once Nate sees the reflection in the mirror of his father on top of him, he immediately breaks into tears. a visual reminder of what he has seen his father do
Tamás Bálint Kucsora for some reason i never thought of him as an antagonist. from the episode about him I automatically felt sympathy for him. theres always a deeper meaning behind someones anger and pain. i personally think nate is the beat character of the show.
@@riannaattieh9248 lmao he is a terrible person, I appreciate you're loving his character but his actions are unforgivable. he's disgusting, abusive, misogynistic, a violent masochistic, transphobic and heavily heavily homophobic. I felt horrible for him in this scene too but to act like he's deserving of sympathy (especially if you happen to be someone unaffected by his hate) isn't the power move u think it is. If anything, you're being overly apologetic of a character which doesn't at all deserve it
Incredible acting by the guy playing Nate. When Nate realizes he's overpowered both physically and emotionally, his facial expression becomes exactly that of a frightened and defeated little boy. Nate's horror with his dad's version of manhood frightens Nate from truly transitioning from boy to man.
It’s much more disturbing than that… when Nate looked in the mirror he started crying (look at the symbolism of that scene) Nate is scarred and TRAUMATIZED of what his father would do on his tapes, it’s more than “manhood and overpowering” it unfortunately has to do with s3xual trauma too since Nate was exposed to that at a young age hence when he saw that he started banging his head you can clearly see he’s not okay and the dad in season 2 said “I fcked you up with my tapes haha” Nate is really traumatized :(((
@@nolang.3094 You think so? His dad was state wrestling champion and I think would be a much tougher person if a situation really got rough (unless of course Ashtray was his opponent😁). Nate was a boy in a man's body and I doubt would be that mentally tough in a real fight. The fact that we are debating such things demonstrates the power of the show and its characters.
@@soap4788 I never said it was, I was talking of how well maid this scene was. So if u don't agree with me that's fine but it's not about you either lol
@@sammymakessix7204 I meant disturbed in a good way (that kind of emotion they tried to transmit) wich I think was kinda the point of the whole scene, to makes us feel "bad" like it actually happended
really powerful scene , i think only scene that was moving from the finale was this one and we got some answers , and confirmation that nates dad knows for sure nate knows about his double life , he called his dad the F- word , he was disgusted with what his dad is doing and wanted him of him , nate is the most complex character on the show and most interesting to me everything else on this show has been done overdone especially the drug abuse.
Right after the second time he chocked maddy you could see the pain in his eyes every scene he is in towards the end of the season literally hurts me to watch you can see how much he is suffering but he is also making others around him suffer too in order to feel some kind of control
This scene reminds me of exactly what it sounded like when my brother would be screaming and punching the walls of our house because he has anger issues, bipolar disorder, and drug abuse issues. To be honest a lot of the scenes with Rue and her mom remind me of that too. This just sounds exactly like it and it kind of scares me.
Bro Same I had so many moments Like this at age Of 12-15 watching this scene Made me feel so uncomfortable because Seeing it from someone else even though its TV just scary
This scene is much more DISTURBING than what meets the eye… when Nate looked in the mirror he started crying (look at the symbolism of that scene) Nate is scarred and TRAUMATIZED of what his father would do in his tapes, it’s more than “manhood and overpowering” it unfortunately has to do with s3xual trauma too since Nate was exposed to that at a young age by seeing his dads tapes hence causing him to have a mental breakdown when he saw that he was in the same vulnerable state as the ppl in his dads tapes, banging his head because of the ptsd you can clearly see he’s not okay and is really traumatized…. 💔
You wouldn’t be traumatized to that point from watching some videos, there is def deeper meaning and more than meets the eye as to why Nate hates his dad. I think there’s some sa trauma there
Nate started to sob and go crazier after looking in the mirror paralleles him looking in the mirror while being on top of Tyler when he was beating him up.
It made him react badly because as you can see throughout the series Nate is struggling with his sexuality. He also despises his dad since seeing those tapes and once he saw himself in the same position as those boys he snapped.
@@bleep0bleep4 Btw, I thought you said desires instead of despises. 😃😃😃 I definitely get it more now that you bring up the fact that Nate is potentially gay or at least bi. I think it is a combination, tho since he does hate his father so much and he wants to win in life and he was losing to his father. 🤷🏾♀️
How else can u argue and say that he is not THE BEST actor on the show. Jacob needs to stop taking these Kissing Booth esq roles and do more shit like Euphoria somewhere where his talent isn’t wasted.
Tank Destroyer Ok I love Zendaya to death but it’s clear she just got nominated because she’s Zendaya and a far higher ranking in terms of celeb status. I don’t think anyone could compete on the sheer tier of intensity Elordi played the role. I have the biggest anxiety attack everytime he’s on screen and that says something right there. He’s doing another Kissing Booth type of movie which isn’t Kissing Booth but still looks as bad. This man needs to fire whatever shat ass agent he has and find actual work that suits his skillset!
SlasherPsych_2989_xXx I agree, his acting was goofy in the kissing booth and when I saw this show I was blown away. I saw a trailer for a movie called 2 hearts and when I saw him I was like nooo lol. At least he is making money for the silly roles but it would be nice to see him in darker roles now that we have seen his range
the fact that the mother doesn't show any motherly traits during the entire season.. she is just there and in this scene she doesn't even go there to check what is going on... the dude is alone and the closes person is his father who had done all those things... tells you the environment these girls in upper class grow up to stay quiet be a good pretty wife which is what damages kids who end up having toxic masculinity... its like with 13 reasons why bryce when the mother started showing her mother side as a single woman when you see bryce trying to change
I don't think they really live with them. There's something with this family. Like, where's the third kids? That was saw on their family pictures.? We only saw two kids. But his dad letting his son having a meltdown and banging his head that hard? He's going to have a head trauma and he just left the room ?
nah...shes just not the focus. 'motherly' traits are a conservative idea, i mean, if the father acted like that no one would bat an eye. the writing is just not the focusing on her.
Damn man when he looks into that mirror and you hear him gasp before breaking down into tears it sends shivers down your spine because you know what Nate saw and you feel so uncomfortable for him in that physical position with his father. Superb acting, the face he makes after looking in the mirror made it feel as if he aged backwards and he was just a small child again.
this. omg this. this is the most realistic portrayal of how abuse affects someone imo. (not all the shitty shit nate's done). In my experience, abuse has affected me more in that i get so angry i bang my head against walls, and scream like a monster is escaping. trauma is seriously scary
Everything inside this scene is perfectly portraying the reflect of so many people in our society, Nate represents the young kid who is suffering from PSTD after seeing his dad doing things he should've never see. Nate lost his innocence but he also lost his father figure and he had to face a man who could only see like a predactor sexual and someone who cheat on his mother, and even if he tries to deny the reality, the pain is still there and more he let the pain growing up inside his body by ignoring it and not being help but he knows he can't talk because he could ruin his family's life so he have to keep a secret who destroy him, and unfortunately when you don't solve a problem there are always consequences who happen which explain (not excuse) his violence, his addiction sexual. The fact he is breaking his mirrors it's because he is struggling on the fact he tries to not be like his dad so he is confronting himself, Nate is probably guilty from his bad actions but the first responsible is his dad and it's also why he is victim too.. We also feel Nate's pain because he is expressing it with his anger and we have to handle with a situation we aren't used to confront this is why watching this provoke a lot of anxiety issues. Without forget we feel bad because we finally feel sympathize for him we understand now the reasons of his aggressivity. It's beautifully and incredibly written and the acting is insane being homosexual I loved when his gf said "We aren't 100% straight, we have all a part of homosexuality" I think she got a point here.
Yea nah fuck nate plenty of worse stuff can happen than what happened to him. Nate literally tortured a dude in his own home. Hope nate continues to get what's coming to him in this show
His screaming broke my heart it reminds me of how my brother screamed in the middle of the night and how my father just didn’t care at a point both my brother and father were screaming and hitting them self in the middle of the night this made me cry i can feel his pain
its so heartbreaking he can't even look at himself in the mirror. it makes you think that he knows the bad things he does and hates himself for it but does it anyway
I think Nate had a flash back when he saw that image in the mirror. I’ve seen sexual PTSD trauma flashbacks first hand and that is the reaction to seeing such a disturbing image of your own trauma in your brain again
Nate realizing he was to weak to take on his father and seeing his reflection which was similar to his fathers tapes just absolutely broke him. This scene is insane and perfectly done
That's called Anger attacks it happens to me as well it's uncontrollable especially if someone tries pin you down or you engage in a physical sport or conflict with someone and he easily overpower you
Do you go to a specialist to help you with these attacks? Are they frequent? Sorry if I'm asking to much I'm just curious. Do they mainly happen when you have a lot of kept up emotion??
@@stellar.3381 it's ok, yes it happens when you keep too much in and or with confrontations when the other person doesn't understand you or tries to prove his point over you instead of understanding what you're going through or what you feeling or getting too stressed about something and people around you don't see to care ,these are all just fuel for an anger attack and when i get to that stage i go to my room or outside to be alone until i cool off because at that point anger will overshadow your since of right and wrong and your blood will start pumping fast and your entire body feels like it going to explode and things can get physical pretty easy, boxing and sports that use physical energy will reduce it and help control it as you progress through the year , it can be cured but it takes years of self control unlike normal people.
I still don't feel bad for him. He has done horrible things. I get it, he has a rough past but that's not really an excuse. Like, he almost KILLED Tyler just becuse he had sex with his girlfriend. And then ruined the poor guy's life. He lied to Jules and used her for his own good. And Maddie... God, I feel so bad for her. She still thinks Nate is a good person even though he tried to choke her two damn times. The guy needs a therapist and some good slaps before he ruins even more lives. His "parents" should have realised that sooner, but of course, his dad was busy fucking teens and his mom didn't give a shit about her family
you're not alone in this. I hate how its suddenly become a trend to "stan" villians because they show some shred of sadness or trauma. Like you did this to other people, you're not entitled to getting empathy at all. I think a more satisfying ending for me would be Nate going to prison for the rest of his life.
oh yeah, of course. i think his past is more of like an explanation, just to get a better understanding of who he is and why he does the things that he does. like how rue describes the characters and their pasts so we can understand them and their behaviors. nate has very serious problems that will only be managed if he wants better for himself and is willing to accept help. But by the looks of it, he doesn’t care to do so. now that we’re on season 2, I wonder if he’ll end up dead or victorious by the end of the season (like many abusers do, unfortunately)
This reminds me so much of Azula because you can understand and empathize that what they went through was also awful, but they've done so much in their life that you can't forgive them for their psychotic behavior. It makes me emotional but I could never like either of them.
I hated Nate during all the first season and in this scene I could felt some compassion for him, that's what a call good acting skill, it's one of the reasons this serie is so cool, every member in the cast is great interpreting their characters.
It's what I thought too, but after season 2 I'm not so sure. Maybe someone did something to nate when he was younger, but I don't think it was his dad. If it was sexually abused, they'd have revealed it sooner.
honestly this scene almost made me have a panic attack. I wouldn’t be able to live in that house with him if he did that, because screaming and loud noises are triggering for me. but the acting in the scene is amazing. but this scene broke my heart
This show is good tho, showing what happens behind everyone’s stories. And what shows on the surface is not always what it seems. This scene is really hard to watch and yet very much good.
This is so hard to watch. I can't even imagine what the vibe and emotional state of the cast and producers when they filmed this. Must have been extremely uncomfortable. Reminds me of a specific episode of Buffy. If you know you know
If you’ve ever fought your father,you know this feeling and emotions sucks,the mixed emotions,the pain and fear going back and forth It’s scary and confusing but it happens a lot I wish no one goes through what I went through or what Nate went through
That’s scary they really did this, method acting is no joke. Its crazy he really hit his head that ridiculously hard against the floor, he could have killed himself.
Bro nate lost it this is where u need to hug your son and support him ive done what nates done in this clip and im 15 but because i do mma its more "threatening" when i had a breakdown my dad didnt restrain me he just hugged me and that helped me getting better so much
We done all been in this position before. Thought we could take our dad’s and they end up putting us in our places to the point we could do nothing but just be mad and start crying.
Nate is not a villain. He's just a kid who was traumatized which is not his fault. He became a manipulative misogynist because that's what he learned from his dad.
Nate’s a serious psychopath who needs serious help… but my heart kinda broke for him. I know what that’s like. I know how defeated you feel, how numb you get afterwards. No one deserves that. It doesn’t excuse any of his actions after, but can’t really say I wouldn’t have seen this coming.
Shows what kind of dad he was, he could’ve comforted and apologized to Nate, the least he could’ve done was force Nate to stop hurting himself or stayed in the room until he stopped but he just walks away. No wonder one of the reasons Nate is so fucked up
They literally all are what the hell ??? Jules, Rue, maddy .. .all of them suffer through something, and all of them are broken and do disgusting shit sometimes
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once Nate sees the reflection in the mirror of his father on top of him, he immediately breaks into tears. a visual reminder of what he has seen his father do
OH. I thought he was just so upset that he couldn't beat his father because he never wanted to be his father, so loosing to him was upsetting.
Maybe it has something to also do with sexuality¿?
I think he just had a mental breakdown
But he started crying even before he saw himself in the mirror
Yall are fucking amazing...there is so much i dont see during clips like these. Im glad people like u come on this app and make sense of it all🤧
You know the writers do a terrific job when you can sympathize with the antagonist of the storyline at some level.
Tamás Bálint Kucsora for some reason i never thought of him as an antagonist. from the episode about him I automatically felt sympathy for him. theres always a deeper meaning behind someones anger and pain. i personally think nate is the beat character of the show.
@@riannaattieh9248 lmao he is a terrible person, I appreciate you're loving his character but his actions are unforgivable. he's disgusting, abusive, misogynistic, a violent masochistic, transphobic and heavily heavily homophobic. I felt horrible for him in this scene too but to act like he's deserving of sympathy (especially if you happen to be someone unaffected by his hate) isn't the power move u think it is. If anything, you're being overly apologetic of a character which doesn't at all deserve it
hunky funky lets get monkey I agree he need some help cause he clearly doesn’t the moral support from people
That's what they do On EVERY TEEN DRAMA ! LIKE every single one !!
hunky funky lets get monkey he gets a lot of it from his family
Wow Jacob elordi deserves an Emmy for this scene
serenitybeats yea ❤️
brooklynn nicole no I mean his acting is really good in this scene but you don’t just get Emmys for a couple good scenes in a show
hopefully next season they give him more scenes that showcase his range, then he'll get the nomination 🤞🏼
Honestly it's scary how good he did as a psychopath
serenitybeats his acting is good , he deserves an Emmy
man the acting is incredible... crazy how he got a concussion filming this scene
Mischa Salvo I can see that happening I’d have a headache for a long ass time
@@heartbeat8706 yeah lmao
@@heartbeat8706 lmao especially if they had to do this scene more than once😂😭😭
In fact in one curiosity video I ve heard that the actors had a problems after recording this scene.
@@adaplay13 where did you see that
Incredible acting by the guy playing Nate. When Nate realizes he's overpowered both physically and emotionally, his facial expression becomes exactly that of a frightened and defeated little boy. Nate's horror with his dad's version of manhood frightens Nate from truly transitioning from boy to man.
It’s much more disturbing than that… when Nate looked in the mirror he started crying (look at the symbolism of that scene) Nate is scarred and TRAUMATIZED of what his father would do on his tapes, it’s more than “manhood and overpowering” it unfortunately has to do with s3xual trauma too since Nate was exposed to that at a young age hence when he saw that he started banging his head you can clearly see he’s not okay and the dad in season 2 said “I fcked you up with my tapes haha” Nate is really traumatized :(((
@@c.l.4883 both things are correlated
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He definitely could have beaten his dad up if he actually tried
@@nolang.3094 You think so? His dad was state wrestling champion and I think would be a much tougher person if a situation really got rough (unless of course Ashtray was his opponent😁). Nate was a boy in a man's body and I doubt would be that mentally tough in a real fight. The fact that we are debating such things demonstrates the power of the show and its characters.
There's no need to show blood and gore to make an intense scene, this disturbed me for real
@@soap4788 I never said it was, I was talking of how well maid this scene was. So if u don't agree with me that's fine but it's not about you either lol
@@sammymakessix7204 I meant disturbed in a good way (that kind of emotion they tried to transmit) wich I think was kinda the point of the whole scene, to makes us feel "bad" like it actually happended
@@sammymakessix7204 fucking dumbass he meant that this scene was made reallly disturbing without the need of blood and thats talent
@@sammymakessix7204 yall literally have no reading comprehension skills
@@brrow5598 thanks for saying exactly what I was thinking😂🙌🏻
This two are awesome actors. Incredible scene.
really powerful scene , i think only scene that was moving from the finale was this one and we got some answers , and confirmation that nates dad knows for sure nate knows about his double life , he called his dad the F- word , he was disgusted with what his dad is doing and wanted him of him , nate is the most complex character on the show and most interesting to me everything else on this show has been done overdone especially the drug abuse.
The guy that plays the Dad is a good actor I've seen him in a couple things
Kipp Crusoe His soft voice is gold.
Mr Glass Mark Sloan
Mr Glass greys anatomny!
This made me look at Nate differently, he’s clearly struggling and he doesn’t know how to deal with it 💔
He is definitely a violent psychopath- don’t justify that
Nobody is justifying any of his actions it’s just an understanding of why he is who he is
Right after the second time he chocked maddy you could see the pain in his eyes every scene he is in towards the end of the season literally hurts me to watch you can see how much he is suffering but he is also making others around him suffer too in order to feel some kind of control
@@madelynwintrick7577 it's not a justifying, but every act (good or bad) has a reason, he needs help before he starts doing worst things
Maddy please educate yourself first on what psychopath means
This scene gave me the exact same feeling I had when I saw Azula screaming powerless for the first time
I love this Last Airbender reference.
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The pain you hear in his screaming is haunting.... His Dad created a monster and he fucking knows it....
This scene reminds me of exactly what it sounded like when my brother would be screaming and punching the walls of our house because he has anger issues, bipolar disorder, and drug abuse issues. To be honest a lot of the scenes with Rue and her mom remind me of that too. This just sounds exactly like it and it kind of scares me.
Bro Same I had so many moments Like this at age Of 12-15 watching this scene Made me feel so uncomfortable because Seeing it from someone else even though its TV just scary
Same I’m traumatized and this scene scared me
Live_Lif3 Right same! Like all the screaming, hearing broken things and just everything had me scared
Same. This comment is so spot on for my brother too.
same this was kind of triggering to watch ngl
im convinced that jacob is just 100% legs
😂😂👌
you’re so right though, dude’s like 7 feet tall and 80% of it is legs 😭
I am 6'1 and that's the case with me too 😂
The scream tho, really painful like you can feel it. Good job for the actor
This scene is much more DISTURBING than what meets the eye… when Nate looked in the mirror he started crying (look at the symbolism of that scene) Nate is scarred and TRAUMATIZED of what his father would do in his tapes, it’s more than “manhood and overpowering” it unfortunately has to do with s3xual trauma too since Nate was exposed to that at a young age by seeing his dads tapes hence causing him to have a mental breakdown when he saw that he was in the same vulnerable state as the ppl in his dads tapes, banging his head because of the ptsd you can clearly see he’s not okay and is really traumatized…. 💔
You wouldn’t be traumatized to that point from watching some videos, there is def deeper meaning and more than meets the eye as to why Nate hates his dad. I think there’s some sa trauma there
You said it perfectly
I some times bang my head when I’m overstimulated over anxious so This scene really hit close to home.
@@partypartyyeah303 there won’t be many more things hitting close to home if you keep banging your head retard
@@lucathesadmanseeing your dad have constant sex on tape with varies woman of different ages all at the age of 8 would fuck you up?
This scene made me feel so bad for Nate I forgot it was just a show.
What’s to feel bad for, he totally deserves this
@@shanebracken8358 same this scene made we so happy
Lol, you feel sorry for that piece of trash? Think of all the terrible things he's said and done to people...
Two people above me are psychopaths 😂😂
The one below u as well. Giggles watching this@@sbcs2809
And this goes for daddy issues
why did this make me CACKLE
@@benchatonda8588 the lack of sensitivity is ducked
Nate started to sob and go crazier after looking in the mirror paralleles him looking in the mirror while being on top of Tyler when he was beating him up.
@@bleep0bleep4 But why would that make him react THAT crazy? It wasn't like he was watching people get raped or some crazy violent sexual acts. ?? 🤔
It made him react badly because as you can see throughout the series Nate is struggling with his sexuality. He also despises his dad since seeing those tapes and once he saw himself in the same position as those boys he snapped.
@@bleep0bleep4 Btw, I thought you said desires instead of despises. 😃😃😃 I definitely get it more now that you bring up the fact that Nate is potentially gay or at least bi. I think it is a combination, tho since he does hate his father so much and he wants to win in life and he was losing to his father. 🤷🏾♀️
Candace Anderson nah Candace you’re wrong just admit it and stfu
Maybe he just doesn't like no bottom
How else can u argue and say that he is not THE BEST actor on the show. Jacob needs to stop taking these Kissing Booth esq roles and do more shit like Euphoria somewhere where his talent isn’t wasted.
SlasherPsych_2989_xXx then why didn’t they give an Emmy nomination for Jacob?
Tank Destroyer That’s what I’m saying!!!
SlasherPsych_2989_xXx ı mean.. it’s outrageous
Tank Destroyer Ok I love Zendaya to death but it’s clear she just got nominated because she’s Zendaya and a far higher ranking in terms of celeb status. I don’t think anyone could compete on the sheer tier of intensity Elordi played the role. I have the biggest anxiety attack everytime he’s on screen and that says something right there. He’s doing another Kissing Booth type of movie which isn’t Kissing Booth but still looks as bad. This man needs to fire whatever shat ass agent he has and find actual work that suits his skillset!
SlasherPsych_2989_xXx I agree, his acting was goofy in the kissing booth and when I saw this show I was blown away. I saw a trailer for a movie called 2 hearts and when I saw him I was like nooo lol. At least he is making money for the silly roles but it would be nice to see him in darker roles now that we have seen his range
the fact that the mother doesn't show any motherly traits during the entire season.. she is just there and in this scene she doesn't even go there to check what is going on... the dude is alone and the closes person is his father who had done all those things... tells you the environment these girls in upper class grow up to stay quiet be a good pretty wife which is what damages kids who end up having toxic masculinity...
its like with 13 reasons why bryce when the mother started showing her mother side as a single woman when you see bryce trying to change
I don't think they really live with them. There's something with this family. Like, where's the third kids? That was saw on their family pictures.? We only saw two kids. But his dad letting his son having a meltdown and banging his head that hard? He's going to have a head trauma and he just left the room ?
No such thing as Toxic masculinity
Why would she? She’s a pushover.
nah...shes just not the focus.
'motherly' traits are a conservative idea, i mean, if the father acted like that no one would bat an eye. the writing is just not the focusing on her.
@@therealmr.incredible3179 the character of nate and his dad are the embodiment of toxic masculinity damaging someones mental health
Damn man when he looks into that mirror and you hear him gasp before breaking down into tears it sends shivers down your spine because you know what Nate saw and you feel so uncomfortable for him in that physical position with his father. Superb acting, the face he makes after looking in the mirror made it feel as if he aged backwards and he was just a small child again.
This scene made me cry. Literally very incredible acting. The story line follows through the entire way
this. omg this. this is the most realistic portrayal of how abuse affects someone imo. (not all the shitty shit nate's done). In my experience, abuse has affected me more in that i get so angry i bang my head against walls, and scream like a monster is escaping. trauma is seriously scary
Agreed I did the same things so this doesn't faze me
@@animationlover2944 phase me*
Wow you're so edgy lol@@animationlover2944
Every actor on this show was incredible, which is rare to see, but Nate and Rue stood out the most out of all of them.
One of the most intense, heartbreaking scenes on ANY TV show or movie ever.
can't beat the ending of The boy in striped pajamas tho
Everything inside this scene is perfectly portraying the reflect of so many people in our society, Nate represents the young kid who is suffering from PSTD after seeing his dad doing things he should've never see. Nate lost his innocence but he also lost his father figure and he had to face a man who could only see like a predactor sexual and someone who cheat on his mother, and even if he tries to deny the reality, the pain is still there and more he let the pain growing up inside his body by ignoring it and not being help but he knows he can't talk because he could ruin his family's life so he have to keep a secret who destroy him, and unfortunately when you don't solve a problem there are always consequences who happen which explain (not excuse) his violence, his addiction sexual. The fact he is breaking his mirrors it's because he is struggling on the fact he tries to not be like his dad so he is confronting himself, Nate is probably guilty from his bad actions but the first responsible is his dad and it's also why he is victim too.. We also feel Nate's pain because he is expressing it with his anger and we have to handle with a situation we aren't used to confront this is why watching this provoke a lot of anxiety issues. Without forget we feel bad because we finally feel sympathize for him we understand now the reasons of his aggressivity. It's beautifully and incredibly written and the acting is insane
being homosexual I loved when his gf said "We aren't 100% straight, we have all a part of homosexuality" I think she got a point here.
Yea nah fuck nate plenty of worse stuff can happen than what happened to him. Nate literally tortured a dude in his own home. Hope nate continues to get what's coming to him in this show
@@oxxy6678 exactly dude a big ass baby
INCREDIBLE acting.
His screaming broke my heart it reminds me of how my brother screamed in the middle of the night and how my father just didn’t care at a point both my brother and father were screaming and hitting them self in the middle of the night this made me cry i can feel his pain
Broke your heart? He's a fucking disgusting twat wtf is wrong with you children man
@@GameGuy9100 im glad im not the only one
Why didn't u go and break it up
this is one of the best scenes in the whole show. it’s so disturbing and captivating. his screams and shouts and bangs are so nerving
its so heartbreaking he can't even look at himself in the mirror. it makes you think that he knows the bad things he does and hates himself for it but does it anyway
maybe seeing his father on top of him reminded him what he saw on the tapes
@@sweetdream5180 Probably the fact that he realizes he's weak and someone controls him
@@m56214 I don’t think that’s why… there’s more deep rooted trauma here not just the surface level stuff
The worst part in this is his Dad just leaving him there. He doesn’t even care.
nate is the most well written character on the show in my book
This scene proved that you don’t need blood or gore to be disturbing
Maddie get outta there.
I think Nate had a flash back when he saw that image in the mirror. I’ve seen sexual PTSD trauma flashbacks first hand and that is the reaction to seeing such a disturbing image of your own trauma in your brain again
why did i think they were gonna do the nasty when i was watching the show
Bruh thats his *C* *H* *I* *L* *D*
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BRUH ME TOO AGSHDK
THATS A CHILD
YEAAAA bc of that tension idk how to feel 😐😐😐😐😐☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
this scene destroyed me
Nate realizing he was to weak to take on his father and seeing his reflection which was similar to his fathers tapes just absolutely broke him. This scene is insane and perfectly done
The fact that this scene reminded me of my brother made me cry even more
Jacob's acting is amazing just wow
this is the scene where i realised that jacob elordi is a phenomenal actor
That's called Anger attacks it happens to me as well it's uncontrollable especially if someone tries pin you down or you engage in a physical sport or conflict with someone and he easily overpower you
No no... you have a disorder. There is something seriously wrong with you
Do you go to a specialist to help you with these attacks? Are they frequent? Sorry if I'm asking to much I'm just curious. Do they mainly happen when you have a lot of kept up emotion??
@@stellar.3381 it's ok, yes it happens when you keep too much in and or with confrontations when the other person doesn't understand you or tries to prove his point over you instead of understanding what you're going through or what you feeling or getting too stressed about something and people around you don't see to care ,these are all just fuel for an anger attack and when i get to that stage i go to my room or outside to be alone until i cool off because at that point anger will overshadow your since of right and wrong and your blood will start pumping fast and your entire body feels like it going to explode and things can get physical pretty easy, boxing and sports that use physical energy will reduce it and help control it as you progress through the year , it can be cured but it takes years of self control unlike normal people.
is it similar like, me crying because of anger in a fight, not because I am sad or hurt, just because of pure anger?
@@brotherjoll1802 are you fucking stupid
Wow best scene ever!
this is talent
I still don't feel bad for him. He has done horrible things. I get it, he has a rough past but that's not really an excuse. Like, he almost KILLED Tyler just becuse he had sex with his girlfriend. And then ruined the poor guy's life. He lied to Jules and used her for his own good. And Maddie... God, I feel so bad for her. She still thinks Nate is a good person even though he tried to choke her two damn times. The guy needs a therapist and some good slaps before he ruins even more lives. His "parents" should have realised that sooner, but of course, his dad was busy fucking teens and his mom didn't give a shit about her family
I respect this comment so much. I completely agree
you're not alone in this. I hate how its suddenly become a trend to "stan" villians because they show some shred of sadness or trauma. Like you did this to other people, you're not entitled to getting empathy at all. I think a more satisfying ending for me would be Nate going to prison for the rest of his life.
@@discombobulatednoorie 100%
oh yeah, of course. i think his past is more of like an explanation, just to get a better understanding of who he is and why he does the things that he does. like how rue describes the characters and their pasts so we can understand them and their behaviors. nate has very serious problems that will only be managed if he wants better for himself and is willing to accept help. But by the looks of it, he doesn’t care to do so. now that we’re on season 2, I wonder if he’ll end up dead or victorious by the end of the season (like many abusers do, unfortunately)
I agree. He needs a motherly love and a right guidance. Parents can be emotionally selfish at times.
The self harm at the end almost made me cry 😢I know how much pain he must of been in a used to self harm like that
he definitely needed ice for his head after that scene
He’s a fucking amazing actor oh my god
Nobody gonna speak abt the fact that Nate called his dad *"motherfuc-"*
I mean he's not wrong
Bro turned into a werewolf
After it's revealed of the nightmares Nate has in season 2, this scene is way more intense than it originally was
This reminds me so much of Azula because you can understand and empathize that what they went through was also awful, but they've done so much in their life that you can't forgive them for their psychotic behavior. It makes me emotional but I could never like either of them.
This is actually such a good comparison. Kinda reminds me of when she lost the Ag ni kai and lost her shit
still one of jacobs best scenes ever
I honestly jumped up in joy when Nate's dad over powered him, meet you're maker lol
I hated Nate during all the first season and in this scene I could felt some compassion for him, that's what a call good acting skill, it's one of the reasons this serie is so cool, every member in the cast is great interpreting their characters.
My first thought when he started to panic like that was maybe his dad did something to him when he was younger
It's what I thought too, but after season 2 I'm not so sure. Maybe someone did something to nate when he was younger, but I don't think it was his dad. If it was sexually abused, they'd have revealed it sooner.
honestly this scene almost made me have a panic attack. I wouldn’t be able to live in that house with him if he did that, because screaming and loud noises are triggering for me. but the acting in the scene is amazing. but this scene broke my heart
1:16 nah what was that noise💀
This show is good tho, showing what happens behind everyone’s stories. And what shows on the surface is not always what it seems.
This scene is really hard to watch and yet very much good.
Both these guys are good actors this scene seems so real💯
His father has good mount and Wrist control ..🥋🥋
That one kid when they don’t get a toy or a candy at the store
Like nah… this scene was crazy his anger issues and emotions just built up and he just trigged him inside and outside…
He sounds like a demon when he screams like bro WHAT THE HELL
it felt so intense the first time i watched that scene
What do you get when you cross Abuse and Sexual trauma with PTSD and BPD? Well, you get Nate.
I will never look at Jacob elordi the same 🤗
This is so hard to watch. I can't even imagine what the vibe and emotional state of the cast and producers when they filmed this. Must have been extremely uncomfortable. Reminds me of a specific episode of Buffy. If you know you know
Nate is steady trying to fix his dad but he can’t his dad is a lost cause but Nate has time to get right
im just trying to figure out where his wife is located with them children.
I think there's something with their family. Where's there third kids ? We saw the pictures with 3 kids and we only saw Nate and his older brother?
One of the most affecting scenes
Such a disturbing and great scene
Me covering my ears and closing my eyes going “he’s mark sloan he’s mark sloan he’s mark sloan
I feel so bad for Nate like he has so much pain in him and doesn’t know what to do
Clown
Who’s here after his new video with GQ?
bro used that gay dad strength on young bro.🤣
haha my father and brother were like this. This scene makes me cry everytime
When nate started hitting his head I felt how cal knew he fucked him up completely and he could never do somth about it
If you’ve ever fought your father,you know this feeling and emotions sucks,the mixed emotions,the pain and fear going back and forth
It’s scary and confusing but it happens a lot
I wish no one goes through what I went through or what Nate went through
It’s more than that
gotta take that L from dad
That’s scary they really did this, method acting is no joke. Its crazy he really hit his head that ridiculously hard against the floor, he could have killed himself.
Bro nate lost it this is where u need to hug your son and support him ive done what nates done in this clip and im 15 but because i do mma its more "threatening" when i had a breakdown my dad didnt restrain me he just hugged me and that helped me getting better so much
It's like Nate childhood's trauma coming to life.
Ngl I started laughing immediately
You’re weird
We done all been in this position before. Thought we could take our dad’s and they end up putting us in our places to the point we could do nothing but just be mad and start crying.
i swear I see myself in Nate so much
This is right up there with Bryan Cranston's performance in the Crawl Space BB episode.
AGREED
Nate is not a villain. He's just a kid who was traumatized which is not his fault. He became a manipulative misogynist because that's what he learned from his dad.
Thank you!!!!!
Nate’s a serious psychopath who needs serious help… but my heart kinda broke for him. I know what that’s like. I know how defeated you feel, how numb you get afterwards. No one deserves that. It doesn’t excuse any of his actions after, but can’t really say I wouldn’t have seen this coming.
What did his dad do
@@Sing87eh did you.. not watch the video?
It’s the daddy issues for me
I wonder what the mom was thinking downstairs?
"Oh, husband and son fucking again. I shouldn't interrupt. "
1:16 Nate was going Super Saiyan
Jacob Elordi is amazing 👏🏾
This is how Majin Buu reacted when he found out there was no candy in the Time Chamber
that much trauma it's unbelievable that he wouldn't kill him.
Shows what kind of dad he was, he could’ve comforted and apologized to Nate, the least he could’ve done was force Nate to stop hurting himself or stayed in the room until he stopped but he just walks away. No wonder one of the reasons Nate is so fucked up
The infamous scene that gave Jacob Elordi a concussion
hell naw bro nate scary asf 😂😂😂
Was he tryna kiss his dad 💀
I think he was about to bite him
Yes
I think he was trying to intimidate him
He was sizing him up
My wish was that
i know i shouldn't like be in love with nate, but lol i am
Lol well done for 'being in love' with a disgusting, psychotic and manipulative freak
@@GameGuy9100 Gameguy9100 pls calm down, it’s called toxic love smh🙄🙄
@@cam7497 your on something else luv
The people who are sympathizing with Nate... the FU*K is wrong with y’all. He’s literally a metally i’ll person.
They literally all are what the hell ??? Jules, Rue, maddy .. .all of them suffer through something, and all of them are broken and do disgusting shit sometimes
Legit Great Acting!!