My wife of 27 years died last month from cancer, the same month that I retired. I cannot do anything about that. However, I can choose my attitude and how I respond. You are correct, thanks.
@@sammajor2075 I am going to start the application for my visa today. I find that when I am down, exercise and/or hard yard work, cutting, splitting and stacking wood for example helps. When my friends have dragged me out I still strive to be the best dressed wherever we go. The first time was the hardest, when I pulled up in my Vette and they the valet parking staff asked, "Where is your beautiful wife?" That hurt.
I’ve read this book several times and I will read it again if I live. Logotherapy, in my opinion, is Zen for westerners. Another book that should be required reading is “Night” written by Elie Wiesel. I am new to your channel. This installment makes me want to be a regular visitor. Thank you for your good work.
@@Gent.Z "Pretentious" - mmm... not necessarily at least not in the context of that painting. Thomas Hoving, one of the world's greatest art curators includes this in his list of all time greatest works.
I have been having immense struggles for the past 2 months with severe anxiety and depression. At this time of the day, my anxiety and feeling of dread absolutely peaks. I just watched your video, and 4 minutes in I started sobbing like a little girl, and the feeling of relief was unspeakable. Thank you, James. Than you for this video, and all of the rest.
I read this book originally when I lost a person very dear to me. I specifically remember one of the quotes you put up. It's always good to be reminded and be once again mentally reborn and there by rededicate one's self to finding purpose
My character gap would probably be the fact that I have not yet become the author I always wanted to be. Your comment when you said "To fulfill the demand in life" really put into perspective that I do not have to be like other authors, that I do not have to compare my skill constantly to others, that I indeed have the ability to create a universe, a story and all the characters I've been daydreaming and brainstorming about for many years now. Thank you for this message, it made me realise that I can find meaning in simply aknowledging that I can make it my own goal, my own meaning in life.
You're very welcome, I'm glad to have helped inspire you. As someone who spends much of the day writing articles/scripts, I can recommend you set a daily word goal to encourage consistent work and progress
I read Man’s Search for Meaning in high school back in 1970. It probably had a greater impact on shaping my views on life than any other non-religious book I’ve ever read.
A personal gap that i want to fulfill is undeniably how poor and broken I am now to a respected personality, a person who is the sole reason why his parents are respected, a person who will marry the love of his life, a person who will always be remembered as someone who was able to climb up, what seemed like an impossible peak to climb to, flawlessly.
A personal gap I’ve been working on recently is between how wise and disciplined I am now, and how wise and disciplined I will become. It seems like some of the lessons can only be taught by living life, but I want to be the man people can come to for help. Not always for answers, but the courage to not give up and solve problems themselves.
Would love to see more videos on books! I believe you may have a video on some philosophy but it would lead to an interesting video and great discussions
Outstanding subject!! Thank you for sharing this. Powerful information and hopefully will get to the ones that’s in need of hearing this. I continue to encourage you GentZ. What you are doing here is a powerful movement to the mankind. For many they may not see this but for the right ones it will. Thank you🧘🏻♀️🙌✨✨✨💫
This is an excellent discussion topic, which is becoming BAU for you! I wonder if you've ever tuned in to hear Scott Galloway ("ProfG Markets") talk about these things, relative to young men, and how they can find fulfillment in life. He has some great observations that are quite similar to what you're covering here.
My character gap is that I have not strived to become more independent and traveled to other parts of the world yet. This is something I've been wanting to do for a while now because I feel like if I can do this, then I can do virtually anything and be truly happy somehow...
One of the best books I've ever read. I'm glad to see you discuss it and recommend it. Another moving book I love is Andrew Solomon's Far From the Tree.
One gap I see in my life is the professional one. While I feel I've gained some good experience and knowledge in my school and career life up to this point, I know there's more I want to accomplish given my vision for who I want to become and my long-term career vision.
Part of the problem may be that young men - or young people in general - allow social media or other people tell them how masculinity or femininity should be defined. In other words, they "drink the kool-aid" instead of being taught and encouraged to think for themselves. Not all of them, certainly, but I've seen it in my own children but they seem to be moving away from the herd mentality, thank God.
Love this type of videos, will see each one of them in the future. Please talk about the 5AM Club PD My gap would be towards business and entrepreneurship, I don’t want to be in the rat race forever. My goal is to be financially free and a great investor
One gap currently is I would like to meet more women. I am currently 20 years old it is very hard to find someone that is mature. That is a part of my life that is missing right now. I would like to be more social with them.
From Susanne Cook-Greuter's refinement of Loevinger's stages of development, essentially at the highest levels of ego functioning, the criticality of meaning making is discarded. Not in the nihilistic sense, but because meaning making at this stage is understood as just another way for the ego to protect itself. Personally I'd rather remain on the slightly lower, autonomous stage that focuses on self-actualization as the ultimate objective, but it's interesting to see that, in the pursuit of ego transcendence, one apparently must acknowledge that everything people do is done for the ego.
-If you have the choice, read it in german, just like all german philosophers' books are supposed to be read :> -Editions exist, which include a short drama piece with 3 antique philosophers in heaven. "Synchronisation im Birkenwald" -It is a helpful book -It is certainly a good idea to read this book, before hitting rock bottom :>
The timing is ridiculous, I genuinely finished this book last night. WOW Gent Z you're the man
Wow, what a coincidence! Is there anything from this book that you feel I missed out?
My wife of 27 years died last month from cancer, the same month that I retired. I cannot do anything about that. However, I can choose my attitude and how I respond. You are correct, thanks.
Keep your head held high buddy🤝🏻
@@ReinhardVanAstrea. Thank you.
@@sammajor2075 I am going to start the application for my visa today. I find that when I am down, exercise and/or hard yard work, cutting, splitting and stacking wood for example helps. When my friends have dragged me out I still strive to be the best dressed wherever we go. The first time was the hardest, when I pulled up in my Vette and they the valet parking staff asked, "Where is your beautiful wife?" That hurt.
My condolences, and stay strong!!
I’ve read this book several times and I will read it again if I live. Logotherapy, in my opinion, is Zen for westerners.
Another book that should be required reading is “Night” written by Elie Wiesel.
I am new to your channel. This installment makes me want to be a regular visitor. Thank you for your good work.
What a wonderfully deep topic. Your channel has grown so much over the several months that I’ve been watching. Great job.
00:01 "Wanderer Above The Mist" - one of my favorite paintings!
I had a huge print of this framed above my fireplace when I was an 18-year-old student in London. Needless to say, I was quiet a pretentious student.
On my desktop.
@@Gent.Z "Pretentious" - mmm... not necessarily at least not in the context of that painting. Thomas Hoving, one of the world's greatest art curators includes this in his list of all time greatest works.
I have been having immense struggles for the past 2 months with severe anxiety and depression. At this time of the day, my anxiety and feeling of dread absolutely peaks. I just watched your video, and 4 minutes in I started sobbing like a little girl, and the feeling of relief was unspeakable. Thank you, James. Than you for this video, and all of the rest.
I read this book originally when I lost a person very dear to me. I specifically remember one of the quotes you put up. It's always good to be reminded and be once again mentally reborn and there by rededicate one's self to finding purpose
My character gap would probably be the fact that I have not yet become the author I always wanted to be. Your comment when you said "To fulfill the demand in life" really put into perspective that I do not have to be like other authors, that I do not have to compare my skill constantly to others, that I indeed have the ability to create a universe, a story and all the characters I've been daydreaming and brainstorming about for many years now. Thank you for this message, it made me realise that I can find meaning in simply aknowledging that I can make it my own goal, my own meaning in life.
You're very welcome, I'm glad to have helped inspire you. As someone who spends much of the day writing articles/scripts, I can recommend you set a daily word goal to encourage consistent work and progress
@@Gent.Z That is an advice I have not encountered before. I will take it to heart, thank you very much!
Being a gentlemen not just about how you appear or just your demeaner but how you think. Thanks James!
I read Man’s Search for Meaning in high school back in 1970. It probably had a greater impact on shaping my views on life than any other non-religious book I’ve ever read.
A personal gap that i want to fulfill is undeniably how poor and broken I am now to a respected personality, a person who is the sole reason why his parents are respected, a person who will marry the love of his life, a person who will always be remembered as someone who was able to climb up, what seemed like an impossible peak to climb to, flawlessly.
A personal gap I’ve been working on recently is between how wise and disciplined I am now, and how wise and disciplined I will become. It seems like some of the lessons can only be taught by living life, but I want to be the man people can come to for help. Not always for answers, but the courage to not give up and solve problems themselves.
Would love to see more videos on books! I believe you may have a video on some philosophy but it would lead to an interesting video and great discussions
Outstanding subject!! Thank you for sharing this. Powerful information and hopefully will get to the ones that’s in need of hearing this. I continue to encourage you GentZ. What you are doing here is a powerful movement to the mankind. For many they may not see this but for the right ones it will. Thank you🧘🏻♀️🙌✨✨✨💫
Great seeing you talk about literature! More of this please, every gentleman needs (good!) literature in his life!
This is an excellent discussion topic, which is becoming BAU for you! I wonder if you've ever tuned in to hear Scott Galloway ("ProfG Markets") talk about these things, relative to young men, and how they can find fulfillment in life. He has some great observations that are quite similar to what you're covering here.
Thanks. I have been familiar with Scott Galloway since his 'never be at home' controversy but I am yet to explore his ideas further
I love this type of videos. Congrats!
42.
*You win the game of life. Congratulations!*
My character gap is that I have not strived to become more independent and traveled to other parts of the world yet. This is something I've been wanting to do for a while now because I feel like if I can do this, then I can do virtually anything and be truly happy somehow...
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Phillipians 4:13
One of the best books I've ever read. I'm glad to see you discuss it and recommend it. Another moving book I love is Andrew Solomon's Far From the Tree.
Keep posting videos like this, James!
Great video James, the truth is the meaning of life is finding God!
Bravo
One gap I see in my life is the professional one. While I feel I've gained some good experience and knowledge in my school and career life up to this point, I know there's more I want to accomplish given my vision for who I want to become and my long-term career vision.
I'm reading this very book right now! Amazing lessons for life.
Part of the problem may be that young men - or young people in general - allow social media or other people tell them how masculinity or femininity should be defined. In other words, they "drink the kool-aid" instead of being taught and encouraged to think for themselves. Not all of them, certainly, but I've seen it in my own children but they seem to be moving away from the herd mentality, thank God.
❤ Thank you for sharing!
Love this type of videos, will see each one of them in the future. Please talk about the 5AM Club
PD My gap would be towards business and entrepreneurship, I don’t want to be in the rat race forever. My goal is to be financially free and a great investor
Great video. Thanks!
An overweight boy in 20s with no enthusiasm to achieve big in life to ideally fit,rich,charismatic gentleman .
One gap currently is I would like to meet more women. I am currently 20 years old it is very hard to find someone that is mature. That is a part of my life that is missing right now. I would like to be more social with them.
What methods are you currently using to meet more women?
@@Gent.Z I am trying to text more on social media and talk to more in person. But that does not seem to be going anywhere.
@@drewbuatti8124are you working on yourself?
It's not a gap. It's a chasm.
Thou hast made us for thyself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee (Jesus).
Please make a detailed video on Marlon Brando .
I want to be surrendered by new and innovative creative and artistic ideas and make money from it
From Susanne Cook-Greuter's refinement of Loevinger's stages of development, essentially at the highest levels of ego functioning, the criticality of meaning making is discarded.
Not in the nihilistic sense, but because meaning making at this stage is understood as just another way for the ego to protect itself. Personally I'd rather remain on the slightly lower, autonomous stage that focuses on self-actualization as the ultimate objective, but it's interesting to see that, in the pursuit of ego transcendence, one apparently must acknowledge that everything people do is done for the ego.
-If you have the choice, read it in german, just like all german philosophers' books are supposed to be read :>
-Editions exist, which include a short drama piece with 3 antique philosophers in heaven. "Synchronisation im Birkenwald"
-It is a helpful book
-It is certainly a good idea to read this book, before hitting rock bottom :>