A gay Pakistani medical resident in the U.S. shares his story of coming out.
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- Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024
- www.mensstoryproject.org Hamid Bashir was born and raised in Pakistan, the youngest of four siblings, and came to the U.S. post 9/11 to pursue training in medicine and rheumatology. His
story, entitled "What Are They Going to Say About You?", is about making difficult choices and finding his own path while diverging from a traditional Pakistani way of life-yet finding common ground between Eastern and Western cultures.
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I personally commend this guy to be standing up on stage and saying those words. It all sounds so familiar and courageous. Its not a choice, its not an option, its not unnatural, its not a disease. Its only the people who have made up those words, for what? in order to keep the culture and what the culture is going to say about it. Live and let live.
Indian and Pakistani that all bassterd
@@arifparacha6835 How ironic the country with highest gay porn and animal porn consumption is the most homophobic.
The quran says its a choice, it's unnatural. And a sick option
@@zedzed2625 Show me where? Quote me exactly the aayat that says that. Dont say it references, or indicates, or means, or talking about. Tell me where it 'says' like you are claiming. And if you cant find it, then dont respond. Its sad for people to blindly claim things and make false information.
@@SalmanShaf so,] whenever they commit a shameful deed, they are wont to say, "We found our forefathers doing it," and, "God has enjoined it upon us." Say: "Behold, never does God enjoin deeds of abomination. Would you attribute unto God something of which you have no knowledge?
The people of Lut here are saying God made them born gay.
Behold never does God enjoin deeds of abomination - Allah does make people be born gay. Thus its a choice. Also Allah has reffered to it as abomination. AKA. Unnatural.
This one Verse has said. It's unnatural. AKA not born with it. Thus a choice. And Allah himself called it abomination. AKA fucking sick
Now show me In quran where being g gay is ok. Explain to me using FACTS how gay is a natural and not a choice.
Becuase if you are fucked by man. And say its not a choice. Then you are raped. Answer only my questions. Don't change the topic or try run and hidebb
Thanks for being so brave to share these words in front of everyone
The best part was "The whole family pushes you back and move with you into the closet" lolz
Moving - very moving , there was no glamour ,just speaking truthfully & that's the beauty .Wish him all the best in his journey - i am doing it too ( the journey ) over here.Bless you.
"And what and who comes along is a bonus." Exactly. That's how it should be.
"Gracefully let go of things not meant for you". Bravo
Very inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thanks bro for this inspiration
Can i share of my store
Iam also gay bottom but it's very tough to find or keep partner or relationship ❤
The best moment was I found the love of my life😎😂
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I'm also #Gay.....and I full support of Gay community in #Pakistan.... it's natural it's not a desire.....I have accepted myself.... I'm Muslim myself Alhumdulillah and I condme against same sex....but if you are homosexual it's not a sin it's natural and common....but unfortunately we have no gay rights in #pakistan....I want to work on gay rights in #pakistan.....love from#Karachi,,,
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@@muhammadzeeshan5504 hi
Give me your contact details I want contact you
Plz stop fucking anymore,shut your damn mouth up,it's our Muslim country
Nice to hear you. Thanks
Quite amazing and realistic.
Hey I'm from Pakistan
Am also gay from Pakistan
Is it true that finding sex is not a problem, but finding a relationship is impossible?
What is his name?
Very brave and inspirational words!
So relatable.... Bless him 🙏❤️
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Interesting, my parents were more worried about what they would say about them...
❤️❤️❤️love from lebanon!!!
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Well done on standing up for yourself. Everything that is in nature is natural.
Loved😍😘
He so cute even I will go gay for him💖
@High Octane Content You too
How can I contact him?
Ew
@@tayluvofficialthey're all fucked up
I live in Pakistan and I want to contact you
@@khawarwazir1774 fine thanks
@@khawarwazir1774 abbottabad and you
@@ranaromai7784 me peshawar
@@ranaromai7784 amazing you are in abbotabad
@@khawarwazir1774 why are you amazing
India is also same gay life is incredibly difficult
At least it is not illegal in India. Also big cities are now very gay friendly
@@monisingh771 actually in my town no one knows the difference between transgender and gay so u can imagine how much difficult it will be for us who have to hide himself from everyone
Well done.
Great story man 🏳️🌈👍🏾
Tell me you're a funded indian without telling me that you're a funded indian
Ge got some sense though..
I am very disappointed in the presentation overall .. Im glad you came out, but you didn't have to do it at the cost of bantering Pakistan or Islam. Gay men have faced problems regardless of religious association or geography .. focus on yourself and try to be happy. Next time, dont bring my country or religion into your stories. Thank you
Don't take it serious, I know many guys who declare there self a gay and apply asylum for permanent residency.
minhaj nasir Kindly educate yourself on how doctors and other highly educated individuals gain permanent residency in other countries. There is always some merit in seeking truth and drive oneself out of the darkness of ignorance. And I always encourage others to go out there, learn, travel and explore if possible. A stagnant mind only collects dust and rust. Peace out my friend.
How could he not bring his country and religion into it, when that is a major part of the problem - and still continues to be. It is a criminal offence in Pakistan, which is basically like saying it's a crime to be human. It always makes me laugh when people say it is a choice. Do you honestly think if presented with the choice, someone would choose the harder road? And I put this to you - if it is a choice, then you could also "choose" to be that way. Give it a try for a week, see how you go....
Yes yes everyone knows about the level of hypocrisy in Pakistan.. religious extremist rule your lives and refuse to progress,No wonder it's going to stay a third world country for the rest of it's days .stop bulling people who are struggling.how can this guy focus on his happiness when idiots like you make it your job to bully and oppress . your country is trash and so are you bye
When his religion and country stop interfering in HIS life he will gladly stop bringing them in his discussion...
Im Gay
are a pakistani aswell?
@@raze-x8093 I'm Hindustani
@@raze-x8093,
Hi! I'm Davy and I'm from Thailand. I live here Fresno, California in United States Of America. I'm Gay Ladyboy. I'm fighting my self for my right that I'm love with man. I love Pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@Simratrautbhatt108 ,
Your spelling of Gey almost right. But "E" between g and y to take "E" out. The spelling is "Gay"
@@veechaleun5113 well we love u back darling, but there are couple of religious people that will not understand you. :(
I am gay
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Imam,leads the prayer not leader😅
haram
Quite amazing and realistic.