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- Опубликовано: 12 дек 2017
- In marriage it's inevitable that we will hurt and frustrate each other. It's easy to react with negative behavior when your spouse wrongs you. But positive behavior can turn any bad situation around.
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Jimmy Evans is one of America’s leading experts on family and marriage relationships. He is Founder and CEO of MarriageToday™ and co-host of MarriageToday with Jimmy and Karen, the marriage ministry and national award-winning broadcast that airs to millions of homes each week. A popular church and conference speaker, he has also authored a number of books, including Marriage on the Rock, Our Secret Paradise and The Right One.
Its hard when only one person wants it more than the other!!!
Natalie Fields I agree, but I know from experience that if you continue loving him and meeting his needs, God will work on his heart and your man will notice that you are treating him better than he deserves & it will make him change. At 1st when I began redemptively loving my husband he acted out (going overboard by pointing out EVERY mistake I made, & snapping at me and blowing up) because my loving him (not snapping back at him or arguing with him, meeting All of his needs with a GOOD attitude even when I'm tired - yes even sex & making sure that I do it with a GOOD attitude even though I've been hurt so badly, encouraging & building him up by telling him IN DETAIL that I appreciate the things that he does for me) made him insecure because of the way HE was treating ME. I KNOW that it's hard, but hang in there! Just like it says in the Bible, love NEVER FAILS!!! Every time that I have responded in love, it never has failed! It isn't easy, I know, but it is SO worth it!!! They may not deserve it, but we didn't deserve Jesus dying for us & forgiving our sins either! Remember that God loves each of us the same no matter what, & NONE of us deserve it! Continue to be the stronger person by loving him redemptively, I have faith that you can! If I can, I KNOW that anyone can!!! Just be careful to be open to him when he starts back trying to love you, I found that I was so angry at 1st that I was pushing him away when he tried to give me attention, & I had to address that RIGHT AWAY because I didn't want to push him away. In order to effectively redeem your spouse you have to be EXTREMELY intentional in EVERYTHING that you do until the healing process gets to a point where you can relax in it more. Otherwise it's easy to fall into the negative patterns of how you FEEL, which will defeat the purpose. May God continue to bless and cover you, & give you the strength and grace needed to redeem your spouse!!! 💜 💜 💜
Bridget Moses, u couldn't have said it better!! I've gone thru the EXACT same process & I'll be darned if that process really does work! I'll admit, it was hard as heck, but God helped me thru it bc He saw my genuine effort. Remain encouraged!
Nik S I really do find it SO encouraging to hear about other's successes in their marriages/lives! When we do marriage God's way it works! May God continue to bless and cover you and your family!!! 💜 💜 💜
I am finding it to be very hard to redemptively love my spouse. I find myself pushing him away when he begins to open up because I am so hurt and angry. How can I do this, how can I redemptively love my spouse? I am so close to filing for a divorce but I love my husband and I want my marriage. How do I do it, redemptively love my spouse?
@@niks8521 does it work for a woman? I hurt my wife a lot of times to the point that she wanted me out of the house. I suspect her things she did not do. She loved me but fell out of love because she felt me being needy and I let her control the marriage. I know she is still trying to reconnect but all I did still caused her a lot of pain. I regret all the things I've done and want to show her how much I've changed. I really love my wife.
This is powerful. My wife and i were hurt, angry, and almost divorced i couldnt let go of anger. Finally, God softened my heart, i have forgiven her. my love for her is more than its ever been. God is good
How did you pray? God change my heart? God change her? I am not quite grasping how to get God and I to work together
I’m there right now and praying for a chance to treat my wounded wife the way God called me to. Thank you for sharing your story. I need to believe there is still hope.
Starts with humility. I’d recommend reading the Bait of Satan John Bevere and Self-centeredness the source of all grief by Andrew Wommack.
Im changing. He refuses. I can't ask any questions, or he turns it on me, won't do anything to be a part of the solution, stays away, uses fear and control. But was the one who did the selfish act. I prayed I would be a wife and God would help me. I'm mindful he's not. And if he doesn't feel like im kissing his butt even though he's the one who did something questionable. He will punish me and say cruel things. Now I will not tolerate his behavior at this point. I will go to him for answers. Of course I don't get any so now I just keep to myself. I'm so close to walking. He's too much. Wheres the Christ in him? I'm serving God I do my best to take the high road and he smashes it time and time again.
I love this!!! I am praying for this in my marriage as well. I have faith it will be rejuvenated, but I know it takes time and that’s the most difficult part
Verbal abuse is damaging, it’s just as hurtful as physical abuse.
It's hard when the other is never sorry
Married being a wife the hardest thing I’ve done in my life! I’ve always run to God I ask God take my hand carry me through and He always does ! Praise God 🌼 I love Jesus 🌺 so much !
Amen, I can relate 100%!
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I resonated so much with the woman who wrote that question, and when I listen to you and Karen talk about how your marriage used to be, it's like I'm looking at my marriage in the mirror. Showing redemptive love is so hard, especially when your spouse isn't changing or doesn't see how he's hurting you. Some days are so hard and emotionally exhausting, today being one of them, but I'm trying to keep doing it. One of the hardest parts for me is changing how I react or respond because I go into instant protect mode and standing up for myself, but I have to let God do that. I'm definitely a work in progress, and I pray that my marriage is healed one day. Thank you both for your ministry.
TotalBodyBeauty same 🙏
Trusting that the redemptive work of love that Christ is performing in you, will easily be transferred from you TO your spouse.
Brian woo, thank you!
Hey TotalBodyBeauty how are you doing ? How is your marriage going ? I just came across your message and I am pretty much going thru the same thing as you were going Thru I am hoping you are doing well and may God keep blessing you and your husband
@@lmvc9204 thank you! I'm doing well...God is still working on everything, but He has really allowed me to see mt husband through His eyes and love him unconditionally. I still have great hope that God is going to do something great! I pray that God heals and blesses your marriage also!
I'm Muslim and I love these videos! God bless u sir
Jesus is knocking on your 💓He loves you more than you can ever imagine, would you receive his redeeming love?
@@janefarrer2868 leave her alone
mi rna36
You’re in the wrong mi rna36 !
There are only 2 commandments in the New Testament.... the first one is to ❤️ the Lord your God- with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your might.....
The second commandment in the New Testament is to love your neighbor as yourself.... if you love your neighbor, you would want them to know the truth.... to have a chance to escape hell and to enter into life eternal.... but if your only concern is for your own salvation, that is not loving your neighbor- therefore, you have broke the 2nd commandment... and their blood is on your hands!
Share the gospel and the love of Jesus Christ and let them make their own decision! God Bless you
@@angeladillard2682 get lost when u die u'll see whose in the wrong
mi rna36
Yes... you are correct on this... “every knee shall bow.... EVERY tongue will confess, that Jesus a Christ is Lord!
my husband just hurt my feelings,listening to this has taken that hurt away .thankyou Jesus
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Amen
Amen!
My Husband of 21 yrs left me for someone else
Returned home when tht didn't work out stayed for 6mnths left again moved back in wit the person
I've prayed prayed & prayed
I'm broken from all of this but I'm not giving up on Me I've stopped praying for restoration of my marriage my Husband's heart & love only me I pray for Me now
My boyfriend of 8 years recently became religious and asked me to marry him. Then treats me so callously that at times I don't even recognise him. I don't know if I should go through with the marriage, I might not get another chance at my age, but it seems all downhill from here as it is
He needs to go to therapy with you. If he’s not willing too then he seems to not be serious about you unfortunately. Move on with your life xx
Brothers and sisters please pray for me & my spouse. I’m standing for my prodigal & I’m in spiritual warfare with double mindedness, spirit of addiction & enmity!
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This video was the HARDEST PILL I EVER HAD TO SWALLOW...thank u for this teaching👏🏾👏🏾❤️
This is so difficult to do in the midst of anger.
Agreed
I agree with you. That's why God has to deal with my heart and I have to surrender to the Lord first.xoxo
But there’s rewards from Jesus if you act right if you act in the flesh, u will suffer more
Wooooooow biggest take away “TREAT YOUR HUSBAND LIKE HE WAS JESUS” 🙌🏻♥️
Just had my 30th wedding anniversary. It's hard to believe we've made it that long. We are like chalk and cheese. We both love the Lord but can't seem to get it together. I'm praying for a miracle...that the Lord would soften our hearts so that we can have the marriage that He intended.
Praying with you. I found Laura Doyle's books really helpful ♥
How did you make it so long [if I may ask] if you are like chalk and cheese ( nice 🙂 analogy I've never heard before but WILL be using it so thank you 😊).
Congratulations!!!🎉👏 by the way ❤️🙏🏼
Prayers for you 💞🙌
And your husband
Try so hard to communicate with love and patience. It is returned with anger, gaslighting, blaming and poisonous accusations every time. I give up. It's all your Jesus. 🙏😪
I feel your pain....I’m an Apostolic Woman as well.I have an appointment to see a divorce attorney to get advice should I seek a divorce. I am faithful, yet that doesn’t seem to be enough and I have prayed but feel God hasn’t answered me yet.
Check out Leslie Vernick’s “Emotional Destructive Marriage” she’s a Christian counselor and author who helps women in emotionally destructive marriages
@@vette3839 you state your title as if it means something however it shows alot about people who need to have title aware. Your statement contradict the word of God.
We as women have to get out of our emotions stop looking to man for answers. Look to God for all the Answers which is the word. Gods word doesn't change due to our emotions or current situation/s. We need to speak the word or dont speak at all especially when it comes to advice or moral support.
GOD HATES DIVORCE. This goes for covenant spouse(1st marriage anything outside of that is adultery when covenant spouse is still alive)
Two options for true believer
1. Stay single or 2. Reconciliation
Marriage is not easy but with God it can last. Standing for your marriage to be restore is not easy however there are others standing as well on the promise of God restoration.
Rejoice Marriage Minister a great tool for those of us who are standing on the word of God concerning marriage restoration.
Check into Rejoice Marriage Minister. Am walking similar path trust its not a walk in the park. But with God and trusting in the word we can overcome. Our emotions will cause us to miss the move of God. We have to get our emotions under control. And allow God to be fully in control and that's another journey in itself 😉
@@m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309 Wow you are great at twisting Scripture. Have fun with that.
Thank you. I have been forgiven many times by our great Lord. I can only repay the same back. My husband doesn’t understand why I don’t give up on him. I give it to your my Lord to help him see the joy of love and forgiveness. Thank you Lord for showing me how to love❣️🙏🏼
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This unfortunately doesn’t work with everyone... some men just thrive on treating their wife easily disposable.
I’ve been there for sure. They completely take you for granted and rather than own up to what they do to kill the relationship, they’d rather throw you away like yesterday’s trash and find someone else.
Without God, all men and women treat other people harshly. It is a negative cycle that just gets worse and worse. What do you expect? Hurt people hurt people.
Those men aren’t good men. A person should never be treated as disposable.
I suffer from anxiety and recently my partner walked away just because he didn’t think it was suitable to understand. Which adds to my anxiety 😥.
And vice versa. Mine did that.
I just listened to this msg and I believe Yahweh led me to it during my three days of praying and fasting, this msg touched my heart and my spirit, I have the kind of husband that has been hurt so much in the past starting from his mother up to the last marriage that he was in after trying to make it work for 31 years, he lived by himself after that for 5 years devoting that time to God and not really wanting to have another woman in his life again until Yahweh caused our paths to cross, God put us together, this we are certain of, but it really isn't easy sometimes but I have seen God come through for me in the past and I KNOW he will do it again, so I have decided to try this method because it's scriptural, I'm trusting God bcuz I KNOW He WILL honor this....thank you so much for this msg, God bless you, your ministry and your family 🙏
If his wife of 31 years is still living, then he's not your husband and God certainly didn't put you together. God will only restore this man to his true covenant wife, not you. It will never work, if that ex spouse is still living. God will never give you restoration with a man that doesn't belong to you!
Wow I'm on my 4th day of fasting
There are times when you want to leave so much but you just do not have anywhere to go
Same here 15 years in and 5 kids 😭
@@brendatrevino7083 35 years...I wish I would have left many years ago but never had the guts to. Still hurting and no place to go 😩
I understand living like this
"The best person does the right thing first" 🙆👐 ... I need to post that on the wall all over my house!
Same!!!
U can only defeat a spirit with the opposite spirit. That's deep
This message is hard to hear while my wounds are fresh but I'm very glad I heard it bless all of you.
It's hard at times and I so want to not go through the pain but I will continue to love my husband through this time and believe for total healing and redemption
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Kelly Sanders I love you
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Please do get Christian counseling. They should help you to have Biblical boundaries. We are called to forgive, to turn the other cheek, but even Jesus didn't let people do whatever they wanted, when it wasn't God's will. When some people tried to kill him He just walked off. It wasn't the right time. So that tells me Christians don't have to "accept" all abuse.... what we really need to do is be a "Mary" at His feet, and let Him lead, and things work out well that way. God bless you and your husband.
I want a husband that only wants me and is lucky to have me, not a husband who wants other women.. I hope God blesses me one day cause I deserve better.. ♥️
Finding my way back to God was the best thing that ever happened to me. Even though my world fell apart, I’m still standing due to His infinite love. As long as we put Him as our center in life we can’t go wrong and overcome things that seem impossible to overcome. I continue to love my wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it, I can’t love to his capacity but I can rely on Him to help me to love my wife regardless of her reciprocating.
Thank you for the encouragement. God graciously changed me first but my wife isn't there yet. We are legally divorced but I'm going to stand for reconciliation.
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I pray that your marriage make it through the hard times.
My wife does the same thing as the woman's husband who was sleeping with the girlfriend every in the story. She comes home to take the kids to school and then brings the kids home and leaves as soon as I get home from work. Last night she asked me to replace the breaks on her car, I said no because she is not treating me like her husband, but she still wants me to perform husband tasks for her like doing a break job. I realized that was a mistake and that's not how Jesus loves, and I called her to say I would do the breaks. She said some hurtful things, blamed all the problems in our marriage on me and said she doesn't need my help. It's very hurtful and hard to know how to show Christ's love to someone who just wants to take advantage of you.
Wow! These videos hit me. I am realizing that I am in a place that I hindering not only myself but having the marriage that God created me and my husband to have. I want to change all the clutter that is still inside of me so that it may become the best version of myself. Just learning how to trewt my husband as I would treat Jesus hit home. I would never treat Jesus the way I treat my husband. I am almost in tears at work. TY for this video. No more excuses!
The best advice I received is take time for yourself. Spend time on reflecting on yourself, relationship, and family. Slow down
Love that!
What about Love must be tough? It’s disrespectful to yourself to lovingly accept an ongoing unfaithful spouse. Make him choose.
What a great message and so counterintuitive to love, respect and redeem someone who is hurting you, blaming you or being unfair or hostile. Truly amazing
My heart is SO hurt I don't know why he behaves the way that He does. I have been praying and I feel I am.watering a bucket with holes in it.
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Please pray for me and my husband Elkin. He has hurt me. He has kept sex from me for years. He has just started testosterone therapy. But for years he didn’t listen to me. How do I move past this! Please help me. The devil is putting bad thoughts in my head. Please help me. Lord come into heart.
Jesus restore this marriage
Hi Focus on Jesus...he is bigger than ur problem. Take a decision to trust HIM .
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Dump the creep and move on. Trust me, it won’t get better. Sex is a very big part of a relationship and if he is withholding it from you it seems he is trying to push you out to go and find it elsewhere. People just don’t really realize what they have until it is gone. Then they beg scream kick to get it back with false promises of changing and making things better. Then two week passes and he/she is tight back to square one. As hard as it is to give up or run away, especially if you have children together, if NOT run and in time you will find someone who would worship you as a Princess and all the past crap will only be a bad nightmare. Sorry, but what a jerk he is.
hi there - First, walk a mile in my shoes and see things from my eyes. Then you will see why I gave the advice I did. Second, I am a firm believer in the one supreme GOD. Although I am NOT a Christian but I do Respect the religion and praise a Jesus( peace be upon him) as a great messiah or messenger of God but not God or the son of God as Christians believe. I had a very bad situation (marriage of 27 faithful years) with 3 children involved and I am still going through crap with the divorce today. She turned to the devils tricks of Drugs, alcohol and and an unfaithful marriage which all occurred in a matter of 9 months. She ruined my children and has tried to ruin me with the law with my job with my every day life. I do believe that Hod exposed her and it will be better for me in the latter years. But, it ain’t easy because I am human and I’m in a world where it is corrupted with every kind of vice and temptations and being a weak human I DONT blame God I blame her and her association with lack of faith to be tempted to these things I have mentioned. From a professional with high morals and respect to a whore and a druggy who choose this shit over me and our children. God is great and I accept it . Peace
Hope this helps typical couples. Nothing on or outside this earth could jave helpes my husband and I. When you have an angry, very selfish and self destructive, you could be an angel, tending to all of their wishes and it will never, ever be enough for them. They hate themselvea and never could truly love another person. Like myself, they spend years and sometimes a lifetime trying to help them. What we need to do is help our self, love our self and put our well being first. Only then can we attract a more positive partner.
Sounds like you married a narcissist. They are dangerous. And life destroying. Pray for them. Give them to God totally
Marriage is no joke. Such teachings should be taught to singles before they get married so they know it’s more than just butterfly feelings😅 Marriage can be wonderful when we are willing to learn and grow but a nightmare when we decide to remain in our pride of being right.
I began watching Jimmy a few months ago, and I am always coming back to this teaching though. It must resonate with me. I just want to thank Jimmy & Karen for making this available for people and for marriage because with all the temptations we truly need it now more than ever. Jimmy, thank you so much for helping me see the light and bringing faith into my life. ❤😇👍
"The best person does the right thing first."
I love how they say abuse but unless ur in it u don't know how it feels
As usual an Awesome Word!!! Going from Good to Great!!! Thank you both for your faithfulness!!!
Thank you 🙏🏾 I’m not yet married but this will help
Am trying to forgive him, but I can't forget the things he said. He refuse to get counseling and am mentally tired and physically drain.
linda alicea I totally understand. I will turn gospel music on and it made him stop what he was doing. He did and is slowly changing.
Just keep doing what is right by him. I'm telling u to please trust that the Lord honors our efforts. If u make the first step, He will make the next! Just don't give up!! The key is to make SURE that YOU are doing YOUR part & the rest will follow
linda alicea dont give up hope. Love and prayers
Forgive,maybe if your life is not in danger then give it one more try. I believe that God give us authoritie to walk away.
Ask God to help you forgive and forget. It might take some time, but nothing is impossible for Him. Also I would not recommend you counseling; most of the tines it only causes more destruction. Please consider visiting www.hopeatlast.com and using their godly resources and taking their free courses to renew your mind. You won't regret it. Bless you.
Our God is the same yesterday today and forever. Again Ps Jimmy you have saved 20 more sessions of counseling. My tongue my tongue my tongue. This thing in my mouth has to change
I needed this today very badly. I am very happy that I got to listen to this video. Love this man and his teachings..
But this is all about what ladies can do, what about him? When he will think to change himself and care for wife? Why only wife needs to make things happen for him? What about him?
It's easy to think, "what about him?" The Bible tells us to cast ALL our cares and worries onto Him. Only God can heal and mend what is broken once you release it and forgive him. Let God do the work. In the meantime, connect into God's word, watch these helpful videos, surrender your husband (sometimes daily surrender), and believe that God will prop his heart in areas that needs to be changed. God will put people, events in his path to speak to him about change. It will come. Trust in Lord with all your heart and lean not unto your own understanding.
For real...
Lusine Avagyan shoot i can’t even find one girl to fight that hard for me these guys be having two 🤣lol
I'm also wondering if this relates to physical abuse...he wants to see you dead. No sorry I got out...
@@georgiayoung9124 It definitely doesn't apply to abuse, and Jimmy Evans does state that in his presentation. I'm glad for you that you got out as well.
That's a tough thing to do for real!!
This was such a great video and I see what I have to do. Lord thank you for amazing words
OH MY GOSH! THIS WAS SOOOOOO CONVICTING! Jesus help me, here we go.
Thank you Jimmy for your message. I know for sure this is my solution to my marriage issue. Redeemptive love which needs to be passed on to our spouse. God bless your marriage even more. As you have sown may you reap more good i
All Glory to Jesus. Praise the Lord
Thank you this has been the words that I've desperately needed to hear. For the first time in almost 3 years I feel hope.
What a blessing this has been to me. Thank you so much
Thank u so much Jimmy Evans for doing a great job that make who has relationship problems to feel better when they listen your words. God bless you and please keep doing this fabulous mission.
This message was a blessing to me!
Ur the best preacher ive heard v v deep truths and explained with your own experiences may Lord bless u immensely!
Amazing words of truth from God's word. Perfect advice. Thank you ✝❤
My husband and I have been married for almost 39 years. Found out about two weeks ago he has been looking at inapproriate vedios on youtube of women. I was so hurt cause this has never been an issue in our marrige . Our sex life is wonderful we have always had sex almost everyday. Confronted him about it was sorry and ashamed he said . I let him know I forgive him and now he needs to be accoutable to God. Said only been watching for about a month and would stop. So its been really hard everytime
I see him online or on his phone to wonder whats he looking at. I saw him delete something on his computer today and out of nowhere I snapped at him what did you just delete. He said wasnt deleteing nothing was clicking on something. And snapped back said I am tried of being accused. Which was 2nd time I have since I found out. I told him he is the one who broke
the trust in our marriage and its gonna take time for me to trust him . I know I have to just give it to God and let it go but its hard.
My behavior hasnt changed towards him if anything better . Just need prayer to be able to trust him .
this guy is my man!! tough to hear, hard to do, but so very true!!! its changing my view..
Yalls videos are AMAZING!!! Wish I would have found them before my situation was beyond repair!
His wife's name is always on his mouth. truly out of the love for her stored up in his heart. Single and loving these teachings. It's never too early to start learning these truths
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I'm black native American. And I love Jimmy and Karen Evens, and there videos. Thank you.
My marriage is possibly over. I am striving to keep the faith. Your messages have kept the hope alive. Staying true to the commitment and deep love for her has been difficult given she is not on the same school of thought in trying to implement your teachings. However, when do you move on and have God's blessing to do so? Again, your teachings have enable me to manage a very dark place. Keep up the good work!
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Thank you Sir Jimmy Evans, your guidance has been a soothing balm in my troubled mind ... no one to turn to and i found this video... my mother endlessly trying to break my marriage because she hates my husband... she disrespects and disregards my marriage and creates so much conflict between my husband & i because i approach him believing the bad things my mum says.... but this video has really been a light in the dark for me... thank you and Thank You God for guiding me here...
👆🏻 🔺 name above got me full access to my partner's cellphone he is legit
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!! GOD BLESS YOU❤ I NEED THIS MESSAGE. THANKS, AGAIN...AND I THANK GOD FOR YOU
Wow! The question and answer time at the end when they shared- hits home. Especially when she said she felt God liked her husband better than her because He allowed her husband to continue to ill treat her
That’s great he clarifies that about abuse. First time I’ve heard it where it makes sense 🙌🏼
Agreed. Been there.
THANK YOU GOD!!!!!! For this video!! Been struggling to the point where confusion came in - not Godly. THANK YOU for praying the price to feed us!!
Jesus gave us great hope:
"When the dead rise, they will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven."
I am so blessed to have people that give me redemptive love in my life. An essential part of marriage. Thank you :)
For over the past 4 years , our marriage has been disrespected, mocked, harassed and even had a woman spread lies and saying she was having sex with My Husband, posting filth about us on social media, to say the least. By standing on The Truth , taking authority that we have been given by Jesus Himself and through You and your wife's teaching, the tables have been completely turned!!!!!!!
Jesus has fought for our family and is restoring Everything the enemy has stolen and had made our marriage and family whole ⚔️💕⚔️
People interfering with our marriage even posted that my husband was going to divorce me..... The Word is alive and does Not return void !!!!! My husband is a true Man of God , has been redeemed and filled with The Holy Spirit and stands against the enemy, leading me and our 5 sons by his example. Only by faith and truth and Not bowing down to our enemy surrendering to defeat, and by many prayers going up to the throne of God, only Jesus , gets all the glory ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️
We love Him so much!!!
Please keep praying for our marriage and family, we know God has great plans and brought us together for His Glory!!!
I wished i could have applied the Word of God every argument. Feel so much quilt for not being Christ like. What a poor testimony on my part. I want more of Him and to be forever changed!!
A few years ago I was able to love my husband this way. God has redeemed him but now we are in a place where he has made me the enemy. I no longer care to redeem our love and marriage. I have lost hope but I am here asking for prayer because I believe in the power of prayer
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I sometimes feel the same, but don't give up! Let's not give up together, ok? Jimmy Evans mentions redeeming several times, not just once, and Jesus said forgiving not just seven times, but seventy times seven.
Wow, that was powerful, I was married 2xs both failed because first I did not have God in my heart, second I did have the Lord in my heart, but was too hurt from previous hurts and whatever my second husband did hurt me even more. Both cheated on me because I did not take care of myself. That was 40 yrs ago altogether. I wish things would've been different for me then. It's powerful I think I still need healing before I'm ready for anyone else. God Bless you, family, ministries. Thank you.
Thank you for this message ❤️🙏🏻🙌🏻
I agree.. it happens every single time when we lay down our own ways or the world way and do it God’s Way,
that was truly beautiful jimmy a lot of people under estimate these little simple things... i wish i knew these things at the start of my marriage 10 years ago 100% i wouldnt be looking at a spouse who no longer loves me... because if your trying to implement these skills when shes said that its too late trust me :/
Great word. I saw my own flaws in this video and I'm interested in learning more skills to improve myself and my marriage.
You can do it!
Halleluiah!! Praise the Lord!!thank you Mr.Jimmy Evans,to God be the glory!!!🥰🥰🥰
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Much of this God taught me several years ago and sadly some of it I forgot. Thank you for this reminder.
I'm not religious but now i understand why people who are religious have such a deep faith.
Thank you for helping me figure out my frustration and how to handle it.
i feel a similar warmth at times for children or animals, and I should have that kind of love for my partner. To understand he is human and hurts like me but i should unconditionally love him and accept him for his flaws, and i am sure if i do this he will learn from me and love me this way to.
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Jimmy and Karen have helped me so much in my marriage, now all I have to do is build up the courage to get my husband to listen to them with me!
This Powerful stuff ! Level 10 Difficulty lol
Thank you so much pastor for the teachings. I believe in marriage and pray that marriages be blessed.
Wow, this is soooo deep. TFS Be Blessed
I needed to hear this so bad. I am constantly belittled by my spouse and there is no affection in our marriage. I am ready to separate from this toxic relationship but my faith that this situation will change is keeping me chained in this unhappy marriage.
I'm on the same boat...praying daily. Stay strong.❤
I have been so terrible to my wife over the past 8 years due to addiction and anger problems and now that I'm trying to get right for once in my life she doesn't seem to want me anymore. Idk why I'm writing this but I have no family to talk to and I try to tell my wife im struggling with depression and trying so hard to fight my inner demons with addiction but she just doesn't seem to see me for what I'm actually doing and not doing anymore. All I want is for my wife to love me again and see that I'm fighting for us and I'm actually standing up on my own two feet planted on the ground and I will continue to fight no matter what.
Was that a success? I hope it was. Its nice seeing men’s perspective on these things
Thank you so much. I needed this word and im grateful for this teaching
Amen!!! We have to give what God has giving us. What good it's to give good to someone who give you good. ❤️ God is love and love overcome all things. He gave his life for me because of Love ❤️.
Thank you for this. My husband wants a divorce. He wants to be free and said he’s exhausted. I blamed myself first because I was the one who pushed him away first for not meeting the standards I want in a marriage but actually that’s what the devil wants. It’s all the devil. My husband is a non Christian. It makes it harder because he has no faith. I wasn’t living like a Godly wife because I didn’t know how to. Therefore, I’m facing this trial. Please pray for me as well. I trust the Lord is working on us and the best is yet to come.
@Un Identified …. Did you get divorced or has everything worked out?
@@Thankful305 Hi, everything has worked out in a way.. I think maybe God is still in the works. My husband wants the marriage again but I am dealing with grief of what has been taken from the marriage.. I am dealing with trust issues now and betrayal trauma. I also am dealing with a lot of anger and hurt. It's been a battle full of scars. Just trying to hold on to the thread of Jesus. I'm actually really exhausted. Some days I get really discouraged. But I am gonna just...keep trying and wait for God. It's so sad.
@@unidentified113 Sounds familiar 😔
I am so sorry!
What marriage is supposed to be and it isn’t “that way” does hurt-- a lot!
But our faith in God sustains us , it’s the only sure thing we have .
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@@Thankful305 Thank you. Yes it is. It's also just so hard to move on forward everyday.
the fact that im going through the same thing 😞 my husband has filed for divorce and signed every form 🥺 all he’s waiting for is to serve me . i still want to fight for my marriage with God on my side . i do believe he’s separating us to do some self healing . i just pray it works out for us all , for my situation has left me severely suicidal … but i know thats what the devil wants . as i pray for you i ask that you pray for me 💛 we are Gods children 💖
This is so hard to swallow but absolutely is truth and is true agape love!
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I have work to do, oh help me Lord to forgive and to love like you love me amen 🙏🏾😔
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thank u wonderful word
God is so good thank you for these teachings Your such a blessing to ody of Christ
Thank you for sharing👍
So even if your spouse is abusive, you can't leave them and start over. Wow that's very wrong. I'm going to stop watching this guy now.
Bethany Baughman,I admire your lovely smile 😊
You can leave but not divorce. Our primary goal as christians is to follow God's word and get to heaven, not to be happy. If you live long it would be for 110 years, happiness for that long without spending eternal live with Christ is useless.
@@best5345 so she can’t ever remarry without divorce
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Wow this was worth the listen. It hits home and I love my wife and I want a great marriage. I'm going to share this and hope it helps others
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Thank you for clarifying your stance on abuse and the difference from suffering. Makes a huge difference for me. I have been receiving a tremendous amount wisdom and encouragement from listening to hours and hours of your teaching. Just now, before you made those statements clarifying that difference, I felt alienated and began to bottom out.
Janice Wyatt, hope you are not with a narc 😈!
I tried all this 28 years ago and thought it had worked. Learned to trust him again now I just find out that he recently has been texting with a lady from church. She told me what was happening and he didn’t deny it and shows no remorse whatsoever. I’m done
Sadly I have tried this for years. I do get discouraged and disappointed. Yet I stay. I pray God can change me and my resentful heart.
Thank God! I have learnt a whole lot of things from you sir! Most grateful!