Why Your Girlfriend Pulls Away From You

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

Комментарии • 144

  • @bosschedda_
    @bosschedda_ 6 лет назад +187

    Attraction grows in space

    • @trustfund82
      @trustfund82 5 лет назад +13

      To infinity and BEYOND!

    • @essentialoilsme
      @essentialoilsme 3 года назад +4

      Embrace the space

    • @bashmagik8613
      @bashmagik8613 2 года назад +4

      So does lost of attraction.
      Cure of that is I DONT GIVE A FUCK.

    • @farhhannnnn
      @farhhannnnn 2 года назад

      Expand it more

  • @Giovanni-01
    @Giovanni-01 3 года назад +27

    Don't try to figure out why she went cold, just see it as ,ATM she doesn't want to talk to you, so just pull back yourself

  • @oussama6915
    @oussama6915 7 лет назад +43

    yeah yeah it's so true, I did this methods and it's work I got it back. thanks man

    • @oussama6915
      @oussama6915 7 лет назад

      G W yeah actually we having a rough time now but it's okay I hope she is strong enough .

    • @JakeFisher247
      @JakeFisher247 3 года назад

      How did it end up?

    • @Alex.Akagami
      @Alex.Akagami 3 года назад

      @@JakeFisher247 they are married now they have kids

  • @dligon01
    @dligon01 5 лет назад +83

    I love this advice because it's working for me. I just have to be persistent in implementing this

    • @itsakhilprasanth
      @itsakhilprasanth 4 года назад +1

      Does it really works
      I am facing same situation
      My gf acting cold with me

    • @adityamaurya8457
      @adityamaurya8457 3 года назад

      @@itsakhilprasanth hello

  • @lie380
    @lie380 Год назад +5

    In my 41 years ive never had a gf back off of me sexually like my childs mom. She knows how much i love her and i do think she loves me BUT, im tired of feeling unattractive. I broke the golden rule i have had some really shitty things happen in my life all at once and i let her see me lose it and break down. Thanks for the advice. Im backing way TF off and if things dont change well then ill move on so she can be happy. Along with me finally someday finding someone who wants me like i want them again. Its hard . It hurts but im sick of wondering whats so ugly about myself when im really not.

  • @baejohn8021
    @baejohn8021 7 лет назад +60

    This is true.. dont blackmail your girlfriend.. she blocked me and now she is happy with another..

    • @milindkbl
      @milindkbl 4 года назад +8

      Bae John move on bro find a hotter one ;)

    • @lyxuong458
      @lyxuong458 4 года назад +5

      How you doing bro? Life update?

    • @harryzupotter6181
      @harryzupotter6181 3 года назад

      how’s your day?

    • @andrewmanden266
      @andrewmanden266 3 года назад

      My girl said she gave me warning sign and no more chances?

    • @bashmagik8613
      @bashmagik8613 2 года назад +2

      @@andrewmanden266 tough luck. Move on and find another.

  • @dbaq9247
    @dbaq9247 4 года назад +24

    Up and down like the stock market.

  • @cliffevans9858
    @cliffevans9858 3 года назад +81

    Women back away to create drama: They are addicted to it.

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer 2 года назад +4

      Actually those are always the Covert Narcissistic types sadly.

    • @OMPRAKASH-tl6yc
      @OMPRAKASH-tl6yc Год назад

      Yea

    • @puertoricanprince7690
      @puertoricanprince7690 Год назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣 facts

    • @southwestxnorthwest
      @southwestxnorthwest Год назад +1

      Guys do the same thing, the only difference is you are here because you don't know how to respond or handle your shit when women do this.

    • @walkertranger5746
      @walkertranger5746 Год назад

      @@Pistonhammerisn’t that 95% of women . Lol

  • @07scorpio40
    @07scorpio40 4 года назад +12

    Man, it's working

  • @tyronreeds7028
    @tyronreeds7028 5 лет назад +29

    I wish I could spend some time with you man and share all the problems that I have with my girlfriend,it's really bad and I do need this motivation message

  • @jijo5721
    @jijo5721 6 лет назад +23

    Absolutely true.. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @OiVinn-eq1ml
    @OiVinn-eq1ml Год назад +1

    If she pulls back, you focus on You. Stay busy. Keep options open. Add her to your rotation.

  • @jccastro4368
    @jccastro4368 3 года назад +3

    Its easy to say but its hard to do really hard. Im in this situation right now i dont know what to do i feel like she dont love me anymore where 9yrs but this is the biggest struggle that where been. I wish god can make this normal again and makes her comeback to me again 😭

    • @j249
      @j249 3 года назад +5

      Watch all the vids and become masculine and be strong and she will come back. Gods directed you to these videos, you have to do the work and learn the stuff now.

  • @makimarco08
    @makimarco08 4 года назад +11

    What do you do if she pulls away and you pulled away. But because you pulled away she became more distant and break up with you? How can you win her back.

    • @ryanandrews321
      @ryanandrews321 3 года назад +20

      Because if she’s not into you no amount of effort to get her back on your end will make much difference. Walking away is the most powerful message. Not to manipulate; but to move on, focus on yourself and find someone better for you. And IF she comes back you will then be in a better position to make a decision whether you want her back or not.

    • @stefanopatsiuras2838
      @stefanopatsiuras2838 2 года назад +2

      As I did the same, the answer is simple : you fucked up, keep working hard on you. And let it go. Don't say anything no more if she's not open to a confrontation.

  • @Dinowrestler
    @Dinowrestler 8 лет назад +8

    We were broken up for 6 months. she seen someone else and broken up with him. I seen her after no contact. it started well and she started talking about the past. got up set and wanted to go home. I seen her the next day to drop off a few things. she said we can only be acquaintances not friends. But she said she is still in love with me. should I leave her be? I don't want to do 30 more days.

    • @alisaiful6717
      @alisaiful6717 6 лет назад +11

      Forget her and move on

    • @welpogi
      @welpogi 5 лет назад +7

      Leave her. Be a man

    • @ali-ym1ob
      @ali-ym1ob 4 года назад

      what did you do ? 3 years past tell me bro

  • @kirkv2262
    @kirkv2262 8 лет назад +14

    what about when a woman ask you why you with her or why you are here? what kind of a response can you give to that?

    • @Alex_El-14
      @Alex_El-14 3 года назад +1

      I would reply like, because i chose to be with you

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick 3 года назад +2

      "We're chilling"

    • @vlekje34
      @vlekje34 3 года назад

      Just Netflix (;

  • @noobmode1986
    @noobmode1986 5 лет назад +9

    Then how to deal with their messages during this period if we reply we could be assumed as needy again....????

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick 3 года назад +1

      Plan a date when she reaches out

    • @ramborajkumar298
      @ramborajkumar298 3 года назад

      When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?

    • @ramborajkumar298
      @ramborajkumar298 3 года назад

      @@OnderHassan When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?

  • @ramborajkumar298
    @ramborajkumar298 3 года назад +8

    When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?

    • @michaelh9251
      @michaelh9251 3 года назад

      Make a date with her and act unaffected by her behavior

    • @michaelh9251
      @michaelh9251 3 года назад

      Only make a date when she makes effort to reach out

  • @crispyc2335
    @crispyc2335 2 года назад +4

    I gave my girl space and was wondering. After about 6 years of space. Should I be worried?

  • @carlosdelcid6841
    @carlosdelcid6841 6 лет назад +4

    What about if she pulls back after six years of living together..she has daddy issues in some of her attitudes... i have it clear that i should not talk to her... but women with daddy issues can really be a pain in the ass... i sometimes think get the fuck away from that..its like a plague or something...but i love her...she has really good qualities also... but sometimes i really dont know what to do...i havent seen her or talk to her for almos a month... but those daddy issues super women scare the shit out of me cause sometimes i think she really isnt coming back at least to talk or something..even though i have to suck it up and let her talk to me or come to me first..shes a woman at the end... but a daddy issue pain in the ass sometimes...

  • @mattayres5147
    @mattayres5147 3 месяца назад

    What do you do if she keeps on pulling away then coming back ?

  • @imperialmusicentertainment9581
    @imperialmusicentertainment9581 2 года назад +2

    If she pulls away she gets replaced

  • @mrmarcusdmorgan
    @mrmarcusdmorgan 6 лет назад +1

    How do u deal w pregnant women and there emotions? My ex (fuck buddy) is pregnant and she’s emotional af. She quit calling me or responding to my text. I don’t wanna miss out on the beauty of her pregnant so I’m really trying to avoid no contact w her. It’s sad and it hurts. All this over a small 5 min fight.

  • @brucewayne7476
    @brucewayne7476 3 года назад +1

    Hey guys. My girlfriend of 5 years get depressed and she say to broke up . That is the best for the two and she won't to drag me or make more difficult for her but she loves me, she say his feeling don't change . She say that exact words. But she is depressed for real . This work in this situation.? Any experience on this? Thanks.

  • @LordShad199
    @LordShad199 5 лет назад +3

    So what do i do when she goes back with her ex? And she only sees me as a friend no more then that?

  • @kagelevelofficial
    @kagelevelofficial 4 года назад +4

    Is this true for female friends? Would appreciate advice team

  • @James-rt7bg
    @James-rt7bg 4 года назад +6

    What if she responds after 2 days asking how your weekend was but still seems distant? Do I continue to keep my distance and not reach out?

    • @ramborajkumar298
      @ramborajkumar298 3 года назад

      Same doubt. When she pulls back and texts infrequently, how should I reply? Should I act cold fish or with same enthusiasm?

    • @frankwhite9170
      @frankwhite9170 2 года назад +1

      @@ramborajkumar298 never a cold fish. Indifferent and cool.

    • @jondough3339
      @jondough3339 2 года назад

      Set a date when she reaches out you bozo

    • @lukeArmstrong524
      @lukeArmstrong524 2 года назад +2

      Play it cool. I just mirror their responses..

    • @UnflatteringRealities
      @UnflatteringRealities 3 месяца назад

      Just mirror their response, if she is expecting you to do all the talking, DON'T...let her do the talking

  • @emarey66
    @emarey66 5 лет назад +5

    My girlfriend haveing a hard time work and family issues and she asked for a space for the weekend and I was worry about her and contact her during that time what I can do now

  • @anubhabpal967
    @anubhabpal967 7 лет назад +4

    Chris Canwell Hi.. Recently I got broke up. I don't know what happened but I do realised later I became too much nagging and disturbed her own personal space. Before like 2 weeks everything was normal with good.. But recently 1 weeks before I had had a bad time always disturbing her own timing n space as she went to her home. She might be busy with friends family but I became too impatient and also saying her why you were not contacting me. But now it's been like 3 days she said she don't want thus relationship and want to live as single, but she said I can be her as a friend .. Since that time I became mad restless and numb. I want her back to my life as my love. I am missing every second.. Please help.
    I do follow up your video (just recently gotta knew this) I hope everything to be as good and the best.

    • @BMXmagic8
      @BMXmagic8 6 лет назад

      Anubhab Pal what happened?

    • @LN22-h8k
      @LN22-h8k 6 лет назад

      Did she come back to you bro?

    • @bankboyent9922
      @bankboyent9922 5 лет назад

      Pray very hard and be consistent and b patient

  • @Rodeo-iz7cg
    @Rodeo-iz7cg 5 лет назад +10

    Girlfriend pulled away over the last couple weeks. She said it was because she was depressed and didn’t think she deserved someone as good as me...so how do you deal with her being depressed and thinking this way? I backed off as well, figured she will talk to me when she wants. but still unsure about how to deal with this properly. Any feedback would be great.

    • @EaglesPerspective
      @EaglesPerspective 5 лет назад +1

      Rodeo 1141 so what happened???

    • @olmanclifford218
      @olmanclifford218 5 лет назад +1

      What happened

    • @KadirMedia
      @KadirMedia 2 года назад

      same situation with me ? what happened ?

    • @Rodeo-iz7cg
      @Rodeo-iz7cg 2 года назад +10

      @@KadirMedia 2yr later update…I backed off, concentrated on my own stuff, and eventually she came around. When she reached out I just set up a date but I stayed indifferent with everything to the point she made it HER idea to take things further. We are still together and she just moved in a few months ago. Main thing is to keep calm, do your own thing, back off, and stay indifferent (aka take it or leave it).

    • @KadirMedia
      @KadirMedia 2 года назад +1

      @@Rodeo-iz7cg after how many days / months she reached out to you ?

  • @MrStano-jy3ts
    @MrStano-jy3ts 8 лет назад +8

    hm...interesting. Well could u help me sir ?

  • @DigitalPaynow
    @DigitalPaynow Год назад

    I'm very bord same things over and over I'm wanting to be olone and make new friends I'm not happy

  • @TheHustler47
    @TheHustler47 5 лет назад +6

    After 5 years of relationship first 2 years long distance and 3 years (still ) studying together.she dumped me saying that there is nothing of my interest.i begged her and cried for her infront of her..for about one week.today like an alpha male (which i was before she proposed me back in 2014) i told her that i am not a damn toy.go and get some crap head guy. #No_contact started

    • @davidontiveroz8295
      @davidontiveroz8295 3 года назад

      That’s how fluid relationships are. You can act like an alpha for 30 years to your girl and have the perfect relationship. Then on year 31 you decide to quit the act because at this point she must love you for who you are. And in that year she dumps you. Just goes to show in this world the correct answers to problems are sometimes extremely Counterintuitive, but extremely critical at the very same time

    • @maxos-4135
      @maxos-4135 2 года назад +1

      @@davidontiveroz8295 lol! Your gf is not your mama

  • @H20Reborn
    @H20Reborn 8 лет назад +9

    my gf is going cold on me and is saying we should just be friends. should I just let her go and stay firm? Or try to stay on the relationship

    • @shaneracheea337
      @shaneracheea337 6 лет назад +1

      Dorian Hooks what happnd?

    • @Exxon300
      @Exxon300 6 лет назад +10

      Yes, no contact. She will be back

    • @zhida7821
      @zhida7821 5 лет назад +1

      Need update bro

  • @popeofpain6904
    @popeofpain6904 4 года назад +3

    Good Timing

  • @sahil47
    @sahil47 3 года назад +2

    How to respond when girl friend lies to you?

  • @ronfarrell776
    @ronfarrell776 5 лет назад +11

    Go MGTOW

  • @bennettray8465
    @bennettray8465 4 года назад +6

    this shit works

  • @mellowyellow2957
    @mellowyellow2957 4 года назад +2

    Its been 3 months and my gf hasn't initiate contact
    Should I initiate contact?

  • @Yoshirosan
    @Yoshirosan 4 года назад +6

    My girlfriend doesn't want space but she's cold 🤔🥵 i always ask her if she want space

    • @Giovanni-01
      @Giovanni-01 3 года назад +4

      She wants space mate, alot of girl's nowadays won't ask for it , they will just go cold ,and that's when you leave her alone, or at least don't force communication

    • @Yoshirosan
      @Yoshirosan 3 года назад +2

      @@Giovanni-01 i. Already break up with her HAAHAH

    • @kenshiroFNS
      @kenshiroFNS 3 года назад

      @@Yoshirosan good job

  • @christianlamar3695
    @christianlamar3695 6 лет назад +2

    After she changed her attitude towards me, i become very sick
    I was diagnosed of a high blood pressure
    She hardly calls to know how am doing
    She only ask after me whenever i call
    I beckoned on her two best friends, she becomes very mad and told me that she cant trust me again
    Not minding my situation (HBP), she said that am trying my best so that we can come back together like before ..she told me that it is not going to work again.. That she can only be my friend 😓😓😓😓
    But i love her so much
    Please what do i do?I always end up wetting my pillows with tears every night
    Am so much pain

    • @allcode4042
      @allcode4042 5 лет назад

      Hello. I hope you are feeling much better now.
      What's the situation with your girl?

    • @davidgrant1886
      @davidgrant1886 4 года назад +1

      Stop acting so beta.

  • @khizerbaig9796
    @khizerbaig9796 2 месяца назад

    Bro u are love

  • @michaelmaingi4216
    @michaelmaingi4216 3 года назад +1

    Great

  • @biswarupsamanta9407
    @biswarupsamanta9407 7 лет назад +1

    Hi.m from India.I want to know that.she didn't talk to me like before. No call. Or msg. But she also online.but no any chat.whenever she snd rply.like rood. Or boaring.it was hoping from last 3weeks. What can I do.? Can u help me.m now on no contact zone.from 3days.

    • @milindkbl
      @milindkbl 4 года назад +2

      BISWARUP SAMANTA Indian women also have many options now, so should you ;) go no contact check out some girls go out with them, when she will find out you having fun without her she will come chasing you :D Cheers

  • @hayateyamashita1620
    @hayateyamashita1620 4 года назад +3

    I'm a bit confused. Cause women want to be pampered when they are angry.

    • @Giovanni-01
      @Giovanni-01 3 года назад +1

      They don't , you can't reason with someone that makes decisions based off emotions. You can ask her if she's okay, but alot of the time it's best to give them space

  • @DanielGee91
    @DanielGee91 2 года назад +1

    She pulls away every month 😅

  • @bazelarobert144
    @bazelarobert144 3 года назад +6

    never take seriously what god created for fun

  • @MrStano-jy3ts
    @MrStano-jy3ts 8 лет назад +15

    Yeah yeah, and what if you are married to such a woman? Hahahha Lool

  • @honestfella836
    @honestfella836 3 года назад +2

    girl you see whole weekend VS you see once a week
    which situation is more sexually intense hmm.yeahh

  • @cheezinhoweree
    @cheezinhoweree 2 года назад

    I've met**space ** the guy your girl needs and he's a huge black dude.if your girl needs **space** go find another girl

  • @varuvenda
    @varuvenda 3 года назад

    Does this include Indian girls

  • @inserter400
    @inserter400 4 года назад +2

    ITS NOT WORKING

  • @leslieyancey5084
    @leslieyancey5084 7 лет назад +5

    You obviously know nothing about women! Women pull away because we feel taken for granted, like our needs aren't being met because the guy is always "playing it cool." We want to feel wanted and appreciated, not treated like an object to be used and put on the shelf or thrown away!

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  7 лет назад +119

      Leslie Yancey a great example of a woman who knows what she wants, but not what she needs.

    • @zxendarko
      @zxendarko 5 лет назад +20

      Lmfaoooo yeah then the girl gets bored and goes for the bad boy stfu

    • @naturalbornkiller361
      @naturalbornkiller361 5 лет назад +24

      I would've agree with you if I've seen your comment several months ago but now I gotta say fuck that shit. You women don't know what you want and need! You go from very sweet to total bitch in 30 minutes. I've learned that the hard way.

    • @kristofvanroyen4548
      @kristofvanroyen4548 5 лет назад +8

      Stf up lindsey😋

    • @sundvallen
      @sundvallen 3 года назад

      Hahahah funny

  • @varuvenda
    @varuvenda 3 года назад +1

    Does this include Indian girls