Very true. "Nice guys" are really just weak, indecisive, needy people. It's a bit of a misleading term because of course you should always be 'nice' in the true sense of the word, i.e. charming, polite, respectful, etc.
The thing is idk I anyone else relates but I’m a confident take no shit kind of guy who has plenty of bravado and sticks up for my self but when I am with a girl I like I just dissolve into to what you described. Needy and weak.
Don't be nice, be asertive and still learning about this as well as improving yourself. I got My girlfriend and If I see she start to dump me, I dump her as well, If her behave is wong, my behave will be wrong, don't allow her being as she is with other guys! You are her boyfriend.
Tell yourself that you want to be a teacher. Then, study various subjects and finally, teach yourself self respect and see how confidence comes naturally. Practice nofap, focus on you and you become a bad guy because it's all about you and not every girl you see. Learn that YOU HAVE OPTIONS!
I thnk I saw this just in time. I have been too nice to my girlfriend. It is my natural state. But I am changing it a bit, without saying anything. Let's see the results, thanks for this. I was sort of needing her validation but I have to try and get used to not needing any validation. Just staying with me should be validation, shouldn't it?
I am mexican and you are absolutely right! men here use to be more masculine, even thought there are a lot of betas! Here there are a little more alpha attitude
But also telling them how attractive you find them, comes off as too forward and desperate too. I think it's about not doing it too Much and doing it with confidence.
My conclusion ... stay nice but if you develop/feel any attribute he mentioned in "bad type nice guy" like lack of decision, lack of charm, dependent, etc .. then immediately wakeup and change yourself because that's not nice .... yes if u r loving caring polite loyal then stick with it and be who u are .... u will be rewarded ...
I 38 married for 8 years was not so nice in the beginning with my wife 35 she was CRAZY about me. I became comfortable, boring nice, easy always available and she started wondering off & cheating on me. Last guy a 35 bouncer pothead at a bar. I've became 2nd to some trash. Now I'm not nice anymore I'm back in the gym taking care of my self. Now she says sorry she will change she will not go out anymore. We have a 7y daughter. Don't know if I should give her another chance.
Live is not all about Sleeping with women. Besides, it is way easier to sleep with a woman than to actually love her. Just be yourself and protect your interest. I have never seen a man who got a trophy for Sleeping with many women. If they did get any trophy its usually a string of drama with their own personal live.
Hi Chris. There's this girl in my school who likes me, we started chatting talk on the phone, she told me to tell her that I love her, and I told her that I love her, one day I wasn't answering her because I was a bit busy so she blocked me, then I convinced her that I was busy she unblocked me, we were chatting again, after a while she told my friend that if I want to talk to her all the time she'll block me again and would not talk to me at school too just like before she blocked me, so when my friend told me I texted her that it's ok if she wants to block or not communicate with me at school, so I blocked her because she insulted me to my friend, but now the holidays are finished and I'm sure she'll try to talk to me, but I don't know what to do please help me.
Chris, my girl is pissing me off and acting distant. She sends me snapchat videos blowing kisses and winking etc. But won't answer my texts anymore or call me, or say good morning or goodnight. This all happened after a recent disagreement. WTF DO I DO?!
pelame soy tu chile I’d leave her alone you gave her two chances and she dumped you again? Move on bro there’s something better out there for you I promise
Black Swan just ignore her and mirror her actions bro... u can't keep someone who doesn't want to keep you... so meet other woman " have fun hang out hook up
I reattracted my gf out of my life hehe, she said she and I share many good memories as you do when you spend 12 years with someone And she wants too be friends…. Lol
If you're interested in finding out more about the nice guy syndrome, check out No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover. The book changed my life. It changed the way I behave around women.
This is exactly the reason why am a "Nice Guy" because my father was a violent man towards his kids due to my mothers narcissistic manipulative behaviour , i dont want a child to go through what i want through , hence the reason why am not an "Asshole" because hey > Monkey see , Monkey Do < , i just want my children to grow up with the right role model and example towards there mother is all , god is that too much to ask ?? *sigh* 😔😔
Sorry Chris, I generally like your videos, but you're just parroting feminist dogma here. Doing what society tells you to do is not being dishonest. Men are constantly shamed for their sexuality and, in some cases, are even told that talking to women is a bad thing. Blaming "nice guys" for this while saying nothing about the environment that creates them is the very dishonest attitude you accuse "nice guys" of.
Very true. "Nice guys" are really just weak, indecisive, needy people. It's a bit of a misleading term because of course you should always be 'nice' in the true sense of the word, i.e. charming, polite, respectful, etc.
Exactly you get it
Simp is the right term, there you go.
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what does indecisive to do with being nice guy?
The thing is idk I anyone else relates but I’m a confident take no shit kind of guy who has plenty of bravado and sticks up for my self but when I am with a girl I like I just dissolve into to what you described. Needy and weak.
this man knows his stuff
I came here to say the same thing.
Can confirm.
👌🏽
Don't be nice, be asertive and still learning about this as well as improving yourself.
I got My girlfriend and If I see she start to dump me, I dump her as well, If her behave is wong, my behave will be wrong, don't allow her being as she is with other guys! You are her boyfriend.
It's okay to spoil your girl . Just not TOO much. It's okay to be nice to your girl . Just not TOO much . There's a balance to this shit , men.
Tell yourself that you want to be a teacher. Then, study various subjects and finally, teach yourself self respect and see how confidence comes naturally. Practice nofap, focus on you and you become a bad guy because it's all about you and not every girl you see. Learn that YOU HAVE OPTIONS!
A real men is still RESPECTFUL. A society full with disrespectful just wouldn’t work.
What part of what he said did you think would be disrespectful to women?
I thnk I saw this just in time. I have been too nice to my girlfriend. It is my natural state. But I am changing it a bit, without saying anything. Let's see the results, thanks for this. I was sort of needing her validation but I have to try and get used to not needing any validation. Just staying with me should be validation, shouldn't it?
Check out No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover. Eye opening book.
Stop being a bitch bro... A wise man once said "bitches and shit but hoes and tricks"
It's been five years r u been married or single with hwr
NO MORE !!! MR NICE GUY !!!!
I'm definitely to damn nice .
I give my woman what she needs not what she tells me she needs.
Yes, if you are to nice i get it...but you can be nice and caring and still be funny.strong and confident...
Can’t be a goofball and a bad boy, sorry not happening fool.
@@williewill1237 fool fool fool
Chris I find hunders of this kind of video, but I find only your video are genuine.
Exactly being nice sucks
Oh my god.. What amaizing speech? Thank you
All true. But saying that being kind is “not genuine” is not really true for many guys. It may be feminine but it’s not always fake
Thanks alot brother. Ur my mentor now
That's true I will think way she hasn't break up with me I will be bad sometimes good
Today I learned I'm not a "nice guy".
I'll take that as a win.
I am mexican and you are absolutely right! men here use to be more masculine, even thought there are a lot of betas! Here there are a little more alpha attitude
You are doing huge favor to men out there with these videos ! 😇👍
Next time when a women says you’re a nice take it as insult!
I was never nice .. sisters call me an asshole and funny enough I get the hottest girls that can’t get enough of my shit and I’m not even trying
Thank you Chris.. thank you..
Great work I used to watch your videos regularly 👌👌👌👌
Id rather be nice in general but when i need my backbone im not backing down
I escalate from the get every time no matter what. Too many women, too little time to be nice.
Im a nice guy now i know why she left m e without a valid reason 😔
just want to be who i am
Same here bro
You probably are a nice guy, and nothing wrong with that. But maybe you became overly nice. Just be you bro
Nice guys are just patient wolf
I've been a nice guy all this time..now she broke up with me and found someone else.
But also telling them how attractive you find them, comes off as too forward and desperate too. I think it's about not doing it too Much and doing it with confidence.
I think that there is a difference between being 'nice' and what I would call 'clingy'.
The problem is woman usually can't tell the difference
I used to think I am a nice guy. But after watching this video I realise that I am not a nice guy bcoz I am not honest with myself.
The way he said " hey I might be boring as fuck" lol.
It's nice to be nice
so powerful words !
My conclusion ... stay nice but if you develop/feel any attribute he mentioned in "bad type nice guy" like lack of decision, lack of charm, dependent, etc .. then immediately wakeup and change yourself because that's not nice .... yes if u r loving caring polite loyal then stick with it and be who u are .... u will be rewarded ...
I 38 married for 8 years was not so nice in the beginning with my wife 35 she was CRAZY about me. I became comfortable, boring nice, easy always available and she started wondering off & cheating on me. Last guy a 35 bouncer pothead at a bar. I've became 2nd to some trash. Now I'm not nice anymore I'm back in the gym taking care of my self. Now she says sorry she will change she will not go out anymore. We have a 7y daughter. Don't know if I should give her another chance.
remember they don't feel bad bcoz they were cheating but they feel bad bcoz they were found out, if I were you I wouldn't give her another chance
Never
Never
Never bro
Live is not all about Sleeping with women. Besides, it is way easier to sleep with a woman than to actually love her.
Just be yourself and protect your interest. I have never seen a man who got a trophy for Sleeping with many women. If they did get any trophy its usually a string of drama with their own personal live.
Like how your straight forward man🤜
Hi Chris. There's this girl in my school who likes me, we started chatting talk on the phone, she told me to tell her that I love her, and I told her that I love her, one day I wasn't answering her because I was a bit busy so she blocked me, then I convinced her that I was busy she unblocked me, we were chatting again, after a while she told my friend that if I want to talk to her all the time she'll block me again and would not talk to me at school too just like before she blocked me, so when my friend told me I texted her that it's ok if she wants to block or not communicate with me at school, so I blocked her because she insulted me to my friend, but now the holidays are finished and I'm sure she'll try to talk to me, but I don't know what to do please help me.
Tube Teacher u didnt say shit nigga
Dump her she’s bad news
I agree with him; in US men have be neutralized. They are being domesticated.
Man, you talk like a nice guy
But I can assure you, he's not. Seriously. This man WILL tell you how it is and NOT give a fuck.
Nice guys finish last
Chris, my girl is pissing me off and acting distant. She sends me snapchat videos blowing kisses and winking etc. But won't answer my texts anymore or call me, or say good morning or goodnight. This all happened after a recent disagreement. WTF DO I DO?!
Fuck The World Easy. Completely ignore her until she reaches out to you with something more meaningful.
You're the man bro lol
pelame soy tu chile I’d leave her alone you gave her two chances and she dumped you again? Move on bro there’s something better out there for you I promise
Ruhammad The Great
Black Swan just ignore her and mirror her actions bro... u can't keep someone who doesn't want to keep you... so meet other woman " have fun hang out hook up
I reattracted my gf out of my life hehe, she said she and I share many good memories as you do when you spend 12 years with someone
And she wants too be friends…. Lol
What about women who have masculine energy as well as feminine?
I'm depressed!!!
ME TO
It gets better! I'm no longer a nice guy.
You have to look at it as a task,as bulding a muscle.
Sorry
2:51 😂
But dude consent ! Anyone can be bad but that's not right ! 😅
WTF
Did he edit something out?
How about in the Philippines? What is your thought Chris?
If you're interested in finding out more about the nice guy syndrome, check out No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover. The book changed my life. It changed the way I behave around women.
How much are you being paid to promote that book?
Nothing Alphonso. Just thought I would give back the gift that was given to me.
@@afonsodeportugal you simp
@@hyzcagulada3559 How am I a simp?
Women are not brand product she's the original product
How to get in touch with your website please
Spain and Italy are considered West...
I no longer care😭
I'll try that
Im a too damn weak god
Thanks Sir'ji
My man really ended feminism
Fuck, I love this guy Hahaha
Towards the end of the vid, i saw 'Baccara...Yes sir i can Boogie'......i have to hit that 70s fuckin bingo ticket! (in the side pane)
Nice guys are dishonest.
How do u know
Nice is like Rice. Bland and flavorless
Fuck the world.... im a bad mofo now
I'm not a wife beater
This is exactly the reason why am a "Nice Guy" because my father was a violent man towards his kids due to my mothers narcissistic manipulative behaviour , i dont want a child to go through what i want through , hence the reason why am not an "Asshole" because hey > Monkey see , Monkey Do < , i just want my children to grow up with the right role model and example towards there mother is all , god is that too much to ask ?? *sigh* 😔😔
What fr now on I'm a badass
I believe if f.true duee
U r great i found ur channel osm tnku
Menism? XD
Nice guys like
Is running my girlfriend a bath and going to the store to get her stuff for her period when shes ill being too nice?
Only if she doesnt reciprote then it is.
It is so hard to tell if a Korean guy is an actual guy or girl. They looks much like a girl.
ANDREW DICE CLAY oh!!!
This shit is so disrespectful
Eric Pedroza do you want results or not?
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Go back to the cartoons plz
Nice guy ?
Sorry Chris, I generally like your videos, but you're just parroting feminist dogma here. Doing what society tells you to do is not being dishonest. Men are constantly shamed for their sexuality and, in some cases, are even told that talking to women is a bad thing. Blaming "nice guys" for this while saying nothing about the environment that creates them is the very dishonest attitude you accuse "nice guys" of.
You clearly didn't watch the whole video. He said nice guys are a result of what exactly you are talking about.
Youve got the key to a life of happy relationships/ sexy women in front of you and you still choose to be a white knight 😂 good luck bro