How To Stop Putting A Man On A Pedestal! (NEVER DO THIS!!)
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- In this video, I talk about why you should never put a man on a pedestal. When you do this you leave yourself and you don't value your own self-worth. I am going to give you everything I've learned when it comes to putting a man on a pedestal. This happens because of the way you see the love and you see yourself. Your love life is important but never put someone before you.
You stop this by exploring yourself and working on your confidence.
#1 Tell yourself you are better than him.
#2 Put yourself on the pedestal
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We put a man on a pedestal forgetting that we are also a prize.
Exactly!
We put women on a pedestal and forget that we are the prize. Hmmm...
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Alex, I promise that from now on, I will no longer put guys on a pedestal. Everything I've been doing to get a guy to like me, I've been doing wrong. I have got to start putting myself on a pedestal and not a guy. Thank you ♥️
I love this comment. Good Job Brittany!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you.
Whenever I'm about to mesg him, i come to your vidoes and i gain some confidence. Honestly i start seeing him differently and feel that he has to invest more and i feel that if he doesn't invest, I'll wake up one day and break up with him without regret.
This is what I did after 20.year marriage. I can't stand him anymore either. Too much neglect
Alex, I stop messaging him first and he keeps calling and texting me first...love it
*Your better then him (put yourself on the pedestal)
*let him do the first step
* write down all his flaws
Ladies just know that the sperm swims towards the eggs not the EGGS
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Wow.
Never thought about that way before. Now that I have that visual, it will be easier to do this. So I will promise I will wait patiently until the right one “swims” to me as he as he was DESIGNED to do and FIGHTS to gain me as the prize.
And his flaws?
1. He is bossy and controlling
2. He’s just too short. I was willing to overlook it when I was pursuing him, but now that I’m not doing that anymore, I admit I want a taller guy.
When I graduated and was anxious to start my path in life, my mother told me these words.."NEVER,... let a man know how much you love him, because he will use it against you and hurt you. NEVER trust too quickly." An elderly lady told me," treat a man like a dog and he will come back everytime". Of course I did'nt listen, none of this advice made sense to this immature young girl who could'nt wait to leave the nest, sooooo I learned the hard way ignoring good advice. As the years passed by, I learned from experience which I felt was my best teacher. Thank you Alex......., if I only knew then what I know now about men, I would have thought twice and made better choices. And yes, I put my self on a pedestal a long time ago, a man will love me my way, or no way and he can hit the highway. A man once told me, "You think your're better than me", I said, "Of course I do, If I don't think it, who will ??" He said I was arrogant, I told him no love, it's a fact.
Once you know they're capable of fully abusing you if you don't put them in their place, you will forever stop pedestal-lizing them.
“Men are like kids and they will do shit!” Ahahaha that made my day!!! I am kicking him off the pedestal!
Alex, from now on I put myself on a pedestal and let the man take the first step.
Alex I promise u I will never beg him or force him to love me he must realize tht wht he his loosing
Alex the many problem which I'm not able to understand him his sometime he say caste again he his telling my I'm remembering my ex I want to be alone so as u told I stop him txting and calling him again after 5 days he oly txted me again he started the same thing wht shld i do
Alex i promise today i will put myself first and let him do the first step!!
I've taken my husband of teh pedestal ....he is now on teh toilet seat
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😭that one caught me off guard😂😂😂😂😂
I respect that sister.
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After writing down his flaws I decided he wasn’t shit and don’t even like him anymore lol
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Same here
Lol🤣
I promise I will put myself FIRST! Been down this damn road too many times and I am done with it! Did so much work in self love and still doing it and it has empowered me!! Thank you Alex! ❤️
Absolutely.. me too will do the same...
Alex, your French accent is beautiful! I never have any trouble understanding everything you say. As for those that claim to not understand what your saying , they are too lazy to even make the slightest effort in paying any attention to what is being said no matter if it were spoken in elementary English.
Love your videos!
I promise myself I will NEVER again put a man on a pedestal or chase him. I've made the mistake of putting my energy and focus towards someone who is not willing to so even a quarter of what I'm doing. I am an amazing woman and I am putting myself on a pedestal. I'm showering all the love and affection I was giving and wanting towards MOI. Thank you for sharing your perspective with women. Love it!
I promise. I’m the prize. I will let him do the first step
I like it!!!
Amennnn....i'm the prize... I will let him do the first step..
I'm the prize, I will let her do the first step. I'm tired of being the who's trying to commit in this relationship and she's not even trying at all. When she writes, it is just small sentences talk and I find that boring, deal breaker and it's unattractive.
I promise from now on I will make him take the first step
I no longer will put them on a pedestal... & put myself up there...I'm bringing my Awesome self to the table... & will no longer loose my crown...
I agree
Never put a man before you.
NEVER :-)
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thanks Alex I'll take that as a lesson learned and because before I didn't know.
Thank you! Always good and sound advice. I'm such a giver that I never put myself first.
Thanks for the great advice😉
Thanks so much for your support. I love your energy!
Alex I promise you that from now I will let him call me first, text me first, I will let him do the first step. I am now putting myself on a pedestal. Thank you Alex, you are amazing 🙌
Thank you, you got this. You are also amazing.
I promise I will let this guy do the first step!!!!!
I promise that i will let this man to take the first step
1. You are better than him.
2. Do not inlcude him to your sources of happiness.
3.Write down all his flaws.
Alex I promise I’m going to put myself first and myself on a pedestal.
That last tip was so heart breaking to me... not the advise, but the reality. ❤️
I think a problem most people have is not accepting that everyone we like will like us back. Just because you go out and he treats you nice in the beginning doesn’t mean you’re what he really wants. Which is okay as long as you’re not having sex too soon. Then it might be harder to accept this.
Alex, i promise you from now on I'll put myself on the pedestal and let him do the first step. I won't ever run after him because after all I'm so Goddamn precious! I'm prize to be won and he need to run after me to get me because I'm so much better than him
Always always put yourself first , we are women we are on the pedestal ❣❣❣
Our men here in Nigeria are not easy to go with ,but with your advice Alex I ve started seeing change in my love life,so thanks a lot for the good work
Thank you for your support.
I really love the way you talk. I really love the way you make us realize how we should be treated and valued.
Alex... you are so right on!! My past relationships I did just that!! I did everything for him! What did I get? Nothing like I gave. I promise now I will stop doing so much. It will be hard as I love to be good to my man. I have a good man now,,, and he is loving with me, but I am doing for him... I need to pull back!!! I will try hard. Alex thank you soooo much.
Yesssssssss!!!!
Me too, am too good to him
I am always like this.....and trust me girls whatever he is saying is 100 percent correct...trust him
I made this mistake in the past. Also, the problem with putting someone on a pedestal is that you will not be completely comfortable around the person so you will not be able to express all of your good qualities that can build attraction.
Yes, Alex I promise not to depend my happiness on him. Im glad that you made me realize that I am on the right track. More power to you, Alex!
Alex, you and Geert (Brian Nox) are my absolute favorite relationship coaches. You are really helping us women see through all the confusion out there and help us get our confidence back. Thank you.
I promise I will let this guy do the first step
I promise to put my self first and let him do the first step...
Alex, thank you so much for your honesty regarding men's behavior. I have been guilty my entire life of treating the man in my life as special, while he took it for granted and treated me badly. I was raised with the ideology of "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you," so I am at a loss as to why this happens. It is very selfish of them - sometimes I think they are nothing but children who never grew up. :( I want a real man, not a child.
Thanks Alex once again for your coaching.. Am doing it already and it works
Thank you . I promise I will put myself first !
I promise I will let guys the first step and will respect myself and he has to earn it❤️❤️
Hey handsome your accent is really attractive and thank you for your great advice 💓
Oh thank you so much :-)
I promis you this: just because I am so precious, I am putting myself to the pedestal ! You are amazing 👏😘
I promise that this men will do the first step
Stay focused and strong you got this!
I promise that I will no longer put him on a pedestal & let the man take the first step. Thank you for helping to break the Disney philosophy that so many of us have been fed fro. Childhood. Same as those love songs, that teach us to place the object of our love on a Pedestal.
Alex I promise I'll start putting myself on the pedestal instead of him. Thank you so much for the great advice.
Alex, I'm so glad that the person I want texts me first. It's in his nature.
That is good . Hopefully he calls you too. So important. I am a late bloomer and learning how much they need to.do. I married one for 20 years who did ver little. It really makes a woman unhappy when she is not cherished. He was the prize he thought
Alex ..I will to let him..to make the first movement...always..I said to him.".good morning...good night...have a nice evening."..I wont do it any more..thanks..you're great!!!
Yessss......I also will not do that anymore to my guy....I've been mistreated bcos of being too nice to him..
Did it with my boyfriend(french guy) . For 4 years i put him on piedestal... Moved to Paris, let my business go down, moved with him outside Paris for his new job. All i recieved was nothing but disrespectfull behaviour-even said in the eyes, he is not ready to engage. Ignorance thats all i got So i stopped messaging first-small but effective, started going more to my birth country, staying there for longer. Not taking plane which is in inconvinient time for me, in the last moment... He tried by scandals to turn me back.... I did not go back and continued this behaviour... He started to type, to send me flowers. Than went from this to even further... Offering me tickets for plane, and weekend in Paris(city he dilikes)... No!... He lost it totally, when my communication went in cold way, polite, but cold... Invited me on last Christmas to go to Paris for desighner clothing... No! I refused calm and politely. Than one day when we were together(i was going when i wanted to) he said"baby, i decided to move to Paris, for my new project, in orther to be easier for you, to shop, enjoy arts and taking planes easier for your country. HE MOVED TO A CITY HE SWEARED HE WOULD NEVER COME BACK, BECAUSE IS OVERCROWDED! I said" let me think about it", he started to text me how happy i made him, letting myself think about it! Following my plane online, if i fly safe. He picks me up from airport, even i refuse he make presents insisting me to choose what i want(i never abuse him over his budget) he found a flat in historical building, a kind i have always told him about, and he refused before( because it was expencive, even if i offered to share the rent). Men want to chase....thats the sad truth, if i could turn the situation, everyone can.
I promise, I will put my self on the pedestal
Alex, I promise I will let him do the first step. I'm done putting him on a pedestal. Thank you so much.for this video.
U r d best ....so happy I found u ...I promise I will let him do the first step ...no more chasing ,no.more praising him nonstop n putting him on the pedestal ....
I don't want 1be needy anymore. I am enjoying my life with my colleagues, friends, my passion i. e. dance, but it's true I love him and desire him to be back in my life. How is that possible Sir!!
Yes never again will I put a man on a pedestal.Thank you for this video!👌🙏
You're so welcome.
Came for the advices, stayed for the accent 😍 great advices btw
Thank you so much for your support and for watching!
Yes I promise that I'll let him do the first step 😇 You are simply amazing 🙏❤ Thanks a million 💕😘
Thanks so much for your support, you're amazing :-)
I promise to myself and to you! 🖖
I promise to u and to my self I'll give my best to put myself on pedestal instead to put him always on it. Today is my first day in new role which hopefully wake him up to see what he had.
Alright my beloved coach Alex...I will NOT put him on pedestal anymore .....Alex, thanks so much for your advice I understand better about man...I will stop to be the one always asking him out first....i also want to practise the self-control you taught us in the video..... thanks much my coach:)
Yes coach Alex you are right to stop putting the man above myself when he is so lucky to even have me as a person who cares for him. He needs to wake up permanently. Not just when its convenient or when he is in between girlfriends. I'm unique! Rare! He needs to see that.
Alex..i promise you from now i will let this guy do the first step💓
My education was to be a challenging yet romantic woman. It can get lonely sometimes because men today think, act and have the mentality like players. They only value cheap and easy.
I'm promise you that I will put myself on pedestal for the rest of my life no matter with whom I'm in relationship with. I'm not going to give him importance unless and until he starts chasing me all over again
Stay strong, you can do this.
You are right , I love to try what you said 🌿
Thanks a lot Alex, things has change a lot since I have found u
Happy to hear that!
Thank you very much Alex. This video arrives just at the right time. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago and I feel guilty. And this evening I was on the point to call him again ... So, literally, your video is saving me from lowering me ❤❤❤ I deserve better than putting a knee on the floor in front of him ! Thank you again for your wonderful work ✨✨✨
My pleasure to help. Thank you for being here!
Alex I promise , to put my self first starting today ! I will not keep texting him or giving all the power over me anymore .
I promise to get better at putting myself on the pedestal.
Alex is promise, from now on, I will be on the pedistal, I will let him do the first step, I now bring you into my life as my relationship coach. Blessings from Australia.Simone
Oh Frenchy you are dead on! So far it seems to be working xxx I love you I really love you 🥰
Thank you so much Rupy!
Alex, you are right! I'm following your advice. And is working! Thank you!
I just felt my vibe changed while listening to this video😊
Thank YOU Alex ❤️❤️
Alex i listen to u and promise aswell. I love ur french accent ❤😍
I promise to put myself first Alex thank u for such a wonderful advice ....I needed to hear this
I loved him more than myself and that's why he has taken me for granted.Now, I stopped communicating him. I hope, it would make him realise what wrong he has done.
Always Love yourself first!
If I could like this twice I definitely would!!!!!!!🙌🏾👌🏾
It's so refreshing that the sexiest Man on earth , yes you Alex !!!
Not only speak the ultimate perfection of wisdom but your energy is dynamic and sincere
Great work Alex 😊
Thank you so much Gillian. I appreciate your support!
Alex I will stop putting him on a pedestal because I deserve so much more!!!!!!!!
I love this comment :-)
I am on the pedestal. I’m a virtuous wife indeed and I am a prize. I am the love of my own life. I am putting myself first. He makes the first moves and puts me first and serves me. Glory be to God amen hallelujah amen 🙏🏽
Love this comment :-)
Alex... I love you, and your French accent, and your advice! ❤
Oh thank you so much!
Alex! I promise not to put a man on a pedestal. I will let him make the 1st step. I will no longer chase a man. Thanks!
I like it!
Thankyou Alex may God bless you
Hello Alex I agree with you I don't have my ex-husband on no pedestal I'm going to wait for him to put me on the pedestal
I ERASED HIM from my contacts I didnt care if I was already blocked I wont make the first move Even if I am sad I will seek to be happy reguardless someone is in my life or not I will never go through this shit again
Thank you Alex! This was compelling to understand. Us women constantly make this mistake of putting the man we love above us to make him happy. I am putting myself first right now :)
Absolutely!
Alex,l promise you,thank you,u r a great man.
Alex i promise from now onwards i will let that guy take first step. Tq so muchh.. Huge respect for u. Lots of love from Nepal 🇳🇵
Hello to Nepal! So glad you are here.
Alex, merci et continues tous ces bons conseils!
My pleasure to help!
This is a great reminder. I used to practice this a few years ago and forgot my way.
So glad this has been helpful!
I love your videos Alex! So helpful, please continue making them
I will keep this in mind.i will follow this
I haven’t texted or call him for 5 months now. I gave up
Alex i will let this guy to do the first step💓
I promise you and myself.
Hi Alex. I am from india. Your videos give me confidence. Can you plz do a video to overcome loneliness after breakup and ways to manage the killing situation..
Absolutely agreeing. Thank you for the valuable advice you give every time.----- Preethi
I have a good.long list of those flaws!
Seriously needed to hear this 🙏
The best advice