Hi Chisom, how do you set boundaries without causing tension in your friendship and relationship and how do I stop being nice, and how do I start knowing my limit
Hey darling, I know it can be tough to set boundaries especially in friendships that have lasted over time but let me ask you this, would you rather remain unhappy and uncomfortable with someone or live you truth and if it’s meant to be it will be. Take your friend aside and sit with them, explain that what you want to say doesn’t mean you don’t love them but it’s something that needs to be worked on for both of you to be happy in the friendship. A good friend will understand and try to be better for you.
And about being too nice? I always tell myself that bending over backwards for someone else doesn’t guarantee they will do the same for you, be willing to offer kindness but don’t go suffering for people who won’t do the same for you, you’ll be burn out eventually. Always pour into who pours into you🧡
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Thank you!☺️
I have a complex relationship with boundaries. One of those too long(maybe also personal) for comment sections type of thing
I see you, let’s talk about it.
You’re too wise mehn!
Thank you🥺 it’s all God barely me, I never know what I’m going to say before I start filming.
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Hi Chisom, how do you set boundaries without causing tension in your friendship and relationship and how do I stop being nice, and how do I start knowing my limit
Hey darling, I know it can be tough to set boundaries especially in friendships that have lasted over time but let me ask you this, would you rather remain unhappy and uncomfortable with someone or live you truth and if it’s meant to be it will be. Take your friend aside and sit with them, explain that what you want to say doesn’t mean you don’t love them but it’s something that needs to be worked on for both of you to be happy in the friendship. A good friend will understand and try to be better for you.
And about being too nice? I always tell myself that bending over backwards for someone else doesn’t guarantee they will do the same for you, be willing to offer kindness but don’t go suffering for people who won’t do the same for you, you’ll be burn out eventually. Always pour into who pours into you🧡