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@@queenbri2137 hi! Thanks for subscribing! I fully support VBAC and think they are 100% possible! Just because you had a cesarean birth doesn't mean you have to have another one (unless you want to). Are you hoping for a VBAC? X
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja I really am excited to keep watching your videos and yes I have had 3 csection but I’m not trying for another this pregnancy but my doctors are not supportive at all I’m just educating myself as much as possible as again and I will be 36 weeks in a few days❤️
15 days ago I delivered my 5th baby by VBAC. It’s very smooth and easy delivery, I didn’t push at all, baby came out itself. 😊 I watched your many videos it helped.
This is what I want Cervix open on its own, vagina stretch on it's own without tear and baby come out on it's own without pushing through the intercession of mother of perpetual help, Mary in Jesus mighty name, Amen. Pls is there any tip that helped you achieve that? Though I know God is miraculous
I’ve been wanting to try VBAC for this pregnancy. But my doctor is discouraging me. This would be my 3rd baby. My last one is 13 years old. I want to experience a regular birth. And I’m not up for a long painful recovery with another C-section 😖 I’m gonna start eating my dates at 36 weeks and drinking raspberry leaf tea. I’m encouraging my baby to keep moving down with some exercises. Wish me luck! 🤞🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾
So informative, thank you so much! I really want to avoid physical examinations during labour to reduce the risk of infection. I wonder if you could include photos rather than illustrations in future videos? I couldn't visualise what you meant for the last two tips without doing online research. Thanks again for sharing your wisdom and helping pregnant women make informed decisions!
Thanks so much for your message and your feedback. The only issue I have with photos is the copyright. If I used other people's photos I may have problems with ownership of my video but I will check with RUclips about the policies. Glad you found the video informative anyway ♥️♥️♥️
I loved joining in with your meditation video earlier today. I am at 38 weeks pregnant 🤰 and wanted to induce labour naturally, but no signs of contractions, only braxton Hicks and period feeling of cramps. Your videos are very calm and informative. Thank you for your efforts and time.
First time pregnant here. I'm 38+6 today, and yesterday I had over 30 lightning crotches and braxton hicks. And I feel so much pressure in my pelvic area. I've had around 10 braxton hicks throughout my whole pregnancy.. I'm guessing baby is coming soon ❤️
@Hypnobirthing With Anja Thank you Anja 🥰 I'm 39+2 today and still no baby girl. Just lots of braxton hicks and lightning crotches again today. We are from the Faroe Islands, which is close to Iceland ❤️❤️
Hi Anja! I had my baby boy last week, 15th Feb .Thank you for all your prep videos, also for the meditation videos as I used many to help me get through my labour. Ended up with an emergency c-section due to unforeseen circumstances, but happy my baby boy is finally here
Hi honey, thanks so much for your message! Glad the meditations were helpful! Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy 😍 How is the healing process going for you following your C-section? Xxxx
@@rebekah3090 oh honey! Sorry the feeding is painful. Is it the breastfeeding and sore nipples? It can take a few weeks to get used to it. It took me 6 weeks to get into breastfeeding. Very hard work at first, nearly gave up. Have you got a maternity/feeding pillow?
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja breastfeeding itself is ok, slightly sore nipples, but otherwise we're doing quite well there... it's more painful to sit after having an incision and not really be able to lean back as much as I would like into the sofa. I know it takes time so will definitely keep persevering! Xx
@@brendablack640 you're welcome! Just to let you know, if you have darker skin the line will look grey/silvery: facebook.com/share/v/nwJLgbMMKE8THjNS/ Sorry I didn't mention this in the video ❣️
I’m 37 weeks & 5 days pregnant. I’ve been having period like cramping almost every night. It seems to get stronger. Also, Braxton hicks that tend to happen at night. I pray labor starts soon to avoid being induced by 39 weeks. I want to happen naturally since with my daughter I haven’t really experienced any of this and was induced by 38 weeks due to high blood pressure.
I drink raspberry tea once in the morning and again before bed I did an exercise on RUclips called activating labor by baby tv I believe it helped a lot and I’m currently in labor I did it for about a week and the exercise I did them the same as the tea
@@LHMLHW I felt the same Try the exercise they helped a lot People also Said the way 4 dates a day but I got disgusted by them I was 3cm when I came to the hospital
I'm going thru the exact same thing now. I get induced in 9 days. I nervous and would much rather this happen naturally but my blood pressure just isn't gonna let that happen. I'm really nervous and just want my baby to be healthy.
I am 40 weeks 1 day today..started getting a bloody show this morning and also am experiencing period pain like cramps..am a first time mom and been watching a lot of your videos..I am trying not to panic bcs am fully educated from watching you.am hoping to see my baby in a day or so
You can do this! Believe in yourself. Breathe through all your contractions slowly. Relax your face, jaw and shoulders. You are strong and you can give birth to your baby smoothly and calmly! Trust yourself! I believe in you and I know you can do it 💖💖💖
This comes just right! I'm very excited to see your video and find out if I am already dilated. Sure feels like something is happening 'down there', but at 38+3 I am just so excited to meet our daughter that I think every twich could be the beginning of labour 🙈 I will try to relax and stay calm, with the help of your meditations. Thank you so much, again, your voice has helped me so much through my whole pregnancy!
Thanks so much Cynthia! Really glad to have been able to help you throughout your pregnancy. Not long until you meet your little one! Enjoy the final days of your pregnancy ❤️❤️❤️
Perfect timing. I'm 38w3d today and I've been feeling period cramps for the last few nights. And contractions that are 5 min apart that last for a few hours, but then stops by the next morning. Happened 3 days in a row, each night is more intense than the night before. I'm positive I'm going to start labor soon but I've been unsure because no mucus plug, no bloody show, etc. But after watching this video, im positive I have started dilating already. It feels like I have! I feel a pain in my crotch that is unlike other pain I've felt throughout the pregnancy. Like my vagina is literally opening. Fingers crossed labor starts soon 🙏🏻
Hi Kristen, thanks for your message 😍 Yes! It definitely sounds like your baby is very low and engaged in your pelvis putting pressure on your cervix ❤️ You may be experiencing a bit of prodromal labour. Do you know what position your baby is in? Are they head down? 💕
@@kissykrissy33 that's good! Glad to hear that 💕 The most important thing is to try and go for a walk every day to get your baby more engaged and to listen to pregnancy meditations to help you relax in the final days of your pregnancy. I hope everything goes well for you when your baby girl decides to arrive! Will you let me know when she's been born? Xxx
Well… my husband just measured my purple line… I’m 37 weeks and already around 3cm! It’s amazing that he just got a tape measure and did it, no questions asked 🤣🤣🤣
I’m 37 +3 days today and will be induced next week at 38 weeks due to GD, can’t wait to meet my baby girl. Your videos have helped me a lot especially the meditation ones.
Thank you so much for your message 😍 I hope that your induction goes well. Sending you lots of love and hugs. So exciting that you'll meet your baby girl soon ❤️
I all of a sudden noticed a purple line today (which was not there before) measuring around 3-6 cm dilated based on your chart. I'm not in labour. Im 41+6 days. Lots of intense cramping and false labour contractions on and off. Bloody show and intense lightning have been consistent since I had a membrane sweep 24 hours ago. Hoping the line in a postive sign that things are starting to progress. I've had prodromal labour since 37 weeks. Contractions daily - at times it's been intense and timable. I've trained myself to ignore almost all the feelings. I'm sure I'll know when it's the real deal. I'm desperately trying to avoid induction as I am a VBAC/TOLAC and understand how interventions can greatly reduce my chance of a successful vaginal birth.
I am 5'4, and im 32 weeks pregnant lightning crotch happens regularly, and mild cramping is sporadic at best. The lightning crotch isnt painful for me its just like oh snap that just happened like someone came up and surprised you type feeling. Everyone i know has been telling me they think im going to have my baby before my due date which is October 7th. No one thinks im making to october. My fiance and my boss are like imma give it 6 more weeks. Lol not going to lie the pelvic discomfort and the heart burn at this stage is more unbearable then the actual braxton hicks or lightning crotch sensations themselves. I just hope i make it through my birthing classes in september! 😂 this is my first baby and im hoping for a natural birth ❤ ive been told everything im experiencing is completely normal for the stage im in so im just enjoying the journey to the best of my abilities.
I’m 37w+ 2d . Had a successful ECV at 36w+ 6d. Started to experience period like pains in lower back and lower belly which come and go for a few hours and then stops completely from the night after turning baby till today. Also feels really tired these days. Does it means I’ll get dilated soon? Should I do any kind of exercises?
Thanks so much for sharing that blog post. It's very helpful because I am not in labor yet and have a purple line, and I wasn't sure it was the real thing or what it meant before labor. Very informative :)
Wow this couldn’t have come at a better time! I’m 39+3 and last night I was up with period like cramping off and on for about two hours. And a little bit more a while ago.
I just turned 39 weeks today! I’ve only have “contractions” once at 37 weeks and nothing else since. I have an appt this Friday but I’m hoping to give birth soon so I can avoid the induction conversation.
I’m only 33 weeks, and I have been experiencing cramps for about two days and have lost my mucus plug yesterday.. I’m hoping baby girl bakes a few more weeks
I just went to the hospital yesterday for pain in my back and abdomen and lightning crotch (34 weeks) I called my ob and went in I was having some contractions and didn’t even really feel anything so I just want to know what it feels like😅
40 weeks here, felt lightning crotch, menstrual-like cramps almost everyday and cervix is still closed. I had enough now. I did all I can and still no baby coming out
I know you might feel frustrated right now. I didn't give birth until 41+4. Trust that your body and your baby know when the right time is to start labour. Due dates are not an exact science. Only 4% of babies arrive on their due dates and that's just luck. The best thing you can do is relax. Go for a walk every day near to your home to help gravity pull your baby on top of your cervix to help it open. Also, stroke your tummy and speak to your baby. I did this every day after 40 weeks. "I'm looking forward to meeting you my baby, I'm ready for you now". This helped me to feel less anxious. I know you probably feel uncomfortable and tired but your baby can't stay in there forever. Try to enjoy the final days of your pregnancy as much as you can. Relaxation helps your mind and body know that you are ready to meet your baby. Stress can prevent things getting started. Breathe, walk, meditate, distract yourself by seeing and talking to friends and family. You can do this! 💪😍💓
I remember getting wave like period pains on my lower back - then I was having spotting pinkish blood and a bloody show. I was 39+3 weeks pregnant. On that day my waters were broken by the midwife and was put on the epidural + hormone drip. Had an Emergency C Section at the end as it was getting too long and baby showed signs of discharge twice.
@@wingc that is why he got distressed and i had an emergency c section... my induction wasn't necessary i asked for the induction i could've laboured naturally but i didnt let myself to do so
39 weeks and 1 day. No line 😩 . But I get pelvic and crotch pains. Mild lower belly cramps. Low back pain. Hopefully show signs of softening at my next appt.
Is the purple line prominent in AfricanAmerican or other Black and Brown women as well??? And if so, would the line be of a different shade… lighter or darker?
Thanks so much for your question and I'm sorry that I didn't talk about how the colours of the line can differ.. I only mentioned how it would look on white skin 🤦♀️ on black or brown skin the line would look more silvery/lighter coloured - compared to the rest of a woman's darker skin. This video from a black birth worker shows a photo of the line on a black woman in labour: fb.watch/lsmqhuu7Wa/ Hope this helps you ❤️🌹
39 + 1 & my only sign is cramps that lead to diarrhea. I’ve had diarrhea for the whole day. I’ve researched and found out that diarrhea is an early labour sign but I never expected it to go on for the whole day.
40weeks(40w1d in 5min), nothing yet but I have always had cramps my entire pregnancy. They always gas and #2's. After I use the bathroom, I am always good. My stools are much softer now.. baby ran out of space in there so he still moving but it's harder for him. Also it's hurt a lot down there so I been doing a lil kegels but mostly sitting down like a butterfly 🦋 which has helped the pain. No bloody show, no mucus plug... But idk yet... My first pregnancy was silent labor, my doctor at the ob told me I was in labor. This time, I feel like I won't even know but I want to know just in case.. scared it will be the same as my first..not knowing😳
Yes! It still applies but the colour will be silvery grey if you have darker skin. I'm sorry I didn't mention this in the video! Thanks so much for watching the videos on my channel I really appreciate your support 😊🙏🌹❣️
Pregnant with my first (37 weeks 5 days) I can’t wait to meet baby girl. I have been cramping and having Braxton hick, I do feel a little lightening too in my vaginal so I hope my cervix is opening I’m so anxious to meet baby girl 🥰❤️
This video was pretty helpful, but the last sign of dilation (space between the fundus and the bra line) should not be too accurate, as the body proportions affect this measurement greatly. I have a long torso, so probably I'll be able to fit more fingers in this space than any other woman with a shorter torso.
Loving the channel and the positive and prompt responses! 27 weeks with my second one and a short cervix (2.5cm) and am a 5'2 female. I saw your response that females below 5'4 deliver usually earlier than their due date. Do you have tips on what I can do to bake this one longer? My first arrived at 35w after my waters broke!
Sorry Anu, only just seen your message. I don't think there is anything you can really do to keep your baby in for longer as your baby will decide when the right time is to be born. It would be good, however, not to over exert yourself, avoid heavy lifting or anything strenuous in the third trimester which could cause premature labour. Also, don't bend over too much and avoid squatting. You may want to avoid birth ball exercises completely. Basically avoid anything that encourages your baby to press down harder on your cervix 😜 apologies for my delayed response! 💕🤦
Really!? I didn’t know about that I’m 5.2!! Hopefully it’s true cause I’m tired!!! And I make big baby’s my first one was 9.5 oz-22 inches long, and I gained 80 pounds and it looks like the same with baby girl closed to 80 lbs gained again and they said if she stays till my due date she might be a 9 lb too!
No, many women do not need to have an episiotomy. This procedure should only be performed if your doctor is concerned about your baby and thinks that they need to be born as quickly as possible. Your vagina is designed to stretch and open so your baby can come out so an episiotomy should only be carried out if medically necessary. If you have any more questions, please let me know!
I have been having serious lightning crotch and prodromal labor for going on three weeks. This is the third baby for me. I didn't experience any lightning crotch with the first two but did have a couple days of prodromal labor.
34 wks, 4 days here: I get lightening everyday. This has been going on for a few weeks, and it is very very painful. I almost cried one night because it kept going on for about 10 minutes. Also, I'm getting mild menstrual-like cramps in the evening (the lightening is usually in the evening too). Does this mean I'm starting to dilate?
Hi! Thanks for your questions. Given that you are 34 weeks, your cervix is most likely thinning out and softening at the moment not necessarily dilating. How tall are you? I ask because if you are under 5ft 4, it's more common for pregnant women to give birth before their due date so your labour may start sooner rather than later. It's always good to have your hospital bags ready by 36 weeks just to be on the safe side. It's most likely that the menstrual-like cramps are just aching that you're experiencing from your baby being low in your pelvis and your body is tired and achy after a busy day. However, do stay aware of your symptoms and keep monitoring what you are experiencing. Sorry you have been crying about the lightning crotch. It can be really painful at times. I remember! Having a warm bath and lying on my side on my sofa with loads of pillows in the evening helped to ease mine ❤️
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja Thank you so much for answering my questions! I am 5'2" and my instincts are telling me he'll be here sooner than later. I have all my bags packed. I am so excited!
The uterus goes down first at 36 from the contractions pushing the baby down. But then it goes up again? Its this the reason why I got bad heartburn in the evening and night when I experience contractions?
When people explain lighting crotch, I guess I’m so dumb I still don’t understand 😅. I have a pain in the crotch area that sometimes won’t let me walk and I’m considering sleeping sitting down until labor because I can barely move when I’m laying down because of the pain. It’s almost paralyzing my bottom area. After being up for a while it gets bearable. This all started when I started exercising and feeling the baby go down.
Thank you so much Anja for this video! I never knew you could check dilation in these ways! I’m 40 weeks today (due today) and just have some mild cramps and slight lightning sensation. I also noticed strips of mucus plug (but not a whole chunk of stuff) coming out - is this possibly me loosing some of it? I’m really hoping to not be medically induced!
Hi Zoe, thanks for your question and message 😃 Yes, it is possible for your mucus plug to come out little bits at a time. I'm sure your labour will start very soon. Your baby can't stay in your womb forever as you know 😜 There's no reason for you to feel pressured to be induced just because you've gone passed your due date. I was 10 days passed mine when I went into labour naturally. I asked for extra monitoring in the hospital to check all was okay with my baby and then I just relaxed, had patience and said "My baby will come when she is ready" and she did 😋 Wishing you all the best and hope your birth experience goes well ❤️
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja thank you so much for your encouragement! I started feeling a bit impatient but it’s true my baby will come at her own perfect time!
I had membrane sweep and was 50% effaced 1 cm dilated when they did it. I started losing mucus plug two days later. I have constant back pain and some contractions at night but nothing too painful. I’m getting induced in 4 days I hope I go naturally before… so far I only have back pain that’s constant …
I hope everything goes well for you. Do you know if your baby is in a head down but back- to- back position in your womb? Sometimes constant back pain can mean you're in labour and having contractions (which are felt in your back rather than the front of your body), if your baby is back-to- back that is. ❤️
I just xame across this video and i feel so reassured! I'm 38 weeks and been having lightning crotch for about two weeks (baby engaged at 35 weeks). I've now started to have intense and irregular period like cramps all day and night for around 4/5 days. Hopefully bqby isnt too far away 😊❤
@@fairytaleviola @fairytaleviola I gave birth on 2nd December to a beautiful baby boy! Even though he's my first, I was only in labour for 12 hours total with only 10 minutes of pushing 😊
Hi! The only way I can describe it is like an achy muscle that you've overworked (like when you've done exercise and your muscles ache the next day) in early labour, contractions will feel like that in your bikini line area. But if you never experience period cramps you may not feel your early labour contractions so just want to make you aware of that ❤️
I’m 33 weeks, I lost my mucus plug and been having low back pain and light mild cramping where it gets hard to walk, I hope I don’t go to labor anytime soon is too early
Your baby has a greater chance to be ok if you do go into labor I had my second at 31 weeks . I’m now 25weeks and my ob told me today internally my cervix is closed but externally it’s 1cm so I’m just hoping to not have this baby any time soon . Prayers to you ❤
I have Polhydramnios so I've been having Braxton Hicks contractions since 33 weeks as well as lightning crotch. Hoping I can make it to my scheduled c section at 39 weeks.
I made it to 39 weeks! Baby boy decided he couldn't wait until my scheduled time of 2 pm and my water broke at 2:30 AM! He was born at 5:08 AM weighing 9 lbs 1 oz with a full head of hair!
I’ll be 33 weeks pregnant tomorrow and was very intrigued by the purple line, enough that I checked myself. Looks like I already have one that, at my closest measurement, is about 4.5 cm long. Does this mean I’m close to labor? This is my first pregnancy so I’m not sure what to expect though I haven’t lost my mucus plug or felt any contractions yet. Any help? Thanks!
Hi! Thanks for the question. The purple line isn't an exact science but it can be a sign of cervical dilation though it's usually a sign of cervical dilation during labour itself. How tall are you? Shorter woman can go into labour sooner than taller women. I wouldn't worry too much but obviously if you experience what you think are contractions before 37 weeks, do go to the hospital ❤️👍
I get these signs but it’s not all the time . And you could tell my belly dropped . Increased discharge but I’m sure the plug is still intact . I’m 38+1 and I’m done. I want her out and in my arms ! I’m miserable 😅
At 20weeks (on a Monday) my cervix was so short @ 1.6 that my doctor sent me to her colleague at the hospital by the next Monday because he is a specialist and when he did the vaginal ultrasound again I was 0.8!!!! I was asked to go in the next day so he can put a cerclage in because I was about to loose my baby without pain or anything because of an incompetent cervix. I'm 25wks now and this is my first babe and I was so scared but I'm in total bed rest now for the rest of the pregnancy till my 35 week that he takes the cerclage out so I can have him.
I'm so glad that you have been looked after and that the cerclage is protecting your baby from coming too soon. What are you doing during your bed rest? Hope you're okay ❤️
I guess every woman is different I’m 40 weeks n no dilation is my first baby n I feel fine no pain some cramps but nothing major I’ve tried many things but I don’t dilate and baby didn’t want to come out lol
It's to do with the muscles in your womb. They draw up towards the top of your abdomen, during contractions, when you're in the cervical dilation stage of labour. ❤️
I'm 30 weeks. And on the ultrasound it showed I'm cervically dilated (1.7cm) . To my surprise, I had no symptoms at all. So I'm advised complete bed rest now till my due date. I still wonder what triggered it .
I'm not sure what could have caused your cervix to be dilated already. It's good that you are resting and following your care teams advice though. How are you feeling being in bed? Are you able to pass the time ok? ❤️
Yes. Resting surely does help when I had word with various people who've gone through something similar. It's probably a sign to rest and observe the beautiful things around. No complaints. ✨
@@goodvibeswithshriya6501 I'm glad you are enjoying your rest 😍 Take care and if you need me at all or having any questions about labour/birth do let me know. Here to help if I can ❤️
I don’t understand the funds level. I’ve been told that when your baby is engaged down your cervix, the baby is lower and can show as low. If that’s the case, why is the fundus level inverted? If five would one finger measurement? Hope someone can explain it to me since I’ve been feeling a lot of contractions, pressure in my hips and pelvis, and lightning crotch. Thanks!
@@flowerglow8262 hi! Your fundus level changes during labour because your contractions pull your womb muscles up during cervical dilation. So, this can change the level of your tummy from lower to higher up towards your breasts. 👍💖
I’m 3 days from my due date with baby #3. I’ve been getting lightening crotch for many weeks but it’s getting progressively more painful to the point where I am crying. It feels more painful than my labor with #2! Feels like part of my body is trying to push the baby out, but another part is blocking that from happening. Hoping this baby comes soon! First two babies came 7, and 2 days late.
Oh darling, I feel for you! Sounds tough! What you're feeling will be pressure on your pelvic floor muscles. They tend to get a bit more strained and weakened the more pregnancies you experience but your cervix will still be wanting to keep your baby inside a bit longer and that will explain the feeling of restriction too. Are you doing daily pelvic floor exercises? That may help to take a bit of pressure off and alleviate the discomfort a bit for you. You'll have your baby in your arms soon, it can't be many more days of waiting now 💕👍🌹
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja thank you! Definitely experienced some level of this with my first two, but this is on a whole other level. Makes sense it would increase with later pregnancies. I’ve been doing some pelvic floor exercises but I’ll make sure to do some more. 👍🏼
You can really dilate whenever but just bcs you dilate doesn’t mean your in active labor. I know woman who dilated at 35/36 and went over 40 weeks due to them not dilating any more than what they did till active labor/day they gave birth.
I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant today I've notice I Weeing more and been having alot of cramping and lower back pain my pelvic is so uncomfortable I keep feeling a pushing in my pelvic
Hi! Thanks for your message. If you have darker skin, your line will be silvery grey: facebook.com/share/v/87Lh39dEK4WDLZiS/ Please check out the link for more info ☺️💕
@@chitraingle265 It was! I was having contractions already 3 or 4 days before the real labor went on. I went into labor the night of exactly 40 weeks. Then 40+1 gave birth.
I'm experiencing vaginal pain from past 1week and I'm in 35 weeks of ny pregnancy.what does it shows ? Am i near to labour?At which week delivery may happen by experiencing these pain in 35weeks .
It's impossible to know when your labour will start. It may happen soon or it may take 5-6 more weeks. If you are worried about your vaginal pain, please speak to your doctor 💞🌹👍
I'm 31 weeks and I'm having lightning crotch all morning, should I go to hospital? I also from time to time experience menstrual cramping, I feel baby very down moving and I don't know what to do now it's not time yet 😮
🤔 Interesting... Well obviously your body is doing something or you wouldn't be showing these signs. Did you get checked by your doctor today? Sometimes when you get checked internally by a doctor, it can be a bit uncomfortable and your cervix could have closed up a little bit. That's the only thing I can think of. Don't worry, your body knows what to do and I'm sure your cervix is softening and will start to open soon 💖
ive seen once or twice a rose-red spotting on my underwear, like last week (im 35 weeks now) - can that mean it was the start to loosing the mucus plug little by little? Since then i haven’t noticed anything in color on my underwear
It's probably the 'bloody show'. It's a sign that your cervix is starting to dilate. If the rose-red spotting has mucus mixed with it, you are probably losing pieces of your mucus plug too 💖
I’m a bit confused about the bra line one to check how dilated you are.. do you measure from under your boobs? It looks like it’s from the nipple on the video but we all have different nipple positions?! Some perkier than others? Or do we measure from under the boobs where our bra wire would sit? Thank you xxx
I am 37 weeks 4 days... Yesterday i found out that baby is measuring at 8lbs already due to GD... Hopefully he will be coming soon.... Don't want him to big lol
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Im wondering how do you feel about vba3c?
Thank you 😊❤️
@@queenbri2137 hi! Thanks for subscribing! I fully support VBAC and think they are 100% possible! Just because you had a cesarean birth doesn't mean you have to have another one (unless you want to). Are you hoping for a VBAC? X
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja I really am excited to keep watching your videos and yes I have had 3 csection but I’m not trying for another this pregnancy but my doctors are not supportive at all
I’m just educating myself as much as possible as again and I will be 36 weeks in a few days❤️
@@queenbri2137 what country are you in? So sorry to hear you don't feel supported to have a VBAC 😕 You can absolutely do it though 💪😍
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja I’m in the Chicago area
15 days ago I delivered my 5th baby by VBAC. It’s very smooth and easy delivery, I didn’t push at all, baby came out itself. 😊 I watched your many videos it helped.
Huge congratulations! I'm so happy for you 🤩💖 And so happy that the videos helped. 💞🌹
This is what I want
Cervix open on its own, vagina stretch on it's own without tear and baby come out on it's own without pushing through the intercession of mother of perpetual help, Mary in Jesus mighty name, Amen.
Pls is there any tip that helped you achieve that? Though I know God is miraculous
Gap and delivery week???
@@Ali.ch786 2 yrs gap and 39 weeks pregnancy
I’ve been wanting to try VBAC for this pregnancy. But my doctor is discouraging me. This would be my 3rd baby. My last one is 13 years old. I want to experience a regular birth. And I’m not up for a long painful recovery with another C-section 😖 I’m gonna start eating my dates at 36 weeks and drinking raspberry leaf tea. I’m encouraging my baby to keep moving down with some exercises. Wish me luck! 🤞🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾
It’s the most unique video I have seen so far. Thank you for the amazing insights. ❤️
You're most welcome 🤗😁
So informative, thank you so much! I really want to avoid physical examinations during labour to reduce the risk of infection. I wonder if you could include photos rather than illustrations in future videos? I couldn't visualise what you meant for the last two tips without doing online research. Thanks again for sharing your wisdom and helping pregnant women make informed decisions!
Thanks so much for your message and your feedback. The only issue I have with photos is the copyright. If I used other people's photos I may have problems with ownership of my video but I will check with RUclips about the policies. Glad you found the video informative anyway ♥️♥️♥️
I want to know what are the reasons the cervix doesn't dilate even after pitocin and patient ends up with C section..
I loved joining in with your meditation video earlier today.
I am at 38 weeks pregnant 🤰 and wanted to induce labour naturally, but no signs of contractions, only braxton Hicks and period feeling of cramps. Your videos are very calm and informative. Thank you for your efforts and time.
Thanks so much for your message! 💕 How many weeks pregnant are you? I'm sure your labour will start soon ❤️❤️❤️
First time pregnant here. I'm 38+6 today, and yesterday I had over 30 lightning crotches and braxton hicks. And I feel so much pressure in my pelvic area. I've had around 10 braxton hicks throughout my whole pregnancy.. I'm guessing baby is coming soon ❤️
Definitely! 30 lightning crotches feels intense. Stay strong Bjork! Are you in Iceland? I've never been but would love to visit some day 💝💞👍
@Hypnobirthing With Anja Thank you Anja 🥰 I'm 39+2 today and still no baby girl. Just lots of braxton hicks and lightning crotches again today. We are from the Faroe Islands, which is close to Iceland ❤️❤️
@@BjorkBrex If baby isn't here already, then you are so close! Wishing you and your family all the best!!
@bash9032 baby girl arrived two days after my comment. She's perfect and the birth was also perfect and quick ❤️
@@BjorkBrex wow! Huge congratulations Bjork! ❤️🌹👶
Omg thank you for telling me /us about the purple line!!! 😭💕
You're welcome! 💕
40 weeks tomorrow with a low baby (-1 station) but no dilation since my last check. This is so helpful
Really happy to hear that the video has helped you Breana 💕
what does it mean if you have -2station? thank u.
@@zairahdelute2438 it means how far down the baby is. The closer you are to +3, the closer you are to having your baby.
Hi Anja! I had my baby boy last week, 15th Feb .Thank you for all your prep videos, also for the meditation videos as I used many to help me get through my labour. Ended up with an emergency c-section due to unforeseen circumstances, but happy my baby boy is finally here
Hi honey, thanks so much for your message! Glad the meditations were helpful! Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy 😍 How is the healing process going for you following your C-section? Xxxx
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja I'm walking better now and sitting up but feeding is painful, and the postpartum contractions are intense today! 😪
@@rebekah3090 oh honey! Sorry the feeding is painful. Is it the breastfeeding and sore nipples? It can take a few weeks to get used to it. It took me 6 weeks to get into breastfeeding. Very hard work at first, nearly gave up. Have you got a maternity/feeding pillow?
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja breastfeeding itself is ok, slightly sore nipples, but otherwise we're doing quite well there... it's more painful to sit after having an incision and not really be able to lean back as much as I would like into the sofa. I know it takes time so will definitely keep persevering! Xx
@@rebekah3090 you are very strong and brave. I hope the discomfort goes away fast and hope the incision heals well xxxx
Never knew about the purple 💜 line. Such powerful knowledge. I'm 38 weeks pregnant, and feel so ready. Thanks a lot 👍🏽
@@brendablack640 you're welcome! Just to let you know, if you have darker skin the line will look grey/silvery: facebook.com/share/v/nwJLgbMMKE8THjNS/
Sorry I didn't mention this in the video ❣️
I’m 37 weeks & 5 days pregnant. I’ve been having period like cramping almost every night. It seems to get stronger. Also, Braxton hicks that tend to happen at night. I pray labor starts soon to avoid being induced by 39 weeks. I want to happen naturally since with my daughter I haven’t really experienced any of this and was induced by 38 weeks due to high blood pressure.
I’m 34 weeks today and they have said they’re going to induce me at 39 weeks if he’s not here by then, hopefully we can both give birth naturally!!
I drink raspberry tea once in the morning and again before bed
I did an exercise on RUclips called activating labor by baby tv I believe it helped a lot and I’m currently in labor I did it for about a week and the exercise I did them the same as the tea
@@Xbianxax I am taking raspberry leaf supplements. It feels like I'm on a juice cleanse. I feel like they do help though 🥴🤞🏻
@@LHMLHW I felt the same
Try the exercise they helped a lot People also
Said the way 4 dates a day but I got disgusted by them I was 3cm when I came to the hospital
I'm going thru the exact same thing now. I get induced in 9 days. I nervous and would much rather this happen naturally but my blood pressure just isn't gonna let that happen. I'm really nervous and just want my baby to be healthy.
So glad this video just popped up in my recommendations ❤ learnt alot
Thanks so much for watching it! Hope your pregnancy is going well 💖💕🌹
Its been hard but your videos are making it easier. I am towards the end of it though, gladly 😂@HypnobirthingWithAnja
I am 40 weeks 1 day today..started getting a bloody show this morning and also am experiencing period pain like cramps..am a first time mom and been watching a lot of your videos..I am trying not to panic bcs am fully educated from watching you.am hoping to see my baby in a day or so
You can do this! Believe in yourself. Breathe through all your contractions slowly. Relax your face, jaw and shoulders. You are strong and you can give birth to your baby smoothly and calmly! Trust yourself! I believe in you and I know you can do it 💖💖💖
Bye
This comes just right! I'm very excited to see your video and find out if I am already dilated. Sure feels like something is happening 'down there', but at 38+3 I am just so excited to meet our daughter that I think every twich could be the beginning of labour 🙈 I will try to relax and stay calm, with the help of your meditations. Thank you so much, again, your voice has helped me so much through my whole pregnancy!
Thanks so much Cynthia! Really glad to have been able to help you throughout your pregnancy. Not long until you meet your little one! Enjoy the final days of your pregnancy ❤️❤️❤️
Omg why am I watching it at 38 +3 weeks pregnant gotta be induced this week...
girls, I am 38.3 too. what a coincidence? haha
I am 14 weeks with my 3rd, had a good experience with hypnobirthing with my 2nd. Thank you for these wonderful information. Refreshing, relearning :)
Thank you so much.. this video saved me from panicking.. right now i am experiencing all these symptoms.. thanks again.
You're welcome Varshha! 💓
Perfect timing. I'm 38w3d today and I've been feeling period cramps for the last few nights. And contractions that are 5 min apart that last for a few hours, but then stops by the next morning. Happened 3 days in a row, each night is more intense than the night before.
I'm positive I'm going to start labor soon but I've been unsure because no mucus plug, no bloody show, etc.
But after watching this video, im positive I have started dilating already. It feels like I have! I feel a pain in my crotch that is unlike other pain I've felt throughout the pregnancy. Like my vagina is literally opening. Fingers crossed labor starts soon 🙏🏻
Hi Kristen, thanks for your message 😍 Yes! It definitely sounds like your baby is very low and engaged in your pelvis putting pressure on your cervix ❤️ You may be experiencing a bit of prodromal labour. Do you know what position your baby is in? Are they head down? 💕
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja hii Anja! I'm watching some of your other videos now. Yes baby is head down, she's been head down for a while now :)
@@kissykrissy33 that's good! Glad to hear that 💕 The most important thing is to try and go for a walk every day to get your baby more engaged and to listen to pregnancy meditations to help you relax in the final days of your pregnancy. I hope everything goes well for you when your baby girl decides to arrive! Will you let me know when she's been born? Xxx
Any update? 😄
@@toria.4613 no baby yet 😭😭
I didnt have any of these signs when i had my 5 other kids, im currently 33 weeks with my 6th, i have been having contractions since about 28 weeks
I’ve had all of these except for the bloody show (even a huge purple line) but unfortunately they didn’t mean anything for me
Well… my husband just measured my purple line… I’m 37 weeks and already around 3cm! It’s amazing that he just got a tape measure and did it, no questions asked 🤣🤣🤣
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂👏🏻
@@alejandralemus7517 literally haha. I was like “measure my crack please” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love it!!
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja I gave birth! 41 weeks and 4 days !
@@Amysbiblereads congratulations 🎉😍😍
wow, I got 3 out of 4 symptoms of dilating. it's coming soon. Currently at 38.3 weeks.
This is so exciting! Hope the birth goes well when it happens 😍💞
I’m 37 +3 days today and will be induced next week at 38 weeks due to GD, can’t wait to meet my baby girl. Your videos have helped me a lot especially the meditation ones.
Thank you so much for your message 😍 I hope that your induction goes well. Sending you lots of love and hugs. So exciting that you'll meet your baby girl soon ❤️
Me too! 1 more day!
I all of a sudden noticed a purple line today (which was not there before) measuring around 3-6 cm dilated based on your chart. I'm not in labour. Im 41+6 days. Lots of intense cramping and false labour contractions on and off. Bloody show and intense lightning have been consistent since I had a membrane sweep 24 hours ago. Hoping the line in a postive sign that things are starting to progress. I've had prodromal labour since 37 weeks. Contractions daily - at times it's been intense and timable. I've trained myself to ignore almost all the feelings. I'm sure I'll know when it's the real deal. I'm desperately trying to avoid induction as I am a VBAC/TOLAC and understand how interventions can greatly reduce my chance of a successful vaginal birth.
Yes it's definitely going in the right direction. It can't be much longer for you now 💓
Any updates?
Very similar story. My first was 41+5 and I was unnecessarily induced which led to a cesarean. I’m now 40+1 praying for a VBAC
I'm 35 weeks and experience the meld cramping 😭😭 but thanks you so much for this video ps baby #3 ❤️
when did you go into labor after feeling the first cramps? i’m 35 weeks too and felt that yesterday!
When did you have urs I've had these cramps n contractions fr 3wks I'm 35wks
Am 34 wks and I feel this mild cramping
I am 5'4, and im 32 weeks pregnant lightning crotch happens regularly, and mild cramping is sporadic at best. The lightning crotch isnt painful for me its just like oh snap that just happened like someone came up and surprised you type feeling. Everyone i know has been telling me they think im going to have my baby before my due date which is October 7th. No one thinks im making to october. My fiance and my boss are like imma give it 6 more weeks. Lol not going to lie the pelvic discomfort and the heart burn at this stage is more unbearable then the actual braxton hicks or lightning crotch sensations themselves. I just hope i make it through my birthing classes in september! 😂 this is my first baby and im hoping for a natural birth ❤ ive been told everything im experiencing is completely normal for the stage im in so im just enjoying the journey to the best of my abilities.
I’m 37w+ 2d . Had a successful ECV at 36w+ 6d. Started to experience period like pains in lower back and lower belly which come and go for a few hours and then stops completely from the night after turning baby till today. Also feels really tired these days. Does it means I’ll get dilated soon? Should I do any kind of exercises?
I'm 29 weeks today and I've experienced lighting crotch over the last 2 months including a drop feeling in my lower belly.
11:10 pm May 23rd 2024 I did this work out I will come back when I give birth to see if it worked !! Currently 38 weeks and 1 day pregnant
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Did it work?
Overdue, have had all these symptoms everyday for weeks and weeks. Still nothing. Over it.
OMG…me too, same boat! Do you have an update? 🙏🏽
Any solution for this complain because I am experiencing this since last week
Thanks so much for sharing that blog post. It's very helpful because I am not in labor yet and have a purple line, and I wasn't sure it was the real thing or what it meant before labor. Very informative :)
Wow this couldn’t have come at a better time! I’m 39+3 and last night I was up with period like cramping off and on for about two hours. And a little bit more a while ago.
You've got this! Hope your labour goes well! Good luck with everything, you will be great I am sure:)
I just turned 39 weeks today! I’ve only have “contractions” once at 37 weeks and nothing else since. I have an appt this Friday but I’m hoping to give birth soon so I can avoid the induction conversation.
Good luck! Hopefully you can avoid an induction. If there is no medically justified reason for induction you don't have to be induced xxx
I am feeling period like cramps since 34th week i am currently 35 weeks 3days pregnant
36 weeks 1 day. Going for group B today. I’m having some symptoms of dilation, hopefully I’m dilated 🥴
Sending you love and best wishes. Hope everything goes well xxx
I’m only 33 weeks, and I have been experiencing cramps for about two days and have lost my mucus plug yesterday.. I’m hoping baby girl bakes a few more weeks
Did she end up coming out soon after this?
@@rosyapplekitchen635 nope. She came after 40 weeks and 1 day.
@@rosyapplekitchen635 apparently it’s normal to lose a mucus plug early and I was having Braxton hicks contractions
6 months rn ! Glad I found u! 💐😍
Welcome! Thanks for watching ❤️ How is your pregnancy going Ar'reyona? 🌹
I just went to the hospital yesterday for pain in my back and abdomen and lightning crotch (34 weeks) I called my ob and went in I was having some contractions and didn’t even really feel anything so I just want to know what it feels like😅
40 weeks here, felt lightning crotch, menstrual-like cramps almost everyday and cervix is still closed. I had enough now. I did all I can and still no baby coming out
I know you might feel frustrated right now. I didn't give birth until 41+4. Trust that your body and your baby know when the right time is to start labour. Due dates are not an exact science. Only 4% of babies arrive on their due dates and that's just luck. The best thing you can do is relax. Go for a walk every day near to your home to help gravity pull your baby on top of your cervix to help it open. Also, stroke your tummy and speak to your baby. I did this every day after 40 weeks. "I'm looking forward to meeting you my baby, I'm ready for you now". This helped me to feel less anxious. I know you probably feel uncomfortable and tired but your baby can't stay in there forever. Try to enjoy the final days of your pregnancy as much as you can. Relaxation helps your mind and body know that you are ready to meet your baby. Stress can prevent things getting started. Breathe, walk, meditate, distract yourself by seeing and talking to friends and family. You can do this! 💪😍💓
I remember getting wave like period pains on my lower back - then I was having spotting pinkish blood and a bloody show. I was 39+3 weeks pregnant. On that day my waters were broken by the midwife and was put on the epidural + hormone drip. Had an Emergency C Section at the end as it was getting too long and baby showed signs of discharge twice.
Having epidural may result in longer labor....
@@wingc that is why he got distressed and i had an emergency c section... my induction wasn't necessary i asked for the induction
i could've laboured naturally but i didnt let myself to do so
39 weeks and 1 day. No line 😩 . But I get pelvic and crotch pains. Mild lower belly cramps. Low back pain. Hopefully show signs of softening at my next appt.
Is the purple line prominent in AfricanAmerican or other Black and Brown women as well??? And if so, would the line be of a different shade… lighter or darker?
Thanks so much for your question and I'm sorry that I didn't talk about how the colours of the line can differ.. I only mentioned how it would look on white skin 🤦♀️ on black or brown skin the line would look more silvery/lighter coloured - compared to the rest of a woman's darker skin. This video from a black birth worker shows a photo of the line on a black woman in labour:
fb.watch/lsmqhuu7Wa/
Hope this helps you ❤️🌹
Was looking for this information ! Thank you !
39 + 1 & my only sign is cramps that lead to diarrhea. I’ve had diarrhea for the whole day. I’ve researched and found out that diarrhea is an early labour sign but I never expected it to go on for the whole day.
Yes pooping alot is a sign that your body is trying to get rid of as much waste as possible for more comfortable labour 💓
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja thank you for responding
@@qas9546 you're welcome 💕
40weeks(40w1d in 5min), nothing yet but I have always had cramps my entire pregnancy. They always gas and #2's. After I use the bathroom, I am always good. My stools are much softer now.. baby ran out of space in there so he still moving but it's harder for him. Also it's hurt a lot down there so I been doing a lil kegels but mostly sitting down like a butterfly 🦋 which has helped the pain. No bloody show, no mucus plug... But idk yet... My first pregnancy was silent labor, my doctor at the ob told me I was in labor. This time, I feel like I won't even know but I want to know just in case.. scared it will be the same as my first..not knowing😳
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Thanks you for all you share, does the purple line apply to African women, or dark skinned women?
Yes! It still applies but the colour will be silvery grey if you have darker skin. I'm sorry I didn't mention this in the video! Thanks so much for watching the videos on my channel I really appreciate your support 😊🙏🌹❣️
Pregnant with my first (37 weeks 5 days) I can’t wait to meet baby girl. I have been cramping and having Braxton hick, I do feel a little lightening too in my vaginal so I hope my cervix is opening I’m so anxious to meet baby girl 🥰❤️
Do kegels and or the butterfly pose.. you'll feel better
This video was pretty helpful, but the last sign of dilation (space between the fundus and the bra line) should not be too accurate, as the body proportions affect this measurement greatly. I have a long torso, so probably I'll be able to fit more fingers in this space than any other woman with a shorter torso.
Loving the channel and the positive and prompt responses! 27 weeks with my second one and a short cervix (2.5cm) and am a 5'2 female. I saw your response that females below 5'4 deliver usually earlier than their due date. Do you have tips on what I can do to bake this one longer? My first arrived at 35w after my waters broke!
Sorry Anu, only just seen your message. I don't think there is anything you can really do to keep your baby in for longer as your baby will decide when the right time is to be born. It would be good, however, not to over exert yourself, avoid heavy lifting or anything strenuous in the third trimester which could cause premature labour. Also, don't bend over too much and avoid squatting. You may want to avoid birth ball exercises completely. Basically avoid anything that encourages your baby to press down harder on your cervix 😜 apologies for my delayed response! 💕🤦
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja Thank you so much for the reply, Anja! you're the best
Really!? I didn’t know about that I’m 5.2!! Hopefully it’s true cause I’m tired!!! And I make big baby’s my first one was 9.5 oz-22 inches long, and I gained 80 pounds and it looks like the same with baby girl closed to 80 lbs gained again and they said if she stays till my due date she might be a 9 lb too!
Great info thanks
I am 40w3d now, but still waiting for my baby comes out .
Did your baby come out?
Thank you soo much ❤,
I just have a question..
Does everyone has to undergo Episiotomy?
No, many women do not need to have an episiotomy. This procedure should only be performed if your doctor is concerned about your baby and thinks that they need to be born as quickly as possible. Your vagina is designed to stretch and open so your baby can come out so an episiotomy should only be carried out if medically necessary. If you have any more questions, please let me know!
I hadn’t heard this about the fundus and bra line measurement! So cool!!!
I know! I didn't know about it when I was pregnant but I found out about it through my studies as a hypnobirthing teacher. 💓
Very helpful video thank you!I'm 39 weeks and 3days pregnant, I just want to turn my OP baby to OA position.
I'm 40 +4days can't wait for my baby♥️
Really excited for you 😃😍👶❤️
Very informative 💗 thanks dear 😍
You're most welcome 💓
I have been having serious lightning crotch and prodromal labor for going on three weeks. This is the third baby for me. I didn't experience any lightning crotch with the first two but did have a couple days of prodromal labor.
34 wks, 4 days here: I get lightening everyday. This has been going on for a few weeks, and it is very very painful. I almost cried one night because it kept going on for about 10 minutes. Also, I'm getting mild menstrual-like cramps in the evening (the lightening is usually in the evening too). Does this mean I'm starting to dilate?
Hi! Thanks for your questions. Given that you are 34 weeks, your cervix is most likely thinning out and softening at the moment not necessarily dilating. How tall are you? I ask because if you are under 5ft 4, it's more common for pregnant women to give birth before their due date so your labour may start sooner rather than later. It's always good to have your hospital bags ready by 36 weeks just to be on the safe side. It's most likely that the menstrual-like cramps are just aching that you're experiencing from your baby being low in your pelvis and your body is tired and achy after a busy day. However, do stay aware of your symptoms and keep monitoring what you are experiencing. Sorry you have been crying about the lightning crotch. It can be really painful at times. I remember! Having a warm bath and lying on my side on my sofa with loads of pillows in the evening helped to ease mine ❤️
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja Thank you so much for answering my questions! I am 5'2" and my instincts are telling me he'll be here sooner than later. I have all my bags packed. I am so excited!
@@QueenSchatz you're welcome! Glad I can help! Let me know when your baby arrives ❤️ I hope the birth goes really well for you. 🤰👶😍
@@QueenSchatz did you have the baby yet?
@@davidasingleton8943 Nope, no baby yet. I'll come back as soon as he arrives
The uterus goes down first at 36 from the contractions pushing the baby down. But then it goes up again? Its this the reason why I got bad heartburn in the evening and night when I experience contractions?
38+5. My 1st baby came at 38+6 so I am thinking this baby will come any day now.
When people explain lighting crotch, I guess I’m so dumb I still don’t understand 😅. I have a pain in the crotch area that sometimes won’t let me walk and I’m considering sleeping sitting down until labor because I can barely move when I’m laying down because of the pain. It’s almost paralyzing my bottom area. After being up for a while it gets bearable. This all started when I started exercising and feeling the baby go down.
Maybe Pelvic Girdle Pain
Thank you so much Anja for this video! I never knew you could check dilation in these ways! I’m 40 weeks today (due today) and just have some mild cramps and slight lightning sensation. I also noticed strips of mucus plug (but not a whole chunk of stuff) coming out - is this possibly me loosing some of it? I’m really hoping to not be medically induced!
Hi Zoe, thanks for your question and message 😃 Yes, it is possible for your mucus plug to come out little bits at a time. I'm sure your labour will start very soon. Your baby can't stay in your womb forever as you know 😜 There's no reason for you to feel pressured to be induced just because you've gone passed your due date. I was 10 days passed mine when I went into labour naturally. I asked for extra monitoring in the hospital to check all was okay with my baby and then I just relaxed, had patience and said "My baby will come when she is ready" and she did 😋 Wishing you all the best and hope your birth experience goes well ❤️
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja thank you so much for your encouragement! I started feeling a bit impatient but it’s true my baby will come at her own perfect time!
@@rescsuyiliu yes she will! Believe in your body and you baby. They will know when the time is right. 💓
I had membrane sweep and was 50% effaced 1 cm dilated when they did it. I started losing mucus plug two days later. I have constant back pain and some contractions at night but nothing too painful. I’m getting induced in 4 days I hope I go naturally before… so far I only have back pain that’s constant …
I hope everything goes well for you. Do you know if your baby is in a head down but back- to- back position in your womb? Sometimes constant back pain can mean you're in labour and having contractions (which are felt in your back rather than the front of your body), if your baby is back-to- back that is. ❤️
38 weeks complete...but no pain.
No need to worry! Your body will do its job in its own time. It's good that you are feeling comfortable in the final weeks of your pregnancy 💕
I just xame across this video and i feel so reassured! I'm 38 weeks and been having lightning crotch for about two weeks (baby engaged at 35 weeks). I've now started to have intense and irregular period like cramps all day and night for around 4/5 days. Hopefully bqby isnt too far away 😊❤
How did it go in the end
@@fairytaleviola @fairytaleviola I gave birth on 2nd December to a beautiful baby boy! Even though he's my first, I was only in labour for 12 hours total with only 10 minutes of pushing 😊
Natural birth?
Can you provide a different description of how contractions may feel like? I’ve never had period cramps before.
Hi! The only way I can describe it is like an achy muscle that you've overworked (like when you've done exercise and your muscles ache the next day) in early labour, contractions will feel like that in your bikini line area. But if you never experience period cramps you may not feel your early labour contractions so just want to make you aware of that ❤️
Similar to the pain of a tummy ache
It’s like a lower back ache which comes to your pelvic area
Wow never heard of purple line thanks my 3rd baby x
You're welcome! Just to let you know, if you have darker skin, the purple line will be look silvery grey in colour 👍💞
I lost my mucous plug at 36 weeks and I’m 39 weeks pregnant. I’m 2cm. Been doing a lot of walking
Me too
They can regrow.
Just checked.. 36 weeks tomorrow and no purple line but the lightning crotch is REAL!
Please talk about the hook effect, my cause is PCOS
I’m 33 weeks, I lost my mucus plug and been having low back pain and light mild cramping where it gets hard to walk, I hope I don’t go to labor anytime soon is too early
Your baby has a greater chance to be ok if you do go into labor I had my second at 31 weeks . I’m now 25weeks and my ob told me today internally my cervix is closed but externally it’s 1cm so I’m just hoping to not have this baby any time soon . Prayers to you ❤
I have Polhydramnios so I've been having Braxton Hicks contractions since 33 weeks as well as lightning crotch. Hoping I can make it to my scheduled c section at 39 weeks.
I hope so too! Sending you my best wishes for a really joyful C-section birth 💞💞💞
I made it to 39 weeks! Baby boy decided he couldn't wait until my scheduled time of 2 pm and my water broke at 2:30 AM! He was born at 5:08 AM weighing 9 lbs 1 oz with a full head of hair!
@@sharkbait3944 amazing news! Congratulations 🎉❤️😍👶
i didnt know you dialate before labor or the purple line
Yes your cervix can start opening a bit before labour starts 💞😊
I’ll be 33 weeks pregnant tomorrow and was very intrigued by the purple line, enough that I checked myself. Looks like I already have one that, at my closest measurement, is about 4.5 cm long. Does this mean I’m close to labor? This is my first pregnancy so I’m not sure what to expect though I haven’t lost my mucus plug or felt any contractions yet. Any help? Thanks!
Hi! Thanks for the question. The purple line isn't an exact science but it can be a sign of cervical dilation though it's usually a sign of cervical dilation during labour itself. How tall are you? Shorter woman can go into labour sooner than taller women. I wouldn't worry too much but obviously if you experience what you think are contractions before 37 weeks, do go to the hospital ❤️👍
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja I’m 5’1”. That was my second thought haha. Thank you very much!
@@oliviareames1500 oh ok! Women under 5ft 4 usually give birth before their due dates so do keep a look out for labour signs. 💓👍
I’m 5’3” and my first was born at 41W and 1 day whereas my 2nd had to get induced at 41W and 1day but gave birth the next day
I get these signs but it’s not all the time . And you could tell my belly dropped . Increased discharge but I’m sure the plug is still intact . I’m 38+1 and I’m done. I want her out and in my arms ! I’m miserable 😅
At 20weeks (on a Monday) my cervix was so short @ 1.6 that my doctor sent me to her colleague at the hospital by the next Monday because he is a specialist and when he did the vaginal ultrasound again I was 0.8!!!! I was asked to go in the next day so he can put a cerclage in because I was about to loose my baby without pain or anything because of an incompetent cervix. I'm 25wks now and this is my first babe and I was so scared but I'm in total bed rest now for the rest of the pregnancy till my 35 week that he takes the cerclage out so I can have him.
I'm so glad that you have been looked after and that the cerclage is protecting your baby from coming too soon. What are you doing during your bed rest? Hope you're okay ❤️
I guess every woman is different I’m 40 weeks n no dilation is my first baby n I feel fine no pain some cramps but nothing major I’ve tried many things but I don’t dilate and baby didn’t want to come out lol
why would space shrink between funds and bra line the more dilated you are? wouldn't it be the opposite?
It's to do with the muscles in your womb. They draw up towards the top of your abdomen, during contractions, when you're in the cervical dilation stage of labour. ❤️
36 weeks 4 days gone but too much pain in viginal bones cant sleep well but no discharge nothing else
Well when you check the bra line do you do it standing or sitting down ?
I wonder if the purple line concept works in dark skinned women.
It does but the colour is different. It will be silvery coloured on dark skin. Please check out this video: fb.watch/o7uEvvQA2g/
Hope that helps 💕👍
I’m 37 +4 I’m already 3cm and 60 effaced but all I’ve had is lightning crotch and contractions
I'm 30 weeks. And on the ultrasound it showed I'm cervically dilated (1.7cm) . To my surprise, I had no symptoms at all. So I'm advised complete bed rest now till my due date.
I still wonder what triggered it .
I'm not sure what could have caused your cervix to be dilated already. It's good that you are resting and following your care teams advice though. How are you feeling being in bed? Are you able to pass the time ok? ❤️
Yes. Resting surely does help when I had word with various people who've gone through something similar.
It's probably a sign to rest and observe the beautiful things around. No complaints. ✨
@@goodvibeswithshriya6501 I'm glad you are enjoying your rest 😍 Take care and if you need me at all or having any questions about labour/birth do let me know. Here to help if I can ❤️
Update: I just delivered a healthy baby girl at 38and a half weeks. God surely listens to all your prayers.
@@goodvibeswithshriya6501 congratulations darling! So happy to hear from you! Hope you're doing well 👶❤️😍🎉 What is your daughter's name?
I don’t understand the funds level. I’ve been told that when your baby is engaged down your cervix, the baby is lower and can show as low. If that’s the case, why is the fundus level inverted? If five would one finger measurement? Hope someone can explain it to me since I’ve been feeling a lot of contractions, pressure in my hips and pelvis, and lightning crotch. Thanks!
@@flowerglow8262 hi! Your fundus level changes during labour because your contractions pull your womb muscles up during cervical dilation. So, this can change the level of your tummy from lower to higher up towards your breasts. 👍💖
I’m 3 days from my due date with baby #3. I’ve been getting lightening crotch for many weeks but it’s getting progressively more painful to the point where I am crying. It feels more painful than my labor with #2! Feels like part of my body is trying to push the baby out, but another part is blocking that from happening. Hoping this baby comes soon! First two babies came 7, and 2 days late.
Oh darling, I feel for you! Sounds tough! What you're feeling will be pressure on your pelvic floor muscles. They tend to get a bit more strained and weakened the more pregnancies you experience but your cervix will still be wanting to keep your baby inside a bit longer and that will explain the feeling of restriction too. Are you doing daily pelvic floor exercises? That may help to take a bit of pressure off and alleviate the discomfort a bit for you. You'll have your baby in your arms soon, it can't be many more days of waiting now 💕👍🌹
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja thank you! Definitely experienced some level of this with my first two, but this is on a whole other level. Makes sense it would increase with later pregnancies. I’ve been doing some pelvic floor exercises but I’ll make sure to do some more. 👍🏼
This is great information 😊 thank you
You're very welcome! Thanks for your message ❤️🌹
Hi Anja, does the purple line show up in women with darker skin tones?
It will look silvery in tone so not purple 💖
I’ve got a purple line 38 weeks pregnant had it for days and it’s quite high so 🤷♀️
You can really dilate whenever but just bcs you dilate doesn’t mean your in active labor. I know woman who dilated at 35/36 and went over 40 weeks due to them not dilating any more than what they did till active labor/day they gave birth.
I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant today I've notice I Weeing more and been having alot of cramping and lower back pain my pelvic is so uncomfortable I keep feeling a pushing in my pelvic
It sounds like your baby is very low in your pelvis. Do you know if they are head down? X
@@HypnobirthingWithAnja hi yeah she head down they said at my last appointment she engaged
@@meganjeffery3559 that's great! You are getting the end of pregnancy aches and pains. It won't last much longer! Your baby will be with you soon 💓
I just want my son to arrive!! The cramping is extreme! 😩
You are strong and you can get through this 💪❤️ Breathe slowly and believe in yourself. Sending you lots of love 💕
How can you see a visual line if you're African-American dark skin
Hi! Thanks for your message. If you have darker skin, your line will be silvery grey:
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Please check out the link for more info ☺️💕
I'm 39+6 and have been having loss of mucus plug (a lot of slime), lighting crotch and cramps/contractions with pain. No blood at all though.
Then was it labour ?? I want to know coz I am feeling the same
@@chitraingle265 It was! I was having contractions already 3 or 4 days before the real labor went on. I went into labor the night of exactly 40 weeks. Then 40+1 gave birth.
@@beavadakkoot ohh okyy.. thanks for sharing this
I'm experiencing vaginal pain from past 1week and I'm in 35 weeks of ny pregnancy.what does it shows ? Am i near to labour?At which week delivery may happen by experiencing these pain in 35weeks .
It's impossible to know when your labour will start. It may happen soon or it may take 5-6 more weeks. If you are worried about your vaginal pain, please speak to your doctor 💞🌹👍
Tq
I'm 31 weeks and I'm having lightning crotch all morning, should I go to hospital? I also from time to time experience menstrual cramping, I feel baby very down moving and I don't know what to do now it's not time yet 😮
I would always advise getting checked at the hospital if you are concerned. 💗💗💗
how did it go??
@@YourFav6ft2BBW all was good, just normal pregnancy pain.
@@lovetinagoxi I glad you are okay good luck with the rest of your pregnancy 💓💓 I'm due in November
I am 34weeks 50percent thinned or (effaced) and 1 cm dialated is this good?
3 day away from my due date wish me lucky and health delivery
Sending you my best wishes 💕🌹
Great walkthrough on rhis
I have all these symptoms but my doctor said I'm not even dilated at 38 weeks
🤔 Interesting... Well obviously your body is doing something or you wouldn't be showing these signs. Did you get checked by your doctor today? Sometimes when you get checked internally by a doctor, it can be a bit uncomfortable and your cervix could have closed up a little bit. That's the only thing I can think of. Don't worry, your body knows what to do and I'm sure your cervix is softening and will start to open soon 💖
ive seen once or twice a rose-red spotting on my underwear, like last week (im 35 weeks now) - can that mean it was the start to loosing the mucus plug little by little? Since then i haven’t noticed anything in color on my underwear
It's probably the 'bloody show'. It's a sign that your cervix is starting to dilate. If the rose-red spotting has mucus mixed with it, you are probably losing pieces of your mucus plug too 💖
I’m a bit confused about the bra line one to check how dilated you are.. do you measure from under your boobs? It looks like it’s from the nipple on the video but we all have different nipple positions?! Some perkier than others? Or do we measure from under the boobs where our bra wire would sit? Thank you xxx
I was thinking the same thing
I’m 32 weeks and been haveing cramping and back pain , I checked my cervix and I’m 2cms ? schould I go to the hospital??
I would definitely go to the hospital if you think you have gone into labour prematurely 💓 Good luck! I hope everything is ok 😘🙏
I am 37 weeks 4 days... Yesterday i found out that baby is measuring at 8lbs already due to GD... Hopefully he will be coming soon.... Don't want him to big lol