Thank you a lot for that knowledge! That really works. Tired of video where lots of pseudo techers are talking about how to be a bullier (stronger, alpha), but actually that's the point. We are not animals, we don't have to be them. Thank you for everything you are doing :)
if we treat them with kindness that means we are scared when i was in school i got bullied .. one day they all hit me .. broke my glass and bones .. there were 15 of them ... do u know what i did ... my big bro and his friends gone into their home and slapped them in front of their parents ... every one .... the next day they were so sad hitting me
Cool video, haven't seen B&W TV in ages, lol. I've got a video about bullying on my channel that discusses a very similar tactic, but my approach is more about outsmarting the bullying via manipulation which is easier for most bullying-victims to do than learning to genuinely feel so positive/empowered that you can tolerate anything that the bully does - that requires large self esteem, most people with that much confidence don't get bullied.
Actually i like watching these cause i already did that they always do the same thing but i always find a way to get friends this is a good thing when you enter a new school thank you so much.....
Thanks for the video. but what if it's "concealed" bully or a gossiper? An old friend who secretly turned into an enemy while denying it when being asked directly? In short, who does all the bs behind your back and at your expense uplevels his self- esteem , selling your very private information?
All these comments are only reenforcing what I was thinking as I watched this video... Bullies today must be sissies or wimps compared to what they were in my day. Name calling? That's what we call bullying today? Really? What do you call the guy who slaps your head down when getting a drink from the fountain? Kicks your leg sideways and shoves you from behind while you're walking down the hall? Sticks you with thumbtacks from behind in class? What were those guys? Because when I was in school we called them "bullies" and we laughed at "name callers".
I know you mean well but this is terrible advice. Bullies only understand power because that is what they're seeking by targeting people they consider weaker than them. They typically don't go after people who they know will fight back or present any kind of challenge to their position. Complimenting them and trying to disarm them with niceness just shows them you are afraid of them, which is what they want. It makes them feel powerful. I appreciate that it seems you're trying to teach empathy, but all it does in this particular context is make it harder for people to learn to stand up for themselves. I know, because my mom tried to teach the same approach that you are and it's had negative consequences in terms of me learning to be assertive against domineering individuals. I'm still working on trying to correct it and it sucks.
Thank you a lot for that knowledge! That really works. Tired of video where lots of pseudo techers are talking about how to be a bullier (stronger, alpha), but actually that's the point. We are not animals, we don't have to be them. Thank you for everything you are doing :)
Thank you so much Mr. Brooks for the relationship advice.
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if we treat them with kindness that means we are scared
when i was in school i got bullied .. one day they all hit me .. broke my glass and bones .. there were 15 of them ... do u know what i did ... my big bro and his friends gone into their home and slapped them in front of their parents ... every one ....
the next day they were so sad hitting me
That's not bullying that's physical violence - which is a crime.
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So instead of communicating with the authorities, you invaded their home and physical assaulted them?
@@friendlyneighbourhoodplatypus bully only understands bullying. grow up
Cool video, haven't seen B&W TV in ages, lol. I've got a video about bullying on my channel that discusses a very similar tactic, but my approach is more about outsmarting the bullying via manipulation which is easier for most bullying-victims to do than learning to genuinely feel so positive/empowered that you can tolerate anything that the bully does - that requires large self esteem, most people with that much confidence don't get bullied.
I need to show this to my students
Actually i like watching these cause i already did that they always do the same thing but i always find a way to get friends this is a good thing when you enter a new school thank you so much.....
Yes we can, thanks for the advice...
Thanks for the video. but what if it's "concealed" bully or a gossiper? An old friend who secretly turned into an enemy while denying it when being asked directly? In short, who does all the bs behind your back and at your expense uplevels his self- esteem , selling your very private information?
Ask if they think its true. Don't speak to rumours. Silence is not acceptance - quite the opposite.
o so nice, appreciate your job, I think it's very helpful for children and adult to
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practices
it does not always work...
thakyou i learned from you everyday
Thank you this video help me so much
kind and compliment bully? whats the point? bully wanna feel he is better and stronger than victim. Is it related with that?
Is it possible to talk to someone at theHopeLine.com or is it just reading material?
Click on the link you posted and find out.
I agree
All these comments are only reenforcing what I was thinking as I watched this video... Bullies today must be sissies or wimps compared to what they were in my day. Name calling? That's what we call bullying today? Really? What do you call the guy who slaps your head down when getting a drink from the fountain? Kicks your leg sideways and shoves you from behind while you're walking down the hall? Sticks you with thumbtacks from behind in class? What were those guys? Because when I was in school we called them "bullies" and we laughed at "name callers".
how do you stop a bully from excludeing you
Just be relieved you aren't in their hell, a group constantly worried about perception control.
This is fine and all, but the best way to disarm a bully is to make him incapable of holding a weapon.
I know you mean well but this is terrible advice. Bullies only understand power because that is what they're seeking by targeting people they consider weaker than them. They typically don't go after people who they know will fight back or present any kind of challenge to their position. Complimenting them and trying to disarm them with niceness just shows them you are afraid of them, which is what they want. It makes them feel powerful.
I appreciate that it seems you're trying to teach empathy, but all it does in this particular context is make it harder for people to learn to stand up for themselves. I know, because my mom tried to teach the same approach that you are and it's had negative consequences in terms of me learning to be assertive against domineering individuals. I'm still working on trying to correct it and it sucks.
im 54 and still bullied its wrong - i win only sometimes -
Here in Germany if u are friendly to a bully u are considered weak
Yes.
One who is kind to the cruel becomes cruel to the kind.
whos here in class rn
Or yo mama
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