I have owned 6 abys in my life. They were all very sweet and each had their own unique characteristics and behaviors. I generally think the males are a bit more affectionate but you really can’t go wrong either way. Our last female was wonderful but passed away at 12 years old. She used to sit on my lap while watching the tv or reading and went to bed with me every night. I miss her every time I think of her, which is often. I still have a male and he’s 15 1/2 now but still hanging in there and he is a loving and affectionate companion. I will be heartbroken when his time comes.
Would you say the male or female Abys are the most affectionate?
I have owned 6 abys in my life. They were all very sweet and each had their own unique characteristics and behaviors. I generally think the males are a bit more affectionate but you really can’t go wrong either way. Our last female was wonderful but passed away at 12 years old. She used to sit on my lap while watching the tv or reading and went to bed with me every night. I miss her every time I think of her, which is often. I still have a male and he’s 15 1/2 now but still hanging in there and he is a loving and affectionate companion. I will be heartbroken when his time comes.