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  • Normal Girlfriend vs INTP Girlfriend (comedy sketch)
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  Год назад +521

    If this video brought a smile to your face,
    And laughter that filled the whole space,
    The next one to watch without delay
    Is "Normal Teacher vs INFJ Teacher" - give it a play! 👉 infj.me/41bb2oy 🧡

    • @oldnickdeadpoolguy
      @oldnickdeadpoolguy Год назад +5

      Ok!!!!!

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq Год назад +6

      Thank you, Frank, you never fail to make us laugh! 😂❤️

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne Год назад +7

      These rhymes are great! 😄

    • @oldnickdeadpoolguy
      @oldnickdeadpoolguy Год назад +7

      Frank James the Rapper

    • @AnnaJaneChapman
      @AnnaJaneChapman Год назад +5

      Thank you Frank for your rhyme
      You really made me laugh this time!
      Next time if you to
      Could you do something extroverted and new?

  • @blueharmony3675
    @blueharmony3675 Год назад +2547

    The way she said "time is an illusion" so nonchalantly, as if it is common knowledge, is very accurate.

    • @bbjudyfit
      @bbjudyfit Год назад +48

      It's not?

    • @woooshxx._
      @woooshxx._ Год назад +25

      it is common knowledge tho idk is it? bc like I think people say it a lot but I just like saying that bc of random space related videos I watch

    • @rbxq
      @rbxq Год назад +3

      i mean it is

    • @AurorasWindow
      @AurorasWindow Год назад +10

      It is common knowledge

    • @prattoychanda3322
      @prattoychanda3322 Год назад +15

      It is common knowledge. I have been preaching this concept to everyone around my whole life.

  • @ASentientBlockofSwissCheese
    @ASentientBlockofSwissCheese Год назад +3298

    As an INTP woman who has never been in a relationship, nice!
    Edit: Lmao this is hilarious! There are literally dozens of us!

  • @opossum_44
    @opossum_44 Год назад +1196

    As an INTP, you will never know If I got kidnapped for 18 hours or if I just got too distracted and didn’t touch my phone for a full day. Also I love the videos Frank!

    • @darkspice6339
      @darkspice6339 Год назад +18

      Omg exactly lol my friends always worry for my safety like that 😂

    • @ryokosp21
      @ryokosp21 Год назад +28

      I honestly don't understand how other people do it. I've been trying for years now to become better at replying to...anyone via any medium and I have yet to learn the secret.

    • @Truthseeker7771000
      @Truthseeker7771000 Год назад

      😂

    • @quwu8448
      @quwu8448 Год назад +12

      I'm always on Phone tho but I don't open to chat others 😭I always watching RUclips or reading and they can't call me cause if I'm reading I airplane mode my phone

    • @ReRe7777
      @ReRe7777 Год назад +2

      ​@@quwu8448I relate😂

  • @nataliacozireva8211
    @nataliacozireva8211 Год назад +1813

    As an INTP wife I go to another room to send my husband a couple of outdated philosoraptor memes to create a romantic atmosphere beforehand. Gotta keep the marriage strong

  • @net_lag
    @net_lag Год назад +2207

    As an INTP man I'd say the only inaccurate part of the video was having any girlfriend at all

    • @boi5738
      @boi5738 Год назад +29

      Fr tho

    • @terig8974
      @terig8974 Год назад +122

      When you're a woman, at least one guy will just randomly offer every once in a while, so it's pretty low effort on our part.

    • @RutabegaNG
      @RutabegaNG Год назад +24

      ​@@terig8974 pretty much.

    • @JohnSmith-fo5cx
      @JohnSmith-fo5cx Год назад +34

      way easier to date as a girl than a male.

    • @see-ya-later
      @see-ya-later Год назад +9

      i relate to some of these, ENTP btw (also has no rizz and doesnt want any)

  • @DeeDeifiesGayo
    @DeeDeifiesGayo Год назад +1154

    As an INTP girl, once I scientifically explained to my BF, why my grey eyes sometimes looked blue or green, so I laughed so hard at: 00:48

    • @naso.r1129
      @naso.r1129 Год назад +28

      Can u explain it to me?🙃

    • @DeeDeifiesGayo
      @DeeDeifiesGayo Год назад +206

      @@naso.r1129 Of course! English isn’t my 1st language, but: Gray eyes may appear to “change color” from gray to blue to green depending on clothing, lighting, and mood (which may change the size of the pupil, compressing the colors of the iris). Eyes look more blue/gray/green for the same reason as the sky appears to have different shades of blue :) it depends on the light

    • @bachynskylisa1
      @bachynskylisa1 Год назад +32

      @@DeeDeifiesGayo That's so interesting! I love learning things like that :)

    • @DeeDeifiesGayo
      @DeeDeifiesGayo Год назад +15

      @@bachynskylisa1 And I’m happy to be captain obvious 😀❤️ The world is amazing

    • @Njox
      @Njox Год назад +23

      @@DeeDeifiesGayo WTF I have grey eyes and always wondered why this happens I had no idea!

  • @pussinboots9983
    @pussinboots9983 Год назад +434

    Me and my INTP girlfriend once had a discussion about how love works and its effect on a person psychologically, and go as far as talking about neuroscience, and also discussed how we became together by discussing from facial features, to how our parents nurture style influenced our preferences.
    Yeah... we're being nerds.

    • @sonofabatchobrownies
      @sonofabatchobrownies Год назад +60

      I'm an INTP female and my bf is INTJ. We had a conversation that lasted multiple hours at the beginning of our relationship (that we both refused to label as a relationship for the first year, it was purely a way to quell our lust and unavoidable desire to procreate based on evolutionary traits 😂) about how love was a construct created by codependent people who were incapable of being confident and comfortable on their own. Add a spicy dash of mommy/daddy issues mixed in for flavor. We discussed the idea we as humans are attracted to the pheromones of individuals that have significantly different genomes than ourselves to enhance the likelihood of finding a mate that was genetically sound when mixed with our own. Anyways we've been together for eight years and both finally caved to the idea that love is real. I love him...damn it 😒

    • @gabriellat1589
      @gabriellat1589 Год назад +30

      I tell you, as an INTP myself, that’s the sort of conversation that gives us the most happiness.

    • @kawaii6990
      @kawaii6990 11 месяцев назад +8

      I once explained to this guy I was constantly chatting with and then suddenly stopped and disappeared that the reason he missed me and thought I was someone special was due to the separation anxiety he got after his habit of constantly talking to me was cut off at once.

    • @bhumigandhi2426
      @bhumigandhi2426 9 месяцев назад +11

      as an INTP girl, I wish I could have a conversation like this with someone lol

    • @Celephinn
      @Celephinn 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@gabriellat1589Same!

  • @HTFWSFWWE
    @HTFWSFWWE Год назад +163

    As an INTP with an ESTP husband I asked him if I was like this when we were dating to which he very lovingly but bluntly replied "Yes." He said that he didn't understand what I was saying most of the time because I spoke too fast and I seemed to know random tidbits of trivia for everything (I was afraid of awkward silences so I desperately tried to come up with conversation starters so he wouldn't think I was as socially inept as I am). He then told me that after a short period of time he started to think my vast trivia knowledge was cute and fascinating so he decided to keep me since I'd be a constant source of entertainment for him. 😁

    • @Gabriela.Lamira
      @Gabriela.Lamira Год назад +3

      LOL

    • @rogerhuggettjr.7675
      @rogerhuggettjr.7675 Год назад +14

      Isn't it great being a trivia god? I'm getting married today and we had a party last night on the roof of my future brother-in-law's house where we are having the ceremony. He's an ENTJ and kept playing random 80's and 90's songs trying to stump me on name of band and song. Half the time I gave him the album and the year within a couple years as well plus stories about the song. Another guy that tried to play too was having his mind blown.

    • @HTFWSFWWE
      @HTFWSFWWE Год назад +5

      @@rogerhuggettjr.7675 Congratulations on your wedding! 🥳 🥂🍾 and yeah, being a trivia master is awesome! Your comment actually reminds me of when my aunt got married in the beginning of the month and her bachelorette party was at a male strip show and every time they started a new song I would lean over and tell my mother (ISFP) the name and band of the song before they even started singing. She looked so impressed 😁. Also we were both too shy to ask for lap dances (and on medication so we can't have "liquid courage"), but our aunt and her other bridesmaids certainly enjoyed themselves that night 😅

    • @ravenm6443
      @ravenm6443 8 месяцев назад +1

      😂 my bf said something similar the other day. My bf is an infp, and said that my logical reasoning balances him out when he’s upset about something and being irrational. He also says he’s learned more from being with me than he probably ever would have had we not been together. We’ve been together for almost 11 years and we’re both content with not being married yet. Not because we don’t want to be, but because we don’t see the need to rush things because we’re both just as committed regardless of rings and a piece of paper. We get this question a lot 😒
      I like a lot of things but in particular I’m a transportation infrastructure nerd mostly focused on trains. It’s all connected through. 🧐

    • @lavendersprig
      @lavendersprig 2 месяца назад +1

      This reminds me of Asa and Denji from Chainsaw Man! So cute!

  • @elizabethw.6154
    @elizabethw.6154 Год назад +422

    It warms my heart as an INTP female that someone gets me like Frank in this video...and then also there's chance that I can be a girlfriend 😉. That "disappear for 6 weeks thing, not answering all the texts for days, and 3 hr naps" are 100% real tho.😆

    • @Reegish
      @Reegish Год назад +11

      I honestly don’t know how people take shorter naps. If I finally sleep, it’s like the dead.

    • @ryokosp21
      @ryokosp21 Год назад +1

      Yep this was yet another MBTI correlation I just discovered, though I usually prefer 4 hours for my naps...

    • @StrawberryAqua
      @StrawberryAqua Год назад +1

      When my husband and I were newlyweds, I would take 3-hour naps every Sunday. We were also in college, and you can guess how I was about sleep.

    • @rogerhuggettjr.7675
      @rogerhuggettjr.7675 Год назад +1

      Find an ISFP partner. They'll make you dinner and clean the house before joining you for the 3-hour nap! Of course, my fiancée often takes longer than the 3 hours leaving me time to youtube for a few more hours without judgement.

    • @GermanTaffer
      @GermanTaffer 10 месяцев назад

      Let me tell you, that even if I had several attractive extraverted girl friends , for me as an INTP INTP women are very attractive. Why ? Honesty , high grade of consciousness, really low on narcissistic level and good humour. I ended up with an INFJ woman, who has similar traits.
      When I was young it was different.
      So don't undervalue yourself,please!

  • @connaeris8230
    @connaeris8230 Год назад +250

    As an intp girl, I admit I would only be satisfied in a relationship if I was able to talk about nerdy things with my SO. In my case there would be less physics and more history and biology, but still.

    • @Kuruno_Stasis
      @Kuruno_Stasis Год назад +20

      As an INTP man, I cannot stand history and biology, way too much memorization for me. I'll stick to physics.
      Though for conversations, I like to talk philosophy and morals, or just really abstract questions. My favorite is one involving time travel and using it to illustrate determinism.

    • @yurishaa.9337
      @yurishaa.9337 Год назад +2

      As a wasted ENTP, why is this relatable *cries* but more to the politics within the history and... oh well I guess I will trap anyone smart enough to catch my -brokenness- interest in endless tangents even in front of their bathroom door--
      btw did you know that lightnings can be used to make nitrogen-potassium fertilizers for free while also be possibly engineered as subscription-free music player? Also I guess I have forgotten about how to make strikethroughs in youtube comments, that sucks how it's different from other social media...

    • @NeelishaPal
      @NeelishaPal Год назад +1

      As an INTP female, What i think
      A teacher is the person who makes the subject interesting.
      I wish i had the most amazing physics teacher.

    • @UrWeid
      @UrWeid 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm an ENTP and I totally get this. I can't imagine myself being a couple with an S user who'll be bored or annoyed from any kind of theoretical talk in a minute or less.

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@NeelishaPalyou don't sound like an INTP if it takes the teacher to make the topic interesting.

  • @ShaleNinja
    @ShaleNinja Год назад +417

    As an INTP dude with an INTP partner, I can confirm that the vast majority of our collective chat history (that isn't asking where someone is meant to be or who's cooking dinner) is either outdated memes that would make no sense to anyone else, or bizarre references to conversations we've had previously about hyper-specific topics, and exactly zero small talk. We literally just yeet memes at each other as a love language. Before we moved in together, we'd go days or weeks at a time without a dot of communication too.

    • @Tess-to8hy
      @Tess-to8hy Год назад +10

      But how would either of you know whether the other person is still committed if nobody is keeping contact?

    • @lyndaraina1915
      @lyndaraina1915 Год назад +72

      @@Tess-to8hy That's what keeping contact looks like to an intp ... 😂

    • @ShaleNinja
      @ShaleNinja Год назад +67

      @@Tess-to8hy lol that is more than enough contact for an INTP! Also as an INTP, you inherently know the other INTP is just staring at the void absorbing knowledge or hyperfixating on a project that'll get half-finished, there's no "this is not committed" that comes into question. We're the ultimate in low maintenance in that we'd prefer you not indulge in maintenance, it tastes like hovering.
      The flip side of the coin is that we will happily stay up to 3am on a breathless daisy-chain of nerdy topics segueing from one to the next, and that's all the conversation we need for a while.
      We've been together for 14 years now, so seems to have worked out alright!

    • @johnwalker1058
      @johnwalker1058 Год назад +19

      Guess I need to look for an INTP girl, because this sounds like paradise!

    • @valourvixen1953
      @valourvixen1953 Год назад +8

      We texts exactly like that. It contains mostly memes or about games or even about science stuffs and brainstorm in the middle of the night.
      He's the best one i found rn who matches my vibe
      -intp

  • @bbjudyfit
    @bbjudyfit Год назад +241

    As an INTP girlfriend (yea, I'm shocked too), I can confirm the accuracy of this video.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Год назад +448

    I'm with INTP, the older I get, the more a three hour nap sounds appealing! 😉😴

    • @LibraryofAcousticMagic3240
      @LibraryofAcousticMagic3240 Год назад +2

      Do you know what the "the"s in your sentence are? Look it up. It's quite interesting.

    • @ZoruaLightning
      @ZoruaLightning Год назад +1

      A 3 hour nap is just sleeping in the daytime. You want an hour or less for the best refresher without the grog

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Год назад +1

      Don't knock it til you try it 😘

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne Год назад +320

    "Would you still love me if I was a worm?" 😂 I loved when Normal girlfriend looked at INTP with the puzzled look. Wow, INTP girlfriend has a lot on her mind! Hilarious! 🙌🤣

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 Год назад +169

    I object!
    My personal hygiene is beyond reproach. It does take a lot for me to dress up beyond a t-shirt though. Meeting my in-laws was absolutely a t-shirt occasion.
    -INTP

    • @EsthaC
      @EsthaC Год назад +3

      Same

    • @ThePotterWasp
      @ThePotterWasp Год назад +7

      Before I knew I was an INTP, 5-6 years ago, I thought how easy it'd be if I just wore white t-shirts when I went to college. Well, now that I'm in college... I don't have that many t-shirts. But I'm totally thinking of getting some more of those oversized cropped t-shirts next year!

    • @windshipping
      @windshipping Год назад +13

      Still wearing the T shirt I got as 'present' when I applied for that business school in 2013. Turns out if you wash clothes they can be used repeatedly. I don't especially like that shirt, but it's a fabric that can be used, it fits its purpose. It's the same with everything else, I think INTP do consume very few things, unless it's their specific and obscure hobby. I'm surprised cooking and cleaning don't appear here because I suspect INTP girlfriend aren't that motivated by it lol. I'm certainly not.

    • @Reegish
      @Reegish Год назад +9

      I have a theory that INTP females are better about hygiene than our male counterparts on average since nearly every time that stereotype gets brought up a bunch of us say it doesn’t apply to us. (Don’t yell at me INTP males I’m sure there are many outliers even if I’m right.)

    • @silvertarot25
      @silvertarot25 Год назад +1

      I told my husband he'd only have to spend time with my family the same number of times he made me go see his family...and pointed out I only saw my family about 2 times a yr if that.
      And putting on a plain shirt with no weird references or sayings on it is totally dressing up.

  • @LoveHandle4890
    @LoveHandle4890 Год назад +100

    Everyone deserves love, no matter how many personalities you have.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Год назад +162

    "Time is just an illusion." Haha, I should probably use that excuse more often whenever I'm tardy. 😂

    • @bethmccall9254
      @bethmccall9254 Год назад +1

      I’m always late

    • @cellgrrl
      @cellgrrl 5 месяцев назад +1

      INTJ woman ponders the true meaning of time. I don't know which one of us is weirder.

    • @axl256gamesx7
      @axl256gamesx7 4 месяца назад

      REALITY IS ILLUSION
      BUY GOLD
      GUUUUUUUUNS
      -an INTP making a random reference

    • @Demmie-nl2qh
      @Demmie-nl2qh Месяц назад

      I just took to setting timers so I can meet the societal expectations of others (ie, not having to listen to them beak about it ;).

  • @laurakemp5979
    @laurakemp5979 Год назад +97

    As an INTP female, I've never felt more seen. Thank you

  • @farahfofo2797
    @farahfofo2797 Год назад +84

    Me, INTP woman whose never been in a relationship, i agree 😂
    Thank you Frank for portraying us, people often assume that INTPs ars always men and never women

  • @mandrake7971
    @mandrake7971 Год назад +79

    As someone who has over 200 unread messages in my inbox, decided to spend many hours researching Greek lexicons (I have never studied Greek before), and consider myself to be a nap connoisseur, I give this video an INTP stamp of approval 😅

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Год назад

      It's always the damn languages

  • @Vodka0936
    @Vodka0936 Год назад +50

    The 3 hour nap is so god damn accurate😂
    The solving of the 3000 yr old equation is so 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻✨
    Procrastination is our ✨best✨ quality

  • @yobiyobi8138
    @yobiyobi8138 Год назад +33

    As an INTP, this started out as "haha funny" and then quickly became so scarily accurate that I'm wondering if I've been cloned. I have quite literally lived this series of events 💀

  • @Ali-MJ
    @Ali-MJ Год назад +91

    You chose the other girlfriend a kind of ESFP to show enough contrast from INTP! Great Job FJ! 🧡

  • @megriorso4516
    @megriorso4516 Год назад +44

    As an INTP girl, I don't think I'll ever know what it's like to be an INTP girl*friend* 😂

    • @axl256gamesx7
      @axl256gamesx7 4 месяца назад +1

      Just meet an INTP guy
      Easy
      -an INTP that wants an INTP girlfriend, how pathetic am i, wait that sounded very INFP-ish

  • @lisa_gay
    @lisa_gay Год назад +46

    OK, so thanks for showing me that INTPs are people I would LOVE to be around. Their train of thought is as fun as any adventure I could go have outside..... with a lot less bug bites.

    • @delightfulgenius4635
      @delightfulgenius4635 Год назад +1

      *fewer. Thanks for enjoying my wildly careening, apparently disjointed "train" of thought. Many people talk too much to hear it out.

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад

      @@delightfulgenius4635 took me way too long to understand your correction. I am ashamed of myself.

    • @axl256gamesx7
      @axl256gamesx7 4 месяца назад

      On another note
      Imagine an INTP with adhd (me, if you didn't notice)

  • @LoveHandle4890
    @LoveHandle4890 Год назад +25

    There’s a loved one for every personality.

  • @nataliegivan8726
    @nataliegivan8726 Год назад +30

    I ❤ INTPs and their eccentricity. Never been in a relationship with one, but had INTP female coworker who was school librarian, grammar nerd, and went to comic con

  • @INTJenny
    @INTJenny Год назад +17

    I love the layout of this video, especially when you quiet the Normal gf when they're still talking 😂😂

  • @PAHG2
    @PAHG2 Год назад +276

    1:14 If anyone ever asked me if I would still love them if they were a worm, I would just say "No, because we would've never met."
    That, in my opinion, is way more honest and romantic than just saying yes.
    -An INTP Male

    • @delightfulgenius4635
      @delightfulgenius4635 Год назад +32

      I agree! If someone answered that they would love me if I were a worm, I might laugh at them. Unless they kept pet worms or something.
      ~ INTP female

    • @enyewox
      @enyewox Год назад

      I would just call them an idiot.

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy Год назад +3

      Urghhhh like my boyfriennnndddd

    • @jenniferhanses
      @jenniferhanses Год назад +11

      Honest, yes. I'm failing to see the romance though.

    • @mchoi6038
      @mchoi6038 Год назад +3

      But answer is obviously 'no'. I don't see any other options

  • @hikaru13rwolf
    @hikaru13rwolf Год назад +17

    The thing I found most relatable as an INTP is when people express their feelings twords me. I think exactly that, but the only thing that comes out is "why, exactly, do you care for me?" 😂

  • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
    @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes Год назад +23

    This "Normal VS MBTI" playlist/series is very promising and entertaining ! Keep going, it's amazing. 🧡

  • @maeden-st7pv
    @maeden-st7pv Год назад +10

    INTP Girlfriend’s color lecture was so powerful Normal Girlfriend broke the fourth wall.

  • @cerebrummaximus3762
    @cerebrummaximus3762 Год назад +254

    I love how we're just Science geeks and every third word is some scientific lingo nobody cares or understands.
    I did expect the following tho:
    "I am sorry I didn't pick up your call, I fell in a Wikipedia rabbit hole and needed to discover what the Founding Fathers have in common with the Balkan wars"
    Or
    "I'd love to take a picture with you, but my phone's memory isn't working because I have 99+ tabs open, and half of them are Wikipedia"

    • @connaeris8230
      @connaeris8230 Год назад +21

      Don't call me out like that, I'm so addicted I use wikipedia as a form of stress relief

    • @yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole
      @yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole Год назад +2

      i'm an infp. i _completely_ understand. i'm at 200 tabs, though.

    • @Scruffed
      @Scruffed Год назад +18

      Wikipedia is the recipient of the only online donation I ever made. - INTP

    • @INTJenny
      @INTJenny Год назад +10

      MTBI peeps keep saying "you can't stereotype INTPs as wikipedia-obsessed geeks w/ no social life!!" Meanwhile every INTP:

    • @youtuber7505
      @youtuber7505 Год назад +9

      Okay, so what DO the Founding Fathers have in common with the Balkan Wars? This INFP needs to know.

  • @argyrous_p
    @argyrous_p Год назад +21

    Too accurate.😱
    Not sure if I should take a 5 hour nap to forget about it or continue playing SWTOR 🧐 😂

  • @dirkburie3872
    @dirkburie3872 Год назад +19

    Dressing up and personal hygiene is so true.
    How do you know if an INTP girl is hitting on you?
    She wears perfume and combed her hair. ♥️

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia Год назад +4

      She stands close to you. That's it.

    • @dirkburie3872
      @dirkburie3872 Год назад +1

      @@1Skorpia Thank you. I will insert this input in my next "hitting-on-assessment".
      BTW, could you quantify "close"? In the metric system, if possible.

    • @Demmie-nl2qh
      @Demmie-nl2qh Месяц назад

      Darn it. Is it shower time again?

  • @jenydennise
    @jenydennise Год назад +13

    This was pretty accurate 😹. Loved the diving into some random knowledge for absolutely no reason, except to quench that intp’s thirst for knowledge 😹. Also, was waiting for the “you forgot to feed me” part but wasn’t there 🥺
    -intp

  • @Pangur-Ban
    @Pangur-Ban Год назад +24

    As an INTP woman, I have a window of two weeks to conduct my loner shenanigans before anyone starts demanding proof of life... and by "anyone" I mean my mom.

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад

      I have an esfj friend who faithfully makes sure I am alive...

    • @Demmie-nl2qh
      @Demmie-nl2qh Месяц назад

      Yeah, she used to freak out because I'd drive across a border and 3 states and never think to call her and let her know where I was and if I was ok. "Well, duh, of course I'm ok". I knew where I was the entire time, I just don't get people.

  • @SubKween
    @SubKween Год назад +27

    I border between INTP & INFP. I relate to some of the stereotypes. I often wonder how certain mental health issues and being neurodivergent come into play with the varying personality types.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад +8

      Yes, I would be interested in neurodivergence and Myer's Briggs.

    • @JonBrase
      @JonBrase Год назад +2

      Autism drives you towards INXJ, ADHD drives you more towards a perceiving type, so AuDHD ends up around INXP.
      MBTI does a crap job of differentiating E/I for autistics, though. Extroverted autistics tend to make faux pas, get traumatized by the blowback, and develop introverted trauma responses, so MBTI dumps them in the I category.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад

      @@JonBrase I an ENTP with autism and ADHD. My boyfriend is an INTP with ADHD.

    • @JonBrase
      @JonBrase Год назад +1

      @@Catlily5 I have diagnosed ADHD and undiagnosed but very likely autism. I'm quite extroverted by nature, but I was the smartest kid in my class in elementary school, knew it, and made sure my classmates knew it. That went over about as well as you'd think, and by 3rd grade or so I'd decided not to be friends with anyone unless they were friends with me first. And the aftermath from that is why I test as INTP rather than ENTP.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад

      @@JonBrase I decided not to be friends with anyone unless they wanted to be friends with me. But I still approached people. But I refused to fetch or run errands for people just to have a "friend". I also refused to be friends with a girl who said she would hang out with me after school as long as I pretended not to be her friend in school. I was smart and nerdy but not the smartest in the school. It didn't help my popularity. My social skills also sucked. I tested as an introvert as a teenager but slowly reverted back to being an extrovert as an adult. I am not super extroverted though.

  • @athismathis64
    @athismathis64 Год назад +7

    1:01 floored me. I've literally said something of the kind to my bf. How do i know you love me and not some other version of me you've created in your head by projecting the contents of your psyche onto me, as if I were a projection screen? It doesn't help that I'm bland af 😂

  • @posieandrosie
    @posieandrosie Год назад +8

    I’m loving this normal vs mbti type series ❤

  • @YMYleftgluv
    @YMYleftgluv Год назад +7

    The fact that I would 100% do this if I had a boyfriend makes me WHEEZE

  • @knusperkeks2748
    @knusperkeks2748 Год назад +41

    As an INTP man, most of these sound interesting. Except the part where she didn't shower before meeting the parents, and not responding to 47 texts even after finding it out. Not the 47 messages missed, but the continuation of non-responsiveness. Just... a life sign is all I ask.
    Unfortunately, we'll never meet, because I'm stuck at home the time that I don't spend at work, because why would one bother with the immediate viscinity when the internet is *right there*, a connection to any place in the world? Anyway. I hope you're happy, dear INTP ladies.

    • @INTJenny
      @INTJenny Год назад +21

      "Just...a life sign is all I ask." should be officially written in an INTP relationship contract or something 🤔 😅

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад +2

      You sound verrrry much like my Infj bf, tbh

    • @donnathedead7554
      @donnathedead7554 Год назад +13

      You don't want 2 intps for a romantic relationship anyway. That dog's not gonna hunt. Intps need a more dominant, assertive partner because someone has got to be in charge of the relationship and it's not gonna be us. At a minimum we need someone that will let us know when we're in a relationship.

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад +3

      @@donnathedead7554 👏🏼😂😂
      Send me a memo, er, meme, I mean.

    • @ls_waifu2789
      @ls_waifu2789 Год назад +3

      ​@@donnathedead7554 yess

  • @tellustabby1357
    @tellustabby1357 Год назад +8

    Just what I needed as an INTP

  • @lils6197
    @lils6197 Год назад +18

    Why is this so accurate though? 💀

  • @НекојНекојоски
    @НекојНекојоски Год назад +12

    Yes! You presented INTP realistically as the really are, in my opinion.

  • @silverxpanda5852
    @silverxpanda5852 Год назад +6

    1:29 I have an INTP boyfriend and he definitely treats time like an illusion. He sometimes comes hours late when we plan a time to meet up. And yeah it kind of looks like he doesn't respect me, but I also know he really struggles with sleep in general. He falls asleep anywhere, and for a really long time. Once a fire alarm went off in his dormitory, and he slept through all that and didn't even know 😭It's ok I think he plans to see a cousnelor about it, but generally he isn't so strict with time or even deadlines for schoolwork. Sometimes I think he's too laidback

  • @galamander_1327
    @galamander_1327 Год назад +7

    Savage. I feel seen. 🖤 The only differences being I might blurt out factoids on plant genetics, not light. And I make a big effort to be punctual, but sometimes I get the day wrong. 😅

  • @ds5206
    @ds5206 Год назад +27

    It would be difficult to do an INTP boyfriend version of this since we are pretty much all single.

    • @connaeris8230
      @connaeris8230 Год назад +16

      And no wonder... I ask my intp crush to study together in the morning, he texts me at 5 am saying he hasn't gone to sleep yet 🤦

    • @ds5206
      @ds5206 Год назад +2

      @@connaeris8230 lol exactly, imagine a woman putting up with all these behaviors on a regular basis.

    • @donnathedead7554
      @donnathedead7554 Год назад +6

      To be fair, we aren't really in relationships either. We just get pursued for sex like all the other women.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад +5

      ​@@ds5206 I am a woman in a relationship with an INTP man. I am an ENTP. It is not as hard to be in a relationship if your weird sides match well.

  • @kendragillis-g1h
    @kendragillis-g1h Год назад +8

    As a female INTP, this is spot on!

  • @imagination.junkyard
    @imagination.junkyard Год назад +4

    I want a full version of ur end theme every time I hear it. Literally will get stuck in my head and it's only 13 words long

  • @frostyhannah
    @frostyhannah Год назад +12

    My mom is a INTP and this reminds me of her lol

  • @shortcut101
    @shortcut101 Год назад +28

    Wow, I think Intp is suitable with intj. Problem is both didn't want to make the first move and God knows the cluelessness 😂😂

    • @MarianneBrandon
      @MarianneBrandon Год назад +6

      Haha I’m an INTJ and have 2 good friends whose husbands are INTPs and I would have been miserable married to either of them. I ❤️ my neurotic INFJ husband.

    • @darkspice6339
      @darkspice6339 Год назад +3

      Aww as an INTJ myself, INFJ's have my heart haha the emotional intimacy is wild 💎

    • @Apeiron242
      @Apeiron242 Год назад +3

      I'm an INTP married to an INTJ.

    • @zacfromArkansas
      @zacfromArkansas Год назад +1

      ​@@Apeiron242Same.

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад

      I stopped waiting for the INxxs to make their move, and finally put my foot out there first.

  • @MaddieSchnitzel
    @MaddieSchnitzel Год назад +5

    "Time is an illusion"
    I'm totally using this one next time i'm late, and that happens often😅

  • @azurekirlia3339
    @azurekirlia3339 Год назад +5

    An INTP girlfriend here!😉
    1.(nap) True😂my bf even once suggested a dating schedule where I can take a nap at his home in the middle of the day
    2.(texts) Also technically true😂but my bf isn't talkative too...at most it was 4😂😂
    3.(dress) Yes I wear a T-shirt to meet his parents every time😂but it's clean for real😉
    4.(concept of love) Literally just argued "affection and the urge of selecting a capable partner" is a result of "evolution and ancient women's survival strategy" to my bf today😅
    5.(question) I just never said the "would you still love me if ...." questions in any way simply because I think that's dumb😅
    6.(late) So true that I'm so bad at time management😅😅
    7.(check) Actually I always pay my own part even when he says he'll take it. Also not bad at money as my interests aren't costing much, and I have a good idea of how much of my income is disposable cash in mind.
    I actually found it interesting that FJ put the dedication to prepare this episode...I thought most of us would be hiding in our comfort zones, not meeting much ppl, and because of that, not big chance to get into a relationship.🙈

  • @mauubf45
    @mauubf45 Год назад +23

    After +20 years getting the INTP as result in the MBTI test I still cannot accept being an INTP. Until my well Tik tok -informed 11 year old told me she heard about something called MBTI and her results are INTP and proceeded to explain her results. I rest my case 😂

  • @flyingunicorn109
    @flyingunicorn109 Год назад +8

    Now I totally get why are INFJ and INTP considered to be the golden couple :D

    • @lorigoshert6667
      @lorigoshert6667 Год назад +9

      Yep, I'm an INFJ married to an INTP. My INTP is goofier than this though!

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад +3

      It is a good pairing, but it is NOT easy.

    • @Jxzlmao
      @Jxzlmao 11 месяцев назад

      Ew golden pairs 💀

  • @maxmogavero952
    @maxmogavero952 Год назад +5

    "Time is an illusion ... Lunchtime doubly so."

  • @nataliadmontalvolopez8895
    @nataliadmontalvolopez8895 Год назад +29

    It’s not all bad being an INTP woman 😆 Yeah, we’re weird but people usually like how nonjudgmental and chill we can be. And if we work with our Fe, our pedantic rambling is actually kind of cute. Or so I’ve been told…
    Have been with my ISFJ partner for 6 years now ❤❤❤

    • @Reegish
      @Reegish Год назад +1

      I’m also an INTP and just recently hit a decade married to my ISFJ. We work pretty well together.

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад +1

      I think you are right.

    • @silvertarot25
      @silvertarot25 Год назад +1

      I have freinds who call me when they have trouble sleeping cuz of my ability to just talk about whatever in too much detail by myself.

    • @athens31415
      @athens31415 Год назад +1

      Wow. INTP here and my partner is also an ISFJ. 12 years so far. Despite our minds being on different planes of existence (I don't think he understands half the things I talk about and we don't really communicate well), it still somehow manages to miraculously work itself out.

    • @scratchoriginalsdh
      @scratchoriginalsdh Год назад +1

      @@athens31415 my daughter is actually an ISFJ and our relationship is pretty easygoing. She likes to talk a lot, lol, just like my INFJ partner. (A little taxing on this hyper-internal mind of mine)

  • @OnewBiased
    @OnewBiased Год назад +11

    I think i have to disappear for 5 years at least to make sure they take the hint

  • @subconsciousclarity1702
    @subconsciousclarity1702 Год назад +4

    infp man who realizes that im extremely entertaining the thought of what if i had an intp gf too much, help it's too wholesome and im falling for the trope!! 😵‍💫💞

  • @aurnaurrr
    @aurnaurrr Год назад +5

    Okayyyy 10 seconds in and it’s already reached a surgical level of accuracy

  • @Lime1958
    @Lime1958 Год назад +3

    I feel so scene! I actually replied "love is a human concept, don't put much weight into it" when an ex said I love you.😂😆

  • @hein6870
    @hein6870 Год назад +7

    As an INTP girl I think if I was in a relationship I would act exactly like this 😂😂😂🍻

  • @whatiftherewerejust100peop8
    @whatiftherewerejust100peop8 Год назад +5

    Frank James probably doesn’t realise that he helps to handle our mental health by this channel. He lets us feel understood and like we aren’t alone❤❤❤

  • @Catherinzsl
    @Catherinzsl Год назад +8

    As a female INTP, I'll provide another data point to say this is very accurate
    and probably has a causal relationship with my singledom.

  • @par2788
    @par2788 Год назад +7

    "Emotionless" they called me ."Wierd girl" " Robot" And I come from a culture that different types are rarely understood. Sometimes I was heartbtoken and tried to change or pretend to be more "girly" . Sometimes I was proud to be the intteligent independant woman. "Love could be illusion " I agree. 😂 INTP but still am not sure while I have some INTJ traits too.

    • @belgadog99
      @belgadog99 Год назад

      do not worry, i hover between INTP and INTJ...and i may be on the spectrum too..(Aspie??) Yes, i was labelled "strange" or Weird as a child OR an Old Soul...

    • @zels2816
      @zels2816 4 месяца назад

      same I was called a robot

  • @Torrentialdownpurr
    @Torrentialdownpurr 11 месяцев назад +2

    At first I was like "ehhh not really me.." until he said "solve this 3000 year old equation" that and everything that came after was spot on 😂😂😂 whooops

  • @justynap5031
    @justynap5031 Год назад +6

    I love how at 0:50 'normal girlfriend' turns to the INTP one just as if she heard all those 'ridiculous things' and was like: girl what is wrong with you?

  • @impakyu
    @impakyu Год назад +6

    I can't believe how much this video means to me. 😂😂😂
    -INTPendeja 🤟🏼

  • @JasonLaw29
    @JasonLaw29 Год назад +6

    This is super accurate. Swap the 'INTP girlfriend' label to 'INTP boyfriend' and it would still be true.

    • @queenhornet7533
      @queenhornet7533 Год назад +2

      not really cuz it is practically impossible for us INTP males to even get a gf lol

    • @paulinaderegowska4757
      @paulinaderegowska4757 Год назад +2

      ​@@queenhornet7533 INTP female here, in my 20+ years I have never been with anybody, so yeah 😂

    • @JasonLaw29
      @JasonLaw29 Год назад

      @@queenhornet7533 @paulinaderegowska4757 You two do have a point 🤣

  • @jens6754
    @jens6754 Год назад +3

    I feel seen!!! 😂
    Rather, I not only feel perceived visually, but also intuited within an acceptable level of accuracy by your representation of my type.
    Not that I noticed.

  • @sumiran9630
    @sumiran9630 Год назад +3

    GREAT Video!!

  • @LadyVenus125
    @LadyVenus125 Год назад +6

    As an INTP, yes. I'm the only one in the family who watches 5 hours worth of science/history documentaries.

    • @Demmie-nl2qh
      @Demmie-nl2qh Месяц назад

      I saw the most amazing documentary on Bubbles one time. Did you know that sometimes when a bubble pops under water, it can emit light? Fascinating stuff. Oh, and I think most of us also secretly have Mr. Spock as a role model :D

    • @LadyVenus125
      @LadyVenus125 Месяц назад +1

      @@Demmie-nl2qh Wow, that is certainly fascinating! Also, it turns out that I am an INTJ.

  • @ashmitaacharyya4446
    @ashmitaacharyya4446 Год назад +4

    As an INTP woman, the 3 hour nap was personal.

  • @my_Ni_Te_Fi_Se
    @my_Ni_Te_Fi_Se Год назад +6

    As an INFP with super duper interest in physics , maths and patterns , I would love to have an INTP girlfriend to mess up her mind with quantum and relativistic mechanics . Those theories are just the chef's kiss to entire Physics .

  • @darkspice6339
    @darkspice6339 Год назад +6

    As an INTJ female, SLAYYY INTP 😂❤

  • @shuris_vibranium
    @shuris_vibranium Год назад +7

    I feel so seen, and dragged at the same time, lol 😂

  • @JadedeaJade
    @JadedeaJade Год назад +4

    I would like to have an INTP woman as a bestie because the whole quantum mechanics wormhole experiment was just banging! Just as long as we don't discover warp 10....

  • @somebody7070
    @somebody7070 Год назад +3

    Please do the sqme with every other type
    This stuff is HILARIOUS😂😂

  • @Scruffed
    @Scruffed Год назад +4

    The break up thing hit a little too close to home. - INTP

  • @_.nastou._
    @_.nastou._ Год назад +4

    The fact that I somewhat relate to both, while never having been in a relationship and being an INFJ is...interesting

  • @harley69
    @harley69 5 месяцев назад +1

    As an INTP girlfriend, I've said the "are you in love with the idealized concept of me" part word for word

  • @XaniaKorinec
    @XaniaKorinec Год назад +5

    Laughed hard when the regular girl just broke the wall when she heard the INTP girl 0:35 😄

  • @katerinabentley5882
    @katerinabentley5882 6 месяцев назад

    You have NO IDEA how I relate to this!!!!

  • @echotrapta
    @echotrapta Год назад +3

    why is this actually me irl LMAOOO

  • @exterminatorwwe
    @exterminatorwwe Год назад +2

    Please do an ISTJ video I would really appreciate it

  • @angeliquewu8318
    @angeliquewu8318 11 месяцев назад +11

    Lowkey, as an INTP girl who has been in relationships (both platonic and romantic), the INTP shown in the video is a more immature type of INTP that usually isn't able to get into relationships because of their very underdeveloped Fi.
    My Fi is actually decently developed, so I never come off as the type of INTP in the video, but am deeply socially and emotionally awkward at my core. I've learned enough to be able to pass off as generally normal, but it's all because I imitate/have learned to internalize general set steps on how to be "pleasant".

    • @barney2120
      @barney2120 11 месяцев назад +2

      This are INTP stereotypes so everyone should take it with a grain of salt. I'm also pissed tho since everyone thinks INTPs dont feel emotions and quantifies everything which is an overgeneralization for the most part.

  • @AG-bp5ov
    @AG-bp5ov Год назад +2

    as an INTJ somehow I can relate to this one more than your INTJ sketch lol, oh, that is if I'm dating someone I REALLY like. Otherwise, yeah, the INTJ video is def more accurate.

    • @AG-bp5ov
      @AG-bp5ov Год назад

      other than the ghosting part, yeah... I for sure learned that skill

  • @edi0157
    @edi0157 Год назад +16

    Outside of randomly disappearing like that the INTP girlfriend is clearly superior no cap. Of course she has glasses too because say it with me, “math+glasses=INTP girlfriend”

  • @Dessert_x_Tat
    @Dessert_x_Tat Год назад +1

    Another BRILLIANT one. :)

  • @JohnHenrysaysHi
    @JohnHenrysaysHi Год назад +3

    Frank, you're a national treasure! It takes one to know one, but it also takes one to reveal what one doesn't have. You got the highest respect good connotation. For me, well, whenever, if ever, someone called me that, they want me to have a peaceful rest, in that they desire for me to be buried. Makes sense, no? Happy Funny Friday, Frank! Wasn't expecting where this girlfriend went to write a rock'em sock'em pinned comment like yours!
    P.S. that "one" pun only works out loud since I was gonna end it referring to you as being the real winner of the day as opposed to a real winner like me...that's factual! Are not dinosaurs the ancestors of chickens? And who eats them? Ipso facto, Frank, you rule all classic jokes from school! You're number 1! Which reminds me, I gotta go...someone's running water and.....

  • @veracuskar3017
    @veracuskar3017 Год назад +1

    Yes it's interesting... and it's great to see something through the eye of MBTI view point. Keep up with the good work mr. Frank.

  • @ritik_baliyan
    @ritik_baliyan Год назад +5

    Ohh INTP girlfriend exists.. i have never met an INTP woman in my life

    • @blueharmony3675
      @blueharmony3675 Год назад +12

      Hi there. We do exist, we're just incredibly rare and don't socialize much so you're unlikely to come across one of us in the wild.

    • @galamander_1327
      @galamander_1327 Год назад +1

      We're around but we're already with an I or ENTP guy we met at a conference on fungus in medical and industrial applications, or a sci fi convention.

    • @INFamousJudge576
      @INFamousJudge576 Год назад +2

      @@blueharmony3675 I wouldn't trust someone named nobody that tells she exist.

    • @lumieredice485
      @lumieredice485 Год назад +1

      @@blueharmony3675 Relatable.

    • @blueharmony3675
      @blueharmony3675 Год назад

      @@INFamousJudge576
      **Nervous sweating**

  • @yana112o92
    @yana112o92 Год назад

    That question about love is spot on and I would even provide the neurology process behind it.

  • @grababundoberni
    @grababundoberni Год назад +2

    To the INTPs (that seek that!) I wish with all my Fe you find someone worth your oxytocin.

    • @Scruffed
      @Scruffed Год назад +1

      Thanks, my Fe appreciates it while my Ti remains cautiously optimistic that it will happen in maybe 2-3 years.

  • @bethmccall9254
    @bethmccall9254 Год назад +1

    I remember going to Vegas for my birthday with friends in my 20’s. The night of my birthday, they all planned to celebrate with me. But they couldn’t find me, because I was alone at the blackjack and craps tables all day and most of the night, happily amusing myself! When they finally found me, I just kind of shrugged my shoulders, not realizing how big of a faux pas I was making by being lost when an entire group of people were trying to be nice and celebrate with me.

  • @69hehehe
    @69hehehe Год назад +4

    Are you going to do ISTP next?

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  Год назад +4

      probably not, but maybe one day

  • @triorantauxodiac
    @triorantauxodiac Год назад +2

    Only a strong will guy that can have a relationship with INTP girl.

  • @Eliaskip
    @Eliaskip 9 месяцев назад +1

    as an intp who accidentally forgets to text people back, yes. the end made me laugh so hard, it really called me out