6 GUYS MUSLIM GIRLS SHOULD NOT MARRY

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • 6 GUYS MUSLIM GIRLS SHOULD NOT MARRY Asalamualaikum girls, so it's another exciting marriage video. This time, I'm discussing the type of guys I think Muslim women should not marry.
    Marriage is a very important topic in Islam and choosing the right spouse has never been more difficult especially in our time so I hope this video helps you in your decision making about who to marry.
    Marriage in Islam is always taken seriously and wives will be questioned about their responsibilities towards their husbands as well as husbands questioned about their responsibilities towards their wives so inshallah, when you are choosing a husband, think long term and if this man will actually support you in your journey to Allah and if his negative qualities are one that you can live with.
    Disclaimer: I do not hate men, nor am I saying that we women are better than them, because sure the thing that make one person better than the other is their level of piety and good character so please keep that in mind.
    Also sisters, if you want a husband with such good attributes, you have to also posses the good qualities because a good brother will sure be looking for a good wife to partner with.
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  • @michellegower1259
    @michellegower1259 6 лет назад +774

    I'm not a Muslim woman but felt led to watch this. You are so right with men. Sadly I was married to a Narcissist man and once I started to not always do what he wanted, he looked for another woman. He left 2 years ago for a woman half my age. I'm 54 and remained single since. My faith is Messianic/Christian but I'm starting to wear head coverings. Be blessed. Find common ground. Peace.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +83

      Michelle Torok that's so sad, however, perhaps it was best for him to leave, unfortunately for the next woman but hopefully you'll get through it and be better and stronger than before.

    • @michellegower1259
      @michellegower1259 6 лет назад +65

      Nafisa's Pearlz Thank you. You are a good woman of strong faith. A blessing to future husband indeed. I've just enquired about buying a book of Holy Qur'an. For me, christian woman don't keep same values esp in behaviour. So I'm searching. 💖

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +45

      Thanks Michelle, I would recommend a translated version so that you can get a good general picture of what its all about. Honestly, I think you will find it life changing. You Can purchase one like thiswww.amazon.co.uk/Quran-English-Translation-Modern-English-ebook/dp/B00MOIZXEE/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1519070707&sr=8-2&keywords=quran+english+translation or if you live in the UK, email me and I'll send you a starter Kit with a translation of the Quran and leaflets explaining the most common questions non Muslims have about Islam. Let me know if you're interested.

    • @michellegower1259
      @michellegower1259 6 лет назад +12

      Nafisa's Pearlz tried to email you as im in uk but it was returned not sent. Im on facebook. Michelle Torok.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +16

      oh, perhaps there was a problem with the server some how. You can try again nafisaspearlz@gmail.com

  • @Gangsta01OK
    @Gangsta01OK 6 лет назад +482

    I’m a guy but this video is good to know what not to become. Great video Ma Shaa Allah

    • @The_Other_Ghost
      @The_Other_Ghost 5 лет назад +3

      You can marry a nonmuslim woman, it's in 4:24. Cheers!

    • @movingdisaster
      @movingdisaster 5 лет назад +2

      That's awesome!

    • @maxamedmukhtar1381
      @maxamedmukhtar1381 5 лет назад +11

      @@The_Other_Ghost it's not good for the kids because the parents will have different Faith's and kids will not be practicing and maybe leave Islam Cuz kids love their mother more than the dads and they will side with her, or it could lead to problems

    • @The_Other_Ghost
      @The_Other_Ghost 5 лет назад +2

      @@maxamedmukhtar1381 So in the quran it says you can marry the captive woman as long as she's also Muslim?

    • @The_Other_Ghost
      @The_Other_Ghost 4 года назад +3

      @@popcornto6032 You have a whole life time to explore and meet new people. If you don't put yourself out there you can miss a ton of people that could be your type. I'm an atheist, and if I see a person is good (and has brains) I can easily look past religion.

  • @sairaailia8691
    @sairaailia8691 6 лет назад +572

    She's very straight forward and eloquent. Goals!

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +11

      Saira Ailia jazakallahu Khairan

    • @796rh
      @796rh 3 года назад +2

      @@NafisasPearlz hi sorry im late (like really late😄)

  • @jama-jay8154
    @jama-jay8154 3 года назад +64

    My husband is wonderful, finally found my partner for life, pushing 40, but glad I waited to find the right person to marry, and even more blessed and grateful I'm now closer to God, after reverting. My husband is very kind and patient, and so knowledgeable when teaching and guiding me through the Quran. 🧕💜 Alhamdulliah

    • @LoveCisse
      @LoveCisse 2 года назад +4

      Mashallah sister, my Allah grant us single Muslim women a man that has those characteristics

    • @heiresslaite2950
      @heiresslaite2950 Год назад

      SubhanAllah

    • @heiresslaite2950
      @heiresslaite2950 Год назад

      @@LoveCisse Ameen

  • @Fay3-
    @Fay3- 6 лет назад +266

    “Sometimes it’s not the love a man has for you that makes him do the right thing, sometimes it’s the fear of Allah in his heart that makes him do the right thing” this is so so important because relationships and marriage is not always just about whether he loves you or not, it comes down to how he treats you which depends on his relationship with Allah

    • @fureraisiaka3363
      @fureraisiaka3363 Год назад +3

      My dear, you are absolutely right! It takes the fear for Allah to treat people right regardless of the situation.

    • @jjacob3872
      @jjacob3872 7 месяцев назад

      So true...100%

  • @haleemabegum22
    @haleemabegum22 6 лет назад +365

    Really important quote I came across, ‘do your unborn child a favour and choose your spouse wisely.’
    It’s not like a job where you can quit when it comes to marrying a husband, you gotta be realistic and think long term. Sharing values and mindset helping you in this dunya and the hereafter. It’s really really deep stuff!
    Great video MashaAllah sis, keep it up! X

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +9

      Haleema Begum very good input, your so right, thanks for watching.

    • @munnieh6076
      @munnieh6076 5 лет назад +3

      It's hard to identify a lot in a person unless you really know them - but if you choose someone with the same faith as you, at least you know you're sharing some fundamental values. I'm not married yet, but it feels like there's only so much you can know (that should be enough to give you an idea of the person) then you get married - and figure out the rest. A person's habits is sort of an indicator of their general behaviour right?

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo 5 лет назад +1

      @@munnieh6076of course!!!

  • @sisikam4976
    @sisikam4976 6 лет назад +88

    Great video Nafisa! Some extra advice for ma sisters:
    - Never force yourself to see the good in a man. Your intuition is usually right.
    - The way you meet your husband says a lot about him (and about you). Meeting him on a night out, on the streets, in the club is NOT a good start.
    - For the sister that reached an age you think its ‘too old’ to still be unmarried: don’t marry a man with flaws you cant handle because you’re afraid to end up alone. Its deen over dunya, so live a life with Allahs satisfaction alone is better than being married to a guy that has a bad influence on you.

  • @The1Li
    @The1Li 3 года назад +27

    "Sometimes it's not the love that a man has for you that makes him do the right thing. Sometimes it's the fear of Allah that he has in his heart that makes him do the right thing."
    Alhamdullilah, this right here is such an eye opener. Thank you for this wisdom!

  • @minyoongi7005
    @minyoongi7005 5 лет назад +65

    I always pray this to allah “ allah, grant us the ideal partner in life that you have set for us” in shaa allah we will be with the partner allah has ideally set for us

  • @manaljavid9624
    @manaljavid9624 6 лет назад +250

    I love your videos. Finally, someone on RUclips who’s passing a positive and a correct image of Muslims.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +6

      Manal Javid jazakallahu Khairan

    • @user-my6vq4gd7e
      @user-my6vq4gd7e 5 лет назад +1

      I am a Muslim man and I am looking for a woman who converted to Islam

  • @MsZahaa
    @MsZahaa 6 лет назад +101

    Salaam, great video, but would have loved if you added a very important one, Mr Abuser. These men are extremely dangerous to both the women and future children.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +19

      Zahaa Yessss, subhallah, he is another entire video by itself.

  • @blissfull2655
    @blissfull2655 6 лет назад +202

    She’s giving great advice👍🏼 who would dislike this video........the wastemen are upset sorry mate 👋🏼

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +22

      Bliss full lol, exactly, man dem don't want to be exposed!😂

    • @SHO-vi4uu
      @SHO-vi4uu 5 лет назад

      So all non-muslims are waste men

    • @sabbyadnan664
      @sabbyadnan664 4 года назад

      @Ranjit Tyagi we are in right part ancestors doesn't matter to be a Muslim its matter only belief Allah send 1 lakh prophet all accept Islam but after sometime all are disbelieved then Allah send prophets Muhammad may peace be upon be him the his ummah in world

  • @siegfriedia9986
    @siegfriedia9986 6 лет назад +247

    InshaAllah, a religious practicing Muslim will treat his wife like a princess, due to the fact that the Prophet Muhammad saws said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character. And the best of you are those who are best to their women.”(At-Tirmidhi and authenticated by Al-Albani).
    and he saws said: “The best among you is the best towards his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.” (Ibn Majah and authenticated by Al-Albani).
    the Prophet saws also said: “And I command you to take care of the women in a good manner “al-Bukhari, Hadith 5186
    hence, a religious muslim man will try to treat her wife as kindly as possible.
    make good dua for me please. JazakAllahu khair

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +4

      winning &making peace-I Mashallah, so true.

    • @siegfriedia9986
      @siegfriedia9986 6 лет назад +7

      Nafisa's Pearlz indeed. because of this hadith i am inshaAllah motivated to treat my future wife inshaAllah as good as possible.

    • @sadabyamungu516
      @sadabyamungu516 6 лет назад

      True

    • @humairahkhan8678
      @humairahkhan8678 6 лет назад

      winning &making peace-I ķ

    • @jonriseofaesthetics6738
      @jonriseofaesthetics6738 6 лет назад

      winning &making peace-I what if u don't need to marry only for her money

  • @danamahmoud951
    @danamahmoud951 4 года назад +47

    Greetings, sister. I come from a Muslim family. I am no longer in my 20's and have people left and right insisting me and my identical twin sister hurry up and get married. Most of these family members just want a party to attend, some just are in a hurry to see grandchildren be born within our large family circle. I am not given the option to take my time or choose whom I like/want because of my age, and that really puts me off. I would like to highlight some points
    1. I am not in a hurry to get married
    2. I am a practicing Muslim women, who has very modern point of view
    3. I am very independent due to growing up with a restricted lifestyle and brothers+father
    4. Being single doesn't make me feel sad, rather, I am content Alhamdulillah
    If anyone disagrees or feels different, I am sorry, but this is my life and Allah knows my heart better than anyone else. Don't doom girls into marriage or a relationship just because its the necessary as part of your up bringing/culture or personal religious beliefs. May Allah always guide us and protect us from what is bad for us and guide us on a straight path. Ameen

    • @hafsamsonga9773
      @hafsamsonga9773 4 года назад +5

      We are in the same shoe sister

    • @SunnyTopia
      @SunnyTopia 3 года назад +3

      Tbh we can marry as long as we are ready to take the responsibilities. Ready our mind, our strength, our emotions, our everything in life, ready for children, ready for sudden fights, and the most important is ready to be the most important role ever in this world, being a mother. Being a mother is hard tho. 😞 good luck girls. Well im not married but we as girls need to think our future tho, what could possibly happen. 🤣😂
      Moreover if you are not ready, then dont. Why? You will make people surround you worry and you will likely a burden to them. So its better to be ready tho.

    • @sarahh1007
      @sarahh1007 3 года назад +2

      Preach🙌

    • @shareefaabouchami8608
      @shareefaabouchami8608 3 года назад +6

      @@SunnyTopia got married at 19 and had my baby at 20 trust me being a wife to a narcissist husband is the hardest thing, motherhood is beautiful, alittle hard ok but nothing can compare

    • @nad888
      @nad888 3 года назад +1

      I'm exactly in the same situation and the family pressure is unbearable at this point.
      I have a face time appointment with a man my aunt suggested me and I'm freaking out, I just want to disappear or play the dead and turn off my phone

  • @sabrinasnigdha8371
    @sabrinasnigdha8371 2 года назад +21

    Here again, after 3 years, can't believe that time has flown so fast! I'm glad that during these 3 years, I've gotten closer to my Deen (Deen over Duniya) and have committed myself to become a better Muslimah, Alhamdulillah. Allah (SWT) has guided me. Now I'm here again to see your video as I'm finishing my Bachelor's next month (Inshallah) and my family is actively looking for someone for my nikah. I've always remembered your advice sister and just came back to refresh my memory. I'm gonna tell my mom that these are my requirements in a righteous spouse. Mashallah sister, Jazakallah Khairan!

    • @LoveCisse
      @LoveCisse 2 года назад +2

      Mashallah Sister may Allah give you the one that will exceed your expectations 🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @fathima256
    @fathima256 6 лет назад +163

    u have noor on ur face.. mashallah... and a very good video...

    • @akaaral-nemri8380
      @akaaral-nemri8380 6 лет назад +3

      Samreen Fathima lol just makeup!

    • @fathima256
      @fathima256 6 лет назад +10

      hmm....its not completely true..
      makeup gives attractiveness(pleasing or appealing) to face
      but faith in allah brings noor(beauty) on face.

    • @akaaral-nemri8380
      @akaaral-nemri8380 6 лет назад

      Samreen Fathima It could be. I was just joking 😁

    • @fathima256
      @fathima256 6 лет назад +3

      Akaar al-nemri ok... But I am not joking....I advice u to remember my words because this is fact..☺

    • @akaaral-nemri8380
      @akaaral-nemri8380 6 лет назад +2

      Samreen Fathima But even makeup gives you noor which is beauty on face and make it bright as well. But what I would suppose is that the faith gives the noor on the heart not on the face. What could make people' faces lightning is the money.

  • @proudmuslim1535
    @proudmuslim1535 6 лет назад +109

    My sister thought she was marring a practice Muslim but he was number 5 and number 6 and said to herself all men are the same... from engagement day until divorce... for 4 month of Hill it was like 40 years argument, loud voice, throwing everything in the wall when he is angry, no manners at all and he only want his right by the name of religion thinking that he is the best man in the world . My sister is niqabi practice Muslim mashaa Allah and he didn't deserve her 😢. Marry the one who respect you, value you, treat you well and know that you are a beautiful jewel should be protected and loved. I would like everyone to pray for my sister 😭.and thanks nafesa you made it so easy and clear 👍 keep glowing my sweet sister ✨.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +12

      علم ينتفع به subhallah, may Allah reward her for all those years of sabr, and replace her situation with a much better one, ameen.

    • @revertakh9196
      @revertakh9196 6 лет назад

      علم ينتفع به subhanallah

    • @mariamadombouo2334
      @mariamadombouo2334 6 лет назад

      Number 4,5&6 all in one.

    • @zainababdulmajeed9931
      @zainababdulmajeed9931 6 лет назад +2

      علم ينتفع به May Allah take care of your sisters affairs and make it easy for her Ameen

    • @shamakareemsheikh5622
      @shamakareemsheikh5622 5 лет назад

      Don't worry sister, Allah will reward u hereafter,. Have patience.

  • @zainabshoka4219
    @zainabshoka4219 6 лет назад +225

    I am already married but this is great video like always sister.

  • @hafsae.l181
    @hafsae.l181 6 лет назад +85

    Oh my beloved sister if u could make a video about how a Muslim men/husband need to be according to our Deen I would really appreciate it. I’ve been searching on RUclips about this topic but funny enough they always talk about women 😂 ( how a muslim wife needs to make her husband happy, what a muslim wife needs to do, Muslim wife this muslim wife that..) What about the Muslim husband?!!!!

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +11

      hafssa elyoubi Good point, inshallah I'll add that to my list.

    • @mynameisrenee5045
      @mynameisrenee5045 6 лет назад

      hafssa elyoubi the channel loveAllah328 has some videos on how men should be, this is one of them ruclips.net/video/vMJErF-2rvE/видео.html

    • @TheFleurChic
      @TheFleurChic 6 лет назад +1

      Mufti Menk, Nouman Ali Khan, Ali Dawah etc they talk about it. Assalam aleykum

    • @amnafarooq9173
      @amnafarooq9173 5 лет назад +1

      I think Muslim man has very less responsibilities that's why ppl never teach us that part n rather keep their focus on women cuz she not only has to look after children in each n every way...but also to please her husband. Man only provide financial service. I haven't seen in my whole family n dawah community as well that what else they do.....except for financial services every other thing is a woman responsibility

    • @olaadali932
      @olaadali932 5 лет назад +9

      @@amnafarooq9173 no need to fabricate sister. I have never heard a shiekh say that a Muslim man doesn't need to make his wife happy. The Muslim man not only has to provide(which is a big deal because some men have to work 12hrs a day) but PROTECT his family and LEAD his family. The wife can work but can't let her work get in the way of her responsibilities in the family. If the man is working 8 or 10 or 12 hours a day, the wife can certainly do her responsibilities during that time frame as well. And when the husband comes home, he can help out if he's not really tired.

  • @creativeeye2661
    @creativeeye2661 4 года назад +9

    I was with some guy mr.obsessed + mr. Pressure. We were engaged. But finally i got rid of him. Now im having a good life alhamdulillah.

  • @thisthatandthird
    @thisthatandthird 6 лет назад +147

    “He’s forward slash Mr Wasteman but Mr Wasteman is coming later” LMFAOOOO!!! I died!!

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +12

      lala omar lol, glad someone got the joke, I was beginning to think it was a one man joke there😂

    • @thisthatandthird
      @thisthatandthird 6 лет назад +1

      Nafisa's Pearlz never when I’m around sis lol legit made me laugh!

    • @medinasahra8593
      @medinasahra8593 4 года назад +1

      loool that made me laugh too

  • @O.elmass
    @O.elmass 6 лет назад +135

    May Allah subhanuhu wata'ala grant us a good spouse. Ameen

  • @thisthatandthird
    @thisthatandthird 6 лет назад +45

    Really need her to make a meet & greet so she can be my bestie.. lol. Love her mashallah she’s amazing! You go girl. Give advice by bettering people & get ajar too mashallah x

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +16

      Lol, inshallah we will meet one day sis. We're already more than besties, were sisters in Islam, nothing is more valuable than that.Thanks for the support hun X

    • @thisthatandthird
      @thisthatandthird 6 лет назад +2

      Nafisa's Pearlz absolutely hun! You’re welcome & I hope to see this RUclips account elevating inshallah xx

  • @Gassama-lh3rc
    @Gassama-lh3rc 6 лет назад +32

    Thank you, great advice may Allah make easy for us and our sisters to find great companions in our life.

  • @misshz1412
    @misshz1412 6 лет назад +24

    Watching you for the first time sister and im in love with your video/videos already. May Allah reward you ❣️ new subbie 😘

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      Miss H Z Ameen, thank you and welcome to the family x

  • @blaznphoenix8013
    @blaznphoenix8013 6 лет назад +17

    Thank you. I was married to a narcissistic person. So glad to be out of that marriage.

  • @Nomad314
    @Nomad314 6 лет назад +41

    Sister Nafisa please can you do a video on pre-marital questions with suggestions of what we should ask? Thank you

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +13

      Nomad314 inshallah

    • @mya6506
      @mya6506 4 года назад

      Nomad314 yess lmk please

    • @mya6506
      @mya6506 4 года назад

      Nafisa's Pearlz ^

  • @zzainab9017
    @zzainab9017 6 лет назад +8

    JazakAllah Khair ❤️ This was very beneficial! I pray that Allah provides us all good spouses and puts barakat in all of our marriages and future marriages! Ameen :)

  • @umaimarahman1654
    @umaimarahman1654 6 лет назад +8

    Assalamualaikum :) I agree with each and every point of yours. I absolutely love your content. May Allah swt keep all of us firm in His path. And may we all meet in Jannah :)

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад

      Umaima Rahman Ameen, jazakallahu Khairan, thank you for the support, glad your finding it useful. Stay blessed

  • @dr.amellea.yassin4769
    @dr.amellea.yassin4769 6 лет назад +26

    '"Become a muslim" marry you and then start acting the fool' well said! MashaAllah

  • @Snowlily01
    @Snowlily01 5 лет назад +2

    I just found your channel and as a Muslim girl feel highly inspired and happy. I really like watching Muslim women address each other as " sisters" becoz unlike non Muslims , it really brings out the unity among women, especially Muslim women. And I hope we all Muslim women help each other when we see each other becoz even if we are unknown Allah says we are all together if we are Muslim ....!! Great video!!

  • @revertakh9196
    @revertakh9196 6 лет назад +2

    Assalam alaykum sis. Great video mashallah. I'm actually a revert myself and trying my hardest to learn the deen. Alhamdulillah Islam is great. A good wife is also hard to find though as most just want me for my looks etc. May Allah grant us all good wives and husbands ameen. Keep up the good work sis. Allah bless you with jannah.

  • @Kerryberry_official
    @Kerryberry_official 6 лет назад +6

    Great video! I’m not Muslim but I definitely took some gems from this video. Thank you 😊

  • @annashah6371
    @annashah6371 6 лет назад +7

    Assalamualaikum sister. Your points are very insightful and sound advise for any person considering marriage. One thing I will add, when someone works really hard on themselves and they follow the religion it is easier to sort out and see who is deserving of their work :)

  • @Where_the_daffodils_grow
    @Where_the_daffodils_grow 6 лет назад +1

    So so so trueeee. Also narcissism and mysogyny is a massive problem. Mabrook on ' the channel allahumma barik laha x

  • @ladolcevita2991
    @ladolcevita2991 6 лет назад +5

    In a nutshell “no riffraff...or waste man” love it!! I had 14 years of mr obsessive!! And he actually did have the personality disorder narcissism he made my life help my mental health is still something I’m working on.
    The way you’re strong about the “no nonsense rule is crucial”
    I find it hard to meet anyone because of my past....

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +5

      Mia Vita Subhallah, may Allah replace him with someone far far better and reward you for your trial. Stay positive, you can and will overcome this inshallah.

  • @samivanov5862
    @samivanov5862 5 лет назад +3

    Asalamu Alaikom from a brother to a sister. Excellent video that is a product of knowledge, deep reflection and remembrance of Allah. As we are brothers and sisters in Islam, I feel compelled to give the sisters some tips on what to look for, by no means is it a perfect list. 1) Don't go for a man who swears a lot 2) a man that is obsessed with Hip Hop and rap 3) a man who argues in religion when there is a difference of opinion and who will not go to a sheikh so he uses Islam as a whip 4) a man who does not have any teachers of Islam 5) a man who cuts off his family, etc. We are not perfect but, but the more you check off this list the safer it will be for you.

  • @missmuslim9760
    @missmuslim9760 6 лет назад +27

    This video was very helpful!

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +2

      Mashallah that's really good to know, may Allah make us good spouses and grant us good spouses too, ameen.

    • @missmuslim9760
      @missmuslim9760 6 лет назад

      Nafisa's Pearlz ameen ^^ your and my opinion about this topic is very similar.

  • @sweeterthantoffee
    @sweeterthantoffee 6 лет назад +19

    I love new videos, I hit like before even watching

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      Sweet Toffee lol, thank you sis, hope your doing well?

    • @sweeterthantoffee
      @sweeterthantoffee 6 лет назад

      Nafisa's Pearlz Alhamdulillah ukhti ❤️

  • @batulakhamis9643
    @batulakhamis9643 6 лет назад +5

    Shukran for the advice.It definately will come in handy someday In Shaa Allah.

  • @saraxoxo3936
    @saraxoxo3936 6 лет назад +27

    I feel like im never be married i have very high expectations 😣😂

    • @khadi818
      @khadi818 4 года назад +3

      Franco Al-Jabiri i think she meant to say she has high standards, which would make it difficult to find someone who meets those standards..

  • @rasheedamohammed8405
    @rasheedamohammed8405 6 лет назад +4

    Maa shaa Allah Tabarakallah tnx sis I really enjoyed ur videos may Allah blessed you for that

  • @mahdieh1796
    @mahdieh1796 6 лет назад

    Super amazing and informative video! Thank you so much sister, keep up the good work! :)

  • @life_star4676
    @life_star4676 6 лет назад +1

    New subscriber! And i am loving your CHANNEL!! 😍😍❤❤ Keep it up sis! ❤❤

  • @sabrinasnigdha8371
    @sabrinasnigdha8371 6 лет назад +5

    Masha Allah! She has such good knowledge. Keep up the good work dear!

  • @Mikejones-tc7cm
    @Mikejones-tc7cm 6 лет назад +8

    Wow, you told them the deep truth and it really good that you did, most females struggles to know these things, may Allah reward you for your good advice.

  • @amydiaby3877
    @amydiaby3877 6 лет назад

    I just discover your channel and i love it. Your speech is full of truth, thank you for your advices sis ❤️. May Allah give you a man who will support and love you fi dounia wal akhira !

  • @ashoali863
    @ashoali863 6 лет назад +1

    Mashallah I’m so glad to watch your beautiful video
    Thanks a lot sister!!!

  • @sadafmehraj
    @sadafmehraj 6 лет назад +3

    I love the way you say 'asalamu alaikum '... so vibrant and full of happiness..Masha Allah !

  • @proudcitizen4883
    @proudcitizen4883 6 лет назад +45

    Exactly Muslim by (Name)

  • @33zzx
    @33zzx 6 лет назад +1

    I love your video 💖. Thanks sweet sister for this advice 😌

  • @WeLoveMeals
    @WeLoveMeals 4 года назад

    Love this! 💕💕💕 can you share your list of questions?

  • @amiliaazahari1727
    @amiliaazahari1727 6 лет назад +23

    You should start a podcast

  • @munahussein9166
    @munahussein9166 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for another amazing video really appreciate it jazakallah khayran ❤

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      Your welcome sis, glad you found it beneficial. x

  • @greenwallclock
    @greenwallclock 4 года назад

    That was really helpful sister. Thank you!

  • @melencolia7
    @melencolia7 5 лет назад +1

    Loved it!!!

  • @linazabalawi7882
    @linazabalawi7882 6 лет назад +4

    I MISSED YOOOOU 😍 JazakAllah Khair ❤

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад

      Lina Zabalawi thanks hun, its good to be back on track with my videos. X

  • @SirineSerenade
    @SirineSerenade 6 лет назад +58

    I met a year ago Mr Obsessive . Worst thing ever .

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +3

      Sirine lol

    • @112girlie
      @112girlie 6 лет назад +2

      Yeh been there with mr obsessive stalking me after I got rid of him 😩

    • @revertakh9196
      @revertakh9196 6 лет назад

      112lauren I know the feeling

    • @asahmed1095
      @asahmed1095 6 лет назад +1

      Nafisa's Pearlz I wish i could get this news before involved wd obsessive anyway im saved alhamdulillah im free now

    • @ummekulthum-pm
      @ummekulthum-pm 5 лет назад

      Sad to see we are surrounded by these Mr obsessive. May Allah grant everyone understanding💔

  • @fatimahisham7456
    @fatimahisham7456 6 лет назад

    Beautiful video ❤️👍🏻 keep up the good work

  • @CarpeDiem-vc3gq
    @CarpeDiem-vc3gq 6 лет назад +2

    Jazak Allahu khayran for the vid!

  • @ryntidwi
    @ryntidwi 6 лет назад +6

    MashaAllah sis ❤❤❤❤ i love your video . This is what a muslims girls need when Ta'aruf. ❤ My wedding will be held shortly , pray for me sis, Love from Indonesia

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +2

      Dwinanda Eryantie May put barakah in it for you. Ameen

    • @tinuo6758
      @tinuo6758 6 лет назад

      Dwinanda Eryantie barakh Allah fih

  • @desertrose8832
    @desertrose8832 6 лет назад +9

    Jazakillahu khairan sister. This was helpful indeed ❤

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      Dr Jinjiri waiyakum sis, glad you found it useful xxx

  • @worldreligion5992
    @worldreligion5992 6 лет назад +1

    Really amazing video thank you so much.

  • @salmahaddad5186
    @salmahaddad5186 6 лет назад

    Jazakalllah khair sister, thank you so much!! This helped me to think twice about whatever decisions I had to make.. May Allah Bless you!

  • @SaeedG1999
    @SaeedG1999 5 лет назад +5

    This improved me as a guy, Thank you!

  • @racerx3667
    @racerx3667 6 лет назад +3

    alhamdulillah I'm not in one of your categories, I was soooooo nervous, lol.
    By the way, excellent dawah video sister Nafisa. It will help improve characteristics of both muslim male and female.
    BarakAllahu feeki.

    • @GlobalProductionsUK
      @GlobalProductionsUK 6 лет назад +1

      Racer X why are you nervous. Whatever you do is to praise Allah, not to impress sisters or any other person

    • @racerx3667
      @racerx3667 6 лет назад +1

      You're absolutely correct Tyrone.
      However, we all have our flaws like sister Nafisa said.
      I would have been kind of disappointed if my flaws were among her list because I, too, agree with her list.
      Sheikh Uthaymeen (rh) also has a list of women not to marry.

  • @BlueSky-pr3sl
    @BlueSky-pr3sl 6 лет назад +1

    Good advice, sister. Thank you.

  • @Ruks-hs5sy
    @Ruks-hs5sy 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you beautiful for yet another amazing video JZK mwah xxxx

  • @marziasultana4124
    @marziasultana4124 6 лет назад +4

    Good topic for now. Salaam.

  • @atiyakarim2234
    @atiyakarim2234 6 лет назад +8

    May Allah bless you sis! This is an amazing video. A few relatives of mine (of both genders ) fall under the obsessive / narcissistic category so I know exactly what the signs are un/fortunately.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад

      Atiya Karim may Allah reward you for your patience sis, thanks for watching

  • @rosesandjasmine
    @rosesandjasmine 6 лет назад +2

    Salaam Nafisa, thank you for making these videos- I've found many of them useful. I do want to ask that you please check spelling in your videos as it does add to your credibility and appeals to viewers more xxx

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +3

      Amna Ghafeer thanks you for that, I will inshallah. I think I need to stop editing at night when I'm already tierd.

    • @nisaomar3292
      @nisaomar3292 6 лет назад +1

      Nafisa's Pearlz it’s ok we are not perfect

  • @hozizprettyaimer4896
    @hozizprettyaimer4896 6 лет назад +2

    Masha Allah, as Always it was a very Nice vidio and love the way you put together the list. ❤

  • @MrFootballstriker
    @MrFootballstriker 6 лет назад +3

    Jeeeez some of us are weak 😂
    Good video sister may Allah reward you subscribed 🤟🏾 now it’s sisters turn😅

  • @sal2ahmed
    @sal2ahmed 6 лет назад +43

    Salaam sister, I think this just don’t apply to men, but women too.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +6

      Salma Bashir definitely can also apply to women aswell

    • @zahirahchabs5400
      @zahirahchabs5400 6 лет назад +3

      Moooor muslim
      Women too unfortunatelly, may Allah protects us from meeting bad People wallah

  • @mrssalimaroseel-amiin5802
    @mrssalimaroseel-amiin5802 6 лет назад +1

    Mash'Allah wonderful video, thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @naeemah34
    @naeemah34 6 лет назад

    Shukran Jazaka'Allah Khair Nafisa. May Allah Azza Wajal bless you n this world and n the hereafter. Ameen

  • @miraa1755
    @miraa1755 6 лет назад +31

    Masha Allaah 😍😙

    • @revertakh9196
      @revertakh9196 6 лет назад +2

      Somali Queen assalaam alaykum

    • @miraa1755
      @miraa1755 6 лет назад +2

      revert akh wa Alaikum salaam brother 🌷

    • @turkyman6686
      @turkyman6686 6 лет назад

      Somali Queen بنت الصومال hi

  • @oromochic1993
    @oromochic1993 6 лет назад +32

    Perfect timing girl! 😔👌

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +3

      Oromo Chic Alhamdulilah, thanks for watching x

  • @yellowmint5
    @yellowmint5 3 года назад

    Just discovered your channel,yesterday,love it!

  • @saraxoxo3936
    @saraxoxo3936 6 лет назад

    Thank for it💕❤ may Allah bless you

  • @jijohassan6401
    @jijohassan6401 6 лет назад +3

    Asalama Alaikum Nafisa, you are amazing, I find your videos very interesting and I love you for the sake of Allah ❤❤❤❤

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      jijo hassan may Allah for whome sake you love me, love you too

  • @rawanslimani458
    @rawanslimani458 6 лет назад +4

    جزاك الله خيرا, أختي

  • @nabamambureh6363
    @nabamambureh6363 6 лет назад +1

    Ma shaa Allah! Interesting video. BarakAllahu feek!

  • @jimineycricket3063
    @jimineycricket3063 6 лет назад

    i was going through the comments and everybody commented exactly 4 months ago😂 ANYWAY THANK YOU SO MUCH! You’re truly amazing Nafisa❤️❤️❤️

  • @supritiphani1282
    @supritiphani1282 6 лет назад +8

    Pray you get a good spouse and both are Blessed together... Please Pray for me too

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +2

      Supriti Phani Ameen sister and may Allah grant you the same, ameen.

  • @quamaramunira2164
    @quamaramunira2164 6 лет назад +10

    Jazāk Allāhu Khayran sister.this is really informative.i wish i knew these things 5years earlier,my life would have been so much better.but its never too late right?! I’ll remember each word you said sister❤️

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      Quamara Munira walaikum salam sister, aww mashallah its never too late, all the best sis. Thanks for watching x

  • @deejjahg8030
    @deejjahg8030 5 лет назад

    Masha'Allah... I just can't get enough of these videos. I keep re-watching them... Jazakallahu khayran

  • @ameen_nisha
    @ameen_nisha 6 лет назад

    Mashallah sister. We encourage u to do more and more dawah. Jazakallah for this one😊

  • @munam016
    @munam016 6 лет назад +10

    MashaAllah this is a good advice to give sisters. I’m already married and I agree on everything you said. Great video

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад +1

      Luniska King alhamdulilah happy to have your input as a married sister. Jazakallahu Khairan xxx

  • @buzzbee42
    @buzzbee42 6 лет назад +10

    Nice videos yes sisters by all mean we have to avoid these kinds of man that sister Nadia’s described in her video.Nafisa can you please make the video about what question should a sister ask if get any proposal and before considering a marriage. Because I am not sure and marriage always seem daunting to me. I know it’s not a joke it’s big responsibility of ones life making decision.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад

      buzzbee42 inshallah I can do share that in a future video.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад

      buzzbee42 inshallah I can do share that in a future video.

  • @muslimsisters5503
    @muslimsisters5503 6 лет назад

    MashaAllah great advice thank you jazzakallahu khairan

  • @ServantOftheMostHigh
    @ServantOftheMostHigh 4 года назад

    Am humbled for sure. This just touched my heart and sunk deep. Thank you dear sister Nafisa for such lovely Islamic lectures. I was looking for answers to questions that had no answers to me , i tried google. But then i fell on this on you tube. Barakallahu Fiiq.

  • @rebeccaimanscott2011
    @rebeccaimanscott2011 6 лет назад +10

    I love watching your video Sister.

  • @kayleejohnson6551
    @kayleejohnson6551 6 лет назад +3

    I am getting married in October and I just became Muslim. My fiancé is still Christian. Do you think I should leave him? We’ve been together for over 5 years, he isn’t a practicing Christian and he is an amazing man and he is learning Islam and helping me learn and he is even reading the Quran with me. I pretty sure he’ll let me raise our children in Islam. What’s your advice on this?

    • @mrty5213
      @mrty5213 6 лет назад +3

      He should use this time to learn more about Islam.

  • @jessydm3780
    @jessydm3780 5 лет назад

    Jazakillahu khairan .. super thank you for sharing this.. I appreciate every single words you shared..❤️

  • @_honey_hassan_4953
    @_honey_hassan_4953 3 года назад

    MashaAllah
    Very informative, Thank you ❤️

  • @jalamangjobarteh7517
    @jalamangjobarteh7517 6 лет назад +9

    Thanks u my dear sister, what i suggest before u marriage whether u are a girl or a boy u must look at 3 main things. 1, U must know that whether he is a Muslim or not .
    2, U must know the type of Family he comes from.
    3, U must look at his attitude and moral behaviour. maa Shaa Allah my sister this are some of the ideas i suggest. may Allah SWT bless you and grant u success in all ur endeavour Ameen .

  • @mccluckleymccluckley
    @mccluckleymccluckley 6 лет назад +3

    anybody who tries to pressure you into doing something you are not comfortable with and don’t want to do is not the kind of person who will be good for you as a person generally in life

  • @wowso4
    @wowso4 6 лет назад

    Mashallah sister I just found your channel last year and I really enjoy your videos and advice, May Allah bless you.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 лет назад

      Sandra Jefferson ameen. May Allah bless you too