Why Men Pursue Women They Don't Like | The Truth
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
- So, there are women who believe that the fact that a man is with them, means he likes them. that because he spends any amount of time with them or because he chooses to lay with them - he likes them. but unfortunately, that isn’t the case. Life would be much easier to navigate if people were honest and up front with their intentions towards us from the moment we met. But that’s not the world we live in and that’s not the way humans wired.
So, the next best thing is being able to observe the way someone treats you to determine how they view you and what their intentions are. Because even though people may not exactly tell us these things they do tend to show us.
So today we’re going to get into why people aren’t up front about their intentions and why certain men pursue and stay with women they don’t actually like. We’ll also go over a few things to look out for in order to determine if someone has genuine interest in you or if they’re just seeking some sort of temporary benefit. this will be mostly from a dating perspective, but these concepts apply to all kinds of relationships because as most of us know friends, strangers, coworkers and bosses can be users with sketchy intentions as well. 
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I get this question A LOT! Here's an answer as well as some things to look for. Hope this can help some ladies avoid these situations or gain understanding, closure and move on from past situations. There are good ones out there! xoxo 💕💕
@TheFeminineUniverse Great tips! Plz provide a follow up which includes more red (and green) flags.
You’ve done great with this. Brilliant. Hopefully the girlies finally GET IT 😂😂😴
Thank you for this… I just found your channel and I subscribed. I was completely triggered by this message to create a guidebook for my audience, and I will be giving you a shout out.❤
Boom
Stop buying gifts, stop cooking, stop washing his clothes, stop running his errands. You're not his mother, you're not his role model, you're not his business partner, you're not his big sister. YOU'RE NOT HIS WIFE.
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You shouldn't be doing all that even if you're his wife
I agree.
Truth 👌🏻👆
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They usually want your 😺, money, or to not be lonely or bored. Keep your legs closed and watch how fast 90% of them disappear. They will take whatever you givem them freely.
So very true.
For insecure people, It's easier to pursue someone they don't like because there's no emotional stakes involved so they won't be hurt and can keep their ego intact.
Exactly that!
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That’s a very stupid thing to do as a human being.
Totally illogical. I don't get that at all.
Women need to stop making up excuses for red flags, and it gets increasingly easier to discern
Yes! Needing to make excuses for someone in the first place is usually a clear sign that something is wrong.
Yep! 😺 Toys matter!
Women also need to close their legs and watch how fast 95% of them disappear because that was all they wanted anyway.
The men who treat women this way don't fear God.
very true…they will reap what they sow
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They will be shown and they will feel the pain they made others feel. Don’t worry
...if their not careful, they could be Fearing Her! 😡🤬
God doesn't exist. Grow up.
Been there, done that. My time is very precious. As soon as I notice the signs, it's my time to exit stage left.
Facts!
As it should be! I hope all women learn to notice the signs 🙏🏾
Touché!
I'm exiting stage left, right, middle, up, down, zigzag, bilateral,.....
What are some signs you have noticed or look out for ?
Dont give them what they want until you get what you want
Bingo. Keep this in mind and you win forever
They want wife benefits with someone they have no emotional ties with.
Which is never in line with what a woman is looking for in a man or partner.
My friend told her BF she's pregnant. He asked "by who!?"? I almost died.
Wow! So clearly, she was dating him exclusively and he was not!
Sorry SOB!
I hope she moves on solo! 🙏🏽
Wow!
That's terrible
Hateful
Wow that’s why you shouldn’t get preggo by no man other than your husband, period.
Also, if you're off and on with someone muliple times. Get off the ride willingly, before that person takes you on the ride of your life.
Ha true learned it in a tough way😅
I pray that God keeps these type of men away from me.
AMEN AMEN 🙏🏻
My motto is "No people; No problems."
Isolation is the devil’s playground. No people also equals no wise counsel.
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Agreed
@@Cleansed
No dealing with the majority of people day to day, is not isolation.
@dday3322 and anyone else who feels like you can do it alone or not deal with people. Please read 1 Corinthians 12:12-31.
Some guys don't want to be alone, that's why they pursue women that they don't like
I’ve seen this at my job
This is sad but true. Smh a manager at my job has been with his 2nd mother of his 2 kids for about 10yrs AND they live together. This man talked about her so bad and I told him to stop doing that smh
@@Of_infinite_Faith💯💯
Very true.
People in general
How sad for men that they will agree to waste their own time if they don’t like us!! At least if I was spending time with a man who was bad for me, it was because I actually wanted to at the time. As much as women hear that we need to respect ourselves, it sounds like these men have no self respect, either. How sad to not even care who you’re with as long as you get attention
I love it we need more people like you in the world because it seems women are always the problem and always expected to turn the other cheek
Yes, and this is what makes it so hard for women to see through their bs. It's such a sad way to live that we can't accept that someone would choose to live that way. 😔 But they do make the choice and paint themselves as victims while doing it.
For REAL!
That’s because a woman is always useful to them just with her presence. This is not true when it comes to them.
💯💯💯 Spot on!
I told a 40 year old this a month ago and she was like ' how? He's with me, isn't he?'
These men will marry you just to kill time until they find what they really want. If you're up on game, not afraid to be alone, then you've surely got this. If not...they've got you. Sorry, but it's true 😅.
Emphasis on they’ll marry you just to kill time. It’s disgusting…
YUP, the fact that they're just with you doesn't mean anything. I'm 20, but I love being alone and I'm learning to take a step back from people or keeping them at a distance as soon as I see red flags. When I was younger, I used to chase people now it's up to others to prove to me why I should let them in
So glad I am now single and have my own head back xxx
I'm 46... I've never been married or lived with any BFs thank God!! I took time out 8yrs since last relationship to heal and lately as I've come to this new knowledge and awareness I feel blessed that I haven't been so men-centered or allowed men to access me so much. This has helped me heal even more as I plan for my future on my own. Not waiting for anyone. Waste of time.
Exactly 💯
They should get arrested for this! 🙄
I'm in this situation but I found myself laughing at this comment.
Same plus pay 2x for damage😅😂
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@@rachaelk196 please gather the strength to get out. You deserve better and he knows it too. 🫂
They make the laws that don't get them sent to prison.
My motto is..never let a man move in with me. 🚩 If he tries to, I’m outta there so quickly. 🏃🏾♀️ 👩🏽 ♊️
I agree. If I was in a relationship then I would like for us to live separately. Peace of mind is important. 💯♊
A man should always like and love a woman a little bit more than she likes him. That’s my cue. If I start to feel a certain way and the energy isn’t felt back, then that’s wisdom telling me to go. When we fight discernment is when we find ourselves in a heap of trouble!
So true.
So true.
Oofff, “if I start to feel a certain way and the energy isn’t felt back, that’s when wisdom is telling me to go.” Otherwise, I’m just making up stories in my head. 😢
💯 correct
True even if you marry “that guy “ if you lose a limb or get deathly sick he most likely will cheat or abandon you . This is why if you choose to marry make sure you don’t abandon your relationships w/ female family members, coworkers or friends . Men don’t take care of women and most likely your sons won’t do much either 🤷🏽♀️, that’s all based on who and if they are married . Trust me .KEEP LIVING . I say this because these channels try and make it as if women are doing something wrong when choosing a man and I do agree women do ignore “red flags “ but here’s the thing it will always be RED FLAGS 🚩 when dealing with the male species . It’s always about them and what they need even when they are (fake) NICE GUYS.
Action speaks louder than words...When a man don't love you and intend on spending a lifetime with you it will show in his actions. Some of the men may be with a woman for the moment because she is the end to his means. In other words "he is using you for something (money, sex, attention, a place to stay, emotional support, etc.)." But as soon as he finds the woman of his dreams he will leave the temporary woman he was using and putting up with. Ladies let's wisen up so we can't keep getting used and our hearts broken 💔
The problem is that women don’t categorize men enough. A lot of women fall in love with men who don’t even deserve it. Only fall in love if he’s hubby material. Otherwise use him for what he has and keep it light.
While I don't believe in using people that way (I'm more of the "do no harm, take no $#!+" philosophy.) I completely agree that many women don't categorize men correctly and fall for the wrong ones too often.
And what I think is an even bigger problem than not categorizing men enough, is too many women are with men who simply don't like them. But, due to ignorance or for the sake of company many women disregard that. Thanks, Tiffany! 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse YW, and when I say use him I don’t mean in a malicious way. Just means that if he’s just a fun time guy then use him just for that only. But if he’s a bum don’t give him any time. He has to bring something to the table to even get any attention. Otherwise it’s a no.
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You don't even what love is 😂😂😂
@HenrySimmons1225 Neither do you. Bw over here are dine with struggle “love.” Why don’t you go over to your feminine preferences then? Go get what you want. If you can 😭
no but you're 1000000% correct. i found that out talking with my guy friend. he was telling me about this woman he's been seeing and he clearly didn't like her at all, but she was really into him so he kept seeing her until he found someone better!!! i had no idea guys were like that, but it really explains a lot
Sorry to say but your friend is wrong and also incredibly selfish stringing along a Women that likes him . The kindest thing to do would be let her GO and find a man worthy of her as he is clearly not ❤
Well, can you still be friends with a person who takes advantage of others like that? Can you still trust him, as a friend? (you don't need to answer to me, but to yourself)
@@AF-jp5vi yes, he is a good friend. people can be good friends but bad with romantic relationships. that's why i'd never date that mfer, lmao
I was used for 10 years, 5 years ago... I needed to watch this. Time wasted but I'm glad I learned and will never go back to that. I was misunderstood that just because he spends time with you that he likes you...I'm thankful I learned better late that never.
Same
It wasn't a waste because you learned about yourself, and the experience made you more knowledgeable. I have been there as well. Grateful I know better now.
Sometimes they just enjoy abusing and controlling you.
They don’t want to like you.
@sweetpea7362 thank you for your kind words 😊
@@Tend2Rose💯💯💯 This too! Some real sickos out here 😩
The hardest part is someone faking who they are and you have no clue until your pregnant and all the red flags and people come along to verify things you questioned but had no answers to
Leave while pregnant - it won't get better
I literally just experienced the most confusing relationship of my life. This man pursued me for months. Studied me. Gifted me. Learned my hobbies and made travel plans for us all the time. Gained my trust just to drop me stating "we are incompatible"
All because I won't allow the disrespect of him texting a specific female friend late at night or being at her beck and call
I'm in utter shock
He liked the chase I guess then dropped me like a hot potato. And this "friend" of his, is an unattractive chainsmoking alcoholic unlike anything I represent
YOU DON’T KNOW until you know. That other female friend IS actually who dude is “compatible” with ….
Water seeks its own level. If that's what he prefers, maybe its because she's the female equivalent of him!
@briskettacos The issue for me now, is how do I trust moving forward? This man gave me every reason to trust him. And I tested him. I was hesitant and careful. I really wanted to be sure and save myself time from another failed relationship. Now I'm just lost
@@Jakilyn girl i feel you. I was with a man for a year that i thought was the man If my dreams but i realized i was just competing with another woman the whole time!
I had to take a few years to heal and be honest with myself to recognize where i went wrong.
Go back to your roots, pick up your old hobbies and Bible again. Or, maybe try new avenues in whatever area interests you. This is the perfect time to rediscover yourself, don't let that pathetic man continue to keep you from your center.
You got this!
You still benefited as long as you didn’t sleep with him. Keep it pushing. The situation could’ve ended miserably. You could’ve been impregnated by him or have a soul tie
I can tell who wants me for finances and stability upfront because all they ask about is work
I learned this the hard way. Only POS feminine men want wealth and provision from a woman, and hence the work questions. A real provider man wants to find solutions to your problems. Next!
He faked his personality for 3.5 years before he started showing his true self.
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My experience as well
I'm so sorry 😢
Most of the time the mask drops after marriage. When they think they trapped you.
Mine waited 14 years 😅
In the early 2000s on a dating show on Oprah, a guy said he was dating women in three tiers! Top tier women get a phone call on Monday or Tuesday to line up a Friday or Saturday date! Second tier women he will call Wednesday or Thursday for a Friday or Saturday night date and bottom tier he'll call Friday night for a Saturday night date or earlier on the same day or 1 hour before! He said top-tier women will most likely already have a date, so he has to call the earlier in the week! The second tier women may or may not have a date, so calling two days ahead is usually ok! Bottom tier women most likely dont have a date, and he usually calls them when top tier and second tier women have turned him down. He smiled when he said this and had no shame!
My God 😮
@natachan5784 The sad thing is that I've witnessed how a man treats what he considers a bottom tier woman! When I worked in the Junior department at a store, this young lady came rushing in saying she needed a new outfit for a date! A professional football player that she was friendly with called her to meet him for a movie that would start in about an hour! She frantically looked for a skirt and top, and my coworker helped her. She ran breathlessly into the dressing room to try them on, but she needed a different size top. My coworker went to get her the right size. She tried it on and handed the price tags to my coworker to ring up! She ran out of the dressing room, took her receipt, and put her other clothes in the bag! She was positively giddy when she waved by to us still running and heading for the parking lot so she could drive herself to the movies! My coworker said she wasn't sure if the guy had even left her a paid ticket at the ticket window because he said he'd be inside the theater waiting for her or was she paying for her own ticket! She wanted to tell her maybe she shouldn't go but she really didn't know her! She was a pretty girl but a little plump! Maybe that made her desperate! He seemed to be using her just for company!
And this is exactly why no woman should accept last minute date or plans. Don't accept low effort date or plans either. Saying no, is the best thing a woman can do to a man. For herself.
@@natachan5784 men literally have nothing better to do with their time.
Smh
Stop building these men if they haven't made you a wife. Your single until you are married. Choose the man that treats you the best not tolerate you. Take risk outside your preferences. If he needs money you can ask his mama 🤣 he will leave you for a woman that never did anything for him.
He should be built up already before he takes a woman as a wife…otherwise Kevin Hart, Dwayne Wade anyone…if he doesn’t propose marriage in his peak season there is a high risk for being used and discarded.
Then they wonder why nobody want them when theyre older, broken down and of need of help. Use people but as I watch my older brother approach 60, he is reflecting now that his health is declining and feeling full of regret for his past actions. My ex was a user too. Did everything for him but then drugs got to him and made things worse. He later apologized. Two days before he passed he let my brother know he was still in love with me. Dont know how to feel about that but by that time, my heart was already cold, concerning him.
This hits like a ton of bricks when you realize you’re currently in this type of situation
You'll start feeling better the day you leave. ;)
A man places a high value on respect. It’s the universal love language for men. In turn, he places a high value on how you respect yourself and the way you demand that he respects you. While it will give him instant gratification if you compromise and stand down when you should have stood up, you will appeal to a higher standard if you stick to your guns with him when you know it’s time to stick to your convictions.
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This helped me notice that he doesn't really know anything me. He has no idea what my interests are, or that my birthday is coming up.
To the younger ladies This is benificial! Pls stay safe ❤
These low lives should be heavil charged 🙄
Until a man says you are exclusive and says they want to be exclusive and have SHOWN this desire, have a roster.
There's really no other way
Or just learn to be alone.
Exclusive for me is only if you are paying all my bills, if not I’m keeping my roster.
They want to be serviced and bought things while they’re looking for the one. They’re USERS! Don’t give them anything not your body, time or money! Hello!
omg girl ive had this crush on this guy for like foreverrr, but i feel like this video helped me to see he doesnt give a fuck lmao. Thanks girl you've helped me dodge a bullet
By watching and observing people from my past, I told my mom, I have better options! I don’t have to secure a piece of a man because I’m desperate or bad off financially!
Where were you BEFORE I got married? 🤣
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@TheLeslieMichelle wdym?
@@Kashmir-lt4cxshe means some men will marry you and not really like you… Trust Me! They will play a very distorted long game and make your life miserable.
I don't know about you, but in my case, I found out too late because I was in my "pick me era", had to feel validated, wanted, I just needed affection and anyone would be that someone to me. It hurts me that I have to deal with all of this just because I had selfish and narcissistic parents that didn't love me, that didn't give me any advice on life. Now I suffer because of that, trying to correct my mistakes. Have a child with a man I don't love (and doesn't really love me)
@@maria.menezess that sucks for sure!
I say this everytime, WHERE WAS THIS VIDEO IN MY EARLY 20’s 😭 these are lessons I’m going to pass down to my future daughter one day. Thank you TFU 🩷
I think it's mostly subconscious. It's also demonic. Evil spirits coming forth to hurt people and cause pain.
People act in their own self interest. Sex, attention, ego boost, etc.
This is how you become a single Married Mother. Still doing everything around the house for everyone while hes sitting on his butt.
Yeah
Nope, you're doing this while he's at work to pay for your 20 Chanel bags you can't live without 😂.
It depends on the couple correct, there are lots of women who are not married stay at home wives. The percentage of married mothers working are up. So some women are working a job and also taking care of home with little help with the kids from their spouse.
Among married-couple families, both spouses were employed in 48.9 percent of families, up from 46.8 percent in the prior year.
Apr 19, 2023
Channel bags? What are those? Who wants bags?! You think women are worth bags???? And just 20 at that? Pshaww!!@@HenrySimmons1225
Friendships and relationships. Do you initiate meet ups or checking in on them? Do they try to make your life easier, even sharing a link to something you expressed interest in? I used to be very proactive in expressing myself but being still and silent and observing someone will reveal all they need to know about how they feel about you. What you do with that information is up to you. And when it comes to the other gender, ACTIONS will say everything
Trust a woman always always notice all the red flags you mentioned in this video. It’s just sometime they ignored them out of desperation, don’t want yo be alone.
Women does the same thing to men too.
Our good sis, saving lives. Someone may not see a long term future with you but will still want short term benefits from you!
Thanks for always differentiating between good & bad men. The point about influencing each other was so interesting!
More flags please! 💚💚💚
I LOVED the examples about going to a job you don't like because you need the money and living in a 'hood you detest because you cannot afford better. Damn!! 🎯 Brava!
I've experienced ego death. I am not settling for transactional interaction. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
Men always benefit from women remember that. Sex, love, attention, cooking, a place to live, more income, support, etc
I was barb the builder in my early 20s 😭😂😂 I've been deliveredt!!! Lol
Same lmao. Growing pains
Had a crazy crush on a guy. Fell for him the first time I saw him. And he has wanted me to chase him for a year. He recently asked me to move in with him…. As a “roommate”. And I almost considered it because I just wanted to be near him. But I noticed that he was the only man that made me feel like I wasn’t enough without saying anything. Then he would get upset when I ignored his texts. When I told him I wasn’t moving in with him because his intentions were nefarious. He got upset and said I didn’t care the way I said I did. Boy Bye!
Thank you for articulating this very topic. If anything, men (and people in general) who behave this way simply exploit others to get what they want.
Thank you for this video!! So true everything you said. Happened to me few years ago and thankfully I accepted the fact that he wasn’t genuinely interested in me so I moved on. This is good information for anyone single and open to a committed relationship.
That's not always easy to do. So proud of you for knowing your value, seeing the signs and being willing to move on 💕
I know this applies to romantic relationships, but this also helps with friendships.
True. I thought of a friend while listening to this. One that doesn’t care about your interests, the only focus is on themselves. Sneak dissing and giving off a vibe they don’t like you etc. This also applies to family members as well.
Thank you so much love this massage a lot because their are lots of men wasting woman time
This is very much my Parent’s relationship. ESPECIALLY once my father stopped working and my mom was the breadwinner. He doesn’t want to leave bc my mom
1. A retirement plan
2. Allows him to take all his anger frustration out on her
3. She goes wherever he goes/does whatever he wants
4. She’s easy to manipulate & control (brainwashed/broken)
5. He would HATE to see her be happy without him bc he’s miserable.
Edit: also forgot to add he has a gambling addiction and will steal her money, monitor her deposits so he spends her coin as soon as she gets paid. He’ll book trips to Vegas or casinos without her knowing then force her to go with them even though she works 5 days a week and be extremely tired afterwards. He’ll invite kids over and stay in the room the whole time or gone so my mom has to watch them. He’s just a sorry excuse for a man.
I'm scared. I just got out from a situatio ship when I realised its not going anywhere. I'm hurt but at the same time, I'm slowly healing.
Now I'm just exhausted
HEAL thyself, Kira.
Take all the time you need. Do it right!
@ladyd8028 thank you! 🤗
@kirakira1212 You're welcome, darlin'. Be nice to yourSELF. 🕊
Same , but I keep going back . He always find a way to reach out and I give in everytime .
@@Imsopharrell hoping you'll be able to resist and block him out of your life completely. I understand how emotionally exhausting it could be 😢
They also stay with someone who can serve them as a house cleaning lady
We need to properly vet men and people in general thoroughly. Some women also settle for men they don't really like, for the benefits and some grow in love. It's a human problem (not all), some do it for selfish/manipulation reasons and others simply because they can't get the man/woman they want, which to be honest alot of people have done. However we also have alot of people who refuse to settle and go/wait for what they really want,
Smooches everyone! 💋.... Another great video.A lot of lessons to learn. I believe if we start looking at a new man that comes into our life as a friend first and pay attention to all the signs, I believe we would see less drama
Friends is a great way to start
This is a good affirmation that I’m on the right path in my romantic relationship and that I unfortunately made the correct decision to end a friendship. My old friend routinely forgot facts I told her about my family, birthday, hometown, or that my brother died. It was wild…
My boyfriend just dumped me because I wouldn’t have sex with him. How can I have sex with someone who constantly disrespect me, argues with me, doesn’t try to communicate and listen to my issues at all and can only tell me that the things he likes about me, is what I can do for him? My intuition was screaming at me in the beginning and I should have listened. Pretty sure he was a narcissist. Why are there so many narcissistic people lately? It’s crazy!!! Good was warning me and I should’ve listened
You dodged a bullet!
@TerraDactyl-hc9ff Pat yourself on the back Sis cause you didn't have sex with him. I just dumped the narcissist I was with! The thing about my situation is that he was nice for awhile at first even after a couple of months when I gave in then had sex with him. Then months later he turned into a monster!! I was with him for almost a year it was hell!! I warned him about how I would leave him if he didn't stop disrespecting me he got worse anyway!!! I dumped him 3 weeks ago It's been great being alone!! I've been ignoring his text messages!!! You didn't have sex with him please thank God for giving you strong discernment and will power!!
Ladies time is our friend. Don’t rush into the bed with these men. With time they always expose themselves!!
But why did you not do this video in 2020?😂😂 Could have saved myself sooo much time.
But also, wouldn't be the bomb girl I am now😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
😂That part! Our experiences shape us. Mistakes happen but as long as you learn and don't allow them to become your lifestyle, they can contribute to your growth💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse I hear nothing but facts and receive nothing but green lights 💚 😊
Kev Hick was talking about some of these points in 2019 😂😂😂
But it's never too late to learn. You've got this
Or some guys go with women they don't like because they are getting older and they don't want to be old playboys (45- 80), they have friends that are married and don't want to be a single guy in the group or a woman has money, did I mention regular sex?
I admit to being caught off guard by this one. Every I, someone or some connection came to mind. It's a painful lesson to learn in the moment and on reflection. But better now than never. This is a brillant series. Thanks for passing the knowledge on in such an easily palatable form.
Thank you so much for this helpful information, it’s extremely useful to me - but for different reasons than most of your demographic. Two years ago I was widowed after over 40 years of marriage. I’m just now feeling that I’m ready to date, but have virtually no experience because I married very young. I have been hearing horror stories about dating at my age, with men acting out for the same reasons you listed, however in my age group, some men are also looking for a “nurse and a purse”.
Thank you, this gives me the awareness I’ll need to see the flags before it’s too late, cuz I’m no spring chicken😂
PS- Your content is fantastic, thank you for respecting us subbies by consistently providing thought provoking, visually appealing and actionable content.❤❤❤
try hg tudor too he's practical
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Mariah Carey sued a man for wasting her time. #Lesson
what a masterclass ♥️ keep it up, you’re doing so much for the community and sisterhood.
I'll do my best, love! Thank you for the feedback ❤️
Haha it sounds like my dad , he doesn’t know anything about me , I never drink coffee with milk because I don’t like it but he always offers me milk, he forgets how old I am 😂
9:43 I love her videos but I gotta strongly disagree with "Men being natural probelm solvers" majority of the men I encounter on a daily basis and women complain about are the ones causing the problems in relationships 😭
This is the realest video I've ever seen on this subject and provides actual spot on signs! ❤
Thank you, for the 3 tips. Yes, on red and green flags for next topic.
Great video. You are so on point here. Agreed. You forgot to mention consistancy. This one is big too. Consistancy means that you are serious.
Thank you for sharing this important message. I needed to hear this today. You are appreciated and so is your channel 🙏🏾🗝️🐞
You're welcome, love! So glad this was helpful and that you're getting value from the channel 💕
I don't think about people in how to use them to my advantage. That's just dark tetrad traits. I can't think of a time when I've ever been like that. But if that's how humans are, more evidence that I'm not human.
I used to see myself like that, oh i would never use anyone but as time goes by you will need those dark traits to keep bad people out of your life. Those people only bring pain.
@@supDARe36 Why would you need dark traits to keep people out of your life? That makes no sense. To keep people out of your life, you just stay away from them. Dark tetrad traits are about using and abusing people.🙄
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Thank you for the informative video even ending on a good note. I swear this is it!! I am so done and really can’t take it anymore.
This is true I have seen men do this for a place to stay sex and food service. That’s how I am going to say it. It’s sad really my ex was like this ladies need to stop sex, maid service until you see how he operates he will reveal himself. Women take your relationship seriously this man. I have heard men talk about he ain’t married and she ain’t mentioned. Etc
I had an ex like this. When I dropped him he said I was supposed to come back to him
Loved this, thank you kind lady🩷
You're welcome, love!
You've explained it very well. Thank you so much❤
Glad it was helpful! 💕
Wow love the 3 points you mentioned to look out for. Very eye opening and helpful ❤
This was so helpful and so true in my experience. Wish I had seen this video years ago.
wish I saw this in Aug 2023 LOLOL ugh I learned - this is soooo true!!! Ladies, listen
Oh no! Better to learn sooner than later, right? At least you know what to look out for now. Plus, you can help the ladies in your life avoid this craziness💕
Aw, I loved this one. I am married, but I passed it along to my singles. I especially appreciated the Take Your Time advice and the beautiful message at the end. You’re the best. I’m so glad you are still doing these and I’m still a little salty about the prank. Keep up the fantastic work and thanks!
Same! 😂
Megan! Don't be salty😅 I was just having a little fun with my girls! It was very thoughtful of you to pass this along to your single friends.
Hope to see you in the livestream Saturday 💕
Not questioning this conclusion, just wondering how the heck they have the time and energy to invest in these lies??!!!
🎉some have wives, fiance'& girlfriends they'll never ever leave, but will stay w/u to boost his ego.
So spot on! Thanks!! ❤
This video was very helpful! Very well made 👏🏾
ooohhhhhhh lets go!!!! lol i been waiting for this one! lets get into the male psychology of it all 😄😄😄 i didnt even watch it yet but just the title and thumbnail!!! i need ice cream for this one 😁😋 you be makin my day. God bless You!!
Things are often easier said than done. How does one go about getting out of a situation like this.
Thank you for sharing 🫶
I have been waiting for this topic.👍
Thank you! This is gold ❤
You're very welcome, love!
I needed the whole video but I really needed that ending❤
Great videos! Thanks for putting these videos together.
Hello Beautiful!!!! Wow soooo good!!! You have done it again!!! xxoxoo Thank's for the great work!!!!
Great Video!
Really informative and insightful piece. Thank you for this
My first time coming across your channel, and I absolutely love it. New subscriber❤
Sometimes people warn us but cause we're stubborn we continue with rhebred flag until we're discarded. Let this be a warning for others to see the signs and to listen when people with experience/discernment warn u to leave. Leave and kill your feelings. It will pass after a while.
Had to read your comment twice; At first I thought you were saying that the predator himself warns, because often they do. Guilt made him tell on himself but I was so dickmatized that I ignored him ;-(
3/3 ...in a goid way . Hmm. Interesting. Smiling now....still cautious and observant though ,but smiling now. Thank you.
Very informative video, thank you! 👏🏽💐🙏🏽