The Habits of Emotionally Healthy Couples

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @operator026
    @operator026 5 лет назад +17

    I love how he is driven to bring the reality with scripture into all his subjects he teaches. His words flow easily like he really means what he says....that shows his emotional and spiritual connection with the lessons.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 года назад

      @ Robert Thomas
      This man teaches wordly feminized psychology instead of Scriptures but it is ok since plenty of Christians today do not open a Bible anymore.

    • @ashleybrady2010
      @ashleybrady2010 4 года назад

      Yyyaaaaaahhh!!!

  • @MrVarkeyengland
    @MrVarkeyengland 4 года назад +3

    Jim and Karen are a such a blessing doubtlessly .

  • @darinhunter6126
    @darinhunter6126 2 года назад +2

    I wish I had found these videos years ago before my marriage got so bad,with God's help I will restore my marriage

  • @roxietalsma
    @roxietalsma 6 лет назад +38

    Thank you for your wisdom. Your changing our marriage. And others in our small marriage group through our new church. We never had good biblical roll models. Both of us come from families of disfunction. As the new year rolled in. God gave us roll models for not only our marriage. But our Financial issue and health coaches for our health. Thank you for being one of Gods roll models. God has removed alcohol, drugs and cigarettes from our marriage. Thank you Jesus. Thank you MarriageToday

    • @pablojimenez5433
      @pablojimenez5433 5 лет назад +1

      ...so glad...God bless you...

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 года назад

      @ Roxie Talsma
      Families of disfunction are the product of feminism . But instead of adressing the true issue , Evans just circles around and brings more feminism into every marriage even though his teachings sound biblical on the surface.
      SO malicious.

    • @roxietalsma
      @roxietalsma 4 года назад

      @@framboise595 I am sorry you feel this way. If you look to God anything is possible. Jimmy is great at what he does. The whole church in Texas is great. No matter what anyone says I will keep believing all is great there

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 года назад

      @@roxietalsma
      If you look to God and do HIS WILL ok but Evans preaches the opposite of God's will.
      Especially for women that he maliciously puts on an equal foot with their husbands in order to bring more conflicts and disorder within couples.

  • @dlparnell1144
    @dlparnell1144 2 года назад +2

    Your advice has always improved our marriage we came from broken and dysfunctional and damaged families,thank you! FYI we bought your Tapes back in the 90's

  • @Mondo_182
    @Mondo_182 6 лет назад +41

    These messages are always so good and full of truth and wisdom!

  • @arlenetatum9511
    @arlenetatum9511 2 года назад +1

    POWERFUL❣️❣️❣️ Thank You Pastor for being Transparent. We Truly Thank You and Your Wife for Caring, Loving, and Sharing. 💕💞💖💝🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🥰

  • @joshuafagans5944
    @joshuafagans5944 5 лет назад +15

    Marriage is a gift from God , its a beautiful thing , its meant to last a life time , nobody is perfect it take time , work and forgiveness

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 года назад

      @ Joshua Fagans
      It is women who screw this "beautiful thing" but the true issue of feminism is never adressed by Evans and co.
      It would put an end to their lucrative business.
      You imagine if he told wives to submit to their husbands as the Bible says ? His ministry would have no reason to exist anymore.

  • @glennglover4479
    @glennglover4479 2 года назад

    I'm asking for prayer, my marriage is in a very bad place, we are talking and trying to make our marriage work. I love my wife very much and am asking god for my marriage. Thank you pastor for your teaching. I will continue to work on me and asking god to change me. . Thanks so much for your teaching. It is helping me very much. Be blessed. Glenn Glover.

    • @XOMarriage
      @XOMarriage  2 года назад

      We will be lifting you up in prayer. Feel free to visit xomarriage.com/marriage-help/.

  • @belindacervantescasanova5262
    @belindacervantescasanova5262 5 лет назад +13

    We need God in our marriage.

  • @leannewalker8679
    @leannewalker8679 3 года назад

    Im feeling very ill with broken rib free floating broken just shoulder hight the vertebra and on below a ms got treatment not tumour im parelized from my upper chest any way very sick and my wife spoke this marriage is on the rocks im blown away and she a Christian too just out of the blue.♥️

  • @pablojimenez5433
    @pablojimenez5433 5 лет назад +11

    ...i need prayers for my marriage...
    ...i need the hand of God in our lives...i need help Lord...i need you Jesus...

    • @MrPeteparas
      @MrPeteparas 5 лет назад +1

      Precious Father we hear the distress call cry from Pablo that cries out for help for heavens help in his marriage. Marriage is your good purpose for couples, therefore, we call upon you Jesus for your intervening hand to resolve whatever issues need resolving. Father put the beauty of tender love in these hearts to really care well for one another with mutual balanced love we ask and believe now for this in Jesus name. Amen

    • @paulwebber.104
      @paulwebber.104 3 года назад

      Prayers of Gods Timing & mercy

  • @danielcook5764
    @danielcook5764 2 года назад

    Thank you Jimmy I am trying to get my wife and I stronger as a couple and you have helped me a lot!

  • @joelmcmahon8431
    @joelmcmahon8431 4 года назад +1

    This guy and his wife hit the target every time without fail

    • @saintmarybulicek567
      @saintmarybulicek567 3 года назад

      I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +19087998357 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together
      .
      it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger

  • @Mentalhealthmattersthemost
    @Mentalhealthmattersthemost 3 года назад +1

    This is absolutely a good message. Love Karen & Jimmy Evans. This works, but if a spouse is narcissistic, it will not work. The most effective advice that is fail proof is when both spouses just deny themselves 👈🏾,
    their desires 👈🏾 , their wicked 👈🏾 ways, pick up their cross & follow Christ. Also, learn who Jesus Christ say they are (identity). BAM A HEALTHY MARRIAGE.

  • @vishwalingam725
    @vishwalingam725 9 месяцев назад

    Wow amazing teachings, praise God.

  • @FangnclawXD
    @FangnclawXD 4 года назад +1

    I absolutely agree that it's work not luck etc BUT I will say I definitely feel my man was meant for ME. Looking back there's so many signs leading up to us meeting, and I have major trust issues from a user ex that had bad intent, that my man healed things the ex damaged, speaks volumes. I have no doubt God sent me a real Man that God used to reach those levels. Seeing God manifest through him showed me all the more that I could trust him. It really helped. Yes the Work, the Patience, the Love, those things absolutely made a positive impact.. After all we both have free will. He could've chosen not to give me those things, I could've chosen to let the past pain win & push him away. But we willed ourselves through it. And both our wills freely being under God's own was the main thing. We've only been together since the beginning of the covid stuff, but we've grown SO much together, it shows me he'll grow with me on into old age. ❤

  • @CoachPaula1010
    @CoachPaula1010 2 года назад +1

    Love this teaching. Well said. Thank you!

  • @belovedchildgodislove5699
    @belovedchildgodislove5699 3 года назад +1

    Love this!!so very true.thanks

  • @rlarry1949
    @rlarry1949 2 года назад

    Amazing lesson. Blessed to be a blessing.

  • @mimisibongilewonder4829
    @mimisibongilewonder4829 5 лет назад +7

    I enjoyed this teaching and learned so much. Thank you!

  • @gratitude5740
    @gratitude5740 6 лет назад +3

    Love the video!
    I guess I will have to watch wrestling. Lol!
    No problem, he will watch mushy movies .
    Thank you for your help with creative a healthy relationship perhaps marriage! We are courting long distance for now . Our goal is to be together forever. We have a mountain if things to learn to learn how to live with God and keep our love healthy

  • @yordanosteklu6156
    @yordanosteklu6156 6 лет назад +3

    Amazing messages , tnx god blessed u 🙏💕💕💖🙏💕💕💖👑

  • @emediongekong3225
    @emediongekong3225 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this broadcast

  • @wombamakuwanashiwaya5879
    @wombamakuwanashiwaya5879 Год назад

    I appreciate these insights

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 6 лет назад +19

    Silence is a form of violence and disrespect in marriage. God help us in marriage

  • @kzeetha
    @kzeetha 6 лет назад +72

    God forgive us for being so mean to our wives/husbands

    • @belreed8257
      @belreed8257 2 года назад +1

      He does 🙌🏽we also just have to remember to ask the Holy Spirit to help us develop new habits that produce good fruit, love,patience ,kindness, gentleness ,self control etc. He wants all of us to grow into full maturity in Him and in his grace and love for ourselves and for others

    • @karenreeves1120
      @karenreeves1120 2 года назад

      Amen

  • @lisevalade2746
    @lisevalade2746 3 года назад +3

    what should I do if my husband always works and we never have time for each other - I feel pushed aside

  • @sophiapackman157
    @sophiapackman157 4 года назад +2

    I've beem married to my husband for 26 years
    I've done all that but what do you do when he never reciprocates? He puts his mother first...Trying in Canada ...

  • @KyleHodgesTV
    @KyleHodgesTV 6 лет назад +2

    thank you so much for your wisdom and the book you wrote. It has helped being engaged so much easier when we go to pre marital counseling.

  • @living4thekingdom170
    @living4thekingdom170 5 лет назад

    Very helpful. Thank you for the reminders!

  • @christysmith7558
    @christysmith7558 4 года назад

    I agree with everything you've shared 💝 The majority of the time, I let go of anger very quickly. It usually takes about 30 minutes to pass 😄😊💝 Unless, of course, it's something major like adultery 👎👌

  • @rassiamelo6076
    @rassiamelo6076 5 лет назад +1

    I need to work on this. Thank you :)

  • @hefnerfamilyministries
    @hefnerfamilyministries 2 года назад

    Wow so good- this is was exactly for us!

    • @XOMarriage
      @XOMarriage  2 года назад

      We are so glad to hear this! Thank you for tuning in!

  • @priscillakass5875
    @priscillakass5875 5 лет назад +4

    I have never known a healthy marriage

  • @reflectionsAND
    @reflectionsAND 5 лет назад +7

    I love this unless you spouse is a narcissist. They will gaslight you then.

  • @SnookOnTheFly
    @SnookOnTheFly 4 года назад +1

    We’ve heard this stuff a hundred different times from a hundred different people, but Because of my wife and father in law’s enmeshed relationship she only listens to him. He says this stuff is mechanical and that’s not how marriage works. Keep in mind he’s been divorced three times and has no woman in his life, but my wife.

  • @viktoriavak4117
    @viktoriavak4117 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @revolutionunderground
    @revolutionunderground 2 года назад

    Divorce can be the best thing to have happened once it's over.

  • @iamanovercomer3253
    @iamanovercomer3253 6 лет назад +3

    What if you marry a woman who had children from another realtionship ? Who comes first after Jesus?
    Love that praying together.

    • @rickreza8042
      @rickreza8042 6 лет назад +7

      I married a woman who has 3 children from a previous marriage. I treat them as mine when they are with me but i still make my wife second after Christ. I hope thats the right thing to do. God Bless.

    • @roxietalsma
      @roxietalsma 6 лет назад +1

      alfed E. Newman Your wife comes first above all on earth. Then anyand all children and they should all be treated equally. Relisten to this message. Jimmy tells you how to have a great marriage

    • @lynnbenge5170
      @lynnbenge5170 6 лет назад

      Your spouse

    • @darlawalsh6237
      @darlawalsh6237 5 лет назад

      Even in a marriage where your the bonus mom with bonus children and he is a bonus dad and a dad you are his wife now he should take care of any children decisions he has with ex like child support he should have a day or 2 a month to spend quality time with his children and days where quality time is spent with you and your children like your children should have a quality time with their time most importantly communication always make time to read letters from each other and respond to each other insist that your husband discuss and communication about each other ex when involving the children and days set aside for them quality time not communicating is very childish and doesnt get anything accomplished yes work expense bills normal kind of issues just keep god first pray i didnt have children with my 2 exs after years and yrs i finally gave up maybe tired of drama etc texas laws are so different about probate when a parent dies virginia is different about theres my stepmom took advantage of the situation excluding not letting me know in 98 my dad passed from a massive heart attack until june of that yr my first husband just walked away from responsibiltys while i was sick in hospital i always wrote a letter sent christmas cards easter cards fathers day birthday cards to my dad after my parents divorce i kept lines of communication open he never responded any insurance moneys etc savings car truck i am sure has been spent or sold my dad propertys are still in his name and like a normal adult child i need my spouse or a friend i can trust to help me with court costs and or lawyer fees to get who ever might be living in either of those houses sold or rented a special needs lawyer who can help me by putting money in account for any needs i might have by dispersing 100 dollars 150 dollars a month so as not to interfere with my income or medical benefits i have i know jesus is here listening yet hes not tangible hes invisible i need humans a freind or 2 a relationship with a healthy person a healthy relationship a hug someone whom can step in and help me i would like to go visit texas and walk through the properties see where my dad is buried maybe a picture of my dad and my grandma and my grandmas house is supposed to be for me however i desire a relationship the way god desires doesnt have to be perfect please pray for me and thomas medford that he will find me for remarriage thanks

    • @darlawalsh6237
      @darlawalsh6237 5 лет назад +1

      Your spouse then children god first spouse children communication is nescessary from all quality time with children with spouse with all you children grow up leave house go out on own college whatever your spouse is still with you dont neglect spouse if you both work jobs set a day to everyone cleaning house its fair if wife cooks dinner you and children should clean up kitchen and do dishes if you cook she should if both cook both do dishes along with children words and actions hurt and cut to the bones the spirit

  • @SnookOnTheFly
    @SnookOnTheFly 5 лет назад +2

    Wife has heard what it takes to have a proper marriage and flat out refuses. She thinks the devil is attacking us. I said no God is letting you experience the consequences of doing it your way

  • @sophiachen8651
    @sophiachen8651 7 месяцев назад

    I’m

  • @framboise595
    @framboise595 4 года назад

    The focus on emotions is so weak and effeminate . Don't be surprised that marriage today can not last anymore !
    But it is all good for Mr Evan's business .

  • @leannewalker8679
    @leannewalker8679 3 года назад

    My name is guy muscara not Leanne

  • @mintorb1
    @mintorb1 3 года назад

    Our $100.00 "gift helps pay for his wife's boots and make up. life must be nice in the high life.

  • @mintorb1
    @mintorb1 3 года назад

    A gift of $100.00. lol. This is why I am tired of being a "christian". We have a hard enough time time trying to save up for a study bible that cost $80, 90 100 plus. It's a business, not a way of life. Why so a pastor can pay 400 bucks for a suit and his wife's make up. I'm tired of it.

    • @So_Easy_
      @So_Easy_ Год назад

      Nah not true. Idk why people have this idea of paying every business but a church but just because a church is business doesn’t mean it’s not of God. This is a world where everything costs money. They spent money to create this message and the post product. You’d pay for schooling to learn whatever. So pay for marriage schooling and stop thinking because it’s Christian that it’s supposed to be free. It’s unrealistic.

  • @ivangodin1850
    @ivangodin1850 Месяц назад

    In all of Jimmy's sermons, it's always him (or men) that are hurting their wives. The guy is the sloppy one, the jerk, the insensitive one, the lazy one, the one ridiculed, the one that never gets it.
    I'm tired of this narrative.
    Me, I love Christ, my family, I am a hard working man with high moral values. Never drank, smoked, used drugs, never been unfaithful, I am very attentive to my wife's needs, I am romantic, caring and devoted. Gave a kidney to my dying brother. Get the picture? That's me.
    And yet, my Christian wife is constantly nagging, complaining, extremely jealous, imagining crazy scenarios, disrespectful to me, etc etc.
    I wish Jimmy would address that issue as well, in a serious manner. Because I'm not the only one out there.