Yes, because forced celibacy from one partner on the other is such an ACT OF LOVE. Cheating may hurt - but withdrawing physical intimacy and then refusing to address it, expecting to be married without sex because one person has decided to abandon the relationship is INSANE! That crushes you emotionally, every rejection, every denial of affection - it kills your soul. He only cheated AFTER she fundamentally changed their agreement without his consent or negotiation.
I totally agree! withdrawing physical intimacy is emotionally devastating to both men and women. I understand why her husband cheated, but It's a shame he didn't file for divorce or at least address the problem beforehand. Thanks for the comment!!
To withhold physical intimacy is so cruel - I think u are an ah. People need touch. If u get it in a marriage , great. If it is because of an injury/sickness - then I can understand.
When a partner withholds physical intimacy they are forcing their partner into the arms of another. And having sex with a partner that is not interested / not paticipating is such a turn of.
Being married is not about the couple, it's about the children. If the situation is working then keep it. Divorce should be a last resort. When I had a girlfriend who was asexual, we both would have been delighted if I had an affair with someone who just wanted sex from me. I'm not a chad and my value is more in my ability to keep things repaired around the house and a good stable job; So finding someone who just wants sex from me is unlikely.
Yes, because forced celibacy from one partner on the other is such an ACT OF LOVE. Cheating may hurt - but withdrawing physical intimacy and then refusing to address it, expecting to be married without sex because one person has decided to abandon the relationship is INSANE! That crushes you emotionally, every rejection, every denial of affection - it kills your soul. He only cheated AFTER she fundamentally changed their agreement without his consent or negotiation.
I totally agree! withdrawing physical intimacy is emotionally devastating to both men and women. I understand why her husband cheated, but It's a shame he didn't file for divorce or at least address the problem beforehand. Thanks for the comment!!
Yeah - she is the AH
Cheating is wrong. The right thing to do in a dead-bedroom situation is to divorce before seeking someone else to have sex with.
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Hi, I'm always interested in video feedback. Did I narrate the story too slow? Or is the pace of my talking too slow? Thanks for the listen!
To withhold physical intimacy is so cruel - I think u are an ah. People need touch. If u get it in a marriage , great. If it is because of an injury/sickness - then I can understand.
When a partner withholds physical intimacy they are forcing their partner into the arms of another. And having sex with a partner that is not interested / not paticipating is such a turn of.
Being married is not about the couple, it's about the children. If the situation is working then keep it. Divorce should be a last resort. When I had a girlfriend who was asexual, we both would have been delighted if I had an affair with someone who just wanted sex from me. I'm not a chad and my value is more in my ability to keep things repaired around the house and a good stable job; So finding someone who just wants sex from me is unlikely.