In my 41 years ive never had a gf back off of me sexually like my childs mom. She knows how much i love her and i do think she loves me BUT, im tired of feeling unattractive. I broke the golden rule i have had some really shitty things happen in my life all at once and i let her see me lose it and break down. Thanks for the advice. Im backing way TF off and if things dont change well then ill move on so she can be happy. Along with me finally someday finding someone who wants me like i want them again. Its hard . It hurts but im sick of wondering whats so ugly about myself when im really not.
I wish I could spend some time with you man and share all the problems that I have with my girlfriend,it's really bad and I do need this motivation message
Its easy to say but its hard to do really hard. Im in this situation right now i dont know what to do i feel like she dont love me anymore where 9yrs but this is the biggest struggle that where been. I wish god can make this normal again and makes her comeback to me again 😭
Watch all the vids and become masculine and be strong and she will come back. Gods directed you to these videos, you have to do the work and learn the stuff now.
What do you do if she pulls away and you pulled away. But because you pulled away she became more distant and break up with you? How can you win her back.
Because if she’s not into you no amount of effort to get her back on your end will make much difference. Walking away is the most powerful message. Not to manipulate; but to move on, focus on yourself and find someone better for you. And IF she comes back you will then be in a better position to make a decision whether you want her back or not.
As I did the same, the answer is simple : you fucked up, keep working hard on you. And let it go. Don't say anything no more if she's not open to a confrontation.
We were broken up for 6 months. she seen someone else and broken up with him. I seen her after no contact. it started well and she started talking about the past. got up set and wanted to go home. I seen her the next day to drop off a few things. she said we can only be acquaintances not friends. But she said she is still in love with me. should I leave her be? I don't want to do 30 more days.
What about if she pulls back after six years of living together..she has daddy issues in some of her attitudes... i have it clear that i should not talk to her... but women with daddy issues can really be a pain in the ass... i sometimes think get the fuck away from that..its like a plague or something...but i love her...she has really good qualities also... but sometimes i really dont know what to do...i havent seen her or talk to her for almos a month... but those daddy issues super women scare the shit out of me cause sometimes i think she really isnt coming back at least to talk or something..even though i have to suck it up and let her talk to me or come to me first..shes a woman at the end... but a daddy issue pain in the ass sometimes...
How do u deal w pregnant women and there emotions? My ex (fuck buddy) is pregnant and she’s emotional af. She quit calling me or responding to my text. I don’t wanna miss out on the beauty of her pregnant so I’m really trying to avoid no contact w her. It’s sad and it hurts. All this over a small 5 min fight.
Hey guys. My girlfriend of 5 years get depressed and she say to broke up . That is the best for the two and she won't to drag me or make more difficult for her but she loves me, she say his feeling don't change . She say that exact words. But she is depressed for real . This work in this situation.? Any experience on this? Thanks.
My girlfriend haveing a hard time work and family issues and she asked for a space for the weekend and I was worry about her and contact her during that time what I can do now
Chris Canwell Hi.. Recently I got broke up. I don't know what happened but I do realised later I became too much nagging and disturbed her own personal space. Before like 2 weeks everything was normal with good.. But recently 1 weeks before I had had a bad time always disturbing her own timing n space as she went to her home. She might be busy with friends family but I became too impatient and also saying her why you were not contacting me. But now it's been like 3 days she said she don't want thus relationship and want to live as single, but she said I can be her as a friend .. Since that time I became mad restless and numb. I want her back to my life as my love. I am missing every second.. Please help. I do follow up your video (just recently gotta knew this) I hope everything to be as good and the best.
Girlfriend pulled away over the last couple weeks. She said it was because she was depressed and didn’t think she deserved someone as good as me...so how do you deal with her being depressed and thinking this way? I backed off as well, figured she will talk to me when she wants. but still unsure about how to deal with this properly. Any feedback would be great.
@@KadirMedia 2yr later update…I backed off, concentrated on my own stuff, and eventually she came around. When she reached out I just set up a date but I stayed indifferent with everything to the point she made it HER idea to take things further. We are still together and she just moved in a few months ago. Main thing is to keep calm, do your own thing, back off, and stay indifferent (aka take it or leave it).
After 5 years of relationship first 2 years long distance and 3 years (still ) studying together.she dumped me saying that there is nothing of my interest.i begged her and cried for her infront of her..for about one week.today like an alpha male (which i was before she proposed me back in 2014) i told her that i am not a damn toy.go and get some crap head guy. #No_contact started
That’s how fluid relationships are. You can act like an alpha for 30 years to your girl and have the perfect relationship. Then on year 31 you decide to quit the act because at this point she must love you for who you are. And in that year she dumps you. Just goes to show in this world the correct answers to problems are sometimes extremely Counterintuitive, but extremely critical at the very same time
She wants space mate, alot of girl's nowadays won't ask for it , they will just go cold ,and that's when you leave her alone, or at least don't force communication
After she changed her attitude towards me, i become very sick I was diagnosed of a high blood pressure She hardly calls to know how am doing She only ask after me whenever i call I beckoned on her two best friends, she becomes very mad and told me that she cant trust me again Not minding my situation (HBP), she said that am trying my best so that we can come back together like before ..she told me that it is not going to work again.. That she can only be my friend 😓😓😓😓 But i love her so much Please what do i do?I always end up wetting my pillows with tears every night Am so much pain
Hi.m from India.I want to know that.she didn't talk to me like before. No call. Or msg. But she also online.but no any chat.whenever she snd rply.like rood. Or boaring.it was hoping from last 3weeks. What can I do.? Can u help me.m now on no contact zone.from 3days.
BISWARUP SAMANTA Indian women also have many options now, so should you ;) go no contact check out some girls go out with them, when she will find out you having fun without her she will come chasing you :D Cheers
They don't , you can't reason with someone that makes decisions based off emotions. You can ask her if she's okay, but alot of the time it's best to give them space
You obviously know nothing about women! Women pull away because we feel taken for granted, like our needs aren't being met because the guy is always "playing it cool." We want to feel wanted and appreciated, not treated like an object to be used and put on the shelf or thrown away!
I would've agree with you if I've seen your comment several months ago but now I gotta say fuck that shit. You women don't know what you want and need! You go from very sweet to total bitch in 30 minutes. I've learned that the hard way.
Attraction grows in space
To infinity and BEYOND!
Embrace the space
So does lost of attraction.
Cure of that is I DONT GIVE A FUCK.
Expand it more
Don't try to figure out why she went cold, just see it as ,ATM she doesn't want to talk to you, so just pull back yourself
yeah yeah it's so true, I did this methods and it's work I got it back. thanks man
G W yeah actually we having a rough time now but it's okay I hope she is strong enough .
How did it end up?
@@JakeFisher247 they are married now they have kids
I love this advice because it's working for me. I just have to be persistent in implementing this
Does it really works
I am facing same situation
My gf acting cold with me
@@itsakhilprasanth hello
In my 41 years ive never had a gf back off of me sexually like my childs mom. She knows how much i love her and i do think she loves me BUT, im tired of feeling unattractive. I broke the golden rule i have had some really shitty things happen in my life all at once and i let her see me lose it and break down. Thanks for the advice. Im backing way TF off and if things dont change well then ill move on so she can be happy. Along with me finally someday finding someone who wants me like i want them again. Its hard . It hurts but im sick of wondering whats so ugly about myself when im really not.
This is true.. dont blackmail your girlfriend.. she blocked me and now she is happy with another..
Bae John move on bro find a hotter one ;)
How you doing bro? Life update?
how’s your day?
My girl said she gave me warning sign and no more chances?
@@andrewmanden266 tough luck. Move on and find another.
Up and down like the stock market.
Women back away to create drama: They are addicted to it.
Actually those are always the Covert Narcissistic types sadly.
Yea
🤣🤣🤣 facts
Guys do the same thing, the only difference is you are here because you don't know how to respond or handle your shit when women do this.
@@Pistonhammerisn’t that 95% of women . Lol
Man, it's working
I wish I could spend some time with you man and share all the problems that I have with my girlfriend,it's really bad and I do need this motivation message
Absolutely true.. Thank you 🙏🏼
If she pulls back, you focus on You. Stay busy. Keep options open. Add her to your rotation.
Its easy to say but its hard to do really hard. Im in this situation right now i dont know what to do i feel like she dont love me anymore where 9yrs but this is the biggest struggle that where been. I wish god can make this normal again and makes her comeback to me again 😭
Watch all the vids and become masculine and be strong and she will come back. Gods directed you to these videos, you have to do the work and learn the stuff now.
What do you do if she pulls away and you pulled away. But because you pulled away she became more distant and break up with you? How can you win her back.
Because if she’s not into you no amount of effort to get her back on your end will make much difference. Walking away is the most powerful message. Not to manipulate; but to move on, focus on yourself and find someone better for you. And IF she comes back you will then be in a better position to make a decision whether you want her back or not.
As I did the same, the answer is simple : you fucked up, keep working hard on you. And let it go. Don't say anything no more if she's not open to a confrontation.
We were broken up for 6 months. she seen someone else and broken up with him. I seen her after no contact. it started well and she started talking about the past. got up set and wanted to go home. I seen her the next day to drop off a few things. she said we can only be acquaintances not friends. But she said she is still in love with me. should I leave her be? I don't want to do 30 more days.
Forget her and move on
Leave her. Be a man
what did you do ? 3 years past tell me bro
what about when a woman ask you why you with her or why you are here? what kind of a response can you give to that?
I would reply like, because i chose to be with you
"We're chilling"
Just Netflix (;
Then how to deal with their messages during this period if we reply we could be assumed as needy again....????
Plan a date when she reaches out
When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?
@@OnderHassan When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?
When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?
Make a date with her and act unaffected by her behavior
Only make a date when she makes effort to reach out
I gave my girl space and was wondering. After about 6 years of space. Should I be worried?
What about if she pulls back after six years of living together..she has daddy issues in some of her attitudes... i have it clear that i should not talk to her... but women with daddy issues can really be a pain in the ass... i sometimes think get the fuck away from that..its like a plague or something...but i love her...she has really good qualities also... but sometimes i really dont know what to do...i havent seen her or talk to her for almos a month... but those daddy issues super women scare the shit out of me cause sometimes i think she really isnt coming back at least to talk or something..even though i have to suck it up and let her talk to me or come to me first..shes a woman at the end... but a daddy issue pain in the ass sometimes...
What do you do if she keeps on pulling away then coming back ?
If she pulls away she gets replaced
I Agree With You 😂😂😂
How do u deal w pregnant women and there emotions? My ex (fuck buddy) is pregnant and she’s emotional af. She quit calling me or responding to my text. I don’t wanna miss out on the beauty of her pregnant so I’m really trying to avoid no contact w her. It’s sad and it hurts. All this over a small 5 min fight.
Hey guys. My girlfriend of 5 years get depressed and she say to broke up . That is the best for the two and she won't to drag me or make more difficult for her but she loves me, she say his feeling don't change . She say that exact words. But she is depressed for real . This work in this situation.? Any experience on this? Thanks.
So what do i do when she goes back with her ex? And she only sees me as a friend no more then that?
Do nothing.
Is this true for female friends? Would appreciate advice team
A man can't have female friends
What if she responds after 2 days asking how your weekend was but still seems distant? Do I continue to keep my distance and not reach out?
Same doubt. When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?
@@ramborajkumar298 never a cold fish. Indifferent and cool.
Set a date when she reaches out you bozo
Play it cool. I just mirror their responses..
Just mirror their response, if she is expecting you to do all the talking, DON'T...let her do the talking
My girlfriend haveing a hard time work and family issues and she asked for a space for the weekend and I was worry about her and contact her during that time what I can do now
Essam Marey, if she likes you she will come back.
Chris Canwell Hi.. Recently I got broke up. I don't know what happened but I do realised later I became too much nagging and disturbed her own personal space. Before like 2 weeks everything was normal with good.. But recently 1 weeks before I had had a bad time always disturbing her own timing n space as she went to her home. She might be busy with friends family but I became too impatient and also saying her why you were not contacting me. But now it's been like 3 days she said she don't want thus relationship and want to live as single, but she said I can be her as a friend .. Since that time I became mad restless and numb. I want her back to my life as my love. I am missing every second.. Please help.
I do follow up your video (just recently gotta knew this) I hope everything to be as good and the best.
Anubhab Pal what happened?
Did she come back to you bro?
Pray very hard and be consistent and b patient
Girlfriend pulled away over the last couple weeks. She said it was because she was depressed and didn’t think she deserved someone as good as me...so how do you deal with her being depressed and thinking this way? I backed off as well, figured she will talk to me when she wants. but still unsure about how to deal with this properly. Any feedback would be great.
Rodeo 1141 so what happened???
What happened
same situation with me ? what happened ?
@@KadirMedia 2yr later update…I backed off, concentrated on my own stuff, and eventually she came around. When she reached out I just set up a date but I stayed indifferent with everything to the point she made it HER idea to take things further. We are still together and she just moved in a few months ago. Main thing is to keep calm, do your own thing, back off, and stay indifferent (aka take it or leave it).
@@Rodeo-iz7cg after how many days / months she reached out to you ?
hm...interesting. Well could u help me sir ?
Sure, send me an email on my website.
Sure, send me an email on my website.
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@@DevelopAttraction Excuse me please can you help me?
I'm very bord same things over and over I'm wanting to be olone and make new friends I'm not happy
After 5 years of relationship first 2 years long distance and 3 years (still ) studying together.she dumped me saying that there is nothing of my interest.i begged her and cried for her infront of her..for about one week.today like an alpha male (which i was before she proposed me back in 2014) i told her that i am not a damn toy.go and get some crap head guy. #No_contact started
That’s how fluid relationships are. You can act like an alpha for 30 years to your girl and have the perfect relationship. Then on year 31 you decide to quit the act because at this point she must love you for who you are. And in that year she dumps you. Just goes to show in this world the correct answers to problems are sometimes extremely Counterintuitive, but extremely critical at the very same time
@@davidontiveroz8295 lol! Your gf is not your mama
my gf is going cold on me and is saying we should just be friends. should I just let her go and stay firm? Or try to stay on the relationship
Dorian Hooks what happnd?
Yes, no contact. She will be back
Need update bro
Good Timing
How to respond when girl friend lies to you?
Dump her
Go MGTOW
this shit works
Its been 3 months and my gf hasn't initiate contact
Should I initiate contact?
yes. but not in needy way
No don't
Don't
My girlfriend doesn't want space but she's cold 🤔🥵 i always ask her if she want space
She wants space mate, alot of girl's nowadays won't ask for it , they will just go cold ,and that's when you leave her alone, or at least don't force communication
@@Giovanni-01 i. Already break up with her HAAHAH
@@Yoshirosan good job
After she changed her attitude towards me, i become very sick
I was diagnosed of a high blood pressure
She hardly calls to know how am doing
She only ask after me whenever i call
I beckoned on her two best friends, she becomes very mad and told me that she cant trust me again
Not minding my situation (HBP), she said that am trying my best so that we can come back together like before ..she told me that it is not going to work again.. That she can only be my friend 😓😓😓😓
But i love her so much
Please what do i do?I always end up wetting my pillows with tears every night
Am so much pain
Hello. I hope you are feeling much better now.
What's the situation with your girl?
Stop acting so beta.
Bro u are love
Great
Hi.m from India.I want to know that.she didn't talk to me like before. No call. Or msg. But she also online.but no any chat.whenever she snd rply.like rood. Or boaring.it was hoping from last 3weeks. What can I do.? Can u help me.m now on no contact zone.from 3days.
BISWARUP SAMANTA Indian women also have many options now, so should you ;) go no contact check out some girls go out with them, when she will find out you having fun without her she will come chasing you :D Cheers
I'm a bit confused. Cause women want to be pampered when they are angry.
They don't , you can't reason with someone that makes decisions based off emotions. You can ask her if she's okay, but alot of the time it's best to give them space
She pulls away every month 😅
never take seriously what god created for fun
Yeah yeah, and what if you are married to such a woman? Hahahha Lool
Same rules apply ;)
girl you see whole weekend VS you see once a week
which situation is more sexually intense hmm.yeahh
I've met**space ** the guy your girl needs and he's a huge black dude.if your girl needs **space** go find another girl
Does this include Indian girls
No
🤣🤣bruh
lol
ITS NOT WORKING
You obviously know nothing about women! Women pull away because we feel taken for granted, like our needs aren't being met because the guy is always "playing it cool." We want to feel wanted and appreciated, not treated like an object to be used and put on the shelf or thrown away!
Leslie Yancey a great example of a woman who knows what she wants, but not what she needs.
Lmfaoooo yeah then the girl gets bored and goes for the bad boy stfu
I would've agree with you if I've seen your comment several months ago but now I gotta say fuck that shit. You women don't know what you want and need! You go from very sweet to total bitch in 30 minutes. I've learned that the hard way.
Stf up lindsey😋
Hahahah funny
Does this include Indian girls