Happy April Fool's Day, Frank! Only got one shiner to heal from today so far while celebrating the most glorious Fi holiday day of the year! Or at least if you think it's Fe friendly to type every pretty lady in the workplace...N-U-T-S resulting in getting kicked in... sensors don't even have to flex their intuition for this one, typing every dog owner looking like their dog's B-U-T-T, and typing people as G-E-E-Ks on MBTI forums...jk. Only read MBTI forums never made an account anywhere cuz...actually personality cafe is one of the most pleasant typing areas besides your comment section unlike other friendly communi(s)ties wanting everyone to come together like some Imagine There's No Heaven Beatles jk I'm really sorry because I remember you liked the Beatles...although am I really sorry cuz I could just backspace? Ne-ways, I've been listening to another INFJ sing a song called Divide (Disturbed singer is an INFJ) and I'm trying to imagine you singing something like that but I don't think I'm an intuitive like you to imagine, although that's not why I dislike that Beatles song like a jealousy thing because I happen to believe Heaven is the greatest so that's why I don't want to imagine that there's no Heaven but I would appreciate your next 16 personality skit video to be a music one since don't have the INFJ imagination like you or the INFJ Disturbed singer to come up with it myself, and also want motivation to come up with music list to connect with people in the comments. Jk kidding. April Fools! Would prefer a Urket as the 16 personalities..no, I'm a G-E-EK, not a N-E-R-D like Urkel which is why I could type MBTI forum people as geeks cuz takes one to know one but I wouldn't mind a Goku character typing video, but nobody would want that...even though, I mean, being that anime is so popular on the internet, and Goku is probably the most popular one besides the yellow Pokemon character that's peaks around and sneezes a lot or something, and it might help your channel grow, but...I gotta go. Be back to watch! I was actually really hoping for this one after you made your poll about being bullied because, again, I don't know my type other than G-E-E-K which lends itself to Just kidding!...I'm looking forward to this video! Take care! Have an awesome day!
INTJ. I beat up my two bullies when there weren't any teachers around. Then I went up to a group of kids and got them to believe that I've been with them the whole time during recess, so when it came time to talk to the teacher and principal, they all vouched for me. Honestly, I'm proud of my 8 year-old self.
INTJ, can relate! My elementary self used to make my bullies (who tease me everyday) cry whenever I hit them, but I never got in trouble with the teachers and management since I was the top student lmao
"How to use your personality as a weapon against bullies" as the alternative title This should be presented to everyone at school. Is so helpful and enjoyable!
i don't think crying actually helps IRL, I mean, most of the things said in the video wouldn't get through a bully's head, or are just bad tactics, the best way to get someone off tou is ignore them
@@hasargel funnily, it actually helps. not calm crying, but the messy ones that attract other people attention to you. I used to do it a lot even when I'm a young adult (used to) because even bullies don't want to be labelled as bullies by other people.
As an INFJ some girl said my hair looks burnt and disgusting, and I just stared into her soul without saying anything, another girl started defending me but to be honest I was just thinking about the answer to the math problem.
As an ENFP too, I don't quite see it that way. Only if I know that the person likes me anyway or likes me because of that, so I won't be excluded either. 😅
As a INFP I made it a point to never cry in front of others who were mean to me (I used to in elementary school but by middle school I just sort of expected it and then got used to it) and I would play the theater of their demise in my head for 30 minutes before forgetting about it and then accidentally remembering a whole different storyline I never finished that was from 2 weeks ago
This is 100% me. It took me a lot longer than most to get a handle on my emotions, but since ~middle school I am the prototypical INFP Dreamer. In a situation like this you wouldn't get ANY response out of me, but in my head you were dying in hundreds of horrifying ways for the next ~2 hours until I literally forgot what I was angry about and moved on to my next fantasy. Some of us are just living out our lives in our imagination, it's very distracting in there.
NO Fucking way i was going to cry in front of anyone, i did only once in my school when the beat me, and thats it, never after that, was bullied all of my school life, changed 4 different school, but still get bullied. but with time i become mentality strong and high school level, if anyone try to bully,give them once chance, if they do again, will give them second chance, and if they do again, thats it, fuck them up. i am happy i developed this habbit, atleast today i can survive :) my life till today is 1) Music 2) Fantasy 3) Fantasy about helping people
As an INFP, yup. Same. I absolutely hate crying in front of anyone, so I would just make up scenarios in my head where I actually told them off then completely forget about it
"That's inaccurate... Your Mom likes me." Incredulous stare from Bully. "She volunteers in the library." Haha, what an epic way to start off the video. 🤣😉
@@Takisan111 I'm an ISTP and most of the time I just ignore them, because the goal of bullying someone most of the time is to get a reaction to fuel their own needs for emotional validation (basically they just want attention) so when I ignore them they usually get bored with me. I had a bully who was an only child and had busy parents, they had money but at home they were quiet because they had no one. So at school he would be really loud and dramatic. He would gossip with his group, pick on others that were weird or quiet and when things don't go his way he threw a tantrum (like when the teacher put him in a different group than his friends).
I'm an INFP. It's similar to how I handled someone trying to be rude to me in the library at middle school. We were working on a project, and the gal had been very rudely pestering the librarian for the last 10 minutes on where to find a piece of information. She apparently got tired of trying the librarian and came to test her luck with me. (I was known as being a Know-it-all.) I gave her the exact same answer that the librarian had given her, stood up, walked over to the librarian...and politely asked her where I could find extra information on the exact same topic little miss 'Karen' had 'asked' about not 30 seconds prior. Not only did the librarian direct me to extra books, but she also gave me a few extra websites and logged me into one of her school research accounts so I could access the collegiate science journals. Let's just say, it pays to be polite and cozy with the teachers for more reasons than just grades. The speed at which the haughty expression got wiped of that girl's face... I will cherish that for as long as I can remember it. 😆 And the free journals were a big bonus too. Really miss all the extra information at fingertip. Blasted 'please subscribe to view this article' blockers... 🙄
As someone who got INTP, I did in fact view most of my bullies this way. At one point, two of them were talking shit about me by the fountain while I was nearby and after I waltzed over and demanded an explanation on why they didn't like me. After they gave me an appauled expression, they just kinda bolted out of there, and they actively avoided me until we all just kinda moved past it. A lot of those gossip-centric groups don't know how to handle being confronted.
I often like to take the weakness in their attack and counter attack in the best and most meaningful way possible. "Revenge is a dish best served cold"
I don't know why people hate me. Some people, sure, I rejected one of their friends brutally, but hey, he was creepy. But the rest of them, I just don't understand.
As an INFJ I can confirm the straight face, once my french teacher bullied me in front of everyone saying how I was inhumain and lacked empathy since he couldn’t criticise my grade. I didn’t even pay attention to him as I was occupied thinking about whatever then I left class and after my friends told me what had happened and were all shocked and angry I was just like meh I don’t mind
The same exact thing happened to me many years ago, except it was my 8th math teacher. He thought I wasn't paying attention so he yelled at me to tell him what it was he last said. I actually was able to tell him, because really I was listening after all. Then he got 10 times madder that I actually was able to answer his question, and since I had an A in the class, he instead decided to insult my notes and all of the doodling that I had in my notebook, because he had already failed once to insult and intimidate me, and obviously couldn't insult my grades. I had already zoned out again so I didn't pay much attention.
@@Schnerd37 I had almost same experience with face expression, I have default face, and it's a smile face, my senior scold my team in an orientation, for a made up reason, everyone apologize n I didn't, my mind still processing her words n check it was really happen or not, n while doing so I was the only one who still look at her straight to her face with my default super kind simple smile, she got angry even more, n scold me for putting no respect. Then I remember a rumour of her place was switched n it was hard for her, then I look at her with even kinder stare, all my team worried about me, how if I got punished but no I just giving the most empathic gaze with smile. She got away angrier while saying curse words.. N she avoid me after that...
Okay, but hear me out. As an INFP who got bullied - I probably never caught half of the mocking, being inside my own head. The day bullying got so bad that the teacher called headmistress, I actually didn't know what was going at first.
Sad to hear. :( Also bullied INFP here, but somehow I stopped it by pushing the guy against the wall by his throat. (The last straw was him put dwawing pins on my chair, pointing up.) Not my proudest moment… but it worked.
I'm an INFP as well but I scared off the bullies with a knife and they stopped picking on me ever since. I didn't know what else to do to defend myself so don't blame me lol
I am an INTJ, and the only time someone tried to bully me was in high school. A girl took something I said about some random topic personally and started to spread false information and gossip against me. It ended up precisely like this: I didn't even remember her name, but I pointed out that she apparently knew everything about me and what I said. I asked if she was interested in me since she was so passionate and that I was sorry, but she was not my type because I really didn't like people like her. It ended out EXACTLY like in this video, and I think that my resting bitch face helped.
Yeah, INTJ here too. My neighborhood nickname was Killer. A few times other kids tried to bully me with not so good results for them. One guy said I was on crutches because I was too fat to support my weight on my legs; he shouldn't have done that in front of his friends since he got a retort about trying to make himself feel better about a lack of "something". His friends were still laughing as I got out of earshot. 😋
As an INFP, I usually ignored such behaviors, although inside I felt weak (this made bully feel even more excited lol). However, crying in front of a crowd of people was never an option, so when I came home, I cried alone.
As an INFP, during teenage years, I was too busy worrying about my own existential crisis to care about the world around me. If there were people try to bully me back then, they would feel like punching air.
As an INFP, sometimes the tears come with anger. It got interpreted as a tantrum. No one understands me. That is why I tend to hide my emotions until i explode.
OMG I feel you, I FEEL YOU! The world doesn't take us seriously, because we avoid conficts until our emotions are so intense, so people think we're having a childish behavior and they even LAUGH when we express our needs and feelings! That's why I take other's feelings so seriously, because I can imagine how relief there are in feeling validated and understood.
As an INFJ who was bullied in middle school and high school, I never responded to my bullies. Just like in this video, I kept a straight face lol. But on the inside the bullying was emotionally draining me and I ended up switching schools. I did have my fair share of zoning out in school though haha.
Same kinda. There were these two boys that tried to mess with me, saying shit like “oh he’s gonna r**e you” and going back and forth like that. I just didn’t react at all, cause I knew they just wanted a reaction. Eventually they seemed to get bored and stopped. It’s a very effective method. Meanwhile they went to mess with this overly dramatic attention seeking girl and she would always show an upset reaction to them. I even told her my advice to just not react, but she didn’t listen at all. Okay then lady suit yourself.
Same with you... I don't even care about what they said to me. Because at that time I felt confused and my mind said " what's wrong with this person? suddenly say bad things to me 🤔". I'm just confused and won't think about it too much. But I'll feel that hurt when I was in my hard time. What they said to me hurt me at another time.
Me too! But the ones who bullied me are actually my friends(?) I was hurt but I was more concerned over them since they decided to bully me. I ended up transferring to another school but I got bullied (again) but this time a teacher was there to help me out :D
I think INFJs wrote the book on zoning out. My third grade class was a 2 in 1. My teacher covered history, English, etc, while the other covered math and science. I remember one time noticing my teacher was in front of the class, and when I snapped out of whatever trance I was in (thanks to someone poking me), it was the other teacher. I hated when that happened as I literally had no memory of the span of time. At all. Shit was weird man...
INTJ girl here. I never had the “Why are you so into my clothing experience?” but proving bullies wrong or twisting their intent became so much of a game for me that they eventually left me alone. I was almost disappointed afterward.
I'm an INFP too, but strangely I can't relate to this depiction of us. I would often unintentionally say something that got me in to trouble because people often misunderstood my intentions. I never wanted to fight or hurt people, but people sure wanted to fight me so they left me no choice but to defend myself with fists until they gave up or I started feeling sorry for punching their faces in.
@@Abiodun92 me too I am a INFP T but I am never encounter any bullying before but deep down I am still waiting for them to bully me so then I can beat them up but sadly no one bully me yet
I'm an INFJ who was bullied relentlessly throughout my school years, and apart from the sarcasm which I naturally have, I would have been over the moon to have had just about ANY of these comebacks to the asshats back in the day!
Same here apparently my worst insult i said to a bully, is "quit teasing because i am different as for i cant say the same, (note i am a gamer i continue to say) lord am i in a game where most people a generic npc cause they sure act the same and look the same with minor changes." I thought i was this savage because of my zodiac sign then i realise it just my personality.
As an INFJ, staring at your enemies while spacing out is very accurate. (Also even funnier is that my mom is also an INFJ and she used to glare at people, subconciously)
I'm an INFJ with resting bitch face. When I space out it's either amazing and no one talks to me, or I get asked even by strangers if I'm ok. xD There is no middle ground.
As an INFP I can definately say that I have made more bullies uncomfortable and feel instant regret by my displays of uncontrolled rollercoaster emotions alone, than by sassing them or retaliating with a burn.
Yeah as an INFP(-T), I can relate too lololol, I made the people who I'm uncomfortable with stay away from me by screaming intensively at them, talk completely nonsense, or I'll make an ugly nickname out of their names mwahahaha
As an INTP girl who was bullied as much as humanly possible, I never developed this strange shame or guilt that innocent victims often develop as if they did something wrong. My reaction was exactly the same as in the video.
@@TuningAnApple holysht, it happens to me all the time, 'till now, tho it's not bully but just people doesn't like me and willingly cut contact with ne
Wow, I'm an INFJ, and that literally happened to me in high school. The girl was standing there saying all kinds of rude things to me, but I was spaced out and only caught the last bit she said. She turned around and ignored me after that, lol
I suffer the fact I'm INFJ and possibly autistic (I plan to get tested for ADHD/Autism/etc) I have high sensory and hear everything unless I'm spaced out or focused on something I truly enjoy.
INTJ here and I’ve had that conversation before almost verbatim. I could have given a lesser care about being bullied I was more bothered that they were talking to me and interrupting my reading/thinking.
the problem is that some people in class were joking about me and I couldn't care less, but when they tried to look for the title of the book, I literally hit him because he bothered the smut part
INTJ: I was bullied all through elementary and middle school, but when I got into high school I decided to stop giving power to my tormentors. Any time it came to my attention that the bullies were trying to get under my skin again, I simply made it perfectly clear that they were beneath my notice. The funny thing is, they tried awfully hard to be friends with me (or more than friends in some cases) in my senior year. Yeah, no. They were still beneath my notice. I don’t know why they thought we could be friends when they spent years attempting to make my life a living hell… It’s not like any of them developed any redeeming qualities in that time frame. 😆
Can definitely relate, people bully others purely for a reaction from the victim due to their own insecurities. Why should we allow ourselves to become the fuel for their petty insults? -INTJ
As an INTJ, In highschool a lot of my classmates tried to bully me or make fun of me, but also tried soo hard to go with me or be friends with me. However, I dont hangout with bullies and I dont like to tolerate their rude behavior so they always wonder how come I can always manage to stay confident alone. 🤷🏻♀️ better be alone than hangout with them anyway
Exactly how I felt! When they tried to befriend me after noticing I didn't give a damn about what they would think, like all they've done to me have magically disappear xD
I’m an INTJ. This was exactly how I handled a bullying incident in high school. 😄 Sometimes our personality type of not being emotionally entangled in other people’s opinions comes in handy.
It’s actually a superpower. It gets even more handy the older you get. No one is fully immune to peer pressure, charisma and propaganda, but us INTJs probably get the closest.
As an INFJ, when I got bullied at school I uno reversed it so hard. They never bothered me again. But it was rare, I was so quiet with RBF. People didn’t bother me much.
I'm an INFJ too and because I was very quiet and close off from almost everyone, no one couldn't find reasons to bother me. Besides wondering why am l so quiet.
Lol as an inch I can relate... In elementary I would just "smile" at their bullying until they stopped, or I'd somehow become besties with them.....idk how I did it
Unfortunately as an INFJ I would sometimes just suffer in silence and mentally write them off as idiots as long as they didn’t touch me or I would have to kill them. 😂😳
As an INFP who cries instead of confronting situations, this is accurate. I remember one day having a tough time and a group of girls shouting at me because of not important things, and I started crying. A minute after that I was being hugged by all of them 😂😂
Oh god lmao something like that happened to me, but more absurd I would say lol cuz one friend of mine had this beautiful aluminum can that had really pretty intriquet desings and I wanted to take it home so he gave it to me and I was all day with it in my hands when all of a sudden other classmate that was kinda a friend of mine too, cuz we were a pretty big group, take the can of my hand, I asked him to give it back, he didn't want to and ask me why it was so important, I was getting mad and didn't answer and suddenly he crush it with his palm, I and everyone there stay stunted for a couple of seconds and then I ran to the bathroom and lock myself inside, I fucking cried so hard, I laugh now but at that moment I felt like he was crushing me instead of that can, because he was so careless about something I care, it was a stupid little thing, replaceable, but it was mine. They called my name from the other side but I just wanted to cry a little then I would be fine, but they call the janitor lady and she opened the bathroom, they all hug me and then when I saw him he ask for my pardon, I think he geniuly felt bad so I give it to him and then he hugged me. So yeah, INFP all the way I guess? Thankfully now as a grown up things don't get to me that easily lol.
How are y'all not bullied further for crying, like that's what happened to me until I stopped showing my tears to anybody and just took everything in, non-reacting until I'm alone and then cry
As an INTP my solution to bullying was to react like the INFJ but intentionally. Stare at them with a blank expression and give them a little smirk after they started to get real uncomfortable. Worked like a charm every time.
INTP, I also stare at them, in my mind will think what is her problem, what is her purpose, why she did like this or talk like this. And also asked myself have I should to give a interested at her. Then I done about analysis that I will stare at them like if you wanna get a problem, bring it on....
Bro.. people at my tution think I shoot laser rays from my eyes. They even think I look intimidating... but in reality I am simply doing nothing or at the utmost judging people brutally.
The fact that I actually am an INFJ and I also look a lot like Frank James (I'm a girl but my father looks like a copy of him) makes this even more accurate, I always space out and I even have the same eye coulour and shape as him wth
As an INTJ, i can say that’s pretty accurate. I would feel weirded out that someone was that obsessed with me that they knew everything about me and what i was doing 24/7.
I still remember fifteen years ago telling a bully who was complaining how, 'everyone is so two faced here', that he should be relieved because I honestly never liked him. The 'honestly' part went right over his head and it baffles me to this day.
I literally said almost word for word what the INTJ guy said when some dude in high school tried to bully my clothing. I was like, "I'm flattered that you find me so interesting that you spend so much energy on noticing what I'm wearing, but I don't feel the same way about you I'm sorry." and yes, I am an INTJ, so that made me laugh.
When I met my husband I made the first move via a friend and (without seeing me) he said no. When I passed by him to leave the venue he followed me outside to talk and I asked him if he was stalking me and asked why he was obsessed 🤣🤣. This is so accurate it’s scary.
I've had friends tell me "hey, that person hates you" many times and my reaction is always "woah... they hate me, they spend so much time thinking about me and I don't even know who they are... that's so sad". Not caring is great.
Fellow INTJ. I had a similar run in in high school and remember asking the girl why the hell she was paying my shoes so much attention and that I would be hard pressed to recall her name let alone anything she was wearing lol.
INFJ here, that was so accurate! I was bullied mercilessly in elementary school, so by the time I got to high school I just stopped paying attention. I even made a friend who admitted to me in college that she bullied me in middle and high school, and wanted to apologize. I was like, what? I genuinely had no idea. When did you do that? She looked at me like I lost my mind, while I laughed and waved off what (to her) must've been years of bullying that she had weighing on her conscience...while I didn't even know she existed 😂
Lmfao me too except that I roast myself infront of them and I roast them too so they cant think of an insult against me, its like taking their spotlight 😂
Oh my god that's so real 😂 people would tell me crazy shit that happened in highschool and I'm like 'really? I had no idea' I was just minding my own buisness
Literally that's my life story dude. I was bullied by everyone else in my grade level at my elementary school and having a dissociation identity disorder, I really had no idea I was being bullied by all those people. My parents said they treated me really badly, but strangely I never really noticed.
As an INFP, it was very on the point since I’m actually a very emotionally sensitive person and I do cry very easily 😂 I used to hide it because I thought it was embarrassing and I was ashamed, but I gradually grew to just adapt and overcome :p
Okay but yeah. As an INFJ whenever someone tries to pick a fight with me I'll just stare at them without engaging. Their plays and tricks are too easy to look through, they just crave attention. 😂
We're so above all these childish school games. We have more important philosophical problems to solve, including dealing with our own existential crises which already bully us every day of the year. 😅
That's what I did too - sometimes I would I also slightly raise my left eyebrow as if to say "I see through you, I know what you are trying to do, and I both feel a little sorry for but am also internally laughing at you for attempting to feel better about yourself by making fun of or getting aggressive with me" - it was very effective!
And the (slap-free) Oscar goes to the INTJ in "Bullying the bully."🤣😂😂🤣 I can't stop laughing. The INTP didn't even have to show her face for us to know who they were talking to.🤓
ENFP: doesn't get it when they're being hit on, doesn't get it when they're being bullied, but can talk endlessly about the meaning of everything with total strangers.
As an INFJ I can say I did that, but when the bully hit my friend I just got his address, where his grandparents lived, where his mother works and worked, his records from other schools, his social number, his allergies and weaknesses while I watched him from a distance. A little xtreme but he send MY friend to a hospital. I also did ENFJ and ENFP 😅
I'm INFP and I got bullied a lot (like, a lot a lot). I usually assumed I did something wrong to provoke the bullies and must've deserved it. But then one day someone other than myself got bullied and I was like "yo what", shoved the bully, ranted about the immorality of the situation for 5 minutes straight giving the victim a chance to escape, and concluded by straight up yelling "why don't you just go back to picking on me?!" And so I got beat up again. But now at least I knew the real reason I got bullied was because I was straight up weird
You are not weird trust me I’m ISFP & Pisces and I got bullied too but I just used to cry about it I was scared to go to school I also had depression and anxiety and family problems so I just stopped going to school completely I didn’t even finish middle school but I don’t care because school didn’t teach me anything anyway it’s so useless and I’m actually the smartest person I know even tho I didn’t finish school being smart has nothing to do with school being intelligent is natural
I’m INFP and honestly I got bullied a lot during elementary and middle school but most of the time I didn’t really notice cause I was just happy people were talking to me and I tend to see the best in everyone so I was like “they couldn’t possibly have meant that in a mean way, maybe we can be friends!” And I am actually still friends to this day with my bully from kindergarten XD
Dude same, I always assume people mean well and years later my now best friend was like “hey I’m really sorry I used to bully you, I feel terrible about it” and I honest to god could not figure out what she meant. I still have no clue how she bullied me, but she was so genuine about it I have to believe her lol.
Same..I mean I thought people didn't bullied me, we were just playing? Well idk haha I feel I had gotten darker now and can see other sides of the world but still, it's not that bad if you can stay happy
I was so shocked with the INFJ one because when people made fun of me, I always stayed quiet. my classmates were all scared of me just because I was quiet
Im an infj and one time i zoned out for an entire college lecture looking at one blinking light, and looked over at my friends notebook and realized i was done for
As an INFJ, I can confirm that we just stare at our bullies until they run away in fear. In fact, at my school all the INFJs join forces when one of our fellow INFJs are getting teased. We stand in formation and stay there for at least an hour
Alternative for infj if it’s more direct bullying is just to say whatever is on your mind. No filter just let it out 100%. You’ve probably already psychoanalyzed your bully so just let them hear “the truth”. It’s pretty hard though if you’ve never done it before since we’re used to processing info first and default to how to get on peoples good side.
Both the INFJ in the video and what you describe are accurate for me..ive had both happen..where mean girls would say nasty things and I would look at them blankly until they felt uncomfortable and left me alone and have also done what you describe where I've said something cutting knowing it will hit a nerve and then the person who tried to bully me gets upset and then tries to turn the tables and say I was mean to them..in both cases, they tended to never bother me again. I think its quite hard to bully an INFJ, I think we catch people off guard..people might think because we're sensitive that we're an easy target but find out the hard way, we're not
@@vonnie10ification yes they will try to turn the tables for being “mean” when honestly you can just stare at them blankly be like “it’s the truth” lol 😂 everyone will have to hear their good sides and bad sides eventually.
The snapping point where you just call out their desperate behaviour and how obvious their self esteem issues are and it's way more hurtful than it needed to be 💀
INFJ. It's like batman meets joker while maintaining his cool or black widow being emotionally tested and both em stay calm , fully processing the negative force in front of them and then choosing to tell the truth or walk away and never to return. In my lifetime I was surrounded by narcisssitic bullies and they all would attack me because i was the opposite and every encounter ended the same. They attacked but never came back as I looked into their eyes piercing into their soul and making understand " I know who you are deep down and what you're doing right now".
I was definitely a space cadet back in my high school years. Just wandering off mentally and letting a bully rant for the most part. Then, knowing how to make them uncomfortable when they are by themselves 😂
As an INFP, last time someone bullied me I got a panic attack and cried pretty much in front of my class. They were literally so scared they left me alone, I was confused for a pretty long time.
there were times I dint cried despite getting bullied but even today when emotions are running high..i cant help but my tears flow very quickly..hell i even once ended up crying in office unable to take the stress..😒sometimes i feel these personality types r just not accurate but then mbti does infact gives more accuracy than other personality tests..
I practically got bullied at work a few weeks ago. I‘m an adult and pretty much the dreamer INFP that seems completely emotionless, because everything is just in my head. But damn, this time they discriminated me until 3am and I completely lost it and was so mad that I cried and basically screamed at the whole group of 15 people. My worst nightmare, everyone was scared and it worked… but this is so embarrassing, I just want to melt and be one with the floor
@@anabananapopana I used to be an INFP long ago, had similiar story with yours (not as bad)... I feel you 😭 now I'm an INTP but I still think about it a lot once a week.
@@anabananapopana you know, I always been pretty sure being an infp for a really long time, that's what I am, but lately for the things that happened and the way I changed I relate much more to another mbti (istp). I remember when, got tired of some of my classmates many years ago, I shouted and started crying and let it all out, now I just think I can make it barely showing an emotion. Sometimes things change us it's terrible
the infj one is so accurate for me. i didn't even know i was being bullied till one of my old classmates told me abt the rumors and shit the bullies would spread. i was more focused on interacting with my close friends apparently udfhiufhia
lmao same. i had no idea people were saying crap until i was told about it. the fact that i didn't know didn't stop me from already being insecure lmao, but learning about it definitely made it worse 👍
@@3dsmaxrocks699maybe you didn't understood him ig, for me it was sort of bullying where I had no friends everybody casted me out even when I try to make friends until one day my teacher told me about it Edited* btw did I tell that I am an INTJ but still I can relate it??
As a INTP, yes, this is how my normal self deal with bullies, passive-aggressive. Word of advice, do not, ever bully a INTP who's stressed out, sleep deprived, or in a really bad mood, or else... you'll have the first hand experience of "If I'm going down, you're coming with me.".
Yeah exactly If iam normal i don't care what others think about me If iam sleep deprived or depressed anyone cannot even stand against me ,, Fun fact - I make a police man freaked out when i was 20 ,,not the best but it's decent though
One time on a night out a creepy/annoying dude on the bus wouldn’t stop talking to me and my (ISFJ) friend. She listened to his nonsense politely while I (INFJ) just stared at him. He ended up getting freaked out, accused me of being in the illuminati and left. Best night ever.
This is gold! In the illuminati! I'm howling!! I have also scared "bus bullies" with my stare. They sat opposite me, their body language was showing that they wanted to attack me, so I just kept staring at them in a menacing way. The next stop they got out :) At that time I didn't know what an INFJ is but apparently there's something about us in that department :)
@@PriHL one problem we INFJ have that we think everyone is about to get us . While irl they wanna be friends. I used to think everyone is out to get me when I was 14 it took me 5 years to realise that's not the case. We overestimate threats. But then again a conversation is threat to us so idk.
The INFJ one was pretty accurate. Except most the time, instead of spacing out I just start psychoanalysing that person which would take so long that they would feel uncomfortable and leave. To this day, even after dealing with so many kinds of people, I still have difficulty comprehending that certain people see someone and think of something to say and really say it without considering it for even once that they're just embarrassing themselves. That's the first thought that comes in my mind, followed by many others.
lol. so relatable on that one. how can people not consider that? Also, apparently my psychoanalyzing stare is intimidating??? I don't get it. All I do is try to figure out about you before interacting. is that so strange?
I have a best friend who did exactly like you said. They can instantly go up to a friend and start talking( like for me I would have to think of a topic first and maybe repeat it in my head a few times). Also sometimes I think she come off as offensive in my opinion but most of the time the other person just laugh. My INFJ ass couldn’t comprehend how she speak her mind so freely😂
@@napatchayakah You need to try. Be more real because xNFJs can often come across as practiced, less honest due to this. Having to think about each and every word that comes out of your mouth is so suffocating.
As an ENFP this is SO accurate. I took so much pride in being the weird kid in elementary school. In high school I was pretty oblivious to bullying, but in a 9th grade bullying unit a girl I had another class with told a story about a "girl who wears weird clothes" who was being bullied in that other class and I realized she was talking about me even though I'd missed it completely
Lmao no one ever bullied me in high school but they did know me as the girl with the funky shoes. Had olive green swade boots with ribbon as laces depending on time of year. One with sweater reindeer, an orange silk ribbon and a red wine one lol
INTJ was pretty accurate. I reacted the same way when my grown ass coworkers were harassing me. After I was done with them, one quit and the other seemed lost mentally.
I love it when they start trying to get you to say something or do something that they can use against and all you're doing is standing there minding your own business or looking slightly passed with the stare. It drives them even more mad.😁
As an ENFP I can't believe how close that conversation was to something I actually said. I honestly didn't realize they were "bullying" me but whenever someone called me weird I took it as a compliment and let them know. When they were confused they left. I love confusing people.
As an ENFP I was called weird and replied "thank you." After that everyone started calling me weird, I just replied "thank you." Honestly, that just kept them at it, but whatever.
@@TheRealBellatrixLestrange yeah tbh I personally wouldn't have counted calling someone weird bullying (i mean it depends on their intent but I'm not a mind reader) so the continued use of the term was easy for me to accept and roll with 🙃
@@cjl1ghtn1nja the only thing about it that bothered me was when random people would come up to me and call me weird all the time. It wasn't bullying, but it was annoying after a while.
Me too- I was bullied most of school and I was oblivious 95% of the time unless it was either super obvious or a friend pointed it out. Most of the time I was just left either feeling confused the bully was confused or I was just so oblivious I didn’t even register the interaction. People still tried. There was a time I wanted to fit In (for like 3 weeks in year 8- critical Fe can get the best of us at times) but realised if people weren’t willing to accept my authentic self then it wasn’t worth it as the connection wasn’t genuine, and so I made the conscious decision to be fully myself, and I found friends who appreciated that and did genuinely love my authentic self. To quote Sabrina the teenaged witch: “every school needs a weird kid might as well be me”
OMG the INFJ gave me a complete flashback to high school. So many people told me later they thought I was stuck up and ignoring them, but I was just lost in thought...constantly. I think I daydreamed through 90 percent of school.
I can totally relate! People also told me they thought I was stuck up. However, when I wasn't day dreaming, I was shy, and when I wasn't shy, I really just didn't have anything else to say... I would really be analysing and thinking about whatever people said then I would space out for 10 min and imagine tons of realities from whatever they said.
basically, being an ENTP who was bullied in high school, all i could think about was to come back with an honest observation i have about them and how they have the energy to bully people when they're not even excelling in school and the fact that i could actually do better than them. so who's the real loser here 💀
@@annamontana9640 We ARE very busy telling people they're wrong. And there's only room for so many of us before human society collapses like an overripe hypergiant.
Basically, the idea is: "Ok, you want me to get the right answers? Or you want me the teacher to believe it was your work?" I can't help, I love pointing out why idiotic plans would never would work.
As an ISFJ, I just came to a realization that in high school (5 years ago) people TRIED to bully me but I just assumed they were more socially inept then I am so I just steered the conversations to different things so they didn't realize they were being mean and wouldn't feel guilty.
As an INTJ who wears a black hoodie almost everyday, I can 100% agree this is how I react to anyone who mentions my clothing choices. Like why are you paying attention to my clothes, while I can't even remember the color of your eyes?💀
...you're supposed ro remember a color of someone's eyes? I mean no offense but clothing choices are much more evident of one's personality and much easier to remember
@@larvini It's just a personal thing. I don't know why, but I enjoy looking at people's eyes. Not to mention, I like staring at people's eyes, because they find it awkward, and they are intimidated by eye contact. I don't have any problem with eye contact, in fact I love it. It's just so interesting seeing their reaction.
Again, you took something I literally said... It's just weird at this point... ENTJ just sucked the life out of this bully! Love how witty you are, Frank.
I think I'm an entj and once a group of girls in high school tried to bully me but I twisted the situation and ended up being the bad guy for them 🤣 then they "defended themselves" from me and my "mean comments" about them lmfao, im not proud tho but this was pretty accurate lol
I’m an ENTJ, the only time someone tried to bully me was in middle school when a girl called me train tracks and I just laughed at her and called her an idiot because she had braces too lol
As an ENFP, I found this very relatable. People used to ask me how I was able to be so open and weird and not care about what others thought. I really couldn’t care less what lame people think. Be yourself people! It’s a lot more fun.
I feel this sm, but also I was bullied for most of school but just didn’t realise 95% of the time. Like I’m so oblivious to social cues I didn’t even realise they were trying to be mean, I would just answer the poisoned apple questions genuinely and think they were having a conversation. It wasn’t until people pointed it out to be I was like ohhh, anyways I love who I am. I tried to fit in but never wanted to compromise myself and then made the conscious decision to just screw what others think and be myself always, and it’s the best decision I ever made- ENFP I feel like critical Fe can get the best of us sometimes and we feel like we want to fit in. But is it really worth it if it isn’t your authentic self they are accepting and loving? I decided after about 2 weeks of trying (I got bored) it wasn’t
INFJ here! When I was bullied by a group of fellow pupils in high schools, I thought that I didnt want to hurt them too as they did to me. I didnt want to go to school due to their bulling. It affected my health but as all things it ended after 2 years. It changed me and how I interract with others.
As an INTJ, it is literally true that I wear practically the same thing every day (I have several versions of black slacks, same style of blouse) because I DON'T CARE about clothes. And it is completely accurate that I just cannot pay attention to anything anyone else wears, because I DON'T CARE about clothes. And I'm a 53 year old woman.
INFP here and I sometimes like to dress up nicely, though most often I choose things that are very comfortable. But if someone's rotten inside, there is no amount of nice clothes able to hide that.
I often wonder what an INTJ organization would be like. We would all want to be in charge but we wouldn’t mind working for a competent leader that we could learn from. We could probably solve most of the worlds problems. I often believe I’ve come up with solutions to societal problems but have no idea how I could convince anyone that they’d work lol It’s hard to explain things in a way that most people can comprehend and even then, they usually don’t want to accept an idea that haven’t heard before.
Just the other day I got called out on that. They said: "I only ever see you in like two shirts." I responded with: "Yeah. Those are my outside of work shirts. I only need two."
I am an INFP girl, but when I got bullied by a male classmate I did the exact same thing as this INTJ. Somehow I realized that all I need is not to change their behaviour towards myself but to find most humiliating reason for his behaviour and say it out loud in front of as many people as possible. Or in front of his "best friends". But... I am *I*-NFP, so the "say it out loud in front of as many people as possible" part was a double-edged blade for me. So I started training myself, repeating this scene over and over again in my head. And one day when the conditions met and he started his thing, all my fears suddenly vanished and I heard my inner voice, quiet yet strong, like a candle burning with a black flame: "I want to see you suffer. By your own hands. I want your weapon to turn on you with all the might it gained for all this time"... And so I said, loud and clear: "I got it. You are the only one who speak to me every day. If you are into me just say so, you don't need to be rude". I failed in just one thing: I couldn't hide my smile as I spoke those last words. But I think it made the situation even more unpleasant for him, because I can't believe that smile looked kind :))). This is one of the sweetest memories of my school days and maybe my whole life 😊. He was sooo pissed and confused and even his friend laughed at him. He haven't approached me nearer than three meters ever again 😁. You know, I'm something of a manipulator myself. *misteryously sips tea 👀 * (P.S. I am still learning English, so if there are any mistakes please help me to correct them. I will be grateful 💝)
@@angelainee wow, that's great to hear! This method is really effective against teen-agers, plus neither your authority nor your pride gets damaged this way. Even if your target will try to play your game and say if you are asking it because you are in love with them yourself, you still have an advantage, because we (most likely) have never payed as much attention to them as they did to us. So all we gotta do is to demonstrate neutrality or even pity, contempt or alertness towards them, depending on circumstances of course. Either way, I am happy that I helped someone even in such an unexpected way 😄. Good luck to you! 🍀
You are so strong! I'm an isfp but I'm very emotional and take things to heart easily+my social anxiety makes me just stay quiet even if I want to say something! But your story made me believe that I can work on myself too and I can learn to stand up for myself! I hope I will improve at one point just like you did! Thank you so much for the inspiration! You are a very strong soul💜
noice gurl I actually did that for mine haha cus I was tired of them making pointed comments abt me whenever they came nearby. I had this line rehearsed in my head that if they actually tried to shittalk me again I would use it. And then that moment came and I was so incredibly irritated with them at the point I just shushed them and went, " did you hear that? How good it sounds when you SHUT UP" I heard some OOOOOOOOOOH at the back lmao cus I didnt notice some guys were nearby to hear that. They nvr approached me again.
As an INFJ, I can relate to the ENFJ, at least when I was a kid. Only I didn’t actually verbalize my pity. I just began being super nice to the bully, because I felt bad for them, which made them think I was kissing up, which made the bullying worse. Which led to me finally giving a scathing, sarcastic rebuke, naming out loud all their hidden insecurities. And then I’d feel guilty. I didn’t get bullied often.
Same. Push an INFJ too far or too often, and we'll use our sharp tongue and cut them to the core and slash open all of their insecurities. Afterwards, the bully tends to keep their distance
@@cherrynado that actually happened to me too some dude were used to bully on me on such a way and on the end we had a fight but after it, well, that will sound weird but we became friends after we have spoken a little of how bad we injured eachother LMAO "weird enfj moment"
Hahaha, I’m girl INTJ and when somebody says to me one of my disadvantages, I just carefree agree with him/her even if it is real my disadvantage and I feel painful and unpleasant. It really works, people understand that they can’t offend you and stop doing it. I chose a strategy that I just shouldn’t show my real emotions. But if people say something offensive I disagree with, I just laugh and ignore them. I’m very sensitive, but still… I mustn’t show my emotions, it’s my choice.
the INTJ one is actually only too real, the "then why am I so important to you that you'd spend time giving me attention" is a flaweless classic, always worked
INFJ here, can vouch for this being a pretty much 90% of the day thing for me. Like at work, at social gatherings, even while I'm watching or playing something, in reality I'm so far removed from the moment it's hard to describe. There are far more worthwhile things for me to think about than whatever weird issue of the week people want to talk about.
Hysterical!! 🤣🤣🤣 As an INFP, I once scolded a drunken neighbor AS HE WAS BEING ARRESTED and told him to get some help because he was worth it (I recognized his probable struggle with self-worth). And that watching his toxic relationship was difficult. And that he made living there miserable. I physically shook due to the conflict. We were never friends. Plot twist: the INFP has reached their monthly limit of being nice and proceeds to verbally destroy the bully cause they actually can. The crying would happen later at home.
Ohh when I get actually angry I shake as well lol. I feel like I want to kill and then I'm angry at myself for wanting to hurt someone bc that person clearly had an effect on my mentality 😂☠️. I cry if it's arguing with someone I like and they can't understand my side :'D.
Haha! So true! When the inner BS meter is at maximum, I can get a bit scary. Then I go home and have a good cry. Once upon a time I was being bullied in middle school by a girl who said I called her bitch when I did no such thing. I fought hard to hold back the tears when I was being interrogated by her friends. When they saw what a gentle person I was they started teasing and laughing at the girl who targeted me. It turns out she had been jealous of my gymnastics skills Lol.
As an INFP I remember I was bullied only once and since I went into "0 emotions mode", other classmates reprimanded the bullies for wtf they did because I was acting unspeakably strange XDDD so yeah, people usually can't handle our "strange" emotion display, even if it's not crying
I'm an INFP and that makes so much sense. I also have a "shutdown" mode, and people don't like it but they don't seem to realize when we are triggered we have two options, get overwhelmed by the emotions right then and there, or we can shut down so we don't get too emotional in the moment.
Oh god, yeah I know that 'shutdown' mode. INFP as well. Though, due to certain things that have happened to me in my life so far, I've also developed a different kind of shut down. There's the ''zero emotions mode'' that you mentioned, but then there's also the ''I've become so overwhelmed with anxiety and emotion that my emotions are now subdued and all I feel is a boiling rage inside me'', but I'm fairly good at controlling my anger so it comes out as this strange controlled anger that people arent used to from me at all and that catches them off guard. This has manifested in situations like my Principal over the phone not listening to anything my mother said and constantly talking over her or intentionally misinterpreting things she said while I was sitting next to her, until at one point i cut in (fyi, i was part of the call) to try and calmly explain what she meant. He decided not to listen and instead interrupt me three or four times IN ONE SINGLE SENTENCE, but he got caught off guard when this usually quiet, polite kid told him to essentially 'goddamn let me talk for once' in german. That tone and sentence hit him so out of left field that for the first time in the entire meeting he shut up and let me and my mother speak and explain our point. I'm not sure if this is the same shutdown mode as the other and just it grew some teeth due to how ive been treated and walked all over in the past, or if this is an entirely different shutdown mode - I havent been in enough situations that would cause those modes since the angry one started happening so i'm not sure. Regardless of whether they're separate or not though, the angry one is one ive had to develop over time, and its definitely starting to come in handy. But yeah, TL;DR: I relate to both of you, but also, I have developed an angry version of that shutdown mode due to events in my life.
@@jianlin3952 yes it's SO convenient to be crippled by your emotional depth to the point it's hard to even watch nature shows without crying over snatched up baby seals. You got me! I'm living it up over here so conveniently!
the infj scenario has really happened to me, the other person burst into tears and freaked out because i wouldn't respond to them. i just had nothing to say and instead stared while they had a meltdown over my unresponsiveness
INFJ here, and this is so true. Bully's always thought I was casting a spell. I scared people. One of the most common questions I got was where the funeral was. Dressing in all black and silently drilling mental holes in mundanes with my eyes was a high school hobby.
INTP was to the point as usual lol. It did get to the stage where I wasn’t bullied anymore cause the bullies needed my help with homework. A few times I was physically attacked and fought back, with force, much to the bullies amazement cause they thought I was weak. They never tried again after that.
Haha, I don't know which type I am, but this happened to me in grade school. Some of the boys liked making fun of me and I just generally ignored them but then one of them realized I was actually smart and could translate what the teachers said into "human" for him. The funniest bit was he was the sporty one in our class and none of the other boys would go against what he said, ever. So I kinda became the king's advisor and that was that. They never bothered me again., XD
I got bullied so often in grade school it eventually stopped phasing me. If I did cry it was either because it was really horrible or I was safely at home where no one could see me. The fact that I eventually got so used to bullying that I didn't even react when people used me as a prop to bully someone else really messes with my head nowadays.
I’m an ENTJ - my friends describe me as “a bully who only bullied their bullies” lol It’s pretty accurate how your ENTJ obliterated his bully with only one interaction! Keep up the great content.
@@muffintops ENTJ too here, i have somewhat similar experience during school days. It’s not like I never been bullied, but i simply chose not to feel bullied. So those hecklers would say all those nasty things to me but i would just walk away like nothing happened. They eventually stop because they realized it wouldn’t work for me. Usually they ended up asking my help in any way cause who’s the smartest and most achiever kid in the school? Yeah me 😂😂😂😂
@@rizzofromIndo I relate to you so hard... Tbh now that I think of it, during my school years may be people did try and bully me, but I guess it didn't work out well...😂 Now no one bullies me tbh.. I also ended up being that helping "friend" coz they needed it... But it was more like boosting my ego that selflessly helping them...
As an ENTP, I would do exactly that but include staring into the person’s soul. I would be like all fun and laughing one second and suddenly staring straight at them even if they turned away. I find this video nicely portrayed ❤
As a enfj this happens to me all the time. Bullies don’t bully me probably because they know I will want to help them and won’t be effected. I actually helped out the bullies in my class to be more accepted by everyone and therefore helping them to gain more of a sense of belonging and less needs to emphasis themselves. I did little things that are unnoticeable like reminding them of snack duties and buying it for them to use when they refused to do it. I also reminded the teachers who were angry with them that these bullies have their own troubles and are going through a lot. By the end of the year their relationship with the teachers and the class got better and they were making and bringing barbecue to my class and sharing them with everyone unprompted. One of my proudest set of actions that my classmates don’t know about.
The INTJ is pretty accurate and sometimes it’s not intentionally mean or defensive there are just some logical inconsistencies or conclusions that need to be pointed out.
IKR. Had a conversation with some chap the other day and tore him a new one on the logical inconstancies of his claims. No hard feelings against him or anything, the stupidity and irrationality was just annoying
ROFL this is fantastic. I love how he turned the insults into burns. Also, as an INFP I’d be really annoyed because I’d come up with the best reply that evening in my shower and forget about using it the next time.
I'm INFP and I remember the painful struggle to hide my tears when bullied. I tried to wait until I got home to cry. Sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't.
As an INFP that got bullied, I cry ALL THE TIME and I definitely agree. I didn't cry because I feel defeated. I'm just not scared of my own emotions hahaha.
right?! i was bullied too, but it's like... wow i'm so sorry for being a _human._ i think it was the only thing i wasn't embarrassed of as a kid. as an adult, i just find it pitiful how, at the end of the day, bullies get so intimidated by emotions. i remember during high school my on and off again boyfriend left me in the movie theater while i sobbed after watching the strangers (his idea). at the time, i was crushed, but now i realize that my tears _intimidated_ him. he loved pressing my buttons, yet still wimped out whenever i decided to cry. at least we can tap into our emotions instead of suppressing them. it's refreshing and vital to our health and mental well-being. it's a pity others don't understand how much of a detox crying is. 🤷♀️
As a homeschooling mom and ISTJ, I do always have all sorts of books, especially on library day. Then his response of “oh, that looks like it hurts” is completely accurate
As an ENFP I actually made "being a weird kid" my entire personality in middle school and high school, despite realizing I was bullied and being depressed about it because of it
As an INFJ who was relentlessly bullied and aware of it, I would unironically use the tactic you presented, except I wasn't spaced out at all. What began as a fear of confrontation morphed into me purposefully not responding/pretending the bully didn't exist. My inner dialogue would be what the ENFJ said to the bully in this video (except I'd never say it to the bully's face), but I would essentially stonewall my bullies because I figured no reaction/ignoring their existence would make them feel bored or frustrated or weirded out, and stop picking on me. It worked for when I was younger, not so much for high school bullies.
As an ENFJ, I have literally had that conversation dozens of times. Sometimes with complete strangers. I didn’t realize it wasn’t a usual experience to break people down into telling their worst stories and traumas on accident and ending with them crying on your shoulder, until a few years ago. Oops😂 And yes, I’ve also discovered sometimes people avoid me and can be half scared of me after because of it. People know not to come near me if they don’t want to accidentally spill out emotional stories😬
IDK how you guys do it, I try not to tell people about hurtful experiences as much as I can, but one of you got me spilling it within a couple days after meeting-
As an ENTJ I definitely handled situations like that. I've also defended people from Bullies. If it's me being bullied it wasn't a big deal and I'd usually give a snarky remark, but if it was someone else who was clearly hurt I'd step right up and call out the bully.
I'm an INFJ, but I must have an ENTJ hidden somewhere inside me, since I also did that a lot. If it was me, I'd just laugh at them, but if it was anybody else, I would do my best to humiliate the bully. Maybe it's the strong anger at unfairness that INFJs tend to have. I just wish more people would do the right thing. Bullies are cowards.
@@meagiesmuse2334 I know an INFJ which results on MBTI test are sometimes ENTJ. It's logical because both personalities are strong, intuitive, decisive, fair, determined and focused on people. I'm an ENFP and sometimes I relate to INTP (we share de second and the last letter also), we're like INTPs but more energized and somehow stupid.
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 - The one true creative genius I've known was an ENFP, so please don't sell yourself short! The only time I get as aggressive as the ENTJs I know are when someone has violated my boundaries for a very long time and I am at the INFJ door slam stage. I want them to leave me alone, but they won't, so they get a blast of rage so intense, I don't even know what I've said afterwards. I've had two people in my life who were so scared by it, they physically ran away. They never bothered me again though, so mission accomplished! ;-)
Wow....that was me to a T! (also ENTJ) I always thought it was strange that I was fearless in defending the weak but not myself. I mostly just did not understand why all the drama was necessary and preferred not to engage them at all. When I finally figured out that they just wanted attention from me, I tried humor with them, and it worked!
I'm an INTJ. And I totally did this to someone who is my self-proclaimed rival. He often bugged me and even tried to humiliate me when I was on my way to the library.(note: It was on the middle of the hallway and many students were there watching) It ended with his face turning red, everyone in complete silence and me walking away towards the library.😑😑
Same LMAO! I'm taking notes with the bullies' personality if I'm not zoning out, just for fictional characters in my head that I want to write a story about 😂🤣
As I told a friend of mine recently on a nerd level since he doesn't understand psychology: An INFJ's brain is like the Marvel Multiverse and we're trying to make sure people aren't causing incursions.
@@AravaxElvor Not specific to us, but it's a major part of who we are. It comes easier for us than most, I think. I made thirteen variations of the same character on less than an hour and refined them in a week. We're blessed - or cursed, whichever you rather see it as - with the ability to think about how different bits of information we've taken on can effect other thoughts.
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Happy April Fool's Day, Frank! Only got one shiner to heal from today so far while celebrating the most glorious Fi holiday day of the year! Or at least if you think it's Fe friendly to type every pretty lady in the workplace...N-U-T-S resulting in getting kicked in... sensors don't even have to flex their intuition for this one, typing every dog owner looking like their dog's B-U-T-T, and typing people as G-E-E-Ks on MBTI forums...jk. Only read MBTI forums never made an account anywhere cuz...actually personality cafe is one of the most pleasant typing areas besides your comment section unlike other friendly communi(s)ties wanting everyone to come together like some Imagine There's No Heaven Beatles jk I'm really sorry because I remember you liked the Beatles...although am I really sorry cuz I could just backspace? Ne-ways, I've been listening to another INFJ sing a song called Divide (Disturbed singer is an INFJ) and I'm trying to imagine you singing something like that but I don't think I'm an intuitive like you to imagine, although that's not why I dislike that Beatles song like a jealousy thing because I happen to believe Heaven is the greatest so that's why I don't want to imagine that there's no Heaven but I would appreciate your next 16 personality skit video to be a music one since don't have the INFJ imagination like you or the INFJ Disturbed singer to come up with it myself, and also want motivation to come up with music list to connect with people in the comments. Jk kidding. April Fools! Would prefer a Urket as the 16 personalities..no, I'm a G-E-EK, not a N-E-R-D like Urkel which is why I could type MBTI forum people as geeks cuz takes one to know one but I wouldn't mind a Goku character typing video, but nobody would want that...even though, I mean, being that anime is so popular on the internet, and Goku is probably the most popular one besides the yellow Pokemon character that's peaks around and sneezes a lot or something, and it might help your channel grow, but...I gotta go. Be back to watch!
I was actually really hoping for this one after you made your poll about being bullied because, again, I don't know my type other than G-E-E-K which lends itself to Just kidding!...I'm looking forward to this video! Take care! Have an awesome day!
Happy first of April 🍒
I loved the ENTJ, INTJ and INFJ! 😂
Soooo funny… 🕺🏻👍🏼🤗
Dear @@JohnHenrysaysHi I think you’re a G-E-N-I-US 😉
"you're a loser"
"You're right. I lose brain cells every time I hear you speak"
Nice comeback. Gotta take note on that.
Patrick! Write that down! Write that down!.
@@TheMightyCrucibleKnight184 Charles the French
Yepp... Sounds like my dad 😅 (Estp father) 🤣
Oh, que buena frase, anótala Mario Hugo.
noted 😭
INTJ. I beat up my two bullies when there weren't any teachers around. Then I went up to a group of kids and got them to believe that I've been with them the whole time during recess, so when it came time to talk to the teacher and principal, they all vouched for me. Honestly, I'm proud of my 8 year-old self.
i wish i was that cool
Wow i am same. I beat my bully very powerful
INTJ, can relate! My elementary self used to make my bullies (who tease me everyday) cry whenever I hit them, but I never got in trouble with the teachers and management since I was the top student lmao
that's the most intj thing I've ever heard jesus
I did that... more than once. INTJ-A here.
"How to use your personality as a weapon against bullies" as the alternative title
This should be presented to everyone at school. Is so helpful and enjoyable!
Hell yeah, my backpack is now a weapon
i don't think crying actually helps IRL, I mean, most of the things said in the video wouldn't get through a bully's head, or are just bad tactics, the best way to get someone off tou is ignore them
@@hasargel The best way is to best their ass
@@hasargel funnily, it actually helps. not calm crying, but the messy ones that attract other people attention to you. I used to do it a lot even when I'm a young adult (used to) because even bullies don't want to be labelled as bullies by other people.
yes
i'm an intp girl and all the other girls are so much prettier than me. One day even a teacher laughed at me. I'm soooo using that now!
As an INFJ some girl said my hair looks burnt and disgusting, and I just stared into her soul without saying anything, another girl started defending me but to be honest I was just thinking about the answer to the math problem.
nice
Same here 🙂
i did the same
Then what happened??? 😂
AS AN INFJ THIS IS TRUE LIKE IVE GOT IMP THINGS TO STRESS ABOUT
As an ENFP, I confirm that we take being called "weird" very seriously. It's a moment of pride!
As an ENFP too, I don't quite see it that way. Only if I know that the person likes me anyway or likes me because of that, so I won't be excluded either. 😅
ENFP here and heck yes, we're a bunch of epic outlaws
I still feel sorry for my bullies who peaked at 15. Like, honestly sorry. The poor souls. 🥺
MEWOTH THATS RIGHT 😗👍💫
Yep!
As a INFP I made it a point to never cry in front of others who were mean to me (I used to in elementary school but by middle school I just sort of expected it and then got used to it) and I would play the theater of their demise in my head for 30 minutes before forgetting about it and then accidentally remembering a whole different storyline I never finished that was from 2 weeks ago
This is 100% me. It took me a lot longer than most to get a handle on my emotions, but since ~middle school I am the prototypical INFP Dreamer. In a situation like this you wouldn't get ANY response out of me, but in my head you were dying in hundreds of horrifying ways for the next ~2 hours until I literally forgot what I was angry about and moved on to my next fantasy. Some of us are just living out our lives in our imagination, it's very distracting in there.
never cried when confronted but anxiety and low self-esteem was what happened
NO Fucking way i was going to cry in front of anyone, i did only once in my school when the beat me, and thats it, never after that,
was bullied all of my school life, changed 4 different school, but still get bullied.
but with time i become mentality strong and high school level, if anyone try to bully,give them once chance, if they do again, will give them second chance, and if they do again, thats it, fuck them up. i am happy i developed this habbit, atleast today i can survive :)
my life till today is
1) Music
2) Fantasy
3) Fantasy about helping people
As an INFP, yup. Same. I absolutely hate crying in front of anyone, so I would just make up scenarios in my head where I actually told them off then completely forget about it
I agree
"That's inaccurate... Your Mom likes me."
Incredulous stare from Bully.
"She volunteers in the library." Haha, what an epic way to start off the video. 🤣😉
That is definitely how an ISTP would respond to that.
@@Takisan111 I'm an ISTP and most of the time I just ignore them, because the goal of bullying someone most of the time is to get a reaction to fuel their own needs for emotional validation (basically they just want attention) so when I ignore them they usually get bored with me.
I had a bully who was an only child and had busy parents, they had money but at home they were quiet because they had no one.
So at school he would be really loud and dramatic. He would gossip with his group, pick on others that were weird or quiet and when things don't go his way he threw a tantrum (like when the teacher put him in a different group than his friends).
ISTPs give 0 fks to bullies
I'm an INFP. It's similar to how I handled someone trying to be rude to me in the library at middle school. We were working on a project, and the gal had been very rudely pestering the librarian for the last 10 minutes on where to find a piece of information. She apparently got tired of trying the librarian and came to test her luck with me. (I was known as being a Know-it-all.) I gave her the exact same answer that the librarian had given her, stood up, walked over to the librarian...and politely asked her where I could find extra information on the exact same topic little miss 'Karen' had 'asked' about not 30 seconds prior. Not only did the librarian direct me to extra books, but she also gave me a few extra websites and logged me into one of her school research accounts so I could access the collegiate science journals. Let's just say, it pays to be polite and cozy with the teachers for more reasons than just grades. The speed at which the haughty expression got wiped of that girl's face... I will cherish that for as long as I can remember it. 😆 And the free journals were a big bonus too. Really miss all the extra information at fingertip. Blasted 'please subscribe to view this article' blockers... 🙄
@@hiduproh1385 Same...
As someone who got INTP, I did in fact view most of my bullies this way. At one point, two of them were talking shit about me by the fountain while I was nearby and after I waltzed over and demanded an explanation on why they didn't like me. After they gave me an appauled expression, they just kinda bolted out of there, and they actively avoided me until we all just kinda moved past it. A lot of those gossip-centric groups don't know how to handle being confronted.
I often like to take the weakness in their attack and counter attack in the best and most meaningful way possible. "Revenge is a dish best served cold"
I don't know why people hate me. Some people, sure, I rejected one of their friends brutally, but hey, he was creepy. But the rest of them, I just don't understand.
@@WONDERBOIYsame
@@WONDERBOIY In school, they didn’t like me because 1) I didn’t acknowledge they were cool and 2) I always did way better than them.
As an ENTP
this is yes
As an INFJ I can confirm the straight face, once my french teacher bullied me in front of everyone saying how I was inhumain and lacked empathy since he couldn’t criticise my grade. I didn’t even pay attention to him as I was occupied thinking about whatever then I left class and after my friends told me what had happened and were all shocked and angry I was just like meh I don’t mind
It's scary how angry teachers get :(
The same exact thing happened to me many years ago, except it was my 8th math teacher. He thought I wasn't paying attention so he yelled at me to tell him what it was he last said. I actually was able to tell him, because really I was listening after all. Then he got 10 times madder that I actually was able to answer his question, and since I had an A in the class, he instead decided to insult my notes and all of the doodling that I had in my notebook, because he had already failed once to insult and intimidate me, and obviously couldn't insult my grades. I had already zoned out again so I didn't pay much attention.
@@Schnerd37 I had almost same experience with face expression, I have default face, and it's a smile face, my senior scold my team in an orientation, for a made up reason, everyone apologize n I didn't, my mind still processing her words n check it was really happen or not, n while doing so I was the only one who still look at her straight to her face with my default super kind simple smile, she got angry even more, n scold me for putting no respect. Then I remember a rumour of her place was switched n it was hard for her, then I look at her with even kinder stare, all my team worried about me, how if I got punished but no I just giving the most empathic gaze with smile. She got away angrier while saying curse words.. N she avoid me after that...
HELP
Jesus loves you, He died for our sins
Okay, but hear me out.
As an INFP who got bullied - I probably never caught half of the mocking, being inside my own head.
The day bullying got so bad that the teacher called headmistress, I actually didn't know what was going at first.
Same 💀 i only realized people were bullying me like, 2 months before freshman year ends
Seems like something I would do.
Sad to hear. :( Also bullied INFP here, but somehow I stopped it by pushing the guy against the wall by his throat. (The last straw was him put dwawing pins on my chair, pointing up.) Not my proudest moment… but it worked.
I'm an INFP as well but I scared off the bullies with a knife and they stopped picking on me ever since. I didn't know what else to do to defend myself so don't blame me lol
Another INFP here lol I didn't know they were making fun of me and I always answered honestly,they got bored xD
I am an INTJ, and the only time someone tried to bully me was in high school. A girl took something I said about some random topic personally and started to spread false information and gossip against me. It ended up precisely like this: I didn't even remember her name, but I pointed out that she apparently knew everything about me and what I said. I asked if she was interested in me since she was so passionate and that I was sorry, but she was not my type because I really didn't like people like her. It ended out EXACTLY like in this video, and I think that my resting bitch face helped.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Wow, *applause*, that's so amazing, man!
The RBF is a very powerful weapon.
Yeah, INTJ here too. My neighborhood nickname was Killer. A few times other kids tried to bully me with not so good results for them. One guy said I was on crutches because I was too fat to support my weight on my legs; he shouldn't have done that in front of his friends since he got a retort about trying to make himself feel better about a lack of "something". His friends were still laughing as I got out of earshot. 😋
You sound exactly like my INTJ friend it's funny and scary lol
As an INFJ this was so funny. The stare has gotten me out of so much trouble, just looking at someone like they're nuts, because they usually are.
Mines keep changing...the only thing that doesnt is IN and J
EXACTLY THEYRE NUTS
I am an INTJ but I do stare at people a lot the funny thing is it is becouse I space out like in the video.
As an INFP, I usually ignored such behaviors, although inside I felt weak (this made bully feel even more excited lol). However, crying in front of a crowd of people was never an option, so when I came home, I cried alone.
Never alone, sweetie. ❤ Never alone!!
Same but after I get home I kinda overthink things, not everytime but most of the time
I usually try to ignore it, but same I still feel weak inside and there are times I couldn't hold it in
Well I cry when I feel like crying I basically can't hold it much ..but sometimes there's moments when I hold a lot of pride so it's a no no ..Infp
As an INFP, during teenage years, I was too busy worrying about my own existential crisis to care about the world around me.
If there were people try to bully me back then, they would feel like punching air.
As an INFP, sometimes the tears come with anger. It got interpreted as a tantrum. No one understands me. That is why I tend to hide my emotions until i explode.
I'm from the other side of nation, understand you........
As an INFP thank u for not making me feel alone, like, i do this all the time 😭
I feel the same way, and once I explode the emotions are ampliphide!!!
OMG I feel you, I FEEL YOU! The world doesn't take us seriously, because we avoid conficts until our emotions are so intense, so people think we're having a childish behavior and they even LAUGH when we express our needs and feelings! That's why I take other's feelings so seriously, because I can imagine how relief there are in feeling validated and understood.
YEEEAASSSSS
As an ISTP, I can confirm that if someone told me a factually incorrect insult, I would immediately correct them
same
As another ISTP, I can factually confirm your confirmation
ANOTHER ISTP LETS GOO
@@Blarpcob As another ISTP, I can factually confirm your confirmation to another confirmation.
thats so real, as a fellow istp
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Thank you!
Thanks!!
I love people like you. ❤️
Thank youuuu
My favorites: enfj and istp
As an INFJ who was bullied in middle school and high school, I never responded to my bullies. Just like in this video, I kept a straight face lol. But on the inside the bullying was emotionally draining me and I ended up switching schools. I did have my fair share of zoning out in school though haha.
oh same situation, but I didn't transfer, and it is cool to just look straight on their tired face
Same kinda. There were these two boys that tried to mess with me, saying shit like “oh he’s gonna r**e you” and going back and forth like that. I just didn’t react at all, cause I knew they just wanted a reaction. Eventually they seemed to get bored and stopped. It’s a very effective method. Meanwhile they went to mess with this overly dramatic attention seeking girl and she would always show an upset reaction to them. I even told her my advice to just not react, but she didn’t listen at all. Okay then lady suit yourself.
Same with you...
I don't even care about what they said to me. Because at that time I felt confused and my mind said " what's wrong with this person? suddenly say bad things to me 🤔". I'm just confused and won't think about it too much.
But I'll feel that hurt when I was in my hard time. What they said to me hurt me at another time.
Me too! But the ones who bullied me are actually my friends(?) I was hurt but I was more concerned over them since they decided to bully me. I ended up transferring to another school but I got bullied (again) but this time a teacher was there to help me out :D
I think INFJs wrote the book on zoning out.
My third grade class was a 2 in 1. My teacher covered history, English, etc, while the other covered math and science.
I remember one time noticing my teacher was in front of the class, and when I snapped out of whatever trance I was in (thanks to someone poking me), it was the other teacher. I hated when that happened as I literally had no memory of the span of time. At all. Shit was weird man...
INTJ girl here. I never had the “Why are you so into my clothing experience?” but proving bullies wrong or twisting their intent became so much of a game for me that they eventually left me alone. I was almost disappointed afterward.
Same exact feels !! The disappointment.
I do this a lot, but not with bullies, usually people in the comments or some "friends" on discord
guys you know mbti is like horoscopes right
@@julievrhackzor And you know this video is just a joke, right?
it’s so fun to teach someone how to shut up. You’re right.
As an INFP this is by far one of the most relatable school experiences ever.
This is gold
I'm an INFP too, but strangely I can't relate to this depiction of us. I would often unintentionally say something that got me in to trouble because people often misunderstood my intentions. I never wanted to fight or hurt people, but people sure wanted to fight me so they left me no choice but to defend myself with fists until they gave up or I started feeling sorry for punching their faces in.
I'm an infp and I instantly knew that one was the infp depiction. I am such a loser it's literally me
Ik I'm in school rn and I hear these things ALL THE TIME 😮💨
Hello cutie cry baby!! I love uu
@@Abiodun92 me too I am a INFP T but I am never encounter any bullying before but deep down I am still waiting for them to bully me so then I can beat them up but sadly no one bully me yet
I'm an INFJ who was bullied relentlessly throughout my school years, and apart from the sarcasm which I naturally have, I would have been over the moon to have had just about ANY of these comebacks to the asshats back in the day!
Same
Same here !
Same here apparently my worst insult i said to a bully, is "quit teasing because i am different as for i cant say the same, (note i am a gamer i continue to say) lord am i in a game where most people a generic npc cause they sure act the same and look the same with minor changes." I thought i was this savage because of my zodiac sign then i realise it just my personality.
Same
I would have thought exactly what the ENFP said out loud.
As an ENFJ/INFJ I straight up once said “are you mean to me because your mom is dead”. Not my proudest moment but the lethality of it was impressive.
I said the same thing about someone's brother in elementary. Never bullied me again.
I am a bad person. I am laughing so much at this comment
@@intentionalliving5932 sameee omfg I love this hahaha
@@octopus4925 hahahah tbh it would be something i would be thinking but trying not to say it so hard
Oh my god why would you say such a thing but also SLAYYYYY
As an INFJ, staring at your enemies while spacing out is very accurate. (Also even funnier is that my mom is also an INFJ and she used to glare at people, subconciously)
I'm an INFJ with resting bitch face. When I space out it's either amazing and no one talks to me, or I get asked even by strangers if I'm ok. xD There is no middle ground.
oh
@@halfprince Lmao 😂
@@halfprince lmao same and when i discovered i had it i began practicing it so nobody would talk to be
Finally I found my introvert personality ! INFJ !
As a ENFP, I’m fine with being “weird” because that just means I have personality
Same!
I'm an INFJ, and I completely agree! Being normal is overrated. :)
As an INFP I can definately say that I have made more bullies uncomfortable and feel instant regret by my displays of uncontrolled rollercoaster emotions alone, than by sassing them or retaliating with a burn.
Story of my life lol 😂😂
who knew being so emotionally vulnerable could make others so uncomfortable ;D
Yeah as an INFP(-T), I can relate too lololol, I made the people who I'm uncomfortable with stay away from me by screaming intensively at them, talk completely nonsense, or I'll make an ugly nickname out of their names mwahahaha
As an INTP girl who was bullied as much as humanly possible, I never developed this strange shame or guilt that innocent victims often develop as if they did something wrong. My reaction was exactly the same as in the video.
Same. I was already well anchored into my own little weird hobbies and interests as a loner
Not a girl, but same here
Well, better than me. I just thought they were my friends, and realized I was being bullied only years after I lost contact with them.
@@TuningAnApple I relate to that, took time for me to understand how bullied I was too.
@@TuningAnApple holysht, it happens to me all the time, 'till now, tho it's not bully but just people doesn't like me and willingly cut contact with ne
Wow, I'm an INFJ, and that literally happened to me in high school. The girl was standing there saying all kinds of rude things to me, but I was spaced out and only caught the last bit she said. She turned around and ignored me after that, lol
Wow same too, basically i don't know to what they are talking about me in the behind. And it took me a long time to realize it
I suffer the fact I'm INFJ and possibly autistic (I plan to get tested for ADHD/Autism/etc) I have high sensory and hear everything unless I'm spaced out or focused on something I truly enjoy.
Same
I'm a very hard of hearing INFJ. literally the only type of bullying that got to me was exclusion. 😂
Lol same
INTJ here and I’ve had that conversation before almost verbatim. I could have given a lesser care about being bullied I was more bothered that they were talking to me and interrupting my reading/thinking.
the problem is that some people in class were joking about me and I couldn't care less, but when they tried to look for the title of the book, I literally hit him because he bothered the smut part
You can just say "couldn't care less". Not sure why people still insist on avoiding doing so; it isn't complicated.
Soooo, soooo, SO TRUE!
fun fact: mbti test are factually innacurate and is no better than astrological signs for nerds.
Nah fr, once i was called emotionless or robotic cuz i was always happy/never bothered by rude comments or anything. I was proud of it too 💀
INTJ: I was bullied all through elementary and middle school, but when I got into high school I decided to stop giving power to my tormentors. Any time it came to my attention that the bullies were trying to get under my skin again, I simply made it perfectly clear that they were beneath my notice. The funny thing is, they tried awfully hard to be friends with me (or more than friends in some cases) in my senior year. Yeah, no. They were still beneath my notice. I don’t know why they thought we could be friends when they spent years attempting to make my life a living hell… It’s not like any of them developed any redeeming qualities in that time frame. 😆
Can definitely relate, people bully others purely for a reaction from the victim due to their own insecurities. Why should we allow ourselves to become the fuel for their petty insults?
-INTJ
As an INTJ, In highschool a lot of my classmates tried to bully me or make fun of me, but also tried soo hard to go with me or be friends with me. However, I dont hangout with bullies and I dont like to tolerate their rude behavior so they always wonder how come I can always manage to stay confident alone. 🤷🏻♀️ better be alone than hangout with them anyway
Exactly how I felt! When they tried to befriend me after noticing I didn't give a damn about what they would think, like all they've done to me have magically disappear xD
They were envious of your strength XD
so... you just ignored them?
I’m an INTJ. This was exactly how I handled a bullying incident in high school. 😄 Sometimes our personality type of not being emotionally entangled in other people’s opinions comes in handy.
It works when you get bullied by a toxic friend, too. They get furious and never talk to you again. It's a win-win 👍
It’s actually a superpower. It gets even more handy the older you get. No one is fully immune to peer pressure, charisma and propaganda, but us INTJs probably get the closest.
I would've, if I had the time to talk back
this is the best thing about being an analyst type. am entp and verbal slapping has always been my thing
Agree..Done this too.
As an INFJ, when I got bullied at school I uno reversed it so hard. They never bothered me again. But it was rare, I was so quiet with RBF. People didn’t bother me much.
I'm an INFJ too and because I was very quiet and close off from almost everyone, no one couldn't find reasons to bother me. Besides wondering why am l so quiet.
@@christianallen8022 lmfao
Fellow INFJ, and this was me, too. I was bullied by each bully exactly once. I fought back and then never again 😅
Lol as an inch I can relate... In elementary I would just "smile" at their bullying until they stopped, or I'd somehow become besties with them.....idk how I did it
Unfortunately as an INFJ I would sometimes just suffer in silence and mentally write them off as idiots as long as they didn’t touch me or I would have to kill them. 😂😳
as an intp i can say that we do in fact immediately think of the most personal or petty thing possible
I am here to confirm that as an intp
Fr lol
Extremely accurate, then I’d probably try to make them look dumbfounded.
edit: but the power of being a P type means we never go thru with it
Finally a fellow intp, and yes, I can confirm that
As an INFP who cries instead of confronting situations, this is accurate. I remember one day having a tough time and a group of girls shouting at me because of not important things, and I started crying. A minute after that I was being hugged by all of them 😂😂
Oh god lmao something like that happened to me, but more absurd I would say lol cuz one friend of mine had this beautiful aluminum can that had really pretty intriquet desings and I wanted to take it home so he gave it to me and I was all day with it in my hands when all of a sudden other classmate that was kinda a friend of mine too, cuz we were a pretty big group, take the can of my hand, I asked him to give it back, he didn't want to and ask me why it was so important, I was getting mad and didn't answer and suddenly he crush it with his palm, I and everyone there stay stunted for a couple of seconds and then I ran to the bathroom and lock myself inside, I fucking cried so hard, I laugh now but at that moment I felt like he was crushing me instead of that can, because he was so careless about something I care, it was a stupid little thing, replaceable, but it was mine. They called my name from the other side but I just wanted to cry a little then I would be fine, but they call the janitor lady and she opened the bathroom, they all hug me and then when I saw him he ask for my pardon, I think he geniuly felt bad so I give it to him and then he hugged me.
So yeah, INFP all the way I guess? Thankfully now as a grown up things don't get to me that easily lol.
How are y'all not bullied further for crying, like that's what happened to me until I stopped showing my tears to anybody and just took everything in, non-reacting until I'm alone and then cry
@@TalTheBest I do that too now, I feel so stupid when I cry in front of people, now I only cry when i'm alone, idk how i manage to keep it in.
One of the easiest ways for them to feel bad!!😄👍🏻
hehe I literally cry ALL THE TIME, luckily didn't get bullied too much, but like crying daily is totally normal for me
As an INTP my solution to bullying was to react like the INFJ but intentionally. Stare at them with a blank expression and give them a little smirk after they started to get real uncomfortable. Worked like a charm every time.
Looll
Same. Used to do it to my friends too if they were bothering me enough
As an INTJ, I also did the same thing. But mine's a sharper stare that will make them rethink what they said/did, or their life in general.
As a fellow Intp, I stare at them till they leave, and the problem is I do it unintentionally like I never mean to scare them lol
INTP, I also stare at them, in my mind will think what is her problem, what is her purpose, why she did like this or talk like this. And also asked myself have I should to give a interested at her. Then I done about analysis that I will stare at them like if you wanna get a problem, bring it on....
As an INFJ, it's accurate, everyone thinks I'm scary but in reality I'm just doing nothing
true but I am actually thinking about the latest episode of an anime
Bro.. people at my tution think I shoot laser rays from my eyes. They even think I look intimidating... but in reality I am simply doing nothing or at the utmost judging people brutally.
lolll same here
The fact that I actually am an INFJ and I also look a lot like Frank James (I'm a girl but my father looks like a copy of him) makes this even more accurate, I always space out and I even have the same eye coulour and shape as him wth
Doing nothing but thinking and analyzing.
INFP here. I cry when I'm drunk. I cry when I am too overwhelmed. And yup...I cry pretty much a lot.
As an INTJ, i can say that’s pretty accurate. I would feel weirded out that someone was that obsessed with me that they knew everything about me and what i was doing 24/7.
Intj- lust is strong
Prob the most spot on part for me is wearing the same Skyrim shirt three days in a row
I still remember fifteen years ago telling a bully who was complaining how, 'everyone is so two faced here', that he should be relieved because I honestly never liked him.
The 'honestly' part went right over his head and it baffles me to this day.
Right ? It pisses me off so much, I don't want to know about bullies life so why does my life matter so much to them
Yeah manh same. I'd be freaked by the attention
I literally said almost word for word what the INTJ guy said when some dude in high school tried to bully my clothing. I was like, "I'm flattered that you find me so interesting that you spend so much energy on noticing what I'm wearing, but I don't feel the same way about you I'm sorry." and yes, I am an INTJ, so that made me laugh.
Yes, that is really related
When I met my husband I made the first move via a friend and (without seeing me) he said no. When I passed by him to leave the venue he followed me outside to talk and I asked him if he was stalking me and asked why he was obsessed 🤣🤣. This is so accurate it’s scary.
I've had friends tell me "hey, that person hates you" many times and my reaction is always "woah... they hate me, they spend so much time thinking about me and I don't even know who they are... that's so sad". Not caring is great.
Yea that was the best reply ever! INTJs are pretty cool. ~Fellow InTp
Fellow INTJ. I had a similar run in in high school and remember asking the girl why the hell she was paying my shoes so much attention and that I would be hard pressed to recall her name let alone anything she was wearing lol.
INFJ here, that was so accurate! I was bullied mercilessly in elementary school, so by the time I got to high school I just stopped paying attention. I even made a friend who admitted to me in college that she bullied me in middle and high school, and wanted to apologize. I was like, what? I genuinely had no idea. When did you do that? She looked at me like I lost my mind, while I laughed and waved off what (to her) must've been years of bullying that she had weighing on her conscience...while I didn't even know she existed 😂
Lmfao me too except that I roast myself infront of them and I roast them too so they cant think of an insult against me, its like taking their spotlight 😂
Oh my god that's so real 😂
people would tell me crazy shit that happened in highschool and I'm like 'really? I had no idea' I was just minding my own buisness
@Samir Dončić I think so much that I don’t even know what i’m thinking
Literally that's my life story dude. I was bullied by everyone else in my grade level at my elementary school and having a dissociation identity disorder, I really had no idea I was being bullied by all those people. My parents said they treated me really badly, but strangely I never really noticed.
That's a whole new level of empowerment
As an INFP, it was very on the point since I’m actually a very emotionally sensitive person and I do cry very easily 😂 I used to hide it because I thought it was embarrassing and I was ashamed, but I gradually grew to just adapt and overcome :p
Then your not grown up im also INFP but i try to ignore bullies
@@farhandaryasepar640Ignoring isn't the best sollution btw
@@farhandaryasepar640 Adults can be emotionally sensitive too, what are you on bro??
Okay but yeah. As an INFJ whenever someone tries to pick a fight with me I'll just stare at them without engaging. Their plays and tricks are too easy to look through, they just crave attention. 😂
We're so above all these childish school games. We have more important philosophical problems to solve, including dealing with our own existential crises which already bully us every day of the year. 😅
That's what I did too - sometimes I would I also slightly raise my left eyebrow as if to say "I see through you, I know what you are trying to do, and I both feel a little sorry for but am also internally laughing at you for attempting to feel better about yourself by making fun of or getting aggressive with me" - it was very effective!
Why didn't I think of that back when I was bullied?
That's exactly what I did when I was in high school and trust me that guy never interfere me again
The key is to make the aggressor uncomfortable
And the (slap-free) Oscar goes to the INTJ in "Bullying the bully."🤣😂😂🤣
I can't stop laughing.
The INTP didn't even have to show her face for us to know who they were talking to.🤓
Indeed, Will Smith should take a leaf from Frank's book!
Exactly
As a male INTJ, I can confirm. We insult our male bullies by implying that they're gay.
@@ethandominic-13 But being gay is not an insult
@@cyantn1634 no, it is not, except to a certain type of male bully. To them, it is the worst insult imaginable.
ENFP: doesn't get it when they're being hit on, doesn't get it when they're being bullied, but can talk endlessly about the meaning of everything with total strangers.
STOP WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE
Literally me🤣🤣🤣
Confirmed by an official ENFP 👍
Double confirmed by a current student ENFP, also with ADHD
Really?.. I always know when I'm being bullied...
As an INFJ I can say I did that, but when the bully hit my friend I just got his address, where his grandparents lived, where his mother works and worked, his records from other schools, his social number, his allergies and weaknesses while I watched him from a distance. A little xtreme but he send MY friend to a hospital.
I also did ENFJ and ENFP 😅
I'm INFP and I got bullied a lot (like, a lot a lot). I usually assumed I did something wrong to provoke the bullies and must've deserved it. But then one day someone other than myself got bullied and I was like "yo what", shoved the bully, ranted about the immorality of the situation for 5 minutes straight giving the victim a chance to escape, and concluded by straight up yelling "why don't you just go back to picking on me?!"
And so I got beat up again. But now at least I knew the real reason I got bullied was because I was straight up weird
And a courageous person for standing up to help other! Bravo.
You are not weird trust me I’m ISFP & Pisces and I got bullied too but I just used to cry about it I was scared to go to school I also had depression and anxiety and family problems so I just stopped going to school completely I didn’t even finish middle school but I don’t care because school didn’t teach me anything anyway it’s so useless and I’m actually the smartest person I know even tho I didn’t finish school being smart has nothing to do with school being intelligent is natural
@@anonymous-cx7ng Truth was spoken that day
You’re amazing, INFP. Wonderfully weird and whimsically wild 😊 Thank you for standing up for another ❤️
@@lunabeekhuizen8858 Guess what,you're amazing! Take love from a fellow INFP❣️
I’m INFP and honestly I got bullied a lot during elementary and middle school but most of the time I didn’t really notice cause I was just happy people were talking to me and I tend to see the best in everyone so I was like “they couldn’t possibly have meant that in a mean way, maybe we can be friends!” And I am actually still friends to this day with my bully from kindergarten XD
Same here
I just wanted to have friends
And in return accepted their torture
O MY GOD YOU ARE LITERALLY MEJAHSHHS(╥﹏╥) I was just tryin to be friendsssss And I finally bcame friends w my bully of 4 years ᕙ[･･]ᕗ
Dude same, I always assume people mean well and years later my now best friend was like “hey I’m really sorry I used to bully you, I feel terrible about it” and I honest to god could not figure out what she meant. I still have no clue how she bullied me, but she was so genuine about it I have to believe her lol.
Same here, I just took it as a joke. I just thought they were joking around and didn't think they were serious, I thought we were friends 🧍
Same..I mean I thought people didn't bullied me, we were just playing? Well idk haha
I feel I had gotten darker now and can see other sides of the world but still, it's not that bad if you can stay happy
I was so shocked with the INFJ one because when people made fun of me, I always stayed quiet. my classmates were all scared of me just because I was quiet
Even my friends are scared of me because of "the stare" that I unconsciously give them.
right
Im an infj and one time i zoned out for an entire college lecture looking at one blinking light, and looked over at my friends notebook and realized i was done for
All my friends are used to it by now, but there are still times where they go “what you staring at”
Sooo real like tf
Btw im INFJ 😂
As an INFJ, I can confirm that we just stare at our bullies until they run away in fear. In fact, at my school all the INFJs join forces when one of our fellow INFJs are getting teased. We stand in formation and stay there for at least an hour
hue hue hue hue (menacing) - wait did you say STAND???
Yes. We stand there and just look at them, look at them right through their soul. It is one of our many ways of scaring bullies.@@sams_enfp
I mean, logically thinking, I could that would work. But how are the people in your school even interested in Mbti?
@@_quixote to be honest idk if alot of kids at my school are interested in mbti
As an infj I have to stand alone bc I don’t know any other infj’s at my school 😭😭😭 that’s so wholesome tho.
Alternative for infj if it’s more direct bullying is just to say whatever is on your mind. No filter just let it out 100%. You’ve probably already psychoanalyzed your bully so just let them hear “the truth”.
It’s pretty hard though if you’ve never done it before since we’re used to processing info first and default to how to get on peoples good side.
Both the INFJ in the video and what you describe are accurate for me..ive had both happen..where mean girls would say nasty things and I would look at them blankly until they felt uncomfortable and left me alone and have also done what you describe where I've said something cutting knowing it will hit a nerve and then the person who tried to bully me gets upset and then tries to turn the tables and say I was mean to them..in both cases, they tended to never bother me again. I think its quite hard to bully an INFJ, I think we catch people off guard..people might think because we're sensitive that we're an easy target but find out the hard way, we're not
@@vonnie10ification yes they will try to turn the tables for being “mean” when honestly you can just stare at them blankly be like “it’s the truth” lol 😂 everyone will have to hear their good sides and bad sides eventually.
The snapping point where you just call out their desperate behaviour and how obvious their self esteem issues are and it's way more hurtful than it needed to be 💀
INFJ. It's like batman meets joker while maintaining his cool or black widow being emotionally tested and both em stay calm , fully processing the negative force in front of them and then choosing to tell the truth or walk away and never to return. In my lifetime I was surrounded by narcisssitic bullies and they all would attack me because i was the opposite and every encounter ended the same. They attacked but never came back as I looked into their eyes piercing into their soul and making understand " I know who you are deep down and what you're doing right now".
I was definitely a space cadet back in my high school years. Just wandering off mentally and letting a bully rant for the most part. Then, knowing how to make them uncomfortable when they are by themselves 😂
As an INFP, last time someone bullied me I got a panic attack and cried pretty much in front of my class.
They were literally so scared they left me alone, I was confused for a pretty long time.
Omg same! My bullie didn't talk to me after that actually she seemed scared lmao
there were times I dint cried despite getting bullied but even today when emotions are running high..i cant help but my tears flow very quickly..hell i even once ended up crying in office unable to take the stress..😒sometimes i feel these personality types r just not accurate but then mbti does infact gives more accuracy than other personality tests..
I practically got bullied at work a few weeks ago. I‘m an adult and pretty much the dreamer INFP that seems completely emotionless, because everything is just in my head.
But damn, this time they discriminated me until 3am and I completely lost it and was so mad that I cried and basically screamed at the whole group of 15 people.
My worst nightmare, everyone was scared and it worked… but this is so embarrassing, I just want to melt and be one with the floor
@@anabananapopana I used to be an INFP long ago, had similiar story with yours (not as bad)... I feel you 😭 now I'm an INTP but I still think about it a lot once a week.
@@anabananapopana you know, I always been pretty sure being an infp for a really long time, that's what I am, but lately for the things that happened and the way I changed I relate much more to another mbti (istp). I remember when, got tired of some of my classmates many years ago, I shouted and started crying and let it all out, now I just think I can make it barely showing an emotion. Sometimes things change us it's terrible
the infj one is so accurate for me. i didn't even know i was being bullied till one of my old classmates told me abt the rumors and shit the bullies would spread. i was more focused on interacting with my close friends apparently udfhiufhia
If you didn't know you were being bullied, then you weren't being bullied.
lmao same. i had no idea people were saying crap until i was told about it. the fact that i didn't know didn't stop me from already being insecure lmao, but learning about it definitely made it worse 👍
@@muffin3886 I don't think you understand the term bullying
@@3dsmaxrocks699maybe you didn't understood him ig, for me it was sort of bullying where I had no friends everybody casted me out even when I try to make friends until one day my teacher told me about it
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btw did I tell that I am an INTJ but still I can relate it??
As a INTP, yes, this is how my normal self deal with bullies, passive-aggressive.
Word of advice, do not, ever bully a INTP who's stressed out, sleep deprived, or in a really bad mood, or else... you'll have the first hand experience of "If I'm going down, you're coming with me.".
Yeah exactly If iam normal i don't care what others think about me
If iam sleep deprived or depressed anyone cannot even stand against me ,, Fun fact - I make a police man freaked out when i was 20 ,,not the best but it's decent though
One time on a night out a creepy/annoying dude on the bus wouldn’t stop talking to me and my (ISFJ) friend. She listened to his nonsense politely while I (INFJ) just stared at him. He ended up getting freaked out, accused me of being in the illuminati and left. Best night ever.
This is gold! In the illuminati! I'm howling!! I have also scared "bus bullies" with my stare. They sat opposite me, their body language was showing that they wanted to attack me, so I just kept staring at them in a menacing way. The next stop they got out :) At that time I didn't know what an INFJ is but apparently there's something about us in that department :)
Your ISFJ friend is so calm in such a dangerous situation like that, I would do it too (I'm ISFJ)
How was he creepy?
@@PriHL one problem we INFJ have that we think everyone is about to get us . While irl they wanna be friends. I used to think everyone is out to get me when I was 14 it took me 5 years to realise that's not the case. We overestimate threats.
But then again a conversation is threat to us so idk.
@@rymreaper atleast we're prepared tho😅
The INFJ one was pretty accurate. Except most the time, instead of spacing out I just start psychoanalysing that person which would take so long that they would feel uncomfortable and leave.
To this day, even after dealing with so many kinds of people, I still have difficulty comprehending that certain people see someone and think of something to say and really say it without considering it for even once that they're just embarrassing themselves. That's the first thought that comes in my mind, followed by many others.
lol. so relatable on that one. how can people not consider that?
Also, apparently my psychoanalyzing stare is intimidating??? I don't get it. All I do is try to figure out about you before interacting. is that so strange?
Maybe they are not good at psychoanalysis. Also it's hard to observe without Se.
I have a best friend who did exactly like you said. They can instantly go up to a friend and start talking( like for me I would have to think of a topic first and maybe repeat it in my head a few times). Also sometimes I think she come off as offensive in my opinion but most of the time the other person just laugh. My INFJ ass couldn’t comprehend how she speak her mind so freely😂
@@napatchayakah You need to try. Be more real because xNFJs can often come across as practiced, less honest due to this. Having to think about each and every word that comes out of your mouth is so suffocating.
I mean, people tend to like people that are more relaxed and feel free to express themselves freely.
As an ENFP this is SO accurate. I took so much pride in being the weird kid in elementary school. In high school I was pretty oblivious to bullying, but in a 9th grade bullying unit a girl I had another class with told a story about a "girl who wears weird clothes" who was being bullied in that other class and I realized she was talking about me even though I'd missed it completely
Brooo this is so relatable-
Lmao no one ever bullied me in high school but they did know me as the girl with the funky shoes. Had olive green swade boots with ribbon as laces depending on time of year. One with sweater reindeer, an orange silk ribbon and a red wine one lol
INTJ was pretty accurate. I reacted the same way when my grown ass coworkers were harassing me. After I was done with them, one quit and the other seemed lost mentally.
damn... that happened with me too lol
Same
I love it when they start trying to get you to say something or do something that they can use against and all you're doing is standing there minding your own business or looking slightly passed with the stare. It drives them even more mad.😁
As an ENFP I can't believe how close that conversation was to something I actually said. I honestly didn't realize they were "bullying" me but whenever someone called me weird I took it as a compliment and let them know. When they were confused they left. I love confusing people.
As an ENFP I was called weird and replied "thank you." After that everyone started calling me weird, I just replied "thank you." Honestly, that just kept them at it, but whatever.
Yes being weird is a compliment😸
@@TheRealBellatrixLestrange yeah tbh I personally wouldn't have counted calling someone weird bullying (i mean it depends on their intent but I'm not a mind reader) so the continued use of the term was easy for me to accept and roll with 🙃
@@cjl1ghtn1nja the only thing about it that bothered me was when random people would come up to me and call me weird all the time. It wasn't bullying, but it was annoying after a while.
Me too- I was bullied most of school and I was oblivious 95% of the time unless it was either super obvious or a friend pointed it out. Most of the time I was just left either feeling confused the bully was confused or I was just so oblivious I didn’t even register the interaction. People still tried. There was a time I wanted to fit In (for like 3 weeks in year 8- critical Fe can get the best of us at times) but realised if people weren’t willing to accept my authentic self then it wasn’t worth it as the connection wasn’t genuine, and so I made the conscious decision to be fully myself, and I found friends who appreciated that and did genuinely love my authentic self.
To quote Sabrina the teenaged witch: “every school needs a weird kid might as well be me”
OMG the INFJ gave me a complete flashback to high school. So many people told me later they thought I was stuck up and ignoring them, but I was just lost in thought...constantly. I think I daydreamed through 90 percent of school.
I can totally relate! People also told me they thought I was stuck up. However, when I wasn't day dreaming, I was shy, and when I wasn't shy, I really just didn't have anything else to say... I would really be analysing and thinking about whatever people said then I would space out for 10 min and imagine tons of realities from whatever they said.
Daydreamed through 90 percent of the school 😂🤦🏻♀️
@Agnes OH MY GOD SAME
sorry I just thought I was the only one who did this cause I never heard of it anywhere else
I love how ENTP literally debated his way out of doing someone else’s homework. Not gonna lie, I’ve seen that actually happen before.
Me who actually did that whole lot of times :
basically, being an ENTP who was bullied in high school, all i could think about was to come back with an honest observation i have about them and how they have the energy to bully people when they're not even excelling in school and the fact that i could actually do better than them. so who's the real loser here 💀
Finally an ENTP, I couldn't find any other Entp comment
@@annamontana9640 We ARE very busy telling people they're wrong.
And there's only room for so many of us before human society collapses like an overripe hypergiant.
Basically, the idea is: "Ok, you want me to get the right answers? Or you want me the teacher to believe it was your work?" I can't help, I love pointing out why idiotic plans would never would work.
As an ISFJ, I just came to a realization that in high school (5 years ago) people TRIED to bully me but I just assumed they were more socially inept then I am so I just steered the conversations to different things so they didn't realize they were being mean and wouldn't feel guilty.
Aww... That's so sweet of you
As an INTJ who wears a black hoodie almost everyday, I can 100% agree this is how I react to anyone who mentions my clothing choices. Like why are you paying attention to my clothes, while I can't even remember the color of your eyes?💀
i legit hated how accurate that was lmaoo
...you're supposed ro remember a color of someone's eyes? I mean no offense but clothing choices are much more evident of one's personality and much easier to remember
@@larvini It's just a personal thing. I don't know why, but I enjoy looking at people's eyes. Not to mention, I like staring at people's eyes, because they find it awkward, and they are intimidated by eye contact. I don't have any problem with eye contact, in fact I love it. It's just so interesting seeing their reaction.
@@songforeva as a fellow INTJ I like to see who flinches first with eye contact, I'd say 90%+ can't look me in the eyes directly.
Yes, the INTJ one was very accurate.
Again, you took something I literally said... It's just weird at this point...
ENTJ just sucked the life out of this bully!
Love how witty you are, Frank.
I think I'm an entj and once a group of girls in high school tried to bully me but I twisted the situation and ended up being the bad guy for them 🤣 then they "defended themselves" from me and my "mean comments" about them lmfao, im not proud tho but this was pretty accurate lol
I’m an ENTJ, the only time someone tried to bully me was in middle school when a girl called me train tracks and I just laughed at her and called her an idiot because she had braces too lol
As an ENFP, I found this very relatable. People used to ask me how I was able to be so open and weird and not care about what others thought. I really couldn’t care less what lame people think. Be yourself people! It’s a lot more fun.
I feel this sm, but also I was bullied for most of school but just didn’t realise 95% of the time. Like I’m so oblivious to social cues I didn’t even realise they were trying to be mean, I would just answer the poisoned apple questions genuinely and think they were having a conversation. It wasn’t until people pointed it out to be I was like ohhh, anyways I love who I am. I tried to fit in but never wanted to compromise myself and then made the conscious decision to just screw what others think and be myself always, and it’s the best decision I ever made- ENFP
I feel like critical Fe can get the best of us sometimes and we feel like we want to fit in. But is it really worth it if it isn’t your authentic self they are accepting and loving? I decided after about 2 weeks of trying (I got bored) it wasn’t
Same 💕
As an ENFP, when someone calls me weird Im happy, when someone calls me normal I get offended
I am infp but leaning towards enfp (the % difference btw i and e is less than 10) so i relate to this a lot.
I, despite being an ENFP, do care about what people think. I am only open to the ppl I am close too, sometimes that ends badly.
INFJ here!
When I was bullied by a group of fellow pupils in high schools,
I thought that I didnt want to hurt them too as they did to me.
I didnt want to go to school due to their bulling.
It affected my health but as all things it ended after 2 years.
It changed me and how I interract with others.
As an INTJ, it is literally true that I wear practically the same thing every day (I have several versions of black slacks, same style of blouse) because I DON'T CARE about clothes. And it is completely accurate that I just cannot pay attention to anything anyone else wears, because I DON'T CARE about clothes. And I'm a 53 year old woman.
Same! 🙂
INFP here and I sometimes like to dress up nicely, though most often I choose things that are very comfortable. But if someone's rotten inside, there is no amount of nice clothes able to hide that.
Ma'am, thank you for writing this comment. I thought I was the only woman in this situation.
I often wonder what an INTJ organization would be like. We would all want to be in charge but we wouldn’t mind working for a competent leader that we could learn from. We could probably solve most of the worlds problems. I often believe I’ve come up with solutions to societal problems but have no idea how I could convince anyone that they’d work lol It’s hard to explain things in a way that most people can comprehend and even then, they usually don’t want to accept an idea that haven’t heard before.
Just the other day I got called out on that. They said: "I only ever see you in like two shirts." I responded with: "Yeah. Those are my outside of work shirts. I only need two."
I am an INFP girl, but when I got bullied by a male classmate I did the exact same thing as this INTJ. Somehow I realized that all I need is not to change their behaviour towards myself but to find most humiliating reason for his behaviour and say it out loud in front of as many people as possible. Or in front of his "best friends". But... I am *I*-NFP, so the "say it out loud in front of as many people as possible" part was a double-edged blade for me. So I started training myself, repeating this scene over and over again in my head. And one day when the conditions met and he started his thing, all my fears suddenly vanished and I heard my inner voice, quiet yet strong, like a candle burning with a black flame: "I want to see you suffer. By your own hands. I want your weapon to turn on you with all the might it gained for all this time"... And so I said, loud and clear: "I got it. You are the only one who speak to me every day. If you are into me just say so, you don't need to be rude". I failed in just one thing: I couldn't hide my smile as I spoke those last words. But I think it made the situation even more unpleasant for him, because I can't believe that smile looked kind :))). This is one of the sweetest memories of my school days and maybe my whole life 😊. He was sooo pissed and confused and even his friend laughed at him. He haven't approached me nearer than three meters ever again 😁. You know, I'm something of a manipulator myself. *misteryously sips tea 👀 *
(P.S. I am still learning English, so if there are any mistakes please help me to correct them. I will be grateful 💝)
what you did was great!! I'm being cyberbullied rn and your tip was helpful, hope you're doing well
@@angelainee wow, that's great to hear! This method is really effective against teen-agers, plus neither your authority nor your pride gets damaged this way. Even if your target will try to play your game and say if you are asking it because you are in love with them yourself, you still have an advantage, because we (most likely) have never payed as much attention to them as they did to us. So all we gotta do is to demonstrate neutrality or even pity, contempt or alertness towards them, depending on circumstances of course.
Either way, I am happy that I helped someone even in such an unexpected way 😄. Good luck to you! 🍀
This is surprisingly wholesome. I'll try this if I'm ever gonna be bullied. -INFP
You are so strong!
I'm an isfp but I'm very emotional and take things to heart easily+my social anxiety makes me just stay quiet even if I want to say something!
But your story made me believe that I can work on myself too and I can learn to stand up for myself!
I hope I will improve at one point just like you did!
Thank you so much for the inspiration! You are a very strong soul💜
noice gurl I actually did that for mine haha cus I was tired of them making pointed comments abt me whenever they came nearby. I had this line rehearsed in my head that if they actually tried to shittalk me again I would use it. And then that moment came and I was so incredibly irritated with them at the point I just shushed them and went, " did you hear that? How good it sounds when you SHUT UP"
I heard some OOOOOOOOOOH at the back lmao cus I didnt notice some guys were nearby to hear that. They nvr approached me again.
As an INFJ, I can relate to the ENFJ, at least when I was a kid. Only I didn’t actually verbalize my pity. I just began being super nice to the bully, because I felt bad for them, which made them think I was kissing up, which made the bullying worse. Which led to me finally giving a scathing, sarcastic rebuke, naming out loud all their hidden insecurities. And then I’d feel guilty.
I didn’t get bullied often.
Same. Push an INFJ too far or too often, and we'll use our sharp tongue and cut them to the core and slash open all of their insecurities. Afterwards, the bully tends to keep their distance
@@cherrynado that actually happened to me too some dude were used to bully on me on such a way and on the end we had a fight but after it, well, that will sound weird but we became friends after we have spoken a little of how bad we injured eachother LMAO "weird enfj moment"
Sameeee
same for INTP , at some point you wont care of they words anymore you outsmart them with your knowleage
@@obsidianwing because I have such high Fe, I tend to feel guilty after outsmarting them because I made them feel bad. 😩
Hahaha, I’m girl INTJ and when somebody says to me one of my disadvantages, I just carefree agree with him/her even if it is real my disadvantage and I feel painful and unpleasant. It really works, people understand that they can’t offend you and stop doing it. I chose a strategy that I just shouldn’t show my real emotions.
But if people say something offensive I disagree with, I just laugh and ignore them. I’m very sensitive, but still… I mustn’t show my emotions, it’s my choice.
OMG, I'm an INTJ and I literally had this EXACT conversation, word for word, with a bully at my elementary school. You nailed it FJ!
What is it with INTJ kids and wearing the same clothes? I did this during my schooldays all the time :D
It’s soooo much more efficient!
Same. If someone tried to bully me they’ll cry about how I BULLIED them back I got into a bit of a trouble in school bc of it. 💀
the INTJ one is actually only too real, the "then why am I so important to you that you'd spend time giving me attention" is a flaweless classic, always worked
INFJ here, can vouch for this being a pretty much 90% of the day thing for me. Like at work, at social gatherings, even while I'm watching or playing something, in reality I'm so far removed from the moment it's hard to describe. There are far more worthwhile things for me to think about than whatever weird issue of the week people want to talk about.
Hysterical!! 🤣🤣🤣
As an INFP, I once scolded a drunken neighbor AS HE WAS BEING ARRESTED and told him to get some help because he was worth it (I recognized his probable struggle with self-worth). And that watching his toxic relationship was difficult. And that he made living there miserable. I physically shook due to the conflict. We were never friends.
Plot twist: the INFP has reached their monthly limit of being nice and proceeds to verbally destroy the bully cause they actually can. The crying would happen later at home.
Yeah, if you are at your bs limit, then INFPs can become rude, not in a random insults way, but in a "did I ever tell you how shtty you are?" way.
Ohh when I get actually angry I shake as well lol. I feel like I want to kill and then I'm angry at myself for wanting to hurt someone bc that person clearly had an effect on my mentality 😂☠️.
I cry if it's arguing with someone I like and they can't understand my side :'D.
Haha! So true! When the inner BS meter is at maximum, I can get a bit scary. Then I go home and have a good cry.
Once upon a time I was being bullied in middle school by a girl who said I called her bitch when I did no such thing. I fought hard to hold back the tears when I was being interrogated by her friends. When they saw what a gentle person I was they started teasing and laughing at the girl who targeted me. It turns out she had been jealous of my gymnastics skills Lol.
This is true
@@Ilive_420 OMG whatthesimilarity is this
As an INFP I remember I was bullied only once and since I went into "0 emotions mode", other classmates reprimanded the bullies for wtf they did because I was acting unspeakably strange XDDD so yeah, people usually can't handle our "strange" emotion display, even if it's not crying
I'm an INFP and that makes so much sense.
I also have a "shutdown" mode, and people don't like it but they don't seem to realize when we are triggered we have two options, get overwhelmed by the emotions right then and there, or we can shut down so we don't get too emotional in the moment.
Oh god, yeah I know that 'shutdown' mode. INFP as well.
Though, due to certain things that have happened to me in my life so far, I've also developed a different kind of shut down. There's the ''zero emotions mode'' that you mentioned, but then there's also the ''I've become so overwhelmed with anxiety and emotion that my emotions are now subdued and all I feel is a boiling rage inside me'', but I'm fairly good at controlling my anger so it comes out as this strange controlled anger that people arent used to from me at all and that catches them off guard.
This has manifested in situations like my Principal over the phone not listening to anything my mother said and constantly talking over her or intentionally misinterpreting things she said while I was sitting next to her, until at one point i cut in (fyi, i was part of the call) to try and calmly explain what she meant. He decided not to listen and instead interrupt me three or four times IN ONE SINGLE SENTENCE, but he got caught off guard when this usually quiet, polite kid told him to essentially 'goddamn let me talk for once' in german. That tone and sentence hit him so out of left field that for the first time in the entire meeting he shut up and let me and my mother speak and explain our point.
I'm not sure if this is the same shutdown mode as the other and just it grew some teeth due to how ive been treated and walked all over in the past, or if this is an entirely different shutdown mode - I havent been in enough situations that would cause those modes since the angry one started happening so i'm not sure. Regardless of whether they're separate or not though, the angry one is one ive had to develop over time, and its definitely starting to come in handy.
But yeah, TL;DR: I relate to both of you, but also, I have developed an angry version of that shutdown mode due to events in my life.
@@cosmicllama6910 that's convenient
@@jianlin3952 yes it's SO convenient to be crippled by your emotional depth to the point it's hard to even watch nature shows without crying over snatched up baby seals.
You got me! I'm living it up over here so conveniently!
@@cosmicllama6910 Yup, mental growth and maturity is very important in this case
the infj scenario has really happened to me, the other person burst into tears and freaked out because i wouldn't respond to them. i just had nothing to say and instead stared while they had a meltdown over my unresponsiveness
INFJ here, and this is so true. Bully's always thought I was casting a spell. I scared people. One of the most common questions I got was where the funeral was. Dressing in all black and silently drilling mental holes in mundanes with my eyes was a high school hobby.
INTP was to the point as usual lol. It did get to the stage where I wasn’t bullied anymore cause the bullies needed my help with homework. A few times I was physically attacked and fought back, with force, much to the bullies amazement cause they thought I was weak. They never tried again after that.
Haha, I don't know which type I am, but this happened to me in grade school. Some of the boys liked making fun of me and I just generally ignored them but then one of them realized I was actually smart and could translate what the teachers said into "human" for him. The funniest bit was he was the sporty one in our class and none of the other boys would go against what he said, ever. So I kinda became the king's advisor and that was that. They never bothered me again., XD
Lmao samee
As an INFP who got bullied a few times I cried. Once to the point, even the bully asked if I needed to see the counselor. LOL.
i cried too lol.. that my teacher bullied back the bully:P
Oh, that's a good one. A bully being sorry for bullying
I got bullied so often in grade school it eventually stopped phasing me. If I did cry it was either because it was really horrible or I was safely at home where no one could see me. The fact that I eventually got so used to bullying that I didn't even react when people used me as a prop to bully someone else really messes with my head nowadays.
Lol
@@Takisan111 same here 🥲
I’m an ENTJ - my friends describe me as “a bully who only bullied their bullies” lol
It’s pretty accurate how your ENTJ obliterated his bully with only one interaction! Keep up the great content.
Lol, I am an ENTJ and tbh I have never been bullied because people just stayed clear of me...but I definitely relate with you
@@muffintops ENTJ too here, i have somewhat similar experience during school days. It’s not like I never been bullied, but i simply chose not to feel bullied. So those hecklers would say all those nasty things to me but i would just walk away like nothing happened. They eventually stop because they realized it wouldn’t work for me. Usually they ended up asking my help in any way cause who’s the smartest and most achiever kid in the school? Yeah me 😂😂😂😂
@@rizzofromIndo I relate to you so hard... Tbh now that I think of it, during my school years may be people did try and bully me, but I guess it didn't work out well...😂 Now no one bullies me tbh.. I also ended up being that helping "friend" coz they needed it... But it was more like boosting my ego that selflessly helping them...
As an ENTP, I would do exactly that but include staring into the person’s soul. I would be like all fun and laughing one second and suddenly staring straight at them even if they turned away. I find this video nicely portrayed ❤
yas,, the fact that i found other ENTP here
YES FINALLY ANOTHER ENTP YAYYYYY
As a enfj this happens to me all the time. Bullies don’t bully me probably because they know I will want to help them and won’t be effected. I actually helped out the bullies in my class to be more accepted by everyone and therefore helping them to gain more of a sense of belonging and less needs to emphasis themselves. I did little things that are unnoticeable like reminding them of snack duties and buying it for them to use when they refused to do it. I also reminded the teachers who were angry with them that these bullies have their own troubles and are going through a lot. By the end of the year their relationship with the teachers and the class got better and they were making and bringing barbecue to my class and sharing them with everyone unprompted. One of my proudest set of actions that my classmates don’t know about.
I finally found an enfj!
I don't think most enfj are this kind.
Holy damn you're amazing, being an INFJ I'm not sure if I'd even have the energy or the memory ability to remind OTHER people! Hahahah
@@frenchgirl5878 what makes you say that?...
@@sssrankeraddict Because most people are not this kind.
The INTJ is pretty accurate and sometimes it’s not intentionally mean or defensive there are just some logical inconsistencies or conclusions that need to be pointed out.
IKR. Had a conversation with some chap the other day and tore him a new one on the logical inconstancies of his claims. No hard feelings against him or anything, the stupidity and irrationality was just annoying
ROFL this is fantastic. I love how he turned the insults into burns. Also, as an INFP I’d be really annoyed because I’d come up with the best reply that evening in my shower and forget about using it the next time.
@The Great Indian Sisyphus
I think it's the overthinking types in general, or those that are more hurt by it and will think about it for a long time.
I would in fact not cry I would just stare at them and say no. Are you?😒
that INFJ was so accurate, I just sometimes stand there and space out and then I realise someone was speaking
The INFJ stare 🤌
4:24 Not just when getting bullied, it's like 24/7
For real though.
I'm INFP and I remember the painful struggle to hide my tears when bullied. I tried to wait until I got home to cry. Sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't.
As an INTP, I am particularly worried that I phrase my comebacks EXACTLY like that.
Accept the Premise, and articulate the reality from there :)
As an INFP that got bullied, I cry ALL THE TIME and I definitely agree. I didn't cry because I feel defeated. I'm just not scared of my own emotions hahaha.
right?! i was bullied too, but it's like... wow i'm so sorry for being a _human._ i think it was the only thing i wasn't embarrassed of as a kid. as an adult, i just find it pitiful how, at the end of the day, bullies get so intimidated by emotions.
i remember during high school my on and off again boyfriend left me in the movie theater while i sobbed after watching the strangers (his idea). at the time, i was crushed, but now i realize that my tears _intimidated_ him. he loved pressing my buttons, yet still wimped out whenever i decided to cry.
at least we can tap into our emotions instead of suppressing them. it's refreshing and vital to our health and mental well-being. it's a pity others don't understand how much of a detox crying is. 🤷♀️
I'm more hurt in thinking my parents would scold me if I did something wrong so I would just cry, lol so annoying
As an ENTP, I confirm the reaction in the video, cuz in middle school bullies generally steered clear of me cuz I was known for talking back to people
Pfft yes-
sameee... they stopped approaching me after I went into a rant about how stupid the main bully is after she tried to tell me how nerdy I am.
INTJ - I had actually used the "why are you so obsessed with me?" counterattack a few times in the past and it worked. Thank you.
I said something similar to that, A LOT
As a homeschooling mom and ISTJ, I do always have all sorts of books, especially on library day. Then his response of “oh, that looks like it hurts” is completely accurate
Exactly Im an ISTJ too
As an ENFP I actually made "being a weird kid" my entire personality in middle school and high school, despite realizing I was bullied and being depressed about it because of it
As an INFJ who was relentlessly bullied and aware of it, I would unironically use the tactic you presented, except I wasn't spaced out at all. What began as a fear of confrontation morphed into me purposefully not responding/pretending the bully didn't exist. My inner dialogue would be what the ENFJ said to the bully in this video (except I'd never say it to the bully's face), but I would essentially stonewall my bullies because I figured no reaction/ignoring their existence would make them feel bored or frustrated or weirded out, and stop picking on me. It worked for when I was younger, not so much for high school bullies.
As an ENFJ, I have literally had that conversation dozens of times. Sometimes with complete strangers.
I didn’t realize it wasn’t a usual experience to break people down into telling their worst stories and traumas on accident and ending with them crying on your shoulder, until a few years ago. Oops😂
And yes, I’ve also discovered sometimes people avoid me and can be half scared of me after because of it. People know not to come near me if they don’t want to accidentally spill out emotional stories😬
OOOH it's rare seeing another ENFJ online :0
Yoo im an ENFJ too, and the same things happen to me lmao
@@huh3549 Ive actually met another ENFJ once online so yeah its pretty rare that there's three of us here
IDK how you guys do it, I try not to tell people about hurtful experiences as much as I can, but one of you got me spilling it within a couple days after meeting-
@@huh3549 Omggg I'm ENFJ too! :D
I’m an INFJ and your portrayal is so true to my life I knew immediately that it was mine😂🤣! I’m mentally off this planet most of the time.
As an ENTJ I definitely handled situations like that. I've also defended people from Bullies. If it's me being bullied it wasn't a big deal and I'd usually give a snarky remark, but if it was someone else who was clearly hurt I'd step right up and call out the bully.
I'm an INFJ, but I must have an ENTJ hidden somewhere inside me, since I also did that a lot. If it was me, I'd just laugh at them, but if it was anybody else, I would do my best to humiliate the bully. Maybe it's the strong anger at unfairness that INFJs tend to have. I just wish more people would do the right thing. Bullies are cowards.
@@meagiesmuse2334 I know an INFJ which results on MBTI test are sometimes ENTJ. It's logical because both personalities are strong, intuitive, decisive, fair, determined and focused on people. I'm an ENFP and sometimes I relate to INTP (we share de second and the last letter also), we're like INTPs but more energized and somehow stupid.
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 - The one true creative genius I've known was an ENFP, so please don't sell yourself short! The only time I get as aggressive as the ENTJs I know are when someone has violated my boundaries for a very long time and I am at the INFJ door slam stage. I want them to leave me alone, but they won't, so they get a blast of rage so intense, I don't even know what I've said afterwards. I've had two people in my life who were so scared by it, they physically ran away. They never bothered me again though, so mission accomplished! ;-)
Wow....that was me to a T! (also ENTJ) I always thought it was strange that I was fearless in defending the weak but not myself. I mostly just did not understand why all the drama was necessary and preferred not to engage them at all. When I finally figured out that they just wanted attention from me, I tried humor with them, and it worked!
I am also an ENTJ and I also turn the table like that too.😈 PROUD OF MYSELF😁
Yes as an infj I am zoned out like 80% my life
I'm an INTJ. And I totally did this to someone who is my self-proclaimed rival. He often bugged me and even tried to humiliate me when I was on my way to the library.(note: It was on the middle of the hallway and many students were there watching) It ended with his face turning red, everyone in complete silence and me walking away towards the library.😑😑
Imagine he's actually a tsundere and the reason he does these are because he likes you lmaoo
@@rip1596 OMG AMDNFKSLSBDKAJAAJJA
@@rip1596 ennemies to lovers one day maybe bjdhsbchsbd
@@rip1596 please don't give me anymore ideas. It confuses me
@@hachironiichan5368 😂😂
As an INFJ, I can relate to that lol, I get told I have the death stare and IT WORKS
As an INFJ, I'm proud of how accurate mine is. I would lowkey forget someone is bullying me while I come up with story ideas in my mind.
Same lol
Same LMAO! I'm taking notes with the bullies' personality if I'm not zoning out, just for fictional characters in my head that I want to write a story about 😂🤣
As I told a friend of mine recently on a nerd level since he doesn't understand psychology: An INFJ's brain is like the Marvel Multiverse and we're trying to make sure people aren't causing incursions.
wait, so making multi story series in your head is part of the INFJ thing? Cuz I've been doing it since I can remember...
@@AravaxElvor Not specific to us, but it's a major part of who we are. It comes easier for us than most, I think. I made thirteen variations of the same character on less than an hour and refined them in a week. We're blessed - or cursed, whichever you rather see it as - with the ability to think about how different bits of information we've taken on can effect other thoughts.