I don't necessarily agree with the first point. Emotional dependence on someone is not anxiety, it is a very common trait of romantic love. That's how our brain evolved through millions of years. Employing the idea that this person is probably not the one is not very beneficial too. Being nonchalant about a love is absolutely pointless to me.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. There’s a difference between being emotionally connected to someone and being so anxious you literally can’t function until you get a text back. If you haven’t dealt with anxious attachment personally you might not understand the experience but it’s not about emotional dependence at that point, it’s a very high anxiety and fear that isn’t even about the other person but deeper things. In my experience the majority of my clients who were freaking out this much about a guy were freaking out about the wrong person and healing is when they found the right one. ❤
If you're anxious,it's probanly because your partner is making you that way by not being very affectionate, which probably means they're just not that onto you.
I’m sure this could be one scenario however there’s many reasons for being anxious other than it being your partner not being affectionate. Anxious attachment has more to do with the persons inner world than the person they’re dating but anxious attachment people tend to attract those who avoid and who can’t meet their needs ❤
I don't necessarily agree with the first point.
Emotional dependence on someone is not anxiety, it is a very common trait of romantic love. That's how our brain evolved through millions of years.
Employing the idea that this person is probably not the one is not very beneficial too. Being nonchalant about a love is absolutely pointless to me.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. There’s a difference between being emotionally connected to someone and being so anxious you literally can’t function until you get a text back. If you haven’t dealt with anxious attachment personally you might not understand the experience but it’s not about emotional dependence at that point, it’s a very high anxiety and fear that isn’t even about the other person but deeper things. In my experience the majority of my clients who were freaking out this much about a guy were freaking out about the wrong person and healing is when they found the right one. ❤
If you're anxious,it's probanly because your partner is making you that way by not being very affectionate, which probably means they're just not that onto you.
I’m sure this could be one scenario however there’s many reasons for being anxious other than it being your partner not being affectionate. Anxious attachment has more to do with the persons inner world than the person they’re dating but anxious attachment people tend to attract those who avoid and who can’t meet their needs ❤