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How? He's completely right people don't care about your problems alot of times you have to go through your problems alone, otherwise you're stuck forever.
People are frightened in the idea that nobody cares about them, but in my view, that's liberating: You can pursue your own path without being shackled by the judgment of the others.
Nobody cares about you until you make one fatal mistake that can tarnish your reputation. People care for your downfall, cause it makes them look better.
The whole point of niko's channel is to describe what to do rather than what not to do and using his own life experiences to back his claims. How can you make a video about how to not complain using your own life experiences without it sounding hypocritical. Saying nobody cares is just the truth, if you can't accept that go somewhere else on the internet or go watch another video.
I notice this with my gamer friends. Instead of just playing the game and having fun they always complain about "getting oneshot" or "the opponent is cheating" or "the game sucks". It really demotivates me as well and makes me distance myself from them
[neurodivergence intensifies] my petty complaint is that I wish people wouldn't ask "how are you?" when they don't actually care how you are and don't want an honest, forthcoming response. IMO it's actually dehumanizing AF to have to perform this empty linguistic handshake and remind myself that they don't want a real response. Protip for streamers: you can easily replace "how are you" with "hope you're doing well" while greeting chatters.
I used to talk to people alot about things i was going through. Eventually, i found that venting wasnt worth the time and im better off putting my energy into other forms of activity. It sucks to hear that no one cares, but it honestly makes you feel more comfortable to understand your own thoughts when you let things go and dont allow stupid things to get to you.
My complaint: Classmates and people that ive tried to talk to are trash at responding and eventually i stop trying to text them or i just straight up remove them off social media. Now, i wont pay attention to this complaint from now on
This is basically a tutorial how to be unlikable. If all you do is complain about your problems to friends then you should expect that they will eventually get fed up. I've known so many people that all they would do is complain or vent and it's just so unpleasant to be around them. At one point you just want to tell them to shut up, stop complaining and get their crap together because complaining won't do anything and they have to take action. I think that people who complain but do nothing in order to improve their situation are one of the most annoying type of people out there. I'm not saying that venting to your friends is bad, it can help if you just let some things out and reaching out when you are at your lowest is very very important and your friends are there to listen to you and support you, but if you are overwhelming someone with your complaining like "blah blah i woke up and i feel terrible I dont wanna live I am boring and unlikable no one likes me I went to school and almost fell asleep because this teacher does the holy yapping of yappingtons and i will drop out because my grades are ass" and someone is trying to talk to you and help you and you just ignore them and keep ranting you are a bad person. Friends are people not a trauma dumpster and it's important to respect their bondaries. Point is: If you feel bad you can talk about it with your friends but if all you do is complain and do nothing to improve it you are a crappy person. Great video niko take care!!
Absolutely wel spoken! It's one thing to vent and another to vent about stuff you are in control of changing. Sadly, some people make it their entire personality to play victim. I've dated such a person in the past and it was emotionally and mentally exhausting to keep up soothing their victimhood complex. Just thinking back about it feels exhausting. In the end, nothing changed. She remained complaining about everything and everyone and I lost time and energy. With my current relationship, I made it very clear to my girlfriend that I am not going to put up with such behavior. So from the very beginning, I've set a boundary. When we both complain about something, we immediately resort to thinking in solutions right after. We're entering our 5 year anniversary and I couldn't feel more refreshed. The peace you get from living a life not complaining is indescribable.
@@andnowyouknow3363 I am so happy for you! I am glad you found the right person for you!! I wish you the best and I hope you guys will have a wonderful anniversary!! People who play victim are very exhausting and I'm glad you moved on!! Take care :3
Ironically I feel this. I'm getting sick of hearing my guardians complaining everytime he gets home from work, "Woe is me", "its so hot", "this is the thanks I get for doing XYZ". The nonstop yelling at every little thing and everyone else in the house. Im tired of it. I get it, its hard working outside all day in the heat in something no one wants to do, but he picked the line of work to it. So, why complain about it? Idk its just what you said why be so miserable all the time. Just calm down and cool off its over now.
This is incredibly relatable. It's not good to hear your parents/guardians complain about every little thing as a kid. It makes the world seem unnecessarily tough.
This is actually such an important topic. I think a lot of this is the modern, tech-drowned mindset we have I'm surrounded by people who complain about little things, and have started catching myself doing it. I heard from a really talented therapist that the brain is a muscle, and every day we train it through how we act. Someone who constantly focuses on their ego and the future trains for anxiety. Conversely, people who catch that impulse, let stuff go, and be with themselves train to be calm abd collected So if you train your brain to understand your need to complain, and to decide not to, imagine what can happen!
The thing i love the most about ur channel is that the gameplay isnt pre recorded and youre actually talking whilst playing again it makes it feel so much more real
my usless complaint is having a bachelors degree and getting all the jobs I apply to rejected and me complaining how I regret going to college and being 50k in debt
Not gonna lie ever since I stopped complaining about things except when it's really necessary, I started to not find any things that I could complain about, even when I find some, those are mostly out of my control.
After the fight from me and my horrible ex that played me, your videos make me feel so much better and loved and less alone ❤❤ thank you man, your so amazing and underrated Niko ❤️❤️
I have one: I’m currently extremely late for a group project made for groups of 4 where I was forcefully made to work solo with the same expected amount of work as a group of 4. It’s a damn 30 page write up.
Your channel is now my bonfire, my checkpoint. Niko you gave me a slap on my face with this one, but this is not a complaint! Im the kind of person that says "I like to complain. It is free, so I will complain" but with this video you gave me a good insight. Of course I don't complain everytime, is more of a joke, but I silently complain with myself all day long and it drains me. Thanks for always helping us poor mortals, my friend Niko! be safe
I had a friend in high school I had to stop being friends with because of a deer. He hit a deer while driving. Cool story the first time you hear it. Not so cool when it's the only thing you talk about for the rest of the school year.
My complaint: I'm late to commenting on the video lol. Nah, though, I'd probably say when I do complain, it'd be about me not being good at something that I feel like I should be good at. But that's only really me complaining to myself. I don't complain to others too often
my complaint: im a semi pro kick boxer and when i cut weight for my fights i complain to my coach and girlfriend saying i’m hungry. when they cannot literally do anything about it
My complaint is actually so stupid: so, i dont get enough sleep, and this is because im up late at night on my phone, and in the morning before school i dont have enough time to go to the bathroom because i keep sleeping for more than what i can sleep for if that makes sense, i gotta wake up at 6 because my bus i take for school leaves at 6:46, and yet i cant wake up in time and i cant go to the bathroom in the morning because of me not waking up.. and in school i keep complaining that im tired and that i want to go to the bathroom but the school bathrooms are horrible
My complaint: how do people talk fr. Like if i join mid conversation im perfectly fine n can get a few laughs from others. Starting a conversation though im like channing tatum “so…do you…like… cheese?”
honestly the most effective way to start a conversation I learned is to make just an observation and maybe turn it into a question, that's for complete strangers. nothing wrong with talking about the weather. or just ask them how their day was or if they did anything. and if you know anything about them ask them about it. "hows your wife/kid/back pain/car repairs/piano lessons"
its not like a minor complaint but its the only thing stuck in my head... SO i like my job but at the same time i hate it, work wise its kinda shit and okay but its the collegues who is so annoying who dont do their job so i have to do it and i complaint abt this prob everyday
My complaint: other people's political opinions. Specifically my family's opinion. Right winged, very racial, sexist, sometimes religious, discriminative opinions. These don't HAVE to affect me, since they talk shit about other people (such as immigrants or people with a darker skin tone in general, and I'm the whitest girl imaginable) but still I get so frustrated with them. I just can't understand where they're coming from, it just sounds like they're hating on people so they can put themselves on a pedestal. Why would anyone be so racist, and just assume something based on a meaningless factor such as skin color?
If someone with psychiatric diagnosis sees this video - your diagnosis is enough of a reason to complain to your close ones and you should complain! That's obligatory for you to tell about your problems to at least someone who will understand you, no matter how big these problems are
But people get tired of it. I'm like a broken record: twelve years of the same thing over and over again. I don't think it even actually helps. They just get worried and can do nothing to help me.
I used to work at a call center, so I can say, do care, did ask, please tell me the story of your whole life on call so us can chill at work for 1 hour
I needed to hear this. I've been complaining about SomeOrdinaryGamers newest video, where he said Windows Xp is obsolete, and I still like it and use it sometimes. No one wants to hear my complain about it, though.
When it comes to life you never run out of complaints, which is why I don't understand why negativity seems to still be so constant, in my line of work all the other people working there are pretty happy and positive about things, we'll complain about something minor because it's easy to start a conversation with a sentiment you both share. It seems like in other lines of work, perhaps more pleasant working conditions, people do seem more miserable, curious isn't it? Think maybe having such good conditions just spoils you? To the point that it's easier to complain then to be happy? There's many reasons why I'm working at this job for now, though one day it will change, my experiences with these types of jobs will forever stay with me, if I ever get a higher position I don't think I'll ever take it for granted.
it’s so hot in my room and it’s 1 am and I can’t sleep and instead I’m just scrolling and I have a test coming up that I need to be studying for but I just have so much to go through in so little time and I’m so tired and stressed and I keep procrastinating on studying and ugh I just want to watch tv
at first i thought this was an ass take but then i realised you're talking about ranting in vain for minor stuff and it's actually a pretty good thing to talk about. i'd say in almost all cases being apathetic about everything is a sign of a bigger underlying issue. i try my best not to do this, i really want to be the kind of person that radiates positivity
I've found the complaining about very minor inconveniences stops me from doing things I want to do. For example: I think it would be cool to stream x game but I always find myself psyching myself out of it: Well this game isn't that popular, it's gonna be a pain to setup, I don't have enough time in the day blah blah when really I should just but the bullet and get started and I'd probably have a great time.
hey I watched this video and it kinda makes me feel like I complained in the video I released however you most likely haven't even seen the video i just wanted to thank you for making me want to switch my video style I love your videos by the way they really resonate with me
lmao the star bucks example is true but its for any place. like imagine your a fast food worker and some guy starts talking about their day to you. like what? i dont wanna know bro.
As a german where complaining is sort of a national sport, i disagree. Most of the time we complain about things, that are out of our control but bother us enough to yearn for a change. People don`t complain for satisfaction or hearing others agree, but out of hope, that the complain gets heard and something gets better. As slim as the chances are. And the more important the problem is to us, the more we complain about it, even if it is very unlikely to change. Complaining is the result of desparation for a change.
People most definitely do complain for satisfaction and hearing others agree, I am one of those people. In fact everyone at some point in their lives has done that. As far as complaining as a result of desparation for change, that achieves nothing. If really you want change, you have to get up and take action in order for that change to happen. You can't just say things and hope that they will happen, you have to actually take action
@@nikoyaps This video is an example of complaining that could make change. I do see that it's not just that though, this isn't just complaining. You have a genuine point, are offering advice, encouraging others to be more positive, and sharing a very real perspective. Pure complaint in hope for change is probably mostly useless, but in cases like this it can help stress a larger point, and that might not be useless.
@@nikoyaps i do agree, that there are cases, where people complain for attention or agreement. But the things people complain the most about, the things people are the most persistant in terms of complaining, are things that are out of their hand. Housing, Inflation, Taxes, Laws, beeing poor, beeing sick, climate change, polution. Sure you can vote or demonstrate. People do that. But they also complain, and since we dont live in paradise, there will always be something to complain. Therefore we as a society should strive to focus on the important problems, to solve those first, before we complain about minor things. As an individual tho, you might not always think on a large scale, so your feet hurting from the hike the day before may be the thing that bothers you the most in that moment. Complaining isn't the problem, it's an important tool of us humans to strive for better conditions and not get tossed around by higher powers of any sort. Someone who complains about things they can change themselves easily is of course annoying, but that was not your statement. Edit: In fact demonstatrions, are nothing but complaining about something and are an Essential part of a working democracy. So denying the Usefulness of complaining just makes one look foolish. Without complaining we wouldn't have gotten the french Revolution, the end of slavery, the fall of the berlin wall, or any sort of change which balanced the lifes of the general public...
My complaint: my work doesnt satisfy my at all. But it pays the bills and even tho im here alone 13 h i dont work 13 h have so much time. I kinda saw it but chose to igonre the fact that i can just learn new job on spare time here and change it. Good at least i dont complain to others but i walk confused all the time. 1 year ago i was happiest ever dropped 28 kg, just did small things now they dont make me happy ? Delusional
we stopped being friends with our one friend because he would over exaggerate everything he does and also wouldnt give anyone a chance to speak. Self centered people can really get on my last nerve lol
One complain i cant stand hearing is about the weather . Yes its raining , get better clothes . Now i am talking about a situation that you see the weahter forecast and it says sunny weather and then it starts raining while going home , thats unfortunate and probably a miscalculation of the weather forecast . But i hate people seeing that is raining or its cold outside and start whining about it . I dont care, really the weather doesn't care just do whatever everyone else is doing and get better clothed
here is my stupid complaint that I want help in: I have a hard time talking with others not because I sacred or any of that type stuff, it is because people just have a habit of responding no more than ONE WORD, it like I ask and they respond: how are you? good. how was your day? good. what are going to do today? idk. what are your hobbies? idk. what do you do when your are bored? idk. where do you like to hangout? idk. what are things that annoy you? idk. like bruh, most people just forgot how to socialize. its like I know they have answers but they just don't want to say it. like when I say like: oh, well when I am bored I play minecraft. and they say: me too. and I respond: then why didn't you answer with that when I asked you about it. and they say: idk. like, what do I do? the only thing that makes people hardly care or listen or respond more than one word, is if I actually have a problem in my life that I want help in. so please help.
16 minutes of complaining about complaining. See that’s the catch. Each of us think that our complaining is meaningful and that everyone else’s complaining is pointless
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90 percent of our complaining is not coming from the outside, it’s all in our minds😂 all of these mind narratives that people keep telling themselves about how bad their lives is. That’s the main source of our suffering.
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Here's my complaint: If you're gonna be stingy with coal at least do it right. Up to eight potatoes can be smelted per coal, not seven.
"still using coal to fuel furnaces"
laughs in industrycraft
that’s crazy ☠️
Valid complaint tbh
God I would be a different person if I had to take amounts of potatoes modulo 7
nobody cares endless piplup
niko's slow arc to turning into lowtiergod
I was just watching his motivational speech
How? He's completely right people don't care about your problems alot of times you have to go through your problems alone, otherwise you're stuck forever.
You should stop complaining. NOW! ⚡
@@Corvolet5 😂😂
Real
My complaint- I don’t like sand. It’s coarse. It’s rough. Irritating and it gets everywhere.
Honestly same I thought I was the only one 😭
Anakin skywalker?
@@bey7668 Yes, Master Skywalker indeed
Some people go through the worst, but they keep quiet about it
maybe they dont feel comfortable sharing with people or they just dont connect the same frequency the way others do
People are frightened in the idea that nobody cares about them, but in my view, that's liberating: You can pursue your own path without being shackled by the judgment of the others.
Just watch them start to care as soon as they have to shame you for something or make you feel bad. Then they will care.
Nobody cares about you until you make one fatal mistake that can tarnish your reputation. People care for your downfall, cause it makes them look better.
I definetly agree.
"nobody cares about the fact that you didn't get enough sleep last night"
shit, im watching this at 3.30am, and i have class at 8am tomorrow.
Nobody cares!😁
Nobody cares!😁
(no but for real you should eep, sleep is important!)
you have classes on 8 am??? I have them on 6 am
nobody caress 😁
@@ibader6248hes prob in college
the irony of this video is palpable
I would agree with you, if the entire basis of his channel wasn’t him ranting over Minecraft footage, for viewers who like watching it
Yeah I watch cause it's fun
I know. I wonder if it's on purpose
The whole point of niko's channel is to describe what to do rather than what not to do and using his own life experiences to back his claims. How can you make a video about how to not complain using your own life experiences without it sounding hypocritical. Saying nobody cares is just the truth, if you can't accept that go somewhere else on the internet or go watch another video.
@@sxbice nah his other channel failed so he makes these videos for easy likes.
I notice this with my gamer friends. Instead of just playing the game and having fun they always complain about "getting oneshot" or "the opponent is cheating" or "the game sucks". It really demotivates me as well and makes me distance myself from them
ngl I'm the worst at that, like I am the chronic complainer when I play counter strike, need to get better at that
[neurodivergence intensifies] my petty complaint is that I wish people wouldn't ask "how are you?" when they don't actually care how you are and don't want an honest, forthcoming response. IMO it's actually dehumanizing AF to have to perform this empty linguistic handshake and remind myself that they don't want a real response. Protip for streamers: you can easily replace "how are you" with "hope you're doing well" while greeting chatters.
You're videos comfort me sometimes, thanks dude
Your*
@@toniemareknobody cares :)
Nobody cares
My complaint: there’s too much air
honey wake up a stranger on the internet dropped another videographic masterpiece
I used to talk to people alot about things i was going through. Eventually, i found that venting wasnt worth the time and im better off putting my energy into other forms of activity. It sucks to hear that no one cares, but it honestly makes you feel more comfortable to understand your own thoughts when you let things go and dont allow stupid things to get to you.
Adopting this mindset can be quite liberating
nobody cares
@@rasmusturkka480Yeahh that’s the spirit!!
Exactly. Just do your own thing and stop caring cause nobody cares!
My complaint: Classmates and people that ive tried to talk to are trash at responding and eventually i stop trying to text them or i just straight up remove them off social media.
Now, i wont pay attention to this complaint from now on
This is basically a tutorial how to be unlikable. If all you do is complain about your problems to friends then you should expect that they will eventually get fed up. I've known so many people that all they would do is complain or vent and it's just so unpleasant to be around them. At one point you just want to tell them to shut up, stop complaining and get their crap together because complaining won't do anything and they have to take action. I think that people who complain but do nothing in order to improve their situation are one of the most annoying type of people out there.
I'm not saying that venting to your friends is bad, it can help if you just let some things out and reaching out when you are at your lowest is very very important and your friends are there to listen to you and support you, but if you are overwhelming someone with your complaining like "blah blah i woke up and i feel terrible I dont wanna live I am boring and unlikable no one likes me I went to school and almost fell asleep because this teacher does the holy yapping of yappingtons and i will drop out because my grades are ass" and someone is trying to talk to you and help you and you just ignore them and keep ranting you are a bad person. Friends are people not a trauma dumpster and it's important to respect their bondaries.
Point is: If you feel bad you can talk about it with your friends but if all you do is complain and do nothing to improve it you are a crappy person.
Great video niko take care!!
Absolutely wel spoken! It's one thing to vent and another to vent about stuff you are in control of changing. Sadly, some people make it their entire personality to play victim. I've dated such a person in the past and it was emotionally and mentally exhausting to keep up soothing their victimhood complex. Just thinking back about it feels exhausting. In the end, nothing changed. She remained complaining about everything and everyone and I lost time and energy. With my current relationship, I made it very clear to my girlfriend that I am not going to put up with such behavior. So from the very beginning, I've set a boundary. When we both complain about something, we immediately resort to thinking in solutions right after. We're entering our 5 year anniversary and I couldn't feel more refreshed. The peace you get from living a life not complaining is indescribable.
@@andnowyouknow3363 I am so happy for you! I am glad you found the right person for you!! I wish you the best and I hope you guys will have a wonderful anniversary!! People who play victim are very exhausting and I'm glad you moved on!! Take care :3
a tutorial to not be unlikeable .. correct?..
i love complaining about complaining then we complain about complainers complaining about complainers
My minor complaint is that even though i get good sleep but i feel so tired all the time.
Sameeee 🎉
do you exercise enough?
Ironically I feel this. I'm getting sick of hearing my guardians complaining everytime he gets home from work, "Woe is me", "its so hot", "this is the thanks I get for doing XYZ". The nonstop yelling at every little thing and everyone else in the house. Im tired of it.
I get it, its hard working outside all day in the heat in something no one wants to do, but he picked the line of work to it. So, why complain about it? Idk its just what you said why be so miserable all the time. Just calm down and cool off its over now.
ironic, complaining about complaints lol
This is incredibly relatable. It's not good to hear your parents/guardians complain about every little thing as a kid. It makes the world seem unnecessarily tough.
I often complain about how I procrastinate.
Then proceed to procrastinate further still...
Real
Same lol
Then you go right back to procrastinating
This is actually such an important topic. I think a lot of this is the modern, tech-drowned mindset we have
I'm surrounded by people who complain about little things, and have started catching myself doing it.
I heard from a really talented therapist that the brain is a muscle, and every day we train it through how we act. Someone who constantly focuses on their ego and the future trains for anxiety. Conversely, people who catch that impulse, let stuff go, and be with themselves train to be calm abd collected
So if you train your brain to understand your need to complain, and to decide not to, imagine what can happen!
The thing i love the most about ur channel is that the gameplay isnt pre recorded and youre actually talking whilst playing again it makes it feel so much more real
my usless complaint is having a bachelors degree and getting all the jobs I apply to rejected and me complaining how I regret going to college and being 50k in debt
I literally had a dream last night about watching this exact video from you, title and everything. Crazy lmao.
Yeah I've started transmiting the vids straight into your brain
yeah
You got dream subscription too
@@nikoyapsnah pookie dropping patreon videos into dreams now💀💀💀
The video was probably playing in your sleep or you played it just before you fell asleep and forgot
My complaint: mentality of the people in my country suck.
Now, it is time to move on from this thought I guess. Thank you for this video.
Not gonna lie ever since I stopped complaining about things except when it's really necessary, I started to not find any things that I could complain about, even when I find some, those are mostly out of my control.
After the fight from me and my horrible ex that played me, your videos make me feel so much better and loved and less alone ❤❤ thank you man, your so amazing and underrated Niko ❤️❤️
My complaint: I can't see my forehead
To grow is to go through your own problems alone, otherwise you're stuck forever. You're completely right Niko.
Always a good day when niko uploads
I have one: I’m currently extremely late for a group project made for groups of 4 where I was forcefully made to work solo with the same expected amount of work as a group of 4. It’s a damn 30 page write up.
It’s almost holidays, and I feel completely drained, but I still have to wake up early. It is just exhausting
Your channel is now my bonfire, my checkpoint. Niko you gave me a slap on my face with this one, but this is not a complaint! Im the kind of person that says "I like to complain. It is free, so I will complain" but with this video you gave me a good insight. Of course I don't complain everytime, is more of a joke, but I silently complain with myself all day long and it drains me. Thanks for always helping us poor mortals, my friend Niko! be safe
i constantly get angry at my bad internet provider, stress from school and my bad teacher
I had a friend in high school I had to stop being friends with because of a deer. He hit a deer while driving. Cool story the first time you hear it. Not so cool when it's the only thing you talk about for the rest of the school year.
My complaint: I'm late to commenting on the video lol. Nah, though, I'd probably say when I do complain, it'd be about me not being good at something that I feel like I should be good at. But that's only really me complaining to myself. I don't complain to others too often
niko i watch your videos while i get up early for school thank you man
I watch before I go to work so I can survive the concrete jungle one more day 😂
my complaint: im a semi pro kick boxer and when i cut weight for my fights i complain to my coach and girlfriend saying i’m hungry. when they cannot literally do anything about it
My complaint is actually so stupid: so, i dont get enough sleep, and this is because im up late at night on my phone, and in the morning before school i dont have enough time to go to the bathroom because i keep sleeping for more than what i can sleep for if that makes sense, i gotta wake up at 6 because my bus i take for school leaves at 6:46, and yet i cant wake up in time and i cant go to the bathroom in the morning because of me not waking up.. and in school i keep complaining that im tired and that i want to go to the bathroom but the school bathrooms are horrible
My complaint: how do people talk fr. Like if i join mid conversation im perfectly fine n can get a few laughs from others. Starting a conversation though im like channing tatum “so…do you…like… cheese?”
honestly the most effective way to start a conversation I learned is to make just an observation and maybe turn it into a question, that's for complete strangers. nothing wrong with talking about the weather. or just ask them how their day was or if they did anything. and if you know anything about them ask them about it. "hows your wife/kid/back pain/car repairs/piano lessons"
"I'm gonna go to the jungle"
I can hear Guns & Roses start playing in the background 🤣
*_Welcome to the Jungle, we got fun and games!_*
hola,yo conoci tu canal porque en el canal de fantasi que subio un video hablando del antiguo youtube,es un canal en español
its not like a minor complaint but its the only thing stuck in my head... SO i like my job but at the same time i hate it, work wise its kinda shit and okay but its the collegues who is so annoying who dont do their job so i have to do it and i complaint abt this prob everyday
My complaint: other people's political opinions. Specifically my family's opinion. Right winged, very racial, sexist, sometimes religious, discriminative opinions.
These don't HAVE to affect me, since they talk shit about other people (such as immigrants or people with a darker skin tone in general, and I'm the whitest girl imaginable) but still I get so frustrated with them. I just can't understand where they're coming from, it just sounds like they're hating on people so they can put themselves on a pedestal. Why would anyone be so racist, and just assume something based on a meaningless factor such as skin color?
This is definitely one of my favourite RUclips channels. You have no idea how much these videos help me. Thank you, Niko
my little complaint is that the back of my head gets so hot while im trying to sleep and it gets super annoying
I complain pretty much everyday about waking up early for work.
If someone with psychiatric diagnosis sees this video - your diagnosis is enough of a reason to complain to your close ones and you should complain! That's obligatory for you to tell about your problems to at least someone who will understand you, no matter how big these problems are
But people get tired of it. I'm like a broken record: twelve years of the same thing over and over again. I don't think it even actually helps. They just get worried and can do nothing to help me.
Everything hurts, I feel tired, and exhausted.
What?how?
I used to work at a call center, so I can say, do care, did ask, please tell me the story of your whole life on call so us can chill at work for 1 hour
Yea seriously. Even if you think “they only care when you’re dead” they don’t even care then. They just have to bury you.
I needed to hear this. I've been complaining about SomeOrdinaryGamers newest video, where he said Windows Xp is obsolete, and I still like it and use it sometimes. No one wants to hear my complain about it, though.
Complaints is also smth to relate to other people with imo. I guess one-sided annoying some1 is poo but it can be fun too
When it comes to life you never run out of complaints, which is why I don't understand why negativity seems to still be so constant, in my line of work all the other people working there are pretty happy and positive about things, we'll complain about something minor because it's easy to start a conversation with a sentiment you both share.
It seems like in other lines of work, perhaps more pleasant working conditions, people do seem more miserable, curious isn't it?
Think maybe having such good conditions just spoils you? To the point that it's easier to complain then to be happy? There's many reasons why I'm working at this job for now, though one day it will change, my experiences with these types of jobs will forever stay with me, if I ever get a higher position I don't think I'll ever take it for granted.
it’s so hot in my room and it’s 1 am and I can’t sleep and instead I’m just scrolling and I have a test coming up that I need to be studying for but I just have so much to go through in so little time and I’m so tired and stressed and I keep procrastinating on studying and ugh I just want to watch tv
my tendon in my left arm hurts when I work out
This really opened my eyes ngl. U pretty much described me
I need that skill of talking in a game
at first i thought this was an ass take but then i realised you're talking about ranting in vain for minor stuff and it's actually a pretty good thing to talk about. i'd say in almost all cases being apathetic about everything is a sign of a bigger underlying issue. i try my best not to do this, i really want to be the kind of person that radiates positivity
My complaint: none of thr jobs i apply to are getting back to me
My sink is leaking.
Skill issue
@@nikoyaps W
This seems like one of Leafy's first videos...
So true, easy way to be completely unlikeable. I hear the same complaining everry single day, it's exhausting.
I've found the complaining about very minor inconveniences stops me from doing things I want to do. For example: I think it would be cool to stream x game but I always find myself psyching myself out of it: Well this game isn't that popular, it's gonna be a pain to setup, I don't have enough time in the day blah blah when really I should just but the bullet and get started and I'd probably have a great time.
Surrounding yourself with ppl who are “always tired,” “always stressed” and won’t fix the things they complain about is terrible
hey I watched this video and it kinda makes me feel like I complained in the video I released however you most likely haven't even seen the video i just wanted to thank you for making me want to switch my video style I love your videos by the way they really resonate with me
my complaint: it's been really hot lately and i've been losing sleep because of it
lmao the star bucks example is true but its for any place. like imagine your a fast food worker and some guy starts talking about their day to you. like what? i dont wanna know bro.
it emberrases me to eat ice cones, why do they give em shapes like that??
As a german where complaining is sort of a national sport, i disagree. Most of the time we complain about things, that are out of our control but bother us enough to yearn for a change. People don`t complain for satisfaction or hearing others agree, but out of hope, that the complain gets heard and something gets better. As slim as the chances are. And the more important the problem is to us, the more we complain about it, even if it is very unlikely to change. Complaining is the result of desparation for a change.
People most definitely do complain for satisfaction and hearing others agree, I am one of those people. In fact everyone at some point in their lives has done that. As far as complaining as a result of desparation for change, that achieves nothing. If really you want change, you have to get up and take action in order for that change to happen. You can't just say things and hope that they will happen, you have to actually take action
@@nikoyaps This video is an example of complaining that could make change. I do see that it's not just that though, this isn't just complaining. You have a genuine point, are offering advice, encouraging others to be more positive, and sharing a very real perspective.
Pure complaint in hope for change is probably mostly useless, but in cases like this it can help stress a larger point, and that might not be useless.
@@nikoyaps i do agree, that there are cases, where people complain for attention or agreement. But the things people complain the most about, the things people are the most persistant in terms of complaining, are things that are out of their hand. Housing, Inflation, Taxes, Laws, beeing poor, beeing sick, climate change, polution. Sure you can vote or demonstrate. People do that. But they also complain, and since we dont live in paradise, there will always be something to complain. Therefore we as a society should strive to focus on the important problems, to solve those first, before we complain about minor things. As an individual tho, you might not always think on a large scale, so your feet hurting from the hike the day before may be the thing that bothers you the most in that moment. Complaining isn't the problem, it's an important tool of us humans to strive for better conditions and not get tossed around by higher powers of any sort.
Someone who complains about things they can change themselves easily is of course annoying, but that was not your statement.
Edit: In fact demonstatrions, are nothing but complaining about something and are an Essential part of a working democracy. So denying the Usefulness of complaining just makes one look foolish.
Without complaining we wouldn't have gotten the french Revolution, the end of slavery, the fall of the berlin wall, or any sort of change which balanced the lifes of the general public...
My complaint: where I live is so hot that the AC burned 💀
That is why i don't care either.Friends ? Theraphy ? Parents ?.No.
are you playing in an old version or just a texture pack?
my complaint- why is mods so hard to get i just wanna get shaders :(
edit: i relate to this vid
I didn't sleep much and had to do an exam while tired
Taxes and how the American dream is no more
uhm actually there is an unspoken agreement where you allow me to complain to feel better and I allow you to complain to feel better
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My complaint is it's freaking cold ah here 🥶
Honestly my honest complaint is trafic. I hate it and would love to not be a part of it but its a necesity as of late.
this is one where I would say I totally get it. Such a waste of time tbh...
my compliant is that i complain too much
Comparators are most underrated redstone component, and the best one 😀
My complaint: my work doesnt satisfy my at all. But it pays the bills and even tho im here alone 13 h i dont work 13 h have so much time. I kinda saw it but chose to igonre the fact that i can just learn new job on spare time here and change it. Good at least i dont complain to others but i walk confused all the time. 1 year ago i was happiest ever dropped 28 kg, just did small things now they dont make me happy ? Delusional
Im not old enough for a driver's licen yet while some of my friends are and im jealous and i rlly want a license.
we stopped being friends with our one friend because he would over exaggerate everything he does and also wouldnt give anyone a chance to speak. Self centered people can really get on my last nerve lol
Bro is cooking with this one 💪
my minor complaint: trying to fix my hair in the morning
One complain i cant stand hearing is about the weather . Yes its raining , get better clothes . Now i am talking about a situation that you see the weahter forecast and it says sunny weather and then it starts raining while going home , thats unfortunate and probably a miscalculation of the weather forecast . But i hate people seeing that is raining or its cold outside and start whining about it . I dont care, really the weather doesn't care just do whatever everyone else is doing and get better clothed
I can't believe Microsoft took away my Xbox 360 profile just because it was a live account and I had my Minecraft world on it.
My complaint is that I complain to much 😭
new video idea: Don’t Take My Advice
here is my stupid complaint that I want help in: I have a hard time talking with others not because I sacred or any of that type stuff, it is because people just have a habit of responding no more than ONE WORD, it like I ask and they respond:
how are you? good. how was your day? good. what are going to do today? idk. what are your hobbies? idk. what do you do when your are bored? idk. where do you like to hangout? idk. what are things that annoy you? idk.
like bruh, most people just forgot how to socialize. its like I know they have answers but they just don't want to say it. like when I say like: oh, well when I am bored I play minecraft. and they say: me too. and I respond: then why didn't you answer with that when I asked you about it. and they say: idk.
like, what do I do? the only thing that makes people hardly care or listen or respond more than one word, is if I actually have a problem in my life that I want help in. so please help.
You say they are looking for attention but they are just releasing energy
i hate when ppl beg for attention
im gonna do it im gonna complain: why tf did you make the through the fog members only 😭
16 minutes of complaining about complaining. See that’s the catch. Each of us think that our complaining is meaningful and that everyone else’s complaining is pointless
Yea yea keep complaining about it
new video idea: Don’t Listen To Me
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Just gotta say I hate when people put mayo on a sandwich when I never mentioned it. Why do you automatically think I want mayo on it?
Okay I got to admit this is both annoying and really funny at the same time
Complaint: I don't like the music played in the warehouse I work at because they're overplayed
90 percent of our complaining is not coming from the outside, it’s all in our minds😂 all of these mind narratives that people keep telling themselves about how bad their lives is. That’s the main source of our suffering.
What on earth is a bagle? I speak English from England