What To Do When Dating Someone Who Is Being More Distant Than Usual

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If you're dating someone or in a relationship with someone and you start to realize that they're being a bit more distant than usual, you can feel inclined to want to reach out to them or try to ask them about what it is that is up with them.
But this is a time where they actually need to reflect, and giving them that space allows you to also reflect on the partnership and relationship that you both have together.
By pressing them into a conversation, what it's actually doing is showing how attached you are to someone rather than understanding that yourself is the experience that you're giving them, and themself is the experience that they're giving you.
Giving them this time to process will allow things to happen naturally. Let them come back when they're ready to come back, and if it's something that's prolonged, then it just shows you the truth of the relationship and the truth of the situation.
If someone is not trying to communicate with you or interact with you, let things happen naturally and see what the truth is, because if somebody really wants to have a conversation or something up, they will mention something, and they will be the one to bring something up.
So in conclusion, coming from a place of observation rather than instigation will give you the reality of the situation.