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Since I became alcohol sober 9 months ago & dropped friends who peer pressured me & were in victim mindset …. I’ve experienced massive positive shifts in my outward appearance & relationships ❤❤❤ thank you for truth telling
I lost both parents and grandparents the last 4 years, resulting in severe depression and grief. I lost myself and ended up self medicating and not taking care of myself. I am 67 days clean and completely making over my life and myself. I want to be organized, classy, feminine, healthy, successful, and happy. I want THAT life. Thank you so much for this video.
Bro you are literally doing social service for girls who are going thru shit and don't know what to do.. They want to be better but don't know how.. Much much love, respect and appreciation to you...... You go girl.. More power to youu❤❤❤❤❤❤love from india
When she’s talking about getting back to baseline it reminds me of what my yoga instructors always say. Class always starts with breathing exercises and the instructors always not that whenever we gets stressed or agitated or overwhelmed throughout the day, we can always focus on our breathing and get back to that calm space. It’s been really helpful.
I’m in my 50’s…… not looking to attract a man just striving for the best version of myself. Your content is great….some good reminders…..some new content! Thank you…keep it comng
I’m 25 and learned a lot of these lessons through trial and error unfortunately. You’re a wonderful woman to share this with others and I hope every young person on here adheres to this wisdom. The quicker you obtain these principles, the easier life will be.
Im gonna hit 25 next year and I'm so scared because that age seems so serious. Im still figuring out all of these things and Vicki has been such a big help🥹
@@stephanieC2 i guess it is but its the fact that I'm already in my mid 20s, i dont have my life figured out yet and my Indian parents (its pretty common here) are really trying to push me into the marriage mindset, they want me settled before 28, at most, 29 and its so scaryyy
This video ended at 1717, which is an angel number. I looked it up and Google said: 1717 is a sign telling you to be a leader for yourself and prioritize your dreams and goals" which is what this video is about so crazy❤️
From all your videos I have learned that detachment is a key for everything even to become high value women as it helps you relay on yourself for everything which increase your vibration. Thank you for all your videos ❤❤❤❤
After years of studying and constantly educating myself into things I have realised how exponential of a growth knowledge is. You start slow and once you reach a specific lever, your knowledge grows faster than ever before. To anyone reading this, do not give up on your studies and always seek knowledge. It is the only thing nobody can take away from you.
I was listening to this video in the background, but had to replay it with full focus from the start. This is pure gold! Thank you so much for your work. You're helping me tremendously to live a more aware life.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:29 🌟 *High-value woman habits involve making small changes within yourself, not waiting for external factors to change.* 01:50 💪 *Building a high vibrational zone within yourself with core values attracts success in money, relationships, and charisma.* 02:43 🚶♀️ *Create a fear of losing you by being willing to walk away from relationships that don't serve you, setting boundaries and building expensive energy.* 05:48 💰 *Assign value to people in your life; strive for higher-value friendships, setting standards for the energy you allow.* 08:07 🤝 *Align your goals with those who share similar aspirations, and don't compromise your dreams for others who can't meet you at your next level.* 09:02 🔄 *Develop deep self-awareness, understanding your baseline emotions, and learning to return to your center quickly after being thrown off course.* 12:30 💃 *Cultivate mystery through charisma; focus on others, ask genuine questions, and be interested in people to make yourself more attractive.* 15:30 📚 *Diversify your skills and knowledge, invest in high-income skills related to the digital world, and be a perpetual student for continuous growth.* Made with HARPA AI
Ahhhh! Speak! I feel pretty good about myself, but I am ALWAYS open to be better/smarter/stronger, and you are very helpful in that 😊 My grandfather always said, "You can never learn too much". He had many college degrees from prestigious colleges, but he was very humble and never acted "better than" and was always open to learning 😊
Wow. You really opened my eyes about valuing myself and asserting expensive energy in my life towards others. Giving luxurious energy i find is within me because of my positivity and i think creating this mindset is helping build my dreams for myself. Thank you for this message
Thank you beautiful. I’ve been using my skill set, setting strong boundaries and up leveling myself. Currently working on a classy upscale wardrobe and networking with people whom are at the level I want to achieve.
love the “put a value to 5 people in your life” exercise and i immediately thought… “person #1, millions of dollars, person #2, 7 million to be exact, person #3 thousands…” and you were like “this is a $2 friend, $10 friend” i’m like pause😂😂
Vickita I absolutely love your videos! Your style of giving advice is really straightforward and honest, which nobody really is these days… Thank you for this video 🙏 ❤
I've watched this video 3x now and so inspired to level up after depression and loss. Thank you for your support and helping others that want to change and elevate their lives. ❤
I find alot of brave people in the comment section and I'm so happy. Because it's all about overcoming, people who are on the process of overcoming, then the ones who learned and choose themselves. Wow ❤it's a big motivation
I could not be more grateful for you sharing this information. I’ve been struggling so bad in my separation and divorce with my 3 year old and just trying to get me back. Thank you for putting the girls on. Especially those of us who don’t already have ppl who can help us maneuver in life.
Can you do a video elaborating on being more mysterious? You talked about sharing less and that's something I really struggle with. My mother used to say "you can't hold water!" Which means I can't keep anything to myself 😊
7:25 cannot partake in this life and want the dream life. Gotta choose and live the dream. Might have to go there alone. 13:38 charisma - genuinely focusing on and understanding the other person. Surround yourself with people who genuinely interest you. Love it!
So what do you do when you're past those draining relationships? I have no draining friends but no fueling friends either? Creators online and books have my companions. What do I do to get those I admire be my friends? How to find and build fueling friendships?
Good info - the only thing Im side eyeing is that humans "naturally" do what you allow. If someone consistently invited me into a one-sided exchange where only I benefit.. I would quickly feel like a user and immediately start to reciprocate. Ppl who dont have that natural inclination may want to check their conscience and level of shame.
This video is amazing and youk ow I value my energy a lot. I won't let anyone taint my energy. When there are ups and downs I meditate and relax, and cleanse my energy. I'm only drawn to people who shares the same energy as me.
Your advice is much deeper than your title of becoming certain type of “women”. These advice should go to any human being on earth to be decent and respectful to each other.
I am 53 years old and wish that I had someone like vickita in my life many moons ago. Surround yourself, now with high value people. People who share your goals and energy. Otherwise, you will be my age and all alone. After cutting everyone out of my life who was bringing me down, I found that I had no one. It's very difficult as you get older to make friends. If you don't want to be the only one on your team, get out there and meet as many people as you can. That way, you can filter out the ones that serve you and let go of the ones that don't. Once you have found your tribe, keep them close .😊
Exactly what I needed to hear today . Thank you for your words of wisdom and strong, yet calming energy 🙏 . I’m going to start applying them right away ☺️
Good day sis. First of all thank you so much for the wonderful videos i stumbled upon few days ago amd trust me i have been searching the internet for stuffs like this i need to learn from because of my very bad experiences both dating and in general especially being a high value woman and i have watch few videos which i have learnt alot from and i thought not to be selfish but to subscribe yesterday because of how of rare gem you are and i really appreciate it thank you for helping people like me to start levelling up my life i check you courses which i really want to get but all i can say is i always get everything i want just like how mysteriously i got your videos. Thank you so much 🥰😍 may you continue to grow in all your endeavors. Amen
You are so smart I wish I was as wise as you I always used and ruined my relationships with my trust issues specially giving my time and heart to man who don’t deserve it.
Hi Vicki! I just came across your video. TBH I was off-putted by the tittle, it sounded like lame tiktok stuff. But then your video was very informational and intelligent, therefore intriguing. I'd love to see a more personal video to get to know more about you, like how you got into personal development etc. :)
I LOVE U I LOVE YOUR MINDSET YOU ARE SO DIFFERENT AND HONEST AND AUTHENTIC FROM OTHER RUclipsRS. PLEASE KEEP IT I SUBSCRIBED AMD NOTIFS ON. I love your content you are so honest and you tell women what they need to hear without the sugar coat thank you so much
Hi Vickita! Thank you so much for making so many amazing videos and always inspiring us to be better. Is there any way you could make a video on how to move on from your past on your leveling up journey and be unbothered by the mistakes you made even if it still haunts you? It will be really helpful as most of us fall into the spiral of often thinking / having a mindset of ‘everyone knows I’m not all that/ my image is irreparable,so why bother becoming better?’ Thanks a lot❤️❤️ sending lots of love and blessing
There are many low quailty things that people place high value on focus on being high quality and your reality will reflect that. Value / expenses is a price. We are not goods to be brought but an honor to be earned. Build up worthiness it is a standard. I understand what was intended and loved the points in the video but be mindful of the words used they cast spells on reality
I love your videos! They are helping me create my reality. When holding a conversation I have always had a habit of making it solely about the other person. I do it out of fear because I have a hard time feeling like I’m not interesting enough to even talk about. How do you find balance
Hi Vickita, I am trying to do all of it. In isolation, it's easy. But when it's a face to face interaction I get carried away. For example, a guy started saying how beautiful i was and how he loves me (apparently I am his neighbor) also, he was pretty drunk at that time. He was gay so I didn't feel unsafe. Then he pointed out my nose ring and said how he got his nose pierced as well. And without even thinking I offered him my another nose ring (which I really like). The interaction felt good at the time but later I thought I should have excused myself and gone to my dorm rather than entertaining him. Especially offering him something which was important to me. How can I translate this detached energy into real life as well? It gets difficult especially if the other person is being nice.
Hi Mariah! I think you should first, be easier with yourself. It's not that you weren't detached, its that you were interacting with an open heart (which is amazing) so you felt called to offer your nose ring. Think less of detachment as being cold, unresponsive and guarded, and think of it more as detached from the outcome of anything. That means just going with the flow of each moment and interaction you have and accept it for what it is/was. You'll feel a lot less pressure to "perform" a detached energy which causes less inner dialogue after the interaction has passed. I hope that helps!
Hi thank you for your content. I had a query.I do not let people disrespect me or say something that I don't like. I express anything I don't like. I am protective of my self. But I also like to be nice and comforting to people. So sometimes in my office if some one is new I try to comfort them by being warm. You spoke about being hard to access is it ok to be warm and comforting people. Does that loose my value?
I am not the OP but I would say...be warm to those who haven't earned coldness. But if someone abuses your warmth or sees it as weakness, turn the warmth valve off. I feel it's great to be warm and if someone is respectful to you and shows you respect...they deserve warmth. But if they are fickle or manipulative...that's when I would be polite but not as 'inviting.'
I know some people who love to talk only about themselves and I always make the point to talk about them in front of them or to them “pumping their tires” you could say. I really am just chuckling on the inside. 😂
So what are your thoughts on women who have been abused or are in bad financial position due to men who have been taking advantage . How do get out of that situation ?
The only person currently in my life who consistencly steps over my clearly set boundaries is my own brother. How do I make him stop, he just dumps his hateful energy on me whenever he feels like it. He likes to look at at the videos which affirm his hatred towards women (he lives with our mom though, respects my older half-sister as we did not grow up together, has some female friends), but when it comes to me yuonger sibling - he just sends that hateful shit and energy to me disguising it in the "what do you think?? "are all women really thinking like that??" etc. It really drains out any good mood that I have that day. I clearly told him to not do that as I will block him and I already did block him a few times and leftour family group chat because he constantly did that there too.
Wooooooooooow that was such a powerful video Vickita. I love that you didnt focus on beauty or external things... I really need to acquire more skills, that was my favourite part of the video ❤ Just bought a new course this month, Im excited to dive in :) On the topic of financial security, what do you think of having multiple streams of income ?
@@VickitaTrivedi I agree, just needed more insight about the internal that's why this video was just perfect ! Thanks for your response, I appreciate :)
Love this question. I used to just smoke pot all the time. In some ways i miss that "baseline" but i was obviously not hanging out with high value people then. Its a fact. And before that it was toxic positivity. Now I just realize some triggers take longer to work through and no deserves my emotional reaction. Pause and respond. Never react. Affirmation: I take back my power and remove all interference ❤
@@PeachyKinsgood for you! 🎉I'm trying to get off pot. I realized the only reason why I was doing it was to de-stress and to be able to fall asleep. But the side effects are terrible and it makes me eat too much. I'm now trying to find ways to manage my stress and fall asleep that aren't drug related.
Oh it's not just cause you allow people to use you, but because they also want to. People ain't that angelic, so when you open the door for them, they say "oh we won't come trough cause we don't want to use you". Our responsibility for allowing it is fully ours, but saying that people don't want to use others is a bit silly. Aside of that, love your videos, you got a lot of rights in your sayings in videos in general 😊
@@VickitaTrivedi that's what I used to think myself, but based on personal experience wouldn't say it anymore, since most people are well aware very moment when they get used from others or get hurt, but when they act unfair they don't think about how other person feels. Purely lack of compassion, but they like the benefits and easy ways, so what the hack. The more I thought about people of being unaware of their wrong doings, the more chances I gave them in hope that they will understand some day, the less they understood, even then when I openly told my issues. Some thought I will bare patience forever I guess. Deep in their hearts people know whats their intention
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Wonderful that you do summaries. Thank You 😘
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To be honest I never come across high-quality videos like yours 🙌 bravo 👏
Thanks for the summary😍❤️
Since I became alcohol sober 9 months ago & dropped friends who peer pressured me & were in victim mindset …. I’ve experienced massive positive shifts in my outward appearance & relationships ❤❤❤ thank you for truth telling
This is HUGE!!!! Congratulations!❤
so huge! im so proud of you!!!
Yay!🎉
Just goes to show, when we lie down with dogs, we get up with fleas.
Amazing!!! Good on you!!!
Happy for you
I lost both parents and grandparents the last 4 years, resulting in severe depression and grief. I lost myself and ended up self medicating and not taking care of myself.
I am 67 days clean and completely making over my life and myself.
I want to be organized, classy, feminine, healthy, successful, and happy.
I want THAT life.
Thank you so much for this video.
I'm sorry for your loss❤️❤️
You're doing great!
Think of you. Take care, it must hurt a lot.
I'm sorry for your loss and sending hugs.
U can be so proud of yourself Queen feel u 🩷🩷🩷
You got this mamas❤
The ability to walk away is truly LIFE CHANGING
LITCHRALLY
Bro you are literally doing social service for girls who are going thru shit and don't know what to do.. They want to be better but don't know how.. Much much love, respect and appreciation to you...... You go girl.. More power to youu❤❤❤❤❤❤love from india
When she’s talking about getting back to baseline it reminds me of what my yoga instructors always say. Class always starts with breathing exercises and the instructors always not that whenever we gets stressed or agitated or overwhelmed throughout the day, we can always focus on our breathing and get back to that calm space. It’s been really helpful.
I’m in my 50’s…… not looking to attract a man just striving for the best version of myself. Your content is great….some good reminders…..some new content! Thank you…keep it comng
the best goal ❤
You and me both, thanks for sharing.
@@VickitaTrivedi hi 💋🤎
Same here
I’m 25 and learned a lot of these lessons through trial and error unfortunately. You’re a wonderful woman to share this with others and I hope every young person on here adheres to this wisdom. The quicker you obtain these principles, the easier life will be.
Im gonna hit 25 next year and I'm so scared because that age seems so serious. Im still figuring out all of these things and Vicki has been such a big help🥹
25 is still super young!!!
You're lucky you have this informative early ❤
@@stephanieC2 i guess it is but its the fact that I'm already in my mid 20s, i dont have my life figured out yet and my Indian parents (its pretty common here) are really trying to push me into the marriage mindset, they want me settled before 28, at most, 29 and its so scaryyy
As long as you’re not dead, you can learn something. I’ll be 50 on my next birthday, and I’m still learning.
This video ended at 1717, which is an angel number. I looked it up and Google said: 1717 is a sign telling you to be a leader for yourself and prioritize your dreams and goals" which is what this video is about so crazy❤️
I noticed that too!
From all your videos I have learned that detachment is a key for everything even to become high value women as it helps you relay on yourself for everything which increase your vibration. Thank you for all your videos ❤❤❤❤
this is the truth!
After years of studying and constantly educating myself into things I have realised how exponential of a growth knowledge is. You start slow and once you reach a specific lever, your knowledge grows faster than ever before. To anyone reading this, do not give up on your studies and always seek knowledge. It is the only thing nobody can take away from you.
Nice
I was listening to this video in the background, but had to replay it with full focus from the start. This is pure gold! Thank you so much for your work. You're helping me tremendously to live a more aware life.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:29 🌟 *High-value woman habits involve making small changes within yourself, not waiting for external factors to change.*
01:50 💪 *Building a high vibrational zone within yourself with core values attracts success in money, relationships, and charisma.*
02:43 🚶♀️ *Create a fear of losing you by being willing to walk away from relationships that don't serve you, setting boundaries and building expensive energy.*
05:48 💰 *Assign value to people in your life; strive for higher-value friendships, setting standards for the energy you allow.*
08:07 🤝 *Align your goals with those who share similar aspirations, and don't compromise your dreams for others who can't meet you at your next level.*
09:02 🔄 *Develop deep self-awareness, understanding your baseline emotions, and learning to return to your center quickly after being thrown off course.*
12:30 💃 *Cultivate mystery through charisma; focus on others, ask genuine questions, and be interested in people to make yourself more attractive.*
15:30 📚 *Diversify your skills and knowledge, invest in high-income skills related to the digital world, and be a perpetual student for continuous growth.*
Made with HARPA AI
Ahhhh! Speak! I feel pretty good about myself, but I am ALWAYS open to be better/smarter/stronger, and you are very helpful in that 😊 My grandfather always said, "You can never learn too much". He had many college degrees from prestigious colleges, but he was very humble and never acted "better than" and was always open to learning 😊
Wow. You really opened my eyes about valuing myself and asserting expensive energy in my life towards others. Giving luxurious energy i find is within me because of my positivity and i think creating this mindset is helping build my dreams for myself. Thank you for this message
Thank you beautiful. I’ve been using my skill set, setting strong boundaries and up leveling myself. Currently working on a classy upscale wardrobe and networking with people whom are at the level I want to achieve.
I love the way you break down and explain things vickita. You are very intelligent!
thank you so much!
You are changing my life. I needed this advice my whole life. Bless youu
I'M JUST OBSESSED WITH YOUR CHANNEL! I TRULY CAN NOT GET ENOUGH OF YOUR VIDEOS! SERIOUSLY MY FAVE RUclipsR. THE DETAILS AND PLAYBOOKS?! GODS WORK!
love the “put a value to 5 people in your life” exercise and i immediately thought… “person #1, millions of dollars, person #2, 7 million to be exact, person #3 thousands…” and you were like “this is a $2 friend, $10 friend” i’m like pause😂😂
It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
Vickita I absolutely love your videos! Your style of giving advice is really straightforward and honest, which nobody really is these days… Thank you for this video 🙏 ❤
wow thats so kind, thanks very much!
Im in college right now and GIRLLLLL! im gonna live these lessons by my heart. Loved your contents💋
You got this!
I don’t watch a lot of videos, but I watched most of your videos in 2 days! You have gained new subscriber. Amazing content.
I've watched this video 3x now and so inspired to level up after depression and loss. Thank you for your support and helping others that want to change and elevate their lives. ❤
Every sentence in your materials is deep and rich and deserves reflection. Thank you
Wow, thank you
This video is platinum and I'll keep watching this video again and again until I become awesome at implementing these tips. You are amazing Vickita! 😍
😊
I find alot of brave people in the comment section and I'm so happy. Because it's all about overcoming, people who are on the process of overcoming, then the ones who learned and choose themselves. Wow ❤it's a big motivation
There's something captivating about books like 'Women's Magic Truths' that quietly challenge the status quo.
You're out here helping many other people. Thank you so much for your information and hard work. ❤
love your videos - came across you today - I see now my baseline is terrible! Learning so much in the last half hour
I could not be more grateful for you sharing this information. I’ve been struggling so bad in my separation and divorce with my 3 year old and just trying to get me back. Thank you for putting the girls on. Especially those of us who don’t already have ppl who can help us maneuver in life.
I rarely comment on videos, but u must say......you're video is the one with the most substance I've encountered. Truly love it. Thank you. #amazed
Can you do a video elaborating on being more mysterious? You talked about sharing less and that's something I really struggle with. My mother used to say "you can't hold water!" Which means I can't keep anything to myself 😊
You are super star for my self you help me by every thing i relly change my life thank you vickita❤
We add value to a man, you're the prize. Don't ever tolerate disrespect and make sure he's investing more.
So much beauty and knowledge and value from this amazing woman. I’m a man this still holds value
7:25 cannot partake in this life and want the dream life. Gotta choose and live the dream. Might have to go there alone.
13:38 charisma - genuinely focusing on and understanding the other person. Surround yourself with people who genuinely interest you.
Love it!
Your content is gold! Thank you
so sweet, thank you!
I am a newcomer to this channel, and absolutely loving your videos. So much wisdom.
Thank you for sharing this information beautiful ❤️ I needed this!
So what do you do when you're past those draining relationships? I have no draining friends but no fueling friends either? Creators online and books have my companions. What do I do to get those I admire be my friends? How to find and build fueling friendships?
Good info - the only thing Im side eyeing is that humans "naturally" do what you allow. If someone consistently invited me into a one-sided exchange where only I benefit.. I would quickly feel like a user and immediately start to reciprocate. Ppl who dont have that natural inclination may want to check their conscience and level of shame.
Agreed. Red flag
I love your content so much am 16 and thankfully improving every single day u helped me so much thank you ❤
im rooting for you!!! such a powerful thing to be doing at 16
@@VickitaTrivedi appreciate your kindness you're so strong ♥️
This video is amazing and youk ow I value my energy a lot. I won't let anyone taint my energy. When there are ups and downs I meditate and relax, and cleanse my energy. I'm only drawn to people who shares the same energy as me.
OMG. This. So very succinct, accurate, and positively life shifting.⬆️⬆️⬆️
Your best video yet.
wow! thanks!
Your advice is much deeper than your title of becoming certain type of “women”. These advice should go to any human being on earth to be decent and respectful to each other.
Love the educational value of all your videos 😊Thanks so much!
You are so welcome!
You are someone i would love to support
Thank you for your honest sister talk that will help empower our womanhood ❤
Brilliant video Vickita, your video is extremely informative and fun to watch, not to mention you are absolutely gorgeous.
Thank you so much! ❤️
love u girl , loved the video , as always
Thank you so much!!
I am 53 years old and wish that I had someone like vickita in my life many moons ago. Surround yourself, now with high value people. People who share your goals and energy. Otherwise, you will be my age and all alone. After cutting everyone out of my life who was bringing me down, I found that I had no one. It's very difficult as you get older to make friends. If you don't want to be the only one on your team, get out there and meet as many people as you can. That way, you can filter out the ones that serve you and let go of the ones that don't. Once you have found your tribe, keep them close .😊
Exactly what I needed to hear today . Thank you for your words of wisdom and strong, yet calming energy 🙏 . I’m going to start applying them right away ☺️
You are so welcome! thanks for those kind words
B4 1:45 Greatly Appreciated
So happy I fumbled upon your channel. You are really Amazing. TY !!! Much Love From Boston
You give the best advice ❤️thank you!!!
Happy to help!
This video means a lot. Its everything that I needed to hear to understand my situation. Its like u wrote it for me . Thank you❤❤
the whole point of being a high value woman is to take responsibility for everything that happens in your life.
Stop making your dreams smaller to fit the people around you. Gold
Good day sis.
First of all thank you so much for the wonderful videos i stumbled upon few days ago amd trust me i have been searching the internet for stuffs like this i need to learn from because of my very bad experiences both dating and in general especially being a high value woman and i have watch few videos which i have learnt alot from and i thought not to be selfish but to subscribe yesterday because of how of rare gem you are and i really appreciate it thank you for helping people like me to start levelling up my life i check you courses which i really want to get but all i can say is i always get everything i want just like how mysteriously i got your videos. Thank you so much 🥰😍 may you continue to grow in all your endeavors. Amen
Thank you for creating such content. ❤
You are so smart I wish I was as wise as you I always used and ruined my relationships with my trust issues specially giving my time and heart to man who don’t deserve it.
One of perfect video on this topic ever 💜
You have changed my life. Thank you beautiful ❤
made my day!
*💋 chef’s kiss*
Well explained
thanks my love
Excellent video, great points well articulated.
Just found your content.
Thank you, subscribed.
I love your content , thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
I appreciate that!
Hi Vicki! I just came across your video. TBH I was off-putted by the tittle, it sounded like lame tiktok stuff. But then your video was very informational and intelligent, therefore intriguing. I'd love to see a more personal video to get to know more about you, like how you got into personal development etc. :)
I LOVE U I LOVE YOUR MINDSET YOU ARE SO DIFFERENT AND HONEST AND AUTHENTIC FROM OTHER RUclipsRS. PLEASE KEEP IT I SUBSCRIBED AMD NOTIFS ON. I love your content you are so honest and you tell women what they need to hear without the sugar coat thank you so much
Perfection. Thank you. ❤
Yes to everything you said!
Thank you very much for your advices. Where to find that friends?
Love your videos ❤❤❤
Hi Vickita! Thank you so much for making so many amazing videos and always inspiring us to be better. Is there any way you could make a video on how to move on from your past on your leveling up journey and be unbothered by the mistakes you made even if it still haunts you? It will be really helpful as most of us fall into the spiral of often thinking / having a mindset of ‘everyone knows I’m not all that/ my image is irreparable,so why bother becoming better?’ Thanks a lot❤️❤️ sending lots of love and blessing
Its an energy. Wheww mind blowing
Totally. Love your honestly, did the same with the “friends”
Hey vickita I'm 19
Love your content ❤
Can you make a video focusing on age group 18-25 on the topics relationships focus etc ❤️❤️
Need to be reminded of this every once in a while ❤❤❤
You deserve more followers
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There are many low quailty things that people place high value on focus on being high quality and your reality will reflect that.
Value / expenses is a price. We are not goods to be brought but an honor to be earned. Build up worthiness it is a standard.
I understand what was intended and loved the points in the video but be mindful of the words used they cast spells on reality
Im long for your videos the same way Im long for my bf's replies 🤧 keep it up girl you are killing it 🎉🎉🎉
hahahhaha i love this
I love your videos! They are helping me create my reality. When holding a conversation I have always had a habit of making it solely about the other person. I do it out of fear because I have a hard time feeling like I’m not interesting enough to even talk about. How do you find balance
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Hi Vickita,
I am trying to do all of it. In isolation, it's easy. But when it's a face to face interaction I get carried away. For example, a guy started saying how beautiful i was and how he loves me (apparently I am his neighbor) also, he was pretty drunk at that time. He was gay so I didn't feel unsafe. Then he pointed out my nose ring and said how he got his nose pierced as well. And without even thinking I offered him my another nose ring (which I really like). The interaction felt good at the time but later I thought I should have excused myself and gone to my dorm rather than entertaining him. Especially offering him something which was important to me.
How can I translate this detached energy into real life as well? It gets difficult especially if the other person is being nice.
Hi Mariah!
I think you should first, be easier with yourself. It's not that you weren't detached, its that you were interacting with an open heart (which is amazing) so you felt called to offer your nose ring. Think less of detachment as being cold, unresponsive and guarded, and think of it more as detached from the outcome of anything. That means just going with the flow of each moment and interaction you have and accept it for what it is/was. You'll feel a lot less pressure to "perform" a detached energy which causes less inner dialogue after the interaction has passed. I hope that helps!
I totally get it. Thank you 😊🎉
Hi thank you for your content. I had a query.I do not let people disrespect me or say something that I don't like. I express anything I don't like. I am protective of my self. But I also like to be nice and comforting to people. So sometimes in my office if some one is new I try to comfort them by being warm. You spoke about being hard to access is it ok to be warm and comforting people. Does that loose my value?
I am not the OP but I would say...be warm to those who haven't earned coldness. But if someone abuses your warmth or sees it as weakness, turn the warmth valve off. I feel it's great to be warm and if someone is respectful to you and shows you respect...they deserve warmth. But if they are fickle or manipulative...that's when I would be polite but not as 'inviting.'
I felt this and gonna take steps to do this best my ability. Make steps to making income to get own place.
High family High wealth High value.
I know some people who love to talk only about themselves and I always make the point to talk about them in front of them or to them “pumping their tires” you could say.
I really am just chuckling on the inside. 😂
Amazing video!
Thanks!
So what are your thoughts on women who have been abused or are in bad financial position due to men who have been taking advantage . How do get out of that situation ?
Timestamps would be awesome on these longer vids
Theyre in the video (chapter cards) and the description
The only person currently in my life who consistencly steps over my clearly set boundaries is my own brother. How do I make him stop, he just dumps his hateful energy on me whenever he feels like it.
He likes to look at at the videos which affirm his hatred towards women (he lives with our mom though, respects my older half-sister as we did not grow up together, has some female friends), but when it comes to me yuonger sibling - he just sends that hateful shit and energy to me disguising it in the "what do you think?? "are all women really thinking like that??" etc.
It really drains out any good mood that I have that day.
I clearly told him to not do that as I will block him and I already did block him a few times and leftour family group chat because he constantly did that there too.
I’m alone for years, because people are intimidated of my energy 😆😆 Lovers and friends. Most of them prefer to become victims than level up
Wooooooooooow that was such a powerful video Vickita. I love that you didnt focus on beauty or external things...
I really need to acquire more skills, that was my favourite part of the video ❤ Just bought a new course this month, Im excited to dive in :) On the topic of financial security, what do you think of having multiple streams of income ?
I think both internal and external are equally important but acquire those skills girl! I think multiple streams of income is a must
@@VickitaTrivedi I agree, just needed more insight about the internal that's why this video was just perfect !
Thanks for your response, I appreciate :)
Babe, is there a book you recommend to come back to baseline quicker?
i actually don't have a rec, but its really in nervous system regulation so look into that !!!
Love this question. I used to just smoke pot all the time. In some ways i miss that "baseline" but i was obviously not hanging out with high value people then. Its a fact. And before that it was toxic positivity.
Now I just realize some triggers take longer to work through and no deserves my emotional reaction. Pause and respond. Never react.
Affirmation: I take back my power and remove all interference ❤
@@PeachyKinsgood for you! 🎉I'm trying to get off pot. I realized the only reason why I was doing it was to de-stress and to be able to fall asleep. But the side effects are terrible and it makes me eat too much. I'm now trying to find ways to manage my stress and fall asleep that aren't drug related.
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Oh it's not just cause you allow people to use you, but because they also want to. People ain't that angelic, so when you open the door for them, they say "oh we won't come trough cause we don't want to use you". Our responsibility for allowing it is fully ours, but saying that people don't want to use others is a bit silly. Aside of that, love your videos, you got a lot of rights in your sayings in videos in general 😊
I think it's more a subconscious motivation than it is conscious ☺️
@@VickitaTrivedi that's what I used to think myself, but based on personal experience wouldn't say it anymore, since most people are well aware very moment when they get used from others or get hurt, but when they act unfair they don't think about how other person feels. Purely lack of compassion, but they like the benefits and easy ways, so what the hack. The more I thought about people of being unaware of their wrong doings, the more chances I gave them in hope that they will understand some day, the less they understood, even then when I openly told my issues. Some thought I will bare patience forever I guess. Deep in their hearts people know whats their intention
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Can you make a video on hobbies