LISTEN TO THIS -PARENTS' of upsc aspirants - Divya gupta Ex Asst.Comdt. (CRPF)

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00:00 Discussion on the UPSC exam and competition.
00:47 Personal experience with education and career aspirations.
01:24 Parental influence on career decisions.
02:01 Challenges in decision-making and parental expectations.
02:31 Stress and emotional pressure in exams.
03:05 Anxiety and stress issues faced by students.
03:38 Psychological impact and parental pressure.
04:08 Government job prospects and societal expectations.
04:42 Coping mechanisms and communication challenges.
05:16 Impact of negative videos on students.
05:49 Parental pressure and coping mechanisms.
06:40 Importance of having a backup plan.
07:17 Financial considerations and parental expectations.
07:53 Understanding parental mindset and communication.
08:44 Parental expectations and student pressure.
09:15 Communication challenges with parents.
09:50 Balancing parental pressure and personal aspirations.
10:23 Encouraging students to pursue their own paths.
10:56 Empowering students to make their own choices.
11:33 Lack of parental trust and communication barriers.
12:07 Students struggling with personal issues and parental pressure.
14:25 Parental disconnect, career pressure, motivation.
14:58 Communication with kids, mental health awareness.
15:41 Mentorship for guidance, addressing demotivation, depression, and anxiety.
16:17 Discipline vs. motivation for exams, depression attitudes, disciplined learning.
17:03 Coaching hub pressure, realistic mentorship need.
17:45 Suicide seriousness, parental academic pressure, mental health communication.
18:26 Unrealistic parental expectations, understanding children's struggles.
19:27 Mental health dialogue shift, COVID-19 impact, rising issues.
20:09 Societal Pressure: Parental influence, generational pressure cycle.
20:48 Career Choices: Navigating expectations, individual aspirations, parental support.
21:21 Coping: Personal experiences, parental influence, supportive parents.
22:38 Kids' aspirations: Space needed, parental support.
23:21 Career paths: Competitive exams, smart study, diverse skills.
23:51 Exam advice: Simplify, and focus on strengths, civil services, and defense.
24:28 College trend: CET, post-grad benefits.
25:39 Exam vs. personality, interview prep, tough interviews.
26:42 Mental fitness, interview factors, personality need.
27:16 Defense interviews, leadership, personality.
27:55 Personal growth, self-understanding, interviews, traits.
28:42 Leadership, adaptability, decision-making, failure, mindset.
29:17 Self-awareness, challenges, attitude, interview readiness.
30:31 Discussion on personal information questionnaire.
31:06 Passion for marketing, photography, videography, and podcasting.
31:39 Importance of courage and identification in the army.
32:21 Meaning of name, development, and problem-solving approach.
32:55 Family dynamics and academic achievements.
33:25 Meaning of name in development, discussion on development, and problem-solving.
34:00 Reflections on life experiences and learning from father's death.
34:31 Emotional breakdown in interview and challenges in the army.
35:05 Administrative reforms and selection process for civil services.
35:34 Discuss administrative reforms and recommended psychology tests for UPSC civil services.
36:05 Example of military tests and selection rates.
36:44 Importance of psychology tests for understanding individuals.
37:20 Stressful environments in certain jobs.
37:52 Storytelling and interpretations of narratives.
38:25 Mentalities and perceptions in interviews.
39:05 Various exams and their schedules.
39:44 Discussion on upcoming exams like UPSC and SSC.
41:50 Job options: B.Ed. AC, IDBI Junior Assistant Manager, CDSE, UPSC, forces (CISF, CRPF, ITBP, SSB, BSF), tough exams.
42:28 Forces' exams, tough sections (CDSE, CAPF), subjective parts.
43:05 Subjective paper challenges, rising competition, stages' difficulty.
43:35 CAPF prep: India-Pakistan, Russia-Ukraine war, opinions.
44:07 CAPF stages: entrance, physical, medical tests, interview; mental prep.
45:15 UPSC, CDS, CAPF, criteria, patterns.
46:20 Civil services criteria: age, education, reservations.
46:58 Civil services mains: optional subjects, language exams.
48:17 Self-analysis for better performance.
49:00 Parental support understanding.
49:39 Planning, alternative options.
50:10 Focus on basics, job alignment.
50:39 Feeling pressure to perform, understanding children's capacity.
51:13 Parents should understand children's struggles, guide them.
51:46 Adults must understand their capabilities, focus on strengths.
52:27 Don't fret over failures, explore alternatives, plan for the future.
53:04 Have clarity on what you want to do in life, be practical.
53:39 Have a backup plan, adapt to circumstances, focus on strengths.
54:11 Don't worry if Plan B is needed, stay practical, adapt to challenges.
54:48 Explore options, don't be deterred by setbacks, focus on strengths.

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