, really zeroing in on my health (weight and autoimmune illness) that could create a more effective building block so I can live my life again. So....weight and health.... then finances. I had to listen to this video over and over again to feel my way through it. Thank you so much! And you're right, all the girly self care is amazing! I started getting compliments right away- and all I did was add nail polish! Hahaha! You're right about that silent I care for myself energy has such power! And currentlyI'm overweight! Thank you for your videos!
Kate! I knew I got a good vibe from you from your previous comments. But I did not know you are such a powerhouse of strength, resilience and determination. I'm seriously in awe. I am so sorry you have had to go through so much in a such a short amount of time. But I am also inspired and motivated by your tenacity and zest for life through it all. I love that you are treating yourself to the small wins and are able to see how they affect your overall happiness and well-being. The "I care for myself" energy is real! I promise to keep providing the best content I can, if you promise to keep being your incredible, inspiring self. Wishing you all the best on your journey to better health, more wealth and over all fabulous-ness!! Can't wait to hear about your 6-month results🥂💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you so much for your kind words of support. I appreciate them very much and they are helpful to hear. It has been a long road...it's lovely to know and feel I can do something to improve my situation. Heartfelt thanks....
I’m so happy I found your channel! Everything you talk about resonates with me and I want to be the best me! I went through a big break up over a year ago and have been struggling with self image and self love. All your videos give me hope that I can be the woman I want to be and see myself being. Thank you ❤️
I'm going to start at the beginning of January 2024! Getting My Mind, Body and Soul Together 💜
I love love love the 6 month perspective.. definitely opens my eyes!
I'm so happy this perspective was helpful for you, Anima. Cheers to all your goals! 🥂😊