Agreed. In this video, the girls are analyzing logically what they want but that’s not the same as what they would respond to if these met these same guys in real life.
I guess so, cause when a women vibe and catch feelings for a guy she starts simping really quick (ignores the negatives, and only see the positives and too afraid to voice her wants he doesn’t have in fear of rejection)
Courtney, next time please ask more social status questions! Stuff like, “he’s a 9 but has no social life” “only has female friends”, “is a single parent” etc
@@CourtneyRyan The most successful clients I have run their show lean & mean - they don't chase "social status" - they're busy building a castle independent of all that - and they realize - in the long run "social status" is fleeting and mostly a facade filled with games. While it's important to women - it's much less so for men. We have 50 million years of hunter gatherer in us still ;-) Women needed "social status" in the village back at home base more so than men.... Something to think about.... I for one just see "social status" as giant distraction "most" of the time, and when you get older - you realize - those people don't truly matter - Seeking the approval of others, fitting into the group, conformity = all time wasters because those people are disloyal to being with - so why "invest" your time, thought, energy into them? unless you're lost, deeply insecure, or enjoy in-group style of decision making.
@@07wrxtr1 Well, maybe. Social status might just bite you in the ass someday. In the jungle, a singularly rich good looking lad, might find a confrontation with a social status individual with many loyal friends that can easily swamp ya. And another point to consider, social status is not likely to equate to conformity necessarily. Or maybe not.
*"If you're 5'4" and you're confident that's super sexy, but I'm going with guy #2."* I just thought that was hilarious because she still went with her natural desire of a much taller guy. Women naturally speaking don't want to be taller than the guy they're dating because they won't feel physically safe with that guy.
True, but a gal can still feel safe around a shorter guy if he's shown to be physically capable and willing to defending himself and others. A former co-worker told me of a friend of his who is 5'4 but has a fit body and trains in MMA, and he gets women like no tomorrow.
Nowadays I'm seeing more tall women dating men who are the same height or even an inch or so shorter. There seem to be a lot more tall women these days.
Jesus, those answers to the question on short vs. tall were brutal. It reminds me of that 60 minutes clip where no one had a preference for the short guy even if they said he was a doctor, rich, a great chef, and so on. So many women will not give us short guys a chance even if we had super powers.
I need to start a channel for all us women that are turned on by confidence, self awareness and loyalty. I would consider any quality man any height for sure.
@Sandra Weise No you wouldn't lol you'd still desire a taller man deep down I don't understand why women keep bulshitting short men or undesirable looking men as well making us believe that we still have a chance when we really don't. If anything it's just cruel giving false hope Truth is, manlets (especially ugly ones) like me need to just be weeded out of nature and it will happen eventually
You need to ask those questions anonymously because rare are the chicks that will say to a camera "Yeah I want the cash and the infidel dude". Everybody wants to keep their mask and social status so basically most people will tend to lie and tell the socially more acceptable answer.
I don't think anonymity would change their answers much. There is an idea each person has of themselves that you would not want to break. Especially, in your early to mid 20's. So much of what you think is still based on what you've been told or shown instead of your own experiences. Challenging your identity is the one of the most difficult things anyone can do, regardless of venue. It may not be right for this channel but I'd love to see women in their late 30s and 40s answers to similar questions. Mostly because I'm sure they would have experiences with both kinds of relationships and could speak to the realities of each choice.
Facts. In many Mediterranean cultures, most women EXPECT their husbands to have mistresses on the side. They wouldn't even want a man who young, beautiful women wouldn't want to sleep with. Loyalty and monogamous fidelity are two completely different things.
All people answer survey questions in a way that affirms how they wish to perceive themselves rather than what they'd actually do. So questions asked for a public video would be even less reliable
Most of these responses were more realistic than previous girls' responses. The tall thing is still a sticking point. I think a more interesting question including height would be "tall guy who doesn't workout" vs "average or shorter guy who works out and it's fit." If the point is about protection, see if women actually care about someone who could protect them or they just want a tall guy because tall guy.
The girl who said she would go with the poor but fit guy over the rich but fat guy because she has enough money support the whole couple is arguably one of the most unrealistic responses out of all of these videos. Courtney seems to be inviting mostly rich women.
This. My thought exactly. You want a guy that can actually protect that is short and in good shape OR a guy that is just tall and slim. If you put them in a cage, I would put my money on the shorter guy in good shape because he works out and I would think is stronger
One reason American women are so obsessed with the 6 ft thing is they don't know what 6 feet really looks like. When a 5'8" guy puts on shoes, he becomes 5'9" or 5'10", and women 5'5" or shorter will look up at him and perceive that he's 6 feet tall. Because women of average height (or shorter) have to tilt their heads up to look in the eye of most men, they think 6 ft men are half or more of the male population, and go on dating apps and set their filter at 6 ft. I deliberately wrote "American women" in the first sentence above because the 6ft requirement isn't really a thing in Europe where they use metric. 6 feet is 183 cm, and they aren't fixated on 183 cm the way American women are fixated on 6 feet. They'll have a range of different requirements like 175 cm, 180 cm, 185 cm.
The saddest part is, in the real world, they’ll always go for the guy who has the most money, and is the best looking. That’s Just life. There’s no way they can tell a guy will cheat down the road, but they do care about looks and financial status.
Looks are always first. Then if they are interested in multiple guys or have multiple choices, which nearly all women have, then they narrow it down again with if they make money, then continue to narrow it down with the other checks. Guys do this too but I don't think to the same extent or multiple layers of qualifications needed.
Looks are subjective, and there are plenty of rich men who have to call an escort if they want to get laid. Men who live in trailer parks or housing projects have wives and/or girlfriends. There are homeless men who get women. Even ugly, penniless serial killers on Death Row get love letters from women they've never met. Different women want different things, and sometimes even that changes significantly over the course of their lives. If there's any trait that's close to being universally appealing to women it's confidence and being able to have fun and generate excitement. It's impossible to do that while feeling insecure about your looks, height, or financial status. Women like men who have a lot of those things going for them because those are the men who are naturally more confident and playful and less needy and insecure. We've all seen short, ugly, older, and/or relatively poor guys who could easily attract beautiful women, and lots of them. Rich, good-looking men look at them and think "what does HE have that I don't have?" What they have is confidence, and the ability to have fun and generate enthusiasm and excitement. Most men want a woman who will make them feel more confident and validate them socially and emotionally. Those are the men who have trouble attracting and keeping women. Women don't want a needy man. A man who exudes confidence and fun is a man who provides for, protects, respects, accepts and emotionally validates himself. He doesn't NEED a woman, so paradoxically they flock to him.
@@CourtneyRyan yes, iLUV these interviews more pls! -> BUT I also notice a few ppl here saying they like this group more, but I also liked the OTHER group better at times too, so they're all good, this AND PREVIOUS ones, so pls don't preclude the other ones either for future interviews either I thought they were great too imo :P)
The height thing is hilarious to me because it’s all about appearances. A guy can be 6’2” or taller and still be skinny as a rail. The female brain just sees tall and thinks protection and it’s so ingrained that they’re willing to give up greater fiscal provision for the illusion of protection. And then, one question later, they’re opting for a rich guy who’s a 4 even though being a 4 probably includes his being short. They’re assuming his 4-ness means he’s ugly but still meets their height requirements. Proves to me more and more that , even if women knew what they wanted, they couldn’t communicate it consistently.
It’s the illusion of protection that always kills me. The provider would move them to a safe environment and is still a man and probably capable of physically protecting them. The broke tall guy would have to protect them because they would be in a less safe environment. WOMEN 🤷🏾♂️
Women only want what they can't have or think they can't have. Become one they can't have, or they don't get, or understand, become one that not everybody has access to. Become one that doesn't need a relationship. Because they will probably never see us anyway, so become one that doesn't care. Because they don't care about us, they are all in competition with each other to get the 6'2" tall 8+ who lives at home with his parents, and only earns $40K a year and did i mention he has a small wang.
I think a lot of this is also exaggerated by American culture. It seems far more common for shorter guys to fare well in Asia and Latin America. Anecdotally, my neighbor is a 4'11" guy from Mexico with a decent career and his wife is an easy 7/10 (at least 6 inches taller); this almost never happens among Americans. Something about US culture just throws "hypergamy" into overdrive. My guess is that poorer/more traditional countries associate career and stability with being a good "protector", but when things are less economically precarious, this is less relevant and more "primitive" signals like height and dominance tend to take over.
Eh... Maybe, but I had a different take. My gut says that she's had humble beginnings and knows how to make it work, but would also really appreciate not having to scramble to get by. Just a feeling.
@@bros4654 yea pretty much exactly it haha. I’ve struggled my entire life financially and still do and support myself, so I don’t value money no but the feeling of security for once in my life would be a pretty nice feeling to have for sure.
Luna’s math ain’t mathing 1:46 doesn’t care about money, goes with the guy who looks better 2:50 doesnt care about appearance, goes with the guy who makes more money 10:19 doesn’t care about looks but men should be more financially stable than women 11:20 doesn’t care about age but the guy who makes more money is better With that said idfc which option you prefer, but at least show some consistency 😂 Also Michaela is a dime 💯
Luna here, honestly when you’re put on the spot with all these contradicting questions it’s a lil difficult to be hella consistent. I just answered based on the specific situations which sounded better to me. it was hard for me to answer just cause I never think about things like this, my last two boyfriends were unemployed, one homeless/ living in a hotel so I really don’t think or care about superficial things like that. it’s just really hard to answer on the spot and I’m also super fried most of the time so I’m basically an entire walking contradiction 🤣
To be fair, the questions are each framed pretty differently. The first emphasizes fitness, but the second is about looks on a 1-10 scale. I'd probably have a similar take - I'd strongly prefer an ugly girl who's in shape and prioritizes fitness to an obese woman with otherwise good looks. Questions 3 and 4 also aren't really comparable; one is about _who_ earns the money and the other is about _how much_ is being earned. Anyways I think that's been enough simping for a night so I'll leave it at that.
@@zerpblerd5966 Same, I live in Europe so we use the chad unit (metric system) and I realised like 2 months ago that I was 6ft tall. Want to know the kicker? I make 6 figures in USD as I work for a US based company but I work from the UK so, I'm only attractive based on the current exchange rate... Can you imagine, it's the equivalent of never knowing how tall you'll be a day to day basis... Forex goes up? I'm husband material. Forex goes down? They call the cops on me...
@@SLRModShop metric is way better than imperial and eh, the narratives of such are largely false - it's a generalization and mostly weeds out the shallow women
Hey guys, we should commend and applaud these ladies for putting themselves out there to give us things to discuss and think about regarding what they want in a man. Let’s not disparage them for giving us honest answers. I’m sure we have preferences too. Courtney, I love these videos! Keep them coming! ❤
The difference is when we say we want a girl who's not overweight, something which is entirely under their control we are misogynistic. But when they want a guy who's 6'4 it's a preference
damn, those height answers are brutal. There are a lot of things women are willing to overlook (money, face, not in shape, personality issues) but height is the one exception.
Which is crazy because we have to overlook their weight problem through out their life even though it is within their reasonable control. I guess " that's just the way it is " -Bruce Hornsby
Still at 6.2 its not that easy and these ladies are a rare breed. Can't believe one forgot she was 28😂😂😭How can guys take them seriously 🤔💭Courtney next time do one with ladies in their mid to late 30s I'm sure it will be a lot different with their answers. Many have husbands and sugar daddies anyway and would go for money over most things even the height. I'm sure if you ask most guys about their experiences you will see another side to what women want the true side especially regarding living at home, financial stability, looks and if they drive or own a car or have a house don't think any of them would even care about the guys personality to be honest. Also next time reduce the earnings £70, 000 is still a lot of money even when compared to £250, 000 lol.
@@paulobatuyi She didn’t forget. She wanted to lie because she looks young and knows she can get away with it but she second guessed and told the truth instead 😂 I know. Because I use to do the same 😂
The first question their hesitant to answer tells me they are not being truthful, the 2nd question they say Mr overweight but are already thinking I'm going to fix him and get him to become fit, basically all these different scenarios comes down to a woman saying I'm going for what I want, and we will " fix" him, whatever SHE sees as a " flaw" in him
@@alswearengen6427 I think you mean subjectively, not objectively. And no, it's a flaw, period. Being fat is not healthy. Society needs to stop pretending being fat can be a good thing. You fail miserably at living up to Al's personality, who happens to be my favorite show personality ever.
@@Swearengen1980 You're as dense as Johnny Burns, always struggling to fashion a thought. Objectively means it is indisputably a flaw. It is objectively unhealthy to be overweight. Subjective means it is interpretive. So just go away and shoot some dope with Leon before you embarrass yourself any further.
@@alswearengen6427 I know the difference. Starting off with "So what's wrong with that" gave the obvious impression that you were excusing obesity because some guys do like fat chicks. When you start a reply off condemning obesity with " What's wrong with that", it's a logical assumption that you were trying to say it's up to an individual's preference.
The more honest their responses, the more depressing they are. Did you notice the thing no guy can change: height, was the thing that mattered the most. Short guys really are screwed.
Penis size and height is all most women care about Best thing to do is just treat women similarly, if they treat you like shit over penis size, height, looks and things you can't change, just put the same level of evil out to the world hehe
It's really disheartening to hear that being 5'7, it doesn't matter that I make 200k a year or keep myself fit and treat a lady well. All that matters is what I can't change.
@@brent4073 Idk if you're on the dating scene but even these girls have outrageous height expectations. The average female is 5'4 in the USA, 3 inches shorter than me and yet my height is the one thing I keep hearing about as the issue.
TBH when women are given the ability to handcraft their perfect man, they're far more shallow than in reality. They tend to lack self-awareness and the reality is that most women will go for a guy that is taller than them if they see him as confident and capable.
Regarding men living with parents, you have to look at their situation for sure. I have a friend who moved back in with his parents at the age of 31 because he decided he wanted to be a pilot rather than an aeronautical engineer. This was in the early 90s and he paid on his own which was very expensive. He also didn't work the entire year he was purusing his training. He kicked-out his ratings in about a year, became a flight instructor and then moved to a major US airline literally in a couple of years. They paid him a big salary as a starting first officer (co-pilot). Myself, I started flying in the early 90s with a college program, when I went broke doing that I transferred to a university and they didn't accept the majority of credits so it was like starting over. I lived with parents into my 20s. I had joined ROTC while at university, applied for military flight training and went active duty from there. Every situation is different.
I know a guy who's 39 and moved into a studio apartment on his parent's property. Separate unit in the back and parents live in the big house in the front. He did it because they are charging him super cheap rent in a super expensive area. Dude is saving serious money BUT he tells me women won't date him and even make fun of him for "still living with his mommy" even though, like I said, separate unit, parents are his landlords.
Women are horrific for bullying men who are down on their luck, living at home etc. The same women of course who once their chips are down and they end up with chronic illnesses or living back at home want you to sympathize. People are just evil, this is what we need to accept, the fact that woman care so much about if you're living in your parents basement rather than who you are, speaks volumes to what modern women are all about, just superficial social climbers. I couldn't care if my future partner/woman had 2 pennies to rub together, alot of the nicest women I speak with are women with chronic health problems, who unfortunately still live with their parents because they couldn't ironically magic up 100-200k to outright buy a property lol, shock horror eh
Courtney acknowledged our comments about changing up the cast! I do worry about the girls giving socially accepted answers though since they are knowingly being filmed
I think the cast changes each time they film. Notice that the girls' outfits are the same in each video. It's way easier logistically to film several hours of content with a new set of girls every couple months and trickle it out as several videos.
@@SlurMaster9000 you’re right. No wonder the girls have commented saying it was hard to keep track of their responses and have given contradicting answers.
You’re doing a great job Courtney. A lot of reviewers are giving you props for being objective. It may increase your subs. This latest series you’ve done on interviews is the best work by far. I’d love to see panels with different age groups or reactions by men to your work. We see very little men on your channel and I think women would enjoy this as much as men.
Old guy here. Life is a conundrum for most people, especially women. They say one thing, but want another. I myself is one of life’s riddles. I’m 6’2”, moderately fit, I played a lot of basketball and lifted weights, but now that I’m in my 60s, I’ve slowed down put on some weight. Retired now, but at the peak of my profession, I made close to 125k about 15 years ago. Trouble for me was I’m not handsome by any means, 3 maybe close to a 4 on a good day, no game, no confidence, terribly shy. If I hadn’t met my wife waaaay back in the day before cell phones, internet, dating apps, and social media, I’d be a confirmed and bonified bachelor. But fate intervened. This average guy has been married to his average woman for almost 4 decades. We have made it work. I just feel terrible for this generation of men. The modern woman is so crazy delusional. The pickings are really slim. Men, protect yourself at all times.
And, you are growing to be a very good interviewer, Courtney. Your seamless follow-up questions, very specific to each interviewee's answers, is professional calibre.
This group of girls was a great change of pace from the usuals that you have on here Courtney. Most of them felt way more down to Earth and realistic with their answers and expectations for a man. My personal favorite was Lainey. Hope to see more of her!
Don't get me wrong some of them possibly mean it but trust me most of them are answering in what they believe will paint them in the best light. If Courtney would do these as anonymous surveys you'd get a very different & much more honest picture.
Some of them are not being genuine tho, especially the ones who laugh when the question is presented, they already know the answer but they are afraid of coming across as swallow and act like they are thinking about it.
Yeah I'm going to have to fast forward to the last minute So Courtney gets a view but I can't stomach listening to the cope levels here. I know Street interviews are much harder on you Courtney but most of them are more honest
@@wolfsfroth maybe they are the controlling and abusive type and they want to have the ability to jump ship or cheat without that guy doing the same thing, even though girls tactically try to get guys to break up with them so they can use the sob story as game because we all know women don't have game
In Austria when you turn 18 and are a male you have to go either 6 months to the military or 9 months to do public service if you are not physically handicapped! I chose to do public service cause the salary was more, about 800€ that time and cause i was afraid of military tbh and all that aggressiveness. So i Became a driver for mental hospital. What shocked me was when i drove patients from hospital to hospital or psychiatric center to another, every place i went LIKE 100 patients 85 were female. And they were not 60, 70 years old they were mostly 16-22 and 35-40 and i will not say any names that’s forbidden but most reason were social-/ anxiety. I asked several colleagues what that meant and i researched and found out that young women can’t live without attention, social circuses and old women die mentally without having a partner so those womens hands were always shaking and they had to take pills to cool down. And the most disturbing part was, they were not like in the movies ugly or dirty or crazy hair etc. i swear to god some were very beautiful and most of them looked completely normal. I asked female social workers cause most are female but very few are honest so one female social worker told me, that older women get mentally depressed when they find no man of fear dying alone and the younger patients were mostly hospitalized cause of other females mentally abusing each other. I almost cried and she said with a sarcastic voice:“ Yeah Sefin, women can be very evil but they always hide it and with most females won’t take accountability of that.“ from the bottom of my heart i wish those souls good luck and please women be gentle to each other
Height can be a bit of a wild card. An attractive female friend, 5'11" and always in stilettos, would give me the occasional snog on a night out. I'm 5'10", and thought she'd never take it any further due to being taller (I'd also previously dated her bestie). She ended up marrying a 5'5" guy, and gave up flirting with the rest of us. He is admittedly good-looking, but you might expect THAT kind of height difference to stop play. Nope. They're still together after 15 years and have three kids.
This panel was quite honest, and it was great to hear the positive responses. But they were sincere and "real". They were extremely conscientious of their choices. They seem deeper in the thought of the response.
Lol my brother is unemployed for years , cheats on every girl friend, treats them like they don't matter.... But because he is extremely good looking and works out all the time .... Wrong will share him reluctantly and pay his bills .... He's been living this way for ten years
One question I'd love to see come up is Would you rather be in a non commited relationship with your celebrity crush or in a monogamous one with an all around good man that doesnt have that status?
Hi Courtney, enjoying the videos with the interviews. A suggestion for future videos to bring many of your questions into perspective is to include women who are in a healthy marriage, perhaps a video exclusive to married women. I think that would bring a deeper look into what women actually settle for vs what they say on camera.
I was in situation where my boyfriend was an 8, but he was still technically living with his parents. We ended up getting married, I was the breadwinner for two years, then he joined the army, got his US citizenship, and now he's the breadwinner. If they're relatively young, they're motivated, and a good person (not lazy per say, just young and working on their realistic goals) chances are things will work out.
Once again proving that if you aren't over 6 foot you're invisible to most women. Don't get me wrong fellas there are girls that understand that height has zero indication of how well a man will provide or protect & it won't be factor when stacked against all your other qualities, pick those women. This obsession with height continues to persist in western culture when other parts of the world see average height men as perfectly fine or downright tall. If she'll pick a tall guy or good looking guy over better indicators of being a good partner then you know she value shallowness over having a healthy long-term relationship. Vet, vet, vet, don't stop vetting until you're absolutely sure she's going to be a good, loving, & loyal partner, don't get bullied into getting married until you're sure of this & absolutely ready to take that leap.
If they are willing, I would like to see you ask this group the same questions you asked the first group in terms of what matters to them (salary, lifestyle, etc), and compare the answers to see which of the two groups on average is more into the entitled lifestyle, and which group is more grounded with reality.
My therapist of many years is a woman. Actually a younger woman. She told me do not take what women say seriously without actions. I have had women who say they didn’t love me who did. And I have had women swear they loved me who didn’t. When my buddy was on Tinder as an example he ended up hooking up with every woman who said they were in it for hook ups. They told him they just put it on there to be “respectable” but selectively into hook ups.
Money is King!, but.... keep in mind that doesn't mean she will be loyal to the guy. She could still have fun with the broke Chad on the side. The fat dude is more like her 401k if she marries then divorces. She's attracted to his money/stability not the looks, sexual attraction doesn't relate to money but to physical look.
I see Courtney watched some reaction videos about previous groups so she changed a questions a bit. Kudos for that. Also, I like this group more. Less "model- like" and more looking like an actual human beings.
Worth noting they haven't been asked anything that asks them to give specific numbers about what they're looking for. Those tend to get the worst responses because 1.) very few women intuitively understand the relevant stats and numbers, 2.) the lines between a "wish list" and dealbreakers tends to get blurred, and 3.) people like to exaggerate their standards to be perceived as "high value".
Model like? No one in her past group are model like, which made her their answers of entitlement so laughable. Despite Madi's post, I'd have never assumed she was a model, just another attractive gal. Then again, with today's woke ideology, being a model isn't exactly like being a model 20 years ago.
Happy new year Courtney! This year’s content has been full of very good advice! Can’t wait for 2023’s content, hopefully you can get to 500K subscribers ❤
As it comes to the question about living with your parents, I’m 28 and live with my parents, i could move out but I’d be struggling, right now they are essentially roommates that just happen to be family. I would like to wait to move out whenever i find a woman worth moving in with/marrying.
I think that it's just part of the current reality for many young people. I lived with my parents until I was 29, because it took that long for me to pay off most of my school loans. I paid some rent and grocery money, despite my parents objections, because I couldn't stand feeling like a loafer. But I don't think that I could have made it on my own back then. I truly sympathise for people who don't have that family network to rely on when times are tough.
@@TOhara-eb2lp So you're one of those people. If you're smart, you'll figure it out instantly, but most Americans need everything spelled out. This coming from a country of people trying to score bragging rights by claiming to live out of the parents' house for a moment of glory only to retreat back to into their place once again, and back at square one. Finding an affordable place of our own that fits our needs perfectly and is not as simple as having enough money. Unless you have a good network, it's also a matter of luck because vacant houses and apartments don't just appear out of nowhere. Unless you own land, materials, and have the skills of an architect and a civil engineer, all you have is luck
Genuinely I like all the girls here, they mostly seem more interesting than the first group. Deja & and the girl with the Willy Wonka Bomber jacket (I didn’t catch her name) are my favorites
Safety is not a reason for not dating a shorter guy. If you are really in danger, Smith & Wesson works the same for a 5'7 guy as it does for a 6'4 guy.
Been married couple times. Made many mistakes on my part but never cheated or abusive and been pretty fit my whole life. My biggest complaint is women who do not keep their weight in check. Just bad matches on our parts.
What they say isn’t necessarily what they’ll choose. There is a channel called Ana Psychology who covered the issue of selection discrepancies via peer reviewed research. Basically people would make compromises and stray from their ideal requirements to be with someone. Moreover, research shows that if the other person is rich, they will throw out their deal breakers out the window to be with that person. The video is about 30 min long and it’s called “Why the ideal partner may not matter”.
I'm surprised how reasonable most of these gals were with some of these questions. As for the 5'10 gal, good luck in finding a man who is taller than she is. Men who are 6ft or taller make up only 14.5% of the US population (10% worldwide). Add salary, looks, education and personality to mix, the percentage gets lower. So she cannot afford to be too picky but glad she isn't, admitting she wouldn't mind dating a shorter man so long as he's confident (which is sexy). No joke, I once told these statistics to someone and they didn't believe me. I then told them to look around them (we were in a mall downtown at the time) and see if they could spot a 6ft or taller man..... Not a single one was around. The tallest was 5'10, same as my friend who was with us at the time.
I find her very attractive physically and pretty good personality - I wonder if I could turn her into a farmer?! haha jk, don't try and change people! funny, I am just 1/8" away from being 6', so I don't enter the stats of 6'+, but, c'mon now...
So, some of these ladies were clearly being honest and at least a couple had me in stitches!! Another factor massively at play here is women may answer honestly but with logic and it still is a total inaccuracy in the real world because attraction rarely makes sense, it's a feeling. Interesting content, I'll look forward to more ad free videos like this :)
I'm 5'7" and 50 years old. I have never had a girlfriend. I gave up. It's too psychologically damaging knowing that you can never be good enough. I really feel for younger guys on here who are less than 5'10".
Im 35 and you wouldnt want these type of women to be your girlfriend bro they fuck your head up, make you mentally ill over things you cant even help or change about your body until it actually makes you physically unwell inside I mean overdosing on drugs, trying to end your life, destroying yourslf, whilst these women that courtney interviews get intense sexual pleasure watching men being driven to suicide its not right lol
Courtney I think it's really great that you did this with women that are I would consider halfway normal and not IG models or only fans girls like most of the manosphere channels. There are a lot of women out there that are looking for a man. Who aren't going to be crazy and cheat and only in it for bags in a house and the divorce grape them and things like that they really want to build a home in a family. These women need to have more exposure. Even some of the women who defend the men seem to get this whole concept incorrect because the women that they interview aren't the type of women who are going to be faithful aren't the type of women who want to have kids or have family and most of them are materialistic so it's very refreshing to have you do this. Good job.
Im actually surprised that none of the ladies ever mention about the guys living at home with their parents, because of their cultural upbringing. In many cultural backgrounds, you only move out once you're done with school or when you're married. Or even the guy who is taking care of his parents as they get older
After all the different questions and answers its still pretty clear if you combine their answers for each person profile, that they want money, status, loyalty handsome guy, the dream, its just about how can thet aswer the questions so it wouldnt give them bad picture of them.
As a 5'6" man myself, I back those short vs tall answers. Even when being "handsome" they still choose any other guy who's taller. Reality is, whenever I am sit women do look at me a lot, however the moment I stand they always change their face expression to "what a shame". You can see the disappointment in her eyes. It is brutal.
It's an evolved trait. In the stone age, females needed a big man who could protect her and her children from wolves and other cavemen. And then the preference stuck in our genes.
You should do one like this asking about disabilities and see what their responses are to that like vision loss, and other common disabilities and see what their answers are today
So if I was keeping score correctly, nothing else matters if you’re 6 feet or taller, you’re good. Because that was the only answer where the short guy wasn’t picked, not even once.
This year, I went on six dates with this one woman who went to my college, whom I met on a dating app, and told me she felt a connection, was interested in me, and I was even given good input from her friends, only for her to leave me for a guy she has not seen in years, who eventually turned out to be a clingy, abusive alcoholic. They broke up for a week, but she decided to be a simp and reconcile with him, while lucid enough to know he was a shitty influence. I take it as an insult that she left me for a guy like him since I basically had my shit together, busted my ass to make a decent living, and would’ve done wonders to make her feel protected and loved.
My best friend is 6'7", I'm 5'7" he regularly notes if a zombie apocalypse or anything goes down, his plan is to find me and ask me what the plan is. Combat veteran, international paramedic/ security professional for diplomats, versus a chef. Now yes we have both been in our fair share of fights and grew up fighting each other. While I'm on the streets by myself, I travel quickly from point A-B, while alone I do not carry, but I do not have to no criminal is going to try and assault a muscular looking man who is only wearing gym shorts, a pair of crossfit nanos, and might have a cell phone on him. The risk is not worth the reward, criminals are generally cowards. If I had a partner or family to protect, I have my concealed carry thanks to my career, and know I'm willing to use it.
2:36 From a guy's perspective, it really depends on why Guy #2 is living with his parents, as the reasons could vary widely. On one hand, it could be because Guy #2 needs to take care of his parents due to medical conditions, or that he has nowhere else to call home due to tragic events(breakups, domestic violence, prev. home destroyed) and is rebuilding himself, in that case he's a keeper; on the other hand, he could be just leeching off his parents or being a papa & mama's boy, of which are huge red flags; then you've got even crazier circumstances in which dysfunctional parents keep their son in their place so they could control him better(yes this happens more than you'd expect), and in this case it really comes down to what he is doing about the situation: Is he complacent, or is he trying to work himself out of it? And has his personality warped by his parents, or is he still a good man doing his best to get things right?
I would be interested in seeing a study on ten men and women where they have a list of characteristics that hold value (i.e. looks, income, age, lifestyle..) and we can see how each person thinks they would rate compared to how they are viewed by the opposite sex. It’ll give a perspective on what is important to the opposite sex.
interesting how the women said they wanted a "breadwinner" but in a separate question, when given the choice between a guy who is 5'4" and makes $250k and a guy who is 6'2" and only makes $70k, they went for the 6'2" guy lol. makes you wonder....
Great video! Love the style. I would like to know the more info on the women answering the questions. Height, weight, income etc. I think it’s fair for a women who has standards that include those stats to also disclose those stats. Men have standards too.
The data itself sure would be awesome for Courtney, but for gathering purposes and future analysis without mentioning names. Here on these kinda videos sounds more dangerous, than helpful, cuz of internet reasons.
"I feel like, with taller guys, I will feel more protected...If we are out, and a situation happens, he can for sure protect me"... You can hear these sentiments echoed from numerous women and it perplexes me. If you have a preference for height, cool, just say that. But height has nothing to do with survival skills, fighting ability/technique, or how capable of a protector a man is. Going further, taller people are statistically more likely to suffer serious injury from everyday accidents and falls compared to shorter people in similar circumstances. In the extreme, if you find yourself in an active shooter situation, the tallest people in the room are also the biggest/easiest targets. The one advantage they do have over shorter people is that if they are reasonably in shape, they can probably run away from danger faster than you thanks to having a longer stride...which doesn't help you at all. Attempting to correlate height to an increase in survival/protection literally makes no sense. Where is this sentiment coming from? For the sex that is supposedly evolutionarily wired to value "protection" in their mate selection strategy, it is puzzling that there are so many examples of women not knowing what "protection" looks like.
Hi Courtney! Love what you're doing. I noticed most of the women seemed to be 20s-30s. Obviously, what men and women look for evolves over their lifespan. I'm 51. I'm not interested in dating anyone younger than about 45. Have you considered doing one of these videos for those of us in "Prime Time"?
This was very enlightening for someone in the modern age. I go after girls who are 3-5 inches shorter unless they don't wear heels and who have nice curves and want children and are 25-35. I do worry about the guys who are tall but whose frames are too skinny.
height over everything when it comes to women. Tall women answer -'I'm tall so I need a tall guy' Short women answer -'I want to feel protected, so Tall guy for me tehe' Its even more important than finances, morals, personality, You name it smh.
One thing I've notice about these kinds of questions that these women answer is that they still try to get their cake and eat it too. Even when presented with a question where it's one option or the other, they always try to get both. Like, fit guy but broke or rich guy but fat, they say uumm the rich guy cuz he can go to the gym and work out, so in the end, she gets both a fit and rich guy. Umm, no, that's not how this works. It's one or the other, period.🙄
It is interesting that although this group of women seems to be much more in touch with reality than the previous one, there are patterns that are visible in both groups. They are written in the DNA. Also interesting is the tendency to give the answer that would be less socially punished in most cases.
"In touch with reality" how? They want a guy that's earning 50 - 70k and they aren't interested in guys still living at home with his parents at 30 when we're in a housing crisis and no single guy can move out as he's being paid less and women are being paid more then men today. So how are these women in touch with reality if anything their out of touch as they said their only interested in a guy earning over 70 k and if he's still living with his parents at 30 it's a big no no. I'd love to see these women living in Ireland cause they'd get a huge wakeup call.
@@emperorsean1 I'm speaking in contrast to the previous group where one brat wanted a 30 year old husband making $650,000 a year and another wanted a Lamborghini... this group seems like a small step up from the previous one...
People need to stop gaslighting short men into thinking that the reason they can't get a date is because of how they act. Most women will reject a short guy regardless of any other positive trait he might have.
These vids are great. They show unbiased opinions of the average woman's values so we know better how to navigate what they cherish. As men we definitely value different things so it's good to know what we need to work on too.
Real talk!!! They usually chose the opposite in real life situation, just for instance, most of them choose the loyal guy who dont have enough money but i bet they just chosed it in front of camera just to look good for the audience in reality they wont mind choosing the 6 digit guy who has sidechicks right and left.
80% of these women are below 5’5 in height and “my man has to be 6’4 regardless of any red flags.” RIP to attractive men below 6’4 or even 6’0 for that matter. “As long as he’s loyal, I’ll take him” - western women over 30
@shayaan qazi @ronmake look at the positives of all of this. There's only about 15% of men above 6'0.... which means not all women can have themselves a tall men. We get to watch the women compete against each other and be jealous of each other and turn on each other and share the same man and then wonder why that man cheats as he has so many options and then they cry and say where did all the good men go. Lets sit back and watch the show!!!
"I jUsT fEeL LiKe iF wE wErE oUt, aNd a SiTuAtiOn hApPeNed, (a taller guy) coULd pRoTeCT mE!1" "Ok, and what situation has happened to you where you've needed protection from a guy based solely on his height?" "...................................................................................................."
This group, overall, is more reasonable/grounded. Thank you Courtney! Still.....Certain "stereotypes" of western women are being proven to be flat out reality, particularly for the "sistas"! 🤣😂🤣
I really think this video was an improvement from the last set of questions! I especially liked your follow up questions after their initial answers. Thanks for the content Courtney
Nice video as always Courtney, I usually get bombarded with all this Red Pill stuff from F&F and Tate and what not but never do I see actual quality women in those videos, only IG "models" and OnlyFans "entrepreneurs" so it's refreshing to see women who understand the actual value of money for example and don't all jump and ask for 250k a year man
I've been watching videos for a couple of months now and I really appreciate the perspective of a classy women. Some girls could definitely learn a lot here. Great work! Also after watching couple of "Would you rather.." videos it's great to see a different perspective but irl I don't think the answers would be the same. i think a date decision a woman makes is based on emotions that man can bring and then it doesn't mean much if you are short. Also it's rly interesting to see how much different women in USA are than in Europe. Anyway keep doing what u doing cus u make great content!
I'm not sure who I loathe more: daddy's little princesses with top 0.1% requirements and bottom 0.1% sense of reality vs. (subpar) men who feel entitled to (hot) women and criticize them for their biological desires (height, attractiveness, well-off)
Again, excellent work here. I would LOVE to see a group of 30-32-35-39 year old's response to this and other questions you've asked in the past. I'm betting there will be some significant shifts in responses and priorities but regardless, it will be a telling reveal. One other thing I would suggest is an anonymous poll and sharing those results without it being on video. You might get different answers without the responders thinking they'll be judged.
Circumstances and technicalities for these scenarios would swing my choice one way or the other. I would be terrible for this exercise because I’d have so many follow up questions lol
This series is like Tinder. They're one-dimensional and always either one or the other AKA swipe left or right for this scenario. I hope people realize that these are mostly silly and fun, but also valuable in their own ways
9:19 crazy how women nowadays always act like they're independent, but when it comes to money none of them wants to be the provider. Seems like the independency only occurs in conjunction to their seggs life
I'll reiterate comments already made. I am 55 and from experience with woman of a number of nationalities and types, I can tell you this: What women say and what they do in reality is poles apart.
As a male in my 40's I can tell you one thing from experience.....What women say they want and what they actually want can be completely different.
Agreed. In this video, the girls are analyzing logically what they want but that’s not the same as what they would respond to if these met these same guys in real life.
I totally agree
Facts.
yup
I guess so, cause when a women vibe and catch feelings for a guy she starts simping really quick (ignores the negatives, and only see the positives and too afraid to voice her wants he doesn’t have in fear of rejection)
Courtney, next time please ask more social status questions! Stuff like, “he’s a 9 but has no social life” “only has female friends”, “is a single parent” etc
I have more questions like that coming in the next video!
Oh I’m definitely interested in the answers to those.
@@CourtneyRyan The most successful clients I have run their show lean & mean - they don't chase "social status" - they're busy building a castle independent of all that - and they realize - in the long run "social status" is fleeting and mostly a facade filled with games. While it's important to women - it's much less so for men. We have 50 million years of hunter gatherer in us still ;-) Women needed "social status" in the village back at home base more so than men.... Something to think about.... I for one just see "social status" as giant distraction "most" of the time, and when you get older - you realize - those people don't truly matter - Seeking the approval of others, fitting into the group, conformity = all time wasters because those people are disloyal to being with - so why "invest" your time, thought, energy into them? unless you're lost, deeply insecure, or enjoy in-group style of decision making.
@@07wrxtr1 Well, maybe. Social status might just bite you in the ass someday. In the jungle, a singularly rich good looking lad, might find a confrontation with a social status individual with many loyal friends that can easily swamp ya. And another point to consider, social status is not likely to equate to conformity necessarily. Or maybe not.
@@CourtneyRyan Definitely ask about an attractive successful man who refuses to ever marry.
*"If you're 5'4" and you're confident that's super sexy, but I'm going with guy #2."*
I just thought that was hilarious because she still went with her natural desire of a much taller guy. Women naturally speaking don't want to be taller than the guy they're dating because they won't feel physically safe with that guy.
That’s her consolation prize to the short guys😅
True, but a gal can still feel safe around a shorter guy if he's shown to be physically capable and willing to defending himself and others. A former co-worker told me of a friend of his who is 5'4 but has a fit body and trains in MMA, and he gets women like no tomorrow.
Nowadays I'm seeing more tall women dating men who are the same height or even an inch or so shorter. There seem to be a lot more tall women these days.
@matthewapsey4869 these women are deluded,living in a fantasy world that does not exist and are FULL of red flags.
@Matthew Apsey Clearly you haven't been out much.
Jesus, those answers to the question on short vs. tall were brutal. It reminds me of that 60 minutes clip where no one had a preference for the short guy even if they said he was a doctor, rich, a great chef, and so on. So many women will not give us short guys a chance even if we had super powers.
I need to start a channel for all us women that are turned on by confidence, self awareness and loyalty. I would consider any quality man any height for sure.
@Sandra Weise No you wouldn't lol you'd still desire a taller man deep down
I don't understand why women keep bulshitting short men or undesirable looking men as well making us believe that we still have a chance when we really don't. If anything it's just cruel giving false hope
Truth is, manlets (especially ugly ones) like me need to just be weeded out of nature and it will happen eventually
It's over for manlets
The thing they don't realize is us shorty's are actually packing a huge dong.
Get a superpower that can make you taller, problem solved.
You need to ask those questions anonymously because rare are the chicks that will say to a camera "Yeah I want the cash and the infidel dude". Everybody wants to keep their mask and social status so basically most people will tend to lie and tell the socially more acceptable answer.
I don't think anonymity would change their answers much. There is an idea each person has of themselves that you would not want to break. Especially, in your early to mid 20's. So much of what you think is still based on what you've been told or shown instead of your own experiences. Challenging your identity is the one of the most difficult things anyone can do, regardless of venue.
It may not be right for this channel but I'd love to see women in their late 30s and 40s answers to similar questions. Mostly because I'm sure they would have experiences with both kinds of relationships and could speak to the realities of each choice.
Facts. In many Mediterranean cultures, most women EXPECT their husbands to have mistresses on the side. They wouldn't even want a man who young, beautiful women wouldn't want to sleep with. Loyalty and monogamous fidelity are two completely different things.
@@JaRW7 Oh yeah - good point. Cognitive dissonance is strong with people.
All people answer survey questions in a way that affirms how they wish to perceive themselves rather than what they'd actually do. So questions asked for a public video would be even less reliable
Yes you are so right. Are they telling the truth in front of cam ?
Most of these responses were more realistic than previous girls' responses.
The tall thing is still a sticking point. I think a more interesting question including height would be "tall guy who doesn't workout" vs "average or shorter guy who works out and it's fit." If the point is about protection, see if women actually care about someone who could protect them or they just want a tall guy because tall guy.
The girl who said she would go with the poor but fit guy over the rich but fat guy because she has enough money support the whole couple is arguably one of the most unrealistic responses out of all of these videos. Courtney seems to be inviting mostly rich women.
This. My thought exactly. You want a guy that can actually protect that is short and in good shape OR a guy that is just tall and slim. If you put them in a cage, I would put my money on the shorter guy in good shape because he works out and I would think is stronger
They think the tall guy is also tall downstairs.
One reason American women are so obsessed with the 6 ft thing is they don't know what 6 feet really looks like. When a 5'8" guy puts on shoes, he becomes 5'9" or 5'10", and women 5'5" or shorter will look up at him and perceive that he's 6 feet tall. Because women of average height (or shorter) have to tilt their heads up to look in the eye of most men, they think 6 ft men are half or more of the male population, and go on dating apps and set their filter at 6 ft.
I deliberately wrote "American women" in the first sentence above because the 6ft requirement isn't really a thing in Europe where they use metric. 6 feet is 183 cm, and they aren't fixated on 183 cm the way American women are fixated on 6 feet. They'll have a range of different requirements like 175 cm, 180 cm, 185 cm.
She honestly asks really unrealistic questions tbh kind of non relating ones smh.
The saddest part is, in the real world, they’ll always go for the guy who has the most money, and is the best looking. That’s Just life. There’s no way they can tell a guy will cheat down the road, but they do care about looks and financial status.
Looks are always first. Then if they are interested in multiple guys or have multiple choices, which nearly all women have, then they narrow it down again with if they make money, then continue to narrow it down with the other checks. Guys do this too but I don't think to the same extent or multiple layers of qualifications needed.
Looks are subjective, and there are plenty of rich men who have to call an escort if they want to get laid. Men who live in trailer parks or housing projects have wives and/or girlfriends. There are homeless men who get women. Even ugly, penniless serial killers on Death Row get love letters from women they've never met.
Different women want different things, and sometimes even that changes significantly over the course of their lives. If there's any trait that's close to being universally appealing to women it's confidence and being able to have fun and generate excitement. It's impossible to do that while feeling insecure about your looks, height, or financial status. Women like men who have a lot of those things going for them because those are the men who are naturally more confident and playful and less needy and insecure. We've all seen short, ugly, older, and/or relatively poor guys who could easily attract beautiful women, and lots of them. Rich, good-looking men look at them and think "what does HE have that I don't have?" What they have is confidence, and the ability to have fun and generate enthusiasm and excitement.
Most men want a woman who will make them feel more confident and validate them socially and emotionally. Those are the men who have trouble attracting and keeping women. Women don't want a needy man. A man who exudes confidence and fun is a man who provides for, protects, respects, accepts and emotionally validates himself. He doesn't NEED a woman, so paradoxically they flock to him.
They'll bone the looks and marry the money. . .usually at the same time.
Why is that sad? Wouldn’t you go for the hottest/most feminine woman in a room?
@@TuffLuv1984 bcs then they'll Just use all the Money of the guy for themselves
I enjoyed the change in the cast of women. It’s good to get a different perspective. Keep up the good work
Thank you ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan yes, iLUV these interviews more pls! -> BUT I also notice a few ppl here saying they like this group more, but I also liked the OTHER group better at times too, so they're all good, this AND PREVIOUS ones, so pls don't preclude the other ones either for future interviews either I thought they were great too imo :P)
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The height thing is hilarious to me because it’s all about appearances. A guy can be 6’2” or taller and still be skinny as a rail. The female brain just sees tall and thinks protection and it’s so ingrained that they’re willing to give up greater fiscal provision for the illusion of protection.
And then, one question later, they’re opting for a rich guy who’s a 4 even though being a 4 probably includes his being short. They’re assuming his 4-ness means he’s ugly but still meets their height requirements.
Proves to me more and more that , even if women knew what they wanted, they couldn’t communicate it consistently.
It’s the illusion of protection that always kills me. The provider would move them to a safe environment and is still a man and probably capable of physically protecting them. The broke tall guy would have to protect them because they would be in a less safe environment. WOMEN 🤷🏾♂️
Height isn't good for protection, especially in the USA. More target to shoot and more surface area for a bullet to hit.
@@bradwhitt6768 bingo
Women only want what they can't have or think they can't have. Become one they can't have, or they don't get, or understand, become one that not everybody has access to. Become one that doesn't need a relationship. Because they will probably never see us anyway, so become one that doesn't care. Because they don't care about us, they are all in competition with each other to get the 6'2" tall 8+ who lives at home with his parents, and only earns $40K a year and did i mention he has a small wang.
I think a lot of this is also exaggerated by American culture. It seems far more common for shorter guys to fare well in Asia and Latin America. Anecdotally, my neighbor is a 4'11" guy from Mexico with a decent career and his wife is an easy 7/10 (at least 6 inches taller); this almost never happens among Americans.
Something about US culture just throws "hypergamy" into overdrive. My guess is that poorer/more traditional countries associate career and stability with being a good "protector", but when things are less economically precarious, this is less relevant and more "primitive" signals like height and dominance tend to take over.
That one chick who constantly says “I don’t really care about money” definitely cares about money
Eh... Maybe, but I had a different take.
My gut says that she's had humble beginnings and knows how to make it work, but would also really appreciate not having to scramble to get by. Just a feeling.
@@bros4654 yea pretty much exactly it haha. I’ve struggled my entire life financially and still do and support myself, so I don’t value money no but the feeling of security for once in my life would be a pretty nice feeling to have for sure.
Maybe she has money. Why she says she don't care.
Luna’s math ain’t mathing
1:46 doesn’t care about money, goes with the guy who looks better
2:50 doesnt care about appearance, goes with the guy who makes more money
10:19 doesn’t care about looks but men should be more financially stable than women
11:20 doesn’t care about age but the guy who makes more money is better
With that said idfc which option you prefer, but at least show some consistency 😂
Also Michaela is a dime 💯
Luna here, honestly when you’re put on the spot with all these contradicting questions it’s a lil difficult to be hella consistent. I just answered based on the specific situations which sounded better to me. it was hard for me to answer just cause I never think about things like this, my last two boyfriends were unemployed, one homeless/ living in a hotel so I really don’t think or care about superficial things like that. it’s just really hard to answer on the spot and I’m also super fried most of the time so I’m basically an entire walking contradiction 🤣
^ 🙄
I noticed the same thing. That girl was all over the place.
To be fair, the questions are each framed pretty differently. The first emphasizes fitness, but the second is about looks on a 1-10 scale. I'd probably have a similar take - I'd strongly prefer an ugly girl who's in shape and prioritizes fitness to an obese woman with otherwise good looks.
Questions 3 and 4 also aren't really comparable; one is about _who_ earns the money and the other is about _how much_ is being earned.
Anyways I think that's been enough simping for a night so I'll leave it at that.
@@lindsayluna16 You are good Luna don't worry about it :)
As a man who is 5’4” and hearing those answers, it’s no wonder I haven’t had a date or a match on a serious dating app in over 7 years
That's every guy who isn't 6ft 7 with 3 pilot licences.
For real they need to make a drug to increase our height. This is ridiculous, we have no control of our height!
@@PricefieldPunk Not only height, men need drugs to cure balding and increase penis size and girth too
Bro these do not matter in the real world
Why would that matter on dating apps? Tinder doesn't list height lol
Preferences for height are always so astonishing
had no idea for most of my life (I'm ~6')
@@zerpblerd5966 Same, I live in Europe so we use the chad unit (metric system) and I realised like 2 months ago that I was 6ft tall.
Want to know the kicker? I make 6 figures in USD as I work for a US based company but I work from the UK so, I'm only attractive based on the current exchange rate... Can you imagine, it's the equivalent of never knowing how tall you'll be a day to day basis...
Forex goes up? I'm husband material.
Forex goes down? They call the cops on me...
@@SLRModShop metric is way better than imperial
and eh, the narratives of such are largely false - it's a generalization and mostly weeds out the shallow women
Not only makes them feel safer but being taller than the guy makes them feel bigger when women want to feel small and petite.
I know a guy who is 5'2 who can do 20 pull-ups, runs half marathons, is so funny... These women are missing out.
Hey guys, we should commend and applaud these ladies for putting themselves out there to give us things to discuss and think about regarding what they want in a man. Let’s not disparage them for giving us honest answers. I’m sure we have preferences too. Courtney, I love these videos! Keep them coming! ❤
@@_TulipMania I was gonna say the same thing.. you can tell when they do the little giggle and then give the "right" answer
These disgruntled MGTOWs are for the streets!
The difference is when we say we want a girl who's not overweight, something which is entirely under their control we are misogynistic. But when they want a guy who's 6'4 it's a preference
@@Tondaloona03 buddy get out of your mother’s basement
Fair comments, my friend!
Lexie was the only one that actually had my attention, but her hesitation around answering between the sugar daddy versus husband was pretty telling.
She’s a sweetheart. I think she was just being silly haha
She didn't want to admit the real answer on video.
@@CourtneyRyan Hesitation is a red flag in my book.
@@CourtneyRyan thanks girly! I was definitely just being silly 😜
Your reply was superfun to watch though! :-D
damn, those height answers are brutal. There are a lot of things women are willing to overlook (money, face, not in shape, personality issues) but height is the one exception.
Which is crazy because we have to overlook their weight problem through out their life even though it is within their reasonable control.
I guess " that's just the way it is " -Bruce Hornsby
Still at 6.2 its not that easy and these ladies are a rare breed. Can't believe one forgot she was 28😂😂😭How can guys take them seriously 🤔💭Courtney next time do one with ladies in their mid to late 30s I'm sure it will be a lot different with their answers. Many have husbands and sugar daddies anyway and would go for money over most things even the height. I'm sure if you ask most guys about their experiences you will see another side to what women want the true side especially regarding living at home, financial stability, looks and if they drive or own a car or have a house don't think any of them would even care about the guys personality to be honest. Also next time reduce the earnings £70, 000 is still a lot of money even when compared to £250, 000 lol.
70k isn’t THAT bad. So if you can get both, why not. 😂
@@paulobatuyi She didn’t forget. She wanted to lie because she looks young and knows she can get away with it but she second guessed and told the truth instead 😂 I know. Because I use to do the same 😂
The first question their hesitant to answer tells me they are not being truthful, the 2nd question they say Mr overweight but are already thinking I'm going to fix him and get him to become fit, basically all these different scenarios comes down to a woman saying I'm going for what I want, and we will " fix" him, whatever SHE sees as a " flaw" in him
Being 50 lbs overweight IS a flaw no matter who it is.
So what's wrong with that? And by the way, being 50 lbs overweight is objectively a flaw.
@@alswearengen6427 I think you mean subjectively, not objectively. And no, it's a flaw, period. Being fat is not healthy. Society needs to stop pretending being fat can be a good thing. You fail miserably at living up to Al's personality, who happens to be my favorite show personality ever.
@@Swearengen1980 You're as dense as Johnny Burns, always struggling to fashion a thought. Objectively means it is indisputably a flaw. It is objectively unhealthy to be overweight. Subjective means it is interpretive. So just go away and shoot some dope with Leon before you embarrass yourself any further.
@@alswearengen6427 I know the difference. Starting off with "So what's wrong with that" gave the obvious impression that you were excusing obesity because some guys do like fat chicks. When you start a reply off condemning obesity with " What's wrong with that", it's a logical assumption that you were trying to say it's up to an individual's preference.
The more honest their responses, the more depressing they are. Did you notice the thing no guy can change: height, was the thing that mattered the most. Short guys really are screwed.
Yes. Short guy better chances is overseas.
Penis size and height is all most women care about
Best thing to do is just treat women similarly, if they treat you like shit over penis size, height, looks and things you can't change, just put the same level of evil out to the world hehe
Well, short guys are never screwed. That's their problem.
@@PepsiMagt lol
It's really disheartening to hear that being 5'7, it doesn't matter that I make 200k a year or keep myself fit and treat a lady well. All that matters is what I can't change.
There are chicks that are 5’0” and 5’1”..
@@brent4073 Most of these chicks are 5'2" and shorter.
@@brent4073 Idk if you're on the dating scene but even these girls have outrageous height expectations. The average female is 5'4 in the USA, 3 inches shorter than me and yet my height is the one thing I keep hearing about as the issue.
Get an inversion table... you can add almost 2 inches.
TBH when women are given the ability to handcraft their perfect man, they're far more shallow than in reality. They tend to lack self-awareness and the reality is that most women will go for a guy that is taller than them if they see him as confident and capable.
Regarding men living with parents, you have to look at their situation for sure. I have a friend who moved back in with his parents at the age of 31 because he decided he wanted to be a pilot rather than an aeronautical engineer. This was in the early 90s and he paid on his own which was very expensive. He also didn't work the entire year he was purusing his training. He kicked-out his ratings in about a year, became a flight instructor and then moved to a major US airline literally in a couple of years. They paid him a big salary as a starting first officer (co-pilot). Myself, I started flying in the early 90s with a college program, when I went broke doing that I transferred to a university and they didn't accept the majority of credits so it was like starting over. I lived with parents into my 20s. I had joined ROTC while at university, applied for military flight training and went active duty from there. Every situation is different.
I know a guy who's 39 and moved into a studio apartment on his parent's property. Separate unit in the back and parents live in the big house in the front. He did it because they are charging him super cheap rent in a super expensive area. Dude is saving serious money BUT he tells me women won't date him and even make fun of him for "still living with his mommy" even though, like I said, separate unit, parents are his landlords.
Women are horrific for bullying men who are down on their luck, living at home etc.
The same women of course who once their chips are down and they end up with chronic illnesses or living back at home want you to sympathize.
People are just evil, this is what we need to accept, the fact that woman care so much about if you're living in your parents basement rather than who you are, speaks volumes to what modern women are all about, just superficial social climbers.
I couldn't care if my future partner/woman had 2 pennies to rub together, alot of the nicest women I speak with are women with chronic health problems, who unfortunately still live with their parents because they couldn't ironically magic up 100-200k to outright buy a property lol, shock horror eh
This is the case with American women. Women abroad are much more mature, and value their men.
@@thefox47545- it also comes for men as well.
"Im an independant woman but i want a man to financialy support me and to take care of me"......i dont think so.
Courtney acknowledged our comments about changing up the cast! I do worry about the girls giving socially accepted answers though since they are knowingly being filmed
I think the cast changes each time they film. Notice that the girls' outfits are the same in each video. It's way easier logistically to film several hours of content with a new set of girls every couple months and trickle it out as several videos.
@@SlurMaster9000 you’re right. No wonder the girls have commented saying it was hard to keep track of their responses and have given contradicting answers.
You’re doing a great job Courtney. A lot of reviewers are giving you props for being objective. It may increase your subs. This latest series you’ve done on interviews is the best work by far. I’d love to see panels with different age groups or reactions by men to your work. We see very little men on your channel and I think women would enjoy this as much as men.
Old guy here. Life is a conundrum for most people, especially women. They say one thing, but want another. I myself is one of life’s riddles. I’m 6’2”, moderately fit, I played a lot of basketball and lifted weights, but now that I’m in my 60s, I’ve slowed down put on some weight. Retired now, but at the peak of my profession, I made close to 125k about 15 years ago. Trouble for me was I’m not handsome by any means, 3 maybe close to a 4 on a good day, no game, no confidence, terribly shy. If I hadn’t met my wife waaaay back in the day before cell phones, internet, dating apps, and social media, I’d be a confirmed and bonified bachelor. But fate intervened. This average guy has been married to his average woman for almost 4 decades. We have made it work. I just feel terrible for this generation of men. The modern woman is so crazy delusional. The pickings are really slim. Men, protect yourself at all times.
Yay! I'm glad you brought this game back. These are always fun and illuminating!
Glad you enjoy it! ❤️
And, you are growing to be a very good interviewer, Courtney. Your seamless follow-up questions, very specific to each interviewee's answers, is professional calibre.
This group of girls was a great change of pace from the usuals that you have on here Courtney. Most of them felt way more down to Earth and realistic with their answers and expectations for a man. My personal favorite was Lainey. Hope to see more of her!
I got those Pagani Vibes
Don't get me wrong some of them possibly mean it but trust me most of them are answering in what they believe will paint them in the best light. If Courtney would do these as anonymous surveys you'd get a very different & much more honest picture.
Some of them are not being genuine tho, especially the ones who laugh when the question is presented, they already know the answer but they are afraid of coming across as swallow and act like they are thinking about it.
Never listen to what women say, watch what they do
Yeah I'm going to have to fast forward to the last minute So Courtney gets a view but I can't stomach listening to the cope levels here. I know Street interviews are much harder on you Courtney but most of them are more honest
For real... the girls that said 40k + loyal = bull shit
@@wolfsfroth maybe they are the controlling and abusive type and they want to have the ability to jump ship or cheat without that guy doing the same thing, even though girls tactically try to get guys to break up with them so they can use the sob story as game because we all know women don't have game
Whatever women say,just replace it with ''good looking''
Funny?Good looking
Smart?Good looking
Respectful?Good looking
No all of us are liars
In Austria when you turn 18 and are a male you have to go either 6 months to the military or 9 months to do public service if you are not physically handicapped! I chose to do public service cause the salary was more, about 800€ that time and cause i was afraid of military tbh and all that aggressiveness. So i Became a driver for mental hospital. What shocked me was when i drove patients from hospital to hospital or psychiatric center to another, every place i went LIKE 100 patients 85 were female. And they were not 60, 70 years old they were mostly 16-22 and 35-40 and i will not say any names that’s forbidden but most reason were social-/ anxiety. I asked several colleagues what that meant and i researched and found out that young women can’t live without attention, social circuses and old women die mentally without having a partner so those womens hands were always shaking and they had to take pills to cool down. And the most disturbing part was, they were not like in the movies ugly or dirty or crazy hair etc. i swear to god some were very beautiful and most of them looked completely normal. I asked female social workers cause most are female but very few are honest so one female social worker told me, that older women get mentally depressed when they find no man of fear dying alone and the younger patients were mostly hospitalized cause of other females mentally abusing each other. I almost cried and she said with a sarcastic voice:“ Yeah Sefin, women can be very evil but they always hide it and with most females won’t take accountability of that.“ from the bottom of my heart i wish those souls good luck and please women be gentle to each other
Height can be a bit of a wild card. An attractive female friend, 5'11" and always in stilettos, would give me the occasional snog on a night out. I'm 5'10", and thought she'd never take it any further due to being taller (I'd also previously dated her bestie). She ended up marrying a 5'5" guy, and gave up flirting with the rest of us. He is admittedly good-looking, but you might expect THAT kind of height difference to stop play. Nope. They're still together after 15 years and have three kids.
Short guy tall girl dynamics is hot.
@@Ninjagurl24: So it seems! 🙂
This panel was quite honest, and it was great to hear the positive responses. But they were sincere and "real". They were extremely conscientious of their choices. They seem deeper in the thought of the response.
Courtney Coach Greg is gonna have a fit when he sees this 🤣🤣🤣
I thought that too 😂 he’s so funny lol
The buzzer will be on fire.
I have watched both Courtney, and Greg's channel for a little over a year. I was shocked when he did a reaction to one of her vids a while back😂
Lol my brother is unemployed for years , cheats on every girl friend, treats them like they don't matter.... But because he is extremely good looking and works out all the time .... Wrong will share him reluctantly and pay his bills .... He's been living this way for ten years
how tall is he?
Happy New year Courtney! Thank you for all you did this year!
Aww it’s my pleasure. Thanks for being here! 🥰😊
One question I'd love to see come up is Would you rather be in a non commited relationship with your celebrity crush or in a monogamous one with an all around good man that doesnt have that status?
Hi Courtney, enjoying the videos with the interviews. A suggestion for future videos to bring many of your questions into perspective is to include women who are in a healthy marriage, perhaps a video exclusive to married women. I think that would bring a deeper look into what women actually settle for vs what they say on camera.
You heard it boys, 250k still ain't enough if you're short 🤣
I was in situation where my boyfriend was an 8, but he was still technically living with his parents. We ended up getting married, I was the breadwinner for two years, then he joined the army, got his US citizenship, and now he's the breadwinner. If they're relatively young, they're motivated, and a good person (not lazy per say, just young and working on their realistic goals) chances are things will work out.
Once again proving that if you aren't over 6 foot you're invisible to most women. Don't get me wrong fellas there are girls that understand that height has zero indication of how well a man will provide or protect & it won't be factor when stacked against all your other qualities, pick those women. This obsession with height continues to persist in western culture when other parts of the world see average height men as perfectly fine or downright tall. If she'll pick a tall guy or good looking guy over better indicators of being a good partner then you know she value shallowness over having a healthy long-term relationship. Vet, vet, vet, don't stop vetting until you're absolutely sure she's going to be a good, loving, & loyal partner, don't get bullied into getting married until you're sure of this & absolutely ready to take that leap.
If they are willing, I would like to see you ask this group the same questions you asked the first group in terms of what matters to them (salary, lifestyle, etc), and compare the answers to see which of the two groups on average is more into the entitled lifestyle, and which group is more grounded with reality.
My therapist of many years is a woman. Actually a younger woman.
She told me do not take what women say seriously without actions.
I have had women who say they didn’t love me who did. And I have had women swear they loved me who didn’t.
When my buddy was on Tinder as an example he ended up hooking up with every woman who said they were in it for hook ups.
They told him they just put it on there to be “respectable” but selectively into hook ups.
Money is King!, but.... keep in mind that doesn't mean she will be loyal to the guy. She could still have fun with the broke Chad on the side. The fat dude is more like her 401k if she marries then divorces. She's attracted to his money/stability not the looks, sexual attraction doesn't relate to money but to physical look.
luna is in every video with all questions right protect theeeeeese girls
I see Courtney watched some reaction videos about previous groups so she changed a questions a bit. Kudos for that. Also, I like this group more. Less "model- like" and more looking like an actual human beings.
Deja and i actually are models 😂
Different girls, same attitude, just maybe not as extreme.
Worth noting they haven't been asked anything that asks them to give specific numbers about what they're looking for. Those tend to get the worst responses because 1.) very few women intuitively understand the relevant stats and numbers, 2.) the lines between a "wish list" and dealbreakers tends to get blurred, and 3.) people like to exaggerate their standards to be perceived as "high value".
@@madisons2866 But have you been in Vogue?
Model like? No one in her past group are model like, which made her their answers of entitlement so laughable. Despite Madi's post, I'd have never assumed she was a model, just another attractive gal. Then again, with today's woke ideology, being a model isn't exactly like being a model 20 years ago.
Happy new year Courtney! This year’s content has been full of very good advice! Can’t wait for 2023’s content, hopefully you can get to 500K subscribers ❤
You’re so kind, thank you 🥰
Deja is absolutely stunning
As it comes to the question about living with your parents, I’m 28 and live with my parents, i could move out but I’d be struggling, right now they are essentially roommates that just happen to be family.
I would like to wait to move out whenever i find a woman worth moving in with/marrying.
that’s very fair of a reason to keep living at home
Nothing to be ashamed about brother. People in many countries are on the same boat
Typical lazy entitled millennial
I think that it's just part of the current reality for many young people. I lived with my parents until I was 29, because it took that long for me to pay off most of my school loans.
I paid some rent and grocery money, despite my parents objections, because I couldn't stand feeling like a loafer. But I don't think that I could have made it on my own back then. I truly sympathise for people who don't have that family network to rely on when times are tough.
@@TOhara-eb2lp So you're one of those people. If you're smart, you'll figure it out instantly, but most Americans need everything spelled out. This coming from a country of people trying to score bragging rights by claiming to live out of the parents' house for a moment of glory only to retreat back to into their place once again, and back at square one.
Finding an affordable place of our own that fits our needs perfectly and is not as simple as having enough money. Unless you have a good network, it's also a matter of luck because vacant houses and apartments don't just appear out of nowhere. Unless you own land, materials, and have the skills of an architect and a civil engineer, all you have is luck
I'd also be interested in seeing a more age diverse pool of women. Not just 20 year old girls, but some in their 30's and even 40's
Genuinely I like all the girls here, they mostly seem more interesting than the first group. Deja & and the girl with the Willy Wonka Bomber jacket (I didn’t catch her name) are my favorites
I also like Deja and her mammary glands
"I like to wear heels." You hear that all the time. Forget money, it's amazing how many women in this country would pick shoes over a good man.
Safety is not a reason for not dating a shorter guy. If you are really in danger, Smith & Wesson works the same for a 5'7 guy as it does for a 6'4 guy.
Yes, but the preference evolved in a time when there were no guns. Back in the stone age. But genetics change slowly, so the preference is still here.
Are you telling us to go ER?
Exactly, but they don't care about any of that. To them, they don't look at the 5'7 guy as as much of a man as the 6'4 guy.
Been married couple times. Made many mistakes on my part but never cheated or abusive and been pretty fit my whole life. My biggest complaint is women who do not keep their weight in check. Just bad matches on our parts.
What they say isn’t necessarily what they’ll choose. There is a channel called Ana Psychology who covered the issue of selection discrepancies via peer reviewed research. Basically people would make compromises and stray from their ideal requirements to be with someone. Moreover, research shows that if the other person is rich, they will throw out their deal breakers out the window to be with that person. The video is about 30 min long and it’s called “Why the ideal partner may not matter”.
I'm surprised how reasonable most of these gals were with some of these questions.
As for the 5'10 gal, good luck in finding a man who is taller than she is. Men who are 6ft or taller make up only 14.5% of the US population (10% worldwide). Add salary, looks, education and personality to mix, the percentage gets lower. So she cannot afford to be too picky but glad she isn't, admitting she wouldn't mind dating a shorter man so long as he's confident (which is sexy).
No joke, I once told these statistics to someone and they didn't believe me. I then told them to look around them (we were in a mall downtown at the time) and see if they could spot a 6ft or taller man..... Not a single one was around. The tallest was 5'10, same as my friend who was with us at the time.
I find her very attractive physically and pretty good personality - I wonder if I could turn her into a farmer?! haha jk, don't try and change people!
funny, I am just 1/8" away from being 6', so I don't enter the stats of 6'+, but, c'mon now...
So, some of these ladies were clearly being honest and at least a couple had me in stitches!! Another factor massively at play here is women may answer honestly but with logic and it still is a total inaccuracy in the real world because attraction rarely makes sense, it's a feeling. Interesting content, I'll look forward to more ad free videos like this :)
I'm 5'7" and 50 years old. I have never had a girlfriend. I gave up. It's too psychologically damaging knowing that you can never be good enough. I really feel for younger guys on here who are less than 5'10".
Im 35 and you wouldnt want these type of women to be your girlfriend bro
they fuck your head up, make you mentally ill over things you cant even help or change about your body until it actually makes you physically unwell inside
I mean overdosing on drugs, trying to end your life, destroying yourslf, whilst these women that courtney interviews get intense sexual pleasure watching men being driven to suicide its not right lol
It's natural selection in action. It's why men are taller than women in the first place.
Courtney I think it's really great that you did this with women that are I would consider halfway normal and not IG models or only fans girls like most of the manosphere channels. There are a lot of women out there that are looking for a man. Who aren't going to be crazy and cheat and only in it for bags in a house and the divorce grape them and things like that they really want to build a home in a family. These women need to have more exposure. Even some of the women who defend the men seem to get this whole concept incorrect because the women that they interview aren't the type of women who are going to be faithful aren't the type of women who want to have kids or have family and most of them are materialistic so it's very refreshing to have you do this. Good job.
Im actually surprised that none of the ladies ever mention about the guys living at home with their parents, because of their cultural upbringing. In many cultural backgrounds, you only move out once you're done with school or when you're married. Or even the guy who is taking care of his parents as they get older
After all the different questions and answers its still pretty clear if you combine their answers for each person profile, that they want money, status, loyalty handsome guy, the dream, its just about how can thet aswer the questions so it wouldnt give them bad picture of them.
As a 5'6" man myself, I back those short vs tall answers.
Even when being "handsome" they still choose any other guy who's taller.
Reality is, whenever I am sit women do look at me a lot, however the moment I stand they always change their face expression to "what a shame". You can see the disappointment in her eyes. It is brutal.
It's an evolved trait. In the stone age, females needed a big man who could protect her and her children from wolves and other cavemen. And then the preference stuck in our genes.
LL or cope
I enjoyed hearing the candid responses of your interviewees. great questions. great conversation.
Watching these at 5'5 might be a painful experience, but they're weirdly addicting lol
If this is painful, hopefully you will build a tolerance. Stay strong
@@Splashtoise Yeah, it used to bother me a lot more in highschool, I'm a lot better now. Thanks, mate
I know the pain :))) still bothers me today lol
@@mihai5859 Good thing I have a sense of humour I guess :))
It's over for shortcels bro
You should do one like this asking about disabilities and see what their responses are to that like vision loss, and other common disabilities and see what their answers are today
So if I was keeping score correctly, nothing else matters if you’re 6 feet or taller, you’re good. Because that was the only answer where the short guy wasn’t picked, not even once.
Yeah but the short guy presented here is 5’4. That’s like the bottom 20% of men.
The true answer for most women:
-They'd choose the guy with a lot more money then cheat on him with the other option.
This year, I went on six dates with this one woman who went to my college, whom I met on a dating app, and told me she felt a connection, was interested in me, and I was even given good input from her friends, only for her to leave me for a guy she has not seen in years, who eventually turned out to be a clingy, abusive alcoholic. They broke up for a week, but she decided to be a simp and reconcile with him, while lucid enough to know he was a shitty influence. I take it as an insult that she left me for a guy like him since I basically had my shit together, busted my ass to make a decent living, and would’ve done wonders to make her feel protected and loved.
people have trauma they are dealing with that has nothing to do with you but her own stuff
She belong to the streets.
Funny how that works, she is a bad decision maker so you dodged a bullet anyways.
You are very lucky
If a woman does not have sex with you by date 3, she is not sexually attracted to you.
My best friend is 6'7", I'm 5'7" he regularly notes if a zombie apocalypse or anything goes down, his plan is to find me and ask me what the plan is. Combat veteran, international paramedic/ security professional for diplomats, versus a chef. Now yes we have both been in our fair share of fights and grew up fighting each other. While I'm on the streets by myself, I travel quickly from point A-B, while alone I do not carry, but I do not have to no criminal is going to try and assault a muscular looking man who is only wearing gym shorts, a pair of crossfit nanos, and might have a cell phone on him. The risk is not worth the reward, criminals are generally cowards. If I had a partner or family to protect, I have my concealed carry thanks to my career, and know I'm willing to use it.
Lmao that red girl said she doesn't care about looks, money, or age.
Yet at every option chose the rich guy 💀
2:36 From a guy's perspective, it really depends on why Guy #2 is living with his parents, as the reasons could vary widely. On one hand, it could be because Guy #2 needs to take care of his parents due to medical conditions, or that he has nowhere else to call home due to tragic events(breakups, domestic violence, prev. home destroyed) and is rebuilding himself, in that case he's a keeper; on the other hand, he could be just leeching off his parents or being a papa & mama's boy, of which are huge red flags; then you've got even crazier circumstances in which dysfunctional parents keep their son in their place so they could control him better(yes this happens more than you'd expect), and in this case it really comes down to what he is doing about the situation: Is he complacent, or is he trying to work himself out of it? And has his personality warped by his parents, or is he still a good man doing his best to get things right?
I would be interested in seeing a study on ten men and women where they have a list of characteristics that hold value (i.e. looks, income, age, lifestyle..) and we can see how each person thinks they would rate compared to how they are viewed by the opposite sex. It’ll give a perspective on what is important to the opposite sex.
I base my entire preferences on what is a good human being entirely on the height of a human and their penis size lol
aka modern women for you lol
interesting how the women said they wanted a "breadwinner" but in a separate question, when given the choice between a guy who is 5'4" and makes $250k and a guy who is 6'2" and only makes $70k, they went for the 6'2" guy lol. makes you wonder....
They would take the 5”4 pay attention to what they do not what they say. They just didn’t want to sound like goldiggers
@@keonhobgood1551 I doubt it, but if they do they would cheat on the 5'4 with 6'2 Chad lol
They want it all
Great video! Love the style. I would like to know the more info on the women answering the questions. Height, weight, income etc. I think it’s fair for a women who has standards that include those stats to also disclose those stats. Men have standards too.
The data itself sure would be awesome for Courtney, but for gathering purposes and future analysis without mentioning names. Here on these kinda videos sounds more dangerous, than helpful, cuz of internet reasons.
"I feel like, with taller guys, I will feel more protected...If we are out, and a situation happens, he can for sure protect me"...
You can hear these sentiments echoed from numerous women and it perplexes me. If you have a preference for height, cool, just say that. But height has nothing to do with survival skills, fighting ability/technique, or how capable of a protector a man is. Going further, taller people are statistically more likely to suffer serious injury from everyday accidents and falls compared to shorter people in similar circumstances. In the extreme, if you find yourself in an active shooter situation, the tallest people in the room are also the biggest/easiest targets. The one advantage they do have over shorter people is that if they are reasonably in shape, they can probably run away from danger faster than you thanks to having a longer stride...which doesn't help you at all.
Attempting to correlate height to an increase in survival/protection literally makes no sense. Where is this sentiment coming from? For the sex that is supposedly evolutionarily wired to value "protection" in their mate selection strategy, it is puzzling that there are so many examples of women not knowing what "protection" looks like.
Hi Courtney! Love what you're doing.
I noticed most of the women seemed to be 20s-30s. Obviously, what men and women look for evolves over their lifespan.
I'm 51. I'm not interested in dating anyone younger than about 45. Have you considered doing one of these videos for those of us in "Prime Time"?
This was very enlightening for someone in the modern age. I go after girls who are 3-5 inches shorter unless they don't wear heels and who have nice curves and want children and are 25-35. I do worry about the guys who are tall but whose frames are too skinny.
So in conclussion you are attractive if you earn a lot. Unless you are short then this don;t matter and just give up.
I’m so glad I found Courtney’s thread this year. The content is always top. And this one is among the best.
height over everything when it comes to women.
Tall women answer -'I'm tall so I need a tall guy'
Short women answer -'I want to feel protected, so Tall guy for me tehe'
Its even more important than finances, morals, personality, You name it smh.
Women want tall men is rampant in 2022 on social media so guys under 6 feet going get overlook they don’t exist
One thing I've notice about these kinds of questions that these women answer is that they still try to get their cake and eat it too. Even when presented with a question where it's one option or the other, they always try to get both. Like, fit guy but broke or rich guy but fat, they say uumm the rich guy cuz he can go to the gym and work out, so in the end, she gets both a fit and rich guy. Umm, no, that's not how this works. It's one or the other, period.🙄
Money should never matter in a relationship. But I'm old and old school. Love, loyalty and being together. God provides the rest.
I like this group of women. Especially Luna--she looks like someone I would run into at an art gallery.
It is interesting that although this group of women seems to be much more in touch with reality than the previous one, there are patterns that are visible in both groups. They are written in the DNA. Also interesting is the tendency to give the answer that would be less socially punished in most cases.
"In touch with reality" how? They want a guy that's earning 50 - 70k and they aren't interested in guys still living at home with his parents at 30 when we're in a housing crisis and no single guy can move out as he's being paid less and women are being paid more then men today. So how are these women in touch with reality if anything their out of touch as they said their only interested in a guy earning over 70 k and if he's still living with his parents at 30 it's a big no no. I'd love to see these women living in Ireland cause they'd get a huge wakeup call.
@@emperorsean1 I'm speaking in contrast to the previous group where one brat wanted a 30 year old husband making $650,000 a year and another wanted a Lamborghini... this group seems like a small step up from the previous one...
I didn't say they were perfect or reasonable ... :)
Hate to say it, but its because they are less attractive than the previous group so they've had to set more realistic standards for themselves.
@@superbob24 good point
People need to stop gaslighting short men into thinking that the reason they can't get a date is because of how they act. Most women will reject a short guy regardless of any other positive trait he might have.
@@mozzarellastick749 The difference is that people don't gaslight women into thinking that the real problem is their personality.
These vids are great. They show unbiased opinions of the average woman's values so we know better how to navigate what they cherish. As men we definitely value different things so it's good to know what we need to work on too.
These are all fashion girls out of college… they are in no way the average girl.
O.M.G.!! The sophisticated lady (Michaela) with the black coat and green top is just drop-dead gorgeous!! More interviews with her!
My brother always said “the number one thing ALL women want is SECURITY “
Whether it is physical or financial
Security is her priority
Real talk!!! They usually chose the opposite in real life situation, just for instance, most of them choose the loyal guy who dont have enough money but i bet they just chosed it in front of camera just to look good for the audience in reality they wont mind choosing the 6 digit guy who has sidechicks right and left.
80% of these women are below 5’5 in height and “my man has to be 6’4 regardless of any red flags.” RIP to attractive men below 6’4 or even 6’0 for that matter. “As long as he’s loyal, I’ll take him” - western women over 30
85% of men under 6 feet though
@shayaan qazi @ronmake look at the positives of all of this. There's only about 15% of men above 6'0.... which means not all women can have themselves a tall men. We get to watch the women compete against each other and be jealous of each other and turn on each other and share the same man and then wonder why that man cheats as he has so many options and then they cry and say where did all the good men go. Lets sit back and watch the show!!!
"I jUsT fEeL LiKe iF wE wErE oUt, aNd a SiTuAtiOn hApPeNed, (a taller guy) coULd pRoTeCT mE!1"
"Ok, and what situation has happened to you where you've needed protection from a guy based solely on his height?"
"...................................................................................................."
This group, overall, is more reasonable/grounded. Thank you Courtney! Still.....Certain "stereotypes" of western women are being proven to be flat out reality, particularly for the "sistas"! 🤣😂🤣
I really think this video was an improvement from the last set of questions! I especially liked your follow up questions after their initial answers. Thanks for the content Courtney
"I'm an independent woman but I want someone that take care of me financially"
What’s hers is hers, and what’s yours is also hers lol
I really loved this video! Was having fun answering from home! Please do more of this content!!
Nice video as always Courtney, I usually get bombarded with all this Red Pill stuff from F&F and Tate and what not but never do I see actual quality women in those videos, only IG "models" and OnlyFans "entrepreneurs" so it's refreshing to see women who understand the actual value of money for example and don't all jump and ask for 250k a year man
I've been watching videos for a couple of months now and I really appreciate the perspective of a classy women. Some girls could definitely learn a lot here. Great work! Also after watching couple of "Would you rather.." videos it's great to see a different perspective but irl I don't think the answers would be the same. i think a date decision a woman makes is based on emotions that man can bring and then it doesn't mean much if you are short. Also it's rly interesting to see how much different women in USA are than in Europe. Anyway keep doing what u doing cus u make great content!
I'm not sure who I loathe more:
daddy's little princesses with top 0.1% requirements and bottom 0.1% sense of reality vs. (subpar) men who feel entitled to (hot) women and criticize them for their biological desires (height, attractiveness, well-off)
Again, excellent work here. I would LOVE to see a group of 30-32-35-39 year old's response to this and other questions you've asked in the past. I'm betting there will be some significant shifts in responses and priorities but regardless, it will be a telling reveal. One other thing I would suggest is an anonymous poll and sharing those results without it being on video. You might get different answers without the responders thinking they'll be judged.
Circumstances and technicalities for these scenarios would swing my choice one way or the other. I would be terrible for this exercise because I’d have so many follow up questions lol
This series is like Tinder. They're one-dimensional and always either one or the other AKA swipe left or right for this scenario. I hope people realize that these are mostly silly and fun, but also valuable in their own ways
9:19 crazy how women nowadays always act like they're independent, but when it comes to money none of them wants to be the provider. Seems like the independency only occurs in conjunction to their seggs life
I'll reiterate comments already made. I am 55 and from experience with woman of a number of nationalities and types, I can tell you this: What women say and what they do in reality is poles apart.