Any human being with at least subpar social awareness can see that the boyfriend is working in the wrong field. He’s a narcissist. What kind of human cheats, preys on his clients, and then smiles at the man he’s affecting.
Yep you nailed it! Oh and to the person that commented about the other guy getting on a treadmill, well in the update these two are happily together. They both went to the counseling programs and wanted to be together. Charles also lost 60lbs! Oh and I loved when the girl said that her relationship with the counselor guy was not a relationship, cause the look on his face said it all, he was butthurt 😂
@Elisa Marie Else Not really a,' poor guy', if you watch more of him; he's abused his wife for years, she's tried to leave him 19 times, and they have only been intimate once. That's not a marriage.
Luckily they ended up staying together! They both went to counseling programs and seem happy as ever now being together. Dr Phil has an update video on them! Oh and the man lost 60lbs! He also then proposes to her on that update video on the Dr Phil stage!
Now I’ll admit that the laughing and mocking was totally uncalled for and incredibly rude, BUT we all have to agree that that guy’s cry was HILARIOUS oml
That’s two u healthy people in a unhealthy relationship being taken advantage of by that rabbi. I cannot stand when people use there religion as excuse for there choices. Ole boy will definitely be let go by his rabbi.
Well I honestly think hes a simp. He could have had a bunch of women during the twelve years or at least found one that was better than this lady... smh
@47 E.B.O Well, doesn't help when one partner abuses the other, as this woman claims he has done to her for a decade. That's usually going to result in cheating and/or loss of connection. He's definitely deluded for thinking they can still make it work, but as you said, it takes two, and neither one did anything good for the marriage.
@@michaelavanduesen You're correct, Thank you, I don't know how I missed the other clips. 😦 This story is just sad. Her husband needs help. But, she needs to stay away from the other guy as well.
Y'all need to watch the whole thing. The dude laughing is a jerk, but the crying husband was physically abusive. So I had little sympathy for his crocodile tears too
I'm sure the laughing was involuntary. So a bit ridiculous to call him a jerk. Someone crying with a fucking quiver in their voice would trigger many people beyond their control.
@@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep yes, it would trigger many people with very little empathy beyond their control. I can tell you what's ridiculous though- someone whose profession is a counselor laughing at the situation- that's ridiculous. And he wasn't just laughing, he was smiling which, unless you are mentally disabled, yeah, I'm pretty sure anyone can control.
Anybody who’s been in an abusive relationship with a manipulative person knows those tears weren’t genuine especially after everything he did to that poor woman. And that other guy isn’t any better. Reminds me of when I finally left my abuser and he cried wolf to everybody saying I made everything up after he got arrested and put in jail.
I watched this dr phil show little did l know l was going end up coach mikes wife and girlfriend God is great mike is moving to Austraiavto live with me we deeply love each other like we never loved before it june 2024 he be here in 1 month and he do his life coach work here in Australia
My brother end up sleeping with his councillor when he was in rehab he got chucked out and she got sacked, he stayed with her for 10 year she kept him clean a long time
Your 10year statement seems like it didn't go any further than that. Did she leave ? Did he leave? Was the result of him getting clean the cause of their separation? I am happy for your brother of his turn around and hope it is continuing that way. All the best.
I know what he’s going through, that’s hard when you put %100 I couldn’t just drop my feelings .... it makes you feel broken and weak. Took therapy and even then I had to just focus on myself. It’s hard to learn after a decade
It was messed up he laughed about it but when he said i dont have to like it do i i couldn’t control my emotions😅 . But yea i know the pain it took me about 4 years to get over someone i dated a year i loved her so much but she never loved me in fact she cheated. Now im talking to an amazing beautiful girl we have our problems like a lot of them but were trying to work them out
Grown ass man I use that TREM loosely ANY MAN WHO CAN SHOW HIS REAL EMOTIONS IS A REAL MAN & laughing at THIS MAN crying & in pain look having a love for someone who DOE'S not share the same is the most painful emotion U can EVER feel & it just SUCKS at ANY AGE . I hope he got the help he obviously needs & to the loser who smirk at another man pain God will DEAL WITH U .
This reminds me of my girlfriend, her ex was a waste of space who used her and controlled her into staying with him she was so desperate to be loved she stayed but he didnt change she just wanted to have and be loved but she couldn't they broke up a bunch, her ex was one of my "friends" (we call him d***head) he put her through so much she was diagnosed wuth deppression and eventually she broke up with him and a year later i contacted her and showed her she can be loved by someone, iv been with her for a year and a bit and shes come such a long way and changed soo much, she changed me alot aswell i was going through alot at the time before we got together, after we got together he started stalking us and and wouldnt stop, he even tried using a friend to trick us into a phone call, he only stopped when i said to his mum "sort your son out or the police will and thats not a threat its a promise" not heard from him for almost 3 months.
This is the most dysfunctional relationship I’ve ever seen. They’ve been together 12 years and had sex once, She’s left him 19 times, then she hooked up with her counselor at the church. At first I didn’t like her husband because they made him seem like an abusive piece of shit. And then when I saw the whole story and I see the pain he is in. I quickly changed my mind that the counselor is the bad guy. He intervened in a situation that needed to be handled between themselves first.
They’re both pretty awful. He acknowledges mistreating her, and she acknowledges cheating on him (obviously) with a narcissistic “counselor”. I hope they’ve both moved forward in a positive direction
I feel so bad for that man... he’s so hurt and broken and the balls it takes to be that open on live tv for a rabbi to then disrespect and laugh at him is awful.
@@plexyglass429 in anyone defense that guy was funny and possibly trying to be. They ended up getting married and he lost decent amount of weight, shockingly.
There's more to this than the wife cheating. The husband was emotionally and physically abusive for years, yet claims he loves her and wanted to grow old with her; maybe don't dump your wife on the freeway, grab her neck, and shove her around, and then expect her to still love you. The cheating is wrong, she should have just left and stayed away, but the husband is hardly innocent in the breakdown of the marriage.
Gentlemen who are going through this: NEVER EVER EVER show your emotion to this degree if you are in the process of losing your wife and aren't happy about it. First: really decide if you actually still want the relationship. People tend to panic and grab for what they are losing. If you really want to keep her, do not react with tears, anger, neediness. If you do, any chance for fixing it is gone. Any shred of respect she had for you will now be lost forever and will be replaced with pity. No woman is attracted to or aroused by a man she pities. You know I'm right. Be 100% stoic. Do not ask questions. Ask her to move out/move on in a direct but kind manner. She has made up her mind long ago. DO NOT CONTACT HER EVEN ONCE!!!!! If there is any attraction left for you, it will grow in her due to your history and your absolutely strong behaviour. If there is any chance, this is the way to nurture that chance. She may wonder about you and reach out. If she doesn't, then you can be damn proud of how you handled it and will be forever thankful to yourself for not being a blubbering bitch. May sound cliche but work on yourself and have a great life. You will recover and conquer.
The help your show provides is paid for by the guests, not by money, but by them selling and exposing their face, and their private intimate life. Did you really have to mention that in 12 years, they had sex once? not just on this episode. On many episodes, you mention certain things just to make the show more and more entertaining and to satisfy the public's twisted desire to know about other people's intimacies. Do you take the guests' permission on what to disclose and what not to disclose? or do you just exploit their trust in you and need for help. One thing I admired though is when you dismissed that smug out of there, but those kind of moves are just a shallow effort to fake or appear to be acting fair and just. It doesn't erase the fact that underlyingly the show at core is based on the exploitation of other people's need for help and of their helplessness
Angelique Delgado the whole issue here is that he DOESNT know how to handle his emotions.. how else would you think someone acts when they’re overwhelmed with emotions they don’t know how to handle. i felt really bad for the guy. He literally yelled out “i need help” in a very overwhelmed state. If not empathy than maybe some sympathy. All love ❤️
@@boiilndn5744 on-point, for sure. As a society we are drunk on drama and true crime. This dramatises any perception on reality regarding these real-life dramas thus diminishing the severity of their behaviour is too dramatic - only films should have that amount of melodrama. This isn't true for the reasons you point out above; a little more empathy, if not, sympathy goes an incredible distance when it comes to understanding.
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'I wanted to grow old with her!'
Yeah, I feel that one...
Bunnys for Ever sir you’re acting inappropriate and I am gonna have to ask you to sit over there where he was sitting.
@@Mr.Starlight that was perfect
They are already old 😂
‘I’m not being inappropriate, I’m just laughing at him’
Well, that’s kind of the point bozo
Olivier Grenier facts
"aha they don't call me bozo for nothing"
Yeah that dude was an idiot. Definitely doesn’t act like some highly religious man.
Any human being with at least subpar social awareness can see that the boyfriend is working in the wrong field. He’s a narcissist. What kind of human cheats, preys on his clients, and then smiles at the man he’s affecting.
For real. That's not even human at that point. Dude needs serious help. He's messed up in the head.
Thats the point. He found a job that allows him to prey on people under the guise of a trusted leader
Yep you nailed it! Oh and to the person that commented about the other guy getting on a treadmill, well in the update these two are happily together. They both went to the counseling programs and wanted to be together. Charles also lost 60lbs! Oh and I loved when the girl said that her relationship with the counselor guy was not a relationship, cause the look on his face said it all, he was butthurt 😂
No disrespect but this mans talks like he’s in a movie
"i hear ya!.... I don't gotta like it, though, do I!?" Right sounded so friggin' scripted.
HAHA yeah.
Thats because he’s acting
Who?
Mad disrespect
“I’m gonna have a conversation with your rabbi” OOP
Chloe B he👏🏻went👏🏻there👏🏻
Chloe B he said lemme talk to the Poobah
The rabbi wouldn't care
Everyone gangsta until Dr Phil talks to your Rabbi
“Thank you , thank you Jesus”
I thought his name was Mike.
Anyone that helps others has the power of a higher power with them. We can't do much alone besides jerk off. And not very well either lol
saiyaniam haha, speak for yourself ;)
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@saiyaniam that's insulting to anybody who's ever done anything for anyone
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This whole situation is just sad
Jack Bosco fake*
@@FJ24. no
Its simping mixed with disloyalty mixed with douchebaggery, it really is sad
Oh my god dr.phil put him in his place
I really hope he had that conversation with the Rabbi!
I don’t have to like it. Do I? Lmao I get it though
i would be lost without my wife. i cant imagine how horrible it must be for that man.
@Elisa Marie Else Not really a,' poor guy', if you watch more of him; he's abused his wife for years, she's tried to leave him 19 times, and they have only been intimate once.
That's not a marriage.
Luckily they ended up staying together! They both went to counseling programs and seem happy as ever now being together. Dr Phil has an update video on them! Oh and the man lost 60lbs! He also then proposes to her on that update video on the Dr Phil stage!
2:13
This smug j-
This smug j-
This smug j-
jew
LetsTalkFooty what...
Korea...Requiem...D a
1 time in 12 years......
Yeah, simp got played boi
Now I’ll admit that the laughing and mocking was totally uncalled for and incredibly rude, BUT we all have to agree that that guy’s cry was HILARIOUS oml
Your comment makes no sense whatsoever. Which is it? Was it uncalled for or was it hilarious?
Notthefather Both. It’s not that confusing. I can agree that the guy shouldn’t have laughed, but I can also recognize that it was funny.
That’s two u healthy people in a unhealthy relationship being taken advantage of by that rabbi. I cannot stand when people use there religion as excuse for there choices. Ole boy will definitely be let go by his rabbi.
He's no Rabbi!!!!
I honestly feel bad for that guy.
Well I honestly think hes a simp. He could have had a bunch of women during the twelve years or at least found one that was better than this lady... smh
Jaime Martos how tf old are you
@@crackerjaxthatsme8219 how old are you?
@47 E.B.O Well, doesn't help when one partner abuses the other, as this woman claims he has done to her for a decade. That's usually going to result in cheating and/or loss of connection. He's definitely deluded for thinking they can still make it work, but as you said, it takes two, and neither one did anything good for the marriage.
That abusive man really does want help. I am praying for him.
Thank you Janice
Abusive? I havent seen the episode. More context?
@@peachdoesart7175 It seems her husband is just verbally abusive from what I've seen so far.
@@chrispecot7282 physical* other clips of the show already talk about the physical aggression
@@michaelavanduesen You're correct, Thank you, I don't know how I missed the other clips. 😦 This story is just sad. Her husband needs help. But, she needs to stay away from the other guy as well.
Y'all need to watch the whole thing. The dude laughing is a jerk, but the crying husband was physically abusive. So I had little sympathy for his crocodile tears too
I'm sure the laughing was involuntary. So a bit ridiculous to call him a jerk. Someone crying with a fucking quiver in their voice would trigger many people beyond their control.
WaterspoutsOfTheDeep jerk? I’d call him a piece of shit
He was suppose to help them not divide them
@@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep yes, it would trigger many people with very little empathy beyond their control. I can tell you what's ridiculous though- someone whose profession is a counselor laughing at the situation- that's ridiculous. And he wasn't just laughing, he was smiling which, unless you are mentally disabled, yeah, I'm pretty sure anyone can control.
@@stellaboyd4256 Empathy is irrelevant moron. It's called involuntary for a reason.
As with most of these videos, none of them come off well!
I’m glad I can sit at home and laugh all I want at this
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😛😝
I'm gonna have to ask you to leave!
You are being inappropriate and I am not going to allow you to make a mockery of this situation! 🤣
Bro if you were getting sex as many as two times in a decade you'd be crying too. F
@@po-qo7vd lmao his balls must be huge and blue
Why would you laugh?
Jeep Joseph because it’s human nature to laugh at something funny
I just wanted to hug this poor husband.
Bren Moore no sex in 12 years
Na, simps front deserve hugs. However I wouldn't mind laying my heel bone on that "counselors" chin for smiling like a psychopath
Didnt he abuse her?
@@theincrediblehulk5797 He deserves it
Awww I hope some good woman finds her way into this good man's heart God bless u
It was soo good that this man got help. The update was very GOOD to see.
LMFAO. Guy was savage af for laughing in his face.
Anybody who’s been in an abusive relationship with a manipulative person knows those tears weren’t genuine especially after everything he did to that poor woman. And that other guy isn’t any better. Reminds me of when I finally left my abuser and he cried wolf to everybody saying I made everything up after he got arrested and put in jail.
I watched this dr phil show little did l know l was going end up coach mikes wife and girlfriend God is great mike is moving to Austraiavto live with me we deeply love each other like we never loved before it june 2024 he be here in 1 month and he do his life coach work here in Australia
The second he started crying I immediately knew that feeling and it sucks!!
My brother end up sleeping with his councillor when he was in rehab he got chucked out and she got sacked, he stayed with her for 10 year she kept him clean a long time
Wait thats kinda cute tho...
Your 10year statement seems like it didn't go any further than that. Did she leave ? Did he leave? Was the result of him getting clean the cause of their separation?
I am happy for your brother of his turn around and hope it is continuing that way. All the best.
J C find out next week on dragon ball z!
Jay C AND NEXT TIME ON DRAGON BALL ZZZ. Goku summons the speeeerid booOoooomb
Wht rehab? Lmao but fr
This was one case where they actually did improve their lives and he completely did a 360 and got help.
Funny how he asked the guy to leave cause he's laughing then some ppl in the audience laugh
I know what he’s going through, that’s hard when you put %100 I couldn’t just drop my feelings .... it makes you feel broken and weak. Took therapy and even then I had to just focus on myself. It’s hard to learn after a decade
I feel such compassion for this Charles guy..
It was messed up he laughed about it but when he said i dont have to like it do i i couldn’t control my emotions😅 . But yea i know the pain it took me about 4 years to get over someone i dated a year i loved her so much but she never loved me in fact she cheated. Now im talking to an amazing beautiful girl we have our problems like a lot of them but were trying to work them out
I just want to give that guy a hug.
Two grown men fighting over that OLD TROUT,! 🤮🤮🤮☠️☠️☠️ 😂😂🤣🤣
I cried with him at the same time 😭
Phil's like " oh this guy really thinks I'm a doctor. Got him right in my grasp"
This couple was funny and interesting. Their my favorite dr. Phil couple.
it is okay to have emotions king!
Wish I could hug the dude with the white hair he seems so sweet & loving. I’m sure there’s another lady out there just for him who’s as equally sweet
Coach Mike wanted to Laugh too but he has a job to on the lines
Grown ass man I use that TREM loosely ANY MAN WHO CAN SHOW HIS REAL EMOTIONS IS A REAL MAN & laughing at THIS MAN crying & in pain look having a love for someone who DOE'S not share the same is the most painful emotion U can EVER feel & it just SUCKS at ANY AGE . I hope he got the help he obviously needs & to the loser who smirk at another man pain God will DEAL WITH U .
Thumps up for Dr Phil
When he said, “I don’t have to like it do I?”😂
i want to give him a big bear hug.
I like that the man here is actually admitting to his mistakes as bizarre as it is...yet the woman remains being an empowered victim
Dr Phil is awsome
This reminds me of my girlfriend, her ex was a waste of space who used her and controlled her into staying with him she was so desperate to be loved she stayed but he didnt change she just wanted to have and be loved but she couldn't they broke up a bunch, her ex was one of my "friends" (we call him d***head) he put her through so much she was diagnosed wuth deppression and eventually she broke up with him and a year later i contacted her and showed her she can be loved by someone, iv been with her for a year and a bit and shes come such a long way and changed soo much, she changed me alot aswell i was going through alot at the time before we got together, after we got together he started stalking us and and wouldnt stop, he even tried using a friend to trick us into a phone call, he only stopped when i said to his mum "sort your son out or the police will and thats not a threat its a promise" not heard from him for almost 3 months.
Go get em Dr. Phil!
This is sad
This is the most dysfunctional relationship I’ve ever seen. They’ve been together 12 years and had sex once, She’s left him 19 times, then she hooked up with her counselor at the church. At first I didn’t like her husband because they made him seem like an abusive piece of shit. And then when I saw the whole story and I see the pain he is in. I quickly changed my mind that the counselor is the bad guy. He intervened in a situation that needed to be handled between themselves first.
They’re both pretty awful. He acknowledges mistreating her, and she acknowledges cheating on him (obviously) with a narcissistic “counselor”. I hope they’ve both moved forward in a positive direction
Bless his heart!
Not tryin to be insensitive but no tears r coming from his eyes
TJ S what are you talking about? His face is swollen and wet....
You blind? Literally tears falling off his chin.
Some people dont shed tears when they sob, or they just dont produce many tears. When I cry I don't shed many tears.
He said I’m not mocking I’m just laughing😂
We have a word in Yiddish for a man like that “counselor” ☕️
What is it?
jenpenn22
this smug j-
This smug je-
This smug jewdgemental
I feel so bad for that man... he’s so hurt and broken and the balls it takes to be that open on live tv for a rabbi to then disrespect and laugh at him is awful.
I hope this man finds a good women that loves him.
This mans pain maid me sick to my stomach. I just want to hug him
so Dr phil kicks that guy off stage for laughing but doesn't scold the soccer mom's laughing at 1:28? hmm
Yea that was annoying
Ah yes, because he would single out an audience member
@@plexyglass429 in anyone defense that guy was funny and possibly trying to be. They ended up getting married and he lost decent amount of weight, shockingly.
DAMN I was finna laugh at dude now I feel bad...
I'd laugh at that Razzie performance too. I mean, audience members are laughing. It's so transparent.
Dr Phil will straight up Dad a 60 year old man without hesitation.
I hope he can finally found peace in life.
Mike's joker impression is spot on. Better than joaquin phoenix and heath ledger
Someone wanna tell me why he looks like the elf from Santa Claus is coming to town
awe bless him ❤️
There's more to this than the wife cheating.
The husband was emotionally and physically abusive for years, yet claims he loves her and wanted to grow old with her; maybe don't dump your wife on the freeway, grab her neck, and shove her around, and then expect her to still love you.
The cheating is wrong, she should have just left and stayed away, but the husband is hardly innocent in the breakdown of the marriage.
Mike can't believe what he's gotten into on this one. 🤣
poor bb HES SO WHOLESOME WE NEED TO PROTECCT HImmMmM
Did anyone else hear that lady in the background laughing right after Phil kicked the bozo off the stage
THANK U JESUS😊😊
HI HOW LONG WAS MIKE BAYER ON THE DR PHIL SHOW
This marriage isn’t over. They chose to work it out, and are happy now. These people aren’t always right 🤷🏻♂️
"Thank you Jesus" . 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yup,,that’s what thought,😂😂
Ohhhhhh this guy with the white hair needs an Oscar!
No tears?
After everyone is against the consoler guy the young guy is trying hard to be sad beside him....😅😅😅
Gentlemen who are going through this: NEVER EVER EVER show your emotion to this degree if you are in the process of losing your wife and aren't happy about it. First: really decide if you actually still want the relationship. People tend to panic and grab for what they are losing. If you really want to keep her, do not react with tears, anger, neediness. If you do, any chance for fixing it is gone. Any shred of respect she had for you will now be lost forever and will be replaced with pity. No woman is attracted to or aroused by a man she pities. You know I'm right. Be 100% stoic. Do not ask questions. Ask her to move out/move on in a direct but kind manner. She has made up her mind long ago. DO NOT CONTACT HER EVEN ONCE!!!!! If there is any attraction left for you, it will grow in her due to your history and your absolutely strong behaviour. If there is any chance, this is the way to nurture that chance. She may wonder about you and reach out. If she doesn't, then you can be damn proud of how you handled it and will be forever thankful to yourself for not being a blubbering bitch. May sound cliche but work on yourself and have a great life. You will recover and conquer.
Lmfao I can't😂😂
you can see his heart breaking. i hate how smug and ignorant that boyfriend is. i hope that man finds a good woman to really grow old with.
Poor guy, I feel so sorry for him😭
I hope the feelings of the guy is sincere but HOT DAMN THAT DRAMA
COACH MIKE BAYER IS MOVING TO AUSTRALIA IN 2 WEEKS TO BE WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND ME HE BE LIFE COACH HERE❤
It’s ok them girls ain’t loyal
am i the only lovatics who's watching demi's betrayer on the dr,phil show?
We got a simp in our midst boys
Ha ha ha, the counselor from the synagogue has the face of Shylock. Yuck.
For anyone who thinks there is a rabbi or synagogue here, hear him thank Jesus
I'm laughin my ass off
Why is the audience laughing too
awww :(( i hate seeing people cry
He’s a man of faith but idolizes her which has me wondering if he truly is a man of faith. 🤔
Hell I wanted to laugh too
he started crying because he was happy he didn't have to be in charge anymore. he surrendered.1:40
dr Phil literally just said “I’m telling your rabbi” this man is fucking tattling lmao
Did he say once in 12 years damn
Awe poor guy 😞
Woaw... I just saw myself in the future
Yikes
When John Daly starts having girl problems.....
The help your show provides is paid for by the guests, not by money, but by them selling and exposing their face, and their private intimate life. Did you really have to mention that in 12 years, they had sex once? not just on this episode. On many episodes, you mention certain things just to make the show more and more entertaining and to satisfy the public's twisted desire to know about other people's intimacies. Do you take the guests' permission on what to disclose and what not to disclose? or do you just exploit their trust in you and need for help. One thing I admired though is when you dismissed that smug out of there, but those kind of moves are just a shallow effort to fake or appear to be acting fair and just. It doesn't erase the fact that underlyingly the show at core is based on the exploitation of other people's need for help and of their helplessness
Guys I really want to know if I’m crazy or not. Does the guy in the red tie give you Trump vibes? Because it gives me Trump vibes.
Omg talk about over acting...
Angelique Delgado the whole issue here is that he DOESNT know how to handle his emotions.. how else would you think someone acts when they’re overwhelmed with emotions they don’t know how to handle. i felt really bad for the guy. He literally yelled out “i need help” in a very overwhelmed state. If not empathy than maybe some sympathy. All love ❤️
@@boiilndn5744 on-point, for sure. As a society we are drunk on drama and true crime. This dramatises any perception on reality regarding these real-life dramas thus diminishing the severity of their behaviour is too dramatic - only films should have that amount of melodrama. This isn't true for the reasons you point out above; a little more empathy, if not, sympathy goes an incredible distance when it comes to understanding.