I’ve been single for two years. Divorced for 12 years. And I haven’t met that guy for me. There is one guy who keeps chasing me for years and I keep ignoring him because he’s married
Jazz Tamz, I totally agree with you. What hurts is doing the right thing, even though our vulnerable heart wants to be loved. Real love is doing the right thing, which isn’t always easy🙂
I just started dating a married man and I realise how terribly wrong I am. he talks ill about his wife and that he is having a bad relationship so he wants to begin with me.. he is always there for me whenever I want and he never wants to go home.. but when I see his wife and one year old son it takes my heart away and I feel like a loser .I feel worst I want to get out of this now. Where do I start from? :(
Know that he is USING you! He does not love YOU or his WIFE. He may not even love himself, so you have to decide that YOU are deserving of better. You deserve a man who is free to be yours and truth is that if he leaves her for you, he will likely repeat the pattern and leave you for another and so on....I would not be mad at or envy the wife; I would feel SORRY for her because he is HER problem and not yours...Good luck to anyone dealing with this...I am glad I was able to walk away and get my self-respect back and build my relationship with my kids....prayers and hugs...:)
Renee Rieder Thankyou so much. I totally get it. And I knew all the facts before too but somehow got blinded idk what it was! But it definitely wasn't love. I have sorted it out and I'm finally moving on without interfering in any of his business. I feel so guiltfree now. :)
Ummm, the wife is actually not the competition because he's HER husband and he made vows with her before God. What planet do you people live on? Being a side piece is NOT cute and should not be celebrated, tolerated or encouraged.
Jazmin Hernandez yeahh thats 100% true..huhuhu....so me myself experience that its a big mistake to fall inlove with married man... because if u r really fall...and suddenly he said he wants to stop relationship oh my god....the feeling amd my head its like to explode huhuhu its reallly really hurt...huhuhu so i think that before the start i dont make any contact relationship to him huhuhujujuuhu because its really hard to forget and move on
I got pregnant by a married man I didn't know he went off got married on February 11 had sex with me on the 12 I was 6months pregnant with his first son.now my son is 3weeks old and yes he signed the birth certificate.wife still don't know.but I'm 24 until July.shes 43.they have no kids together.she was cheating on her husband with the man she just married .that I now have a son by.what to do.
Aaisha Tillman That's pretty sad but it isn't good you both are hiding it from his wife. She deserves to know so she can make a decision to stay or leave him. You also have to way option, he hasn't left her til now? Even if he wanted to end it without letting her know about you he hasn't left her? That's annoying. So he may also stay in that marraige so be prepared...
This could be the case with a married woman too.. which is where Iam right now... 7 months I've been with her, only see her rarely, but I'm in love.. seriously... Don't do it, no matter how fantasy you think... DONT DO IT...it gets harder and harder to break away.. until it becomes terrible.. find someone whose single... I don't know if I can break away now,, I struggle with codependency... And its painful... No matter how beautiful or handsome... It's not worth your tears and disappointment..
I don't recommend it. All birthday, Christmas, family celebrating becomes second schedule. Getting to know 'their' family members is a mistake. Even if the love is there, it's like some people said. Check them off as unavailable and get on living.
Thank you so much for that advice. I met a guy and feel he is my soul mate. I believe he is still in love with his wife, but you are right. Something is not gratifying to him. I think it might be in the bedroom too because he talks about how wonderful love making is when you feel strongly for someone. Things have not gotten too far. It takes me a long time to get to know someone and I know that this is wrong. I was sitting here meditating. The devil and angel were there just like you said. I'm going to listen to another one of your videos. You were saying exactly how I was feeling and thinking!! I'm glad I looked this up!!!
Patients tell me all the time “ the best thing I did was marry this woman and leave my first wife who we weren’t compatible and we both were miserable but my first wife did not want to let me go because the church or family told her to stay” I have a nurse friend who left her husband for high school sweetheart They are genuinely happy Also 2 nurses I work with were mistresses now wives building empires with their husbands and truly happy..it happens more than what they put out there It’s a scare tactic to keep people in unhealthy miserable marriages and produce toxic children seeing their parents fight all the time Let him or her go with someone who might suit them better..I let my first husband go We both are in our 40s living very healthy fulfilling lives now with different partners..im so glad I was not a woman in denial or cared what people said about our divorce Hell I’m not going to be in a miserable a$$ marriage so the statistic can keep telling lies “he will never leave his wife” it’s a crock of horse poop forcing people to stay in horrible toxic marriages
Married for 18yrs husband cheated ovr time wit multiple women built relationships with them for years .... I found this all out asked him to leave he moved n wit one of the women .... this has been devastating~ I'm n consistent prayer to relieve/release him off my mind & soul
Am actually in this situation am so inlove with a married guy at first I jus thot I will understand in time but I keep on trying and trying to get away but I fail because we always endup together
Love is like a drug. The sensation of love is partly caused by a constant release of dopamine in the brain which is a "pleasure chemical" that makes you feel euphoric. Hence, "love" can completely intoxicate the mind. That is what you are experiencing right now. Be wise and be careful. Follow the caveats stated in the video so that you can be grounded in reality.
hatma edgetone Dear :) I am going to talk some real talk for a minute ok. But I want you to really listen to what I'm about to say. Is this the standard in love you really want for yourself? Is this truly making you happy? You are not the number on priority. I am a relationship love coach dear and have been seeing this type of steuff for years. There are so many women with married men. 9 times out of 10 they end up sad, hurt, lonely, and bitter. Don't let that be you. Raise your bar girl!! Higher your standard and don't allow that. Not only that but its not fair to the wife. Would you want that done to you. Don't live on a fantasy, tell yourself the truth and let you live the life you truly want www.authorjessicadunagan.com
WOW this is good I wish it was longer. I am in this situation right now...I am wrong and I know it. I fell for him and need help so bad letting him go. He has left and back with his wife which is good I just need to stop these feelings of hurt and disguise
Thanks for this video. I have just ended my relationship with a married man who was my ex and we lost contact. He moved to a different town with his family. After 20 years we met. He told me the truth that he was married but he still loves me. We started dating again in our 40s now. I am now pregnant with his child but he doesn't know.
I am in love with my boss who is married with kids. He shows me so much interest I don’t know what to do. I really want him but then again he is married and it’s wrong 😭
@@IamIAD don't waste your time. To be honest, if you decide to keep it going, don't be exclusive. Date date date!!! Don't waste your years waiting for him. He has alot to lose. What if your loving husband is right in front of you, and u lose out because of him. Don't fall for the lies. Keep your options open and you make him aware that ur dating.
Not true Statistics show 39% and more would if the wives would stop acting crazy and let them leave..This 2000s people don’t have time for these miserable busy marriages Let him leave with a woman who might really was meant for him A lot of people get married out of convenience
Myself and his wife love him very much. I respect their union and my union with him is respected also. It is hypocritical in our society to claim we are christian s but ignore the fact that the bible talks of polygamy too often. And the devil has convinced people to accept same sex marriages but outlaw a man with multiple natural families that build society .
WHAT IF YOU DIE TONIGHT? 💭 "And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15) Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life. "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17)
Hi.. I have been dealing with a married man for 5 yrs now. i met him when i was 25 ill be 31 in October. we were with child in 2013 and lost the baby. NOW that im ready to have a second child again he tells me he is too old to be a father. I thought i could stick around in hopes that he would leave her but nope not at all. I refuse to waste anymore time on him i want this to be over. we talk daily all day while he is at work. but makes sure he goes home to his wife n kids. any advice on how to end this nonsense?? i want my life back i know i deaerve better and i dont want to miss my blessings. Someone pray for me its really bothering me and i want it to be over.
Leave him alone because you are Blocking your Blessings. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings to be exacting pain upon you.You cannot compete with his wife for his affections because he is with her for a reason. Men lie to get what they want. They'll tell you whatever to get what they want. They think of extramarital affairs as being an outlet or just a good time,but when you bring a baby into the equation, it's no longer seen as that...i.e good time. Don't break up a home for that loser.She meaning the wife obviously is very important to him that he holds on to her.She'll continue to get the alkalaides..the trips,jewelry, love,and the man.While you continue to settle for stolen moments in the bed and lonely moments around the holidays etc. He can't parade you around because you were meant to be a secret. Just cut your losses and find a man who you and God deem worthy of you my Sister. Think of yourself because, He's doing the same
it will be hard to leave because of your attachment to him...but it's time and you're ready. think about your future child. doesn't he/she deserve a happy family home to grow up in?
I loved The gut before he got Maries for 6 months. And then he got married, and my heart got broken. And I'm still in love with him. I thought he liked me or was interesting too but he wouldn't got married if so! He is my neighbor how can I lose feelings for him! And btw I feel like I'm going to die when I get eye contact with his wife💔
I cry everyday because of my husband who I loved so so so much it was Unconditional Love, a very strong love Allah swt put in my heart for my husband, I thought he was my beautiful soulmate, he was my angel from Jannah and he destroyed everything with his lies, tricking me by acting charming, sweet guy, good Muslim, lied, tricked me and other women into polygamy marriages only for lust/sexual desires, my husband didnt provide for me. I loved him so much and I was loyal, never cheated on him and now I cry so much, i have mental health problems, emotional abuse and physical abuse because of his lying and tricking me into polygamy marriages and the other women don't know about me but Allah swt exposed him to me and then he moved his wife and children out of London Tooting to Blackpool in 2019 summer time I think, so I cant tell her the truth, she dont know about me how terrible is that not to know your husband is married to other women! I couldn't find the other women. His family knows everything SubhanAllaah Ya Allah. Even now his telling me theres no wives and children Ya Allah SubhanAllaah. This was a eye opener for me that how Muslim brothers lie and tricking women into polygamy marriages or they have secret wives and secret girlfriends and their still looking for other women for marriage when they have secret wives and secret girlfriends and secret children, even their own family, mothers and fathers dont know about. Allah is great. SubhanAllaah. No respect for other peoples mothers, sisters and daughters when you have your own mother, sisters and daughters SubhanAllaah... from this horrible experience, horrible, horrible experience that Muslim brothers can abuse us like this and noone cares, SubhanAllaah. I realised that us Muslim sisters dont get justice, Muslim sisters suffering so much in polygamy marriages and the Muslim brothers get away with it because polygamy is in the Quran. My husband didn't love, care, provide, pay bill's, he didnt pay rent, he didn't help me, he never buy food for me, its was about lust/sexual desires and all I get from people is "it's his right" polygamy is his right and look at what he did to me Ya Allah. His mum knows about the other wife and me, his mum still wants to take him Pakistan and get him married off to someones innocent daughter. Allah is so good. Allhumduillah for Allah. Allah will give me justice soon. Muslims dont understand how this horrible experience made many sisters leave islam, if your mental health is destroyed then your deen Islam will be affaced SubhanAllaah. Now I understand why so many Muslim sisters left Islam, other Muslim sisters took their hijab off and stop going Masjid, sister were being mentally abused, emotionally abused and physically abused, no help or support for converts to Islam, now I understand why sister started new relationshipwith non Muslim men. What I've learned from this horrible experience Muslim brothers can oppress their wives and get away with it and the ummah support him in his oppresstion SubhanAllaah. (((Please don't trust noone, dont trust people on online, even Muslim can be fake, dont trust noone when it comes to marriage, my husband was lying and tricking women into marriage when he was already married with children, girls/women your talking to a man for marriage but you don't know his already married with children and this is happening alot)))... sisters and brothers please protect your mother, sisters and daughters from these kind of men, these kind of Muslim brothers dont respect women... new converts please don't trust men, "Muslim" dont mean they fear Allah swt... IM ONLY WARNING YOU FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH SWT... ruclips.net/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/видео.html... A sister takes her hijab off and theres so many videos. Brothers have secret wives, secret girlfriends, secret children and noone cares!
Tyler perry has a series out I can’t remember name because I only watched 1 episode on BET..and it shows what these men are doing fake being Muslims to abuse (get sex, take their money, make them like slaves even steal for them) Most don’t believe in being a Muslim only to monopolize on sleeping with multiple women and deceiving especially these black men from the prison system Yuck!
You will have to harden yourself and not respond to his advances. He will call, text, beg, charm, give you gifts etc. He will essentially do anything he can to keep things going with you, but you have to be hardened enough to not give in. If you do, you will just keep getting sucked back into the same scenario and things will only get worse.
Like I said you reap what you sow. You'll fall in love with somebody eventually and it'll be another women all ways trying to leave your man alone but can't stop fkn him
If he sleeping with you he sleeping with other women. Those women are sleeping with men. Those men are sleeping with both men and women. He could bring you home something you can't get rid of. Think of him as a std waiting to happen.
I been with my boyfriend for two years. My ex has been married for 3 years or so now. My ex and I have known of each other since we were teenagers. We've been on and off for like 12 years now. I am 26 & he's 32.. Long story short. Him and his wife were living apart last year. Due to marital issues. My boyfriend got locked up last year for an older charge. Me and my ex had an affair for a few months. Then boom. He's back with his wife. My boyfriend gets out in 3 months. I am happy but sad too. I am so confused. I know he'll eventually stay with his wife w/o me on the side. Especially when my dude gets out. I still can't believe he married someone else. My boyfriend is a good guy. And I regret getting lonely & resorting to my married ex. Now my mind races daily. I am torn and broken. 😭
so, i like this guy from work .. and he is super direct with his advances towards me.. i know he likes me ... but he lives with his girlfriend, they had been together for 8 years, he told me she is leaving for germany in 1 month and then its over... he also told me he is not inlove with this girl .. but i still feel its dangerous to persuit a relationship with him .. i dont know what to do .. i like him soooo much... and he is so sweet with me ..
nahomi009 dont.... huhu.... because if you deeply inlove with him... its hard to move on...... the feeling its so so so hurt.. so..before the grass grow cut it off..huhu.....(base frm my experience...now)
Leave this man alone and move on. He's lying to you his girlfriend may not be going to Germany. You never can tell and no telling what he might do, he may not leave his girlfriend. If I were you I wouldn't fool with this man. His girlfriend may be a dangerous jealous girlfriend
omg I think I'm married to a married man .he always talks about as a roommate. but one day ,I spent the night at his place for a week , and I saw mail ,med bottle s that his last name on it .:/ I looked them up on fb and he is actually living with her I saw the pics of his place and everything. I'm scared to asked cuz he will know I'm looking around his house .what should I do ? just dump him?
What if they are separated for months and when u met a married man? He moved on. He’s been so inlove with me and I fall for him as well. They are still married but they are separated
@hungryCat did u experience this? But I’m the one who is the only access in his place.. and I have access to his social media account where I can see his messages to his ex wife , conversation and he’s open to me. I am not living with him But I’m with him always and almost everyday How could u say he’s playing with me?
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Some only Stay for thé children's But they don't love there wife anymore whay Thé married Woman is betrayed so much by him ? When A men loves you he Will not cheat like a devil MEN who do that don't like there wifes anymore it's a Relationships scam big betrayal
Wives get fat, ugly, and distant. This is why we look for other woman. We don't always leave right away because court systems favor woman. Also we love our kid(s) and don't want to hurt them. So who is the bad one??? You lady's mostly
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I think you got the angel and the devil confused. Lol
Catalina Maldonado right!! Lol
Doesn’t matter, the message is what matters. 👍🏻
Yes lol
I was thinking the same thing I'm like wait what
Right no real angel will tell you to follow your heart of messing with a MARRIED man lol.
There is really nothing that should be considered. Do not fall in love with a married man. It will only end up bad.
Title should read: When you’re in LUST with a married man. Don’t do it my sisters! There is a guy available for you!!!
Moral police
No there’s no one it’s best to stay away from all men period. It’s not worth the headache
I'm waiting for 8 years for that guy..
I’ve been single for two years. Divorced for 12 years. And I haven’t met that guy for me. There is one guy who keeps chasing me for years and I keep ignoring him because he’s married
Thanks for this video.... even its hurting.... better to stop!!
really..... reality hurts too much.😭
Jazz Tamz it hurts..soo darn bad.
esther katile what hurts. You want a married man?
what hurts. You want a married man?
Jazz Tamz, I totally agree with you. What hurts is doing the right thing, even though our vulnerable heart wants to be loved. Real love is doing the right thing, which isn’t always easy🙂
I just started dating a married man and I realise how terribly wrong I am. he talks ill about his wife and that he is having a bad relationship so he wants to begin with me.. he is always there for me whenever I want and he never wants to go home.. but when I see his wife and one year old son it takes my heart away and I feel like a loser .I feel worst I want to get out of this now. Where do I start from? :(
I feel u
Know that he is USING you! He does not love YOU or his WIFE. He may not even love himself, so you have to decide that YOU are deserving of better. You deserve a man who is free to be yours and truth is that if he leaves her for you, he will likely repeat the pattern and leave you for another and so on....I would not be mad at or envy the wife; I would feel SORRY for her because he is HER problem and not yours...Good luck to anyone dealing with this...I am glad I was able to walk away and get my self-respect back and build my relationship with my kids....prayers and hugs...:)
piku Bharali I hope you left him, nothing good will come out of your relationship
Renee Rieder Thankyou so much. I totally get it. And I knew all the facts before too but somehow got blinded idk what it was! But it definitely wasn't love. I have sorted it out and I'm finally moving on without interfering in any of his business. I feel so guiltfree now. :)
Kat Michigan You're right. I would have destroyed everything
And yes, I left him.
Ummm, the wife is actually not the competition because he's HER husband and he made vows with her before God. What planet do you people live on? Being a side piece is NOT cute and should not be celebrated, tolerated or encouraged.
People arent property to be owned!
it is plain wrong to even be friends with a married man...you will hurt yourself and hurt his whole family especially his kids...fatal attraction
Jazmin Hernandez yeahh thats 100% true..huhuhu....so me myself experience that its a big mistake to fall inlove with married man... because if u r really fall...and suddenly he said he wants to stop relationship oh my god....the feeling amd my head its like to explode huhuhu its reallly really hurt...huhuhu so i think that before the start i dont make any contact relationship to him huhuhujujuuhu because its really hard to forget and move on
What do you do when you fall in love with a married man not knowing that he is married...finding out later on down the line!
Pray...and walk away from him
I was married and a married man fell in love with me and i fell in love with him. My married life ended. He didn't end his. Sad really.
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I got pregnant by a married man I didn't know he went off got married on February 11 had sex with me on the 12 I was 6months pregnant with his first son.now my son is 3weeks old and yes he signed the birth certificate.wife still don't know.but I'm 24 until July.shes 43.they have no kids together.she was cheating on her husband with the man she just married .that I now have a son by.what to do.
Aaisha Tillman That's pretty sad but it isn't good you both are hiding it from his wife. She deserves to know so she can make a decision to stay or leave him. You also have to way option, he hasn't left her til now? Even if he wanted to end it without letting her know about you he hasn't left her? That's annoying. So he may also stay in that marraige so be prepared...
I’m in this boat right now & it hurts like a bitchh but our encounter hasn’t been long and I’ve told him to leave me alone.. f*n kills big time!!😔
Same here... I feel beoken
This could be the case with a married woman too.. which is where Iam right now... 7 months I've been with her, only see her rarely, but I'm in love.. seriously... Don't do it, no matter how fantasy you think... DONT DO IT...it gets harder and harder to break away.. until it becomes terrible.. find someone whose single... I don't know if I can break away now,, I struggle with codependency... And its painful... No matter how beautiful or handsome... It's not worth your tears and disappointment..
I don't recommend it. All birthday, Christmas, family celebrating becomes second schedule. Getting to know 'their' family members is a mistake. Even if the love is there, it's like some people said. Check them off as unavailable and get on living.
Thank you so much for that advice. I met a guy and feel he is my soul mate. I believe he is still in love with his wife, but you are right. Something is not gratifying to him. I think it might be in the bedroom too because he talks about how wonderful love making is when you feel strongly for someone. Things have not gotten too far. It takes me a long time to get to know someone and I know that this is wrong. I was sitting here meditating. The devil and angel were there just like you said. I'm going to listen to another one of your videos. You were saying exactly how I was feeling and thinking!! I'm glad I looked this up!!!
A family member took someone husband.. The guy married her in they been together almost 20 years...
You?
@@fireblade8905 I said a family member
@@monettemcgill7397 ahhh okay. I got married early when I was 22 so I can relate
Patients tell me all the time “ the best thing I did was marry this woman and leave my first wife who we weren’t compatible and we both were miserable but my first wife did not want to let me go because the church or family told her to stay” I have a nurse friend who left her husband for high school sweetheart They are genuinely happy Also 2 nurses I work with were mistresses now wives building empires with their husbands and truly happy..it happens more than what they put out there It’s a scare tactic to keep people in unhealthy miserable marriages and produce toxic children seeing their parents fight all the time Let him or her go with someone who might suit them better..I let my first husband go We both are in our 40s living very healthy fulfilling lives now with different partners..im so glad I was not a woman in denial or cared what people said about our divorce Hell I’m not going to be in a miserable a$$ marriage so the statistic can keep telling lies “he will never leave his wife” it’s a crock of horse poop forcing people to stay in horrible toxic marriages
I am in love with a married man. I am his wife😂❤️
lol....
Enrique Peña Nieto I am in live with a married woman! What should I do especially if she cares for me?
I marriad looking girl friend can u❤🌷👫😍
Pls make video on, "when ex gets married,n u still feel strongly for him"
Married for 18yrs husband cheated ovr time wit multiple women built relationships with them for years .... I found this all out asked him to leave he moved n wit one of the women .... this has been devastating~ I'm n consistent prayer to relieve/release him off my mind & soul
Hi, that's not your husband.
Am actually in this situation am so inlove with a married guy at first I jus thot I will understand in time but I keep on trying and trying to get away but I fail because we always endup together
Love is like a drug. The sensation of love is partly caused by a constant release of dopamine in the brain which is a "pleasure chemical" that makes you feel euphoric. Hence, "love" can completely intoxicate the mind. That is what you are experiencing right now. Be wise and be careful. Follow the caveats stated in the video so that you can be grounded in reality.
Thank you this is giving me courage already to finally free myself plz keep. On advising us on these matters
hatma edgetone Dear :) I am going to talk some real talk for a minute ok. But I want you to really listen to what I'm about to say. Is this the standard in love you really want for yourself? Is this truly making you happy? You are not the number on priority. I am a relationship love coach dear and have been seeing this type of steuff for years. There are so many women with married men. 9 times out of 10 they end up sad, hurt, lonely, and bitter. Don't let that be you. Raise your bar girl!! Higher your standard and don't allow that. Not only that but its not fair to the wife. Would you want that done to you. Don't live on a fantasy, tell yourself the truth and let you live the life you truly want www.authorjessicadunagan.com
Rachel Nason lol 😂😂
WOW this is good I wish it was longer. I am in this situation right now...I am wrong and I know it. I fell for him and need help so bad letting him go. He has left and back with his wife which is good I just need to stop these feelings of hurt and disguise
Thanks for this video. I have just ended my relationship with a married man who was my ex and we lost contact. He moved to a different town with his family. After 20 years we met. He told me the truth that he was married but he still loves me. We started dating again in our 40s now. I am now pregnant with his child but he doesn't know.
I am in love with my boss who is married with kids. He shows me so much interest I don’t know what to do. I really want him but then again he is married and it’s wrong 😭
@@IamIAD don't waste your time. To be honest, if you decide to keep it going, don't be exclusive. Date date date!!! Don't waste your years waiting for him. He has alot to lose. What if your loving husband is right in front of you, and u lose out because of him. Don't fall for the lies. Keep your options open and you make him aware that ur dating.
I agree with you but my question is love is love if we think first then love someone then it’s not love
Did I hear that right he said that the angel is telling you that this is good the right thing follow your heart?...
i know that dont sound rite why would an angel tell you to be with a married man -__-???
+Syeedah Mckenzie I caught that. the bible says do not trust the heart...something to think about.
Very true. Great video 😊
Yoko met John when he was Married.................. ❤️
5% of men leave their wives for their new love interest
Not true Statistics show 39% and more would if the wives would stop acting crazy and let them leave..This 2000s people don’t have time for these miserable busy marriages Let him leave with a woman who might really was meant for him A lot of people get married out of convenience
Don’t date it’s not worth it stay alone less drama that way
Myself and his wife love him very much. I respect their union and my union with him is respected also. It is hypocritical in our society to claim we are christian s but ignore the fact that the bible talks of polygamy too often. And the devil has convinced people to accept same sex marriages but outlaw a man with multiple natural families that build society .
Marriage is NOT a Christian-based ceremony.
Therefore, ANYONE who wants to marry for love can and should.
Mary Teryan The world is overpopulated enough.
Plenty of examples of men with many wives in the bible. Even in the New Testament.
WHAT IF YOU DIE TONIGHT? 💭
"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life.
And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works.
Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15)
Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him
should not perish but have everlasting life.
For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17)
Am in love with my boyfriend not knowing he is married with two kids. please guys help me out, how can I move on, am so so much in love with him 😂.
Its not worth the pain being 2nd trust me.
Hi.. I have been dealing with a married man for 5 yrs now. i met him when i was 25 ill be 31 in October. we were with child in 2013 and lost the baby. NOW that im ready to have a second child again he tells me he is too old to be a father. I thought i could stick around in hopes that he would leave her but nope not at all. I refuse to waste anymore time on him i want this to be over. we talk daily all day while he is at work. but makes sure he goes home to his wife n kids. any advice on how to end this nonsense?? i want my life back i know i deaerve better and i dont want to miss my blessings. Someone pray for me its really bothering me and i want it to be over.
Leave him alone because you are Blocking your Blessings. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings to be exacting pain upon you.You cannot compete with his wife for his affections because he is with her for a reason. Men lie to get what they want. They'll tell you whatever to get what they want. They think of extramarital affairs as being an outlet or just a good time,but when you bring a baby into the equation, it's no longer seen as that...i.e good time. Don't break up a home for that loser.She meaning the wife obviously is very important to him that he holds on to her.She'll continue to get the alkalaides..the trips,jewelry, love,and the man.While you continue to settle for stolen moments in the bed and lonely moments around the holidays etc. He can't parade you around because you were meant to be a secret. Just cut your losses and find a man who you and God deem worthy of you my Sister. Think of yourself because, He's doing the same
it will be hard to leave because of your attachment to him...but it's time and you're ready. think about your future child. doesn't he/she deserve a happy family home to grow up in?
I loved The gut before he got Maries for 6 months. And then he got married, and my heart got broken. And I'm still in love with him. I thought he liked me or was interesting too but he wouldn't got married if so! He is my neighbor how can I lose feelings for him! And btw I feel like I'm going to die when I get eye contact with his wife💔
that"s a good one _ setting a point in which you will leave
I cry everyday because of my husband who I loved so so so much it was Unconditional Love, a very strong love Allah swt put in my heart for my husband, I thought he was my beautiful soulmate, he was my angel from Jannah and he destroyed everything with his lies, tricking me by acting charming, sweet guy, good Muslim, lied, tricked me and other women into polygamy marriages only for lust/sexual desires, my husband didnt provide for me. I loved him so much and I was loyal, never cheated on him and now I cry so much, i have mental health problems, emotional abuse and physical abuse because of his lying and tricking me into polygamy marriages and the other women don't know about me but Allah swt exposed him to me and then he moved his wife and children out of London Tooting to Blackpool in 2019 summer time I think, so I cant tell her the truth, she dont know about me how terrible is that not to know your husband is married to other women! I couldn't find the other women. His family knows everything SubhanAllaah Ya Allah. Even now his telling me theres no wives and children Ya Allah SubhanAllaah. This was a eye opener for me that how Muslim brothers lie and tricking women into polygamy marriages or they have secret wives and secret girlfriends and their still looking for other women for marriage when they have secret wives and secret girlfriends and secret children, even their own family, mothers and fathers dont know about. Allah is great. SubhanAllaah. No respect for other peoples mothers, sisters and daughters when you have your own mother, sisters and daughters SubhanAllaah... from this horrible experience, horrible, horrible experience that Muslim brothers can abuse us like this and noone cares, SubhanAllaah. I realised that us Muslim sisters dont get justice, Muslim sisters suffering so much in polygamy marriages and the Muslim brothers get away with it because polygamy is in the Quran. My husband didn't love, care, provide, pay bill's, he didnt pay rent, he didn't help me, he never buy food for me, its was about lust/sexual desires and all I get from people is "it's his right" polygamy is his right and look at what he did to me Ya Allah. His mum knows about the other wife and me, his mum still wants to take him Pakistan and get him married off to someones innocent daughter. Allah is so good. Allhumduillah for Allah. Allah will give me justice soon. Muslims dont understand how this horrible experience made many sisters leave islam, if your mental health is destroyed then your deen Islam will be affaced SubhanAllaah. Now I understand why so many Muslim sisters left Islam, other Muslim sisters took their hijab off and stop going Masjid, sister were being mentally abused, emotionally abused and physically abused, no help or support for converts to Islam, now I understand why sister started new relationshipwith non Muslim men. What I've learned from this horrible experience Muslim brothers can oppress their wives and get away with it and the ummah support him in his oppresstion SubhanAllaah. (((Please don't trust noone, dont trust people on online, even Muslim can be fake, dont trust noone when it comes to marriage, my husband was lying and tricking women into marriage when he was already married with children, girls/women your talking to a man for marriage but you don't know his already married with children and this is happening alot)))... sisters and brothers please protect your mother, sisters and daughters from these kind of men, these kind of Muslim brothers dont respect women... new converts please don't trust men, "Muslim" dont mean they fear Allah swt... IM ONLY WARNING YOU FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH SWT... ruclips.net/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/видео.html...
A sister takes her hijab off and theres so many videos. Brothers have secret wives, secret girlfriends, secret children and noone cares!
I hope your okay
@@shelleysamuels3682 I'm fine now, so much better!. Thank you
Tyler perry has a series out I can’t remember name because I only watched 1 episode on BET..and it shows what these men are doing fake being Muslims to abuse (get sex, take their money, make them like slaves even steal for them) Most don’t believe in being a Muslim only to monopolize on sleeping with multiple women and deceiving especially these black men from the prison system Yuck!
@@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 I agree with you
but what if you try to leave him several times and always end up seeing him again?
You will have to harden yourself and not respond to his advances. He will call, text, beg, charm, give you gifts etc. He will essentially do anything he can to keep things going with you, but you have to be hardened enough to not give in. If you do, you will just keep getting sucked back into the same scenario and things will only get worse.
Like I said you reap what you sow. You'll fall in love with somebody eventually and it'll be another women all ways trying to leave your man alone but can't stop fkn him
If he sleeping with you he sleeping with other women. Those women are sleeping with men. Those men are sleeping with both men and women. He could bring you home something you can't get rid of. Think of him as a std waiting to happen.
That is true... But what if he is on && off with his wife?? And u know he likes you?
Sarah B I was in same boat but I cut off the ties. A person deserves one love not multiple doubts lol.
No such thing. He on with his wife every single day. Trust me.
I been with my boyfriend for two years. My ex has been married for 3 years or so now. My ex and I have known of each other since we were teenagers. We've been on and off for like 12 years now. I am 26 & he's 32.. Long story short. Him and his wife were living apart last year. Due to marital issues. My boyfriend got locked up last year for an older charge. Me and my ex had an affair for a few months. Then boom. He's back with his wife. My boyfriend gets out in 3 months. I am happy but sad too. I am so confused. I know he'll eventually stay with his wife w/o me on the side. Especially when my dude gets out. I still can't believe he married someone else. My boyfriend is a good guy. And I regret getting lonely & resorting to my married ex. Now my mind races daily. I am torn and broken. 😭
Thank u for making this video sir for all of us who needed to hear this.U make lots of sense..Thank you.
I thought the angel says it’s wrong and the devil says it’s right.
You said the angel and devil part wrong.
The wife can't have kids.... but she is okay with the side chick having babes with her husband.... and the side chick does not want him fully...
Why doesn't the side chick want him fully?
Kamala mi dun TALK Wright than why is she with him ?? Just for some Dick ??
Also, we had gone to high school together and graduated the same year. We are both in out sixties. 61 and 62
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Sorry for the dislike, just had to make sure more things among the lines of these videos showing up in my recommendations
Thank Yu sharing video bless yu
What if it's a girl
That changes nothing...
She's married.
Move on.
Hi what if you like someone but their your teacher and you like them but they like you back what should I do
Am alone
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how can i msg u i wana ask u something
so, i like this guy from work .. and he is super direct with his advances towards me.. i know he likes me ... but he lives with his girlfriend, they had been together for 8 years, he told me she is leaving for germany in 1 month and then its over... he also told me he is not inlove with this girl .. but i still feel its dangerous to persuit a relationship with him .. i dont know what to do .. i like him soooo much... and he is so sweet with me ..
nahomi009 don't just don't
nahomi009 dont.... huhu.... because if you deeply inlove with him... its hard to move on...... the feeling its so so so hurt.. so..before the grass grow cut it off..huhu.....(base frm my experience...now)
Leave this man alone and move on. He's lying to you his girlfriend may not be going to Germany. You never can tell and no telling what he might do, he may not leave his girlfriend. If I were you I wouldn't fool with this man. His girlfriend may be a dangerous jealous girlfriend
omg I think I'm married to a married man .he always talks about as a roommate. but one day ,I spent the night at his place for a week , and I saw mail ,med bottle s that his last name on it .:/ I looked them up on fb and he is actually living with her I saw the pics of his place and everything. I'm scared to asked cuz he will know I'm looking around his house .what should I do ? just dump him?
Valerie Hearrt of course dump him
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What if they are separated for months and when u met a married man? He moved on. He’s been so inlove with me and I fall for him as well. They are still married but they are separated
Angeli Rose not gonna lie - it’s not worth it. Yeah he’s separated but he’s still legally married TO her. He’s playing with you.
@hungryCat did u experience this? But I’m the one who is the only access in his place.. and I have access to his social media account where I can see his messages to his ex wife , conversation and he’s open to me. I am not living with him But I’m with him always and almost everyday How could u say he’s playing with me?
This was my last relationship. Trust me, wait until he heals and is ready to love and receive love again. Don't be a rebound, you'll end up hurt💔
I Am Marriad but live Separated .
Alone life very hard i am Seriousely needed matrue lady for real true loveing 👫💑relationship💑👫 Can you are ..... with me i love u u so so forever deep in my loveing 💕💞Heart💞💕
Hello can you talk on a man that's leagelly seperated, and won't a relationship with you, you can use my name if you wish.
Rayann Lesene let him have some time alone don't go be a rebond girl
BUT A LOT MEN DEVORCE THERE NAGGING WIFE
For another Woman why
A lot of bad Marriage's are wrong
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wow
Some only Stay for thé children's
But they don't love there wife anymore whay
Thé married Woman is betrayed so much by him ?
When A men loves you he Will not cheat like a devil
MEN who do that don't like there wifes anymore it's a Relationships scam big betrayal
Wives get fat, ugly, and distant. This is why we look for other woman. We don't always leave right away because court systems favor woman. Also we love our kid(s) and don't want to hurt them. So who is the bad one??? You lady's mostly
You sound like a typical narcissist. No woman would be happy with you