I told myself that I will never give my heart to anyone. There is a man in my life who is chasing me. The more I don't have time for him, the more he is chasing.
Generally, I believe you are right! But people who love each other can still need some space from one another. I think that the number one thing that makes me miss my wife is when she is busy doing her thing! What do you think?
Even if you’re always available, at his heels , chasing after him? Instead of being sexy and having things to do and goals . You live in la la land. There’s no such thing as a man will be excited for you when you’re not being exciting and him having to seek after you.
@@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach men fall in love in absence . Men need to miss a woman and she needs to be away doing something other than obsessing over him.
@@gabrielamartinyuk9894 What about if he forgets & moves on in the absence.? His feelings could diminsh within time & then go look for someone else who he finds more interesting. Never know. They can change their mind in a moment..don' t like that part..
Main idea is only to better ourselves and not run after guys as guys who love you wont leave you and the fake ones will play distant and coming back mind games and waste your time.correct person dont need space or distance if they love you they want more of you and if they aren't interested they will play distance and space mind games to waste our time and emotions.
1. BE DISTANT. Focus on your life,let him do the first move. 2. EXCITEMENT. Create something different . Do new things, activities . 3. NO SEX ALL THE TIME 😂 See each other without going to bed. Dont give him what he wants. Let him crave. Ur amazing Alex,thanks :)
I dnt agree with all these things on utube to make your ex come back or to make him miss u...u can do the world things they wont come back ....the man who love u will come by his own will stay in bad or good with u....i think woman first of all should make herself stable n make herself busy dnt feel too much love for anyone...love hirt us lots....well my experience n opinion take it or leave it ❤
Zahira Abdool Hey, I totally hear you and feel you on this one. Know that we have all been there. But if you approach this differently, you might perhaps see that whilst your ex isn't apt to do those things (because some men, and even some women for that matter, are on a whole different, not to say lower, level), there are plenty of other men (and women) who either already have these aptitudes or *CAN* work towards them. Just approach it from a place where you see your ex as possibly not being able to be this way (for now.. or maybe never) as opposed to all men are like your ex. They aren't ! That's giving your ex the power to make you feel and think this way! All the best :) .
@@mixcaramelwithzahii7353 I completely agree with you.. You do hell lot of things they won't return or they won't stay.. It's like making fun of yourself
Thank you for this. I am creating so much distance because he is not being consistent nor considerate. So, I spoke my peace one last time and moved on.
These are the right things I am doing with my man. And I think it's working. Just enjoying time together it's not about sex everytime but having good time, getting to know each other.
I was listen to ur video my daughther is 7 years old and she dosent understand english.. she cames to me and she lough ... she said mum about what is he talking .... i said why? She said he is so in action .. i think he talks about something very important ..... it was so sweet . Thanks Alex ur videos are the best.
U have changed my life, to pay sex the man does not love you he continues say the way u give him u give others thxs for uploading any person watching make sure give thumb
Alex, thanks alot. I have been lately following all of your tips and everything. It really worked well with my relationship. Its totally worth the wait .
It's absolutely true lolol. Here's the flip side, I do all these things easily with the men I don't really like lol and they are smitttteeennnnnnnnn and desperate to be with me or just spend some time with me. The ones I like, I have to make the effort to be distant lol. The other two I can manage pretty well but the distance one I'm trying to do and I've found that I'm not as restless/missing him as much when I'm focused on my own things in my life!
Thank you Alex for the video, your videos are simple, compact (not talk too much like the other motivator) straight to the meaning and very useful. Cheers 🥂
Thanks for encouraging tips.. I'm a single parent my children finished college..I am happy being single mom..But if God give me a chance to meet a good guy it's a blessing to me...
Awesome! 💖 Alex I teach French and English for midschool. My advice to you: never never change your accent... it's unique ❤ never never take extra English Lessons 😊
Shlomo Jesmer Is it ok when he call you and you talk for along time but like two days no more here from him ...is ok when he never say Even good morning ...no good night ...please tell me
I wish all the men would understand what we women want ,the way u do,coz once married even though a love marriage, the romantic phase is over.Thanks 👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
So I withheld sex because I informed him I don't sleep with anyone not my boyfriend. He told me he respected that and then started messaging other girls on the dating app. Guess he thought he could do better 🤣🤣
Alway works. I ignore them or stay away and they alway come back. The recent one was weird before I went on 3 week vacation !, saw me back at work and tried to talk to me 2 times today. I told you about him… until he comes around and stable and does the work I’ll speak yo him
No man miss me so I don’t miss anyone!!! Nearly 4 years single n am happy “ I got no feelings for any man at this point in life!! I came alone in this world n I will die alone..
Alex thank you for this advice now i open my eyes..and why my bf egnore me evrytime..bcos i always him 24/7 in call ..im a longdistance relationship.im first always to do something communication..but im not happy bcos he always egnore me....im not him priority ..just like im.option ..bcos maybe om.always there
True.. tips#1..kerp destance for him to miss you... Agreed tips #2..also.. Gosh..tios #3...awesome..dont guve those what he wsnt in anytime or everyday.. keep saying no..man will vomet us after they swallow us that much... Greet job sir.thank you for advise..
All this things are opposite, Love is magic its depends on the two person how their handle thier relationship. We have all different way to love someone. Dont worry i will subcribe in your channel. Sir this is just my opinion. 😍😍😍
Loved this video! So true. Thank you for making this for us! But next time or sometime can you please say “come on ladies”!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏 makes me laugh so much when you say that to us all!
Yes you are very correct,im happy of my life having a nice guy with me now,its so nice to be loved,i always tell to him. Wait and more he become in love with me
why would you have to do all that for a man to miss you. if they love you you do not have to do a thing. in fact it should be a man who will do all those tricks to get a woman miss you. I just realized that.
Instead of running after a guy, use the time to build your self respect and self esteem. A confident and independent woman drives a man crazy.
Sandy Minta correct
Well said
Exactly
I,m with u
Confident and independent woman doesn't need a man 😄
Don't always give your man what he wants..he'll miss you terribly! excellent trick! 💞
Absent makes the heart grow fonder
3)Do not give him what he wants
2)Excitement
1)Distant
😂😂😂
The guy wanted sex for being in a relationship I didn't give him what he wanted and he left me
@@anurekhamukherjee9633so he is not serious guy
I told myself that I will never give my heart to anyone. There is a man in my life who is chasing me. The more I don't have time for him, the more he is chasing.
This video gives me strength to stay strong and distant and let him come to me !!!
I believe that when u are in a relationship, if a man really loves u he will miss u no matter what.
Generally, I believe you are right! But people who love each other can still need some space from one another. I think that the number one thing that makes me miss my wife is when she is busy doing her thing! What do you think?
Even if you’re always available, at his heels , chasing after him? Instead of being sexy and having things to do and goals . You live in la la land. There’s no such thing as a man will be excited for you when you’re not being exciting and him having to seek after you.
@@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach men fall in love in absence . Men need to miss a woman and she needs to be away doing something other than obsessing over him.
@@gabrielamartinyuk9894 What about if he forgets & moves on in the absence.? His feelings could diminsh within time & then go look for someone else who he finds more interesting. Never know. They can change their mind in a moment..don' t like that part..
Gg
Main idea is only to better ourselves and not run after guys as guys who love you wont leave you and the fake ones will play distant and coming back mind games and waste your time.correct person dont need space or distance if they love you they want more of you and if they aren't interested they will play distance and space mind games to waste our time and emotions.
It is very important for a woman that she should be passionate,creative and confident, fun loving.She must value herself.
Your so right .. 🧚♀️
1. BE DISTANT. Focus on your life,let him do the first move.
2. EXCITEMENT. Create something different . Do new things, activities .
3. NO SEX ALL THE TIME 😂 See each other without going to bed. Dont give him what he wants. Let him crave.
Ur amazing Alex,thanks :)
Aries Gurl I do this naturally with my husband. I just enjoy my alone time 😹
Thank you for the tips summary 💓💓
I dnt agree with all these things on utube to make your ex come back or to make him miss u...u can do the world things they wont come back ....the man who love u will come by his own will stay in bad or good with u....i think woman first of all should make herself stable n make herself busy dnt feel too much love for anyone...love hirt us lots....well my experience n opinion take it or leave it ❤
Zahira Abdool Hey, I totally hear you and feel you on this one. Know that we have all been there. But if you approach this differently, you might perhaps see that whilst your ex isn't apt to do those things (because some men, and even some women for that matter, are on a whole different, not to say lower, level), there are plenty of other men (and women) who either already have these aptitudes or *CAN* work towards them. Just approach it from a place where you see your ex as possibly not being able to be this way (for now.. or maybe never) as opposed to all men are like your ex. They aren't ! That's giving your ex the power to make you feel and think this way! All the best :) .
@@mixcaramelwithzahii7353 I completely agree with you.. You do hell lot of things they won't return or they won't stay.. It's like making fun of yourself
Just do you ladies the interested men will persue you no matter what😉💯
Thank you for this. I am creating so much distance because he is not being consistent nor considerate. So, I spoke my peace one last time and moved on.
Thank you for this
Thank u so.much have shown videos quitei interested.
Me too....
Godly man we need, and we pray that God send us a godly man.
so better to be single. nobody will torture your emotions...
Thats right
True ☺️
Haha so true..
Gladys Ordez very true
Hahahaha exactly
These are the right things I am doing with my man. And I think it's working. Just enjoying time together it's not about sex everytime but having good time, getting to know each other.
I was listen to ur video my daughther is 7 years old and she dosent understand english.. she cames to me and she lough ... she said mum about what is he talking .... i said why? She said he is so in action .. i think he talks about something very important ..... it was so sweet . Thanks Alex ur videos are the best.
Thank you Alex, because of you, my man started to chase me and put me on pedestal now 😍
We Value what we dont have.
This is so true! I have been in a relationship for 8 years and I have started doing this
We need mature relationship, more patience understanding and caring each other, cultivate the relation.
Thank you Alex For reminding us Girls that we have the power. You are a Real Man
U have changed my life, to pay sex the man does not love you he continues say the way u give him u give others thxs for uploading any person watching make sure give thumb
If you give too much you start getting too little :)
Correct
Love this. Have to remind myself everyday
Also true....
Sure
So bad... I gave too much unfortunately
If a man love u he will automatically miss u but if he is not, how much u give or how much u care he will find an excuse to ignore you
Woman have got a power within us. We have to learn how to use it corectly specifically when we are with our man!
I’m putting myself on the pedestal from now on. Let’s see how it works 🤞🏼merci Alex!
Good for you! Be proud of yourself and wait for the right man to come along. Don't settle for second best.
me too
Did it work?
My guy is always after me...I love it so much...
Alex, thanks alot. I have been lately following all of your tips and everything. It really worked well with my relationship. Its totally worth the wait .
It's absolutely true lolol. Here's the flip side, I do all these things easily with the men I don't really like lol and they are smitttteeennnnnnnnn and desperate to be with me or just spend some time with me. The ones I like, I have to make the effort to be distant lol. The other two I can manage pretty well but the distance one I'm trying to do and I've found that I'm not as restless/missing him as much when I'm focused on my own things in my life!
Thank you Alex for the video, your videos are simple, compact (not talk too much like the other motivator) straight to the meaning and very useful. Cheers 🥂
You should do a video on distance relationship. What to do when you break up and can't stop thinking about him.
Tip no 3..,is so real..I have done this myself n the results are perfect
Mary Muthoga me too and his crazy In love with me 😘
Thanks for encouraging tips.. I'm a single parent my children finished college..I am happy being single mom..But if God give me a chance to meet a good guy it's a blessing to me...
All the best
Mr.Alex...you are one of the best expert man in a world about love..you are the best 😘
Love you 💞
I accept and admit that being single for many years is most beautiful happened in my life 😊😊..
You are crazy, man. I love you because you made me to change my life with your videos!
Amazing thank you!
i want the same thing to happen to me
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert hi watching from hk
It works a lot....dear Sir Alex, how amazing coach you are, thanks Lord for giving you as the powerful talent to help us,☺️👍🥰 be blessed by Lord
Awesome! 💖 Alex I teach French and English for midschool. My advice to you: never never change your accent... it's unique ❤ never never take extra English Lessons 😊
You can never really change your accent unless your faking it
@@misskia2582 with elocution yes you can.
Loving and respecting myself that's what I learned from you. Thank you so much❤. From Philippines😇
You are so welcome!
Single life...awesome life...no boys in life wow life😂😂😂❤❤❤
😂
😄😄😄😄😄💖💖💖💖
It sounds like you dated a bunch of jerks. My wife and I are very happy! :)
Shlomo Jesmer Is it ok when he call you and you talk for along time but like two days no more here from him ...is ok when he never say Even good morning ...no good night ...please tell me
No them fuckboys,hydrated, glowing winning sis doing good
I can see your sincerity in every word ,and it's also show on your face as well.
Thank you for being here.
Thank you so much Alex,I totally agree with you, it may sound crazy but it really works!
I learned some good advice here today I will start doing it immediately
psychological speaking I agree with you.
Very true never be a priority
I believe you Alex you're always on point. I am going to try it. Time to be with me for a while🌞
Alex you are my favourite relationship coach.. 🌷
Love from Mauritius ❤❤
You are 100 %right. What about those men who don't express their feelings . Even if they they miss us?
Naushaba Saleem ok
I also need this answer
I have the same qn.. how to deal with someone who don't express their feelings at all? and also how to tackle a Mamma's boy..
@@srijani11tackle the mama
Ur right..ive done that to my husband...those tips...its effective..still doing it....have a nice day....
l don't know how l landed here, nice one.watching from Africa
Same 😂😂😂
So dont give him what he wants...thats d whole story♥️thanxx alex luv from pakistan
But u are True. All ur words are 100% correct.
Thanks Alex
You're so welcome.
I wish all the men would understand what we women want ,the way u do,coz once married even though a love marriage, the romantic phase is over.Thanks 👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Actually i just totally agree with him, , it's soo damn true
Best relationship channel so far ❤
What if he only like sex before getting into real relationship? Men focus on sex not on commitment.
it's true
You are the best. I started to exercise all your tips. And then boom it works.. thank you very much 💕😌
So glad!
Thank you so much Alex for all your encouraging words and motivation,👍👌
I will do it to him. Need your support Alex!
Thank you for your support.
When a man really love you he will miss you every time, how about marriage if we need distance just for make him miss us..
even me the same I think
Ask me oooooh?
Same
Thanks God,and i did all these things to my bf..he is in new york,and am in amman..and we are now 8yrs..
So I withheld sex because I informed him I don't sleep with anyone not my boyfriend. He told me he respected that and then started messaging other girls on the dating app. Guess he thought he could do better 🤣🤣
😂😂😂 he probably thought u were indirectly asking him to make u his girlfriend. All the same just cut your losses. Let him go stress another girl
Alway works. I ignore them or stay away and they alway come back. The recent one was weird before I went on 3 week vacation !, saw me back at work and tried to talk to me 2 times today. I told you about him… until he comes around and stable and does the work I’ll speak yo him
You earned a new subscriber.. this video deserves it.. ❤ and I love the way you pronounce the word *tip* 🙈
You've enlightened my mind.Thank you so much
I love listening you ...
Omg such a great accent 😍
😊 thank you
Why he speaks,, like this isn't he American??🤔🤦♀️love u from nepal if I too speak English how its gonna sound 🤦♀️🙈🙉🙉
No man miss me so I don’t miss anyone!!! Nearly 4 years single n am happy “ I got no feelings for any man at this point in life!! I came alone in this world n I will die alone..
Awww. ..I hope you meet someone special real soon xx
Vry soon Iam starting to be like u, these things of love can give u headache
Sometimes! I think it is better to feel that way!! No men!! Don't get hurt!
its really much relating on my situation ,haha ,got no man in my life
Same here😭
Hi am fayona from Jamaica i enjoy listening to your comments on relationships
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex thank you for this advice now i open my eyes..and why my bf egnore me evrytime..bcos i always him 24/7 in call ..im a longdistance relationship.im first always to do something communication..but im not happy bcos he always egnore me....im not him priority ..just like im.option ..bcos maybe om.always there
True.. tips#1..kerp destance for him to miss you...
Agreed tips #2..also..
Gosh..tios #3...awesome..dont guve those what he wsnt in anytime or everyday.. keep saying no..man will vomet us after they swallow us that much...
Greet job sir.thank you for advise..
I like your English and your vidios.thanks for the vidio
Thank you!
Yap mr alex,if miss him i msg him that i miss him.after that i make my self busy then he will msg me yeeeee!!!!
All this things are opposite,
Love is magic its depends on the two person how their handle thier relationship. We have all different way to love someone. Dont worry i will subcribe in your channel. Sir this is just my opinion. 😍😍😍
If u keep doing this he will find someone else coz he will think u don't consider him
Better to be kind and respect are self be happy. Thank you this especial tips to learn better
You are so welcome!
I will try your advice...I hope I'm gonna meet my loveones soon.. thanks!!
Loved this video! So true. Thank you for making this for us! But next time or sometime can you please say “come on ladies”!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏 makes me laugh so much when you say that to us all!
Wahaha.. funny you are.. what us if we do🤗🤗
😆 come on ladies. He is funny… yesh and yet passionate…
Really you are right and thanks of your good message
Thank you for your support.
This really helps a lot! Thank you Alex. 😜
Powerful wise words !thanx alot Sir!u are teaching me a big lesson 👍
Alex u r so sweet 😅💖thank you!🙏🏻
Yes you are very correct,im happy of my life having a nice guy with me now,its so nice to be loved,i always tell to him. Wait and more he become in love with me
Thank you so much for watching Caroline!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Thank you for this vlog I really appreciate this
The crazy thing is that we dont have sex since we met
same😆
Thank you mister Alex.... From Sri Lanka. Very understanding your English & advices. Superb !!!!
woow..thank you really interesting...
I am so over it. Moving on!!!
My aunt said the same thing about sex many years ago. She said too much sex gets a guy bored of you.
Thank you and God bless 🙏...be SAFE always Coach 😊
Same to you!
It is true
Now, I'm not there with him, I will not text him for a week
Can you do another video on Long Distance Relationship?
It's true sir thank u🙏🙏🙏
Yes you are right I also think like that wht u say I'm monalisha from India 🇮🇳. Thanks
why would you have to do all that for a man to miss you. if they love you you do not have to do a thing. in fact it should be a man who will do all those tricks to get a woman miss you. I just realized that.
Hahaha. My boyfriend TRIED not having sex for nearly 3 weeks. He saw that I was not bothered. Next!!😅😂
I enjoy this wow amazing that nice ,good advice 🙏😘
You can help me find my forever I been alone too long my husband passed away is there a man for me out there sincere with gentle heart true love .
Am here ,+254
Hope and pray God blesses you with a good person. Sorry to hear about your loss x
When ur distance he will find other woman.efff
Windy Ali yes, the nearest is the sweetest.
Yeah💔😭😭😭
Windy Ali
Right
More than likely. Then he doesn't deserve us. We become the winner cos if that's all he wants there is our answer. We walk away with self respect.
😪😪😪
Thanks Alex .for making this video for us.
You're so welcome. Thank you for your support!
This is so true! Don't have sex with him all the time. Make him WAIT for it!
You are right Lisa thanks on there🙌🙌
can we hav lady talk
Wow! Thanks so much Alex
You are so welcome. Thank you for the support.