@Gaurav: Great comment and observation. 🌟 It is freeing not to be all wapped up in ourselves. If we are humble we can see around us so much clearer and appreciate others easily. 😊
Having studied and practiced Buddhism for many years, I understand that nothing is permanent and grasping onto expectations to the contrary can lead to suffering. However, I've had a few big losses as of recent and the timing of this message couldn't have been better as a reminder of the nature of impermanence. I am so grateful to have found Eckhart. 🙏
You just explained my relationship with my late husband perfectly. We were 2 peas in a pod. When he died of Huntington's Disease, I was content knowing he was free of a nasty disease that took away everything from him. But I miss him terribly. My grief ebbs and flows. I will laugh at something that I know he'd appreciate. Or cry when I hear a song we enjoyed together. Paradoxical for sure. ❤️
@@Justbeoktoday thank you. Trust me, I know he's with me all the time. He puts song lyrics as messages into my head. He shows signs like ladybugs when I need it (his favorite insect). He sends hearts in various ways as well - I found a rock shaped like a heart the other day. Occasionally I hear his voice or feel his presence even though I can't see him. I know he's here. ❤️❤️
@@Justbeoktoday We are 2 strangers, we know nothing about each other, what we look like... where we are in the world....nothing, yet your words touched my heart and tears fell when I read your reply. How beautiful and kind you are ❤
It is through unconditional love (total acceptance of what is) that we realize there really isn’t anything that exists except for Love ItSelf. The belief in separation completely and entirely dissolved in love. The ego is dissolved in unconditional love, leaving only liberation. This is manifested as the deep peace and joy that is seen in Eckhart that many “people” long for.
The worst is getting anxiously attached to an illusion & projection of who you wish someone were. Falling in love with someone you basically entirely imagined is an absolute embarrassing mind eff every darn time😂
@@liteazwell1913 no problem. I think it’s important people know that they aren’t alone. It decreases shame, which is one of the most painful kinds of suffering. We’re human and we falter. Awareness & compassion can help prevent us from repeating the same cycles💖 You’ll have more understanding and awareness the next time you have feelings for someone- and more likely to see them for who they truly are. We usually imagine/project ideals on to people due to an unmet need from early childhood. We can try to meet these needs by reparenting ourselves. It’s hard, non-linear work though!! 😂
Unconditional LOVE is free of attachment or expectation. I love you, if you choose to receive it's joyful uplifting intent. Peace to the collective, joy to all sentient beings. 💞
I think this may be helpful to someone. We struggle with the same issue and the most primary issue:- attachment. Perhaps we need to practice seeing things change, breaking, disappearing and causing nonexistence in meditation. Same for people. Attachment is the good pictures we have for them. Our memories, love for them etc. But we need to see them as separate individuals (not an extension of ourselves like he says), who posses bodies that get sick, stink, get old and wrinkly and eventually die and decay. It's a meditation in Buddhism, if you're interested you could look upto it. I feel like I'm finally ready to see the reality, the fact that things exist slowly becoming nonexistent the most natural ways. It's a soul lesson, to love something with non-attachment, and at the same time, accept the fact that it can change and not exist at all some day.
This came at the perfect moment! Synchronous as I was going to bed and this popped up on my screen in Australia. I had been concerned about my adult daughter in a dangerous relationship. Bless 🙏🏽
Yes, takes time and reprogramming but “non-attachment” is not about not caring about loved-ones. It’s about cultivating presence and the frequencies of the heart to recognize who you are as Spirit which actually enhances your ability to love and care about others. Attachment diminishes your ability to open the heart and connect with the divine..
It is absolutely true 🙏. When you have loved a person so much who leaves you to cross the great Threshold, the pain you feel plunges you into another and vast dimension and the pain rests on an immense peace that has the feeling of Eternity. This peace allows you to continue living and above all, it whispers to you what really seems paradoxical: the love you feel for those who passed away grows instead of dying out in despair. No one leaves, love stays forever. AMEN.🙏💓
I had a serious accident about a year ago and totaled my car. I really liked that car and people told me “that car IS you”. Two months later, when I felt I could drive again I found my dream car, with very little effort or searching, perfect color and model, for $2500 less than my insurance gave me for the wrecked car. I felt like I had manifested it but I certainly didn’t do that consciously. I have been listening to you, Elkhart, I’ve read your books and you have been a huge influence on me, along with other teachers, A Course in Miracles, and Buddhist thought. I really like my car again but realize all the material world, including our bodies are impermanent. Thank you, so much, Elkhart, for your beautiful teachings.
One of the best explanations on attachment that I've seen. It's a really difficult subject, and I've struggled with it a lot. I have BPD and so this is very typical. Thank you Eckhart 🙏💛✨️
I do the same with my car and all my posessions for years now! 🤭❤️ I‘m always thankful for anything that I own in my life, but I am also no longer identified with all these things! 😇 Life as a human being is such a gift! 🙏
Eckhart I want you to know something. Your teachings are helping me so so much. I have read your book and have listened to it 3 times now. I went through a huge life experience last year which was a situation involving me walking away from the family courts as my ex partner has made my life hell with regards to my daughter and I actually choose to walk away. It caused me to have what I can only explain as a huge mental break down, I also worked in the funeral industry which also didn’t help. The trauma I have gone through and decisions I made have had such a huge impact on me and my mental health that the only thing that has genuinely kept me going is your teachings. I am currently suffering with derealisation and depersonalisation from the intense anxiety I have gone through, but I feel as if I am finally having small break throughs each day with feeling present. Thank you for helping me Eckhart.
I am going through the same. My ex wife has taken the kids, had me arrested and made up everything. Being destroyed in court and watching lies win has caused me to mentally break down. You are not alone. I'm trying to see my way through this as well.
Attachment and Jealousy are impurities in Love. Love is God. Attachment is pain. Through spiritual practices attachments are to be transformed into Love. Love your children. Don't be attached to them. ❤️
Greetings from Chattanooga, TN. I understand what you are talking about. It's like something fits or doesn't fit and when it fits it's a marvel to view.
Surprise surprise I saw Eckhart in Sydney 3 years ago I think.He will be here again this coming Saturday ,I did not intend to go again but my beloved daughter Genevieve bought me auvket as a surprise ❤❤❤❤
Ecckahart hocam, 27 yaşındayım sosyal fobi ve deprasyon ikisini beraberinde yaklaşık 7 yıldır inişli çıkışlı yaşıyorum. İnşallah sizinle beraber bu durumu atlatırım . Kendi özümü bulmak, bir toplum da kendim olmak, olduğum halimle değer görmek en çok istediğim şey. Öz olmak , özde kalmak inşallah olacak. Kendime bakınca kitabınızı okuyunca sizde kendimi gördüm. Benzer yaşlarda benzer sorunlar yaşıyorum. Uyanmak dileğiyle, Herşey için teşekkürler. Minnettarım.🌸
This was a great explanation of attachment. But from the title I was expecting the talk to be more about actual attachment styles. Great video nonetheless ✨️
This video offers a great insight into the concept of non-attachment and how it can be applied to relationships. It is an interesting and thought-provoking perspective.
This is good information for me to use. I had a paranormal (Clair-something) message I was supposed to marry a man I just met. I wasn’t happy but did it anyway. I divorced him ten years later and now that my second husband died he wants back in. He has an unhealthy attachment to me. Narcissistic empath deal. I have to cut off communication and I am gathering strength through education. Thank you
Tolle never talks about loss of relationship with a child who still lives but doesn’t want the relationship. No doubt the same advice applies probably the same pain applies as to a death, it’s a death of sorts.
As much as I love Eckhart this was not a talk about Anxious Attachment Style or any other attachment style. I suspect whoever runs this channel has no idea of the differences and has labelled it incorrectly.
Where stops helping peoples (family) with getting just attention while there is no progress in their situation or behaviour ? I'm so tired giving advices .
My daughter recently told me she was happier without me in her life. She mentioned I could still have a relationship with the children. It’s complicated. My heart is broken in half. I don’t know how to get through this.
Best thing you can do is take care of yourself. Meditation and prayers. Self reflection. Ask yourself why would she think that way? Own your part of the problem. Once you've done this and made appropriate changes. Your higher power will lead you and her back together in time. Lots of love and blessings to you both ❤️
Time will heal, Accept what is, Trust what will be and be Grateful for everything. Accept the situation as it, at this moment in time, Trust this situation will change naturally by itself in time, and be Grateful for the knowledge and certainty that below the surface everything is ok and is always going to be OK. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I once had a motorcycle which l had an unhealthy love for and one day many years ago someone stole it during the night . It was a lit bazaar or surreal as it left me in complete shock and devastation for a long time afterwards 😱💙🙏💯
⚠️ Most of the time I feel no necessity to have a second life, or having an eternal life. For what ? Isn't this life sufficient ? Why human beings have this urge to be eternal ? What's the problem into becoming nothing ? You won't feel anything. We were nothing for billions of years. Indeed we are already nothing. We have a day, an appointment to become nothing again. I can't see why this isn't pointless. Everything is ultimately pointless. Accept that, and it's fine. 🎉🎉❤
I've been learning about attachment styles in my psychology course and that's how I found out I have an anxious attachment style. I didn't know it was possible to heal from it, so thank you for your wisdom. I've lost family members but still felt their presence. For example, I've smelt my deceased family member's perfume around me. What could this mean?
I hope that this question will be presented to Eckhart and answered. Is the ego attached to the reality of things as they are, or is it attached to its perceptions and ideas about things?
Regarding attachment to things in order to enhance the ego. What about certain tools a worker needs to do certain kinds of work ? Examples ??? There are hobbyists or shop owners who have quite a collection of tools. Some of those folks could not make a living without them. Their job description may be Machinist, or Welder, or Furniture maker. Not everyone is an intellectual. Even intellectuals write books. Their tools may be a computer, typewriter, or just a pad of paper and pencil. Those tools define who they are because of what they do . . . their profession. Without attachment to those tools they would have no trade, no job, no profession, no income. Comments ?????????????????????????????
_"Regarding attachment to things in order to enhance the ego.... Without attachment to those tools they would have no trade, no job, no profession, no income."_ It seems like you answered your own question. Earning a living -- choosing tools based upon value, reliability, quality vs expediency -- isn't "to enhance ego." Attachment would be image over substance. The entrepreneur who drives a luxury car, fine clothing, exclusive home. All because that's what an entrepreneur should have if they're successful. Being the image before being successful.
@@markfuller good answer. And i expected that because i know that Mr. Tolle means exactly what you said. But some folks define themselves (and hence their ego) by what they do well or do best. These honest workers do NOT place mere appearance above real skill and real accomplishment. I believe there are such people. Just as there are shallow and dishonest workers. Thanks for your answer. Update: Some folks have the strange notion that life is meant to be enjoyed . . . and that work also is meant to be enjoyable. So why not enhance your enjoyment of work you do well ???? If ego is your pleasure . . . then why not ????
One Eckhart's video a day keeps the EGO away 😍
..And his own ego must be lapping up all the praise you lot are giving him, lol!
It is true I have experienced it.😄👍💗
@Gaurav: Great comment and observation. 🌟 It is freeing not to be all wapped up in ourselves. If we are humble we can see around us so much clearer and appreciate others easily. 😊
This isn't Eckhart Tolle's channel; he has his own website.
Haha. Perfect!!
Having studied and practiced Buddhism for many years, I understand that nothing is permanent and grasping onto expectations to the contrary can lead to suffering. However, I've had a few big losses as of recent and the timing of this message couldn't have been better as a reminder of the nature of impermanence. I am so grateful to have found Eckhart. 🙏
Iiiij
You just explained my relationship with my late husband perfectly. We were 2 peas in a pod. When he died of Huntington's Disease, I was content knowing he was free of a nasty disease that took away everything from him. But I miss him terribly. My grief ebbs and flows. I will laugh at something that I know he'd appreciate. Or cry when I hear a song we enjoyed together. Paradoxical for sure. ❤️
@@Justbeoktoday thank you. Trust me, I know he's with me all the time. He puts song lyrics as messages into my head. He shows signs like ladybugs when I need it (his favorite insect). He sends hearts in various ways as well - I found a rock shaped like a heart the other day. Occasionally I hear his voice or feel his presence even though I can't see him. I know he's here. ❤️❤️
So beautiful message 🙏 Thank you for sharing. God bless you 🌸
@@JanineStorytellerWhat a lovely love and song story you are having you and your husband. 🙂❤️❤️🪂
@@Justbeoktoday We are 2 strangers, we know nothing about each other, what we look like... where we are in the world....nothing, yet your words touched my heart and tears fell when I read your reply. How beautiful and kind you are ❤
!!!!!! Hi, I came to RUclips today looking for some guidance, I have HD and seeing this comment has me moved beyond words 💙💙
Love you all
❤
It is through unconditional love (total acceptance of what is) that we realize there really isn’t anything that exists except for Love ItSelf. The belief in separation completely and entirely dissolved in love. The ego is dissolved in unconditional love, leaving only liberation. This is manifested as the deep peace and joy that is seen in Eckhart that many “people” long for.
🙏❤️
I love you all too
The worst is getting anxiously attached to an illusion & projection of who you wish someone were. Falling in love with someone you basically entirely imagined is an absolute embarrassing mind eff every darn time😂
Literally this
Truly very embarrassing. just went through this with a beautiful girl. It is my fault, but the pain is unbearable.
PS Thank you for being brave enough to see it and put it out there to people who need to stop suffering.
@@liteazwell1913 no problem. I think it’s important people know that they aren’t alone. It decreases shame, which is one of the most painful kinds of suffering. We’re human and we falter. Awareness & compassion can help prevent us from repeating the same cycles💖 You’ll have more understanding and awareness the next time you have feelings for someone- and more likely to see them for who they truly are. We usually imagine/project ideals on to people due to an unmet need from early childhood. We can try to meet these needs by reparenting ourselves. It’s hard, non-linear work though!! 😂
Nailed it hahah
Love watching Eckhart take a deep breath before spitting absolutely facts haha
Peace I leave you, my peace I give you; I do not give it to you as the world gives it. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor be afraid.
Unconditional LOVE is free of attachment or expectation. I love you, if you choose to receive it's joyful uplifting intent. Peace to the collective, joy to all sentient beings. 💞
Nobody can actually die or ever died. We are eternal
Thank you so much, Eckhart. I recently said goodbye to my dog, and miss him terribly. This teaching really helped. Peace, and love.🙏
Losing a beloved pet is so hard. I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤️
- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨
Thank you I needed to hear that today.
Thankyou, I needed this too
I think this may be helpful to someone. We struggle with the same issue and the most primary issue:- attachment.
Perhaps we need to practice seeing things change, breaking, disappearing and causing nonexistence in meditation.
Same for people.
Attachment is the good pictures we have for them. Our memories, love for them etc. But we need to see them as separate individuals (not an extension of ourselves like he says), who posses bodies that get sick, stink, get old and wrinkly and eventually die and decay. It's a meditation in Buddhism, if you're interested you could look upto it.
I feel like I'm finally ready to see the reality, the fact that things exist slowly becoming nonexistent the most natural ways.
It's a soul lesson, to love something with non-attachment, and at the same time, accept the fact that it can change and not exist at all some day.
Greetings all, We must become aware of our attachment styles. Awareness is for our healing process. good day ❤❤
This came at the perfect moment! Synchronous as I was going to bed and this popped up on my screen in Australia. I had been concerned about my adult daughter in a dangerous relationship.
Bless 🙏🏽
Sending love and light to your adult daughter
Never give up trying to,save her…if you need call the police
Yes, takes time and reprogramming but “non-attachment” is not about not caring about loved-ones. It’s about cultivating presence and the frequencies of the heart to recognize who you are as Spirit which actually enhances your ability to love and care about others. Attachment diminishes your ability to open the heart and connect with the divine..
The essence of a person is eternal ❤
It is absolutely true 🙏.
When you have loved a person so much who leaves you to cross the great Threshold, the pain you feel plunges you into another and vast dimension and the pain rests on an immense peace that has the feeling of Eternity.
This peace allows you to continue living and above all, it whispers to you what really seems paradoxical: the love you feel for those who passed away grows instead of dying out in despair.
No one leaves, love stays forever. AMEN.🙏💓
❤❤❤
@@annalisahansen2522 ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful
@@sabine9012 ❤️
I had a serious accident about a year ago and totaled my car. I really liked that car and people told me “that car IS you”. Two months later, when I felt I could drive again I found my dream car, with very little effort or searching, perfect color and model, for $2500 less than my insurance gave me for the wrecked car. I felt like I had manifested it but I certainly didn’t do that consciously. I have been listening to you, Elkhart, I’ve read your books and you have been a huge influence on me, along with other teachers, A Course in Miracles, and Buddhist thought. I really like my car again but realize all the material world, including our bodies are impermanent. Thank you, so much, Elkhart, for your beautiful teachings.
One of the best explanations on attachment that I've seen. It's a really difficult subject, and I've struggled with it a lot. I have BPD and so this is very typical. Thank you Eckhart 🙏💛✨️
💯You can enjoy, love, appreciate and admire things, people without desire to own or posses them!
I do the same with my car and all my posessions for years now! 🤭❤️
I‘m always thankful for anything that I own in my life, but I am also no longer identified with all these things! 😇
Life as a human being is such a gift! 🙏
Wonderful! Thankyou Eckhart. Another gift of wonderful advice + wisdom. Rosemary❤❤❤
Gratitude is very helpful.
Eckhart I want you to know something. Your teachings are helping me so so much. I have read your book and have listened to it 3 times now. I went through a huge life experience last year which was a situation involving me walking away from the family courts as my ex partner has made my life hell with regards to my daughter and I actually choose to walk away. It caused me to have what I can only explain as a huge mental break down, I also worked in the funeral industry which also didn’t help. The trauma I have gone through and decisions I made have had such a huge impact on me and my mental health that the only thing that has genuinely kept me going is your teachings. I am currently suffering with derealisation and depersonalisation from the intense anxiety I have gone through, but I feel as if I am finally having small break throughs each day with feeling present. Thank you for helping me Eckhart.
I am going through the same. My ex wife has taken the kids, had me arrested and made up everything. Being destroyed in court and watching lies win has caused me to mentally break down. You are not alone. I'm trying to see my way through this as well.
Attachment and Jealousy are impurities in Love.
Love is God.
Attachment is pain.
Through spiritual practices attachments are to be transformed into Love.
Love your children. Don't be attached to them. ❤️
I love how your soul is shinigh trough your face and you show us how everyone can get there.
Love u so much, thx
Eckart’s wisdom🙏🏾❤️
Turn to Jesus Christ
@@WhenHeComesBack ...posso ri/volgermi all'Universo,ad una nuvola,ad un albero, ad una cascata.... tutto è SACRO 🙏🌈sia buona vita 🤝🤝🙏
As always I appreciate your wise words. Thank you, Eckhart.
‘Don’t wait for death, die now to that exclusive identification with form.’ 13:33
Eckhart makes my powers return
For me too..
Jesus Christ mine.
Thank you for guiding me in my life
thankyou 🌸🌸
Thank you for everything you share with us ekart! These words of wisdom are truly moving towards the self
Greetings from Chattanooga, TN. Everything has become beautiful. It's hard not to stare and appreciate the beauty in form. Thank you for sharing.
Thankyou so much. Luv u ❤❤❤❤❤
Greetings from Chattanooga, TN. I understand what you are talking about. It's like something fits or doesn't fit and when it fits it's a marvel to view.
Surprise surprise I saw Eckhart in Sydney 3 years ago I think.He will be here again this coming Saturday ,I did not intend to go again but my beloved daughter Genevieve bought me auvket as a surprise ❤❤❤❤
The youtube algorithm is uncanny. I get recommended what I need always. Sometimes, even RUclips helps humanity forward.
Nice teachings about Impermanence x Love. Gratitude
This came just at the right time for me.
Thank you 💜
Very deap and profound. You are explaining what is happening to me very gradualy. I thank you very very much.
Ecckahart hocam, 27 yaşındayım sosyal fobi ve deprasyon ikisini beraberinde yaklaşık 7 yıldır inişli çıkışlı yaşıyorum. İnşallah sizinle beraber bu durumu atlatırım . Kendi özümü bulmak, bir toplum da kendim olmak, olduğum halimle değer görmek en çok istediğim şey. Öz olmak , özde kalmak inşallah olacak. Kendime bakınca kitabınızı okuyunca sizde kendimi gördüm. Benzer yaşlarda benzer sorunlar yaşıyorum. Uyanmak dileğiyle,
Herşey için teşekkürler.
Minnettarım.🌸
Thanks 😊
Thank you for sharing
Looking back to my bike after locking it gives me a feeling of gratitude. Isn't that a key word?
Thank you Eckhart for theses precious talks
This was a great explanation of attachment. But from the title I was expecting the talk to be more about actual attachment styles. Great video nonetheless ✨️
Hey Eckhart, greetings from germany :))
hey Tolle,
greetings from California ⟵(o_O)
Wonderfull! Thank you!
I know exactly what you are talking about here. Good explanation. ☀️🕊
Die to the form..the human made self. Beautiful! Thank you Eckhart!🌌🙏💚
This video offers a great insight into the concept of non-attachment and how it can be applied to relationships. It is an interesting and thought-provoking perspective.
I try, I try, dear Echkart ❤
Thank You ❤❤🙏
Love your content. Thanks ET. You are Magick❤
That was good, I can do it now as you explain.
It's a great relief.
Love you Eckhart
Thank you for this teaching !
Thank you Eckart❤❤❤
Thank you ❤
This is good information for me to use. I had a paranormal (Clair-something) message I was supposed to marry a man I just met. I wasn’t happy but did it anyway. I divorced him ten years later and now that my second husband died he wants back in. He has an unhealthy attachment to me. Narcissistic empath deal. I have to cut off communication and I am gathering strength through education. Thank you
Why should you want him? You decide.
Grazie 🙏🏻❤️
Or you may not weep.
However, surrender to the moment is what underlies all non-attachment.
Thanks
Yes. Thank you!
Tolle never talks about loss of relationship with a child who still lives but doesn’t want the relationship. No doubt the same advice applies probably the same pain applies as to a death, it’s a death of sorts.
Agreed. The grief is almost as painful. It's terrible.
The secret is to surrender to let go to see everything as a dream as an illusion even the dreamer is a dream ❤
Amazing
Wonderful ❤
Thank you so much 🙏❤🙏
Thank you very much.
As much as I love Eckhart this was not a talk about Anxious Attachment Style or any other attachment style. I suspect whoever runs this channel has no idea of the differences and has labelled it incorrectly.
Beautifull message ! ❤
Where stops helping peoples (family) with getting just attention while there is no progress in their situation or behaviour ? I'm so tired giving advices .
My daughter recently told me she was happier without me in her life.
She mentioned I could still have a relationship with the children. It’s complicated.
My heart is broken in half. I don’t know how to get through this.
She was born into a religious cult that I joined when I was 19. Her childhood was awful. She has a beautiful life now.
I’m 70 now
Best thing you can do is take care of yourself. Meditation and prayers. Self reflection. Ask yourself why would she think that way? Own your part of the problem. Once you've done this and made appropriate changes. Your higher power will lead you and her back together in time. Lots of love and blessings to you both ❤️
Time will heal, Accept what is, Trust what will be and be Grateful for everything. Accept the situation as it, at this moment in time, Trust this situation will change naturally by itself in time, and be Grateful for the knowledge and certainty that below the surface everything is ok and is always going to be OK. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you 🙏
Dear Eckhart, please tell us the difference between consciousness and conscience..
Lesson: Love but Learn to Let go!
It may seem contradictory that if you love deeper and true, in the end you will be not attached. The truth will set you free, from your self ..
I once had a motorcycle which l had an unhealthy love for and one day many years ago someone stole it during the night . It was a lit bazaar or surreal as it left me in complete shock and devastation for a long time afterwards 😱💙🙏💯
Wonderful explanations.👍😄❤️🙏
How to die to the mind-made self? Would love to know that. Appriciate your video's (:
“The Power Of Now”
@@meloniestewart2940 thanks ;)
⚠️ Most of the time I feel no necessity to have a second life, or having an eternal life. For what ? Isn't this life sufficient ? Why human beings have this urge to be eternal ? What's the problem into becoming nothing ? You won't feel anything. We were nothing for billions of years. Indeed we are already nothing. We have a day, an appointment to become nothing again. I can't see why this isn't pointless. Everything is ultimately pointless. Accept that, and it's fine. 🎉🎉❤
Beautiful ❤
에카르트 톨레 선생님 덕분에 배웁니다 감사합니다 _(())_
Jesus Christ is coming soon!
I've been learning about attachment styles in my psychology course and that's how I found out I have an anxious attachment style. I didn't know it was possible to heal from it, so thank you for your wisdom. I've lost family members but still felt their presence. For example, I've smelt my deceased family member's perfume around me. What could this mean?
They are letting you know they are around and comforting you.
WoW WoW ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you so much
🙂
Powerful 🙏🏼
Gracias! 🥺💚🙏
Thank you for this true and healing account. This kind of truth will set you free from unnecessary suffering.
I hope that this question will be presented to Eckhart and answered.
Is the ego attached to the reality of things as they are, or is it attached to its perceptions and ideas about things?
But how do I feel my own essence?
Gratidão ♡
❤
Regarding attachment to things in order to enhance the ego. What about certain tools a worker needs to do certain kinds of work ? Examples ??? There are hobbyists or shop owners who have quite a collection of tools. Some of those folks could not make a living without them. Their job description may be Machinist, or Welder, or Furniture maker. Not everyone is an intellectual. Even intellectuals write books. Their tools may be a computer, typewriter, or just a pad of paper and pencil. Those tools define who they are because of what they do . . . their profession. Without attachment to those tools they would have no trade, no job, no profession, no income. Comments ?????????????????????????????
_"Regarding attachment to things in order to enhance the ego.... Without attachment to those tools they would have no trade, no job, no profession, no income."_
It seems like you answered your own question. Earning a living -- choosing tools based upon value, reliability, quality vs expediency -- isn't "to enhance ego."
Attachment would be image over substance. The entrepreneur who drives a luxury car, fine clothing, exclusive home. All because that's what an entrepreneur should have if they're successful. Being the image before being successful.
@@markfuller good answer. And i expected that because i know that Mr. Tolle means exactly what you said. But some folks define themselves (and hence their ego) by what they do well or do best. These honest workers do NOT place mere appearance above real skill and real accomplishment. I believe there are such people. Just as there are shallow and dishonest workers. Thanks for your answer. Update: Some folks have the strange notion that life is meant to be enjoyed . . . and that work also is meant to be enjoyable. So why not enhance your enjoyment of work you do well ???? If ego is your pleasure . . . then why not ????
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I am attached to my pet animals. I love them, they are my family, and they are not "things"
I hope the boy can do video testimony and not be in courtroom and not be cross examined. The dad should protect him by not letting that happen
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Eckhart Tolle, are you maybe checking this comments? Can I speak to you?🙂💗