I binged all your videos about "her pulling away" last night and I listened to your advice. My girl reached out 12 hrs later and was upset that I did not check in (you predicted this as well). Thanks for helping me stay in my masculine frame during this time of anxiety chris!
Whatever a woman does or say to you, don't get emotional. They always want to elicit reaction from you whether they do it consciously or not. Stay icy always!
Hi Makaveli I need advice if can help me out......we are too nice to our gf ....is this why we are weak in their eyes...the more we want to help ...the more she pull back.....the more we care the more they dont want any help... Same thing I try to take her where she need to go..but they dont appreciate we spending time and even $$ on dinner date... I dont understand why we need to walk away need to dont give a Fcuk anymore for them to blame us for not caring ..this whole cycle happens to me and we have to do this No Contact....and on and off breakup again what should we do when our gf throw Temper and go mental depressed should we get out of the scene or stay to comfort them
@@fj4731 I was once in the same situation as you brother. There was this girl who had crush on me who later became my best friend. Fast forward, I became more emotionally invested to her than she was to me. I became more caring, loving, and more relationship focused. Unexpectedly for me at that time, she became distant, emotionless, and less responsive. As naive as I was before, I thought she was just depressed and had so much shit going on in her life. But none of my assumptions were right. Fortunately, I realized that she lost attraction to me because I acted too needy and clingy. In other words, too feminine. Years later, I became the total opposite. Self focused, ambitious, uncaring, funny, flirty, masculine. Now, almost every woman in my social circle is trying to pursue relationship with me. Best lesson? Don't be relationship focused, instead focused on becoming the best version of yourself.
@@naturalbornkiller361 Hi I feeling depressed now in No Contact Day 20 Her last message 3 weeks ago to me was "if she miss me she will contact me" All the I Love you forever.. I miss u.. Goodnite kiss text all Gone I wish to know how we Man should react with words or respond with action 1) on my Birthday she did not get me a Birthday Gift and only a Slice cake that clearly she didnt prepare in advance I react badly by saying where is my Birthday present and why my Birthday is miserable with just a slice cake… What i did for her Birthday I spend $$$ and a proper Birthday with fireworks candle ..by the sea front …she was very happy …but I told her I didnt buy her any Birthday gift because she didnt even bother to reciprocate I know I feel like Shit and act like Shit What should I had said and do? 2) One day I went haircut she got herself a Take Out fast food for herself ..she used to include dinner for me but this comeback together after the breakup..she didn’t invest much on me and put little effort. I called her out where is my dinner that she got for herself only …I felt so bad she used to share and we eat together Take Out but this time unlike all our 7 years she prefer to go home and eat alone ….leaving myself to eat alone and get my own take out..I am ok but I felt Bitter why she said she love me but her action is Not much In the past 7 years it very natural to date and text her …but now she withdraw 80% .. 3) she told me she would be sociable when I saw one her picture in her phone she with a guy in the gym What would a Alpha Musculine man do ? Please help..Thank you
@@fj4731 stop reaching out to her when you start to become obsessed with her. It's easier said than done but you gotta do it. Let her go and leave her alone. If she won't try to turn the table and pursue you and do the chasing, then so be it. It's her loss and not yours. If you keep coming back you never allow her to value your presence and time. Trust me, you'll never regret following this advice.
@@naturalbornkiller361 Bro thank u... Can I ask why she kept saying she love me forever but she breaking up with me ? Please teach me how to get her back
As a man you may believe and hope that one day your woman will be fundamentally different. Don't wait. You must know she's going to be however she is, forever. If your woman's behavior or mood is truly intolerable to you, you should leave her, and don't look back (since you cannot change her).
@@afonsodeportugal that’s only one aspect of a person. They often go on to be great at something else… business, parenting, coaching, acting etc. pretty one dimensional perspective there.
Or scratch all that n know it’s a possibility if she’s constantly breaking up it might be cuz she needs time with the new guy. Then later accuses u of cheating to wash away her guilt
I think she is projecting her cheating on to him. She just gets hot and cold because her Chad and Tyrone won't commit or get a better paying job to support her lifestyle. Kick her to the curb and find another.
What i don't appreciate is these coaches teaching tolerance to women being shitty. Who needs constant drama? If she thought you are high value she'd control her negative behaviour.
If she repeatedly threatens to break up, dump her. If she repeatedly accuses you of cheating, dump her. Stop wasting your time with this loon! Life's too short!
Hi Robert I need advice if can help me out ...we are too nice to our gf ....is this why we are weak in their eyes...the more we want to help ...the more she pull back.....the more we care the more they dont want any help... Same thing I try to take her where she need to go..but they dont appreciate we spending time and even $$ on dinner date... I dont understand why we need to walk away need to dont give a Fcuk anymore for them to blame us for not caring ..this whole cycle happens to me and we have to do this No Contact....and on and off breakup again what should we do when our gf throw Temper and go mental depressed should we get out of the scene or stay to comfort them
Does anyone else on this thread believe she's projecting with her accusations of cheating? That happened to me and I always wondered...I would never have cheated on my ex-girlfriend but she was always accusing me of doing it!
She is giving those excuses to her own mind to leave you guilt free. It's just like anti-slut mechanism. She wants a deniability or accountability of leaving you for your own fault and not hers.
@@jpayne511 I was working out in gym did it for 4 years I am a vegetarian so results were very slow (Used whey for 2nd,3 rd year and 4rth year did not use it) all diet so, I was sad that wasn't getting results so I quit and started swimming, In swimming I am the fastest in the club and I know their is place to improve a lot which I am working on, Yes I do meditate daily for 15 minutes and pushing the time. I Didnt wanted to quit the gym just count not figure out how to get enough protein through veg diet (120 grams) no eggs can you help out here ? I have a perfect sleep cycle wake up at 4:30 am and meditate swim and eat then work ... And I haven't earned a penny yet or got laid (this affects my mental health)
Big man a test she a test u to see if you are emotional strong or weak and as a man you should be emotional strong so when she tell u say she ago left tell go and when she ask if u a cheat say yes and then u will pass her shit test and she will see that you are a man and fall more in love wid u
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Whatever red flags you ignore 2 dates into meeting her, will come back and haunt you 2 years later lol
Probably even sooner than that. lol But sure, if you're dumb enough to be in it after 2 years, then you deserve everything coming your way anyway.
Facts
We great men
Absolute truth
True
Biggest red flag l ignored was her joking about "I'm crazy"... she was honest
😂 they either say “I’m crazy” or show it in their actions! I learnt this the hard way.
the more u love her, the worse u will feel...
In relationships, whatever you tolerate will be escalated.
- Rowland Ortiz.
Bang on!
I binged all your videos about "her pulling away" last night and I listened to your advice. My girl reached out 12 hrs later and was upset that I did not check in (you predicted this as well). Thanks for helping me stay in my masculine frame during this time of anxiety chris!
Which one on the Playlist? I can't find that title you're refer above..
When she shows you who she is in a negative way, believe her the first time!
True true true
She is basically looking forward to end the relationship, but hasnt secured her backup plan yet. If you re smart, you end it first.
They're not worth the headache. Enjoy your peace and quiet.
I dated an avoidant personality for 2.5 years. Jesus that was a roller coaster
Avoidant personality?
Been there, done that, what a nightmare it is. All you can do in the end is walk away when you see the warning signs
DITTO .
Whatever a woman does or say to you, don't get emotional. They always want to elicit reaction from you whether they do it consciously or not. Stay icy always!
Hi Makaveli I need advice if can help me out......we are too nice to our gf ....is this why we are weak in their eyes...the more we want to help ...the more she pull back.....the more we care the more they dont want any help...
Same thing I try to take her where she need to go..but they dont appreciate we spending time and even $$ on dinner date...
I dont understand why we need to walk away need to dont give a Fcuk anymore for them to blame us for not caring ..this whole cycle happens to me and we have to do this No Contact....and on and off breakup again
what should we do when our gf throw Temper and go mental depressed should we get out of the scene or stay to comfort them
@@fj4731 I was once in the same situation as you brother. There was this girl who had crush on me who later became my best friend. Fast forward, I became more emotionally invested to her than she was to me. I became more caring, loving, and more relationship focused. Unexpectedly for me at that time, she became distant, emotionless, and less responsive. As naive as I was before, I thought she was just depressed and had so much shit going on in her life. But none of my assumptions were right. Fortunately, I realized that she lost attraction to me because I acted too needy and clingy. In other words, too feminine. Years later, I became the total opposite. Self focused, ambitious, uncaring, funny, flirty, masculine. Now, almost every woman in my social circle is trying to pursue relationship with me. Best lesson? Don't be relationship focused, instead focused on becoming the best version of yourself.
@@naturalbornkiller361 Hi I feeling depressed now in No Contact Day 20
Her last message 3 weeks ago to me was "if she miss me she will contact me"
All the I Love you forever.. I miss u.. Goodnite kiss text all Gone
I wish to know how we Man should react with words or respond with action
1) on my Birthday she did not get me a Birthday Gift and only a Slice cake that clearly she didnt prepare in advance
I react badly by saying where is my Birthday present and why my Birthday is miserable with just a slice cake…
What i did for her Birthday I spend $$$ and a proper Birthday with fireworks candle ..by the sea front …she was very happy …but I told her I didnt buy her any Birthday gift because she didnt even bother to reciprocate
I know I feel like Shit and act like Shit
What should I had said and do?
2) One day I went haircut she got herself a Take Out fast food for herself ..she used to include dinner for me but this comeback together after the breakup..she didn’t invest much on me and put little effort.
I called her out where is my dinner that she got for herself only …I felt so bad she used to share and we eat together Take Out but this time unlike all our 7 years she prefer to go home and eat alone ….leaving myself to eat alone and get my own take out..I am ok but I felt Bitter why she said she love me but her action is Not much
In the past 7 years it very natural to date and text her …but now she withdraw 80% ..
3) she told me she would be sociable when I saw one her picture in her phone she with a guy in the gym
What would a Alpha Musculine man do ?
Please help..Thank you
@@fj4731 stop reaching out to her when you start to become obsessed with her. It's easier said than done but you gotta do it. Let her go and leave her alone. If she won't try to turn the table and pursue you and do the chasing, then so be it. It's her loss and not yours. If you keep coming back you never allow her to value your presence and time. Trust me, you'll never regret following this advice.
@@naturalbornkiller361 Bro thank u...
Can I ask why she kept saying she love me forever but she breaking up with me ?
Please teach me how to get her back
You are GOAT in relationship tips ♥️
Trust me, just ONE red flag is enough. These issues do not get better with time.
You are so right!! ONE red flag should be all you need to RUN!!
Hey Chris you’ve changed my life and perspective buddy, appreciate you
Looking good, Chris. Your appearance really improved the past years. Care to make a video on what changes you made?
I recently bought your book Atomic Attraction. I look forward to reading it.
As a man you may believe and hope that one day your woman will be fundamentally different.
Don't wait. You must know she's going to be however she is, forever. If your woman's behavior or mood is truly intolerable to you, you should leave her, and don't look back (since you cannot change her).
You are always Better Than Yesterday
Why do sportsmen retire, then? 😏
@@afonsodeportugal that’s only one aspect of a person. They often go on to be great at something else… business, parenting, coaching, acting etc. pretty one dimensional perspective there.
You know what i admire so much with your presentation Chris 😘
Or scratch all that n know it’s a possibility if she’s constantly breaking up it might be cuz she needs time with the new guy. Then later accuses u of cheating to wash away her guilt
So Chris, why would a man choose a volatile, emotional woman? Your advise is getting more sage, tempered. I like it.
women who accuse you of cheating are the ones who are actually doing the cheating
This!
facts.
Spot on.
I think she is projecting her cheating on to him. She just gets hot and cold because her Chad and Tyrone won't commit or get a better paying job to support her lifestyle. Kick her to the curb and find another.
What i don't appreciate is these coaches teaching tolerance to women being shitty. Who needs constant drama? If she thought you are high value she'd control her negative behaviour.
If she accuses you of cheating - then she might be - it's called mirroring - they accuse you of what they are doing.
f she accuses you of cheating--start cheating. You may as well enjoy yourself and do what you're getting blamed for.
Keep up the great work
Oh, my. It is my situation. I don't know what to do now.
If she repeatedly threatens to break up, dump her. If she repeatedly accuses you of cheating, dump her. Stop wasting your time with this loon! Life's too short!
Hi Robert I need advice if can help me out ...we are too nice to our gf ....is this why we are weak in their eyes...the more we want to help ...the more she pull back.....the more we care the more they dont want any help...
Same thing I try to take her where she need to go..but they dont appreciate we spending time and even $$ on dinner date...
I dont understand why we need to walk away need to dont give a Fcuk anymore for them to blame us for not caring ..this whole cycle happens to me and we have to do this No Contact....and on and off breakup again
what should we do when our gf throw Temper and go mental depressed should we get out of the scene or stay to comfort them
I get what you're saying in the video, but, sometimes no amount of changing your behaviour will have a lasting effect on a woman. Short term sure.
Thanks chief
Still don't understand why you don't have a million subscribers.
Because few are willing to learn while others choose watching things that add no value to their lives
If shes causing you problems then get rid of her.theres a lot of fish in the sea man
First...and excellent footage
Well done.
Does anyone else on this thread believe she's projecting with her accusations of cheating? That happened to me and I always wondered...I would never have cheated on my ex-girlfriend but she was always accusing me of doing it!
She is giving those excuses to her own mind to leave you guilt free. It's just like anti-slut mechanism. She wants a deniability or accountability of leaving you for your own fault and not hers.
Classic signs. She is cheating.
it is
she's trying to make herself feel better
Chirs how can I contact you?
Hope that chest gets better Chris.
1:40
You are a pro
I am 24yrs I want to develop mental strength can you suggest book to make me mentally strong like your core is stable like that
Are working out in the gym, meditating ot doing any martial arts? Much better than a book. Use the book secondarily to understand the concepts.
@@jpayne511 I was working out in gym did it for 4 years I am a vegetarian so results were very slow (Used whey for 2nd,3 rd year and 4rth year did not use it) all diet so, I was sad that wasn't getting results so I quit and started swimming, In swimming I am the fastest in the club and I know their is place to improve a lot which I am working on, Yes I do meditate daily for 15 minutes and pushing the time.
I Didnt wanted to quit the gym just count not figure out how to get enough protein through veg diet (120 grams) no eggs can you help out here ?
I have a perfect sleep cycle wake up at 4:30 am and meditate swim and eat then work ...
And I haven't earned a penny yet or got laid (this affects my mental health)
Did u read atomic attraction by chris himself...
Do yoga
Great body Chris!
👍💪
I've been through the same and much more, this behaviour is not "being a woman", is a personality disorder, run
She ain't worth the effort
Hey Chris,
I want to talk to you, I'm from India how should I get in touch with you.
Thanks.
Abhishek
Is better just to be single and selfish and enjoy living a lone
She doesn't respect you.
Big man a test she a test u to see if you are emotional strong or weak and as a man you should be emotional strong so when she tell u say she ago left tell go and when she ask if u a cheat say yes and then u will pass her shit test and she will see that you are a man and fall more in love wid u
Or she'll also break up w/ you and bang another interest then wanna get back together the next day to use the we were. BRoken up excuse later
🚩🚩🚩SHE IS CHEATING 🚩🚩🚩
Women are reactive. They'll follow your lead, vibe.
Emotional equals Baggage
Simple do not put up with shit😊
Keep up the great work