How to be the TOTAL PACKAGE | become a high-value feminine woman
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- How to be the TOTAL PACKAGE and become a high-value woman. High-value woman, becoming THAT girl, leveling up...In this video, I talk ALL about entering your high-value era✨🥂 which is an accumulation of the entire level-up journey. Early on I highlight the difference between a high-value woman and an average woman so you really understand that high-value women partake only in the top 1% of behavior, leaving the normalized, yet disempowering stuff alone. They know it doesn't serve them. High-value women are at the highest level mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically, working every day on this as a lifestyle and discipline. I break the video down into those 4 core areas to work on specifically in order to enter your high-value era. Starting off with emotions - you must have your emotions in check. As a high-value woman, it is a non-negotiable. Dominating your triggers, putting yourself in situations that trigger, and then building a tolerance to them so they don't affect you and you move away from victimhood. I share an important daily formula to accomplish getting your emotions in check: T.D.R.R.A. Next, I move on to talk about the spiritual phase. Emphasizing that prayer, gratitude, and meditation WILL change your life and that the main pillar of life is connecting to your soul and source through prayer and meditation. In this section, I also talk about honing in on your values and beliefs, as high-value women are very motivated by their values. 3rd phase - physical. The phase that encourages you to get an exercise routine in place, connect to your body to enhance your sensuality, and outline YOUR signature look. Lastly, I cover phase 4. which is mental. All about building mental resilience, building a bank of knowledge so you can talk to anyone at any time and expand your skills. Subscribe for more self-development content :)
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As an older woman I love seeing younger women figure it all out and become high value early. Yes! You’re the main character of your life! Play the role well and succeed. 💕
Yes !
I admire that about the younger generation too, being smart early on, and feel little envy too , that it took us , older generation many yrs and lots of energy , sacrifices to learn the hard way
Kudos !
Also, men who truly love and cherish you LOVE to see you being selfish! They love to see you put yourself first and have standards. We deserve people who want that for us
That's true seriously . I have a crush on my senior and due to health issues and my mental health not being nice I wasn't paying attention to my clothes my health ,or face.still I talked to him normally and he was amazed with my personality.he was gone away for sometime but he came back idk why and the crush feeling crept up again.i started taking good care of myself and he noticed.actually everyone noticed.he started giving me advice to be selfish like hell and to put myself first.i liked him very much now,but idk whether this will move on or not.cuz he is an introvert too and I am too.we are basically twin flames .so in order to make it work it still needs time and effort.and idk we both are ready or not for that.
Yes this is true. I’m in my selfish era and I have the most amazing man now. When I was stuck in the “I must be a martyr for others” mentality from growing up in religion I attracted an abuser. I have a chronic illness so even tho I do often look unkempt from dealing with pain, he loves me through it all. He encourages me to be selfish, and tells me I deserve it. He’s amazing
Yeah do exactly that too be everything they hate, act like an entitled princess and they will bend and start making exceptions for you because they know if they don't your not even going to work with them because you have standards too but they don't match his standards and if certain requirements can be looked past they might even weirdly change there view point for you but keep your eyes open for guys like that too because they still may be looking for a way to sabstoge you and mold you into the exact kind of woman that they want you to be they never really changed there point of view they just lied about it a little bit so you wouldn't see that evil side of them that everyone hates.
as a man you are wrong men dont like selfish women the only ones that like selfish women probably have a kink for it
No we don't.
As a man I agree with you're saying. We love women who are respectful as well as take care of themselves and others :)
Of course, you should take care of your woman too even if she can take care of herself. Some men loves it when a woman can take care of herself, less job for themselves.
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@@Kashmir-lt4cximho selfish was the wrong word - She's talking about being selective. Not just giving your time, effort and energy to anybody regardless of how they treat you etc
Complete nonsense! She said selfish which is a low value women!
@@Dhuxul9she used the word selfish as exaggeration because people who feel threatened or insecure by how well the woman knows herself and how selective she is, they usually don’t like it and resort to calling those type of women selfish.
It’s true! I’ve been living by stoicism since my early 20s. Anyone I’ve ever gone on a date with, ended up being long term boyfriends that I lived with for years. I’ve only slept with them too. I’m now engaged! High standards and a stoic attitude is a killer combo.
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She's like a big sister telling me how to do the right things, get my shit together and im just here nodding agreeing and taking notes 🫡
hahaha love that
I wish there were more women talking about stoicism as you do. Thank you for your wisdom!
More people talking about stoicism? Why don’t you just find legit info about it? This girl is giving her own interpretations to things she has no clue about. Much love
Not even a minute in and you nailed it with "selfish gatekeeper". ✨️
Ma’am! I’m here for it!
I used to give all my time energy money and love away. Now I put it all into myself and I’m starting to heal! ❤
❤️🙌🏻❤️
People will treat you as they see you and they see you as you see yourself.
"...my ego is tied up in some random basement..." such an iconic statement. I literally laughed out loud! My new affirmation
Being Selfish isn't necessarily a bad thing, and everything u said is FACTS
Being selfish ABOUT YOU is not a bad thing overall.
What about the kids tho
@@smokingONsumDROshe doesn't have kids
I am a mother of 3 grown beautiful children and I am in my 50s. A high value woman is a Proverbs 31 woman. So do a little homework and go look at Proverbs 31 in any Bible. It's classic and eternal wisdom, because human nature doesn't change, and its principals guide you into the understanding of how life works. Invest in yourself and your education, develop your mind and your spirit, be modest, always kind, wise as a snake and gentle as a dove. Don't put any man on a pedestal, don't chase any man, ever, and keep your legs closed and your standards high. Consider these words. Good video.
Oh boy…😂
I've poured from an empty bucket for TOO LONG. and men have shown me time and again that they are SELFISH. They put themselves first ALWAYS. I've stopped people pleasing now
People, not just men, are selfish. That's natural, it's about surviving and thriving.
If you keep giving energy to someone that doesn't reciprocate, that's your issue. And it's coming from wounds that you need to heal.
I love this! I used to put others first so much that I would go broke helping others that wouldn’t lift a finger for me if I’d fallen down the steps…. You gotta put you first to be your best ❤❤❤❤
And because you deserve to be treated the best x you’re worth it
Okay I haven’t even started this video but I have to agree with the title. Y‘all can hate me idc but I tested a men. I had two instagram accounts and talked with him as two different people. He preferred the selfish women. I was arrogant and ignorant and didn’t care about him and the other women was cute and caring. I acted nice and gave him attention. This sh*t was crazy.
Btw sorry for my engish. It is my thrid language
"High value women are selfish." ❤💯❤💯❤💯❤💯❤💯
My girl has a video out... YAAAS
❤️ you!
I love how her videos are all about self development, self improvement and self reflection instead of some cheap tricks or distraction concepts. Really love the way you are uplifting ladies.
I just hate how high vlaue women are hated by other girls and always get looks and bad energy or call them pick me
Don't let it bother you and contract, you will find your circle of friends with time
I hope it helps
I never had a good female role model growing up. And everything on your channel is things every young woman should know
This 💯💯💯
This made me feel so positive and nice about being a woman ✨ and I recently found my look at almost 40 and I really agree it really adds to feeling in tune with yourself and accepting yourself. It made me feel more proud to be me and the real me.
I had to pause at 11;08 because I almost started crying, I’ve had so many wins lately and never took time to acknowledge them or appreciate my soul for guidance so I continue to wallow in self pity. Thank you Vickita
People my age is not interested in the things i like they always think\talk of boys so it's hard to talk w them🙂
I like a balanced woman. Both selfish and selfless.
This was so amazing and enlightening . Really changed my perspective on personal development and femininity. Thank you for this ! 💕
I feel like you are the only person that actually gives multiple value per video instead of one value in a bunch of filler chatter! and I love the outline form!
Thanks so much!
wow thanks so much!
This is a great point. If her videos were books I'd highlight eveey word 😂
25% of people watching this video will have an ACES score of more than one. 5% will be neurodiverse. A small proportion will have PTSD. Someone who is truly triggered will not be able to resolve those triggers with the method outlined. If you are regularly being triggered and finding it problematic, get professional advice.
I’ve only been a subscriber for a few hours and you have already changed my life.
YESSS , KNOWING YOU'RE ALL THAT AND BEING HUMBLE>>
Yes! We do not all have to be the same feminine bs clone. I am a bodybuilder and I have drill Sargent vibes and men/woman are constantly serving me, offering me attention, gifts and food…AND I have a man. They don’t get to have me the way he does, and he loves that I am desired by men and is happy with him.
Being in your fullest means having that something, that discipline, that stone by which you grind your sword. I happen to be a mountain woman, and I love hard work. That’s what sets me apart. My strength, intelligence, style, confidence, my scent, my hair, my muscles…you have to dig into yourself. I did a video on this. Discipline is the shovel that digs the gifts if your mind from deep within the grave of suffering.
Now be you and turn the volume up until your joyful ness on being you is heard by all around you.
You don't have to put others down you know...
No one cares
“Discipline is the shovel that digs the gifts of your mind from deep within the grace of suffering.” Wow, that’s a beautiful sentence. You are very talented with words! Thanks for sharing your experience, I’ll definitely check out your video!
Cant really pass a dayy with out watching your same videos repeatedly dailyy im so in love w your words ❤️❤️ and finally a new video 😭❤️
All of this is new to me. As you're talking though, I am recalling women like this that I saw growing up. They were there. I just didn't relate and didn't know that I had the power within me to have all of the things I wanted. I didn't put together until now that all of those women crafted their lives. It wasn't magic. They did the work and I can do it as well.
Almost 37 here been doing Brazilian jiujitsiu for 6 months now, it's very physically demanding and I can feel it on my not so young body, sometimes I think why did I do this to myself, I have injury after injury, I suck at it, but it allows me to let my steam out, create new circle of friends , build physical strength, and so much more! So this phrase I such today , I will suck a little less tomorrow, will stick to me now everytime I have that inner critic coming and telling me to quit things I have something to tell him back! Thank you!
Jiu jitsu is the best, I started at 37 as well
True that a healthy selfishness is essential... and that we don't play it too safe. Take the risk in being fearless, unapologetically bold and the most important for me is emotional intelligence. Glad you bring that up. As far as ego, in the common sentiment, it appears like arrogance or bravado, in essence we can not have self esteem without it. Read 'The Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden, it helps shape everything you're saying with the support of the psychology of self-esteem.
Hmm i listened to your whole video and i think almost all advices are really good i would say that better do them becouse you love yourself instead thinking about becoming the high value women. Work on yourself becouse you love yourself not for any title ❤️
Mother is mothering 🤭♥️ thank you for this video queen
Recently I've been extremely emotionally motivated and channeling that to unsavory things, thanks for bringing bmme back to reality ❤
I am so happy I found your channel! You have opened my mind so much.
wow that means so much
Please make a video on how to heal 101 from scratch like a whole mind map on where to start how to start what to avoid and all of that plzz sissy
Dear Vickita!
l want you to know- I love to start my morning by hearing your voice . Love the confidence and cheerfulness - it makes my day 🙂 thank you.🙏💖 great job 🎉😊
Wow, thank you! ❤️
Same here ❤
I need your advice all day everyday 👏👏👏
Mathematically, it’s impossible for 99% of women to be “low value”. Average? Maybe. But “low” anything has to have median value percentage above it and high above that. It would be like saying that 99% of a corporation’s employees are low performing just because they aren’t in the top 1 percent.
Exactly. Average is...the average.
True...but we women all understood what she meant. 😂
Yes but if every woman acted above average, that’s the only way anything anywhere will ever improve. Because men certainly don’t know how to fix the kind of problems that bother most women.
i decided to leave the place that gave me too many triggers. i see it as a self-care
Damn , this is true! "Average" women also accept anyone just to have a relationship. High value have boundaries and standards.
I love the symbolism of your being in the passenger seat of a beautiful car. You’ve done this a few times and it’s strong and subtle
Self value is very different from being selfish. You can of course imitate outwardly being a high value woman, but you'll never really be authentically so. Self value is a refined inner quality you either possess or do not. Picasso said that you get 2 types of women - doormats and goddesses. It's an inner quality about someone - not a monkey see, monkey do situation. Like being stylish - you can copy style, but unless you have a natural eye for style - you'll always just be a copy cat. Self value has nothing to do with selfishness. It has to do with self assurance and authenticity from which flow other amazing qualities like compassion. People have become really superficial in their approach to everything. Living a life of depth is another quality of a high value woman. That has to do with maturiry. So you see - a high value woman is someone who deserves to be admired, but you can never copy or become her. Like beautiful art, you cannot capture her essence.
Perfect timing, thank you so much ! Amazing video. You are very empowering.
"if u engage in 99 percenters behaviors u will end up living a mediocre life" preachhh
The cycle shortness is the activation of the pain body. Great way to analyze what we still hold. Good video ✌🏽
Crowdsourcing further advice on getting more comfortable with one's sensuality and sexuality; I feel like I often down-play my looks or dress more modestly because I feel uncomfortable with people being intensely attracted/aroused by me (especially random people that I don't know in public or at say a party). Has anyone else experienced this and how did you gain more confidence and comfort?
yep. some guy told me I ooze sexuality! ewwww.
I developed a lot of polite manners and words - excellent for maintaining boundaries!
Does she talk about how we should be less modest?
@@queenoffaygo1100 Me? I guess so, sometimes...
Dress modestly? Men's fashion has been conservative for a long time. Do they parade their bodies half naked with make up & jewelry to attract women? No. They create this system and place their worth on achievement and status.
They have been brainwashing us to place value on our sexiness, that out self esteem only based on our looks and body. Groom, style and correct your posture if you want to look beautiful. You can be sexy without showing off too much skin.
Men look sexy in suit &tuxedo so why women need to be half naked to be sexy?
Me too! However I am trying to look deep inside me to understand if it comes from previous insecurities and low self esteem. Because ultimately it’s deception. I’m hot. So why do I need to conceal apologize for that? Also it might be a low level self absorption because why do I feel like they care so much that I need to tone down my sensuality for them? Why can’t I just let my personality shine unapologetically? And why is it such a factor to me negatively that they are intensely attracted to me? And will I regret one day when my prime time is over and I never let myself enjoy my moment? And where else in life am I presenting myself as a beta and not the best version of myself? Am I a self saboteur?
I really didn’t know what to expect when I clicked on this video but damn...I loved each and every second of it. Very informative and uplifting. Kudos to you for who you have become and thank you for sharing this ❤
Thank you queen I really needed to hear this! You help women so much
🥺thank you
My higher power is Mother Nature. Instead of prayer I just soak in mother nature and appreciate her. I show respect and love to her with my behaviors and standards by keeping her clean and sharing good behaviors with others. Keep the earth clean! Do it for your grandkids.
I’m curious…who created Mother Nature? (:
@@Ishereyeshua1 mothers create babies. So mother nature created herself. If that triggers you, maybe rewatch the video !! 🌺💗🧁
Feminine divine ❤️ god came from a vagina. Women are very powerful.
@@spacebar9733mothers don't create themselves 🤦 they are created by their parents, sooooo......😅
@@fluffedsquirrel why are you trying to tell others what they should believe? do you have these issues when someone likes a different color than you?
Absolutely loved this, thank you for your insight!
Except where kids are concerned..men get turned off by cold women who are selfish regarding their children
Thankyou babygirl definitely needed the last part a lot of clarity ive been in feared lorddd you came to save me to not think that way ive been needing this message thankyou so much hun im so thankful for people like you in this earth your amazing hun keep up the good work 👏 🙌 👍 👌🏿 💖 ❤❤❤❤ and helping others with your wisdom
Sometimes I don’t get these videos, it’s as if people just make up a perspective of themselves or they own lives and then report on it. It depends on culture, and environment, I cannot agree with much from this video. Knowing a certain man and seeing it reflected in the new generation of men, you’ll understand.
Hold on. Hold on. Why is this so… direct 😅 Wheeew. Me taking notes on this fine Sunday.
Vickita you look like a classic movie star!! 🤩 You are Brilliant and Beautiful, thank you for sharing all of your hard earned wisdom 🙏🙏
This was one of the best videos ive seen this year❤
I'm generally good on all fronts except controlling my emotions. I hv a short fuse and often get angry at things I can't control. When you frame it as handing a playbook of your triggers I've recently started CBT-ing myself with that framing 😂 and I managed to not get triggered by certain things today even though I'm on my free pass. This is great!
Uff this video was a vibe. I love how eloquently you described every part instead of delivering all this gold knowledge in a scattered way.
thank you 🥺
I think you Should play a movie for girls, like a hero Woman With a attityd. I Will show you to my girls ❤❤❤ your strong beautiful aura.
being selfish and keeping yourself first are two different things.
Thank you for this genuinely great advice 🙏🏽❤️
A lot of great things said here. Since you said you like Spirituality I just asked have you ever considered Jesus? 😊His teachings are the source of love, truth and power.
I love your videos! I don’t mind you filming in your car, but if there’s anyway we could use a mic or something to help the sound quality I would greatly appreciate it.
Definitely gonna watch this once a week. I love your energy and I really appreciate the uplifting advice 💗 thank you!
vikita is brilliant she should be a course to follow for girls before they hit womanhood
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Girl you slayed the Blair Waldorf look and slayed Yr content... Love it, tq
awww thank you!
There's no such thing as a high value man or woman.
Everything about this👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for existing ✨
I love your energy!!!!❤❤❤
Yes Neville
how can i be HVW when i have adhd?? no one takes me seriously, no one appreciates that i like to laugh a lot. they treat me like im a child, meanwhile i just love to have fun. ive been rejected because of this countless times. im so done with feeling im not good enough because of this!!
How have I only just found your channel! ❤
The more I do see ur videos the more I am having the confirmations all those efforts that I have put into my inner work worth it !! : because of allll these silent work I have done for myself ..I really have now become a high value woman from a girl next door tye 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
I swear you got a new car every week. But I luv your videos girlll💕
Any good book recommendations?😊
I LOVE your videos!!
Finally some real valuable content out there instead of just some nonsense and repetitive content.
How should you respond to a person who treats you disrespectfully and rudely?
I love your channel, it has been so helpful already. I have struggled with reactivity for so long and I look forward to reclaiming my power.
This is POWERFUL thank you. I’m meditating on this throughout this new year ❤
One of the best videos I've ever watched! ♥️
I love you,also you look like Indian Kylie Jenner ❤
Omg I so needed to hear this message today, thank you soooooo much!!! ❤
Selfish no having boundaries yes
My Mentor ❤.... Thank you Vikita❤😊
My pleasure 😊
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There is a balance between selfish and giving. You have to see the environment around you and act accordingly in a good way. Theee are times you need to be selfish and gatekeeper, and times not
loved it!
You look so pretty
You’re the big sis I never had ❤
I lost a couple of good friends on my level up journey; they said it was too costly to be with me.
Girl, I absolutely love your videos and you're down to earth, no BS way of thinking ❤ Can you please talk some more about the experience of moving state/city, especially if you did it alone? I'm romancing with the thought of moving alone to a completely new place, maybe even abroad but I admit I'm scared as hell, especially that it will be difficult for me to meet new people etc, so a video on it would be much appreciated:)
Thank you so much! This really helped a lot ❤️
Yay I'm glad
This is so insightful, thank you, Vickita
Ugh I appreciate you so much. Thank you , you’re amazing and the big sis I never had ❤
She was is on point with everything
thank you
Spot on