AMEN on "is he really interested in you"? So true, it's a truly self-centered man if he isn't interested in a woman or ever asks her about herself, wants to know who she is, her interests, who she is, etc. Major red flag #1.
Absolutely agree with you. Tolerated disrespect from a 45 yr old on and off for a month in an LDR and then I walked away on date 2. Called him out for being a man child and didn't regret it 1 bit. Prayed to God to show me a sign to let him go, if hes not the one. I saw many signs.
Glad to hear you cut him off early.👍 A zero tolerance for disrespect or abuse. You deserve better.❤️ Ken Reid has informative podcasts on attachment styles. He discusses LDRs. Proximity is continuity. Manipulators dislike standards boundaries a backbone and a BS detector. Stand in your power and speak your truth without sugar coating anything. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Men That Can't Love by Stephen A Carter Boundaries by Henry Cloud I Hear You by Micheal Sorenson Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman defines the blueprint of healthy relationships Are You The One For Me? by Barbara De Angelis. Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix- Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future-Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns. AKA the track record In this world verify everything. Fact check. Discernment. A background check is essential. Concrete evidence. Trust requires proof. Seek Good Character-David Tian podcast
Many men talk incessantly about themselves. Ken Reid has informative podcasts on attachment styles. Know yourself and your attachment style. Watch " The Thinking Of An Avoidant Attacher" podcast. Also read the book " Men That Can't Love by Stephen A Carter" The dating pool is full of avoidant attachment men.
He did not waste my time. He learned i learned. I was not ready no way. And thank God for the blockages of me not moving my weight loss journey fast enough. I am steady but sure. I have invested in me. It was a win win from the beginning. He was exposed to what God looks like and I was exposed to my buried past my mother. He portrayed part of that behavior. I don't want to trigger anyone. But I also love his spunk to live. Nothing is wrong with living life but who for in representation is most important. Nothing wrong with parties, friends....i was not ready anyway. To see people worshipping their bodies to that extent is astonishing. Satan really has a hold on this society. So i was asleep for 10 years. And this what I saw when I woke up society
I / I DID NOT OVERLOOK THE RED FLAGS I CUT HIM OFF / HE WANTS TO LEAD AND CONTROL AT THE SAME TIME / YES HE WAS TESTING ME / WE WAS IN A COURTSHIP FROM 11 MONTHS
AMEN on "is he really interested in you"? So true, it's a truly self-centered man if he isn't interested in a woman or ever asks her about herself, wants to know who she is, her interests, who she is, etc. Major red flag #1.
Fact
The longer you stay, the harder it is to leave, yet he'll never change, only get worse
Thank you. I keep forgetting that I'm a queen and daughter of a Most High God
Absolutely agree with you. Tolerated disrespect from a 45 yr old on and off for a month in an LDR and then I walked away on date 2. Called him out for being a man child and didn't regret it 1 bit. Prayed to God to show me a sign to let him go, if hes not the one. I saw many signs.
Glad to hear you cut him off early.👍
A zero tolerance for disrespect or abuse. You deserve better.❤️
Ken Reid has informative podcasts on attachment styles. He discusses LDRs.
Proximity is continuity.
Manipulators dislike standards boundaries a backbone and a BS detector. Stand in your power and speak your truth without sugar coating anything.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Men That Can't Love by Stephen A Carter
Boundaries by Henry Cloud
I Hear You by Micheal Sorenson
Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters
8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman defines the blueprint of healthy relationships
Are You The One For Me? by Barbara De Angelis.
Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix-
Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin
Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future-Sam Vaknin podcast
Never doubt patterns. AKA the track record
In this world verify everything. Fact check. Discernment. A background check is essential. Concrete evidence. Trust requires proof.
Seek Good Character-David Tian podcast
Ken Reid has informative podcasts on attachment styles. He discusses LDRs.
Good for you for calling him out and cutting him off! 👍
Thank you Derrick😪🙏
Absolutely 💯
Some people are so blind and desperate they need to be told this!!! LISTEN Y'ALL
Spot on big brother ❤❤
I totally agree with you
Facts!💯
Facts/ I told him l am working on a movie with one of my stories he kept talking over my voice with no response
Facts❤
Facts 😂
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I can’t stand this man who sits and projects speaking in third person talking about himself!! He’s the person he describes in every video!
Many men talk incessantly about themselves.
Ken Reid has informative podcasts on attachment styles. Know yourself and your attachment style.
Watch " The Thinking Of An Avoidant Attacher" podcast.
Also read the book " Men That Can't Love by Stephen A Carter"
The dating pool is full of avoidant attachment men.
Don't watch then scroll on
@@bmswomn68 I do what tf I want to do you could’ve kept your comment tf
Right! Such good info....but he the fuck boy to the ump degree. Just toxic. We can't trust nobody.
@@bmswomn68 It's funny you say this as this is one of the major red flags he mentioned in his videos (dismissive).
Fact
I HAVE
All the red flags are there he is a selfish person and needs to grow up
Don't collect red flags and dealbreakers.
Give him the books,
How To Be An Adult In Relationship and Non Violent Communication.
Do not a person that wear a mask and a Lier and doesn't communicate with me so I can get to know each other 💖
He did not waste my time. He learned i learned. I was not ready no way. And thank God for the blockages of me not moving my weight loss journey fast enough. I am steady but sure. I have invested in me. It was a win win from the beginning. He was exposed to what God looks like and I was exposed to my buried past my mother. He portrayed part of that behavior. I don't want to trigger anyone. But I also love his spunk to live. Nothing is wrong with living life but who for in representation is most important. Nothing wrong with parties, friends....i was not ready anyway. To see people worshipping their bodies to that extent is astonishing. Satan really has a hold on this society. So i was asleep for 10 years. And this what I saw when I woke up society
I / I DID NOT OVERLOOK THE RED FLAGS I CUT HIM OFF / HE WANTS TO LEAD AND CONTROL AT THE SAME TIME / YES HE WAS TESTING ME / WE WAS IN A COURTSHIP FROM 11 MONTHS
What are you talking about 1
This dude will say anything to get😺.. And you're hitting those SS too hard in your speech.. Sssusss
Explain fellings
This guy’s still alive???
Nigh chat
Too bad his wife didn't take his advice
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Open buisnees,...I do response, to your talk...50/50...as to why...