Girlfriend Pushing You Away

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @cadreentertainmentrsa3574
    @cadreentertainmentrsa3574 4 года назад +44

    If ur being pushed away, then allow it, you r a king, dont beg, to somebody else out there u r a prayer come true

  • @limitedsource6218
    @limitedsource6218 4 года назад +99

    This guy is the most underrated guy ever

  • @bongkoymil6199
    @bongkoymil6199 7 лет назад +142

    this is a great advice I've been applying.
    my gf a flight attendant, we've been 3 years in relationship long distance and every time I left for overseas, the attraction diminished and she would say breakup. I apply this advice to mirror her emotion and not chasing her. it worked every single time.

    • @JimTaroja
      @JimTaroja 5 лет назад +5

      Is it? My girlfriend works in japan and im in the philippines we had this problem. Does it work?

    • @aftabahmad199
      @aftabahmad199 5 лет назад +4

      @@JimTaroja yes it does

    • @JimTaroja
      @JimTaroja 5 лет назад

      @@aftabahmad199 do you have this problem too?

    • @corneliusmcintosh435
      @corneliusmcintosh435 3 года назад

      I really appreciate this information am going to try it

    • @shadowzmickey9511
      @shadowzmickey9511 3 года назад +5

      Idk about your gf, but as a fellow flight attendant, i ll never have one as gf, i have yet to meet one who didnt cheat her bf or fiance. Future advice for others in sucj a case, always take care.

  • @VictorZCostin
    @VictorZCostin 5 лет назад +41

    I try this with my actual gf. Our relationship doesn't feel too good right now and she is feeling bored, unattracted to me right now. I did this with my ex when we broke up and she called me several times but i was too busy for her. I was too hurt to date her again. So this method works. Thank you for reminding me this.

  • @A24flo
    @A24flo 5 лет назад +196

    Off to play tennis with da homies

  • @xmn9546
    @xmn9546 8 лет назад +124

    May the Lord, bless you my man

  • @broadsworddannyboy5057
    @broadsworddannyboy5057 4 года назад +26

    Listen up guys, this guy is on the mark- these tactics work - you have to LISTEN and let her go if she goes cold- IGNORE her - she WILL come back!

    • @clytnjms
      @clytnjms 3 года назад +1

      They definitely will work but We become weak in moments where we need to be strong. Our Self important Egos want to take over and we want to 'Win'.

  • @stadiusdrakkai6906
    @stadiusdrakkai6906 8 лет назад +43

    Love this guy. He gives you all the goods and I've experienced powerful results using the information he provides. Ready for more videos Chris.

    • @MARIOdeANGOLA
      @MARIOdeANGOLA 4 года назад +2

      STADIUS DRAKKAI that’s true. I strongly agree, he’s one of the best coach on RUclips.

  • @drmehran991
    @drmehran991 3 года назад +13

    I congratulate you for being so good at what you're doing. Keep up the great works. Weather you're aware of it or not, you're helping millions of people. I mean that. CHeers,

  • @michaelking4578
    @michaelking4578 4 года назад +9

    My wife got mad at me for looking at girls in bikinis and said she was done. I said well if you want to go then you can. If you don’t go I’d be happy with that too. Either way I will be happy. She apologized to me quickly. I was like, “that actually worked”? Well it did. You got the right information here.

    • @skylr4889
      @skylr4889 4 года назад +1

      wow such a loyal guy huh

  • @KIRRRRU19
    @KIRRRRU19 2 года назад +12

    She demands commitment -- when you give the commitment she'll push you away. Once you're ok, she demands the commitment again --it's a never ending loop you need to grow conscious off. And no, it never changes ;)

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer 2 года назад +1

      Thats when she knows she has you in her pocket , hence why the " devaluation stage " begins ( hopefully if you haven't reached the Discard Stage after shes done devaluing you ) , and hence why she then goes off behind your back exploring for her " other options aka New Supply " , until she comes back to you for more attention and validation aka " Narcissistic supply " then you get boring again and then she goes off exploring , how do i know this , the clue is in exactly what you said " it's a never ending loop , YOU NEED TO GROW CONCIOUS OFF " women who do this to men are COVERT NARCISSISTS , they " Lack Empathy " for others , hence the reason why they never form "emotional bonds" or emotionally syncronize with other peoples emotions outside there own emotions , they care only about there own feelings !! A Narcissist cannot also seek diagnoses for there own disorder due to there own lack for accountability and SELF-AWARENESS to get one in the first place , research into NPDs aka Narcissistic Personality Disorder , it will be one of your life's saving graces.

  • @mr.cartoon1920
    @mr.cartoon1920 6 лет назад +34

    i wish I found these videos few months earlier, hope I can still get my girlfriend back to loving me.

  • @natedoggclarkman9223
    @natedoggclarkman9223 6 лет назад +33

    My girl is looking at Netflix right now, And ignoring me, and she had the nerve to ask me for something to drink, I said no, Even though I do

  • @bashmagik8613
    @bashmagik8613 2 года назад +1

    Followed up your advise, Guru. Sadly, she's on week #2 of unresponsive. But there's no sadness! Not long after I started to notice CHANGES! Like, being selfish, assertive and making sure others know what I want.
    Purpose and Goals, brothers!

  • @Realest1979
    @Realest1979 2 года назад +1

    Chris is the dude. I just stumbled across the vids. Excellent content. I’ve bought the book to get it full circle. Thanks man

  • @MRbubblegunner
    @MRbubblegunner 3 года назад +2

    For the past couple of weeks I thought about leaving her but I couldn't find the inner strength to do it. Now she is acting distant, doesn't reply to my calls. This has been going for a week now. Today I finally decided to cut her off. She makes it easy for me now. Thank you! :-) and I don't even want you back, you can have as much space as you want babe. Bye!

  • @ritinkarmalakar350
    @ritinkarmalakar350 Год назад +2

    God bless you Chris! ❤️

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 2 года назад +1

    Good advice. I'm doing this now. I think it shows a sign of maturity by the man to resist begging. It took me 50 years. I'm involved with a wonderful woman worth fighting for but frustrating as hell. Not dating but hoping to date. One time I see her she's nice, the next time she's distant. So when she's distant, I'm distant. When she's nice I try to lay the charm on thick so the next time she pulls away and I pull away, she'll remember our last conversation. I hope it works and it doesn't take 5 years.

  • @clytnjms
    @clytnjms 3 года назад +2

    These tactis definitely will work but We become weak in moments where we need to be strong. Our Self important Egos want to take over and we want to 'Win'.

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 4 года назад +7

    Everything you say is on point.

  • @adiravi3933
    @adiravi3933 Год назад +1

    Moral of the Story:She pushes away the man who does everything for her and rejects him.
    After Years,She got married to a narcassist and gets the same treatment as she did to her ex.She now regrets her own life.
    That is karma,Stay strong guys ,be wise enough to handle her ,if she goes away prove her wrong and be the best version of you.

  • @hoodpisces2k23
    @hoodpisces2k23 3 года назад +1

    This video is great bc when I was a kid I developed a habit of pushing girls away out of fear of feminine relationships bc of my mom. And it doesn’t even give them a chance to act up. It comes so naturally now but I’m aware of it. And it drives the ladies crazy.

  • @luismiguelrodrigues6151
    @luismiguelrodrigues6151 6 лет назад +7

    Fantastic advice indeed, wise and deep words, thank you and please keep up the fantastic work

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh Год назад

    If the secure attachment style is the most common, its more often than not carrying a lot of baggage.

  • @cipryan96
    @cipryan96 2 года назад +2

    Space = Chad/Tyrone. NEVER take her back, have self respect

  • @scottthegreat9393
    @scottthegreat9393 3 года назад +2

    I’m about to walk into my apartment. My girlfriend has been mad for 2 days. I’m walking into day 3. Here goes nothing. Although I think mirroring her is gonna make it worse. My gf is very backwards when it comes to these tips.

  • @transongquan3404
    @transongquan3404 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for your advice.

  • @Chimkennumbgetz
    @Chimkennumbgetz 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you sir! I will give this a shot

  • @gentlemanoffinesse2556
    @gentlemanoffinesse2556 8 лет назад +17

    I told my ex that our last conversation was the final one because I didn't want to be in the friend zone. She said ok that's fine. I haven't contacted her since. It's been three days.

    • @emmanuelabuluyan6765
      @emmanuelabuluyan6765 7 лет назад

      Prince 2514 did it worked?

    • @mohammedgouriach454
      @mohammedgouriach454 7 лет назад +6

      Prince 2514 just wait she's going to come back i swear just let her come to you

    • @truthseeker5886
      @truthseeker5886 6 лет назад +6

      Maybe you should have said it this way "ok well i don't want to be friends with you I am only interested in you romantically. If you aren't interested then call me if you change your mind"
      If she keeps calling you, cut the conversation short and say " hi great to hear from you, when are you free to get together?" If she continues beating around the bush just say "actually I am but jammed up at the moment, gotta run. Keep in touch"
      If she calls again few days after asking her twice "when is she free to get together?" on two separate occasions you never ask her again. Just cut conversation short n act busy n tell her to keep in touch!
      either one of two things gonna happen... She is either going to stop calling you or she is going to bring up getting together with you!
      This how I would have handled it

    • @imhonestlyfreeanonymous8235
      @imhonestlyfreeanonymous8235 6 лет назад +14

      Dont tell them that its the last conversation! Just do it! Dont say shit, dont do shit! The action of you not talking to them anymore, in anyway! Says more than any words. Its hard as hell to do, but she will come back. If you too had an emotional connection at some point, she will come back. They always come back atleast once, usually twice, sometimes even three times! Good luck

    • @geralkay3012
      @geralkay3012 5 лет назад +1

      just push her away, she'll come back as fast as possible. lol.

  • @ahmedali6432
    @ahmedali6432 6 лет назад +4

    But what's if she tells to move on and she got guys who comments on her pic and stuff

  • @vsonic86
    @vsonic86 4 года назад +8

    Damn I do so well on the girls that I don’t like. As soon as I found the one, shit just start to fuck up.

  • @Meditation409
    @Meditation409 3 года назад +3

    Im not a needy man...so I really dont place much emotion into women like I did decades ago. I dont actually NEED any woman to be happy. I have so much more in my life than wasting it focusing on women...Women are definitely NOT imperative to me being happy and secure. 😆💯

  • @StumpyComedyAct
    @StumpyComedyAct 3 года назад

    Thank you I needed this today.

  • @cokebaridi8050
    @cokebaridi8050 4 года назад +2

    If a girlfriend has another boyfriend when you are there

  • @solomonking3385
    @solomonking3385 2 года назад

    Ei... Chris... Thank you.... Just thank you... Maraming Salamat

  • @eddieambrose5396
    @eddieambrose5396 6 лет назад +5

    Thanks Chris....can I apply this on a long distance relationship.

  • @EJayyDreadHead
    @EJayyDreadHead 6 лет назад +1

    God bless you dude . this helps a lot

  • @solomonking3385
    @solomonking3385 2 года назад

    Ei thanks .. I will definitely buy Atomic Attraction❤

  • @lsg_thedon9398
    @lsg_thedon9398 4 месяца назад

    Chris the mans man

  • @neveraloneorganization1607
    @neveraloneorganization1607 5 лет назад

    My girlfriend is depressed because of her past relationships specially the last one that lasted for a year and half, I love her and she loves me and afraid of losing me as she said! ( I've been hurt many times and I'm afraid I'll lose you again )
    If you're reading this and you got over that or happened to your friend or someone you know please hit me up on Instagram ( frodberry ) make sure u message me! I need someone to talk to, we'll try to make ourselves feel better.
    I appreciate this so much thanks!

  • @justice754
    @justice754 8 лет назад +4

    hi chris, is overlapping relationship the same as rebound relationships ?

  • @tetouani100
    @tetouani100 4 года назад +2

    Bro she did this to me now she said i want to beak up with you cuz you didn't contact me wtf and its her folt not mine what do i have to do

    • @xTrthz
      @xTrthz 4 года назад +2

      she was probably alr planning on it and doesn't want to put the blame on herself

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer 2 года назад

      @@xTrthz not the blame on herself = lack of accountability = Narcissist *sigh*

  • @dwaynejohnson776
    @dwaynejohnson776 6 лет назад

    Thanks for your work.

  • @mayorofthenonsense
    @mayorofthenonsense 4 года назад +6

    Just had this happen to me - we were already spending too much time together and yet she was still acting needy and wanting more. The moment I finally gave in to please her; she went distant, cold, and bitchy. I said nothing and immediately pulled right back - basically ghosted her for a week, then acted like nothing had ever happened. Seems like it worked.

  • @petotis1
    @petotis1 5 лет назад +4

    Man... where were you 13 years ago?

  • @checkdemony1053
    @checkdemony1053 4 года назад +1

    My girlfriend doesn’t even act like dating anymore but used to when not dating
    Why ?

  • @manchalaabhishikth305
    @manchalaabhishikth305 3 года назад

    Haii this is abi actually now iam facing a problem these days that is me and my gf have a long distance relation ship now due to this pandemic situation almost 1 year but we used to talk regularly in video calls and chattings but I don't know what happend to her from last month she is busy with her life and things and stops thinking about me or texting me I asked her what is ur problem she said that we have to move on I don't have time for u and I'm busy in my life and but if I have time I will text u or call me some time she said but she is not texting me untile I text or call me untile I call so everytime I'm the first one who do or respond her but she never do can u ples help me out how to get her back ???? I don't want to miss her or leave her so how can I ??

  • @mattymobbs5125
    @mattymobbs5125 3 года назад

    Any tips on why they can be nasty to us over stuff But soon as we say something wrong back it’s the biggest deal ever. Please what to do walk away I get loads of nasty texts I’m not replying now. She had my kids so I don’t get to see them when she on a mad on. Really hurts

  • @danielsalazar6211
    @danielsalazar6211 6 лет назад +2

    Great advice , I do have a question. What if I now know that she is starting to hang out with other men. Do I confront her ? Question her ? Let her that I know what she's doing? I need so advise on this.

    • @Valentino92dd
      @Valentino92dd 6 лет назад +10

      Just sit back and relax man. Talk to other girls it will keep your mind healthy and her more wondering to you. Trust meee space makes her miss you not contact.

  • @rossm2853
    @rossm2853 3 года назад +1

    what if they leave you for taking them for granted?

  • @shanibochumcc
    @shanibochumcc 3 года назад +1

    Apart from these RUclips videos and your book..... you should really provide seminar classes to young males so they grow up with this maturity right in the beginning and master it. No woman other than your mother, sister or daughter deserves attention. I have seen men ruining their lives chasing women. Invest in yourself rather than a woman. You yourself is the best investment!

  • @lionelkennedy1394
    @lionelkennedy1394 5 лет назад

    Great advice!

  • @bongkoymil6199
    @bongkoymil6199 7 лет назад +3

    hey Chris you've been out for awhile..when r u making new videos?

    • @billythekidnax
      @billythekidnax 7 лет назад

      bongkoy mil
      A young woman came to visit a psychic.
      - Bobby and Billy are in love with me. They both want to marry me. Who's is going to be the lucky one?
      -Billy will be the lucky one because Bobby will marry you.
      Man, you're a lucky man too. It's for the better..

  • @landschaap7449
    @landschaap7449 3 года назад +1

    If she pushes you away push back 💯% true but I know some of you man let your heart and emotions speak and desperately going after her lol

  • @bryanclavie7895
    @bryanclavie7895 5 лет назад

    Im 4months in this relationship, she Cried after 3months bcs i Didnt give her the attention she wanted and she wanted to go on dates and not chill all the time, i didnt wanna lose her so i did this But i spoiled her with too much attention, 4days ago i was in front of her house while she was asleep bcs i thought she wanted to see mee But she Said that as a Joke she got mad at me bcs i try too hard, im a pushover now she wants space, i didnt hear from her in 4days But she posted something on her story like "if they wanna be with you they will, if they wanna fix things they will, if they wanna see you they Will" i just dont know if its a sign from her that she doesnt wanna Make things right bcs she doesnt reach out to me or that she want me to reach out to her to fix things, i would apriciate a respond

    • @canm7157
      @canm7157 3 года назад

      From my experience, pull back and wait until she reaches out to you. Hopefully, it ended well for you, would like to know about Update

  • @kingamine9862
    @kingamine9862 3 года назад

    men ur a legend

  • @nathanielola3462
    @nathanielola3462 2 года назад

    Hey Chris, what if she has another guy, what do I do?

  • @petotis1
    @petotis1 4 года назад

    She pulls away so I do too but... she is not coming back, I’m afraid she is watching your videos now too.

  • @shivanandshere3691
    @shivanandshere3691 6 лет назад

    After she pulled of.. how to know if there was any misunderstanding

  • @sundarams8434
    @sundarams8434 7 лет назад

    my gf blocked me on WhatsApp more than a month. now she is being happy without me. hereafter I think she never unblock me... this situation is hopeless for me...

    • @wuhtusername
      @wuhtusername 7 лет назад +6

      sundaram s It's time to move on, you should wake up every morning ready to challenge yourself.. Better diet, more exercise, more socializing it'll make you a better man and you'll attract more women naturally. That's how you win

    • @geralkay3012
      @geralkay3012 5 лет назад +3

      she might block you in insta, fb whatsaap, but she not blocked you in her heart if you cool and happy live without her, more important, don't chase her lol

  • @sundvallen
    @sundvallen 3 года назад

    Christ, could you explain why the girl is hot/cold if she got an anxious attachment style? Never heard about that before, actually.

  • @marshbey
    @marshbey 7 лет назад

    what if you have 3 kids together? how do u just no contact with kids involved

    • @Themedusatouch89
      @Themedusatouch89 6 лет назад +1

      No contact....just do it.

    • @Themedusatouch89
      @Themedusatouch89 6 лет назад +1

      Just reply to her messages about the kids....but...she gets na na else....she will get the hint ;)

  • @default9119
    @default9119 6 лет назад

    Cris she push me away many times. I beg for her a lot of times. I cry for her I tell her I can't live without her and I tell how much I love her. I didn't think my pride just to saved our relationship. Now she saying goodbye to me and easily for her throw me like a trash throw our 3 years together. How can I survived without her.

    • @shaneryan6691
      @shaneryan6691 6 лет назад +2

      Perez Yan grow up and be a man

    • @memosaico9685
      @memosaico9685 4 года назад +1

      I am afraid about my gf too cz I am in long distance relationships I got many lesson from him I will use that and man listen nobody life will stop for someone, if she breakup with u just let her leave if she really loves u she will comeback, if she won't come but ur no fault cz of this breakup then man u will deserve better than this girl in future, trust ur self, go to gym, try to make new friend, don't chase any girl be like a value man, girls will chase you, u don't have to
      My girl love me so much but still feeling insecure when u go offline for long I know if she stay away from me I have to control my self and I promised I won't go for any girl next time if she leave me cz its painful but I loved her with my everything, time change people will change u can't do nothing, accept the reality don't worry u will get better girl in future,
      Peace

  • @ohmshantitemple7365
    @ohmshantitemple7365 3 года назад

    They can help you out to manifest your ex back

  • @shanehester5317
    @shanehester5317 3 года назад

    when she pushes away u let her push u alll the way out.then move on.never take her seriously agian.

    • @seanm7539
      @seanm7539 2 года назад

      Yeah that’s where I’m at

    • @seanm7539
      @seanm7539 2 года назад

      This is what she said to
      Me . I don't want it to seem like I don't enjoy having that time with you because I do. I do appreciate that you care about things like that. And then said I’m
      Sorry if it
      Feels
      Like
      I’m
      Pushing you away that’s Excalty what
      It feels
      Like

  • @mattymobbs5125
    @mattymobbs5125 3 года назад

    Any video on why they always think they OK to be nasty and never see what they do when there wrong but us men are always to blame

  • @dineshvarma9045
    @dineshvarma9045 4 года назад

    Thanks

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 5 месяцев назад

    Did they really need a university stidy too tell us that 😂

  • @nelsonarambam1942
    @nelsonarambam1942 5 лет назад +1

    Where can I find your email address? I want to ask something.

  • @Randomvideos-fx1dk
    @Randomvideos-fx1dk 2 года назад

    She told me that
    I do want this let me just work on my feelings so I gave her space

    • @seanm7539
      @seanm7539 2 года назад

      I'm sorry if it seems like I'm pushing you away &. Then this she’s also
      said to
      Me today I don't want it to seem like I don't enjoy having that time with you because I do. I do appreciate that you care about things like that.

    • @Randomvideos-fx1dk
      @Randomvideos-fx1dk 2 года назад

      @@seanm7539 too bad bro just give her space tell her that I'll give you space don't specify the amount of time you give her but if she doesn't reach out to you in a month just forget about her
      I gave my girl space I didn't tell her how much time I'd give her I didn't text nor call her but just after 4 days she texted me and she's now clingier than ever
      So just give her I know it's hard

  • @TheMoka4
    @TheMoka4 4 года назад

    I was weak as fuck and screwed up she's gone :(

  • @julianmanjarres1998
    @julianmanjarres1998 5 лет назад +2

    I feel like a lot of his videos talk about the same thing but have different titles

  • @reinavirtucio2229
    @reinavirtucio2229 5 лет назад

    Not my miStake.it's his..God knows the reason why?

  • @FOH45
    @FOH45 4 года назад

    fuck! that story at the end....... literally what happened to me

  • @sharjilkha289
    @sharjilkha289 6 лет назад

    What to do if my gf is giving time to me but sometimes her behaviour changes and she dont even talk to me properly she dont even care about my feelings and she simply said do whatever you want . I am begging her to give me time and if i give space to her she dont even realize her mistake until someone told her that you did that mistake . Her behaviour or way of talking hurts me alot and then i got angry and talk to her why you are always doing these things to me. Whenever i asked her Is it your love ? She said i love u 😍 then why she dont care about my feelings? I noticed she loving her ex more than me and that thing broken me
    So i need solution from you brother
    I dont have money to buy your guide . Salute you for saving many lives you guides them beautifully

  • @andrewmanden266
    @andrewmanden266 3 года назад

    I started chasing her, can I still save the relationship

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 2 года назад

    Run …..when females does this …..just run ……

  • @JayquanDeMarcusWashington
    @JayquanDeMarcusWashington 3 года назад

    well, i'm too fucking late. ending it today.

  • @imhonestlyfreeanonymous8235
    @imhonestlyfreeanonymous8235 6 лет назад +1

    Women do not want you to watch this boys....or do they? Lol

  • @austynbay6016
    @austynbay6016 5 лет назад

    What is your email ??? I have a question or two for you

  • @bougherirzadjaber1825
    @bougherirzadjaber1825 4 года назад

    Girlfriend loves someone else now lmao

    • @talknight2
      @talknight2 3 года назад +2

      Sometimes that's not the end. My ex got a new guy after breaking up with me and told me she was going to marry him... but then she left him and started trying to get me back. There is a lot of nuance to these things.

  • @harrymccarthy936
    @harrymccarthy936 2 года назад

    Guy a genuis

  • @hakimelmoudden
    @hakimelmoudden 4 года назад

    I MY LIFE SUCKS

  • @yonylopez2480
    @yonylopez2480 3 года назад

    This birches. Are.wild craxy

  • @foodandtravel9296
    @foodandtravel9296 4 года назад

    Nyc

  • @Smileypeachii
    @Smileypeachii 5 лет назад +2

    Dude, if I guy messed up with me not feeling like he is willing to invest, he freaking loses me, if he is unavailable and does not fix that.
    Watching some of men dating tip videos just made me understand why communication with guys is so complicated.
    Bith parties get told to be unavailable. Haha. How are you supposed to connect then? :D

    • @Xenoforge78
      @Xenoforge78 2 года назад

      You're not wrong, but unfortunately this stuff can work. Honestly, relationships suck. Especially with how social media is these days.

    • @jondough3339
      @jondough3339 2 года назад

      Women need to submit. They are by nature submissive. If they don’t, then the relationship has zero chance of working. Stop taking advice from feminist women who believe men and women are the same or things need to be 50/50.

  • @xxjessabugxx
    @xxjessabugxx 5 лет назад

    I’m like that all the time as well.

    • @LeoLeo-yi5yx
      @LeoLeo-yi5yx 5 лет назад +3

      Cause you're a bad person,get your shit together!