I have friend who I told her not to marry the man she is with. Well she did it anyway. She calls me crying all the time, he now abuses her, abuses their children. It's just a mess. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of the enemy. What does that mean? Means friends will tell you the truth even if it hurts your feelings, but your enemy will kiss your butt & tell you lies, & you'll end up in a pit.
Been in that gutter myself now trying to come out that experience has change me,I became an emotional wreck,crying behind a man who probably never truly like me at all
There are too many people who get into relationships that ends up damaging them. I think we all need about 1-3 friends that can straight up tell us the truth when we ask for it. Then we can decide whether to take their advice or not
You also have to take into consideration that these friends most likely did say something, however that person turns a deaf ear so after a while no one says anything because the person in question refuses to listen so they (the friends) have to take a step back and let that situation play itself out. Most of the time that person usually ends up getting hurt then questions why no one said anything.
I agree. Only after studying the guy or girl for a good while. Is he/she cheating, doing drugs, treating each other bad, making nasty remarks about her all the time, etc. then as a good honest sincere friend I would tell them once and only once especially if asked, and especially before they marry have kids and end up in a nasty divorce and those kids suffering. No! No!
This is a no... if your home girl is in a toxic relationship you need to try to help her do better #period if you can’t come and talk to your friend about things like that then are y’all really friends 💀
Depends on the Friend. Some women will cut you off as a friend if you have bad information to share. Most women know if the man is doing wrong anyway they choose to stay.
Bad relationships don't teach us what we want & don't want in relationships, ...we already know what we want & don't want in relationships. We just end up tolerated a bunch of BS to try and make it work
@@ThePlumbobiana Facts i used to be idealistic and think "yea i will just acept her however she is" but when you are in a real relationship you realize just how much you cant and shouldnt deal with.
Depends on the friend. Some people you already know will not accept the information from you, even if it's your best friend. It's not always about who you are as a person. Sometimes we have friends we love and accept for who they are and sometimes they are not ready to accept or they like to be in denial. We know eventually they will find out. I have some friends I know I can tell and some that I wouldn't tell.
No matter what, a friend should have an opinion on friend's bf's. If it's coming from a loving & sincere place, does it really matter if she stops being your friend and chooses the partner? It's part of our roles as friends to have opinions on partners. However, let it be short and straight to the point in a loving & sincere fashion. Not saying anything is more dangerous.
If it was sincere, no matter the separation, you'll always win. Love wins in the end. but not saying anything is wicked. It's not love. It's like seeing someone going into a fire and not saying anything. Say something, at least if they dont listen and get burned, not like u didnt say anything at all. It's love. Don't worry about loosing a friendship. May loose them anyway
Would I tell my good friend? Not until I find out what's going on. I'd send a drink or make myself visible somehow. Then send a quick text to my girl like, "Hey girl, what are you & "Steve" doing tonight? Wanna grab some drinks?" If she's like "can't tonight because "Steve" is meeting a business partner or whatever" then I'm like, okay--raincheck. But if she's like, "Steve" is stuck at the office or out of town, I'm acting a plum fool--a classy plum fool, LOL!
kgoldmon you too nosy lol. Send yo drinks I'm drink them and still NOT acknowledge your there. Lol jus kidding I would drink ur drinks an say thanks rofl
Right and beside if it was a business lunch, dinner, breakfast, whatever, then when I call her it wouldnt or shouldnt be a problem, cuz she would already know.
I love Keri. Such a well put together human being. I would want a friend like Keri. I don't want someone who only cares about having me around but would allow me to make a mistakes that I can't see. I understand some women are too damn thirsty and will flip on you at the drop of a hat for trying to protect them. I can't be friends with that anyway. Those are the type of women who need to be alone with their mess. They need to see for themselves so they can fix it themselves unless there are children who didn't sign up for it envolved. How many decades has to go by where women will repeat the same mistakes of the past? If he hits you one time he will do it again. Next time he thinks it's okay. IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOUR CHILDREN (it is not your children's fault), YOU MOTHER, YOUR FAMILY, he doesn't love you or respect you and he'll be damn if he makes you his only one. Stop worshiping these men as if They're GOD.
I'm not telling anyone about their relationship because she should kno more than me she living it so why tell her what she already kno ......and what u don't kno won't hurt and I ain't hurting no one feeling so I see nothing
I agree with Dr Tiffani. Telling your friend about their cheating partner creates more harm than good. Let people live their experiences and learn from it.
🗣🗣🗣 Then y’all not friends! If a friend can’t disagree with what you’re saying and carries you differently as a friend after you gave an opinion, y’all not real friends. You shouldn’t have to tiptoe around a friend if you have each other’s best interest in mind.
I think that there is a level of confusion that needs to be cleared in order for things to be back on track. Like in the example Steve just explained with "would you tell your friend, that her husband is out eating dinner with another women" and this women is a part of a business meeting, The married women should have already been notified about it from her husband ahead of time. And if not and they aren't getting physical or showing signs of emotional connection then the friend should watch to keep an eye out for her best friend.
Girls need to stop being nosey. Live your life and let others live theirs. God will work things out. iIf they are not right for each other, God will move things around to help them make a change.
Here's what I've realized about their relationship. You can tell people what you feel you see they will do whatever they want. Its wasting your breath.
When your first marriage fails, you should be more open to your loved ones' opinions. The more marriages you fail, the more open you should be because at some point, your judgment might not be the best. Now, if the reason your marriages failed is because you let too much outside noise enter the relationship, then you should do the opposite and stop discussing your relationships.
I agree w Keri! If I see that my friend not getting treated right by her dude, I will just casually be asking questions to lead her into the topic and try to let her figure it out. And if she doesn't... I will just straight up tell her my opinion lol. But I'll phrase it like "Idk I feel like you have become more insecure bc of this dude than before". Like make it about how the relationship is affecting HER not about him.
Also I would tell my friend if I saw her bf with another woman. I'd obviously observe a little and try to read the situation. But if it looks flirty, I'd definitely casually drop it in the convo like "Oh yeah I saw Steve last night! He was at Mobu with some blonde woman?".
That's none of my business, I'm not sleeping with him, or got to like him. Now if I had concern where he is abusive, drug addict, etc then I will pull her to the side and voice my opinion. But still it's none of my business.
Y'all friends are delicate! If i don't like the guy am gonna say it straight up Might even tell him too..depending on how much i don't like him But am not the person that gonna try get in the middle of a relationship voicing your opinion isn't the samething as breaking up someone's relationship And i shouldn't have to fear that our friendship would break apart if i tell her y i don't like her boyfriend Am not an actor so y ama act like i like him... and i wouldn't want her to b acting like she like my bf either
"Don't let me dictate who you should or shouldn't hang out with, because that's your business. But I believe you need to take your time and think about what you're getting yourself into."
If it’s a ‘business dinner’ I’d still send over a drink and see his reaction to seeing me and go from there. If it’s just BUSINESS he will have nothing to worry about.
I love that the celebrities are giving advice!!!!! This is awesome because you get to see that it doesn't matter how big of a star you are or your profession you still can go through relationship trials and tribulations too. Love Keri Hilson's advice!!!! She looks beautiful. Steve is choosing amazing strong women for the panel which is great 👍🏽 job because it shows everyone experiences dating ups and down or relationships stories too.
Depends on the friend. Even then I'm not judging. As far as seeing the man out with another woman, I'm with Dr. Tiffany. You never know, but I'll keep an eye out for my friend. There's a fine line between being a good friend and being messy.
Real friends serve the hardcore truth to each other so they get the point and they don't need to search through hints of niceness with questions and all that BS call it like it is let your friend know what you see that they don't.
I think it depends on the type of friend you have i have a cousin and she ALWAYS looking for love in the wrong guys even after she asked you for advice about them and then you tell her he's the wrong one she dates them anyways and me and my other cousins ashtrays bringing her proof cards she asks for it then she ends up out of no where stops talking to us cause she feels we too shady then when she realizes they not the one she wants to start back talking to us as nothing happened
Like they say here, maybe you should try and help her realize by herself that the guy is bad for her, not just tell her straight up...ask her questions, like does he have the most important things she wants in a man, how is he different/better from the last guy, how does he treat her & how does that make her feel? etc...get her really thinking about it & discovering for herself that he doesn't make her feel good vs just telling her stuff that she might not see in her infatuation haze...if it comes from herself it's easier to acknowledge & harder to ignore.
Voicu Violeta we don't give her that information cause we know our cousin but she's the one that asks us to find out about the guy get all the tea from the person she's the kind of person that likes to asks for advice just to be asking and then if it ain't what she wants to hear she gets mad
Tiffany (the other black lady) can't let no one talk. OMG. Keri was talking 1st at one point and she just cut her off & looked at Keri like Keri in the wrong. Bissssshhhh. Bye.
No no no....I don't tell my friends, "What do you think about my guy?" Girlfriends leave too......believe me!!! Affairs of the heart are mine and mine alone.......period!
Depending on the Type of person she is and the man is. how well do you know the anger in a person someone can end up dead or in jail. that's not easy, I would not want my big mouth to be part of a very bad outcome. anger and pain.....
I trust my friends to have correct discernment about the man I’m dating! Those friends that don’t say anything but when we break up have the loudest opinion- to the left! But anyway I peep red flags during the talking stages because I don’t have time to waste
ADVICE NEEDED...I recently just told my cousin I don't like her bf 🙄 (she then said he's her fiancee now 😱). They come as a couple to a bar we all frequent & it's fine when she's THERE but baby listen...when she's not there he does the absolute most! & I feel disrespected FOR her! Smh Like dude has no respect for their relationship. She's has/had a health issue & he had a baby while with her, & they don't have children together. Someone tell me what should I do/say, if anything?! It's like if I know she's aware of him & she's cool with it...I can turn a blind eye but if she's not & he's selling her dream & I say nothing & she gets hurt AGAIN...I'll feel like I betrayed her in some way. I'd personally want to know. I want to be able to trust my man when I'm not around. This just makes me sad.
I have a friend that is 19 and in college. She dating a 26 year old who just quit his job as server, lives with his mom, no car and never has any money. He has one bill to pay and it’s his phone and he lets that get turned off. Smh he is no good. He tells her to quit school and he will take care of her. How???
I have my own policy: tell them once what I think, specifically say I'm not going to bug them about it but I want to at least tell them my concerns once. And I don't bring it up again.
Wth I would expect my friend to tell me and I would tell her. I am honest with my friend but at the end of the day I respect that it's her life and her choice. I am going to express my honest opinion though
If you love someone you try to protect them no matter how bad it makes you look. Just think of your children, you wouldn't withhold your concern for fear of looking bad, you would attempt to protect them out of sincere love. It's easy to stay out of someone's business and just keep things simple if you don't actually care about the person ..,
There's a episode of one of those Court shows where a woman accused a man of cheating he said he wasn't cheating she cut off his dreads then it was found out that the woman that her friend claim to seen him cheating with was actually his cousin from out of town. You have to know all the facts before coming to somebody with something like that
If I don't have any concrete proof, no.I lost my lifelong best friend because of this very issue. His girlfriend is not a good person, at all. She cheats,she's always falling out of clubs, a thirst trap queen, gold digger, lies,steals,abusive, negligent, just plain horrid.I tried to say something to my now ex best friend. It failed. She was flat out rude and disrespectful to me.I tried to get along, to no avail. He,my friend, would not step in, so friendship over. It's very tricky.
Someone I know jumped into a rebound relationship where at one point his personal safety became an issue. I didn't say anything or voice my feelings because an argument would ensue and he would see my saying this to him as me being jealous (even though I'm not). One of his good friends gave him advice on what to do in this situation which he took with no hesitation. Bottom line...people are going to listen to whomever they want because they're saying what that person wants to hear and using it as validation to (try to) make a bad situation look good to the rest of the world, even though they know in their hearts and minds it's not. When you speak the truth, you become the enemy even though you honestly and truly have their best interests at heart.
Dont go up to the table!...if he knows you saw him, he is going to prepare an excuse, set up others to lie etc. Take the pic video etc and present it to her. Remember this could actually be his relative business contact etc, so dont be going over there and dont be reading stuff into it, just tell her the date, time, and show the video & pics. Now if you can get in the bathroom and manage to pick her mouth even better...I'd record that too if possible. Then my friend can make up her mind with as much info as possible.
Don’t just tell your friend outta no where phrasing it like he’s doing something wrong. Just be like “Hey I saw x with out today with a girl I don’t know just wanted to let you know” that’s it don’t plant any doubt in her mind that. You can’t be too involved in someone else’s relationship
I’ve always been the type of woman who ask questions so she can discern for herself. A woman should always tell the next woman to “stay alert, pay attention and close your legs..”
YES. If they ignore you, stay there when the trouble comes. Rub it in they're face a year later when you're ragging on each other over ice cream like friends do
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Keri Hilson is beautiful. Omg.
even though I don't know who you are referring to, I would say NO
Luis Salguero ok ?
agree
you're talking about the tall one don't you? then no, she's regular
I came here just to say that! When she first came out I just thought she was blah/okay
My husband said he had a crush on her, I see why.
I have friend who I told her not to marry the man she is with. Well she did it anyway. She calls me crying all the time, he now abuses her, abuses their children. It's just a mess. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of the enemy. What does that mean? Means friends will tell you the truth even if it hurts your feelings, but your enemy will kiss your butt & tell you lies, & you'll end up in a pit.
Spiritisalive1 yup! And then when you’re down in the gutter that so called “friend” is nowhere to be found.
Been in that gutter myself now trying to come out that experience has change me,I became an emotional wreck,crying behind a man who probably never truly like me at all
Quotes from the Bible are always the best
MS LRJ it’s from the Bible
Spiritisalive1, love your direct response! Powerful statement!
There are too many people who get into relationships that ends up damaging them. I think we all need about 1-3 friends that can straight up tell us the truth when we ask for it. Then we can decide whether to take their advice or not
Yes! If EVERYONE hates your boyfriend it can't just be jealousy. Something is going on there.
@@mishylove Three years later and I agree with you. If all of my friends see smoke then there’s fire.
You also have to take into consideration that these friends most likely did say something, however that person turns a deaf ear so after a while no one says anything because the person in question refuses to listen so they (the friends) have to take a step back and let that situation play itself out. Most of the time that person usually ends up getting hurt then questions why no one said anything.
I’ve been really loving these panel discussions he’s been doing.
saquoiag me too
saquoiag Me too
If your gonna tell your friend something like that it has to be for concrete reasons. Not I just dont like him.
lilian makori exactly
I agree. Only after studying the guy or girl for a good while. Is he/she cheating, doing drugs, treating each other bad, making nasty remarks about her all the time, etc. then as a good honest sincere friend I would tell them once and only once especially if asked, and especially before they marry have kids and end up in a nasty divorce and those kids suffering. No! No!
Boom it's not your friends place to like someone.
Miss Keri babe...
This is a no... if your home girl is in a toxic relationship you need to try to help her do better #period if you can’t come and talk to your friend about things like that then are y’all really friends 💀
Keri is so well spoken wow
Depends on the Friend. Some women will cut you off as a friend if you have bad information to share. Most women know if the man is doing wrong anyway they choose to stay.
Truth
Yup
Ms Keri Baby😍
Keri is the most impartial person.No bias no feminism no racism 🙌that's a great woman
Kerri is absolutely correct!
damn Keri is gorgeous
Don't EVER tell her!!!! You MUST show her! Let her see it for herself. Then she has to decide for herself. Just be there to catch her if she falls.
Bad relationships don't teach us what we want & don't want in relationships, ...we already know what we want & don't want in relationships. We just end up tolerated a bunch of BS to try and make it work
Righhhtt
Vic Marshall and she's some sort of doctor lol smh
Vic Marshall facts
Vic Marshall no they DO teach us because they put us in situations we never thought of
@@ThePlumbobiana Facts i used to be idealistic and think "yea i will just acept her however she is" but when you are in a real relationship you realize just how much you cant and shouldnt deal with.
If ur friend comes to u with her problems with her man yes u have a right to say ur opinion
Yes, but I try to stay out of their relationship woe
Love this segment , keep them coming producers !
I cannot stop staring at Keri Hilson 😍😍😍😍
Steve is doing research for his next book with all these panel discussions....
Zenia Watts think like a man 3 lol
@@MakebyJen 😂😂
Timing is everything. If you think your friend is in danger you are obligated to say something.
Depends on the friend. Some people you already know will not accept the information from you, even if it's your best friend. It's not always about who you are as a person. Sometimes we have friends we love and accept for who they are and sometimes they are not ready to accept or they like to be in denial. We know eventually they will find out. I have some friends I know I can tell and some that I wouldn't tell.
No matter what, a friend should have an opinion on friend's bf's. If it's coming from a loving & sincere place, does it really matter if she stops being your friend and chooses the partner? It's part of our roles as friends to have opinions on partners. However, let it be short and straight to the point in a loving & sincere fashion. Not saying anything is more dangerous.
If it was sincere, no matter the separation, you'll always win. Love wins in the end. but not saying anything is wicked. It's not love. It's like seeing someone going into a fire and not saying anything. Say something, at least if they dont listen and get burned, not like u didnt say anything at all. It's love. Don't worry about loosing a friendship. May loose them anyway
Would I tell my good friend? Not until I find out what's going on. I'd send a drink or make myself visible somehow. Then send a quick text to my girl like, "Hey girl, what are you & "Steve" doing tonight? Wanna grab some drinks?" If she's like "can't tonight because "Steve" is meeting a business partner or whatever" then I'm like, okay--raincheck. But if she's like, "Steve" is stuck at the office or out of town, I'm acting a plum fool--a classy plum fool, LOL!
kgoldmon this is a smart approach .
kgoldmon you too nosy lol. Send yo drinks I'm drink them and still NOT acknowledge your there. Lol jus kidding I would drink ur drinks an say thanks rofl
Everything lookin BOMB on Keri. Get it girl!!
If I can't tell my friend that a man isn't good enough for her then that's not my friend.
IM SNITCHING! Thats MY FRIEND.
P E R I O D ! ! !
End of discussion!
Right and beside if it was a business lunch, dinner, breakfast, whatever, then when I call her it wouldnt or shouldnt be a problem, cuz she would already know.
Keri Hilson IS A GOOD FRIEND ! Lmfaoo
I wouldn't want the Dr. as a friend. Thanks Keri #truefriend
"That's rare" lol Steve did not expect that response
Keri is so gorgeous I totally forgot how pretty she is
Unless he is HURTING her...mind your own freaking business. It's not your boyfriend...
I love Keri. Such a well put together human being. I would want a friend like Keri. I don't want someone who only cares about having me around but would allow me to make a mistakes that I can't see.
I understand some women are too damn thirsty and will flip on you at the drop of a hat for trying to protect them. I can't be friends with that anyway. Those are the type of women who need to be alone with their mess. They need to see for themselves so they can fix it themselves unless there are children who didn't sign up for it envolved.
How many decades has to go by where women will repeat the same mistakes of the past? If he hits you one time he will do it again. Next time he thinks it's okay. IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOUR CHILDREN (it is not your children's fault), YOU MOTHER, YOUR FAMILY, he doesn't love you or respect you and he'll be damn if he makes you his only one. Stop worshiping these men as if They're GOD.
I'm not telling anyone about their relationship because she should kno more than me she living it so why tell her what she already kno ......and what u don't kno won't hurt and I ain't hurting no one feeling so I see nothing
Just because she’s living it doesn’t mean she can see clearly.
I agree with Dr Tiffani. Telling your friend about their cheating partner creates more harm than good. Let people live their experiences and learn from it.
I agree with the Dr.
usually their mind is made up & they stay🙄 but If they come to you w/their problems just listen
Exactly
If a friend is your friend it is their responsibility to look out for you no matter what the situation is
Every human on earth been through bad relationship
Miss wendy Williams said do not get involve in your friend's boyfriend problems .. because their is chance you will lose her.
🗣🗣🗣 Then y’all not friends! If a friend can’t disagree with what you’re saying and carries you differently as a friend after you gave an opinion, y’all not real friends. You shouldn’t have to tiptoe around a friend if you have each other’s best interest in mind.
I think that there is a level of confusion that needs to be cleared in order for things to be back on track. Like in the example Steve just explained with "would you tell your friend, that her husband is out eating dinner with another women" and this women is a part of a business meeting, The married women should have already been notified about it from her husband ahead of time. And if not and they aren't getting physical or showing signs of emotional connection then the friend should watch to keep an eye out for her best friend.
I'm telling, I always have! 🙄
Yes and I would want my friend to tell me if the shoe was on the other foot.
Keri Hilson, my kinda friend.....!!!!!
Girls need to stop being nosey. Live your life and let others live theirs. God will work things out. iIf they are not right for each other, God will move things around to help them make a change.
I use too, but I have stopped. I only pray...
My friends and I tell things straight forward it is easy to face the hard truth than an easy illusion
Here's what I've realized about their relationship. You can tell people what you feel you see they will do whatever they want. Its wasting your breath.
guess those 3 friends that wouldn't tell just lost a lot of friends since they're on national TV
Imma guy and I tell my friends when she crazy AF
Keri... She looks unreal. She's just too beautiful..
I watch majority of these videos just for Keri Hilson
I try not to say anything as long as they don't kill each other
When your first marriage fails, you should be more open to your loved ones' opinions. The more marriages you fail, the more open you should be because at some point, your judgment might not be the best. Now, if the reason your marriages failed is because you let too much outside noise enter the relationship, then you should do the opposite and stop discussing your relationships.
I agree w Keri! If I see that my friend not getting treated right by her dude, I will just casually be asking questions to lead her into the topic and try to let her figure it out. And if she doesn't... I will just straight up tell her my opinion lol. But I'll phrase it like "Idk I feel like you have become more insecure bc of this dude than before". Like make it about how the relationship is affecting HER not about him.
Also I would tell my friend if I saw her bf with another woman. I'd obviously observe a little and try to read the situation. But if it looks flirty, I'd definitely casually drop it in the convo like "Oh yeah I saw Steve last night! He was at Mobu with some blonde woman?".
I watch tjis program just for Miss Keri Baby ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Keri Hilson bring your ass back to music the world missed you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
What if he is hurting her all the time non stop and cheating all the time and breaking her heart all the time !!+
That's none of my business, I'm not sleeping with him, or got to like him. Now if I had concern where he is abusive, drug addict, etc then I will pull her to the side and voice my opinion. But still it's none of my business.
I’m tellin, I’m tellin, I’m tellin.
Keri hilson💎💎💎
KERI 😍😍😍
Keri is 🔥🔥🔥
Y'all friends are delicate!
If i don't like the guy am gonna say it straight up
Might even tell him too..depending on how much i don't like him
But am not the person that gonna try get in the middle of a relationship
voicing your opinion isn't the samething as breaking up someone's relationship
And i shouldn't have to fear that our friendship would break apart if i tell her y i don't like her boyfriend
Am not an actor so y ama act like i like him... and i wouldn't want her to b acting like she like my bf either
"Don't let me dictate who you should or shouldn't hang out with, because that's your business. But I believe you need to take your time and think about what you're getting yourself into."
There was a court episode where the man was out with his cousin. And the friend told his girlfriend and she cut his dreads off while he slept.
If it’s a ‘business dinner’
I’d still send over a drink and see his reaction to seeing me and go from there. If it’s just BUSINESS he will have nothing to worry about.
Keri is so me!
I don't say anything I only give hints
Totally agree with Keri
For me appearance wins the eye but personality captures the heart.
Keri hilson sooo baddd😍😍😍
Lmaooo I need a friend like Keri !!!
I love that the celebrities are giving advice!!!!! This is awesome because you get to see that it doesn't matter how big of a star you are or your profession you still can go through relationship trials and tribulations too. Love Keri Hilson's advice!!!! She looks beautiful. Steve is choosing amazing strong women for the panel which is great 👍🏽 job because it shows everyone experiences dating ups and down or relationships stories too.
Kerri is sooooooo pwettyy
Depends on the friend. Even then I'm not judging. As far as seeing the man out with another woman, I'm with Dr. Tiffany. You never know, but I'll keep an eye out for my friend. There's a fine line between being a good friend and being messy.
Real friends serve the hardcore truth to each other so they get the point and they don't need to search through hints of niceness with questions and all that BS call it like it is let your friend know what you see that they don't.
Heck yeah I'm gona tell my friend you cheating!!! I'm not hiding a cheaters secret 😷
I think it depends on the type of friend you have i have a cousin and she ALWAYS looking for love in the wrong guys even after she asked you for advice about them and then you tell her he's the wrong one she dates them anyways and me and my other cousins ashtrays bringing her proof cards she asks for it then she ends up out of no where stops talking to us cause she feels we too shady then when she realizes they not the one she wants to start back talking to us as nothing happened
Like they say here, maybe you should try and help her realize by herself that the guy is bad for her, not just tell her straight up...ask her questions, like does he have the most important things she wants in a man, how is he different/better from the last guy, how does he treat her & how does that make her feel? etc...get her really thinking about it & discovering for herself that he doesn't make her feel good vs just telling her stuff that she might not see in her infatuation haze...if it comes from herself it's easier to acknowledge & harder to ignore.
Voicu Violeta we don't give her that information cause we know our cousin but she's the one that asks us to find out about the guy get all the tea from the person she's the kind of person that likes to asks for advice just to be asking and then if it ain't what she wants to hear she gets mad
look at the oj situation... fr tell me if u don't like my man
Tiffany (the other black lady) can't let no one talk. OMG. Keri was talking 1st at one point and she just cut her off & looked at Keri like Keri in the wrong. Bissssshhhh. Bye.
Brit Robinson 3:47 I saw that too! Smh!
No no no....I don't tell my friends, "What do you think about my guy?" Girlfriends leave too......believe me!!! Affairs of the heart are mine and mine alone.......period!
The question should be 'How many women truly want to know if their partner isn't right for them'
Depending on the Type of person she is and the man is. how well do you know the anger in a person someone can end up dead or in jail. that's not easy, I would not want my big mouth to be part of a very bad outcome. anger and pain.....
I trust my friends to have correct discernment about the man I’m dating! Those friends that don’t say anything but when we break up have the loudest opinion- to the left! But anyway I peep red flags during the talking stages because I don’t have time to waste
ADVICE NEEDED...I recently just told my cousin I don't like her bf 🙄 (she then said he's her fiancee now 😱). They come as a couple to a bar we all frequent & it's fine when she's THERE but baby listen...when she's not there he does the absolute most! & I feel disrespected FOR her! Smh Like dude has no respect for their relationship. She's has/had a health issue & he had a baby while with her, & they don't have children together. Someone tell me what should I do/say, if anything?! It's like if I know she's aware of him & she's cool with it...I can turn a blind eye but if she's not & he's selling her dream & I say nothing & she gets hurt AGAIN...I'll feel like I betrayed her in some way. I'd personally want to know. I want to be able to trust my man when I'm not around. This just makes me sad.
Keri Hilson❤️😍
I have a friend that is 19 and in college. She dating a 26 year old who just quit his job as server, lives with his mom, no car and never has any money. He has one bill to pay and it’s his phone and he lets that get turned off. Smh he is no good. He tells her to quit school and he will take care of her. How???
I have my own policy: tell them once what I think, specifically say I'm not going to bug them about it but I want to at least tell them my concerns once. And I don't bring it up again.
I have a friend. Before his marriage, I knew the girl wasn’t right when talking to her. But didn’t say anything to my friend. Now they’re divorcing
Wth I would expect my friend to tell me and I would tell her. I am honest with my friend but at the end of the day I respect that it's her life and her choice. I am going to express my honest opinion though
If you love someone you try to protect them no matter how bad it makes you look. Just think of your children, you wouldn't withhold your concern for fear of looking bad, you would attempt to protect them out of sincere love. It's easy to stay out of someone's business and just keep things simple if you don't actually care about the person ..,
There's a episode of one of those Court shows where a woman accused a man of cheating he said he wasn't cheating she cut off his dreads then it was found out that the woman that her friend claim to seen him cheating with was actually his cousin from out of town. You have to know all the facts before coming to somebody with something like that
09876vickii yea I saw that. It's on RUclips
I'll tell my friend. Yes. All my friends know that.
If I don't have any concrete proof, no.I lost my lifelong best friend because of this very issue. His girlfriend is not a good person, at all. She cheats,she's always falling out of clubs, a thirst trap queen, gold digger, lies,steals,abusive, negligent, just plain horrid.I tried to say something to my now ex best friend. It failed. She was flat out rude and disrespectful to me.I tried to get along, to no avail. He,my friend, would not step in, so friendship over. It's very tricky.
Someone I know jumped into a rebound relationship where at one point his personal safety became an issue. I didn't say anything or voice my feelings because an argument would ensue and he would see my saying this to him as me being jealous (even though I'm not). One of his good friends gave him advice on what to do in this situation which he took with no hesitation. Bottom line...people are going to listen to whomever they want because they're saying what that person wants to hear and using it as validation to (try to) make a bad situation look good to the rest of the world, even though they know in their hearts and minds it's not. When you speak the truth, you become the enemy even though you honestly and truly have their best interests at heart.
From personal experience I don't say anything about people's relationships.. Even if they ask because people know who they're dealing with.
Dont go up to the table!...if he knows you saw him, he is going to prepare an excuse, set up others to lie etc. Take the pic video etc and present it to her. Remember this could actually be his relative business contact etc, so dont be going over there and dont be reading stuff into it, just tell her the date, time, and show the video & pics. Now if you can get in the bathroom and manage to pick her mouth even better...I'd record that too if possible. Then my friend can make up her mind with as much info as possible.
Don’t just tell your friend outta no where phrasing it like he’s doing something wrong. Just be like “Hey I saw x with out today with a girl I don’t know just wanted to let you know” that’s it don’t plant any doubt in her mind that. You can’t be too involved in someone else’s relationship
I’ve always been the type of woman who ask questions so she can discern for herself. A woman should always tell the next woman to “stay alert, pay attention and close your legs..”
Never tell a woman ANYTHING about her man. She'll only despise YOU.
YES. If they ignore you, stay there when the trouble comes. Rub it in they're face a year later when you're ragging on each other over ice cream like friends do