Also if a coworker/friend/lover is treating you out, learn to reciprocate. Some people just accept without doing anything back in return to maintain that relationship
A couple of years ago, I started asking myself this one question anytime I got upset or felt like I was in the right - do I want to be right, or do I want results? I got it from the original 'right or happy?' question, but it helps me to think of it as a decision between holding onto my ego versus getting the results I want in a certain situation. The results aren't always about happiness, but instead harmony or long-term financial wellness or just protecting my peace of mind.
Haha! The beautiful thing is that you're allowing yourself to continue to learn and grow, Julie. You are also an incredible resource for your students and other lives you touch💕
Ooh I will have to watch this on my lunch break! Love the content you're putting out. Could you do another finance video? Especially like a pay day routine or how you budget (with examples) as a woman who does all the things? Diet, beauty maintenance, full time job, side hustle, investing, etc?
It's very important to vet before letting any one in. Allow time and situations to expose the hidden nature. Always use your filter. Another top tip for me is to never leave your self behind. Advocate for you.
I am an introvert and I don’t know if I’m overly cautious when it comes to vetting people. I sometimes feel like I push actually genuine people away. Thank you for the videos, they are truly helpful. Can you please make the life skills edition. Would love that 😊.
I love all your content!!! Thank you for the teachings❤ My favourite tip is definitely no. 10 | Matching Energy...I have only just started doing this ruthlessly 🤩
Yet another GEM!!! Thank you so much! I love the lifeskills and dating videos equally. My favorite tips from today’s videos are #7 “how to receive” and #10 “match energy” because those are the two I need to work on most. 🙏🏽♥️🎀
My fave tips were learning how to say no, learning how to apologize, advotcatijg for yourself, & learning to match energy (something I'm still learning as a former pushover). I'd honestly love to see both the life skills & dating skills vids, but the life skills video is more of a priority to me. I love how you break down & present information, which is why I can never truly decide what I want to see next 😅 & before I go, Happy International Women's Day, ladies! Love y'all! 💙💙💙
Thank you for this insightful video ❤ I'd like to learn more about vetting people. I believe I have decernment and people usually reveal their true selves to me quickly but I want to learn how to see this before engaging too deeply.
I loved all the tips and would like the lifestyle edition next. I am a big component of reading the room and matching energy; I live by these two tips daily. I am the only black woman who is full-time in my office, and it's hard every day for me.
Matching energy is going to be key to my growth this year. Being the nice, kind girl who always has a smile, has been a detriment to numerous areas of my life. I can see the condescending looks and hear the whispers.
I loved every bit of this! You are dropping some real gems that I wish I had been told growing up! S/o to all the young women soaking up all of this wisdom🙌🏾. Feminine energy is receiving energy, saying no and advocating for yourself were my favs. Thank you🫶🏾✨
Thank you for these nuggets of wisdom. I love LOVE how you give examples and clear application. I always leave here knowing exactly what to do. Please, I'll appreciate both life skills and dating skills edition due to the phase of life I am in. ❤
Learning the act of saying "no" is something I still haven't been able to master, and it has been a constant problem in my relationship, and it almost cost me my relationship recently. For that fact alone, I HAVE to put my all into intentionally working on it and trying to be less "nice"
Thank you! I am a honest, trustworthy, diligent, disciplined person, working very hard for 30 years. But I did not have these skills and i run to life situation that broke my career, my private life, my financial situation. I have to start again, althought I am smart and very pretty, they say at least, I lost sooo many years useless. I have huge knowledge, experience and people turn out to me when I pass them But I am alone and not much time left And all of these, because these skills among others were missing. I think now a little wonder could help...maybe Anyway Success to you! 🙂
Thanks, Kim! I've gotten many requests along those lines. I will definitely be putting out a few polls and collecting feedback via livestream to get a complete understanding of what you ladies would want to see most in a course type of format. Hope you chime in!💕
The right or be happy choice of picking my battle is definitely one of my best tips I’m doing a lot better but with time plan to be able to do this without thought!
Hey The Feminine Universe... thank you for this video Could I offer a suggestion? Could you make a video on how to handle unwanted attention from men? And how to reject them politely and firmly, ONCE AND FOR ALL? Where I come from, men don't take a woman seriously. No matter what position she is at. I could really use tips from a sensible person like you. Thank you!
I really enjoy all of your videos the tips and the knowledge is very valuable and helpful to navigate through what level I as a woman should be operating at. I am glad to know I am right on point with a few things to work on..this is normal and to be expected. I would like to see the dating video next..either next released video would be fine with me! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
“No one knows how to ruin your life like a man who isn’t doing anything with his!”
I wish I had aunties that shared advice like that.
I am getting married this year to my multi-millionaire dream husband ❤
I wish you ladies all the best 💜
Oh I wish you all the best my Dear,Joy,longlife and good health ❤️ Amen 🙏
Wishing u a marriage full of bliss!!❤
🎉🎉🎉🎉 Wishing you a successful wedding, and a happy married life
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yassssss congratulations 🎉 me next Lord
Also if a coworker/friend/lover is treating you out, learn to reciprocate. Some people just accept without doing anything back in return to maintain that relationship
Knowing how to vet people is what I really need. I have asked God for wisdom and discernment, and it has really opened my eyes.
Happy women’s day ladies ❤❤❤
Thank you, same to you!🥰❤️
Thank you Sis 😊
Yasssss same to you!!!!😘
I need this one today ❤❤❤
🌷🌷🌷
“Pick your battles” really resonated with me ❤
LADIES „ be more in love with your future, than with your past” 🌺💐🌸
A couple of years ago, I started asking myself this one question anytime I got upset or felt like I was in the right - do I want to be right, or do I want results? I got it from the original 'right or happy?' question, but it helps me to think of it as a decision between holding onto my ego versus getting the results I want in a certain situation. The results aren't always about happiness, but instead harmony or long-term financial wellness or just protecting my peace of mind.
Life’s skills edition please… Thank you for these wonderful videos 😊
Saying NO and learning to advocate for oneself resonated with me. Thanks for all you do.
Oh my gosh! Where were you when I was in my 20s?!!! Such good info! I was sooooo naive!
Haha! The beautiful thing is that you're allowing yourself to continue to learn and grow, Julie. You are also an incredible resource for your students and other lives you touch💕
For real, I wish someone would have really sat me down!
Ooh I will have to watch this on my lunch break! Love the content you're putting out. Could you do another finance video? Especially like a pay day routine or how you budget (with examples) as a woman who does all the things? Diet, beauty maintenance, full time job, side hustle, investing, etc?
Thank you for this video. It was so educative. Happy Women's day to all the intentional women on this platform. Keep Soaring.
It's very important to vet before letting any one in. Allow time and situations to expose the hidden nature. Always use your filter. Another top tip for me is to never leave your self behind. Advocate for you.
My favorite tip was the match energy one. I would like to see the life skills video next. I'm going to really enjoy this series!
Definitely the LIFE Skills Edition. Beautiful tips that I have to listen to again
Glad you'll be able to use this as an ongoing resource!
I really enjoy all your content ❤ just wish I'd had access to your wisom & advice when I was in my teens/early 20's
I understand the sentiment! On the bright side you get to mold your current era into one of beauty and greatness 🥂💕
Thank you for these gems. Am slowly becoming quite the classy lady thanks to your teachings.
You're welcome, love! It makes me so happy to hear that😊
Life skills PLEASE bc of lot of us don’t realize that having our life together & to our satisfaction will lead to getting our “great man”
This is the most perfect day for this video. Happy international women's day ladies. ❤
I just love being a lady! Happy International Women’s Day ladies! 💚
I would to see both videos but life skills next ❤️ favorite one is advocating for yourself! I’m pursuing promotion this year and battling this now.
Thanks for sharing, love! Rooting for you to get that promotion 💕
Thanks for sharing. Love to see a Dating edition!!
I am an introvert and I don’t know if I’m overly cautious when it comes to vetting people. I sometimes feel like I push actually genuine people away.
Thank you for the videos, they are truly helpful. Can you please make the life skills edition. Would love that 😊.
Been listening to your channel for a while now. Have you ever thought about posting your audio on the podcast apps? You are haven sent!
I love all your content!!! Thank you for the teachings❤
My favourite tip is definitely no. 10 | Matching Energy...I have only just started doing this ruthlessly 🤩
That's an important one! It brings so much balance to your life. Keep shining, love💕
Yet another GEM!!! Thank you so much!
I love the lifeskills and dating videos equally.
My favorite tips from today’s videos are #7 “how to receive” and #10 “match energy” because those are the two I need to work on most. 🙏🏽♥️🎀
My fave tips were learning how to say no, learning how to apologize, advotcatijg for yourself, & learning to match energy (something I'm still learning as a former pushover).
I'd honestly love to see both the life skills & dating skills vids, but the life skills video is more of a priority to me. I love how you break down & present information, which is why I can never truly decide what I want to see next 😅
& before I go, Happy International Women's Day, ladies! Love y'all! 💙💙💙
Playing pattycakes with waste man...love that 😂 deciding what you want and working towards that is my favorite.
Love these tips my favorite was vetting everyone and matching energy.
Thank you so much for creating this series. I’ve learned so much in just this one video. Truly a godsend
Happy International Women’s Day ladies!!! Awesome video, fabulous topic! Thank you for always sharing valuable insights!
the apologizing tip was exactly wat i needed to hear. all of this really thank you.
Thank you for this insightful video ❤ I'd like to learn more about vetting people. I believe I have decernment and people usually reveal their true selves to me quickly but I want to learn how to see this before engaging too deeply.
My fav is "advocate for yourself" 😊
I loved all the tips and would like the lifestyle edition next. I am a big component of reading the room and matching energy; I live by these two tips daily. I am the only black woman who is full-time in my office, and it's hard every day for me.
I’d like to see more of the life skills edition! 🙋🏾♀️
I need both of those videos please! Loved this one as usual. Thank you so much for all your work. 💌
Happy womans day ladies❤❤
Also Life skills would be great as theres alot of benifits next to what was taught or not by schools or family
So true! I definitely want to help fill in some of those gaps 💕
ALL of the tips are my favorite. Keep the good stuff coming 😊. Working on maintaining all of these tips. Thank you 😊
I appreciate this video. Great great great advice. Thank you.❤️
Matching energy is going to be key to my growth this year. Being the nice, kind girl who always has a smile, has been a detriment to numerous areas of my life. I can see the condescending looks and hear the whispers.
Dating edition please. ❤ Your videos are always so insightful and soothing. Been listening to you for over a year now!
You one of my favorite channels- my favorite was how to vet. The material reflects real life’s situations and valuable tips on life.
I loved every bit of this! You are dropping some real gems that I wish I had been told growing up! S/o to all the young women soaking up all of this wisdom🙌🏾. Feminine energy is receiving energy, saying no and advocating for yourself were my favs. Thank you🫶🏾✨
This was truly insightful and helpful to me. Thank you so much.
You’re so wise, thanks for sharing your wisdom!
I am still learning English but I have learned vetting and gushing from this channel Ty .
Thank you for these nuggets of wisdom. I love LOVE how you give examples and clear application. I always leave here knowing exactly what to do. Please, I'll appreciate both life skills and dating skills edition due to the phase of life I am in. ❤
Love your content! Happy Women’s Day ladies ❤️
Learning the act of saying "no" is something I still haven't been able to master, and it has been a constant problem in my relationship, and it almost cost me my relationship recently.
For that fact alone, I HAVE to put my all into intentionally working on it and trying to be less "nice"
Thank you!
I am a honest, trustworthy, diligent, disciplined person, working very hard for 30 years.
But I did not have these skills and i run to life situation that broke my career, my private life, my financial situation.
I have to start again, althought I am smart and very pretty, they say at least, I lost sooo many years useless. I have huge knowledge, experience and people turn out to me when I pass them
But
I am alone and not much time left
And all of these, because these skills among others were missing.
I think now a little wonder could help...maybe
Anyway
Success to you! 🙂
Life skills edition please. Love you. Thanks for the wonderful content
Another great video per usual!! 💗💕. I wouldn’t mind seeing both, the life and dating skills 🥰
Coming your way, love! I'm trying to prioritize getting out the detailed versions of the 5 categories, as well as this series. Should be a fun ride!
@@TheFeminineUniverse Well, I am definitely here for it! 💕🥂
These videos are excellent. Thank you for taking the time to give this advice. It helps a lot.
Fav Tip: Say no
More life skills
life skills seem good for im 22 year old im always look for ways to improve my life as a single girl.
I absolutely love your content. Have you thought about creating a course? I would definitely take it ❤
Thanks, Kim! I've gotten many requests along those lines. I will definitely be putting out a few polls and collecting feedback via livestream to get a complete understanding of what you ladies would want to see most in a course type of format. Hope you chime in!💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse I will, definitely! ❤️
The right or be happy choice of picking my battle is definitely one of my best tips I’m doing a lot better but with time plan to be able to do this without thought!
I really love this, I was thinking not accepting some people into my life makes me a snubber, but with this videos I'm just good
Hey The Feminine Universe... thank you for this video
Could I offer a suggestion? Could you make a video on how to handle unwanted attention from men? And how to reject them politely and firmly, ONCE AND FOR ALL? Where I come from, men don't take a woman seriously. No matter what position she is at. I could really use tips from a sensible person like you. Thank you!
Another dope video! Can we get the rest of the 5 types of women? Please 🙂
I'd love to see the life skills edition next. ❤thank you so much for these videos❤❤❤❤
I’d love to see both videos, but would like the life skills one to be next.
All was my favorite, because I need to work on all of them.
Please do a video on how to vet people correctly
READ THE ROOM!! So key!! OMG!! I had a friend that constantly pushed this buttom! She was loud and vulgar at the wrong times, all the time!!
Thank you sister these tips are amazing. Please do a video on the ways to thank people and how to improve your feminine energy and attraction.
This was amazing, thank you ❤️
I love the content on this channel💕 Could you do a video on what to have in your bag for a midday refresh
Happy Women's Month! I would like to see the life skills edition please and thank you! 🧡🧡🧡
Great video!!
Would love to see the life version and/or a video on extrinsic vs. intrinsic value. As always, thanks for these gems!!!
please do both editions. love the content here 🫶
Happy International Women's Day. Life skills please. ❤️🇿🇦
Definitely LIFE SKILLS Edition.
Thank you so much for this video. It is really timely. I'll elaborate later. Kisses 😙😙😙
Happy Women's Day, ladies
I really enjoy all of your videos the tips and the knowledge is very valuable and helpful to navigate through what level I as a woman should be operating at. I am glad to know I am right on point with a few things to work on..this is normal and to be expected. I would like to see the dating video next..either next released video would be fine with me! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I loved this!!
Happy IWD Ladies❤️
Happy Women's Month ladies!!!! If its not too much trouble could you do a video of finding your sister circle while in your 40's.
I could listen to your voice all day it’s soooooo sooooothing
You're so kind! 💕
Thanks for the wonderful content! I am all about #10!
I would love to see the video, on how to Advocate for yourself. And also, a video on how to, think long term.
I want a multi million man too
Thank you!! Life skill edition next please ✨
This was amazing as always. I’d like to see the Life Skills next please 😊❤
Amazing content. Girl, thank you. Life skills please, for next video🤲
I look forward to your videos. I would be interested in life skills edition. I seem to have missed out on a lot
Advocate for yourself! That tip is for me in particular
Advocating for yourself
This was great, as usual. ❤ Life skills edition please.
This video is EXCELLENT! Thank you.
Love this for us ❤
Yes! I want us to be prepared for every situation 💕
Love this video. The life skills would be very helpful to know!
Dating edition. ❤ all the tips Great refresher!
Love this & your videos! 💕
Glad you enjoyed it, love!
Great video..favourite tip is learn to read the room
So important!
Life skills
I liked ALL of your tips! And I like your voice. Thanks a lot!
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it 😊
Life skills addition 👌🏾
We need your channel on a podcast ❤❤