you’re not boring, you just lack social skills
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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omg, the ending !? so abrupt. Don't know what happened there friends !!!
You see, the problem with everybody liking you because you make them feel heard is that everything's great, untill you're in a place where no one listens to what you have to say and takes you for granted
so true, it feels like being taken advantage of
@@elisethearmy cause it is, quite literally, being taken advantage of. They take your precious energy, without giving back anything but their superior presence
So true, I am the person who is curious and listens well to what others have to say, but I often realize that I gain nothing of that, only waste my time in many cases by being too available. I’m trying to learn to walk away and not get engaged when there’s no value to me. Because not everyone is so ready to spare me a minute when I’d like one.
@@Kumulmeskis you gain information and it's the key to understand the world, so don't be too harsh on yourself. The ability to walk away is crucial to stay sane if you live like this tho. What is helpful to me, is actually listening to my curiosity. If somebody can keep me curious for a long time it's a good sign to continue the relationship. If it runs out after a few (or often one) conversations (cause this person gave me every detail about their past and current experiences) I back off
100%
This is so true! So many people have the attitude if "That's how I am, people will take it or leave it" instead of asking themselves how they can approve themselves.
Communication and speech!
"Talking from your chest rather than your throat"
Clear
Concise
Articulate
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
The “I m a boring person” attitude creeps into people when they don't put enough efforts. They need to be interested rather than being interesting to learn more. Then only others will take interest. All the best girls who are watching Vickita ❤
This is such a quality video. She's just summarised what I have been working on in therapy for the last six months in under 30 mins 👏👏👏
I got u!!!
I don't say this lightly but u have honestly been life changing. You have inspired me to really dig deep and work on myself to be the best version. You actually embody magnetism and authenticity in your videos and it is contagious. Please continue making videos because you might be the best person on youtube.
this is so kind 🥺
Personally, the problem I have since I improved my social skills, which I didn't expect at all , it's that there are more haters and envious people who try to drag my reputation down, and I don't know how to manage them😮💨I would love to have a video from you one day on how to deal with jealous and envious people, Vickita❤And thank you a lot for your amazing videos❤❤❤
Keep growing and improving! At the same time, distance yourself from the haters and minimize interactions with them. Literally, those same people might still complain or speak negatively if you had poor social skills.
Thank you for speaking about this topic. I used to be super confident and fun but since I've awakened spiritually and learned the power of being in my divine feminine energy, I tend to do a lot less now in social situations. Speaking less and being softer makes me feel feminine and magnetic but I feel like I'm missing that spark and vibrancy that comes from being more outgoing and playful. I will work on that. 💖
Honestly one of the most helpful and informative RUclipsrs 😭❤️
Facts
Agree. I often forget how old she is because she is so wise beyond her years. She is an excellent person for young women to emulate. She has just the right balance of strength and femininity.
made my day!!!
@@VickitaTrivedi MINE ASWELLL❤️
@@denisedoherty4909 i know right!
MY GIRL VICKITA ur out here saving LIVES thank u !! ❤
"I really don't know what to add because I don't really do anything. I don't get out of the house..."
Me watching in bed because my parents don't let me leave the house and I don't have any friends either...
It can be hard to make friends in middle school/highschool. Hang in there! Would your parents let you go somewhere safe such as church events or sports? If you have strict parents start with that and over time you'll build trust and be able to go out more (:
@@Hiii_ItsTori Hi, well our Church doesn't have much people my age and while I do chit chat with them we aren't that close. And tbh, my for my parents it's not that they can trust me or not.
1) they're too scared for me to leave the house or go to a friend's house as a girl in this society. It's not really that safe.
2)They can be overprotective too sometimes, and controlling, so what they do and did sometime is that they try to control(indirectly) what friends I make...
You deserve so many more followers. I can definitely see it happen anytime soon now. Your content is really good
One of the best videos I have seen on this topic. 💯💯💯
OMG i keep saving your videoes to my healing folder. Like u are the best person i have Found on RUclips ❤
Hi Vickita, I have made it a routine to watch one video from your channel daily and grasp all the knowledge you impart, to develop my personality. I resonate with all the things you say....I always thought that improving ir changing myself meant losing my authenticity but i was wrong cause I see my peers who were behind me but now have surpassed me in different fields of life.
One of the best people I’ve followed, also shared your content to multiple friends ❤❤
20:40 maybe they are trying hard to learn a new language :) you never truly know… Sometimes good things can sound like a bad habit if you do not know how to deliver your point.
I Love your video thank you for your wisdom . Keep up the good work.
Please drop your makeup routine, I lately have been obessed with it
Not just you! I need to know her makeup routine
After getting back into horse training after years not - it changed everything. Its like a magnet. Even just walking around in a gas station in my horse gear not even looking around I will often notice mens heads turning. I think it is my joy and poise or energy, well who knows??? I also only need to mention this in a conversation with men and they are instantly interested and impressed. I didnt even do this before since my ex hated me talking about horses but vow, was I mistaken!! Other guys love it. I am breaking in (since you are American I use these words although its called sth entirely different in my language) a horse now. Both men and women seem to find this impressive. My BF now (who is so amazing) loooooves hearing me talk about this young colt. He
That’s great. I experience something similar when I dance on a regular basis. I’m lighter, happier, joy-filled. Men come out of the wood work wherever I go. A guy even chased me down across a parking lot once to tell me how beautiful I was!
Vicki talking about attractive personality and also looking bomb at the same time is the kind of energy I'm claiming in 2024😂❤️
hehehe
Love this & your outfit 💖✨
Is it weird to never talk to your coworkers
You looking golden girllll ✨✨✨
It's called the ability to socially mediate
looking gorgeous
Go off, girl. It's evident that you are educated.
thank you 🥺❤
hey! i exercise but all my fat builds up in my face and not body. how do i reduce that????
luv this look on you
Omg I freakin love Bethany🎉🎉🎉 lol #rhw
I love youre advivce in this video.
But you are so extra stunning ❤love this look on you 💕✨
Wow I never thought about that. It’s my personality. 🤯
So true! Your looks will attract people but your personality will keep the right ones around 🖤
this!
Gurlll, you be SMOKING at the moment! 🎉
Eyes in this video look like you had been crying.
Life is opportunity for growth!
Just 1 min in and already liked the video ❤❤❤
High quality content from this channel
Mother isss motheringggggg ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're looking so beautiful🧿✨
Thank you for sharing your wisdom Vickita, we can always count on your videos being Golden! 👌🥰
THE SAUCE
I love uuuuuu thank u so much for the reminder you really helping uss❤❤❤
I wish I had you growing up! ❤
Did the video end too early?
Finally I am not late❤❤❤❤
Wow you look gorgeous! 👏👏👏 keep up the good work girl !!!
you are amazing vickitaaaa💘
I’m insecure about my personality 😂😂😂
Part 2 please !!
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Needed
Thank you for the video queen
Girl!!! I am so much like you where I have an heir of mystery to myself.
However, people open up are still able to be vulnerable to me as I come off trust worthy.
Love your videos! ♥️
How old r u? Etnicity? R u married?. Love ur hair girl
😂😂
What weird things to ask a stranger in a RUclips comment section.
Altho i do have certain hobbies i still struggle with talking about them. Sharing ny thoughts has always been difficult for me.
create a girl group chat please ❤
Please share video detailing a day-to-day activities of a business woman and a spoiled girlfriend. Would love to hear yours ❤
I love ur content
thanks lovey!!
Love this LOOK girl
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Hmm it ended abruptly
This is such a good topic, glad that someone is talking about this! Thank you 🙏🏾
This was so helpful, thank you
i’m early finallyyy
Ooh lala, you look GLAM & FABULOUS!
Please make a series on conquering your 20s would love to watch them
How old is she ?
Why did this video end so abruptly? 🥲
This was actually an amazing video. Very illuminating. You helped me see what mistakes i keep making
Thank you Vickita for being so helpful. ❤