INTP INFP Relationships Kinda Suck

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  • Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025

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  • @TrebleKnight
    @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +23

    What Types Should I Ship Next?

    • @Xanthro2
      @Xanthro2 8 месяцев назад +7

      infp x istp

    • @MishalAli-ep8vs
      @MishalAli-ep8vs 8 месяцев назад +4

      INFP X ENTJ
      INTJ X ENFP
      INFP X INTJ
      ENTP X ENTJ
      INTJ X ENTJ
      pick one at least pleas

    • @ExistingSmiles
      @ExistingSmiles 8 месяцев назад +4

      Entp x Infj

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +5

      @@MishalAli-ep8vs lol that's quite the list

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +5

      @@Xanthro2 would be fun couple

  • @sciencetigress
    @sciencetigress 8 месяцев назад +124

    I just had to check out this video because my Dad is an INTP and my Mom is an INFP. They’ve been together for almost 38 years (it will be 38 in June) so obviously it’s working out for them. ^^

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +19

      Sounds like they figured it out!

    • @sciencetigress
      @sciencetigress 8 месяцев назад +9

      @Lu-ot8hs he did have a job but unfortunately was laid off out of no fault of his own so he ended up taking early retirement. My Mom was already retired by then so now I’m seeing them both a lot which can be hard for me sometimes as I’m an ESFP. But now I can see their dynamics much more often which is always interesting. XD

    • @sciencetigress
      @sciencetigress 8 месяцев назад +2

      @Lu-ot8hs I used to think I was Ni but in time I realized how much Se I had. Thank you for all the kind words. Don’t worry we’ll be fine. :)

    • @meowrel
      @meowrel 8 месяцев назад +2

      I’m so curious of what your family dynamic is like hahaha

    • @lily_Andromeda
      @lily_Andromeda 2 месяца назад

      me and my bf are the same

  • @ireth5916
    @ireth5916 Месяц назад +10

    I'm INTP, my best friends usually have the INFP type, I also like a lot INFJ. Right now I am in a complicated situationship with INFP, there is a lot of attraction between us but the "logic VS emotions" differences are very obvious and I noticed how easy I can come as too cold or uncaring if we compare our demeanors. INFP learned that I really care, just that my ways are analytical instead of warm, eventually my perspective became very well received and useful. I am grateful that INFP is helping me to improve my assertiveness and emotional empathy. We invest a lot in proper communication to not neglect or hurt the other. We will see...

  • @Crescent_Moon_Rising
    @Crescent_Moon_Rising 8 месяцев назад +54

    I have a few good INFP friends they do make for good conversations.
    ~ INTP ~

  • @ColorfulMixx5318
    @ColorfulMixx5318 8 месяцев назад +20

    0:24 i totally relate buddy😂😂 i have a type and that's INTJ- but yeah i have to admit that i am drawned to INTP as well- but i think INTP and INFP is the bestest chaotic friend combo

  • @_lil_lil
    @_lil_lil 8 месяцев назад +34

    Me, who originally typed as INFP on 16 personalities but has lately been typed by cognitive functions tests and other people who know MBTI as INTP, yet still has discernable Fi: "time to see how to make the two conflicting voices in my brain get along"

    • @GGGG_3333
      @GGGG_3333 7 месяцев назад +4

      Same 😅.
      But after getting to know more about the cognitive functions I can see that I am more of an INTP with high Fi mastery.

    • @violaisreallycool
      @violaisreallycool Месяц назад +1

      @@GGGG_3333 the strong Fi in our type is so interesting! I was for the longest time thought I was an INFJ because of how I thought I could guide my life through Fi and distill down steps with Ni and materialize with Te. But ultimately, I’ve just been a highly internally-tuned INTP that just has very strong values of competency that causes my strong work ethic and efficiency when I need it. I wonder if you might have experienced something similar?

    • @GGGG_3333
      @GGGG_3333 Месяц назад

      @@violaisreallycool I think that's exactly what is happening with me. It should theoretically make me somewhat balanced, but funnily enough, it doesn't 😅. I exemplify the good and bad sides of both sides to a great extent 😅.

  • @robscovell5951
    @robscovell5951 8 месяцев назад +54

    Mine was a disaster. We triggered each other's dark side in a bad way.

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +8

      Ooof doesn't sound fun

    • @Love_her_so_much
      @Love_her_so_much 8 месяцев назад +3

      i could relate. we kind of interested in each other dark side. really not fun, but it kind of amazing/weird experience since usually other people do not trigger intp dark side.

    • @spkzfaith9680
      @spkzfaith9680 6 месяцев назад +1

      Same. Just like Treble said, we both tended to be in our heads as a way of retreating if we felt offended/trying to process things. I had to break it off, we sucked at emotionally communicating with one another and couldn’t stand perpetually going through this obvious stagnant masking that we were doing just for the sake of salvaging the relationship. I hope he’s doing better now, and after isolating myself for a while, I’ve realized the things I shouldn’t have done but have mentally improved upon that
      (INFP here, and this is just my experience with that INTP)

  • @putripramesti7705
    @putripramesti7705 28 дней назад +4

    I found that no matter what INTPs never leave INFPs, which makes INFPs do the same to INTPs.

  • @Love_her_so_much
    @Love_her_so_much 8 месяцев назад +14

    it's hard to relate to infp as an intp when decide things based on feeling or Feeling introvert rather than using logic first or have emphatetic feeling ( feeling extrovert ) which intp use. that has been succesfully put me in not really good debate, and often emotional conflict. i just realized how infp using their Fi a lot making them really put harmony on the pedestal of their life. yeah, it's the dark side of my dynamic talking with infps.
    but their pure heart often real makes me little bit more warm though. respect.
    one thing that i personally enjoy the most is that infps are governed by their authenticity/Fi so they are extremely unique, and their personality and their random activies fed my Ne too, so we kind of could get energy by enjoying exploration together.

  • @irenegronegger8972
    @irenegronegger8972 29 дней назад +1

    You forgot to insert the videos at the end. But this proofs that you are right.

  • @gettiusrektius1119
    @gettiusrektius1119 5 месяцев назад +18

    INTP Advice - turn boring small talk about the weather into an infodump with this one simple trick: become a meteorology nerd!
    No but really I do this, and start talking about asperitas clouds and mediocre local doppler radars, and only people interested or knowledgeable enough to keep up talk to me about the weather anymore

  • @EarthenCavy
    @EarthenCavy 8 месяцев назад +14

    My ISTP love passed away last October, and I miss him so much. He kept my floaty head so well grounded and I really need that in my life… 🥺 Very, very slowly starting the dating thing again, and I’ve gone out with an ESTJ a couple times. He’s very nice, but LAWD THE ENERGY AND EXTROVERSION AND AAAGHHH… 🤯😭😭😓😓
    I need another ISTP… 🥺 I’m too old and too INFP for wild and loud and social. 😭

    • @EarthenCavy
      @EarthenCavy 8 месяцев назад +3

      Btw I LOVED THIS SHIP VIDEOOOO PLEASE DO MORE
      I’ll join your Patreon when I get paid! 😁😁

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +5

      I've seen a lot of interest in INFP ISTP ships. It's honestly a couple I haven't thought about lol, and I'm sure you'll find another ISTP :)

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +3

      thanks!

    • @cupofsatori
      @cupofsatori 4 месяца назад

      You haven't even moved on! Why date an ESTJ if you don't like him?? Are you just using him as a crutch?

    • @EarthenCavy
      @EarthenCavy 3 месяца назад +1

      @@cupofsatori uh… this is old news, champ. I left him for that very reason.
      But, I’ve started dating an ENFJ, and we are a much better match.
      Not that it’s really any of your business, but hey. 🙃

  • @PersonWhoAsked
    @PersonWhoAsked День назад

    very true. as an INFP, we can be compatible with almost any type because our empathy can help us to relate, we like to be there for people, and because of our desire to be understood, we want to understand others.

  • @cupofsatori
    @cupofsatori 6 месяцев назад +5

    As an infp i can confirm why is the entire video so real😢

  • @jarmoliebrand2005
    @jarmoliebrand2005 Месяц назад

    As a fellow INFP, I don’t know what my type would be. I feel like, theoretically, I’d be open to go out with anyone, buuuut… ‘anyone’ would probably exclude ESTP, ESTJ and… probably some other types as well. My oldest friend is an INTP. I let him do the test and the result was as I expected. We’re quite similar (social recluses, for the most part) but he just comes across as more logical (and thereby probably a bit more stern) and he’s more into researching things and I often see that reflected in the advice he gives me. I’m trying to find out what I want to study (though creative writing has been looking very enticing)/do in life/unmask as an autistic person and when I come up with different courses at uni, or elsewhere, his first response tends to be ‘What are the job opportunities like?’ And I’m like ‘Sure, that’s important, I know… But when you feel directionless and without purpose, you want to do something that gives you both, first and foremost. I just want something that makes me happy, where I can meet similar souls and just be myself and use my authentic strengths, rather than doing something that’s perhaps more socially desirable, but doesn’t come authentic to me. I’m not looking at the job market that much just yet. I am just seeking that damn purpose, man.
    We also both write fantasy. But he’s more into it as like a tertiary hobby and loves the societal thingies and the history, whereas I want to focus on my characters first and foremost. That’s the gist of why I love it. Plus, writing is my biggest interest, so I’m very, very into it. In hindsight, I’ve been bogged down by trying to do a whole lot worldbuilding and creation history and such, but… Only include the worldbuilding that actively serves the story. Sure, what happened 34 years before the main events of a story could be an interesting history lesson, but I don’t want my stories to be a history lesson.
    0:50
    Yep, we both have intellectual conversations. When we’re not watching a movie or show, we’re having intellectual conversations. My friends basically became his friends too because he liked that they too could keep up intellectually, and add to the conversation.

  • @imtryingtoexist
    @imtryingtoexist 2 месяца назад +2

    The ditto of MBTI. As a INTP it hurts. Your thoughts are perceptive past the basic typology stuff. Excellent.

  • @LudensLudonaut
    @LudensLudonaut 8 месяцев назад +32

    INTPs are compatible with everyone because they are kinda people pleasers(Inferior Fe). And...INFPs are drawn to authenticity, which is something INTPs definitely aren't. So I don't understand your dating choices ma boy

    • @LittleSparklingStars
      @LittleSparklingStars 7 месяцев назад

      Fe inferior is extremely clumsy, though.

    • @spkzfaith9680
      @spkzfaith9680 6 месяцев назад +3

      ⁠@@LittleSparklingStarsTbh, all inferior functions of each type are all clumsily and/or dangerously accessed went fronted

    • @spkzfaith9680
      @spkzfaith9680 6 месяцев назад +12

      Also, albeit INTPs having Fe, they still have Ti as their dom function, holding on to their personally learned logic, meaning that they are true to themselves in that light. For INFPs it’s the same, but just on the emotional side. They both strive for honesty, but in their own way.

    • @LessiWho
      @LessiWho Месяц назад +2

      Why shouldn’t INTPs be authentic? They usually have their own values and know whenever someone is talking bullshit. They might not always tell them because it‘s just not worth the effort and they struggle with either being too polite and shy or too stubborn and upfront sometimes but they mean what they say and act accordingly.

    • @LudensLudonaut
      @LudensLudonaut Месяц назад

      @@LessiWho I didn't say they shouldn't. I say they are not. This is related to their inferior Fe, which bites them in the butt every time they are confronted by anyone who looks nearly discontent with their opinions. INTPs are people pleasers by default.

  • @FromtheBreathofDaydreams
    @FromtheBreathofDaydreams 8 дней назад

    As an INFP with an INTP, this made me laugh so much. Thank you for that.💜

  • @classicgamer8972
    @classicgamer8972 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m an INTP and although I haven’t been in a relationship with an INFP, literally all of my closest friends throughout the years have all been INFP’s!

  • @jarmoliebrand2005
    @jarmoliebrand2005 Месяц назад

    0:29
    Yes, I totally ignored this thingy by one of my three close friends being an ISTP (probably). Still though, I probably wouldn’t get too much fulfilment out of most sensing people. I don’t really see that happening. But who knows?

  • @Flx-zh8ze
    @Flx-zh8ze 6 месяцев назад +9

    As an INFP who used to date a shiton of INTPs, never again. I get the appeal. Moody, brooding, smart. But also judgement, stuffy, controlling, etc. I’m dating an INFJ now and I’m in heaven.

    • @lookintoit4537
      @lookintoit4537 4 месяца назад +5

      Hey we're not controlling. Wtf.

    • @artemisiou
      @artemisiou 4 месяца назад +3

      I'm not moody, brooding or controlling. It really just depends on the person.

  • @taketheredpill1452
    @taketheredpill1452 6 месяцев назад +5

    INFP crying because they can't buy a volcano home...

  • @kyurei4478
    @kyurei4478 23 дня назад

    What gets personal with INTPs is their ideas themselves, not so much their feelings.

  • @labradorableretriever4490
    @labradorableretriever4490 Месяц назад

    INFP husbandINTP. The biggest difficulty on my end is that I forgot he’s not my narcissistic biological mother. The only trait those two have in common is they are emotionally detached. But for different reasons. He doesn’t antagonize or do any of those things that a quiet covert like my mother does for the record she’s unhealthy. ISTJ. Parents did couple counseling years ago. They were recommended to do the test.
    But you can make it work as long as it doesn’t feel one-sided and yes, you would have to challenge their thoughts with logical reasoning from yours. Example example with certain things that affect me a different way there’s a lot of psychology to back it up. Even the philosophical stuff that we talk about.
    His theory was I don’t see the point getting upset about something you can’t change. Mine was well it doesn’t affect you. I need a neurologist you don’t. I said you get upset when you lose a video game, but it doesn’t affect me the same way it does with you. Those are little differences that we noticed about each other.
    Although we did need to put our problem-solving skills to the test because we knew the clinic where my neurologist previously worked was doing some bribery and manipulation thing, obviously not telling us what happens to him. We both came to the same conclusion that he either went to a bigger city and got tired of those people or finally has his own business.
    We called a hospital, looking for a new neurologist and said it better not be a neuropsychologist. That is not what an epileptic patient needs so that my husband asks the woman on the phone are they clinical neurologist woman cut them off who has the former one husband drops the name, the woman mentions the name of the location where he will start his clinic the beginning of next year , so even things like that analyzing gut feeling and logic all in combination detective work
    But for anything you have to make it work he’s a man who loves to cook and I’ll do the cleaning. I don’t mind cleaning because I would help my grandmother with it all the time
    We’ve gone with better communication instead of squashing each other‘s beliefs, more like putting them up and analyzing both sides properly takes a hell of a lot of work though, but you do feel an instant connection with them. It’s weird.

  • @_lil_lil
    @_lil_lil 8 месяцев назад +7

    Me, who is closer to INTP due to being a definite Ti & Ne user but also has typed as INFP due to discernable Fi: "ok, let's see how to make those two voices in my brain actually get along"

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +2

      lol internal relationship advice, I like it!

  • @kamifaye
    @kamifaye 8 месяцев назад +6

    my infp guilty pleasure type is ENTP 💓😂

    • @Love_her_so_much
      @Love_her_so_much 8 месяцев назад +2

      Ne dominant is cool. i hope i can be entp to balance my relationship with infp. we both just passive in term social occasion. not fun to be with her because of it.
      we are both really quite unless we talk about something that interest us which usually interesting for one party only, not both.

    • @KANDY_ST0RE
      @KANDY_ST0RE Месяц назад

      ​@Love_her_so_much this is the most intp comment to ever intp /pos

  • @ilovebatssomuch
    @ilovebatssomuch 11 дней назад

    Intp here, had a infp bestfriend, i loved her (platonically) but she had a crush on me. I politely rejected her and asked to remain friends bc i valued her as a friend. She imediently blew up and stopped being talking to me. She didn't even say she wasnt my friend, she just ghosted me and then re-entered my life but was super distant, like fake-nice :/

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  10 дней назад

      Yikes, that's really hard to deal with. INFPs can really let their emotions get out of control sometimes.

  • @nerdexproject
    @nerdexproject 8 месяцев назад +5

    Love it man! haha :D Pls more (I don't care what, just more haha)

  • @rivalarcana
    @rivalarcana 3 месяца назад

    based ty for your service king

  • @_cas.0423
    @_cas.0423 8 месяцев назад +4

    I'm an INFP and my twin sister is an INTP loool

  • @dephnenisan
    @dephnenisan 8 месяцев назад +5

    You're so funny 🤭❤

  • @oskarschell8567
    @oskarschell8567 7 месяцев назад +3

    Who is this? I like this guy!!!

  • @notanotherjamesmurphy5574
    @notanotherjamesmurphy5574 5 месяцев назад

    civ is a fun word for cheese-grater

  • @Doggety420
    @Doggety420 8 месяцев назад +1

    For the love of Arceus 😂

  • @claudinfern
    @claudinfern 8 месяцев назад

    Esfj Vs Enfj. Im with trouble to type myself as one of this

  • @dwdwdwf21
    @dwdwdwf21 8 месяцев назад +1

    I see ENTP also there nhmm

  • @ytho7228
    @ytho7228 3 месяца назад

    afv reference on gawd?

  • @DreamyStar
    @DreamyStar 8 месяцев назад

    Cat baby hybrid is accurate.

  • @denisesiddon7241
    @denisesiddon7241 8 месяцев назад

    Definitely a cat - baby hybrid 😂

  • @ShinyLittenvr
    @ShinyLittenvr 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi fellow FiNeSiTe user

    • @GetBaguetter
      @GetBaguetter 8 месяцев назад

      I read this as: Tesco's FiNeSiTe (which just isn't true, we all know SiTeFiNe = Tesco's Cognitive Finest;) )

  • @notanotherjamesmurphy5574
    @notanotherjamesmurphy5574 5 месяцев назад

    you kinda did Alabama dirty

  • @DearDrear
    @DearDrear 3 месяца назад

    I'd subscribe but I'm broke
    Keep up the great job

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  3 месяца назад

      subscribing on yt is free lol, but thanks for watching!

    • @DearDrear
      @DearDrear 3 месяца назад

      @@TrebleKnight I mean, "payed subscription" 💔

  • @jess_smwhere
    @jess_smwhere 7 месяцев назад

    infp x infj next :))

  • @daunhidupwa8768
    @daunhidupwa8768 8 месяцев назад

    Pls ISFJ X xNTJ
    Because it's so uncommon

  • @notanotherjamesmurphy5574
    @notanotherjamesmurphy5574 5 месяцев назад

    can you guess my MBTI just by my comments?

  • @Deep45thinking
    @Deep45thinking 8 месяцев назад +4

    Next enfp and infp or enfj and infp

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад

      Introvert extrovert relationships can be interesting

  • @homosapienssapienish
    @homosapienssapienish 3 месяца назад

    As an intp I HATE INFPS

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  3 месяца назад

      ooof

    • @homosapienssapienish
      @homosapienssapienish 3 месяца назад

      @@TrebleKnight INFPs are often seen as social justice warriors, but their noble goals and virtuous convictions are frequently chosen based on the social signals they send to others, serving as a form of social currency. Additionally, these convictions align with the personal teleological objectives they are pursuing. However, they tend to mask their true motivations-perhaps unknowingly-behind a veneer of 'empathy' and 'compassion.' A careful observer may notice that their empathy is quite selective, and such selectivity does not lend itself well to making prescriptions about an ideal social order.

    • @Violet_Odorata
      @Violet_Odorata 3 месяца назад

      @homosapienssapienish Being fair is hard, but one can try I suppose. The only way to counter this is to keep learning about the world without censorship while keeping the investment that will lead favouritism at bay and to check in with Ti user once in a while to make sure that our principle is not dumb.
      I'm at least glad that my eyes are open on my own machiavellian nature but I bet conviction itself isn't enough for people such as you, so a lot of hard work is in order, should I choose to go that route.

    • @chrisbrooks7469
      @chrisbrooks7469 26 дней назад

      @@homosapienssapienish IN*P and I... don't see how conceptually or in my own experience INFPs values and convictions are likely to be based on social signals send to others? Introverted feeling is... introverted. Convictions aligning with the personal teleological objectives one is pursuing though is 100% correct but... how else are you supposed to even determine what an ideal social order IS? There is always some value judgment to be made. Selective empathy seems more a problem with humans in general and an INFP like any more rare type(or anyone with any relatively rare trait that can be disliked) is at least somewhat more likely to have personal reason to have empathy for outgroups and so less conformity bias.

  • @Hellen3450
    @Hellen3450 8 месяцев назад +1

    First🤓

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +1

      congrats

    • @Hellen3450
      @Hellen3450 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@TrebleKnight ikr such an achievement

  • @Dalsony
    @Dalsony 8 месяцев назад +1

    You should should do ESFP and INFP

    • @TrebleKnight
      @TrebleKnight  8 месяцев назад +1

      That's a combo that might work well in a sitcom lol

    • @irenegronegger8972
      @irenegronegger8972 29 дней назад

      @@TrebleKnight They're fund and more grounded than ENxPs.

  • @Ballman404
    @Ballman404 8 месяцев назад +1

    Ur in way too deep

  • @beautifullife2907
    @beautifullife2907 8 месяцев назад

    ENTJ X INFP ❤❤❤❤❤❤PLZZZZ