Practical Ways To Talk About Boundaries | Counselor's Corner with Jim Cress
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Let's face it: relationships are wonderful, until they're not. No matter what sort of dynamics you encounter with those around you, we all could use a little help navigating how to have healthier relationships. That's why for Proverbs 31's Online Bible Study of Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst, we wanted to invite her personal, licensed counselor, Jim Cress to answer your questions. Counselor's Corner is almost like you're in a counseling session with Jim. This video gives you practical steps to talk about your boundaries with others. Learn how to say what you mean, mean what you say and how to not say it in a mean way.
Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary? Are boundaries even Christ-like? Process questions like these alongside a community of women who also want to make progress with their relationships during the next Proverbs 31 Online Bible Study: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst. During this study, Lysa will help you see through a biblical lens how boundaries help us better love people, not leave people. The study starts on January 23, so get your copy of the book and sign up today! proverbs31.org/study
Want more wisdom as you navigate hard relational dynamics? Find practical next steps, powerful scriptures and timely guidance on how to set realistic, healthy boundaries in Lysa TerKeurst's new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes. In the pages of this book, Lysa's personal counselor, Jim Cress, also provides therapeutic insight to help you confidently apply what you read. www.p31booksto....
Ready to take a personal next step in finding a Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. www.aacc.net
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Hallelujah, so thankful for these apples of gold in settings of silver as God brought me here on His divine timetable. Thank you so much for what you do!
Thank you I need to practice this!...codependency. Blessings!
Like this one too. So many times my attempts to communicate my boundaries get derailed.
This information was presented in a manner that was easy to grasp yet the message Jim shared is profound. I will be listening again and taking notes. Thank you so much.
Thanks for watching!
This was fantastic! A timely word in a time of turmoil, a huge thank you and God bless ✝️🕊
Such wonderful guidance with clear scriptural support. My question is how can you set a boundary with a family member who lives at a distance and will not speak with you?
What great advice. Thank you Jim and P31 for providing this for us. These conversation scripts sound like a wonderful idea, but chapter 6 that deals with emotional immaturity really set the flag on fire for me. I know it's timing and I have the whole script in my head but it's never received well because of the emotional immaturity, so because of that I've set the boundary of not talking about it all. I know that's not a good boundary for me. This boundary benefits him only. It's a vicious cycle but I will persevere for my own healing.
Thank you for watching, friend!
Thank you- perfect timing
This is a good addition to our study, solid and grounded in scripture.
Explained so well! Thank you
Wonderful information! I will be thinking on this alot. I will probably adjust "my truth" to "my need" or "my perspective", etc. I find the "my truth" to be problematic, especially as how widely is it used and misused these days.
Thanks for watching, Beth!
I understand what you mean by not speaking the exact same language as pop culture, but they are bridging generations with a message that includes us all, in an intelligent way that is not condescending or unintelligent. It is clearly done with care and greatly appreciated 😊
I wish you could be my counselor. Being a Christian you should see a Christian counselor for Biblical prospective
Hi Jodi! We recommend using the American Association of Christian Counselors to find a Christian counselor near you! Here's their website: www.aacc.net/
When someone tells you they are setting a boundary - and it feels more like an ultimatum- how do you respond? Our son said he’s setting the boundary that if we will not attend his gay wedding, that he will see that as no support or celebration of his relationship and will no longer be in a relationship with us. We are crushed - confused - and praying for wisdom.
Not attending your son's wedding was you setting a boundary - that you cannot accept his gay identity. His response reflects how deeply attached he is to that identity. He is saying if you cannot celebrate your son's identity, he can't feel held in your love. That's a painful thing for a child.
Bren - thank you for your input.
Draw your line in the sand and tell people they cross at their.peril