The BDSM Ranch Murders... | The Case of Sheila LaBarre
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- Hardly anyone knew of a lonely small ranch found just north of Epping, New Hampshire. However, after multiple disappearances in the area, two of those cases would somehow find a connection with its owner. This would be the beginning of a long and terrible investigation for officers.
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00:00 Intro
01:01 New Hampshire, Sheila's history
03:21 Sheila's Turbulent Love-Life
05:36 Dr. Bill LaBarre... and more relationships
08:03 A Turn in Circumstances...
09:54 The Case of Michael Deloge
12:07 The Case of Kenneth Countie
15:27 Concerns, Questions, Discoveries.
18:03 Legal Proceedings
20:21 Reflections, Outro
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The thing I have learned from this channel is that I'm never ever going to be murdered because victims are always bright, ambitious, good looking, friendly rays of sunshine beloved by their peers/coworkers/classmates and working towards a succesfull future😂
Best comment. Lmfao
Careful, I am loving your sense of humour lol
Yeah man! No one kills a failure😂🤷🏻♂️
I don't exactly hear my neighbors saying she was such a friendly person! LOL
Yeah if you “light up the room” it’s over for you
Shout out to one of the true heroes of this story: Sheila's first husband. He realised his daughter was being abused and ended the situation immediately unlike a lot of parents in these stories who stay with the abusive partner for whatever reason and allow their child to suffer because of empty promises (that the abusive partner will stop and actually change 🙄)
Absolutely!
You are absolutely right . God alone knows what she might have done to the little girl if the father had remained in the relationship .
100% he dodged a major bullet there for himself and his daughter. If this psycho woman had been able to pass on her deranged cycle of abuse to another person, by abusing his daughter, it could have continued on through time from one generation to the next. Thank goodness he did the right thing.
And he was very young too (19), but he had good father instincts already.
@@trinelangohr6661 Yes he did, shows he's a good person.
Can we all just take a moment to appreciate the phrase “raunchy, ranchy lifestyle” please?
I literally just came to the comments section to say this!
Sheila LaBoxstank
It sounds like a potato chip.
Not me living on a small ranch and incorporating this into my vocab lmao
Hahaha you said what I was thinking!
My grandparents lived in Epping at the same time as LaBarre. She often sold produce from her farm at local markets and my grandparents bought from her a few times...Nowadays, she is at NH State Prison, and my husband works there. He said that he's worked with some of the worst people, convicted of some of the most terrible crimes. However, he said that NOBODY makes him quite as uncomfortable as Sheila. He said something about her is off, and it gives him the creeps. Pure evil.
I'm so glad that first husband of hers left when he did because you hear so many stories nowadays about parents letting their significant other abuse their children
Yeah thank goodness he spotted the red flags and got the hell outta that situation with his daughter.
Now days? I'm pretty sure that's been happening for as long as there has been human relationships...
@@heliosdelsol yea I was saying that as well
Agree.
Smart man. He saved himself a lot of grief and trauma, more importantly, he saved his daughter from that toxic environment.
He should get a trophy.
Because of him now his daughter has probably matured into a healthy young woman.
@@heliosdelsol it certainly has, except nowadays we actually hear the stories more often rather than them going under the radar until it's way too late because people didn't talk about those things back in the day.
My cousin had actually found himself in a similar situation. He married a woman who started abusing alcohol and abusing their daughter who was barely a toddler. He worked two jobs and once came home to see doors unlocked, the house freezing cold, his daughter in tears in her crib, her mother nowhere in sight. He divorced her immediately and raised his daughter on his own. He also built his own successful business. His daughter is in her 20s now and is an absolutely lovely young woman.
Sadly, same story happened to his brother, my cousin, but he chose his wife. They had two daughters. I couldn't help because I was still a teen when that was happening and now I've lost all contact with them. They didn't show up for my father's funeral and even his siblings have no idea where he is.
Please, get out of abusive relationships and always choose your kids.
That's terrible. Your cousin should have left daughter with mother or at shelter to avoid responsibility and stresss.
@@azazello1784 What is wrong with you?
@@Jenacide I am being rational. That girl was not his problem.
@@azazello1784 HIS DAUGHTER isnt his problem?!? WTF?
@@celia-ov6rm yeah I can't understand his idiotic comment either! Wonderful father he'll be!🤦♂️
seeing the picture of kenny with all the bruises just hurts so much. there’s so many vulnerable folks out there that are “easy” prey for monsters like this woman. they’re quick thinking with sliver tongues and get off the hook because they know exactly what to say.
i’ve suffered a lot of trauma and head trauma and haven’t once thought about murder. i truly believe that some people are born evil; no amount of nurture can fix or help it.
I was really good friends with a guy who was the chillest, toughest dude. He was totally normal and not at all a weirdo. He got into a serious car accident and was in a coma for a month. He awoke and was completely different and would stutter at times attempting to explain seemingly unimportant aspects of any basic thing almost in an obsessive compulsive way and be unable to let it go until he repeated in slightly different ways, the explanation of what say. "The plate hit the ground and shattered. No the plate dropped to the floor and broke, i mean the object sailed in an arc onto the floorboards and broke into pieces". Ok the next part had me messed up cause the 3 types of people i despise most are child molesters, rapists and those who hurt children in that order. This guy soon after compulsively sought out under age girls to have sex with (child mo). He was caught something like 3 times having had sex with like 15 yr old girls. Multiple attempted rapes on hiking trails and i mean hed hide and jump out from the bushes on unsuspecting females trying to rape them. I cant remember if he actually raped them or they were able to stop him but he definitely attempted with all his strength to rape them. He ended up going to jail i think but everyone, especially his brothers who used to hold him in such high regard (as did literally everyone of his many friends). I can say that i have 0 sympathy for him as he is now because his victims arent any better because of what he used to be. However the head trauma definitely caused him to become a complete sexual predator and everyone including myself can say for the 23 or so years prior, he never showed any signs whatsoever and was always popular with girls and hed always had beautiful smart girlfriends. I mean this guy was just a super popular, rugged laid back dude then he completely morphed after the head injury into a complete psycho.
@@mikimiyazaki yup.. I was a soldier and badly injured in war. My tbi caused me to have compulsive murderous rage at times and I became a very rough and aggressive lover as well. That was in 2006 and I'm much different now. But for at least 10 to 12 years I rlly struggled w those issues and not understanding why I had those urges. I grew up around violence and was always a fighter/warrior from a young age but I could always control my emotions and my mind and had no desire to harm anyone that wasn't harming me or another person.
TBIs r a real mess to deal w and r not very well understood either.
I wouldn't say born evil. I think they embrace their inner demon and eventually become one
that picture is haunting
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I watched this in an episode of "Deadly Women." Kenny's mother was interviewed, and she was so heartbroken when she heard of what happened to her son... who only wanted to experience love from someone. She said her son was so sweet and kind and wouldn't hurt a fly so when she heard of the tapes where Kenny was forced to say he molested his siblings, she was beyond heartbroken. It's speculated he defended himself, and she snapped, killing him.
The fact that John was ONLY 19 but saw the red flags is just .... wow. You only ever hear of full blown adults staying with their spouses despite the abuse
John's parents absolutely raised him right
I see stuff all the time where a teen is in an abusive relationship with another teen. Age has little to do with it because you can find abusive relationships in every age range that relationships are formed.
John was smart. Saw the warning signs and removed his daughter and himself from the problem. Be like John. 😊
P.S. I love it when you say bad words!! 😂
I love when he say bad words I’ll be laughing at him but I love it
@Tom teeriff Nash same!! 😂
We all need to be a little more like John.
Yeah lol, it's funny of how calm be says it lol
Right? Why is it so cute when he says “Shit”? 😂😂😂
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As a kink-informed therapist, I just want to put it out there that this is NOT a good example of what BDSM practice should look like. I would even go as far as saying this isn’t BDSM, but straight up abuse.
Dominant folks should be loving and compassionate, submissives should ultimately hold the power to stop everything.
Thank you. As soon as CC mentioned 50 shades, I cringed. 'Secretary' is a far better representation of bdsm than 50 shades will ever be... and a much more handsome Mr. Grey, to boot! ;)
Seriously tho, what this Eileen Wuornos wannabe did was straight up psychotic torture
No, u have a "safe" word and when u say it, it stops. Always if there professional.
Pretty much. This association is no different than if I robbed a bank because, "I like money." (read in the voice of Frito from Idiocracy for more amusement.)
But people use labels to hide behind.. Truly sadistic ie dark triad are attracted to that lifestyle as a cover for their true nature
@@sarahlamb2333 While that is true, it disparages the community by association. It's not that different from saying an entire subsection of the populace are criminals because some people who identify as such committed crimes.
Absolute 100% credit for that husband of 6 weeks for standing by his daughter. Far too often do you hear of a negligent a parent who sticks by their partner knowing full well that they're abusing their child. He knew that you're children ALWAYS come first no matter what.
Man that picture of Kenny was so sad to see 🥺. He really went through it. Also I’m sooooo proud of John for keeping his child safe!!! There are way too many parents who don’t !
As a child (not anymore) of one of those kind of parents. I whole heartedly agree. Although it should be a normal reaction for all parents, unfortunately it’s not. It makes what John did courageous, cause obviously not everyone has the same integrity and strength
I feel so sad for what Kenneth and Michael went through. I'm sending hugs to their families 👪 May these beautiful young lads rest in peace 🙏
Started watching this channel 2 weeks ago and stumbled on this. Kenny (her last last victim) was my Step Brother. I haven't decided on whether or not to watch this video yet but i know you always do good videos and im sure this is just as solid.
Oh My God
Despite Sheila's upbringing and what she had gone through that doesn't justify what she did to Kenneth Countie and Michael Deloge they were innocent men who had been used, abused and killed senselessly. I feel for their families as they have lost them because of Sheila and her sick, twisted mind.
Yes - the moment you abuse someone, you’re no longer the victim, you’re the perpetrator, in my opinion. Adults are responsible for their actions, no matter what happened to them as a child. That being said, it’s so important that family cycles of abuse don’t continue, in part because it can lead to people developing into monsters like her.
@@DocBree13 I agree 100%. Once you cross the line of v1ct1m to @bu$3r....I lose sympathy. I am a v1ct1m of child m0l3$t@t1on and I would never cross that line and put another child through what I went through. I don't understand why people who went through childhood @bu$3, would than go on to @bu$3 others.
Sorry for all the random symbols and numbers. RUclips enjoys censoring things, so I end up having to be creative. Hopefully you can read it.
I worked in a mental health facility and we had a murderer, Patty. She got mad and killed a woman with a tree branch. Patty was insane, she did not know right from wrong and showed it by not trying to cover up or flee. If they scrub, run and lie, they know it was wrong- they are not insane.
There are some people who can't be cured of their twisted minds that should be immediately terminated.
A tree branch?
yeh thats not accurate, during psychotic episodes the mentally impared are capable of anything, after the psychotic event/incident is over they can and will do anything cover up, conceal, pervert reality in the minds of others to protect themselves, these things i have witnessed, the damage they do on mass to the lives of others throughout society is concealed even by government departments, if the true numbers and damage done were quantified it would make the wars on terrorism and drugs look like sunny days at the beach
@@benmoore4529 Sounds like she's an org
Working in mental health you should know that isn't strictly true. Lots of people with mental health issues where they can't be held liable will still do those things.
I live in New Hampshire. I watched coverage of the trial every night. Never forgot her name. I've searched for a video like this for years but this is the first. Thanks for giving me the full picture- finally
Love how you spend so much time dealing with the human depravity of murder but remain positive and calm. You are a superhero Adrian!
It's so much relief to finally hear a father leave their partner as soon as he found out how his daughter was being treated.
Rare and honestly I will never understand how you can't take your child and run. True father right there.
Edit; I wasn't saying it is rare that a father leaves the spouse, I was saying it's rare that in these types of cases we hear that they left. I know it's more common then most that the parent leaves the abusive monster. Again just meant it as in these stories we rarely ever hear that a father left instead of stayed.
💯 So happy he protected his child from her because she would have killed her too, no doubt in my mind.
100%
It's not rare.....
It isn't rare, my kids come before ANYBODY else on this planet including myself 🤷♂️
@@dannywright1317 It certainly isn't as common as we would like. There are many horrible parents out there.
I live in New Hampshire and I vaguely remember this case. Sheila was nuts. And what she was up too was not BDSM, it was plain torture and assault. Just like Fifty Shades is not a BDSM novel, it's a novel about abuse and sexual assault. There is a HUGE difference between actual BDSM and what this woman did (and what was written about in that stupid book).
Came here to say this. I'm asexual but have been doing research into bdsm for a story. The one thing I see consistently is the phrase "safe, sane, and consensual"
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Scrolled down in hopes for a comment like this. This has nothing to do with safe, sane and consensual.
This!!!
Yeah it's fucked. It was a huge shakeup in Epping at the time. My dad used to go to Bill once a month to set his back. He used to leave me in the front room with her when I was super young.
The photos of Kenny before and after he met her are absolutely harrowing. I can't imagine his 'life' with her. God rest their souls (however many they number) x
This woman was just dangerous, Rest In Peace to the victims, they didn’t deserve this.
I feel bad for Kennie, he's got the IQ of a 12 year old. It's one thing for an adult to enter a consenting relationship, not that I'm saying any of these men were consenting to abuse, but Kennie shouldn't have even have been there.
but his parents are responsible for leaving him unattendend then!
Yeah for real. If she could perform sexual acts with someone with the mind of a child, she's pretty much a child abuser herself. Not that it's the same thing but there's something really fcked up in your head if you can get into dominating someone with the IQ of a 12 year old.
It’s crazy how he was in the US military!
Aren't most of the army guys metally at the same state as a 12 year old?
@@alerey4363 he was an adult. No one can helicopter their kid 24/7. My nephew has autism and he’s 14. Last year he wanted to meet a girl so bad that he could be friends with/girlfriend. He had created a profile on multiple dating websites. We found out soon after and halted his activity, but he got away with it for a bit. He was so trusting and was giving out personal info. He had a cow when we made him stop texting and emailing these “girls”, which some of course were predators. We had no reason to suspect he was doing it or even knew that he knew about dating websites.
Anything that anyone goes through in their past is NEVER an excuse for harming innocent people. I also had a very troubled childhood, I have suffered numerous head injuries (including one resulting in a large crack in the frontal lobe of my skull) and have been diagnosed with General Anxiety and Borderline Personality Disorder. I have many trust issues with people but I get up everyday, go to work, pay my taxes, take care of our child with my husband, and live a normal peaceful life. I also take medicine and see a therapist on a regular basis because that is the responsible thing to do when you are suffering from a mental illness. I would never ever think of harming anyone for any reason like these horrible people do and I am sick and tired of them as well as others making excuses for them because they had a rough upbringing. So many people have it rough growing up and they refuse to use it as an excuse for making poor or downright horrible decisions.
**EDIT** Thank you to anyone for your kind words. I greatly appreciate it. ♥️
I want to clarify that my comment is not intended for those who are genuinely suffering from a mental illness as a result of their past (or for any other reason) who are so far gone that they are not on the same level of reality anymore to control their actions or determine what is right and wrong anymore. Those are people who I believe are truly suffering and who the insanity plea was originally put into place for. People like the sad and tragic case of Austin Harrouff who I will always believe was truly mentally too far gone at the time of his actions to know what he was doing (even though they deemed him fit to stand trial). Then there are people who use their mental illness and troubled past as a scapegoat for their actions. Those are the people that I am referring to in my original comment.
Good for you! 😊
That is true!
Well said,you are correct,the difference is you are a decent person!!!!🤗🇬🇧
while I agree that it doesnt excuse abuse and violence, Id also argue that its more nuanced then that. If the condition and downward spiral is bad enough there is a breaking point where its hard for some people to gain back control over their actions without outside help. As an example theres the pretty famous case of a girl that early on got abused in multiple ways and developed sociopathic and violent tendencies. She eventually got adopted by a family that wanted to care for her but she displayed violent behavior, animal cruelty and tried to kill her parents as well as kill and sexually assault her younger brother (while still being a kid). Luckily for her tho she got into a programm that specialized on cases like her and she was able to develop empathy as well as new sense of right and wrong and was able to live a fairly normal life into adulthood. But now imagine if a girl like her never got the chance of professional help - its easy to dismiss horrible actions as a easy choice but sometimes these people certainly arent in control anymore.
@@allanredhill8682 this is a great point that I think we all need to keep in mind. And I would like to add, that while a bad childhood, mental illness, and had injuries don't EXCUSE bad behavior it definitely does help us explain bad behavior, and shows us what needs to be worked on in order to help fight crime and raise children into people that don't commit crimes
Police and torturers alike know that if you abuse someone enough, they will say anything to get it to stop. None of these "confessions" should be taken as anything but desperation on their part.
Desperation on the police's part? First of all police and torturers? Police ARE all too often the TORTURERS, and who knows how many innocent people they lock up by lies & false reports where they back each other up knowing they lie, cheat, steal, & plant shit themselves. However, this woman is guilty. You can't use that excuse for psychos like this woman.
I lived In New Hampshire my entire life up until a few years ago and never heard of this case. NH does not have much in the way of crime (except for drugs), but when they do its very intense.
There was another very tragic case in Mt Vernon of home invasion/murder that I remember rocked the entire state.
Another one I believe is still unsolved is several barrels found In bear brook state park containing the bodies of girls.
3:36 John has to be one of the most respectable parents I've heard of
Its too common for people to choose their new partner over their child and not act when they start abusing the child, good he left straight away
When my parents got divorced when i was young they both put more importance on their new marriages and lives over their children. I really resent them at age 28, not sure I can forgive them and they don't think they did anything wrong. My dad straight up made me beat a baby possum to death with a shovel (wouldn't do it himself) basically for his entertainment and his new wife was just all like "this is what we do in the south", I ended up in tears and scarred for life and all my dad did was scream at me like 10 mins after the deed cause I didn't forgive him right away after he said "sorry".
@@emilymiguel8198 I know where you’re coming from. My mom passed away when I was 13 and when my dad started a new relationship it was hell on earth. I was their slave. Mental and physical abuse for years. For a long time I hated both of them and I didn’t think I’ll ever forgive them but over time I realized that I’m only hurting myself. I asked myself do they think about the things they did to me day after day? Do they feel pain because of it? No they don’t. They lived their life like nothing ever happened and if I had the nerve to bring it up I was the bad guy. By not allowing myself to forgive them I let them hurt me longer. You don’t have to forget but by forgiving them you free yourself.
He literally saved their lives
This is such a tragic case. We need to care about and pay attention to abuse against vulnerable men, too! What a vile woman. Thank you for bringing this case to light. I had not heard about it before.
I read something not too long back saying that in the last 5 years there have been two years where more spousal abuse cases were reported by husbands than by wives. They tend to be ignored because the abuse seldom ends with the wife murdering the husband. Women tend to prefer to mentally abuse their victims.
Many studies show women abuse as often as men, yet that is ignored by the general public as well as police
What shocked me is the statement : " it's either a rabbit or child molester" . Thanks for sharing 🙂
I'm really enjoying watching you come out of your shell more and more!! Injecting more of yourself, your thoughts and feelings, into your stories. I love it!!
Oh, how heartbroken his mother and family must have felt seeing his face with the gas containers. He looks so sweet and pitiful, poor kid.
That last photograph of Kenny is just heartbreaking. Compared to the other photos of him it's clear that he was just a former shell of himself at that point. I can't imagine the torment of what he went through. RIP Kenny...🖤🖤
Legit broke man soul
He couldn't even walk! I mean, he probably walked but not without pain or trouble. Plus his face... that poor guy! Poor kid!
My heart goes out to all of those that encountered her, it seems she had many victims!
@@amandastakeonit7402 i can't understand why she didn't become a professional - guys like me pay a lot of money to experience beatings. and it's our fantasy to end up in this situation - i realise it's not to everyone's taste but for me personally i would have enjoyed every moment of being kenny , right until the end. i wish i could meet her.
@@pondeify mad disrespectful to the deceased...should really think before you type...Kenny wasnt a weirdo like you he just didn't know how to get out of a bad situation
@@pentafast5097 yes, obviously what happened to him was unacceptable because he didn't consent.
Love the videos, like how they always have an introduction about the area and surrounding location and about the persons involved. Really gets you deeper into the story and tells it differently then most Crime youtubers. Keep it up :D
I myself lived in the town over from Epping NH and remembered when this all happened. It was so surreal. There was also another Muder in Exeter NH where i grew up, at the old Concrete Factory that burnt down as well. And another murder on Brentwood NH which is in between Epping and Exeter NH. I am very impressed with your range of murders you do you videos on. Keep it up!!!
GOD BLESS JOHN! He is a great father! It's sad many people choose their new wife or husband over their kids.
I was seriously soooo proud of him !!!!!
Hope the chiropractor's children got his estate back.
I’m pretty sure it didn’t. I saw the actual auction of the house and property here on RUclips, and a local news anchor woman bought it for either 499K or 599K I forgot. An old timer in the neighborhood wanted it really bad and she out bid him by a little. I felt sorry for that man too. The money I’m pretty sure went to the state.
I don't know who bought it, but it was cleaned up and there's a family there now. I can get updated pics if yall want 🤷♀️
@@heather.be.thy.name3.16 yesss!
You have a new subscriber, binge watching, your compassion for how much research you do shows. Keep it up
I just found your channel and its SO NICE to hear a crime channel in a British accent!!!
Interesting that they couldn't arrest her after witnessing a burn site with a bone sticking out, and having her mention that it might be a child molestor. I'm no legal expert and I'm not a cop, but I wonder, how far does probable cause extend? Shouldn't it extend to a point like this, where the cops see something pretty darn suspicious?
i thought that too. I mean, what actually happened is exactly why it should be - it really was human remains, and the murderer really did escape due to the delay
Would you rather them go about things wrong, resulting in a technicality that got Sheila freed? Going to get the search warrant is how it MUST be done. I mean, lots of evil people have gotten off on a technicality. I wish people would quit treating authorities as not knowing anything, regardless of what they do. The police here did it properly, resulting in this woman being imprisoned for the rest of her lfe. Can you not show some appreciation for the fact that they crossed all t's and dotted all i's to make sure she was taken out of society?
@@jamiebraswell5520 Did you read my post? I specifically said "I'm no legal expert, but I wonder how far probable cause extends". I didn't think it needed to be said and was adequately implied, but I'll say it here now - if probable cause *didn't* extend that far, then sure, wait until they have the grounds to go on the site.
What I would ultimately rather is people actually read the comment instead of jumping to wrong conclusions. 😝
@@jamiebraswell5520 cops everybday arrest people with less cause and lock them up for years just under "suspicious behavior" that leads to finding a miniscule amount of drugs or "paraphernalia "
Yes but that only applies to cops who give a shit.
As an unrepentant life long true crime junkie, there is Coffeehouse Crime and then there is everyone else. Your hard work, professionalism, and passion show on every video. Love and respect from Texas.
I would just like to say, that u seem like a true gentleman, the way you’re so articulate with your words, just the whole way, u represent yourself, I wish u every success in your future, and please take care of yourself x
John, who had a daughter and married her for six weeks, saw the red flags and dumped her. It could have saved him and his daughter.
What a story! Thank you for sharing in such a lucid way. Good job! I really enjoy your videos.
Thank you!
Hearing ‘Pull up a seat, grab a coffee, and sit back’ after a long day soothes the soul every damn time 😌
Exactly !
Yessss 🙌🏻❤️
I live in NH and have never heard this. Thanks for sharing!!
It needs to be mentioned that this was never *BDSM.* This was abuse, pure and simple. Safety and the consent of all involved are paramount in any kink activity at it was clearly lacking.
Came to say this. Consent is central to BDSM though this he is right that this woman is like Shades of Grey because she's abusive.
I was raised by a narcissistic alcoholic mother who jumped from guy to guy and I was subjected to violent SA for many years by an older step brother. Molested by several uncles and lived a generally rough childhood... But I would never take my pain and transfer it onto another person. No evil suffered is an excuse to become a part of the darkness.
Love and healing to you ❤️🙌🏻
I’m truly sorry for what you’ve been through! I hope you’re healing and I wish you a happy and healthy adulthood! Show them what you’re made of! 💜
Hope you recover 🙏 and be safe
Hope you're all right now!
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I’m very sorry all of that happened to you. I hope you’ve found some peace and healing.
The BDSM community is usually very respectful of every participant's needs, they encourage enthusiastic consent and discussing every detail of the experience beforehand. The 50 Shades book is entirely inaccurate in this regard, and so is what Sheila did. It's not BDSM, it's abuse and exploitation. It's disgusting how she goes around saying she needs to rid the world of child offenders, and then abuses and kills a mentally ill person. My heart goes to the victims and their families.
I hear you! My gut feeling is that Sheila originally used BDSM through her phonecalls and advertisements as a means to find a man who was willing and happy to let their guard down, it was evident she had some fantasies in domination, etc.. Through this kind of fantasy she slowly coaxed these men into abuse, in which at that point I agree it was no longer BDSM. I don't know much about BDSM (in honesty) but my intention was not to paint the community in a bad light. What I had hoped to highlight was that she had used BDSM as a way to trap, exploit and then abuse multiple men who unfortunately were not able to say no. Even in the supermarket Kenneth wasn't able to accept external help. I'll keep your comment in mind and try to bring more clarity around these subjects in future videos. 🙏
@@CoffeehouseCrime well said A 🙏🏾
Yes!
@@MindMistressCS what does that even mean
Agree with this.
I love this channel so much. Thank you Adrian fir everything you have done and continue to do with it
i’m from new hampshire. real proud of this one. thanks.
I saw the title and was instantly intrigued. You find all the crazy stories, Adrian. Keep it up!
Didn't hesitate... I clicked
Oh what this is?
Early Gang! :)
It lived up to that title for sure!
Thank you! Lmao
I actually received a jury summons for her trial, happened to move out of that county the month before the summons was sent so I was excused from it.
It would have been interesting for you to have been there!!!!🤗🇬🇧
Oh 😮
Wow! That would have been very interesting, but I’m glad you were spared the heartbreaking details and photos.
To the owner of Coffeehouse Crime, your absolutely right New Hampshire is a small state compared to the other 49 but to say there isn't much going here is definitely wrong. I'm a life long resident of 53 yrs. We all watched in fascinating detail the national coverage of the NH Pamela Smart trial unfold as the first ever televised murder trial right here in the small not much going on state of New Hampshire. 😉
I watched an episode that you made over a year ago. You are much more polished in your presentation now compared to back then.
Omg, can you imagine being locked up with Sheila? Or a guard? Now that would be cruel and unusual punishment🥺
I literally don't want to know 💀
@@kyrohowe3156 literally literally?
@@jermu8706 no, figuratively literally
A guard can get access to things like tasers, if she tries ANY shit!😎👍😄
@@jermu8706 LITERALLY with a capital L
maybe I'm late to the show, but-- CONGRATS ON 1M!!! I started following you at around 100k. Quite a rapid growth! You deserve it, Adrian!
He certainly does!!
Thank you!!
And now in April 2024 1.8 M
Congrats buddy you have reached one million subs
And counting
Great content
I really enjoy it when for example working at home or playing games
Good commentary style makes the video interesting to watch and also good if listening
Keep it up and i wish you all the best👍
Thanks for doing such a great job with this channel i love what you do. Only this is i just wish your videos were longer
A really nice touch to show the victims whom we should remember more than the monster who took their lives. Another great video. Thank you.
"A raunchy, ranchy lifestyle." HA. That line just cracked me up.
Adrian your brilliant at what you do keep up the hard work. I can honestly say I'm a fan of your work. Love from United kingdom
I listened to this on my lunch break in Epping, NH.....so that was interesting. Somehow, I hadn't heard this case in detail before.
I'm glad she can't ever get parole but it's weird how many people commit heinous crimes and still have possibility of parole at some point. If you get life, you should serve life.
After an odd day of work, it's nice to come home to a new update from Coffeehouse Crime, and of course, Adrian, who tells stories ever so well! Coffee is being made now!
Coffee's brewing. Enjoy!
@@CoffeehouseCrime I shall! Thank you!
Ditt0! ☕️
to see you showing a video of my home town is amazing.
Loved the video... Thanks for your hard work ❤️❤️❤️👍
I like it when you suddenly swear especially when its toward the criminals. Theres a sense of catharsis in it
It was especially deserved this time around, too.
That photo of Kenny in the supermarket is haunting :(
Thanks for the upload.
Another excellent presentation. Thank you!
I'm a true crime fan and I have to give you respect because you have so many stories that don't get covered
If Kenny had the mind of a 12 year old how was he accepted into the military?
It’s the US man
the Bush era US armed forced lowered their standards. spell cat - Kat... ehh, close enuff
good question.
You just answered your own question
(sorry, you walked into that one)
Because Uhmurica!
This was such a bizarre case, I remember that his mother tried so hard to get him home, but he didn’t seem to want to leave. She must have been some woman. Wittiness even saw her hitting him but he was sucked in by then!
Stockholm syndrome
Kenny’s situation breaks my heart the most. He had an innocent soul.
I grew up with the family, they were good people
Anyone that knows anything about the BDSM Lifestyle, knows that taking out your aggressions on your submissive is NOT proper conduct of a Dominant. That's just abuse.
I have absolutely zero knowledge about this, I've always thought it's about the dominant side dominating the submissive side by potentially hurting them physically or emotionally.
Is that not the case? Or is it like it will become abuse if the submissive side doesn't like what the dominant side is doing to them?
I realized It kind of sounds like a dumb question but I'm genuinely confused
@@ake5958 BDSM is supposed to make BOTH the dominant and the submissive feel good. Boundaries, clear consent, and safe words have to be agreed upon beforehand, and 'aftercare' (i.e. providing warm blankets, words of comfort, food, ect) is a REQUIREMENT for the submissive. Because without the aftercare, the mind tends to treat sadistic behavior as abuse.
Additionally, if a person is being forced or coerced into a submissive role, then that's just ABUSE.
@@idk-ill-figure-smn-out wait so you're conditioning a submissive to liking sadism through aftercare? That's kinda how you phrased it lol
@@PoptartParasol That's not what I meant at ALL, although maybe the way I phrased it might have indicated otherwise. Maybe I should go into this topic more in depth:
You see, BDSM typically consists of four components: Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism. Though of course, a person can be into BDSM without participating in most of these things. Maybe they just like bondage, or are into the domination aspect without any of the typical sado-masochism components, which is perfectly fine. But THE most important aspect of BDSM is *consent.*
You see, when it come to the Sadism aspect of BDSM, it's usually accompanied by Masochism. Sometimes, a partner will be turned on by the pain inflicted onto them. This can be anything as light as spanking to more heavy "punishments" like whipping/flogging, basically whatever the receiver's pain threshold will allow.
Now, the _reason_ I mentioned the importance of aftercare is because even if a masochist (often a submissive as well, though not always) enjoys the act of receiving pain in the moment, their mind may still react to the treatment as abuse after the fact, which is why nurturing care is required.
I only mentioned that detail about aftercare in the first place because there a surprising amount of abusers who try to co-opt BDSM ideas without wanting ANY of the responsibility that comes with that, like taking care of your partner and respecting their consent/boundaries.
This is correct.
Shiela may not have killed Bill but I can guarantee his life was cut shorter because of their relationship. Stress is a killer!
Love your stories!!n Keep up the good and interesting research!
I have almost watched all your videos. Thank yoi
It is just heart-warming and I get goosebumps watching the way this channel grew from 40K subscribers.
I had nearly forgotten about this, and it happened not far from home. This story become news around the same time as the Barbara Asher case where a NH man died at the hands of a dominatrix, which seemed like a weird coincidence. You might also be interested in the Julia Enright murder case. Despite the infrequent bizarre cases like this, it is a very safe state and a beautiful place to live.
Adrian, always a great show, thanks.
Living in New Hampshire, not all that far from where this took place i remember the news coverage. I didn't know all of these details.......gives you the chills.
This might be the top 3 wildest story you’ve given us yet!! Thank you so much for your hard work Adrian, I’m in love with this channel!
You always come with cases I’ve never heard of before. I love you for that. All channels like this, seem to repeat the same stories. Thank you for being one of kind.
"...so there's not much going on here." As a New Hampshire native, this is accurate lol. I grew up just 15 minutes away from Epping too. Scary.
I'm from Raymond, New Hampshire. The next town over and I had no idea about this case!
Hi Adrian. I just want to say well done with the channel 👏 I'm a Criminology graduate. So I have a real interest in True Crime. If you're taking any recommendations, please could you do a video on Billie Jo-Jenkins. This is a very interesting case. I've been torn between the theories that people have put out about this murder. Id be interested to hear your own opinion. Anyway it's been 25 years since this happened, and the police recently announced they were going to review forensic evidence again. I'd really like to see you make a well balanced and articulate presentation on this case (like you have done with each video). Many thanks, and keep up the good work.
I think I recall this case, I will take another look into it . KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK CRIMINOLOGY GRAD!!!!! U will do great things 😉 ❤️ 📚
I really appreciate you putting “In memory of…” at the end…it’s really nice of you!!
You do a great job telling what happen keep up the good work
"...personally I'm not buying it..." Thanks for that straightforward statement, personally I wouldn't take it for free. Adrian, you have a great way of delivering terrible stories from this horror show of a world without being too over the top nor blasé about the terrible things that we humans can do to other living beings. This story was one I had never heard of from other true crime channels (Ballen, That Chapter, True Crime Recaps, etc) so thanks for the effort you put into this. Have to say it is so far out in left field that I'm going to have to view it again just to make sure I understand how this completely twisted woman did what she did. Thanks and cheers from Calgary AB, Canada.
You got my subscription within just the first few seconds ...
My interest is already captured and imma binge watch your videos!
He does a great job on his videos. You'll enjoy the content, but you'll also become a bit jaded against humanity. Come back to the Coffeehouse Crime community to regain faith in the humanity of others. 🖤
@@snaxolotl2.0 yesssss Im watching his videos right now! 🤗😍
I haven’t heard of this case thanks for covering it! These poor men :(
wow you are killing it man
I live in New Hampshire and grew up in the Mass/NH border. As of recently there’s talk of a serial killer around NH, 3 weeks ago an elderly mixed raced couple was shot in concord, and the killer has not been found.
Omg I was hoping you'd do Sheila LaBarre at some point! I just hadn't gotten around the the suggestion. Well covered, Adrian. 10/10
This one is close to home for me, to be honest. Before I was born my aunt used to work with Shiela at Dr. LaBarre's office. To hear her tell it Shiela was constantly belittling everyone in the office and going berserk when she was told no. She ended up driving my aunt to quit so she didn't have to deal with it anymore.
My dad was a regular patient at Dr. LaBarres, and after I was born i was brought with him to the office and left me with her. She used to watch me while my dad had his back set. Really creepy looking back on it now.
This was such grim subject matter but Adrian still had me chortling the whole time 😩 the most *savage* episode of Coffeehouse Crime yet damn
Ah, my 8 AM dose of coffeehouse crime.
Wdym it's 6pm!! 😭😭
Nope it’s 1am 😂🇦🇺
Good morning! Haha
@@cancionini Are you from country in the Balkans ? we have the same time
All of ya’ll are wrong its actually 4pm
😱 wow what a shocking story, may the victims rest in peace, 🙏 another interesting video thanks Adrian 🖤