When You Feel Like You Can't Go On - Waiting for the Tide
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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
- What do I do when nothing seems to work? All of the those tools just don't have any use. When I've felt like I can't go on, sometimes it's actually a signal to stop trying to move and be still.
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It's been hell for me lately! Depression and anxiety can be so brutal!!
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😢keep strong it will life I suffer struggling to cope at times
I feel the exaxt same if I am bringing completely honest with you, sending you love ❤
Hope you’re ok?
yes
Ugh. That’s where I m at. My meds, books, nothing works…. Nothing.
I’m numb right now…. Nothjng matters…. So I just wait.
Consider praying to Jesus for deliverance 🙏
same rightn now
Please know, or be reassured, that you are indeed saving lives out here my friend! Simply by being a friend to absolute strangers. It’s difficult to make people in our lives understand what we feel SO deeply but can’t seem to articulate into anything relatable to them. I appreciate hearing your perspective and your heart. Thank you for being a great human being 🌸
thank you for representing us 🤍
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This brings so much comfort without any judgements but only understanding🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️, no one can ever get it before, not even my therapist😫🥹😭😭
Ive been working this out for 41 years. Im damn tired.
I hope one day you feel less heavy ❤ much love to you
@@AnnaTheAGgirl Thank you 😊. ❤️ To you. ✨
It’s painful and crazy making. No escapez
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The world is now a cold, cruel, selfish, competitive place...
I think it’s because we feel lonely in our minds and we feel like we either still don’t know our true self or that your friends or other people you know don’t know or understand you deep inside enough to the level you desire. It’s also a bit of boredom, lack of feeling safe and loved and feeling unsatisfied with everything because we don’t feel the intensity of love we want. But I think the only way is to lower our expectations, live with gratitude and keep exploring. Another thing is maybe your friends and family don’t talk to you in the same intellectual way. Maybe you want to talk about the universe, more abstract, more philosophical and theories about anything such as life, certain events that happened etc. Which sparks thinking rather than the talks about mundane topics but what I learned is to not care so much and enjoy the time with your friends. If you don’t have any, I know how it feels, I only have two friends and I see other people with social activities all the time and I’m just at home alone with my parents all the time and it makes me feel like I’m unloved especially when I’m not with my friends, but it’s okay, just pray. I just graduated from University and I noticed that I began to have developed this void from time to time in my heart and it’s honestly scary, I would feel empty, bored and don’t enjoy anything at all, usually I don’t know if it’s because I feel lonely and miss my two best friends or my intuition is telling me to aim for something bigger or I need to change.
crying uncontrollably and completely exhausted. the intro alone already brought me comfort and i started crying again not out of of pain but of relief because its OK to feel this way... thank you so much
I feel so trapped & crippled by fear that I cannot be myself because so much rejection has broken me.
This is depression. It comes when you least expect it, it doesn't allow you to breathe, to smile, to think clearly, to meet new people, to have new friends, to have friends, to have a relationship, to have kids, to be good at your job. I've wasted too many relationships (girlfriends and friends) because of this shit, and that costs me so much. That is the most horrible thing, I cannot get anyone back.
"There should be some kind of thing you can do", that is what my father says all the time. He doesn't get it. My mother doesn't even know what that is. She cares but she doesn't know, she's completely obsessed with work and getting things done.
My advice to all of you: please do not lose touch with your loved ones, and with friends as well. This is of sum importance. Do not let depression win, because if you let it, you will end up like me: not being able to do anything, only work in a job that pays but I don't like that much, go to the gym to try to gain confidence ( can barely speak with anyone there ).
Just rented an apartment now to be with myself, don't want to go there. No sign of enthusiasm, no will, no nothing. Bad times, so many bad times. Desperate. I cannot even imagine how can people without support can pass through this hell. Because this is hell. Hell on earth. It's summer, 35 degrees Celsius, everyone at the beach or at the pool or whatever, just being happy. And here I lay, watching RUclips and crying myself to sleep because of what I did, because of what I did not do, because of depression. This is a real disease, unfortunately.
Hope you all have a wonderful and meaningful life. You can and you will find the good times, they will come. At least peaceful ones. 😊
Thanks for saying that, sometimes I feel like I’m the only one feeling like this
You described it well
@@sandydiana8971feeling the same Thankyou we all will heal soon❤❤❤❤
Thankyouu I know we all will heal soon❤❤❤❤
I know it’s been a few months but I hope you are doing better no. These words literally feel like they’ve been pulled out of my tongue. This is what I am experiencing at the moment and it feels like there’s nowhere for me to go ti feel some hope in this life.
Being broke with no way out is real depression. Not really fixable.
There have been times when I’ve thought I really really can’t do this anymore. There’s too much pain and it’s exhausting to even begin to uncover the layers. Just driving down the road and breaking down in tears because of a deep sadness you can’t even really explain.
Scott, I speak for many people when I say "We Love You". Thanks for the years of helping us all feel a little better a lot of the time. God Bless You!
Scott. It is so great that you are sharing your story. I am a Psychologist. I feel like I connect with people who are struggling, suffering even because I have been through depression, trauma and anxiety. All still come and go but I accept this is just life, my life. I do not fight it or run anymore. I wrap up in my feelings whatever they may be at any given time. I, for sure prefer happy, fun, joy and deep peace. They come and go too. But everything belongs. I'm less afraid of the un-preferred emotions. I believe I am better for all my experiences. You are courageous and a warrior in a world that blames and shames a person for not being or appearing happy all the time. God Bless You!!!!
you're putting words to the unspeakable thoughts of my soul
I cried every minute of the video, I didn't even knew I needed to hear this. Thank you for every word and for being here ❤️❤️
Same
.... Sometimes in life you diagnosed with a disease, Parkinson's feature's, that tears your world apart... And brings about depression and anxiety. Life is not fair. I guess I just have to deal with life the way it is right now. Sure wish things were different. I guess that's called wishful thinking right? Thank you Scott. I too cry.
Thank you for being gentle and non-judgmental. Thank you for the kindness I didn't get from those around me. Thank you for understanding. I am grateful for you. God bless you.
You made me cry...
u r an angel...
I´ve got the most awful depression in my entire life
I just break down and cry without any judgment - deep sobbing - go through it rather than try to shove it under the rug. don't be afraid to morn - just dont' hang out there too long.
If u cannot go onn!!! Just pray!! Pray and wait!!! Wait...
Thank you. Waiting is surrender. Surrender is liberation…and peace❤
Its 2:00am and i m feeling like shit....my heart is pounding fast and having difficulty in breathing.....
I HAVE BEEN ALIVE THANKS TO YOU
ive been stuck here for 20 years wirh hopes for change...now i cant anymore....now i am ready for this to end
Hey pal, how are you doing?
@@ValentinaWithFeathers Valentina... thank u for checking on me... I'm still here... but nothing has changed ... ur sweet 🙏🏼😍
@@heladds I'm glad you're still here, although it sucks that nothing has changed. I really hope things turn around for you soon. So many of us are struggling, we need to take care of each other ❤️
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Thank you for being so comforting and compassionate. Needed this kindness right now as I’m struggling with unaliving thoughts.
Thanks scott brother i've been really hopeless mostly all of the time this year.
Thank you Scott, you're a very wise and sensitive soul, it's so evident! And what a beautiful voice you have also. Thank you for providing much needed comfort ❤
I’m so grateful that I didn’t stop searching for the message I desperately needed to hear. This message. And the one on feeling lost. Your messages are life saving. Very deep thank you!
it's been heavy for me lately 🥺 completely agree with you scott, thanks for sharing ❤in the name of the father, son and holy spirit
and pray, like you did, i always do this. whenever i feel restless. god bless you❤
You need to be in it. To feel it. To let it be. And when you release it by feeling it, without any intervation, it comes out as light
Hi Guys i have suffered from depression too for like over 1 and a half year during 2018 to 2019.I can still imagine that how bad and worst time that was,i was on the brink of emotional collapse, couldn't sleep, left job, doesn't wanted to go outside,constant negative thoughts, panic attacks, sadness, suicidal thoughts to etc.I had tried so many counseling sessions, mindfulness,yoga but nothing doesn't seem to work.
My turning point was when i went to a very good psychiatrist and he prescribed me the exact medicine which i needed in that time after suffering so much but that was a little slow progress towards normal life.
I decided to push myself as hard as i can,First and biggest thing that i started was turning myself to my God,started praying regularly which brought massive peace of mind inside me.
I started going for jogging and gym which was extremely difficult thing to do but there was no option left for me honestly,was literally crying while exercise but didn't lose hope coz i knew that it is the way to peace and life.
The last and final thing was to start going to work and it was like pushing a mountain with one hand but hung in there for my betterment.
Now for last 2 years no medicines,no panic attacks,no anxiety,no sadness etc nothing,Yes i still have some bad days like once in a 2,3 months but i guess that's totally normal as this happens with everyone.
My massage is to Pray God (Allah) five times a day which is a key,Stay active,Work or go to job u can stay focused and stay away from bad thoughts,do most difficult tasks that makes u more stronger mentally and emotionally.If someone needs any guidance i am available to help,thanks
Thank you very much.
Man I can't go on. Living this way. In grief it seems. For the little time we call life.
I feel that too!! Grief is horrible..!
I lost my wife,
My Mother,
My Grandmother,... I was stressing so inhumanly hard,.. with anxiety,.... then, Damit I lost my career job after decades! I tried to return, but.. unable.
At least with my job, and the friends, coworkers etc...I could have handled. I lost everything I had. I was so scared, I got horrible anxiety, insomnia,... and depression.
I'm in a dark place now,.no desire, interest, hope.... in the park now,..
Hope you're doing better 🙏
Thank you. I found your channel at a time of pain and great need. You helped me so much! I know God led me to you. You are providing a great blessed service. I pray God will continue to guide you and multiply your blessings.
I can not tell how grateful I am to discovered this channel... I have a really hard time right now.. And nothing calmed me down like your videos.!
We need your cover of the song on spotify. Keep singing, you have an amazing voice
As I contemplate the "why go on", this pops up. I will listen and HOPE for a speck of why.
Thank you for this. I feel so scared and lonely right now. I feel completely trapped. It is so hard, anyone who is going through this I am so so sorry. Please try to be kind to yourself. I have returned to this video so many times over the past 6 months when I feel like I am on the edge. I hope one day I won’t have to return here again. I will never forget your kindness, one of the only things getting me through.
No support system. No family . No close friends . This is a living hell fighting every day to want to stay alive. I am 60 in a rural area working odd shift.
People my age have their kids , families and or friends . I am stuck doing this myself.
The last two therapists left the toxic healthcare system i work at. The last one I really connected with so that was a blow.
This hell has been bulding my entire life starting with death of parent at age 6.
I am afraid to call people. I cant force myself. I have isolated for so long and gotten to a place of such desperation because if anyone knew the depth of this depression and anxiety, the fact that I lay down all day and night. Procrastinating on responsibilities and not doing them.
I wish I had someone to tell me that everything will be okay.
I have not had a real hug or felt really connected on a heart level and felt loved in so long I dont remember what it felt like. I dont mean romantic love actually I could not handle that level of intimacy, unless that person Was a saint and wanted to work with me while i healed
the embarrasment of how I have been living is too much to share with someone.
I pray for God to take me everyday.
Fellowship at a church may ease the need for connection. Maybe even volunteer for a hotline to be a comforting soul for others in despair.
Love and warm hugs to all. Thank you Scott.😢❤
You are an angel and your videos are so valuable. Thank you.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for understanding. Depression is just unbearable. Appreciate your sincerity and honesty.
Your voice and your words are so soothing. Thanks for your work and for sharing your soul and your personal experiences with the world. So appreciated! I am going through depression caused by many things which I do understand but still, the sadness and the depression just don't lift. I am learning and growing with your channel. Thank you
this is beautiful. thank you
insightful. thank you.
thank you so much ❤️❤️
Thank you for this 🥺
I NEEDED THIS THANK YOU SCOTT
I’m so glad I found your videos again I’m tired of watching videos about abuse 😢
Hi Scott,
I asked spirit what I needed to know and here I am seeing you.
I am going through a massive change in my life.
This change started 2020.
During my anger, frustration, humiliation, fear, self loathing, depression and grief to name just a few emotions, I was introduced to a wonderful analogy.
When you're waiting, it's like spirit planting you for a new journey.
Just like a seed that lives in the dark, in time it will grow big enough to push through and into the sun.
I'm at the new plant phase. I've reached big enough to see the sun.
Now I am growing into the plant of this new journey.
Getting bigger and stronger.
I've learnt the lesson, it is happening for me and not too me.
I understand what was no longer in my best interest has now been removed.
I didn't pay attention to the sign posts spirits gave.
So I ended in a dark night of the soul. A journey that has taken 3 years to find the sun.
That's ok, I'm ok that it did.
I've learnt a lot about myself, my loves, hopes, desires, needs and wants, and embracing who I am.
I no longer feel the debilitating feelings I did in the beginning.
I'm in a better job, I have work life balance.
I'm selling my house and looking forward to a new journey for my daughters and I.
You still seem to be struggling with the why of depression.
Have you looked at what brings you joy? Are you doing more of that? Following intuition?
Clearly from today's video, you're able to channel. Maybe it's time to explore more of your spiritual gifts.
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I want this. Still sort of trapped.
@@visionvixxen you are just trapped in your limiting beliefs.💕
@visionvixxen I was stuck through 2021 and 2022. I get it. Take a moment to breath. When you get an intuitive hit to go for a walk, follow it. When your body says I need rest, follow it.
Take notice of signs around you. I see signs through my day. I say thank you for repeating numbers. I got a music symbol in cotton in my laundry. Since 2020, I have never seen so many rainbows.
Attitude of gratitude. You've got this 🧡✨️⚘️
Great chat brother. This helps A LOT. Perfect metaphor for depression. Going through a horrible time right now.
This helped me a lot, thank you for doing this and being you!
Great talk, much love
THANK YOU! 🥺
Beautiful reminder and message, thank you💙
Ah finally!
A freaking friend!!!!! 😢😊
In a world that encourages you to use your pain to "self-develop," it's hard to feel like anyone sits with the pain but rather runs. I've done that many times, with great success, but this time I couldn't run or "self-develop" out of it. This is the first video that felt like a breath of fresh air after drowning. So thank you for that, you are worth more than gold.
This is very authentic. Thank you.
Beautiful ❤️🙏🏻🇬🇧
Thank you so much, this is what I needed to hear today. ❤🙏
Thank you Scott.
Thank you!! I really needed this validation and compassion.
I just found your channel and you’re amazing. Thank you for what you’re doing and keep on going :)
Thank you so much
this explains everything i was searching for a long time. thank you for this ♥️
This is so authentic, thank you sir 🫡
Thanks Scott 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I needed to watch a video like this ❤ Thank you ❤✨🥲
Thank you.
Thank you Scott. And we hope you are well 🙏🏾
Beautiful, and the closing with the song, awesome...❤
cried, felt, thank you
Great timing to hear this message, have had a rough couple of weeks. Thank you Scott. (Been subscribed for many yrs, since your D2E days. 🙂)
Some how this is everything I needed right now. Thank you 🙏🏻
you are saving my life
Thankuuu sooo much!!!
Thank you. I’m really struggling and just came across your channel. Might be just what I need.
You are so beautiful. I wish I had a friend like you. I’m hanging on by a thread, feeling like I can’t go on. Thank you for your time in recording this. ❤
You have a beautiful voice!
Thank you for sharing your videos, Scott. You don't go unnoticed, and you've helped so many people.
Yes, totally agree with the last person's statement. Love to you, friend
Hi Scott I just found your channel and i understand perfectly what you're talking about!!!!!Send you a big hug from Italy.
You helped save me with this one brother
Thank you, I just found your videos and just sitting at the park in tears and really glad that you made these video.
You literally saved my life with these videos:) thanks Scott ❤️
Just wanna say thank you. You give me hope. ❤
You’ re a nice guy. Thank you 😊
It's beyond difficult, you are so right about that
thank you thank you thank you
Thank you very much Sir. Your video came up at the right time. ❤ felt so comforted after.
Scott thank you for positing ! You vids make me feel a bit better
You definitely went through it because you were on point with what I am going through. Unfortunately, I just don't see myself out of this one. Thanks for doing what you are doing.
You will get out of it
I have been feeling like this for too long..
Why not?
Hey! Just found your channel 2 days ago as I was ill and staying at home far away from all close family and friends.
Thank you for your vulnerability and for creating this space for us to stay with our pain and process it in your presence and with your insights.
I'm beyond grateful and feel so held and understood.
May great blessings come your way :)
I have similar experience! I found this channel yesterday while I self-Isolate
I Love this guy
Back again Scott. I come back here every time I am in crisis. It’s like a stab in the chest, I feel frozen but this time is different. This time I am choosing to let go of control. I am choosing to accept myself. I know that things will work out for me and I pray for all of you. Life can be absolutely brutal but you are strong enough, you can do this, even if in this moment you feel like you don’t. You are not alone my friend. Darkness does not last forever and I am sending love to you. Please be kind to yourself❤
Love you for helping me
Thank you beautiful Soul!🙏❤️
I love your channel so much Scott, always eternally grateful for your insights & inspired to give my own some day. THANK YOU 🙏🏾
It’s beautiful that even though you’re still going through it, you still benefit our lives with your support. We need that kind of connection. I truly hope you find yourself one year not having had any depression all year. I want you to be well. Yet, while you’re here in the trenches with us, fighting this war with depression while at the same time just accepting it and allowing healing, we are grateful for you
I am so glad I came across this video. I could relate to each and every word that you said. Was in tears the whole time. This really gave me hope. Thank you!
You have no idea how this video save me, thank u