INTJ married to an INTJ. At the age of 16, he literally told me his 20-year plan for us, and when I argued that it didn't align with my plan, he pointed out that mine was merely a 5-year plan that could be suitably merged with his. We decided to see whose plan was ultimately superior, which resulted in us sticking together for the past several decades. His 20-year plan was admittedly the optimal route, but he's kidding himself if he thinks I'll be outmaneuvered.
INFJ married to an INFJ. We both knew we wanted to pursue each other after the first date DIDN'T leave us feeling emotionally drained. After about a minute of talking, we skipped small talk and started talking about the things that mattered most to us. I had never felt so comfortable or seen by another person as I did with him. Very happily married now. 😊
INTJ married to INTJ and Here’s our marriage proposal; M : I have been carefully and critically thinking about something for one week. F : Okay. M : In my opinion, we can get married. F : Yes, I agree with you. End of the story.
Can't tell u how often I've wished ppl could just transmit thoughts without room for misunderstanding. Or how much I wish ppl didn't have to communicate at all honestly...
That was really funny 🤣 Suggestions: 1- 16 personalities as therapists 2- 16 personalities studying for a test 3- 16 personalities babysitting 4- 16 personalities if they only have 1 day left to live 5- 16 personalities with animals 6- 16 personalities as serial killers 7- 16 personalities as models 8- 16 personalities putting an educational system of their own 9- 16 personalities dreaming (having a nightmare) 10- 16 personalities in the army 11- 16 personalities as martial arts professionals 12- 16 personalities as tv hosts 13- 16 personalities on graduation day 14- 16 personalities last words 15- 16 personalities first words 16- 16 personalities ( introverts team vs extroverts team ) in a game 17- 16 personalities adopting a child 18- 16 personalities getting lost 19- 16 personalities getting kidnapped 20- FINALLY timmy's backstory
Can we just think about the effort that Frank had to go through just to make this 6 minute video? Writing the script for 32 parts, dressing and changing into different outfits for 32 people, acting each scene out separately and recording it, maybe a couple of takes each. Then editing all of the segments and backgrounds to look like the 2 people are having a face to face conversation. His skills are really remarkable.
I think he has SOME help in the form of a co writing partner and Editor Kevin (Kevin being recently introduced to us in some videos. One that spotlighted his great singing and dancing skills btw). 😁 So thank goodness for that. But yes, videos like these are the usual 16 times at least 2!!! Plus the writing and acting that capture these characters spot on per mbti type is amazing. He may be 16 personalities but slouch isn't one of them! So many things to appreciate. 🤗
@@Leumar1990 no, I'm not on insta actually, so maybe there's some more info there. Kevin was featured and introduced in two of Frank's recent videos over the last few weeks - one of the Sunday ones and the Uber driver vid. And Frank I think mentioned his co writer in a comment recently. The buts with Kevin were very funny. It was nice to see him finally. Assuming he's been with Frank for a while. I don't know how long he's been around. I don't know if I'd be able to discern a difference in editing to tell.
That’s sounds like an app, or a feature to be added to an app. [*] Willing to discuss serious things on first date I’m an INFJ, I wouldn’t date someone, who I hadn’t heard speak on “serious things” previously. 🤣
I wonder if you might get a better reception to serious topics if you prepared them by asking if they are up for discussing serious things. If it comes out of nowhere it might throw people off more.
As an INFP with an INFP SO, I can confirm the online messages never stopped and it felt like I was talking to a mirror of myself by how similar we were. When we finally got to meet in person for the first time, he was v awkward and didn't wanna touch me. XD I powered through it bec I knew I was like this too so I had to make the stand and even though it felt awkward for me too, I just kept pushing and acting how I did online. After a few minutes of being together, his shell finally melted and he instantly became the clingiest person I've ever met XD He's one of the kindest souls I've met and he understands me in a level no other person has ever had.
pretty much my husband and I lolol although I don't know what his personality type is. we're both socially challenged but I've found that i have to be the braver of the two to get interactions going and my husband may jump in eventually from hiding behind me😅
As an infp I can confirm that he is an infp because he wrote an entire passage because I'm also an infp and I also write entire passages and I try to write as small as possible so I think I can only type this much
This is the sweetest thing I have ever read :D As an INFP, I try to break out of my shell to do certain things as well (when I know that's the right thing but no one else would do it) although it's very difficult and takes up so much time to gather up the courage to actually do it XD
I don't know, as an INFP I'm always comfortable with other INFPs. Sadly not same for some of them. I just enjoy silences when they happen, they don't feel awkward to me. (But they do with other types, since you can see they are uncomfortable)
haha not for me falling for another infp and we either have a ton of fun and lengthy conversations or juts very comfortable silence and im living for it
@@abigailarredondo6257 my boyfriend and I are INFPs and man, let me tell you, this stuff is very nice. It's a lot of fun hanging out together and though we have those moments of silence together, I love it
@@sora_keychain5510 How did you do to find a infp boyfriend as a infp? I'm infp too and it seems impossible for me unless i become a bit more extraverted
@WildChild just because INFPs leads with introverted feeling doesn't mean they don't care about others. In fact, their introspection causes them to empathize with others on a great level. Same with ENFJs, just because they're Fe doms doesn't mean they don't think about what they want
As an INTP, I've decided to implement a rule about turning off my phone during dates. I really upset my last date (an ENFJ) because she thought I was bored and that's why I was texting other people occasionally. I wasn't even actually texting, I was just faking it because I was trying to find the right amount of eye contact that doesn't turn into staring like a psychopath.
I am an enfj and i can assure you when i watch the intp frank being like “yea i been staring glances at memes” i was like “oh that would really offends me”
As an INTJ, watching my date gave me peace of mind. I will never understand why people keep on dating when they disagree about issues like having kids. My partner pretty much has the same everyday needs, life plans, important ideals, preferences for vacations and enough common interests for daily quality time. It's a good life.
I’m an INTJ female and my bro is an INFJ male and the communicating telepathically thing is spot on. We don’t need words half the time and when we do communicate, it’s not in a language known to mankind. We just created our own language that no one else can understand but us lol.
I had a conversation with an INFJ and INTJ in a group chat full of other people, we were discussing what i thought were quite a popular topic, i thought some others will join the talk, responding or anything, but no, no one did, some are even asking seriously what we were talking about, cus we sounded so really into it, but they dont know or understand what we were talking about..so we have to break it down and explain.. at first i was like "why wouldnt they understand and keep up with the conversation?" Then i guess it must be from the way we talk (INFJ INTJ and INFP)
I love how the INFJs are portrayed as 'psychics' with crippling anxiety. That's literally me when communicating with people in general. I zone out way too much while over-analysing things lmao (I'm an INFJ)
Within the INFJ are super powers. Just need to be aware of the strengths and weaknesses and develop both so the weaknesses don't have much bearing on things. 🙂
As ENFP dating another ENFP we change topics so much in the span of minutes and surprisingly we can keep up with each other pretty well. Everyone around us gets so confused. And yes sometimes I do have to remind him that he didn’t let me finish what I was saying. We’re constantly saying sorry all the time because of it.
As an INFP with an INFJ, his cheerful neurotic adorable nervousness emboldened me, and the ease with which others talk to me helped draw him out of his own headspace. It was magic. :) There are such advantages to being very similar people.
@Reality Is A Dream It's not that weird imo. When people are very different from each other, it can allow their personalities to bounce off of each other in unique ways, and even allow them to cover each other's faults or weaknesses. It could even be said that INFPs and INFJs are dissimilar types, since they don't share any of their first 4 cognitive functions. They're pretty different beneath the surface. - An INFJ
I can relate to INFP. I pretty much need an extravert to get the conversation going. I can banter all day, but starting things off is near impossible if the other person isn't willing to do so either.
So so so relatable 😭 Why am I so awkward first steps lol I'm trying to improve but that stupid feeling is always there like "what if they don't want me to approach"
As an INFJ, I can testify that when I was younger, I was 95% sure people could read my thoughts and I could read theirs... it gave me both curiosity and anxiety lol
2 Infjs can telepathically communicate because they both realize human thoughts aren't too complicated to understand and empathize then they have a stoke of their own heart and can be heard by the VERY attentive.
When I was in school, I used to try to jumble my thoughts if I was suspicious of a coming car exile I walked home because I didn't want them reading my thoughts so I actively tried to emulate snow. I'd then watch out of the corner of my eye to see if they reacted. I was not aware that this was common among other infjs.
Iam suprized it took them that long. I can tell if dating will be good just by observing for a few minutes with out saying anything. In person of course. But iam exstreamly picky.
This was great! As an INFJ dating an INFP- the awkward levels of us opening up took a bit, in fact, it started out as a friendship that took us both by surprise when It developed into feelings XD So far, has been one of the greatest relationships I’ve had. You INFP’s can sit in meaningful silence and we can both geek out on things while also having deep emotional talks! Worth the effort I say!
That ENTJ one was so relatable. The woman I’ve been seeing recently is an extremely hardworking PhD student in biology, and I’m in medical school while doing more additional things than I should. At the end of our last date we excitedly planned the next one, which couldn’t happen for another month because of our schedule conflicts. Looking forward to two weeks from now! 🤣
I mean i always appreciate a fellow debater if they dont get upset and act so hurt every time I say sth ... i mean half of the time im not arguing im just giving them new ideas and the other half im just joking around or teasing them
@@michelledoolan7741 lucky!!! I'm 28 entp still looking for my entp girlfriend. People ask me what I'm looking for? " you know a smart girl who will challenges me to grow in my thoughts and ideas and enjoys discussing abstract concepts. They just stare at me and say no wonder you're single. Lol I hope you have a long and successful marriage with enough debate to fill two lifetimes!
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 ikr, i'm not close to anyone with high Ne and while i may love myself ahha i can imagine myself getting so drained with another enfp (or just highly extroverted person), i'm comfortable being the extrovert that adopts introverts,, plus conversations that dive deeply into one topic are the best :)
Can confirm, is like that. Infinite dinamic conversatiosn where we start talking about our uni subjects and end up googling what whould have happened if dinousaurs had a religion. I mean, other types are cool AF but with the only people I got that level of conversations where either ENTP, ENFP or ESFP (yeah, believe it or not they are really good at that). Kinda miss it now that I'm dating an introvert (probably a INTP)
Two ambiverted INFPs I imagine dating like this: "Hey let's continue the conversation we had online." "Yes. I agree with you in so many points" "It's like we have the same opinion on people and the world. What a funny coincidence." "Has it really been five hours? It felt like five minutes." Yeah, how fun. It seems like we share one mind and one soul. You don't drain me. Let's get married."
INFJ here. Wanna go out on a telepathic date? You can read my thoughts, I'll read yours and then we can agree that online dating is much easier because it's text and not as complicated as RL?
The ENFP section is accurate lol, I can bounce off of what others say to go from one conversation topic to the next for hours, it's really fun and you learn so much about the other person that you can use when you're talking to them again, it's awesome >:)
Yes but then some people think we are extremely talkative and extraverted and then expect us to talk like always. But then one time Fi hits hard and people are wondering where is this bubbly person?
@@venorika7146 what is a Fi? I’m not familiar with those terms and would like to understand more about it! Every time I take the 16 personalities test, I always get ENFP but I always think I’m an INFP because I don’t talk a lot in groups. However, when it’s one on one, I’m always talkative lol 😭
This was adorably hilarious! Thank you for the laughs! I heartily agree, INFP's find it a bit easier to communicate though typing since overthinking into awkward silence is what we do best when face to face. But a dash of INTP with meme communication would definitely help break the anxious tension a bit lol
As an ISFJ I literally cried on a date with my husband about a place from our childhood and how it held so many memories but it was gone now and that our kids wouldn’t be able to see it. In true ESTP fashion he laughed because of how cute he thought I was for crying about our past/ future.
Oh my God. My jaw dropped when I saw the INTJ one. It was spot on!!! I usually ask my dates what their plans are in the first date or two. If it doesn't align with mine, I just forget about it. I don't want to be wasting precious time and energy.
INTJ in movies: *Criminal mastermind villain* INTJ in real life: "Understandable, have a great day." As an ENFP, I could guess my type from the rapid-fire ideas and the train of thought that's really more like a pinball of thought.
@Dackson Flux stereotypically, yes, though it isn't true. Every personality has the potential to thrive above and beyond everyone else. The problem lies in that every type also has their own pitfalls that counter them. For me, a potential INFJ, the pitfall is monotony. There's something inside it that's like a poison if I do enough of it. It drives me absolutely crazy. And I know others have their own pitfalls as well.
this is literally what that voice in the back of my head sounds like, and then I remind it that I'm not better than everyone else while feeling way better than everyone else
I thought that one was INFJ. That's why I like INTP. But i think we mean slightly different things. INTP doesn't factor in that kindness is integral. At least, not when they say things like that.
The ENFP one was on point besides calling anyone on interrupting (because if they do it then they don’t usually mind when I do due to idea spontaneously falling out of my mouth. Interrupting is allowed in my friendships and I never mind it). But that insane weird building energy with ENFP-ENFP interractions is spot on.
When I was looking for people to “date” I need to make sure the time between first contact and first meeting was as short as possible. Too long and then the idealization begins and more anxiety.
Online chatting is easier for INFPs to communicate sensitively, but in face2face communication, we prefer intuitive talking, which usually seems wired, specialy in first steps of connection! 😄💔
A date with two INFJs could be so interesting if they could communicate telepathically. For now it looks like the most boring, formulaic and unproductive date ever from the outside 😂.
Nah, worst is two ENFJs, two mirror people who only care about how they seem to the other one. The entire conversational skill of an ENFJ can be summed up as, "But enough about me. Let's talk about you. What do you most adore about me?"
😂 I am pretty sure you can tho my bf and I do it all the time. Usually goes like some silence ....then follows with did you see the rat go behind the bar? Yes I did. You want to leave don't you? Yes I do. We both continue to gtfo because we don't like people anyway either so that rat just made our lives easier.
INTJ lady, here. Recently I heard about a girl who was upset that a guy she didn’t want to date had ghosted her, and she was going through all this effort to get him to contact her again. The whole time I was thinking “why do people waste so much time on relationships they know aren’t going anywhere?” So, your video? Accurate! 😂
As an ENFP, I would have liked to have seen the depth of conversation we crave represented, and not just our tendency to draw ideas and memories from several directions.
ENFPs are really much more emo than most people give them credit for; and I'm saying this as an ENFP myself... I would imagine dating another ENFP to be just very bipolar moments between hyper/random and super deep/philosophical; though that sounds fun
O m g yes There is a lot of darkness and sadness under that bubbly surface that non-ENFPs don't really ever see. I'm an ENFP together with another ENFP and it's so true, we can be totally silent together or only talk about non-consequential stuff or randomly, we'll delve into super deep philosphical life questions. It's like we don't connect so much over language, more over our other senses, touch, looks, energy we give off. I just feel so confortable and content in his presence and it's been like that since we met.
Yet another spot on video! Telepathic communication must exist because you captured the exact thoughts going through my head when I speak to people. I also love the costumes! :)
@@swaggerness001 well, telepathy with privacy I guess, but then speaking is no different. The only thing you can tell in telepathy is what the other person is speaking in their mind or imagining. But then again, reading images or hearing thoughts could be misinterpreted too unless that person is actually you, but then again it would be hard to discern reality and identity a lot. So, I guess communication is no different either when it comes to misinterpretation of thoughts and imaginations. And the idea of telepathy might not be the best. The only way to understand each other is to actually make an effort to get to know one another. Guess no different from real life. Plus, even if it's hard to lay our thoughts or imagination into reality(words or actions), it also helps us become more creative and push past our limits. An important thing to know too is that talking IS taking action, and taking an action makes a person feel powerful and believe in their strength.
It's not good though. It actually robs us of valuable experience. Even if a relationship fails, it teaches you something. For me, I struggle to to see value in experience. Just doing something for the sake of having done it before seems extraneous and it is, but necessary. As I age, I'm understanding that better at least.
INTJ. I once went out on a blind date and then asked the person who set us up how many more times I would have to see the guy in order to be polite. I was thrilled when she said I could stop seeing him.
As an ENFP, I remember being told that "you don't need to smoke anything because you're naturally high". Yes we are very entertaining. You'll never be bored around an ENFP!
Frank over here pulling off dresses and shirts I never could. 😭 You look good in anything, FJ, lol. Also, as an INFP, I can say this occasionally happens. The text conversation seems to go very smoothly, but in person, it seems to feel awkward. Trying to learn better social skills, but it's an uphill battle!
Relatable, but you can do it (hopefully me too)! - fellow infp 🤓 Fortunately there are many amazing people out there who are willing to be patient for you to open up, I wish you find those people!
@@tomniebuhr7723 I am intp with mental issues. I think you have to find a partner you can trust, so you can talk about your feelings every time you get hurt, and they don't let you down. My partner was really unhealthy infp, making empty promises just to avoid conflict, unable to take critique, etc. His case he should just not date at all and heal. My case, I should really try to focus reading if the partner is trustworthy or not.
I'm an INFP and i was just casually watching the video and when I saw the INFPs i didnt realize which type they were and backed up the video because they sounded like they would make great friends. I just boosted my own confidence.
I, as an INFJ who has meet with another INFJ to go out, can say that it's not that bad and we can talk very much. That is probably only the case or possible because we both didn't want some awkward silence to happen. Doing that we spend 1,5 hours without noticing it or so. So it really isn't that bad.
Oh my gosh, the ENTJ one is so accurate. I recently started seeing a guy and was just thinking this morning how it would be so hard to get dates in next year bc 7 of the 12 months, I'll be away for work! But I'd still like to see him when I'm in back from those trips :D
I gotta say man, the INTJ one was so damn accurate. I literally decided to end my crush on this person because he wasnt going in the same direction as me, i even listed our different approaches in life on a notepad. Prolly will end up single my entire life because of this too :)
ENTJ was accurate, too. I was recently asked out and said yes, but the date will happen in about two weeks. He was free any evening but my schedule was booked SOLID until that gap. Parties, appointments, meetings, he's got to wait his turn 🤣
INTJ and I completely relate. I have a string of relationships behind me; i’d say “failed” but the only failings has been when I’ve stayed in them after they went stale (or worse). The man I am currently interested in, we have spoken ad nauseam about our mental processes, methodologies, outlooks, value systems (internal and external), what we want out of life, what we want our environments to look like, and a whole host of other elements. I am cautiously optimistic, even though he lives 3000 miles away (literally). Meh, what’s a little distance when your brains are compatible and you operate harmoniously?
It's because the author and actor is INFJ and INFJs are, even if they don't seem to, very similar to ISTPs. It works with every type: ESFP actors play great ENTJs, ENFP actors play great ESTJs and so on... Watch Cate Blanchett (INFJ) playing ISTP character in Oceans 8
As an INFJ who's friends with and has feelings for another INFJ friend of mine, that's literally our conversations, awkward silences but we both understand what we both mean. At least I think. Why is human communication so hard
I'm an INFP/Pisces married to an INTJ/Aries. We have a lot of the same taste in movies, music and TV shows. But our personalities are very different. I think I have helped him learn it is okay to show emotion and be vulnerable. And he helps me with setting realistic expectations and goals. We both can help the other see things from different perspectives. His is more logical and mine is more emotional. We've been together since 2005.
@i n f p I would say being patient with an INTJ is important. INFPs are more in our feelings and INTJs aren't very emotional creatures. I would try and try to get my husband to open up and express his feelings to me but I learned I had to let him do it at his own pace. I let him know I was here if he wanted to open up about things and overtime he has opened up more and more. He just hates feeling vulnerable. INTJs can also be unintentionally mean and insensitive I have found. And as an INFP, we can be pretty sensitive. So, I have tried not to take some things personally. But also kindly let him know what things I find hurtful so he is aware. Since there are things he wouldn't have thought would be hurtful but to me they are. Idk if any of that helps. Lol.
@@moomerz24 it does help! :D thank you fellow INFP, I can totally relate to the things you've said as I have realized them from my experience with an INTJ as well. I'll take your advice to be as patient as I can with him about opening up his feelings and make him aware of the things he said or did that I find hurtful hehe
@@NeroDefogger why do you ask such thing? (I'm just genuinely curious) Can't a dominant introverted feeler marry a person that possess auxiliary extroverted thinking?
At first I guessed the silent daters would be INTPs but when one said about creating "an open, receptive space of empathy, so that you can share your soul with me" I related SO HARD as an INFP :P That's wonderful!
I mean, the INTPs were headed that way from the moment they both agreed to just chill and look at memes together/separately. Sounds like a pretty good time, tbh.
@@louisejoel it's more lack of interest about others opinions than lack of guts Edit: when still "young", older INTPs are more receptive to others opinions (and a lot more proactive about expresing their own)
Great stuff! This is one of my favs. I had to laugh at the ENFP … because it actually is very accurate LOL 😂 but I also especially like the dialog/physical comedy of the ESFP.. “pretzel bites” lollllllll. Thank you for making these light-hearted, easy-to-digest, uplifting videos! Every so often I’ll end up watching LOTSSSSS of them. Thank you for your contribution/creations! They can add a sparkle of joy to this world
The INFP part tho. I (infp) tried to become friends with another infp girl through a mutual friend once... we didn't become friends because none of us wanted to open up first 💀 I asked her questions about her life and she wanted to remain mysterious so I got mad silently and didn't tell anything important about myself either when she asked lol
In my experience, never start with another INFP with feeling function, as you sayed they will keep them mysterious. You should start sensing talking, and I know it's difficult for us. While you are talking about sensing and thinking ideas, you can get emotional trust just by spending time and eye contact =)
FJ, you TOTALLY nailed me as an INTJ! That is almost literally how my dates go 😝 I am actively seeking these 3 things in my ideal partner: 1) reasonably health conscious, 2) growth mindset, and 3) GOING THE SAME DIRECTION AS ME. If he checks those boxes, then the conversation can continue. As of today, I am still single AF lol (and that’s ok too)
I'm an INFJ and met and INTJ who seemed pretty interested in me but before we even went out on the first date he cancelled (apparently I didn't match exactly with his future plans, at least this was his conclusion barely knowing me). He has been single for years and the last person he was with was going to school for exactly the same thing, etc. That's tough... to each their own but it seems like the wrong away to pick a person. Someone could have exactly the same plan and be a jerk, whereas there could be a wonderful person with a slightly different plan that would work 100% better. I'm extremely picky and for me it's more about finding the person with the right values and if I find it, then I'm willing to change plans a bit to make it work.
@@agnes8679 yeah you are right, should be more about the same interests and values but plans? What does the same plan even mean, is the future INTJ partner supposed to start a business in the same area as the INTJ if the INTJ decides to start one without the partner knowing the INTJ and their plan beforehand? If the INTJ wants to have (insert job here) should the partner do the same thing? I get that if somebody wants to "go to venezuela to find themselves" as FJ once put it and you want to stay in your country that might not work out but still, there has to be some flexibility there and most plans fit together anyway as many jobs offer roughly the same amount of free time and run on roughly the same schedule etc so there is barely any change needed (ISTJ here)
@@agnes8679 INTJ here. It’s not that they must have the same plans as us, they just don’t have to mess with ours. So, I find it better to find a partner with no plans for the future at all so they can adapt to my life routine. Sounds rude, but we value solitude very much, so a potential partner must add something to our life, not take it away
I wonder if he goes to the store to buy them, online, or has someone else shop for him to possibly save some embarrassment I guess... I don't know, but it sure does make him look really good on him. 😂
"This is a literal nightmare" 😂 It was so funny Also, as an ENFP, having an ENFP formal crush, present time good friend, this was so accurate 😁 We usually hype up each other within 5 minutes and discuss about a hundred ideas in a minute.. 😂
as an ENFP who is 2nd in charge in a company run by an ENFP - this is the way conversations happen daily between my boss and I. Co-workers are constantly in a state of confusion when we're both in full swing. :P
I'm am INFP engaged to another INFP, and I am SO GRATEFUL our first date was not like that, lol. We had bubble tea and talked about books. It was great.
I'm an INFJ that has a lot of INTJ tendencies. I dated an INTJ and we pretty much figured out within a few weeks it wasn't going to work and parted ways. That "my plan doesn't mesh with your plan" is spot on. Still miss the dude sometimes, though.
Yes but hopefully other types will learn to date like that when they become wiser. It often just happens sooner for intj/infj types. So advantage there i guess. Although as an INTJ i find it so easy to imagine different outcomes that choosing one is harder.
I (INFJ) seem to have a habit of being attracted to INTJ. The love of my life is an INTJ and it wasn’t until years after we split when I learned about MBTI did I realize what had happened. 🤦♀️ Then understood my ex-husband was a (NPD) narcissistic INTJ - OMG!
Like it's fine for friendships, but when it's about a romantic relationship the pre-rules come to game to approve or not the players for it. Lmao Can relate
That's my favorite way to eat ramen. Cheap chips that you season yourself, and it saves all those dishes and minutes of cooking and subsequent washing.
The ISTP one is pretty dang accurate. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to have a partner, get married, etc, but the whole dating thing seems way too time wasting to me if it's with someone that statistically I won't end up with anyway. I'd much rather do other things. If only I could magically find the person I will spend the rest of my life with so we can skip ahead to the good part.
Whenever I want to spend time with someone, I always want to make everything about them and I always want to just sit there and listen so as an INFP this is incredibly relatable.
Hey, why so early? ESTJs are already acting like they're gonna get a divorce. INTJs are making things so much easier... INFJs, believe me, I wish I could comunicate telepathically as well. So good! Just incredible jokes one after another!
INFJ with some INTJ functioning at times with an INFJ and luckily our first date was a lot of him talking and me listening 🤣 We did send long texts back and forth and talked on the phone once a week before the date though! Highly recommend 😅
INTJ here, it actually puts me off when someone spends most of the date just staring at me. Makes me wonder how much a person has to offer, if anything.
As an INFJ, I remember dating INFJ girl, this is exactly how we communicated, as if we can speak telepathically or as if we share one brain, it was weird af. But we don't talk anymore though..
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It'd be cool if one day you pinned a message like this but the link was actually a rickroll
Love you FJ!
-love ENFP
Frank James you should do if 16 personalities were spy’s or if they had theme songs
Idk it’s just a suggestion 😁
@@MayaraLotusWings those are good ones
You look good in a blond wig, no homo 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
INTJ married to an INTJ. At the age of 16, he literally told me his 20-year plan for us, and when I argued that it didn't align with my plan, he pointed out that mine was merely a 5-year plan that could be suitably merged with his. We decided to see whose plan was ultimately superior, which resulted in us sticking together for the past several decades. His 20-year plan was admittedly the optimal route, but he's kidding himself if he thinks I'll be outmaneuvered.
That is hilarious, thx for sharing
LMAO!
Lol
Oh wow!! LOL
This gave me hope
0:01 ISFJ
0:20 ISTP
0:35 ENTP
0:59 ISTJ
1:22 ESFJ
1:59 ESTP
2:26 ENTJ
2:41 ESFP
3:02 ISFP
3:31 ESTJ
3:59 INFP
4:30 INTJ
4:48 ENFJ
5:08 ENFP
5:27 INTP
5:51 INFJ
Thanks
Thank you 🙏
PIN THIS!
Thank you! 🙂
Thanks mam
INFJ married to an INFJ. We both knew we wanted to pursue each other after the first date DIDN'T leave us feeling emotionally drained. After about a minute of talking, we skipped small talk and started talking about the things that mattered most to us. I had never felt so comfortable or seen by another person as I did with him. Very happily married now. 😊
I get this. INFJ here.
Aww, I'm so happy for you
Where do we find this 😂🙃
Fuck, this'll be so hard for me due to how low infj demographic is. Lucky you ❤🎉
feeling emotionally drained is so real it’s hard finding someone who doesn’t drain you
INTJ married to INTJ and Here’s our marriage proposal;
M : I have been carefully and critically thinking about something for one week.
F : Okay.
M : In my opinion, we can get married.
F : Yes, I agree with you.
End of the story.
I find that absolutely adorable.
INTJ here. Congrats, no drama.
That's sounds like how my INTJ husband proposed
INFJ here, but laughed out loud. That was incredibly sweet. 😄
❤️🥰
INFJ is absolutely spot on, not just on dates but everyday encounters when I’m nervous to talk
Same here
Can't tell u how often I've wished ppl could just transmit thoughts without room for misunderstanding. Or how much I wish ppl didn't have to communicate at all honestly...
That was really funny 🤣
Suggestions:
1- 16 personalities as therapists
2- 16 personalities studying for a test
3- 16 personalities babysitting
4- 16 personalities if they only have 1 day left to live
5- 16 personalities with animals
6- 16 personalities as serial killers
7- 16 personalities as models
8- 16 personalities putting an educational system of their own
9- 16 personalities dreaming (having a nightmare)
10- 16 personalities in the army
11- 16 personalities as martial arts professionals
12- 16 personalities as tv hosts
13- 16 personalities on graduation day
14- 16 personalities last words
15- 16 personalities first words
16- 16 personalities ( introverts team vs extroverts team ) in a game
17- 16 personalities adopting a child
18- 16 personalities getting lost
19- 16 personalities getting kidnapped
20- FINALLY timmy's backstory
ooo he could assign each personality type a different martial arts style :oo
Damn! Great suggestions!! :)
I'd be all over 4, 9, 10, 12, 19 AND ESPECIALLY 20.
Also. 4: ESXP won't survive that long.
One day to live is a good one actually.
Can we just think about the effort that Frank had to go through just to make this 6 minute video? Writing the script for 32 parts, dressing and changing into different outfits for 32 people, acting each scene out separately and recording it, maybe a couple of takes each. Then editing all of the segments and backgrounds to look like the 2 people are having a face to face conversation. His skills are really remarkable.
I think he has SOME help in the form of a co writing partner and Editor Kevin (Kevin being recently introduced to us in some videos. One that spotlighted his great singing and dancing skills btw). 😁 So thank goodness for that.
But yes, videos like these are the usual 16 times at least 2!!! Plus the writing and acting that capture these characters spot on per mbti type is amazing. He may be 16 personalities but slouch isn't one of them! So many things to appreciate. 🤗
@@tinaperez7393 where did you see that? Instagram?
Yes - he's very creative and excellent at writing and acting. Really appreciate him.
@@Leumar1990 no, I'm not on insta actually, so maybe there's some more info there. Kevin was featured and introduced in two of Frank's recent videos over the last few weeks - one of the Sunday ones and the Uber driver vid. And Frank I think mentioned his co writer in a comment recently. The buts with Kevin were very funny. It was nice to see him finally. Assuming he's been with Frank for a while. I don't know how long he's been around. I don't know if I'd be able to discern a difference in editing to tell.
I think about it every time I watch his videos.he works so hard.thank you frank💜
this is cute, how about a date with their best pairs? hoping to watch one. :)
i so hope for ENFJ and ENTP
This is a great one
Would be hard since best pairs are subjectives
Ohh yeah
Yes yes yes
INTJ was perfect. I wish dating was so simple, but nobody wants to discuss serious things on the first date.
That’s sounds like an app, or a feature to be added to an app.
[*] Willing to discuss serious things on first date
I’m an INFJ, I wouldn’t date someone, who I hadn’t heard speak on “serious things” previously. 🤣
So true. If only it was this easy.
As an ENTJ I find this incredibly relatable
I wonder if you might get a better reception to serious topics if you prepared them by asking if they are up for discussing serious things. If it comes out of nowhere it might throw people off more.
Surprisingly as an ENFP what i want to do the most is discuss serious things firstly
As an INFP with an INFP SO, I can confirm the online messages never stopped and it felt like I was talking to a mirror of myself by how similar we were. When we finally got to meet in person for the first time, he was v awkward and didn't wanna touch me. XD I powered through it bec I knew I was like this too so I had to make the stand and even though it felt awkward for me too, I just kept pushing and acting how I did online. After a few minutes of being together, his shell finally melted and he instantly became the clingiest person I've ever met XD He's one of the kindest souls I've met and he understands me in a level no other person has ever had.
pretty much my husband and I lolol although I don't know what his personality type is. we're both socially challenged but I've found that i have to be the braver of the two to get interactions going and my husband may jump in eventually from hiding behind me😅
that is so sweet omg
aww
As an infp I can confirm that he is an infp because he wrote an entire passage because I'm also an infp and I also write entire passages and I try to write as small as possible so I think I can only type this much
This is the sweetest thing I have ever read :D As an INFP, I try to break out of my shell to do certain things as well (when I know that's the right thing but no one else would do it) although it's very difficult and takes up so much time to gather up the courage to actually do it XD
That INFP bit is shockingly accurate when speaking from a little experience
No fr 😭😭
I don't know, as an INFP I'm always comfortable with other INFPs. Sadly not same for some of them. I just enjoy silences when they happen, they don't feel awkward to me. (But they do with other types, since you can see they are uncomfortable)
haha not for me falling for another infp and we either have a ton of fun and lengthy conversations or juts very comfortable silence and im living for it
@@abigailarredondo6257 my boyfriend and I are INFPs and man, let me tell you, this stuff is very nice. It's a lot of fun hanging out together and though we have those moments of silence together, I love it
@@sora_keychain5510 How did you do to find a infp boyfriend as a infp? I'm infp too and it seems impossible for me unless i become a bit more extraverted
Funny how the INFPs and the ENFJs care about each other's feelings but in totally different ways
More proof for the fact that they are the best for each other.
Watching this as an INFP, as soon as I heard, "I am if you are," I knew it was my husband's type. ENFJ for sure.
LMAO yes, I'm an ENFJ and my best friend is an INFP so yeah i felt that
Me and my bf we both r ENFJs .....
And I can totally relate this ..
@WildChild just because INFPs leads with introverted feeling doesn't mean they don't care about others. In fact, their introspection causes them to empathize with others on a great level. Same with ENFJs, just because they're Fe doms doesn't mean they don't think about what they want
as an INTP dating another INTP, I can confirm that all we do on our dates is spending hours looking memes and talking about them.
Couple goals! -fellow INTP
When I dated another intp, we would engage in intellectual debates about anything and everything. It was great. Very stimulating.
Dude what is a hot take?
H e l p
Sounds like fun. Hopefully not the kind that breeds listlessness and brainfuzz...
Nice :3
-an INTP
As an INTP, I've decided to implement a rule about turning off my phone during dates. I really upset my last date (an ENFJ) because she thought I was bored and that's why I was texting other people occasionally.
I wasn't even actually texting, I was just faking it because I was trying to find the right amount of eye contact that doesn't turn into staring like a psychopath.
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣 my INTP coworker is my office crush and he's really good at making eye contact. I even complimented him and he was shy. Haha
- enfp
I am an enfj and i can assure you when i watch the intp frank being like “yea i been staring glances at memes” i was like “oh that would really offends me”
I did that too!
Not on the staring though, I just looked at people's hands for some reason.
that part is far far far more accurate than it should have been -intp
As an INTJ, watching my date gave me peace of mind. I will never understand why people keep on dating when they disagree about issues like having kids. My partner pretty much has the same everyday needs, life plans, important ideals, preferences for vacations and enough common interests for daily quality time. It's a good life.
Over fourteen years of life and I still have not met another INTJ, but if I did, it would be immensely fun 😂
Sweet!
I’m an INTJ female and my bro is an INFJ male and the communicating telepathically thing is spot on. We don’t need words half the time and when we do communicate, it’s not in a language known to mankind. We just created our own language that no one else can understand but us lol.
That's so cool.
Yes, I do this with my INTP friend too
creepy
I had a conversation with an INFJ and INTJ in a group chat full of other people, we were discussing what i thought were quite a popular topic, i thought some others will join the talk, responding or anything, but no, no one did, some are even asking seriously what we were talking about, cus we sounded so really into it, but they dont know or understand what we were talking about..so we have to break it down and explain.. at first i was like "why wouldnt they understand and keep up with the conversation?" Then i guess it must be from the way we talk (INFJ INTJ and INFP)
bruh I'm infj and i literally do the same with my intj bf
I love how the INFJs are portrayed as 'psychics' with crippling anxiety. That's literally me when communicating with people in general. I zone out way too much while over-analysing things lmao (I'm an INFJ)
Within the INFJ are super powers. Just need to be aware of the strengths and weaknesses and develop both so the weaknesses don't have much bearing on things. 🙂
😅same
Your first sentence couldn't describe infjs any better 👏
Makes me think of Saiki K.
The best part being you always know when it's INFJ, even when you don't want it to be haha
I love Frank’s evolution of female characters. so much diversity
The secret: do em as regular characters, but with a wig on.
Yeah compliments on the new wigs. They look natural.
I love the hairs. where did he get such cool wigs 😂
Now he has more than one wig.
He looks so good in those wigs
As ENFP dating another ENFP we change topics so much in the span of minutes and surprisingly we can keep up with each other pretty well. Everyone around us gets so confused. And yes sometimes I do have to remind him that he didn’t let me finish what I was saying. We’re constantly saying sorry all the time because of it.
Sounds wonderful!🥲-ENFP
Honestly the most satisfying relationships. You cover so much ground.
I would love that kind of partner in life.
I'm an ENFP... but I've never dated another or even met another in person... I wonder if my being on autism spectrum affects me as an ENFP... *shrug*
@@sealaryn I think us ENFPs are all ADD/ADHD.🙃
As an INFP with an INFJ, his cheerful neurotic adorable nervousness emboldened me, and the ease with which others talk to me helped draw him out of his own headspace. It was magic. :) There are such advantages to being very similar people.
@Reality Is A Dream It's not that weird imo. When people are very different from each other, it can allow their personalities to bounce off of each other in unique ways, and even allow them to cover each other's faults or weaknesses.
It could even be said that INFPs and INFJs are dissimilar types, since they don't share any of their first 4 cognitive functions. They're pretty different beneath the surface.
- An INFJ
Also, I feel called out by "cheerful neurotic adorable nervousness," that's actually just me when I open up to somebody
@Reality Is A Dream I've got a fre ISTP friends and we get along real well. Probably because of how honest and chill they are.
@@azylan that exactly describes my INFJ friend 😂
This sounds so cute! I find I’m super compatible with INFPs and ENFPs; want to guess my MBTI type?
i met this person online who's a fellow infp and when we had our first date, i can confirm that happened to us 10000%.
Lmaoo similar here except he goes to my school
Ok
Yeah that was too real
Lol someone experienced rhe same 😅
Literally happened to me today.
I can relate to INFP. I pretty much need an extravert to get the conversation going. I can banter all day, but starting things off is near impossible if the other person isn't willing to do so either.
So so so relatable 😭
Why am I so awkward first steps lol
I'm trying to improve but that stupid feeling is always there like "what if they don't want me to approach"
What I love about pets is the lack of spoken language.
What I love about pets is the lack of spoken language.
@@Frutty06 Stop asking yourself "what if" and read their body language to decide in the moment. It'll help you calm yourself down.
Yeah! I can live off one inhale per hour chatting my ass off, but I can't start it.
As an INFJ, I can testify that when I was younger, I was 95% sure people could read my thoughts and I could read theirs... it gave me both curiosity and anxiety lol
I still think they can
Of course we can.
We do it all the time.
It’s exausting.
2 Infjs can telepathically communicate because they both realize human thoughts aren't too complicated to understand and empathize then they have a stoke of their own heart and can be heard by the VERY attentive.
Wait! so can they hear the thoughts or no?!?!?!
When I was in school, I used to try to jumble my thoughts if I was suspicious of a coming car exile I walked home because I didn't want them reading my thoughts so I actively tried to emulate snow.
I'd then watch out of the corner of my eye to see if they reacted.
I was not aware that this was common among other infjs.
As an ISTP that was totally correct😭😭 I would much rather be working on my own things than meeting with someone for a date 💀
As a fellow ISTP I can verify this😭😭
Same as a ISTJ
It's painful tho afterward bc we seal our own lonely fate
For real, as an ISTP dating is the last thing I could care about
@@junlongkwan2519same
That was exactly how my first date with another INTJ went. Plans didn't align, so we wished each other well and headed our separate ways.
I can concur, INFJ is correct. She told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship 3 days after the date but oh well, at least it happened 😎.
Are you an INFJ too? Did you two get together later then?
BUT, they are INFJs who haven't worked on themselves yet 🙂 that's why it's awkward. They should watch more Frank James !
@@ibelieveinyou1696 Yeah, we are both INFJs. Can’t say what the future holds, but as of right now it’s looking like we won’t be getting together.
:)) I was quicker even than that: I told him the same right after his first question on a dating app... He understood. Both INFJs.
Iam suprized it took them that long. I can tell if dating will be good just by observing for a few minutes with out saying anything. In person of course. But iam exstreamly picky.
This was great! As an INFJ dating an INFP- the awkward levels of us opening up took a bit, in fact, it started out as a friendship that took us both by surprise when It developed into feelings XD
So far, has been one of the greatest relationships I’ve had. You INFP’s can sit in meaningful silence and we can both geek out on things while also having deep emotional talks! Worth the effort I say!
this is so cute 🥺🥺🥺
~an infp
aaawwwww -infp
@🍕__Mulan__🍕 Same, lol.
This is me (infp) and my older bro (infj) I love listening to him even when I have nothing to say 😅
Frank captures the INTP so well. We genuinely don't care about social norms, probably because it hasn't occurred to us they exist.
I am aware the concept of them exists, however am oblivious to what any of them are
I just get awkward around people sometimes because I often fail at greetings or don't do something that is normal for them or something.
Schizophrenia???? Nah man I just got an INTP personality 🤪
I mean there is a difference between being an INTP and a whole sociopath
@@lYcronix Exactly... because sociopaths are at least kinda socially competent sometimes.
- Sincerely, an INTP
That ENTJ one was so relatable. The woman I’ve been seeing recently is an extremely hardworking PhD student in biology, and I’m in medical school while doing more additional things than I should.
At the end of our last date we excitedly planned the next one, which couldn’t happen for another month because of our schedule conflicts. Looking forward to two weeks from now! 🤣
The ENTPs date is an amazing chaos, arguing everything 😂😂. The perfect match! Right?!? 🤭
I mean i always appreciate a fellow debater if they dont get upset and act so hurt every time I say sth ... i mean half of the time im not arguing im just giving them new ideas and the other half im just joking around or teasing them
As an ENTP married to an ENTP …. Yes
ENTP here, women who like actually debate are hotter than the sun
@@michelledoolan7741 lucky!!! I'm 28 entp still looking for my entp girlfriend. People ask me what I'm looking for? " you know a smart girl who will challenges me to grow in my thoughts and ideas and enjoys discussing abstract concepts. They just stare at me and say no wonder you're single. Lol
I hope you have a long and successful marriage with enough debate to fill two lifetimes!
My husband was ENTP and Im INFP...he yelled, I cried.
Oh, "16 personalities dating their opposite type/most compatible type" should totally come next~~
@@LaurennM360 Yeah, but not the date
As an ENFP, I have dated 2-3 other ENFP's and can confirm this is exactly what it's like 🤣
I'm also an ENFP but with other ENFPs I turn to INFP or even INTJ, it's like: "could you just be focused on one idea and go deeper?!"
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 ikr, i'm not close to anyone with high Ne and while i may love myself ahha i can imagine myself getting so drained with another enfp (or just highly extroverted person), i'm comfortable being the extrovert that adopts introverts,, plus conversations that dive deeply into one topic are the best :)
Can confirm, is like that. Infinite dinamic conversatiosn where we start talking about our uni subjects and end up googling what whould have happened if dinousaurs had a religion. I mean, other types are cool AF but with the only people I got that level of conversations where either ENTP, ENFP or ESFP (yeah, believe it or not they are really good at that). Kinda miss it now that I'm dating an introvert (probably a INTP)
As an fellow ISTP, that "freakin weirdo" at the end was extremely accurate, it just hits different.
6:10 INFJ: "Or is this all just some extended fantasy that I'm using to self-sooth in a moment of anxiety?" I did NOT need that call out
Two ambiverted INFPs I imagine dating like this:
"Hey let's continue the conversation we had online."
"Yes. I agree with you in so many points"
"It's like we have the same opinion on people and the world. What a funny coincidence."
"Has it really been five hours? It felt like five minutes."
Yeah, how fun. It seems like we share one mind and one soul. You don't drain me. Let's get married."
INFP dream situation summed up in one paragraph... well done.
.......I am in this infp relationship except I am a 5 year old and he is constantly making sure I don't accidentally kill myself
Update we broke up :(
Me and my bff infp be like
Yes this is what happened. Some moments the magic was actually too intense on the first dates, and we weren’t trying that hard.
Anfp
I feel proud to be an ENFP! Our words just flow, we can even carry out a conversation with the dead! 😁😁😁😁😁😁
same haha
My eyes hurt reading this, as an ISTJ...
oh so that explains why the dead talk to me.
🤣🤣🤣 That’s hilarious & terrible! So ENFPs just need a sounding board? ENFPs are more fun with the undead.
@@AmberArtNYC Yes!! We also hate when people interrupt us, even while we are interrupting them! 😏😏
I never want to date, but as an INTP I can confirm if I ever did go on a date, it would be something like that.
''If I ever did go on a date'' - That's the most INTP thing I've heard so far...
probably more accurate if one of them didn't show up :(
@@ApplePi._. If they both didn't
@@ApplePi._. or if the date was virtual
INTP dating an INTP here... everyone who has commented here so far is correct. XD
INFJ... Frank James needs to stop spying on my dates!
...If I went on dates...
Same like literally- That's too relatable
INFJ here. Wanna go out on a telepathic date? You can read my thoughts, I'll read yours and then we can agree that online dating is much easier because it's text and not as complicated as RL?
@@katiegenreau now that's a great plan lol
@@katiegenreau Sure! We don't have to talk right?
The ENFJ one is extremely accurate, I'm ENFJ and I've dated my type and I can guarantee that was exactly what it was like in part.
Yep, that's awkward I know. I wish you all bests! Care from ENFJ here❤❤
It's like that sound you get from facing two microphones into each other: an infinite loop of meaningless, painful feedback noise -ENFJ
Everytime I talk to an ENFJ, I feel like I’m talking to my therapist.
- INFP
My crush is an enfj and we struggles to bring our conversation to a deeper level because we’re scared of brothering each other😂
I loved the ENTP couple! Those two will be the end of society, agressively flirting until their final breath lmao
it's not aggression, it's passion!
Honestly as an ENTP man who has been single for his entire life, that is life goals right there I want to meet an ENTP girl so badly lol
ENTP gal, I've never met another ENTP in real life, but this is exactly how I imagine any interaction with someone of my own type would go.
entp here lol, I would LOVE to date someone who keeps on proving my arguments wrong lmfaooooo....i need therapy
@adriannaedwards7854 sounds amazing! happy for you both :) ~ENTP man here
The ENFP section is accurate lol, I can bounce off of what others say to go from one conversation topic to the next for hours, it's really fun and you learn so much about the other person that you can use when you're talking to them again, it's awesome >:)
Yes! Super fun! I miss having conversations like this.
>:)
Yes but then some people think we are extremely talkative and extraverted and then expect us to talk like always. But then one time Fi hits hard and people are wondering where is this bubbly person?
@@venorika7146 oh my yes!!! It just switches off and there's nothing! I thought I was the only extroverted person to have this happen.
@@venorika7146 what is a Fi? I’m not familiar with those terms and would like to understand more about it! Every time I take the 16 personalities test, I always get ENFP but I always think I’m an INFP because I don’t talk a lot in groups. However, when it’s one on one, I’m always talkative lol 😭
This was adorably hilarious! Thank you for the laughs!
I heartily agree, INFP's find it a bit easier to communicate though typing since overthinking into awkward silence is what we do best when face to face.
But a dash of INTP with meme communication would definitely help break the anxious tension a bit lol
INFP whose favorite friend to text with is an INTP. The memes are always on point.
INFP dating an INTP! I can assure you that I communicate with him through memes about 70% of the time. He calls me the meme-lord. 😆
Ne types are prolific memesters. I don't even know how I would communicate without memes and references ~INFP
@@LeeLeeBellePBJLee yes, one of my friends remarked that I have a gif for every occasion.
As an ISFJ I literally cried on a date with my husband about a place from our childhood and how it held so many memories but it was gone now and that our kids wouldn’t be able to see it. In true ESTP fashion he laughed because of how cute he thought I was for crying about our past/ future.
Oh my God. My jaw dropped when I saw the INTJ one. It was spot on!!! I usually ask my dates what their plans are in the first date or two. If it doesn't align with mine, I just forget about it. I don't want to be wasting precious time and energy.
It's the reason I wish more INTJs were out there. Life can be so simple.
As an ISTP, I can confirm the "You freaking weirdo" at the end absolutely sealed the deal!
FR why are you the first ISTP I've encountered for the past 10 videos... Im beginning to think we're a rare deal
That's why when he said that I laughed out loud. Something that as an ISTP I would say hahaha
The 10 year plan is the heart of any romantic relationship.
INTJ in movies: *Criminal mastermind villain*
INTJ in real life: "Understandable, have a great day."
As an ENFP, I could guess my type from the rapid-fire ideas and the train of thought that's really more like a pinball of thought.
INTJs in real life lack the means to put our plans into action.
@@Silverswitch1 haha yes. Exactly.
@@Silverswitch1 good luck brother.
@@Silverswitch1 that's just not true. You're very likely mistyped.
@Dackson Flux stereotypically, yes, though it isn't true. Every personality has the potential to thrive above and beyond everyone else. The problem lies in that every type also has their own pitfalls that counter them. For me, a potential INFJ, the pitfall is monotony. There's something inside it that's like a poison if I do enough of it. It drives me absolutely crazy. And I know others have their own pitfalls as well.
"I get that dating can be hard when you're the only person in the room who has understood and transcended all human bias"
Hit me like a truck
this is literally what that voice in the back of my head sounds like, and then I remind it that I'm not better than everyone else while feeling way better than everyone else
@@blueninja012 being self-aware is so hard
@@ginniegill1026 yeah, but thankfully unlike everyone else I'm completely self aware about all of my downsides and therefore am better than them
I thought that one was INFJ. That's why I like INTP. But i think we mean slightly different things. INTP doesn't factor in that kindness is integral. At least, not when they say things like that.
@@blueninja012 it's okay to be the best
The ENFP one was on point besides calling anyone on interrupting (because if they do it then they don’t usually mind when I do due to idea spontaneously falling out of my mouth. Interrupting is allowed in my friendships and I never mind it). But that insane weird building energy with ENFP-ENFP interractions is spot on.
Lol I love the INFPs. That's so true; online chatting is sooo much easier then face2face
When I was looking for people to “date” I need to make sure the time between first contact and first meeting was as short as possible. Too long and then the idealization begins and more anxiety.
@@loisrabies8713 Good to know, I'll keep it in mind when I start dating
I actually feel like i would want to write what i have to say to people face to face
Online chatting is easier for INFPs to communicate sensitively, but in face2face communication, we prefer intuitive talking, which usually seems wired, specialy in first steps of connection! 😄💔
A date with two INFJs could be so interesting if they could communicate telepathically. For now it looks like the most boring, formulaic and unproductive date ever from the outside 😂.
I communicate telepathically with other INFJs. We can sit is quiet yet still communicate. It’s amazing.
I'm so desperate to meet one fellow infj
Nah, worst is two ENFJs, two mirror people who only care about how they seem to the other one. The entire conversational skill of an ENFJ can be summed up as, "But enough about me. Let's talk about you. What do you most adore about me?"
😂 I am pretty sure you can tho my bf and I do it all the time. Usually goes like some silence ....then follows with did you see the rat go behind the bar? Yes I did. You want to leave don't you? Yes I do. We both continue to gtfo because we don't like people anyway either so that rat just made our lives easier.
As an INFJ I kinda enjoy boring… so if the other person enjoys that too, even better!!
INTJ lady, here. Recently I heard about a girl who was upset that a guy she didn’t want to date had ghosted her, and she was going through all this effort to get him to contact her again. The whole time I was thinking “why do people waste so much time on relationships they know aren’t going anywhere?” So, your video? Accurate! 😂
I thought it was just me. I have ended so many relationships so soon because they were clearly suboptimal for my 200 year plan.
As an ENFP, I would have liked to have seen the depth of conversation we crave represented, and not just our tendency to draw ideas and memories from several directions.
Fellow ENFP here, totally agree
ENFPs are really much more emo than most people give them credit for; and I'm saying this as an ENFP myself...
I would imagine dating another ENFP to be just very bipolar moments between hyper/random and super deep/philosophical; though that sounds fun
@@TehEpicAsian715 Correct. I am a unicorn filled with darkness.
As an ENFP dating an ENFP you are 100% right and so is every reply under yours
O m g yes
There is a lot of darkness and sadness under that bubbly surface that non-ENFPs don't really ever see. I'm an ENFP together with another ENFP and it's so true, we can be totally silent together or only talk about non-consequential stuff or randomly, we'll delve into super deep philosphical life questions. It's like we don't connect so much over language, more over our other senses, touch, looks, energy we give off. I just feel so confortable and content in his presence and it's been like that since we met.
I lost it at INFJ, and every one of my family members' was eerily accurate. I'm still wiping away tears.
INFP and I relate to the ISFJ very much! Haven't dated yet, but I guess that's part of it (part of feeling forward or back)
Sameeee
My goodness, me too I was just thinking about how I also relate to the Isfj-Infp here
Yet another spot on video! Telepathic communication must exist because you captured the exact thoughts going through my head when I speak to people. I also love the costumes! :)
I would commit suicide from humiliation if telepathic communication existed
@@swaggerness001 well, telepathy with privacy I guess, but then speaking is no different. The only thing you can tell in telepathy is what the other person is speaking in their mind or imagining. But then again, reading images or hearing thoughts could be misinterpreted too unless that person is actually you, but then again it would be hard to discern reality and identity a lot. So, I guess communication is no different either when it comes to misinterpretation of thoughts and imaginations. And the idea of telepathy might not be the best. The only way to understand each other is to actually make an effort to get to know one another. Guess no different from real life. Plus, even if it's hard to lay our thoughts or imagination into reality(words or actions), it also helps us become more creative and push past our limits. An important thing to know too is that talking IS taking action, and taking an action makes a person feel powerful and believe in their strength.
@@ibelieveinyou1696 I agree thank you
INFJ is accurate.
INTJ is so efficient. It's what's needed tbh to flatten the awkward wrinkles in dating.
It's not good though. It actually robs us of valuable experience. Even if a relationship fails, it teaches you something. For me, I struggle to to see value in experience. Just doing something for the sake of having done it before seems extraneous and it is, but necessary. As I age, I'm understanding that better at least.
INTJ. I once went out on a blind date and then asked the person who set us up how many more times I would have to see the guy in order to be polite. I was thrilled when she said I could stop seeing him.
The ENFP pair is the most entertaining one 😂😂 you would think they’re on drugs but nope
As an ENFP, I remember being told that "you don't need to smoke anything because you're naturally high". Yes we are very entertaining. You'll never be bored around an ENFP!
@@margaritakleinman5701Omg THEY TOLD ME THE SAME
@@sheldonacrumb824Haha that's cool! 😊
Timestamps:
0:00 ISFJ
0:21 ISTP
0:36 ENTP
1:01 ISTJ
1:24 ESFJ
2:00 ESTP
2:26 ENTJ
2:41 ESFP
3:02 ISFP
3:31 ESTJ
3:59 INFP
4:31 INTJ
4:49 ENFJ
5:09 ENFP
5:28 INTP
5:52 INFJ
Hope this helps! 😊
Frank over here pulling off dresses and shirts I never could. 😭 You look good in anything, FJ, lol.
Also, as an INFP, I can say this occasionally happens. The text conversation seems to go very smoothly, but in person, it seems to feel awkward. Trying to learn better social skills, but it's an uphill battle!
Relatable, but you can do it (hopefully me too)! - fellow infp 🤓
Fortunately there are many amazing people out there who are willing to be patient for you to open up, I wish you find those people!
that is so trueee
Yeah, that's so true.
The ENFP part was so accurate! I have an ENFP friend and our conversation just flows like that.
I can definitely vouch that my INTP husband uses sharing memes as a bonding activity. He's soo cute!
INTP's are the cutest! INFP dating an INTP! I speak to him in memes, so we have great communication. 😆
@@LeeLeeBellePBJLee intp and infp is a good match, unless one of them have big issues with mental health. then it's terrible. :D
@@niiskuneitiBANAANI been there, it really is
@@niiskuneitiBANAANI then what would be an intp with mental issues match?
@@tomniebuhr7723 I am intp with mental issues. I think you have to find a partner you can trust, so you can talk about your feelings every time you get hurt, and they don't let you down. My partner was really unhealthy infp, making empty promises just to avoid conflict, unable to take critique, etc. His case he should just not date at all and heal. My case, I should really try to focus reading if the partner is trustworthy or not.
I'm an INFP and i was just casually watching the video and when I saw the INFPs i didnt realize which type they were and backed up the video because they sounded like they would make great friends. I just boosted my own confidence.
I, as an INFJ who has meet with another INFJ to go out, can say that it's not that bad and we can talk very much. That is probably only the case or possible because we both didn't want some awkward silence to happen. Doing that we spend 1,5 hours without noticing it or so.
So it really isn't that bad.
The WIG GAME is out of the ball park..... I am so proud of who you've become.
Aww, ISFJ already made my heart melt with all the sweetness! 💖 They are clearly a perfect match.
I love how he portrayed the ISTP’s
That ISFP convo was aggressively accurate
Yes
Oh my gosh, the ENTJ one is so accurate. I recently started seeing a guy and was just thinking this morning how it would be so hard to get dates in next year bc 7 of the 12 months, I'll be away for work! But I'd still like to see him when I'm in back from those trips :D
Being an INFP is tough.
Really really really REALLY tough.
I gotta say man, the INTJ one was so damn accurate. I literally decided to end my crush on this person because he wasnt going in the same direction as me, i even listed our different approaches in life on a notepad. Prolly will end up single my entire life because of this too :)
ENTJ was accurate, too. I was recently asked out and said yes, but the date will happen in about two weeks. He was free any evening but my schedule was booked SOLID until that gap. Parties, appointments, meetings, he's got to wait his turn 🤣
INTJ and I completely relate. I have a string of relationships behind me; i’d say “failed” but the only failings has been when I’ve stayed in them after they went stale (or worse). The man I am currently interested in, we have spoken ad nauseam about our mental processes, methodologies, outlooks, value systems (internal and external), what we want out of life, what we want our environments to look like, and a whole host of other elements. I am cautiously optimistic, even though he lives 3000 miles away (literally). Meh, what’s a little distance when your brains are compatible and you operate harmoniously?
As an INTJ, I honestly would like to be single for some reason
@@yez9475 Probably because you find endless entertainment in your own company and don’t appreciate the stress and disruption that other people bring?
@@mctrustsnoone3781 That may be it.
ISTPs are so accurate every time. Love it lol
What are you talking about? There was no mention of power tools or fixing anything. Lol
@@loisrabies8713 Yeah but the cold personality is always spot on 👌
It's because the author and actor is INFJ and INFJs are, even if they don't seem to, very similar to ISTPs.
It works with every type: ESFP actors play great ENTJs, ENFP actors play great ESTJs and so on...
Watch Cate Blanchett (INFJ) playing ISTP character in Oceans 8
@@loisrabies8713 Thank God. -ISTP
As an INFJ who's friends with and has feelings for another INFJ friend of mine, that's literally our conversations, awkward silences but we both understand what we both mean. At least I think. Why is human communication so hard
I'm an INFP/Pisces married to an INTJ/Aries. We have a lot of the same taste in movies, music and TV shows. But our personalities are very different. I think I have helped him learn it is okay to show emotion and be vulnerable. And he helps me with setting realistic expectations and goals. We both can help the other see things from different perspectives. His is more logical and mine is more emotional. We've been together since 2005.
Any advices you can give me as an INFP that has a mutual understanding and connection with an INTJ? I'd gladly appreciate it! :D
@i n f p I would say being patient with an INTJ is important. INFPs are more in our feelings and INTJs aren't very emotional creatures. I would try and try to get my husband to open up and express his feelings to me but I learned I had to let him do it at his own pace. I let him know I was here if he wanted to open up about things and overtime he has opened up more and more. He just hates feeling vulnerable.
INTJs can also be unintentionally mean and insensitive I have found. And as an INFP, we can be pretty sensitive. So, I have tried not to take some things personally. But also kindly let him know what things I find hurtful so he is aware. Since there are things he wouldn't have thought would be hurtful but to me they are.
Idk if any of that helps. Lol.
@@moomerz24 it does help! :D thank you fellow INFP, I can totally relate to the things you've said as I have realized them from my experience with an INTJ as well. I'll take your advice to be as patient as I can with him about opening up his feelings and make him aware of the things he said or did that I find hurtful hehe
yeah, I can get you are not a T, what I don't understand is how you married a T, unless he isn't a T or he isn't even real
@@NeroDefogger why do you ask such thing? (I'm just genuinely curious) Can't a dominant introverted feeler marry a person that possess auxiliary extroverted thinking?
At first I guessed the silent daters would be INTPs but when one said about creating "an open, receptive space of empathy, so that you can share your soul with me" I related SO HARD as an INFP :P That's wonderful!
I mean, the INTPs were headed that way from the moment they both agreed to just chill and look at memes together/separately.
Sounds like a pretty good time, tbh.
In fact, INTPs are almost as "controversial" as ENTPs and is very difficult to not end up "debating" with one of them
@@Catralasarguido ENTPs just say the things we don't have the guts to say and throw something extra in
@@louisejoel it's more lack of interest about others opinions than lack of guts
Edit: when still "young", older INTPs are more receptive to others opinions (and a lot more proactive about expresing their own)
@@Catralasarguido INTP here and can confirm that i can be every bit as controversial and debating as a stereotypical ENTP lol
As an ISTP... you nailed it. I forced myself to go on a date. We went on two... and now I watch youtube videos. I like my apartment.
"you came 45 minutes earlier as well, Sherlock!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As an ENTP, i just screamed when I saw my type, is just so accurate, you and Kristy are the best mbti creators♡
Great stuff! This is one of my favs. I had to laugh at the ENFP … because it actually is very accurate LOL 😂 but I also especially like the dialog/physical comedy of the ESFP.. “pretzel bites” lollllllll. Thank you for making these light-hearted, easy-to-digest, uplifting videos! Every so often I’ll end up watching LOTSSSSS of them. Thank you for your contribution/creations! They can add a sparkle of joy to this world
thanks, Mary! Good to see you around. Hope you are doing well 🤗
The INFP part tho. I (infp) tried to become friends with another infp girl through a mutual friend once... we didn't become friends because none of us wanted to open up first 💀 I asked her questions about her life and she wanted to remain mysterious so I got mad silently and didn't tell anything important about myself either when she asked lol
😂😭 but it feels weird how we can relate everything with that other person but just can't open up, (btw you are Carat?)
@@infinity8982 heck yeah I'm a carat. I love Seventeen
@@justacarat2638 ohh same🙌 didn't expect any Carat here, but glad to see✨
In my experience, never start with another INFP with feeling function, as you sayed they will keep them mysterious. You should start sensing talking, and I know it's difficult for us. While you are talking about sensing and thinking ideas, you can get emotional trust just by spending time and eye contact =)
I got together with an INFP merely by spending time together, doing things like boardgames, studying together and playing volleyball.
FJ, you TOTALLY nailed me as an INTJ! That is almost literally how my dates go 😝 I am actively seeking these 3 things in my ideal partner: 1) reasonably health conscious, 2) growth mindset, and 3) GOING THE SAME DIRECTION AS ME. If he checks those boxes, then the conversation can continue. As of today, I am still single AF lol (and that’s ok too)
I'm an INFJ and met and INTJ who seemed pretty interested in me but before we even went out on the first date he cancelled (apparently I didn't match exactly with his future plans, at least this was his conclusion barely knowing me). He has been single for years and the last person he was with was going to school for exactly the same thing, etc. That's tough... to each their own but it seems like the wrong away to pick a person. Someone could have exactly the same plan and be a jerk, whereas there could be a wonderful person with a slightly different plan that would work 100% better.
I'm extremely picky and for me it's more about finding the person with the right values and if I find it, then I'm willing to change plans a bit to make it work.
Yo it be like that, we’re looking for 2% of the 2%. - INTJ
@@agnes8679 yeah you are right, should be more about the same interests and values but plans? What does the same plan even mean, is the future INTJ partner supposed to start a business in the same area as the INTJ if the INTJ decides to start one without the partner knowing the INTJ and their plan beforehand? If the INTJ wants to have (insert job here) should the partner do the same thing? I get that if somebody wants to "go to venezuela to find themselves" as FJ once put it and you want to stay in your country that might not work out but still, there has to be some flexibility there and most plans fit together anyway as many jobs offer roughly the same amount of free time and run on roughly the same schedule etc so there is barely any change needed (ISTJ here)
@@agnes8679 INTJ here. It’s not that they must have the same plans as us, they just don’t have to mess with ours. So, I find it better to find a partner with no plans for the future at all so they can adapt to my life routine. Sounds rude, but we value solitude very much, so a potential partner must add something to our life, not take it away
@@agnes8679 I want an INFJ. You are an INFJ. So you fit that criteria. Therfore, please marry me next week. :)
Frank, that blue dress suits you! 😂
Wouldn't expect that I'll even say something like this. 😂 And the wigs fit you, too!
was thinking the same!! the blue dress look so good on him hahaha
That was good, and all the animal prints 😆
and the Leo one too!
I wonder if he goes to the store to buy them, online, or has someone else shop for him to possibly save some embarrassment I guess... I don't know, but it sure does make him look really good on him. 😂
@@centauria9122 omg, that's hilarious, as an introvert myself I just assumed he orders them online. 😅😂
"This is a literal nightmare" 😂 It was so funny
Also, as an ENFP, having an ENFP formal crush, present time good friend, this was so accurate 😁 We usually hype up each other within 5 minutes and discuss about a hundred ideas in a minute.. 😂
as an ENFP who is 2nd in charge in a company run by an ENFP - this is the way conversations happen daily between my boss and I. Co-workers are constantly in a state of confusion when we're both in full swing. :P
I'm am INFP engaged to another INFP, and I am SO GRATEFUL our first date was not like that, lol. We had bubble tea and talked about books. It was great.
I'm an INFJ that has a lot of INTJ tendencies. I dated an INTJ and we pretty much figured out within a few weeks it wasn't going to work and parted ways. That "my plan doesn't mesh with your plan" is spot on. Still miss the dude sometimes, though.
Yes but hopefully other types will learn to date like that when they become wiser. It often just happens sooner for intj/infj types. So advantage there i guess. Although as an INTJ i find it so easy to imagine different outcomes that choosing one is harder.
I (INFJ) seem to have a habit of being attracted to INTJ. The love of my life is an INTJ and it wasn’t until years after we split when I learned about MBTI did I realize what had happened. 🤦♀️ Then understood my ex-husband was a (NPD) narcissistic INTJ - OMG!
@@erinsjourney315 I feel you. I am frequently attracted to IT guys, like, almost all the time.
Like it's fine for friendships, but when it's about a romantic relationship the pre-rules come to game to approve or not the players for it. Lmao
Can relate
4:07 I could already tell this was INFP
as an ENFP, i just made 23 stories yesterday night because i couldn't sleep and ended up eating raw ramen with the powder sprinkled
That's my favorite way to eat ramen. Cheap chips that you season yourself, and it saves all those dishes and minutes of cooking and subsequent washing.
That sounds… delicious actually
Might have some later tbh
Raw ramen with sprinkled power is the best!!!
I save the packets as a cheap stock substitute.
Too much salt otherwise, and the underlying flavor is not half-bad.
The ISTP one is pretty dang accurate. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to have a partner, get married, etc, but the whole dating thing seems way too time wasting to me if it's with someone that statistically I won't end up with anyway. I'd much rather do other things. If only I could magically find the person I will spend the rest of my life with so we can skip ahead to the good part.
Same like literally... what are you even gonna talk about in the date? Physics??
@@imaneelmouden6506 I would LOVE to talk about physics on a date! :D
-an INFP
This video reminds me of this one time I went out on a date and...
Sincerely, an ENFP.
INFP dating INFP here. The first date was the most quiet but the best date ever. I feel like INFP truly understand fellow INFP
am i the only one obsessing over the entp date.
"What are you doing for the rest of your life?"
"Stick around and find out."
so smooth!
As an ISTP, whatever little plans I make of going to socialize, I think of cancelling them all day.. so right Frank!
Whenever I want to spend time with someone, I always want to make everything about them and I always want to just sit there and listen so as an INFP this is incredibly relatable.
The INFP part is so true! We're like different person right? And often are misunderstood. But I think it's our nature.
Hey, why so early?
ESTJs are already acting like they're gonna get a divorce.
INTJs are making things so much easier...
INFJs, believe me, I wish I could comunicate telepathically as well.
So good! Just incredible jokes one after another!
INFJ accurate as usual 😄 love how surprised he looks when she checks if he's ok 😂 the characters and details were all brilliant! Really loved this! 😊
INFJ with some INTJ functioning at times with an INFJ and luckily our first date was a lot of him talking and me listening 🤣 We did send long texts back and forth and talked on the phone once a week before the date though! Highly recommend 😅
INTJ here, it actually puts me off when someone spends most of the date just staring at me.
Makes me wonder how much a person has to offer, if anything.
You made this INFP laugh out loud, but of course I’m at home alone so nobody heard me. 😆
The forgotten INFP 🤗
@@hayleyferguson3346 The way we like it. 😆
As an INFJ, I remember dating INFJ girl, this is exactly how we communicated, as if we can speak telepathically or as if we share one brain, it was weird af. But we don't talk anymore though..