I think a lot of people (myself included) have watched these videos, seeking answers but in the end, I think when you meet the right person, you won't have to play any of these games. Sure there is attraction in not being available but I honestly feel like when the right person comes along, it will 'feel' right and nothing will feel forced. Things will just flow.
Let him come to you and do not invest more than he would. He has to put a little more effort into the interaction, so he does not take you for granted and loses interest.
This works. You must give men distance, whether it’s an ex, a new lover or potential interest. This has worked for me. Men like to chase you. Once they have you fully they start loosing interest and some just dump you. Keep them on their toes whether your in a relationship or marriage. Don’t join at the hip. You are the priority, let them chase then you will know if they are really into. Don’t sell yourself short.
nofy bn if they want you they will chase, if they don’t then they won’t. If they ghost you they have other plans. If they return then you are either back up plan or they miss you. You have to think with your head not with your heart sadly
This distance game is a complete turn off for me. The moment a guy gets distant I just cut him off and don’t look back. Many have gotten chopped and cried. Don’t care. I only date adult well rounded men. If he’s into you he’s not going to play games. Period. If he does dump him. Plenty of fish out there.
Lara King sadly even when they are really into you they still resort to losing interest, you won’t know until your blindsided one day. They say one thing to keep you happy & secretly think or doing something else. Men are not predictable whether they love your or not at whatever age.
Found him texting other women - this is day two and I already got 3 calls, a novel on email and almost 10 messages. He is stating he can’t live without me etc - well should’ve appreciate me when you had me.
He came on very strong. I started to share my heart and then he is unresponsive. I thought men wanted authenticity. I will give him a lot of distance and then never look back. Way too much trouble. Not worth it! Mind games, players and losers galore. ugghh
Because it creates a sense of scarcity. Then they start to think you're more valuable and they might be missing out. Basic supply and demand unfortunately lol.
Just watched this video today. My bf used to be infatuated with me, I never really gave him space, I did get clingy, at first he was okay with it and then he didn’t like it. Typical. Now we’ve been broken up for about a month and I stooped so low, I was even chasing him. I decided to listen to a couple of friends advice about ignoring him, yesterday (we work together) I honestly didn’t even pay attention to him I was just focusing on work and I could tell it was eating at him to talk to me. Before I would tell him not to talk to me, he would come, say hi, and I would respond respectfully. But the last tome I saw him I told him I hated him.... and yesterday despite that the fact that I ignored him all day, I can tell that he was trying to get my attention, he was literally IN MY WAY the whole day, especially when he noticed a customer was flirting with me. I notice every dude will come back, it’s ridiculous but I hate that we have to ignore them and make them chase.
To people arguing that playing games is tiring etc, I’d say that to it’s also about protecting my bubble and, not indulging in instant gratification of the love/lust inducing chemicals, thus creating the possibility of growing in solid love cause you generate a pace. And in the end it is your heart you protect too. “Game” tough to me it’s more like strategy cause my underlying intentions are good, is a default I have started to apply cause more people than I thought are prone to bullshit. And it works. I no longer feel needy and no man has been able to make me feel that way lately Merci Alex pour cet enseignement, vous avez gagné une abonnée!
My ex continues to call and asks to see me even though he's aware I'm seeing someone else. The ex had pulled away, so I left. I'm currently dating a new man. But, now he is pulling away and I'm over these games.
It's scary, but it takes a lot of courage and control to woman to hold herself. I don't have any idea before of chasing but your videos help a lot. Thanks
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertI love him and i know he does too , he is honest ,i trust him a lot , but my problem with him is that sometimes he is distant , he might stay all day with no contact , he drops a good morning and go work and disappears for long hourssss and then talk before going to bed ... I dont chase him rarely blame him , dont make troubles , i try to disappear as well , but i feel annoyed and stressed , especially when we hang out together and have romantic intimate time ,and the other day he behaves like that !! I feel down and depressed !!
@@omaimajaber4029 If he is gone to work during the day that is very normal and good. He is focusing to his work. You need to get over it! For a good man a work is normally important and he keeps doing it so he can afford to offer something for you. A man without work is without purpose. Appreciate his work and you appreciate the man. AND the best sign in a relationship is if you are the FIRST thing in his mind or the last thing in his mind before he falls to sleep...And you have those both!!!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I love him and i know he does too , he is honest ,i trust him a lot , but my problem with him is that sometimes he is distant , he might stay all day with no contact , he drops a good morning and go work and disappears for long hourssss and then talk before going to bed ... I dont chase him rarely blame him , dont make troubles , i try to disappear as well , but i feel annoyed and stressed , especially when we hang out together and have romantic intimate time ,and the other day he behaves like that !! I feel down and depressed !!
This was the most awaited video from you Alex 😍 Thank you so much for this help. 😇😇 Looking forward for more amazing videos like these 😊😊 Putting a man on pedestal is one of the mistakes v women make, I am sure I won't let him be on the pedestal from now
What can I do with a man who comebacks when I begin to move on... and doesn't want me after a couple of days when I finaly comeback? For short story, this man is very jealous. And when he leaves me, I don't really care because I've toned of men who purchase me. But, when he see me with another man, he comebacks and he's perfect with me. Plus, he's very beautiful and I have a lot of points in common with him. So it's difficult for me to push him away when he comebacks, because no man pleases me or fills me that much. Finaly, most of the time... he comebacks for two weeks and he makes me live a dream. After he begin to be distant for one week. I take my distance too when he did this. We decide to put a end. And 24hours later, he text me that he wants comeback and love me. And me too I love him, but I'm tired and don't understand his behavior. He already left me and came back five times.
Bonjour Alex !! I’m in a moment of moving on, doing me, healing My bf been on and off ghosted me many times and i was stil’ go back to him This time he ghosted again now i dont chase him! Let hom gp But deep down I feel so hurtful Cant eat, cant sleep But im not deciving myself that we are done!!! Thank you so much Im looking forward the day i can smile again Merci beaucoup Alex et bon vacances 😁
Dude they work......I can't believe...my man asked me y I'm ignoring or being distant....n I just said...I'm not distant...I'm focusing on myself more...I need me
Men are distant until they ruin the relationship, stomp all of the love out of your heart, and then they come begging you back. But then, I’m no longer interested. His distance turns me off and makes me not trust him. And I don’t mean not contacting me all day, everyday, but if I don’t hear from a man for days, or he cannot seem to give a damn about whether I’m alive or dead, I start to dislike him.
Same! Once a guy starts pulling away and losing interest, my love for him dies too. Out of sight, out of mind. And eventually, I just don't give a shit anymore.
It kinda sucks but it’s also the law of supply and demand. The more available you are, the more they take you for granted. I need to learn more about the human psychology!!!
Hello respected sir . thanks for ur lessons and endless efforts . problem start with imbalance in every aspect of relation . Distance will always disturb the man as he is not used to losing , instead is fond of controlling .it's imp.not to throw to relation right away . thanks sir soooo much . looking forward to ur reply n hoping to work with you in the near future . keep growing with glory of success with blessed wishes . lots of regards sir
Thanks Alex. Could you a video on practical tips on how to be distant without being cold ...... So as to get him. BTW the last part of this video with you in Paris was really cool!!
Do you know anything absolutely twin flames? It basically is a push pull relationship of balance, but when they come together finally they teach feminine/masculine energies this same balance and how to STAY together.
If we don't follow each other on social media and he cancels my request saying he wants distance should o block him even though we don't follow each other 🧐. Love it channel🌹
Alex if your parent don't want the man u want but confront the man u want he is going to dispart from u and he stopped to text and call u,which advise u may like to give to ladies.
I think it super stressy and exhausting with all that game sh*t with men... im almost 30 now and i always met guys who prefered to test me and play games ,some of them tried to come back weeks or months after they ghosted me. Now it was only ONE time where i really cared for a guy and out of nowhere he unfollowed me and didnt answer me anymore (it was all good, and only a few hours later he suddenly disappears). This is actually the first time i even noticed that a man is disappearing (with any guys before i didnt notice, cause i didnt care enough for them, as i thought about it now, being in a situation the 1st time with a guy who i DO care for ,i noticed that this is actually not the 1st time ghosting happend to me) . With the guys before it was either i didnt care (as i said before) at all or it was bcs they actually told me why or what is the problem for them. Although now i notice, most of them did just go ghost on me. A man should just tell you why , then at least it doesnt leave you with a bunch of questions. I dont know how men think ,just disapperaing would be a better way to do so. This way i think it hurts more. Especially if he KNEW that you like him. Now, yes a person does not have to tell u ANYthing ,nobody has to tell u why etc. , but that still does NOT make it ok to do this (especially if he KNEW that u really like him,...and then disappearing??...great -.- ) Theres also some men who ignore and ghost on you (also unfollows u etc) cause he wants YOU to chase them. Theres so many taktiks some ppl try... like said at the start... it saddens me and its really exhausting
If you've been in committed relationship for 10 months how long do you keep pushing distance in the works?? Is it all though your life relationships to keep things interesting??
Respecting the game. Turns out it's not really a game. Men are just naturally wired like that so to them...I guess it doesn't really seem like a game as it does to us. To us ladies, we feel like we're being PLAYED with when men supposedly play these GAMES with us but that's just not how it is. I mean of course you get the occasional psycho or narcissist and those mind games are scary. But otherwise, like Alex said it's about learning, knowing, and respecting human psychology. Once you understand that humans act because we're genetically wired to act the way that we do the "game" will become so much easier. When you're in denial it makes everything seem so bleak and dark.
We’ve been on and off for 2 1/2 years . He won’t commit at all. But keeps in touch but not a lot of communication. So I finally cut off texting him and asking to get together . It’s been over 2 weeks and I’m sure he’s waiting for my text but I won’t . If he really wants to be with me he’ll reach out if not his loss. I think I’m approaching this the right way ?
I am just sooo confused rn.. i moved on from the guy i loved... we were friends and he knew i liked him .. i had confessed twice but he rejected... i couldn't take it anymore cause it felt like he didn't know my importance and took me granted when it was obv he liked me... after 4 months, i had moved on and he texts how much he misses me and how much he loves me... i thought about it for a week and i couldn't just ignore all that pain.. so i told him no.. and he's too hurt and puts these sad stories in insta and is making me regret stuffs.. like what should i even do?? Did i do the right thing or was i an idiot to say no when he obviously likes me soo much now??😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hi Alex, I met this guy a month ago, he is amazing, I like him but he is too busy travelling for work. I miss him and I wanted to initiate contact but I’m afraid that if I won’t contact him whilst he is away he might forgot me completely. Does this trick has a timeframe? Should I wait for him?
Hi Alex Good Morning From Singapore! When A Woman Who Block The Guy He Has No Chance To Comes Back! What If He Is Distant & He Will Be Challenged He Panicked Or Worried? Can The Guy Attract The Woman He Lost Her Trust Or Concern? If He is A Player Or A CassaNova? He Is Not Ready Or Afraid Of Commitment Or Relationship?
hehee he keeps distance means he doesnt love you any morr or nver loved enough to be committed to you...he may not be aware of his emotions for you while you can be aware of yours.just because We get into a relationship ,doesnt mean both sides have same intensity.thats why women fall for easily being more emotional ,thinking every word guys say ,their leading you on is all about love..and honestly you wake up from yoir own dream you have created in you ;)
Hi Alex! Should the man ALWAYS text/pursue the woman first or is this only in the beginning? I'm wondering both in dating and beginning of relationship
I think a lot of people (myself included) have watched these videos, seeking answers but in the end, I think when you meet the right person, you won't have to play any of these games. Sure there is attraction in not being available but I honestly feel like when the right person comes along, it will 'feel' right and nothing will feel forced. Things will just flow.
Let him come to you and do not invest more than he would. He has to put a little more effort into the interaction, so he does not take you for granted and loses interest.
Providing distance takes work when you like the guy. But it WORKS!
Tyson's Speech Impediment did u ever try it, please tell me
For them. Not me, I don't want him!!
@@jennyperez4968 Yes It really works
How do you do it?
I feel too old for this kind of games.. i give up.
it's never too late man is a man his psycology will never change you have just to play it right ....it really works 🙏
Same
Same
@@betterlife6719 shit never works for me so obviously it doesn't work for everyone
It really fun 🤣you run then someone chase you then you make him/her catch you
This works. You must give men distance, whether it’s an ex, a new lover or potential interest. This has worked for me. Men like to chase you. Once they have you fully they start loosing interest and some just dump you. Keep them on their toes whether your in a relationship or marriage. Don’t join at the hip.
You are the priority, let them chase then you will know if they are really into. Don’t sell yourself short.
If there is distance, then it is OVER!! I don't want him. There is NO relationship!!
nofy bn if they want you they will chase, if they don’t then they won’t. If they ghost you they have other plans. If they return then you are either back up plan or they miss you. You have to think with your head not with your heart sadly
Thanks
They allways come back...I thought he will never,but he sent me message and apologized...SHOCKED😂😂
Always.
Mine not!!! He is such a jerk omg i cant stand his ass 😭😭😭😂
He scert...but ego is big...always back
@@New-jb1tc did he come back?
I block them when they ignore me so they can’t come back
Hahahaaaaaaaaa
This distance game is a complete turn off for me. The moment a guy gets distant I just cut him off and don’t look back. Many have gotten chopped and cried. Don’t care. I only date adult well rounded men.
If he’s into you he’s not going to play games. Period. If he does dump him. Plenty of fish out there.
Lara King Love this! Completely agree. Next!
Lara King sadly even when they are really into you they still resort to losing interest, you won’t know until your blindsided one day. They say one thing to keep you happy & secretly think or doing something else. Men are not predictable whether they love your or not at whatever age.
Lara King
Same here!! 😉
couldn't agree more. don't have time for this games
Good for you Lara! Let them play games in hell! Lol
Found him texting other women - this is day two and I already got 3 calls, a novel on email and almost 10 messages. He is stating he can’t live without me etc - well should’ve appreciate me when you had me.
How long did he do this
Ahhhhh I miss him with all this distance.
We will have that man ladies don't worry. Keep pushing, keep waiting be patient and support others.
He came on very strong. I started to share my heart and then he is unresponsive. I thought men wanted authenticity. I will give him a lot of distance and then never look back. Way too much trouble. Not worth it! Mind games, players and losers galore. ugghh
Because it creates a sense of scarcity. Then they start to think you're more valuable and they might be missing out. Basic supply and demand unfortunately lol.
It’s sad that people can’t appreciate their presence and stability.
Just too much work...games and more games! ugh.
I like very much being single!
same
Thank you Alex for your moral support and your advice 🙏 you are very kind and honest.
Yes he keeps taking me for granted but the moment I distant he comes back
Just watched this video today. My bf used to be infatuated with me, I never really gave him space, I did get clingy, at first he was okay with it and then he didn’t like it. Typical. Now we’ve been broken up for about a month and I stooped so low, I was even chasing him. I decided to listen to a couple of friends advice about ignoring him, yesterday (we work together) I honestly didn’t even pay attention to him I was just focusing on work and I could tell it was eating at him to talk to me. Before I would tell him not to talk to me, he would come, say hi, and I would respond respectfully. But the last tome I saw him I told him I hated him.... and yesterday despite that the fact that I ignored him all day, I can tell that he was trying to get my attention, he was literally IN MY WAY the whole day, especially when he noticed a customer was flirting with me. I notice every dude will come back, it’s ridiculous but I hate that we have to ignore them and make them chase.
To people arguing that playing games is tiring etc, I’d say that to it’s also about protecting my bubble and, not indulging in instant gratification of the love/lust inducing chemicals, thus creating the possibility of growing in solid love cause you generate a pace. And in the end it is your heart you protect too. “Game” tough to me it’s more like strategy cause my underlying intentions are good, is a default I have started to apply cause more people than I thought are prone to bullshit. And it works. I no longer feel needy and no man has been able to make me feel that way lately
Merci Alex pour cet enseignement, vous avez gagné une abonnée!
My ex continues to call and asks to see me even though he's aware I'm seeing someone else. The ex had pulled away, so I left. I'm currently dating a new man. But, now he is pulling away and I'm over these games.
It's scary, but it takes a lot of courage and control to woman to hold herself. I don't have any idea before of chasing but your videos help a lot. Thanks
I'm so glad my videos have been helpful!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertI love him and i know he does too , he is honest ,i trust him a lot , but my problem with him is that sometimes he is distant , he might stay all day with no contact , he drops a good morning and go work and disappears for long hourssss and then talk before going to bed ... I dont chase him rarely blame him , dont make troubles , i try to disappear as well , but i feel annoyed and stressed , especially when we hang out together and have romantic intimate time ,and the other day he behaves like that !! I feel down and depressed !!
@@omaimajaber4029 If he is gone to work during the day that is very normal and good. He is focusing to his work. You need to get over it! For a good man a work is normally important and he keeps doing it so he can afford to offer something for you. A man without work is without purpose. Appreciate his work and you appreciate the man.
AND the best sign in a relationship is if you are the FIRST thing in his mind or the last thing in his mind before he falls to sleep...And you have those both!!!
Our favourite word is here. ...'Pedestal'. Thanks for the video Alex
Love is sbout understanding human psychology!!A very good advice, thank you 😘!
This whole dating thing is so complicated.Am staying single
We together in this
Nobody wants to hear this but in REAL life, love is a power game.
Achieving balance is what keeps things in check.
it's a challenge o keep the distance but Alex you're totally right! it works for both ... so important to keep a healthy relationship :)
You are amazing you hit the point with the simplest way
Times have changed. Alex knows the way...
Thanks Alex I tried to distance and willing to walk ay for five days and I surprise today he came back and ask sorry to ignoring me all the time
How do you do this in a long distance relationship..? They do still take you for granted in a long distance.
It is all about the control. Punish bad behaviour.....
He’s right. Listen to him ladies
Thank you for your support.
Thank you for this i am now learning and hope i can turn my life around 👩 Love from New Zealand ❤
Shout out to New Zealand, so happy you are here. I'm glad my videos are helpful!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I love him and i know he does too , he is honest ,i trust him a lot , but my problem with him is that sometimes he is distant , he might stay all day with no contact , he drops a good morning and go work and disappears for long hourssss and then talk before going to bed ... I dont chase him rarely blame him , dont make troubles , i try to disappear as well , but i feel annoyed and stressed , especially when we hang out together and have romantic intimate time ,and the other day he behaves like that !! I feel down and depressed !!
I'm a huge fan and I love all of them.
This was the most awaited video from you Alex 😍 Thank you so much for this help. 😇😇 Looking forward for more amazing videos like these 😊😊 Putting a man on pedestal is one of the mistakes v women make, I am sure I won't let him be on the pedestal from now
What can I do with a man who comebacks when I begin to move on... and doesn't want me after a couple of days when I finaly comeback? For short story, this man is very jealous. And when he leaves me, I don't really care because I've toned of men who purchase me. But, when he see me with another man, he comebacks and he's perfect with me. Plus, he's very beautiful and I have a lot of points in common with him. So it's difficult for me to push him away when he comebacks, because no man pleases me or fills me that much.
Finaly, most of the time... he comebacks for two weeks and he makes me live a dream. After he begin to be distant for one week. I take my distance too when he did this. We decide to put a end. And 24hours later, he text me that he wants comeback and love me. And me too I love him, but I'm tired and don't understand his behavior. He already left me and came back five times.
Leave him alone. For good.
You should drop him...
Sounds like you’re just one of many girls on rotation for him, if that’s enough for you, great! If not, move on it will only get worse! Good luck
Move on. He is a heartbreaker 💔
And you say he is beautiful...maybe that is just an outer cover, because no beautiful person would behave like that.
Bonjour Alex !!
I’m in a moment of moving on, doing me, healing
My bf been on and off ghosted me many times and i was stil’ go back to him
This time he ghosted again now i dont chase him!
Let hom gp
But deep down I feel so hurtful
Cant eat, cant sleep
But im not deciving myself that we are done!!!
Thank you so much
Im looking forward the day i can smile again
Merci beaucoup Alex et bon vacances 😁
Courage and strength to u.
Dude they work......I can't believe...my man asked me y I'm ignoring or being distant....n I just said...I'm not distant...I'm focusing on myself more...I need me
i love my self, my happines are more importan than him.am my self always in the pedestal . yes
Pedestal... The Alex's most favourite word 😄
:-)
Men are distant until they ruin the relationship, stomp all of the love out of your heart, and then they come begging you back. But then, I’m no longer interested. His distance turns me off and makes me not trust him. And I don’t mean not contacting me all day, everyday, but if I don’t hear from a man for days, or he cannot seem to give a damn about whether I’m alive or dead, I start to dislike him.
Same! Once a guy starts pulling away and losing interest, my love for him dies too. Out of sight, out of mind. And eventually, I just don't give a shit anymore.
Alex Cormont. Great day!
Thank you for easing my afternoon.
Thank you for being here!
It kinda sucks but it’s also the law of supply and demand. The more available you are, the more they take you for granted. I need to learn more about the human psychology!!!
Hello respected sir . thanks for ur lessons and endless efforts . problem start with imbalance in every aspect of relation . Distance will always disturb the man as he is not used to losing , instead is fond of controlling .it's imp.not to throw to relation right away . thanks sir soooo much . looking forward to ur reply n hoping to work with you in the near future . keep growing with glory of success with blessed wishes . lots of regards sir
Thanks Alex. Could you a video on practical tips on how to be distant without being cold ...... So as to get him. BTW the last part of this video with you in Paris was really cool!!
Do you know anything absolutely twin flames? It basically is a push pull relationship of balance, but when they come together finally they teach feminine/masculine energies this same balance and how to STAY together.
This only works if he ever actually really liked you in the first place
Should you do this through our the course of the relationship or only in the begining?
Wow I really like your video thanks for the information 🙏🙏🙏
Sir Alex thanks for all
Merry Christmas 🎄 and a happy newyear 2020 more blessings to you all your family Sir Alex
Thank you and Happy New Years to you and your loved ones.
If we don't follow each other on social media and he cancels my request saying he wants distance should o block him even though we don't follow each other 🧐. Love it channel🌹
what if there another girl who is trying to take him away ?
So how do you do it? Ignore when he texts sometimes?
I love your french
:)
Alex if your parent don't want the man u want but confront the man u want he is going to dispart from u and he stopped to text and call u,which advise u may like to give to ladies.
I think it super stressy and exhausting with all that game sh*t with men...
im almost 30 now and i always met guys who prefered to test me and play games ,some of them tried to come back weeks or months after they ghosted me. Now it was only ONE time where i really cared for a guy and out of nowhere he unfollowed me and didnt answer me anymore (it was all good, and only a few hours later he suddenly disappears).
This is actually the first time i even noticed that a man is disappearing (with any guys before i didnt notice, cause i didnt care enough for them, as i thought about it now, being in a situation the 1st time with a guy who i DO care for ,i noticed that this is actually not the 1st time ghosting happend to me) . With the guys before it was either i didnt care (as i said before) at all or it was bcs they actually told me why or what is the problem for them. Although now i notice, most of them did just go ghost on me.
A man should just tell you why , then at least it doesnt leave you with a bunch of questions. I dont know how men think ,just disapperaing would be a better way to do so. This way i think it hurts more. Especially if he KNEW that you like him. Now, yes a person does not have to tell u ANYthing ,nobody has to tell u why etc. , but that still does NOT make it ok to do this (especially if he KNEW that u really like him,...and then disappearing??...great -.- )
Theres also some men who ignore and ghost on you (also unfollows u etc) cause he wants YOU to chase them.
Theres so many taktiks some ppl try... like said at the start... it saddens me and its really exhausting
Does distance work on introverted men?
Yes it does!
It fucking works, pull away, don't text as much as you want to, let him do the first step, you just respond to it mirroring his behavior. It works.
Thankyou but how to have distance some examples
Great suggestion!
Can you be unavailable even in long distance relationship???
Thankx for lovely video😍
Thank you too
Thank you for all that you do Alex!
You are very welcome!
Thank You for your support!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert you are welcome Alex!
nice! 😃 A much needed video to the mystery.. 🤔😩
:)
Totally agree with your analysis of Human Psychology !!
How do you help people find their love...good one
Good advice, thank you!
Well said Alex . Thanx 😘
My pleasure!
Brilliant as well as logical.
If you've been in committed relationship for 10 months how long do you keep pushing distance in the works?? Is it all though your life relationships to keep things interesting??
If you are dealing with an adult person, there is no need for games. If there is no equal give & take, don't bother.
Should I not text/call him until he gets in touch with me? At all?
Janine Bonilla if he wanted to really talk to you, he would
Wait until he initiates contact.
Period
Completely agree 100%. But its really really really hard...
OMG its sooooo hard...
Respecting the game. Turns out it's not really a game.
Men are just naturally wired like that so to them...I guess it doesn't really seem like a game as it does to us. To us ladies, we feel like we're being PLAYED with when men supposedly play these GAMES with us but that's just not how it is. I mean of course you get the occasional psycho or narcissist and those mind games are scary.
But otherwise, like Alex said it's about learning, knowing, and respecting human psychology. Once you understand that humans act because we're genetically wired to act the way that we do the "game" will become so much easier. When you're in denial it makes everything seem so bleak and dark.
You are right I have experience about that.
True words Alex!
Now she told me to stop bothering her after 3 days no contact.
Perfect timing
So glad to be here for you!
I love this channel🌸🌸🌸
I really hope this works.
Alex ur really good. .......
Yes I'm experiencing this now with this guy.I'm being distant until he contacts me.
Alex you have the cutest dimples!! 😊
Do you have a French channel? I want to learn about this subject in French.
Yes I do!
We’ve been on and off for 2 1/2 years . He won’t commit at all. But keeps in touch but not a lot of communication. So I finally cut off texting him and asking to get together . It’s been over 2 weeks and I’m sure he’s waiting for my text but I won’t . If he really wants to be with me he’ll reach out if not his loss. I think I’m approaching this the right way ?
What ended up happening?
I am just sooo confused rn.. i moved on from the guy i loved... we were friends and he knew i liked him .. i had confessed twice but he rejected... i couldn't take it anymore cause it felt like he didn't know my importance and took me granted when it was obv he liked me... after 4 months, i had moved on and he texts how much he misses me and how much he loves me... i thought about it for a week and i couldn't just ignore all that pain.. so i told him no.. and he's too hurt and puts these sad stories in insta and is making me regret stuffs.. like what should i even do?? Did i do the right thing or was i an idiot to say no when he obviously likes me soo much now??😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Good advice thank u
How much time should i make distance ?
Does it means, if he pulled away I have to wait for him to chase me back like if he doesn't message me, I will not message him back?
Fe Carcamo yes
This works also with narcissist?
You shouldn't be trying to get a true narcissist back, they are DANGEROUS
Is it the same with no contact after a breakup?
Why if i try to distant then once he makes an efforr and he get what he wants then he pull him away again
relanie pizon never give in is the answer to keep him chasing
How about activating my IG since we're friends there? Would that work also since he's always playing hot and cold.
They dont come back. You both move on.
I think I like women.
Hi Alex, I met this guy a month ago, he is amazing, I like him but he is too busy travelling for work. I miss him and I wanted to initiate contact but I’m afraid that if I won’t contact him whilst he is away he might forgot me completely. Does this trick has a timeframe? Should I wait for him?
Vee you can text him once. If he still ignores your text, just move on
Hi Alex Good Morning From Singapore! When A Woman Who Block The Guy He Has No Chance To Comes Back! What If He Is Distant & He Will Be Challenged He Panicked Or Worried? Can The Guy Attract The Woman He Lost Her Trust Or Concern? If He is A Player Or A CassaNova? He Is Not Ready Or Afraid Of Commitment Or Relationship?
Thank you
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Even if it was only 2 months, will the distance work
Yes, give it some time!
I want your support :(
Greetings from Algeria
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Hello to Algeria, so glad you are here!
hehee he keeps distance means he doesnt love you any morr or nver loved enough to be committed to you...he may not be aware of his emotions for you while you can be aware of yours.just because We get into a relationship ,doesnt mean both sides have same intensity.thats why women fall for easily being more emotional ,thinking every word guys say ,their leading you on is all about love..and honestly you wake up from yoir own dream you have created in you ;)
Thank you for your support!
Hi Alex! Should the man ALWAYS text/pursue the woman first or is this only in the beginning? I'm wondering both in dating and beginning of relationship
In the beginning the man should do the pursing. Let him pursue you, it's the man's nature to be the one who pursues.